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Thursday 28 May 2015

Wizkid's babymama talks getting pregnant so young, the shame she felt and overcoming it

Sola Ogudugu and Wizkid welcomed a son in 2011 when Sola was just 19 years old. Speaking about her experience for the first time yesterday in celebration of children's Day, Sola, now 24, said she had only just started having sex when she found out she was pregnant, implying Wizkid disvirgined her. She said she didn't even know she was pregnant until she was about five months gone...
"I remember the day I found out I was preggers! After 5monthsss… Damn! I Swear I died and rose again! Lol.. Can’t believe I’m laughing now. I cried for the remaining 4months… I just kept saying to myself everyday ‘God why me’ Ahhhhhh mahn… ThoseWereTryingTimesYo!It was like film trick…” she tweeted
She also talked about the shame and frustration she went through and how she overcame it. Very inspiring! See that after the cut...


"To think I just started having sex at the time… I was just frustrated… Like who sent me it’s funny now.. wasn’t funny then oo. Imagine seeing your monthly period unknown to you that there’s a baby growing in you! MAHNNNNNN!!!! God is great!!”
She said she was in her final year at the university when she discovered she was pregnant
“That was the greatest challenge ever! Was in my finals.. I still struggled and finished Uni with Good grades.. And guess what? My son is 4! I’m still overwhelmed but I Thank God for how far he’s brought me and how much my Lil man has grown.. I’m Thankful”


She also talked about the struggles of being a single mum
“Forget all the fleeked out make up and good cloths… Being a Mum is one hell of a job talk more being a single mum at 19!”
And how life is for her now...
“When Jesus Says Yes Nobody Can Say No…. That was how God wanted things to go in my life oooo…Boluwatife!”

125 comments:

Unknown said...

Good for her

Dave Mide said...

Lol ...funny gal! she died and rose but when wizkid dey go in fresh and raw and was pouring all the thickness in him into the veejay ..u be like " ouch. oh yea , uhmm, (even called God)Jesus ....lmfao!

@arkiss said...

U got preg 4 wizbaby, u shud be happy...hehehe

Etsako Pearl said...

Boluwatife indeed.

Unknown said...

Lol @God why me...was God there when he
sweet talked you into opening ur legs? Funny.

Unknown said...

Good for her

Blog It With Olivia said...

Its very normal....for sm1 to feel that way... Talk of gossip from ur peers, rejection if ur parents aint literate or very strict αи∂ †ђξ list goes on.
Thank God u nw have a reason to smile....
Αи∂ she's so pretty






#ItWillONLYgetBETTER
#ITmustENDinPRAISE

Unknown said...

Thank God she has moved on.

Unknown said...

Thank God for you but u are smiling now becos the father of ur son happens to be in moni and a super star. Anyway love that ur statement ( When Jesus Says Yes Nobody Can Say No…. That was how God wanted things to go in my life oooo…)

Anonymous said...

She still sounds like a child herself. Definitely not easy. We all have our crosses to bear so I'm not even going to judge. May God give you even more strength to raise your son to be an influence to his generation. Bless. x

Anonymous said...

Wizkids gene weak asf...That boy don't look nothing like him!

Blog It With Olivia said...

Its very normal....for sm1 to feel that way... Talk of gossip from ur peers, rejection if ur parents aint literate or very strict αи∂ †ђξ list goes on.
Thank God u nw have a reason to smile....
Αи∂ she's so pretty






#ItWillONLYgetBETTER
#ITmustENDinPRAISE

Anonymous said...

Thank God for your life and that of the Lil man.

nekkyville said...

Thank God for u dear...she's pretty oh..wizboy shud wife her naaa

pearls said...

Flat nose...

Anonymous said...

Thank God for your life and that of the Lil man.

Anonymous said...

stale news..already read it on nairaland.com since last week. lol

Kunta said...

She dey crase....dem force am open leg?...mtcheeew

Unknown said...

That's hw it feels after, d joy of motherhood..d boy is all grown and handsome

Unknown said...

That's hw it feels after, d joy of motherhood..d boy is all grown and handsome

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Wizkid disvagined yu?? Hw.... and the rate this babe dey call God dey surprise me like say God support fornication i swear.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

wooooow, this is wizkid, weldone girl.

