Ladies, come in here! Want to know why your kid sister(s) or girls who grew up before your eyes are already engaged or even married while you can't even boost of a serious boyfriend?
Here is the singular reason why; "Being real". Every man has his 'mumu botton'. At the same time, every man has a particular type of girl he's been envisioned to settle down with (It might not be known to him until he finds the mrs right).If I'd wish to settle down with a Loud person for instance, and you are a loud person but pretends to be all quiet and cool, you don't expect to get a ring from me.
Message been, be your true self at all times.
Somebody wants you the way you are.
Someone has been searching for you all his life.
It might be true that a bunch of guys might have used and dumped you but that's surely their lose.
Continue been real...verily I say unto you, you are worth more than billions to one cool gentle man out there. A man who has it all and currently searching for you.
Don't expect to meet your man in one of those scenarios you've read in novels or love stories. Wedding ceremonies, on a plane or all have you. He might come in a very weird unbelievable scenarios you might look down on. That's why you should be on your best behavior at all times.
Cheers! Merry Xmas and a happy new year.
David King
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David King? Is he frm jos? We have an OAP named David King in jos. Nice advice
Good to know and I hope all the SSS {single seriously searching} ladies are reading this
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That's a consolation. Some don't have good character and they want a PERFECT MAN!
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@Mr Endowed via Lumia phone
hmmm nice write-up
meanwhile email me to know how you can enlarge your joystick
Don't expect to meet your man in one of those scenarios you've read in novels or love stories. Wedding ceremonies, on a plane or all have you. He might come in a very weird unbelievable scenarios you might look down on... FOR ALL THOSE GIRLS TURNING ME DOWN ON LIB, Y'all Better Accept me now Or!!
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.Disclaimer:: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..
You nailed bro
Nice piece by king david,God bless you.
Miss indomie says so.
Compliment 2u too...
Nice msg but...
#Royal Priesthood#
Fake girls everywhere.
U can meet ur spouse anywhere
Inspired.
Nice one
Be your best.
I pray they listen
Well written : there's a yoruba adage that says "character is beauty"and remember the scripture also talks about a virtuous woman.but in all let's add God to whatever step we take. It is well. Prov 3:5. Prov 31:10-31
True talk,appreciate
Boring story,next please
You nailed it bros
D best msg thereof I grab is "Continue b real"...
Grt msg 4d ladies...
#Royal Priesthood#
You nailed it bros
Anytime your own comes, take it. Don't COMPARE yourself with ANY OTHER PERSON.
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@Mr Endowed via Lumia phone
Truer words have never been said
I pray they change their ways and find Mr. Right.
hmmm...Its not brain power...But let God direct your path.
I love this so much... like he is talking to me.
Ok ooo
But some girls re very real,but husband no gree come o,so wetin those ones go do.
David King...Nice one frm our fellow esteemed LIB Reader...
#Royal Priesthood#
Well. I think Dude's kinda right.
This is a load of crap!!
Every Tom, Dick & Harry is a wannabe relationship counsellor.
If a woman or man is being abrasive, negative or whatever. That woman or man needs to deal with his or her issues/hangups/demons.
Look for help, fix yourself and love yourself - then you will give others a reason to love you.
Telling people to remain with their "craze baggage" and someone will come and marry them is a dangerous prescription for disaster in the ensuing relationship.
This is a load of crap!!
Every Tom, Dick & Harry is a wannabe relationship counsellor.
If a woman or man is being abrasive, negative or whatever. That woman or man needs to deal with his or her issues/hangups/demons.
Look for help, fix yourself and love yourself - then you will give others a reason to love you.
Telling people to remain with their "craze baggage" and someone will come and marry them is a dangerous prescription for disaster in the ensuing relationship.
the singulars should take heed of this advise. while the plurals should always advise the singulars.
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So true...ladies really need to b on deir beat behavour..dnt pretend
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True talk
Lib ugegbe
That's cool.
Noted
Well said I concur
Nice
OK O..HEARD! GOOD LUCK TO THEM SINGLE SISTERS...
hmn....nice one. dislike pretenders anyway. Be it relationship or not..................
Cul
DEAR LIB READER, BEING SINGLE HAPPENS, MOST PPL WITH THIS BAD ATTITUDE U MENTIONED ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP,THERE ARE SO MANY LOUD WIVES/GF'S THAT INITIALLY PRETENDED TO BE QUIET, GOOD POINTS THO
#FACT#
True! True!! True!!! I totally agree with you bro
He who have ears should hear the word...and the message is for most women or ladies who are picky when it comes to choosing a life partner #oyo
#Omoh
Finding the right person is just God. Some ladies have tried bn real but yet got their hearts broken. So for that aspect i don't think the book or plan that worked for Miss A will work for Miss B. Everything na God.
