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Tuesday, 15 September 2015

Gabrielle Union talks pressure to get pregnant at 42

The 42 year old who has been married twice but has no children opened up about the pressures of getting pregnant in the new issue of Redbook magazine. On IVF and the pressures of trying for a family later in life, Gabrielle said
"So far, it has not happened for us. A lot of my friends deal with this. There's a certain amount of shame that is placed on women who have perhaps chosen a career over starting a family younger. The penance for being a career woman is barrenness. You feel like you're wearing a scarlet letter."
On the weird thing about being married to a younger man... 
"I realized his friends, his teammates, were conceived when I was, like, a senior in high school. I was in high school at the same time as their parents! Sometimes he'll be like, 'Oh, my God, he's so old!' about someone who's 35. But, Dwyane's an old 33, and I'm a young 42, so it balances out."
On how hard it is for working women with children... 
"The reality is that women are discriminated against in the workplace for being mothers. As much as there are strides being made – you get pregnant, your career takes a hit. You can't have a bad day. Don't you dare cry at work. Don't raise your voice. Especially if you're a black woman in corporate America—now you're 'the angry black woman.'"

42 comments:

Unknown said...

Ok

ary said...

Awww

Bierbieklaus said...

She don enter MENOPAUSE na,,no need to bother abt pregnancy.....just go and adopt....some women should to trade the career part and totally forgot they need to reproduce....which is d most important mission of a woman on earth whether you marry or not.





















#LIBGIRLCHILD

Unknown said...

Wow!

I wish her all d best...
Its well wit her soul and God bless her.

Bonita Bislam said...

For now,this world is still a man's world,no matter how hard we women struggle hard to not be relegated to the shadows.And its downright unfair

Unknown said...

Speechless!

Unknown said...

if she likes .... let her make it 50 or more

Bierbieklaus said...

She don enter MENOPAUSE na,,no need to bother abt pregnancy.....just go and adopt....some women should to trade the career part and totally forgot they need to reproduce....which is d most important mission of a woman on earth whether you marry or not.





















#LIBGIRLCHILD

Bishop Dammy said...

Real pressure.

oyce said...

Love you gabby.....u dnt luk 42 atall....
U look younger Dan Kylie sef

Anonymous said...

May God give you your own children Amen! Linda you don hear? Go and marry!

Angie said...

Aww.. Hang in there nne, God will do it in his time. Just relax and live, love and laugh.

Anonymous said...

Gabrielle try this, fi Oko oloko sile. Since its too late now, you can sort yourself out by letting his children into your heart as your own. Free your mind and love regardless. That way God will remember you. I'm yet to see a woman that suffered like Dwayne's ex-wife that don't put a curse on the present wife even after they've moved on with their life, they can't resist wishing him bad. It's not right, but that's always the case. Show her love so you can get love in return. For the Libreaders that want to attack, pls wish what happened to dwayne's wife on your sister or yourself b4 you comment.

Unknown said...

Wish her all d best

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

And she's so pretty ehn

Bierbieklaus said...

Is it only me or does LINDA iIKEJI looks lik a younger version of GABRIELLA UNION....btw linda do quick marry ooo.....kids are the crown of a woman....

Na just my 1kobo to you.


























Unknown said...

Powerful woman.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Aunty linda, all this are hint o......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm, I can understand where she's coming from. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm, I can understand where she's coming from. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Eya! It's well dear

Unknown said...

She is stunning for a 42 year old. Wow....it will happen for her in due time. Just be patient.










#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

She is stunning for a 42 year old. Wow....it will happen for her in due time. Just be patient.










#TeamBlessed#

BONARIO NNAGS said...

K

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

AC£S said...

Pills

aproko manager said...

Eyahhhh

Anonymous said...

Always beautiful...

Anonymous said...

Always beautiful.

Anonymous said...

Always beautiful.

Unknown said...

Pray you have your own child.

I B M bolubantin said...

she's such a beautiful woman

JOYCHY said...

GOD GO DO AM FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unknown said...

4 her pocket, who she help?

Anonymous said...

Gabrielle I love you nonetheless.

Unknown said...

Sorry oo

Northern Princess 7 said...

their problem

Unknown said...

IT IS WELL!

Unknown said...

hmmmmm! #IT IS WELL!

hrm paul ojeih said...

Nancy wetein be ur own sef alakoba alariwo if husband no com linda go kill her self or stand for road dey shout I need a husband woman take a chill pill and let her b oloshi

Anonymous said...

BIKO,ABEG LINDA FIND MAN GET A CHILD DIDN,T SAY MARRY EJOR

Unknown said...

Is well.

Unknown said...

She really looks younger than her age....

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