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Tuesday, 15 September 2015

Mum shares photo of her dead husband in a coffin to warn of drug dangers

Mother of two Eva Holland has been praised and criticized for doing something most women won't do - she stood smiling with her two children next to the open coffin of her dead husband. Responding to criticism, Eva said she hopes the shocking image will warn others of the dangers of drug addiction. The woman said her husband died of heroin overdose at just 26 years old.


"I'm sure this photo makes a lot of people uncomfortable it may even p*** a few people off but the main reason I took it was to show the reality of addiction. If you don't choose recovery every single day this will be your only way out."
Her husband Mike Settles, who was just 26 years old, died on September 2 after a recent relapse in Cincinnati, Ohio after just completing rehab.
"This was preventable it didn't have to happen but one wrong choice destroyed his family. I know a lot of people may be upset. I'm putting it out in the open. Hiding the facts is only going to keep this epidemic going. The cold hard truth is heroin kills. You may think it will never happen to you but guess what that's what Mike thought too."
"We were together 11 years. I was there before it all started. I knew what he wanted out of this life, all his hopes and dreams. He never would've imagined his life would turn out this way. He was once so happy and full of life. He was a great son, brother, friend but most importantly, he was a great dad. He loved those kids more than anything.
"But as we all know sometimes life gets tough and we make some wrong choices. His addiction started off with pain pills then inevitably heroin. He loved us all so much he decided enough was enough and went to rehab at the end of last year."

Eva later added on Facebook:
"I had a talk with Mike's parents today about my post. They said it doesn't bother them they just want me to clarify that although we know he struggled with addiction that they have not gotten a coroner's report back yet with the official cause of death."

51 comments:

Unknown said...

Sad! May his soul rest in peace....

Alloy Chikezie said...

Quite bizzare.

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Bonita Bislam said...

Hmm a strong message in the weirdest way ever.I've hot mixed feelings about it.The smiles on their faces close to the coffin sends a wrong signal.But it also depicts courage

Unknown said...

Eeeeeeeeeyah, what a waste. Linda take note!

Pro said...

Hm odiegwu she love the man atall? Well point taken.

That vuvuzela P guy

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Orishirishi

Unknown said...

Smh.... All these oyinbos ehn. Jx when u think nothing else could surprise u anymore, then they come up with something crazier

Unknown said...

Smh.... All these oyinbos ehn. Jx when u think nothing else could surprise u anymore, then they come up with something crazier

Unknown said...

Oh! Ok.

Kinkybabe said...

Good one,may he R.I.P

Unknown said...

I don't see anything wrong in what she did, but she wouldn't have smiled.

Unknown said...

Hmmmm!

Anonymous said...

She did no wrong. Let them say whatever they like. A lot of young people's lives might be saved by this. So sorry for ur loss swtht.

Unknown said...

I salute her courage. What she did is very rare.











#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

I salute her courage. What she did is very rare.











#TeamBlessed#

Juleslouis said...

Aww! I see a sigh of relief on the woman's face.

Unknown said...

The truth is bitter and food for thought.

Anonymous said...

Her hope could help anyway. Smokers & drug users: you're very liable to die young. Beware & treat your addiction.



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Unknown said...

May God bless you my sister for this fabulous warning only if ibo and yoruba people we hear.
Devil has succeeded in blinding people from seeing the truth that drug dealing is dangerous an is widely ban.


















#sad indeed

Unknown said...

May God bless you my sister for this fabulous warning only if ibo and yoruba people we hear.
Devil has succeeded in blinding people from seeing the truth that drug dealing is dangerous an is widely ban.


















#sad indeed

Unknown said...

Now thats not a good sight... Nawa

Unknown said...

My opinion, the warning is good. Serves as an example to other addicts, my only problem with the picture is that she was smiling. Nobody deserve to smiled on at death, no matter the cause of death. May his soul find rest, it's not everyone that have the strength to deal with all the shit life throws at us. Engr_fresh

Unknown said...

Oh!

She d well...
Pls desist frm d use of hard drugs.
For those who hav ears let them hear.

Unknown said...


She d well...
Pls desist frm d use of hard drugs.
For those who hav ears let them hear.

Darrel tom said...

Eyaaa
Shey try
Take heart dear
The man even look like he is sleeping sef
Na so American corpse fine?
If na Yoruba man be that, u no go even eat for a week



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Darrel tom said...

Eyaaa
Shey try
Take heart dear
The man even look like he is sleeping sef
Na so American corpse fine?
If na Yoruba man be that, u no go even eat for a week



Where is oke okoye #


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Darrel tom said...

Eyaaa
Shey try
Take heart dear
The man even look like he is sleeping sef
Na so American corpse fine?
If na Yoruba man be that, u no go even eat for a week



Where is oke okoye #


Linda's last son

Unknown said...

Think am gon stop these things too sef

SMURF said...

He looks 45years!!! Anyways RIP

Unknown said...

How i wish ma boo wil see this

ary said...

Brave

7F098C19 said...

Good one there. Am addicted to love. Does that kill to. Engr Emy

dikkk said...

I hope this serves as a lesson tho?
Humanity I know ? They never wanna learn from the experience of others !!
God help us all

bummyla said...

what a pity! http://www.bummyla.com

Anonymous said...

And she was happy about that. Or why was she smiling (with her children) beside the coffin?

Anonymous said...

She did not need to be happy about it.

Unknown said...

How sad, together since he was 15.

Unknown said...

Hmmm

Nonso said...

Lesson for all

Anonymous said...

You were there when it started could you have been the very reason it started in the first place. We know what some wife can put their husband through.

anonymous said...

People are just sick. Even if you want to send this kind of message this way, why put the children on the forefront. It is CRAZY

Anonymous said...

Brave woman and she's making sure her husband's death was not in vain. Trying to help others is not a bad thing.

Gold's place said...

Such beautiful family

switch Express said...

Silly White B*t*h. You probably drove the young lad to his death with your constant bickering and issues. Dude tot to find happiness else where and now he's gone. Nd u stand in front of his corpse smiling like - look mama, look what I did...lol. evil white women.

Anonymous said...

@swithexpress you are the dumbest nigga i have ever met ,i'm pretty sure you don't have a life. imbecile.you are just one broken mother f**ker ,i really don't care what led you to put up that comment or what you went through ,you are just a pathetic young idiot

Anonymous said...

drug addiction is bad no doubt but must dey look so happy?

Anonymous said...

@swithexpress you are the dumbest nigga i have ever met ,i'm pretty sure you don't have a life. imbecile.you are just one broken mother f**ker ,i really don't care what led you to put up that comment or what you went through ,you are just a pathetic young idiot

Anonymous said...

No be only love na rove. Wen she dey beg d man to stop nobody dey der o cos na d 1 wen woman do na im dey smell. Abeg I commend her boldness

Unknown said...

Hmmmm.....''he started with pain killers'', all these tramadol guys take note!!

TAMARA SPLASH said...

Oyibo get wahala

Unknown said...

Until you walk in her shoes you will never know. Criticisms are easy.

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