Nice write up! True talk....
"but that's surely their lose" proof read next time Mr Advisor
Great advice.
Very straight to de point...... I like it
U right sir.there re a whole lot of fake ladies out there. They forget that it doesn't take anything to be real, being fake takes a whole lot of energy. Please tell them.
Nice one man
Very straight to de point...... I like it
Very Good!
Nice one! I quite agree
Exactly , be true to urself, there's someone for ur type
True talk
Who TF is he again? Linda Nwa Ikeji, biko bia, must you publish any mumu write up? What sense is in this? Nigga can't even spell. Happy New Year in Advance.
Who TF is he again? Linda Nwa Ikeji, biko bia, must you publish any mumu write up? What sense is in this? Nigga can't even spell. Happy New Year in Advance.
True talk ooo jaare ny brother
very encouraging words......
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David King please work on your grammar and pls stop patronizing single girls with nonsense epistiles. Rubbish talk!
Okay. Words of wisdom
Glad som1 is saying this... same thing I keep saying... there is a man for every lady. just be your self... dnt be wat u are not just bcos u wanna make som1 happy. BE YOU!!!
Nice piece
He has spoken well... lol
I hope our sisters pick from this pieces and they should stop comparing themselves with men...Cheers
Nice... I share ur thought too... Times have so changed wen girls are betrothed to marriage... Now, jus be yourself & ur right Man will notice u.... But again, girls need to avoid been rude...
Be real but not too real! Leave some things for him to discover later. Be like an onion, every layer bringing new surprises! If you show him all of you at once, he gets bored.
Nice1,msg tu us.M aalwaiz real
Crap....ds does not work for everyone
@Galore
Simply for women
Tenx David I needed that
Lindy this advice is for 10% of the ladies out there,which you will not find them single,ask me why,ladies believes so much on fake life this days,everything about them is fake..**EMZEALLOUS**
Nice1!
Oro nla. He said it all!!
Enough said ladies...enough said!
Bunch of nonsense! Some people want to achieve a couple things before we get married! N y y y is it always about the women doing this or that! Of cus an ignorant man wrote the article!!!
Well said
#word
yea true talk! som women jus lyk pretending
#*karlishah*
True talk .tnx bro
seen
screw you David King, who told you that every woman's aim in life is to get married?
Nice piece... Be on ur best behaviour at all times... That's wots up!!!
girls getting married to the wrong persons because of societal pressures.
I guess he ιƨ SSS... Lol. Αℓℓ the best ladies and gents
What about the men? Because I know several men looking for good wives as we speak and they just can't seem to find. What advise would you have for them too? Cos this thing tire me sef!
I guess he ιƨ SSS... Lol. Αℓℓ the best ladies and gents
BULLSHIT!!!!! Nigerian men especially this new breed (well most) won't know real even if real slapped them in the face. Why else do you think all the girls in Lagos all look the same (make up biz is booming). Even the ones that naturally hate make up and weave do it and when you ask, they tell you it's the struggle. Later now, you start hearing the men complaining that their wives changed after marriag. Honey, she didn't change, she only reverted to her real self.
Let's face it, a lot of men are clueless. Haven't you met that naija guy who complains about weaves and make up and you turn around and see his girlfriend and you are like "dude, your gf is make up and weave personified".
Everyone is hustling for a better life so we end up in this rat race of pretending to be someone else so we get better. At the end of the day we continue the cycle of sham and miserable unions. Truth is there really is no one-size-fits-all guide. Some men like real, some like fake and some women have perfected the art of faking their lives so well for a while that people around believe it is real.
Also, all this women must struggle to marry BS should die already abeg. It only breeds a generation of lazier men. Just aim for happiness and live a happy life regardless of your marital status. TRUE happiness is difficult to fake and true happiness is relative (it might be a so called fake life for some)
A word is enough for the wise.
nice post there cool..
hope the ladies are reading this.
sometimes the scare us the guys away with their unrealistic needs and wants.
you end up telling your self that,this lady is not my type oh,her taste is high,just be ur self ladies,like the poster said,be in ur best behavior at all time,cos eyes re watching you never know wen you jst pissed off ur mr right.
I met a gurl in a cab,she was all bittered and stuffs saying swear words and all that,i almost concluded that dis lady must be hash or something cos of her out ward behavior,so when I tried to say hello,i thought I was going to gt scolded by her,but she responded very well,we became friends...she said it was cos of mood,she just lost her cell phone,her mood was elated,and all.
all the same what am trying to say is ladies be ur in best behaviours.
compliment of the season.