KWEEN said...

Hmmm.... she's 24? she looks 30 to be honest *walks away*

Unknown said...

wooooow, this is wizkid, weldone girl.

Unknown said...

Wow! God bless her abundantly, and I wish her well.

Unknown said...

And now he has left you for some other girl abi
If dem dey tell una to cool down waiting dey for front plenty pass una no dey hear...

Unknown said...

And now he has left you for some other girl abi
If dem dey tell una to cool down waiting dey for front plenty pass una no dey hear...

Anonymous said...

Lol. Had a friend who got pregnant the very first time she had s*x, it was HELL for her.
Not every single young mother is spoilt or wayward, some are actually good inexperienced naïve girls.

Juleslouis said...

Glad she learnt her lessons and counted her blessings.

Unknown said...

And now he has left you for some other girl abi
If dem dey tell una to cool down waiting dey for front plenty pass una no dey hear...

leah said...

Boluwatife indeed he does things his way, that is why he is the almighty.

Unknown said...

She should STFU. All these girls that would be following celebrities around, looking for a way to tie them down with pregnancy but when it backfires, they'll come here to preach. First of all, what happened to condom? Secondly, why didn't she take pills or clean herself up? At 19, u cant be stupid. Every girl at 19 knows that pregnancy follows after unprotected sex so why didn't she try to avoid it? Very soon Kayswitch,ice prince, tuface & Davido's baby mamas will come to narrate their own stupid story & of course linda go post am.

Unknown said...

She's just lucky sha.

STERN said...

Nna ehn, this ya baby mama no fine oo

ary said...

Hmm "preggers" "mehn" no wonder she got pregnant!! Women who write like this I see them as equivalent of the American "blond girl"

Unknown said...

Wizzy shld marry this girl

Unknown said...

The baby luk so much lyk him

Anonymous said...

I'm glad she was able to graduate from college, despite the challenges.
being a single mom ain't easy at all. may God give her the grace to raise that boy into a man, a responsible man who will lift the banner of Christ and bring joy to his family. Amen!





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Unknown said...

Happy 4 u

Davido's driver said...

Wish her well. Strong woman. Lindaobserve

maryann said...

Linda notice ....19 yrs in Final year?...am confuse..

Davido's driver said...

She was naive and overwhelmed at such tender age. Dont want to use the word stupidity because I just received my salary.

Unknown said...

Thank God for your life. You might be Wizkid future wifey just like Annie to Tu baba

SYNDILOVE said...

Eeyaa thank God she didn't abort the child.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

So that was how you became a baby Mama, just like that.
I don't envy you. You're saying to God be the glory as if that's God's plan for you, to be a baby mama not wife.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

mistakes happen but its how u pick yourself up that matters....hopefully u will now know how to tie your legs together

Anonymous said...

So she's 19...lol....dis wan wey for don 27.....walai bomb dey dis girl head!.....and morever nobody force u u open leg freely ni....u too like fuck....yeye girl!

Unknown said...

D last pic dat boy lookks lik wizkid! He is so cute!

Davido's driver said...

Ahahahahahahaha this comment killed me. Don't mind em babes Ooo they be crying condom is painful but forget the end product.
L
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Observe

Davido's driver said...

God bless u for this but why insult tho? Is it your veejay? Lindaobserve

Davido's driver said...

Stop doing flesh to flesh u people wont hear. Kmt

GALORE said...

Thank God she barbed his hair eventually

I am happy you kept the baby


Make @Tania dey deer dey waste her time... Everybody no fit lucky like @Annie idibia.





@Galore

Anonymous said...

If na the Jenner girls,you all plus Linda would be insulting the mother and the girls.now you are thanking God for her.
Hypocrites

Unknown said...

OOboi....dat second pix though....make up sure do change people's looks.....

Anonymous said...

hello bolus mum,
let me set this straight. having this child is not how God planned your life. That God somehow finds a way of making bad good doesn't mean it is right.

Unknown said...