Thanks David King. It's a food for thought
Back consolation or encouragement you dey give yourself linda...you hope you read it line by line
As much as I would have agreed with your article because the reason you gave is correct (being one self) I totally disagree that's the sole reason single ladies have not gotten married. Your reason given is just one out of million reasons people don't get married on time.There are lots of real ladies who are still not engaged not to talk of getting married.
Not completely true! A lot of guys want fresh blood because they believe younger is fresher. But it's not necessarily true because the world is losing its essence and the kind of things some16yr olds get into immorally, a lot of 28 yr olds can't even boast of. A lot of guys rather jump at "youthfullness" because they believe they are opting for a better quality by choosing someone of a younger age as supposed to someone slightly older. That's why a lot of younger sisters are getting married before their older ones. Although not all these cases are mistakes but a lot of guys find out their err after the get married and realize not all that glitters is gold and wish they had gone for character and maturity instead of looks and age. I'm speaking from experience. Just look at the divorce rate of regular Nigerians today and check out the ages those wives got married...... #wisdomiskey
This person should be arrested for letting out series of grammatical blunders... but this is some sense in what he or she is saying
the guy no get editor bah
Yes, like me, I really need a loud lady that knows when to draw the line in her loudness.
Thank you David King, we don hear....hehehe
But who wants to settle with a loud person tho? Lol Abeg Linda try dey edit these stories...enough typos
@thewriter, completely lies.... what makes u think those single ladies aren't real? It may not just be their time, okay! And stop saying they are not 'real'.
Bullshit!!!
Linda, why are you sharing a letter for you with us???
noted David!
Engee said so...
True talk Linda is real this time around.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Guy yu go enter heaven......
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
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Abeg shut up linda.
Na now dem dey wake up, make Una continuer #in mama peace voice....don't look down on any broda I swear, see his vision and drive.....
True talk
We don hear
I think you should focus on correcting your grammar and let us single women worry about our own selves. Cheers
Hmmmm
We don hear!
Haha!Nice...He spoke well
Article of the year. I just hope dey adhere to it. Cuz dis days gals are too fake. Angela don turn angel. Josephine is nw Jessie. Isalright#
Let me sit down and read comments.
So true,niceone,May God help us
True talk my lady
Dis guy nailed it. On point bro. Pray I find mine pretty soon.
WELCOME TO LIB
well said......#true.....well my cousin met her husband on facebook,,,,,
Thumbs-up.
Tanks for d advice hope u r married ur self.
lolozzzzzzzzzzz
Hope Linda herself pick a word or two here.
I still can't get over the ordain Linda narrated from a flight in 2011 or thereabouts. Hope you remember Linda. I will not forgive you of that till I see your wedding pictures.
Blackberry gives you the best and make you forget the rest.
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David (dave_gino)
»Commenting from my BLACKBERRY 9900«
True talk,but they will never hear.
Dis is crazily true, met my husband wen I went to smoke! A weird way to meet someone right? D funny tin is its not lyk I'm a crazy lady or something, I just happen to hv a crazy side dat I hide which he met first and liked. If I was told to go on a date with him d normal way for d first time, smoking weed would b d last tin I had mention
are u talking to the ones that have already bleached their soulS?
You got it right bro. I totally agree with you 100%.
True tok oh
Nice one,I love that.......#Gmooore'sTaLk
The English language has just been battered.
Be selling mumu dreams, some of u will never ever get married. It hurts but it is true
Maybe but what about the money factor? Girls of nowadays will look at your net worth, them go weigh you well well.
Tanks jare better talk
Hmmmm....kinda true
100% fact
Shut up already Mr Real. I bet you don't have much and from terms like ***-What have you, an old Nigerian English slang- *** it's obvious you aren't even in the dating scene anymore. Don't worry about daughters and so on, worry about your own life. Part of what you said might be right but still, it's no excuse for our daughters to aim low or conform to what you see as *real* Got a problem?
Duke it out with my daughter on her blog Www.Organics11.com
Message to Linda.
Message to Linda.
Tell them o....lol! So true
True talk stay real single ladies God will meet evryone at their point of need
Such appalling English...Lol!!
Such appalling English...Lol!!
True talk
lol,true talk tho...#Chizzy says so..Lib addict
Nice write up
You are mad
And they should dress well I beg, some of their dressing na 'ogadinma'
Awesome advice 😁 tell them girls
Advice on point.Dont mind them ladies o.We,have alot of them in Nigeria and in LIB pretenders.It pays to be YOU!!!
David King...
J Town Repping
Love your talk dear
That's the reason?
Thanks David king....very well scripted
Aww...i like
You're right
Being real, true is the key
#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
so tru!
Thanks.... na true talk
Thank u oo
Ok heard
It should be 'being' real. Please this your english just made me stop reading halfway.
I think they girl is on point
Okay.heard
King David go sit your butt down somewhere. Some ppl were just born to be single, that is their destiny. Jesus was single, Elijah was single, Buddha chose singlehood after marriage, Mother Teresa was single, Elizabeth 1 was single, St. Francis of Assissi was single, Nikola Tesla was single. Are all these ppl's accomplishments and value that they added to life on earth any less because they did not marry? Marriage is not an accomplishment.
well said,and I shall agree with u,Mr David King only 80%,becos its nt abt being real or what but also playing ur game as well as packing too.I say so becos most of the young gals married today may nt be half inch compared to most unmarried ladies bt bcos dey were smart and did d needful,therefore dey got wt dey wntd.Bt d question is"wt is most important,getting married or staying married" .wen we have been able to ans dt,den we can actually say for a lady to stay married she needs to b real.
True talk, being real pays a lot
while points mentioned is true, thats not the only real reason.
Gbammest!!!
Word bro. I hope our unmarried Nollywood female celeb will grab this
Hope Linda herself pick a word or two here.
I still can't get over the ordain Linda narrated from a flight in 2011 or thereabouts. Hope you remember Linda. I will not forgive you of that till I see your wedding pictures.
Blackberry gives you the best and make you forget the rest.
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David (dave_gino)
»Commenting from my BLACKBERRY 9900«
David don too try. Nice grammar
Truth be told.
A beg park well! What fake girls..
Truth be told.
Honestly!!!!!! This should be the real article!
Good talk bro,A word is enough for the wise.
True talk!
Waiting for that groundbreaking message to men to shape up or they're also "doomed" to be single forever. Turnabout is fair play.
Meeting a man for you can happen in the unlikeliest of ways. Open ur mind to possibilities. As the saying goes "what you've been looking for in sokoto may be right there im your shokoto"
Nonso Okoh via SAMSUNG GALAXY SMART PHONE.
"It might be true that a bunch of guys might have used and dumped you but that's surely their lose.
Continue been real...verily I say unto you, you are worth more than billions to one cool gentle man out there. A man who has it all and currently searching for you"
((((((((((((GBAGAUN)))))))))))))
Linda, what will it take for you to give us the ability to up-vote some comment and down-vote some of the crap comments that are on here?
Bros! 10 Gbosa for dia! You be correct pesin.
I tire for all dis wannabe counsellors wey dey open mouth anyhow and the mumu peeps wey dey accept all manner of nonsense wey dem no even use their number 6 analyze am first!
Boda ode,pls comment just once,put all d shit togeda...
What do you have to offer a woman apart from your dick? Be productive to yourself first
You should always be careful about choosing a husband. You can't just marry any Bria that smiles at you
Wise one..
When you tell a lady to be in her best behaviour wat do u mean, what if her best is your worst. Just asking
reevolution101@gmail.com
Best comment ever
When did being single become a problem? Issues of getting married, acquiring college degrees etc are simply societal expectations, people should learn to follow their dreams and be fulfilled in achieving same
Nice word and advice
Finding the right person is just God.
Am not married and am not bothered one bit, besides am a lady, men pursue me left right center both single and married but they are not interested in marriage only sex, food and money. I don't succumb to there advances.
So if the men do not want to marry whose fault is it. None but the society too many young ladies that have no means of livelihood are offering them selves to men for peanuts, I mean prostituting them selves.
Then a good majority of the single men are jobless,the economy is so bad that you have girls/women sleeping around like dogs for as little as 500 Naira and the young men without jobs now prefer to have single working class women having children for them raising them alone by them selves while they disappear hoping to appear later to claim na my pikin.
The state of the economy have wrecked havoc on our society.
Talking about been real,guys should know that this fake life ladies display is prompted by guys..how? you may ask ..most present day guys will go for a well packaged lady at first not considering her source of income and also moved by her pretentious ascent just to mention but a few..so in this prevailing circumstances,many other ladies will tend to emulate this in order to get the guys attention
Most girls, are not ready to settle dawn ooo
I needed dat encouragement cos i had already given up! i knw i kip meeting guys dat brkup cos dey said i am too good for dem n it mks me wanno cry cos m jst being me.
Hmmmmn, we'll said. The last line says it all....Selah!
@sandra No... it is that artist (Dixlow) from jos that sang chere cheremo.
His name is David Eze. But like using King instead. not everyone knows this sha.
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