I hate premarital sex with passion. I really do, but I hate when people try to pull down a girl because her pregnancy showed. Soooo many girls didn't let theirs to grow bc of the ridicule and shame they'll face, so I make it a point of duty to encourage the few that said no to murder.

That being said, I believ you've learnt your lessons young lady. Note also that the fact that you're Wizkid's baby mama does not give him right over your privates. He has not paid your bride price, so pleeassseee cross your legs. Don't let anyone put u down and tell you there's nothing special about you anymore. You re wat you say you are

Unknown said...

After everytin Wiz kid left her for another lady. Wht a shame.

Anonymous said...

ADVSE OTHER YOUNG BABES, GUD U WER IN UNI..WAT IF U WER AWAITIN JAMB/JAMBITE..TOMJERRYSWIT

Unknown said...

Ladies avoid doing it b4 marriage least ur portion wil b her's.

D child looks cool, and lovely. Thumbs up to them, and I wish them well.

Anonymous said...

You are like the phrasies in the bible, judgemental idiot!!

Unknown said...

Shurrup dumb fool

Jules said...

Dude, you are crazy. Lol

Your No. 1 DATA Vendor Call/WhatsApp 09028450336 (Get Your Cheap & Affordable DATA on All Networks) said...

Lol,sth abt this girl that a like buh I just can't place it#nohomo

Anonymous said...

This activated my tear ducts

Aka Ikenga said...

In your final year at 19? I'm not saying that that is impossible, but for a girl who is already getting down at 19, it sounds suspicious. Moreover she doesn't look 24 in the picture with her son. She looks 28 or thereabout. Note that she did not claim that Wizkid deflowered her; she was just been careful so that the guy doesn't come after her with a clap-back.

Unknown said...

*rotfl* as in eh

Anonymous said...

Say no to premarital sex.
All thse stupid yung girls fuckn d whole artists n becomin babymama. How market?

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Good 4 u, am happy she didn't get rid of d baby.. Pele..

In GOD I TRUST said...

Godwin noni............#InGODItrust

Anonymous said...

I graduated with first class in accounting at 19(almost 19,cos my 19th birthday was actually after our convocation)

Unknown said...

On a second thought I want to ask dis question. wit no intention of offending my belove Liber's.

Y r d Yoruba's guys so fun of impregnating d ladies b4 marriage or or their ladies having children out of wedlock? Its so common among them compare to other state's.

Unknown said...

On a second thought I want to ask dis question. wit no intention of offending my belove Liber's.

Y r d Yoruba's guys so fun of impregnating d ladies b4 marriage or or their ladies having children out of wedlock? Its so common among them compare to other state's.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful comment @jules louis*thumbs up.


I just love Suppy maggie*smiles

Unknown said...

Gods plan for you is nt to be a baby mama my dear.........YES God saw you tru......HE IS a merciful God.....but dont call it HIS plan
Enjoy urself



Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB......

Unknown said...

Bless ur heart

Unknown said...

Idiot!!! Lmao @ I just received my salary

Unknown said...

Hmmmm.... good comment. but take the sarcasm out sha

Unknown said...

Let the tears flow....

Unknown said...

Hmmmm.... Professional Reader

Unknown said...

Who told her it's how God wanted things to go? She went around fucking cause she saw wizkid. She looks old as fuck. Now she's just another useless baby mama who only gets a call when he wants to ask of his kid.

Unknown said...

Mcheew .. Shoro ni yen ? so when she was doing unprotected sex , she didn't know the concequnces abi ? Iranu !

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Time, indeed, heals all wounds

Unknown said...

Hahahaha! Hahahaha! Hahahaha! Ndi ala full this blog! Tufia

yawanow said...

Life is full of ups and downs. Despite the pain and rejection, she is still bold enough to share her past with us. God knows our future even when we ruin it with our actions, he will still perfect his plans for us whether babymama or not, married, single, divorced .

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahahaha, dis guy is a crazy dude, buh he figured it out correctly sha and at d same time, it myt also be a silent 1 o

Unknown said...

anyone can make a mistake naw.pls dnt crucify er

Unknown said...

Nna eh, her nose no be joke o! Linda take note!

Unknown said...

It pains me to know hw girls loves to be called baby mama to all dis celeb, wat baffles me most is dat, u can call d 1st pregnancy a mistake, buh how abt d second? U gave birth to a child 4 sum1 wu isn't ready for marriage just to bare d name baby mama, seriously we girls work wonders I swear. Lindatakenote.

Anonymous said...

Things we do for love. The Shola that I knew in command will not just fall for this. Na love do you my dear. God bless you for bearing the shame and keeping the baby cos some 4 still fling d pikin comot.

Unknown said...

She's beautiful and the boy is cute as well....

Anonymous said...

What's "boluwatife?"

Anonymous said...

Shut up ya gutter mouth. When she had that baby nobody even knew who wizkid was.

Anonymous said...

Good for you my dear and your son looks cute too!

chichi blossom said...

Yea @ dhat trouble maker crystal, I have seen pple graduate at d age of 19 cos I'm talking out of experience....dere is a saying wen u start early u finish in tym..

DIPIKUGBE said...

It's so sad and disappointing the way you report some things Linda. You deliberately don't like to give credit where credit is due. Where did you get the story from? no mention or link. Wasn't it Ynaija she spoke to?

Careless disregard for intellectual property. You still insist on continuing this bad behaviour.

Nnenna said...

What you said is true,hate d fact that baby mamas are always being judged,most times it ain't their fault.it takes a strng woman to have a baby outside marriage,the humiliation is totally unbearable,cos they pourly ur babies in rubber doest mk you a saint,stop judgin d single mothers its not easy being on,the baby fathers r always quick to move on nd date other people do you know how most times its difficult fr d baby mama to find a man?one thing fr sure is every guy that left his babymama fr fame or money...well karma is a bitch.

Anonymous said...

I really luv dis comment...could nt stop laffing joor....mind u am a gurl

Anonymous said...

U re obviously very sick,didn't u read d post well?she said she was 19 wen got pregnant...mumu

Anonymous said...

Am perturbed dat nobody noticed dat...

Unknown said...

Thank God she didn't consider abortion. Most ladies will. All the best dear.



#TeamBlessed#

herzymart said...
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herzymart said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

herzymart said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

herzymart said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

ZEE said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

Anonymous said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

herzymart said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

Anonymous said...

will y'all haterz jst shut up, it could happen 2 anyone......am not encouraging this tho buh her case is GOD'S WANT..........#BOLUWATIFE @SOLA...I LUV U DARL.......

herzymart said...
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Unknown said...

I dnt blieve it too!!

Anonymous said...

Very mediocre to say the least.

Barbie said...

Anon 11:52, you are clearly not a Christian. So the Bible is judgemental? Wow, you clearly don't like morals.

Francis said...

Nigerian females are nothing but hypocrites. IF na the Jenner family now all una insults for don pour but as una see say na our very own naija babe wizkid baby mama una say Thank God for her life. I just pity alotta Good men out there.

Manuel Kunmi said...

Sicktard @priest a fool at your age is forever one

Manuel Kunmi said...

Cray dude lool

Unknown said...

U really need help dear please email me ibehgifty@gmail.com I wanna help pls! Like u don't have a job or something??? U a male for crying out loud!!

Unknown said...

It's possible sir graduating soon myself and am 19+

Unknown said...

U don't blive it cause u live in nigeria when after ssce u have to wait for 3-4yrs before gaining admission.

Unknown said...

I second u @ nicole, and @ Jane 2011 nobody knew who wizkid was?? Or u personally never knew who wizkid was??

Unknown said...

Courage is all I see. We've all sinned and come short of the glory of God. One thing is to fall and another is to rise courageously. Girl, you're on point, put yourself together and never feel less of yourself. Keep a wide and tight boundary between the father of your son and every other guy.

Unknown said...

Hmmm

Subomi said...

I don't see her much in the media which could mean she is just a regular girl, not using the wizkid fame for self. respect

Anonymous said...

Loool, you died....really..........wat did you think would happen. I can't with all des children having unprotected sex, then wondering how they got pregnant...mtchhewww.

Anonymous said...

nice comment. you spoke my mind. well done.

Unknown said...

Lmao. U r so funny. Buh it's d truth tho

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