Actress Christabel Egbenya says Nigerian men are not good lovers and do not respect women. Ladies read what she said below and tell us if you agree with her a little...I don't! :-)
“I
don’t think they are good lovers. Most of them don’t take women very
serious and they don’t respect women. Just few of them have feelings
and respect for their women. Most feel money is everything there is, to
make a lady happy. To me, money is not everything. Real men don’t buy
their women over with money” she actress said in a recent interview
205 comments:
1 – 200 of 205 Newer› Newest»AMEN. Preach on.
That's cos u been fucking the senators. Come and roll with a broke nigga and get good loving :)
shes right.. they arent romantic at allllllllll. i'm gonna marry a white dudee, hopefully.
#pweety.c
Well,I agree with her. Almost every Nigerian man is a gender discrimination bomb waiting to happen#girlpower......Poison ivy
Yo go lono. Shey Mo jo Yemi my lover ni?
Nigerian women are not faithful so why shld we be a lover. Linda plz write and do research on cheating married women. It's alarming
Na so. Plus ur fake gucci watch
Sadly she has a point.
Although i'm a lucky one, my man is awesome...heheeeheeeeee
true.nigerian men are hella boring when it comes to making a lady happy... all they wana do is take and never give back
U go marry poor man. If it's not all abt money go for onyxgodwin abi what's his name
How does this pay my Android expensive subscription. Nigerian Women are perfect lovers. SMH.
Abegii stop this fallacy of generalization
How many have u been with to conclude?
Could recall travelling all the way from Abuja to Lagos to see ma ex for just 20mins.
I vowed never to be that foolish again.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Wel said.. she jus made a point. . Dats hw 80% of nig men tink.. if u love a rich guy he wuld say its cos of his money. . Some guys evn borrow money jus to get a gal
Wow she fine ohh..see boobs..salivating*.....................#KingOfKings
Linda she is saying the truth.
Men these days see women as acquired properties.
When they decide to get married it is because they want regular meals @ home, some one to clean the house, a steady sex mate and they want kids.
No love again. And e even better sef if they spend on d woman.
Nigerian men tueh.
I agree,correct woman she said it all..
Nigerian actresses don't make good gfs/wives, So nigerian men don't take them serious.
Are you a good lover yourself? And do you respect men? Stop looking for a perfect man...try to be a perfect woman first
First of all, she is one beautifull lady that any man in this world will die for(minus me) and i must confess she is saying the truth no doubt.... Pretty mama, u just join my crush list and yu got juicy lips also...
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she made a very gud point.
Depending.....dere are ☑ once out dere,dependin on how u present urself 2 dem...
She didn't name the good lovers. Who are they?
The sad thing is,,, she's right... Men need to learn how to love women...
@Bobo_Edo
Just asking , have u dated the whole Nigerian men
I agree with her,but some nigeria girls dont know the true meaning of love,i have to ask my girl friend this question when i took her out for our first dat ,do you want the want the truth about me or lies.
Well, I think she's right coz she made a point!
Not all men though..... I will score her 70% for what she said. She is pretty.
Okpeke forming sexy...all this runs girls.
She is definitely rite,i support
HEY I HEAR YOU GO UGANDA ABEG BUT ME FIT MANAGE YOU FOR 500$
Okwu d clear ka crystal...
Idiot.......pls leave my bf alone for me....hungry fool......stop with d nudies u send him cos FYI dey r disgusting......hungry twat
Mechionu gi this girl ! Money is totally important! No finance no love
She is 70 per cent right and I am a man
I completely agree with her. A lot of Nigerian men do not respect their wives. They call them derogatory names and still expect their wives to treat them like kings. If you want to be treated like a king, then you have to love your wife just like Jesus Christ loved the church and gave His life for our salvation. Honor your wife, show them love and respect! And the Lord will bless the works of your hands. And your children will love you for it! One of the best gift you can give your kids is to love their mom unconditionally!
Mechionu gi this girl ! Money is totally important! No finance no love
I agree.......
Madam sharraap ur mouth ni. U're were u are today because of 1 man or d other. What else do u want from a Nigerian Man?
You need to meet my man
Shes right, especially the yoruba boys. They are so rude and useless. Though im yoruba but i dont like them.
I thank God my Nigerian man is among the few that respect and value women. He is the most loving, carrying and the most patient being I have come across.
Is she speaking from experience? If so, how many Nigerian men has she bedded? That said, she is right, Nigerian men rank very low on emotional intelligence
I kind of agree with her to an extent. Money is important quite alright, but Ng men we ladies are all about the money and thus treat us like properties
some have no regards for women at all and it's soo annoying
Fool how do u expect dem 2 take u serious when u don use cheap bleaching cream damage ur body with ur flabby saggy breast couple with ur black dirty stretch marks and ur bad mind 2 for odas nt 2 progress..cheap whore..linda abeg no dey interview dis kind girl..
She's 100% correct
And Who Approves Linda
i agree wit her 100%
She is right Nigerian men have a lot of growing up to do
shez so right..
linda wot do u knw u've nt been in a relatnshp 4 like eva... according 2 u! she is so damn ryt
see ur mouth! onu azu.. u go gree date poor man?
By men she actually meant sugar daddies, now read the story again. Make sense?
oooh really? !!!. na bcos u get money that na why u the talk like that... go tell festac girls that one, (Real men don’t buy their women over with money”) and see what they will reply you....when you come back we will talk about it.
I totally disagree wit her. She didn't experience luv 4rm Nigeria guys bcos out of all d guys she has dated re rich guys who have little or no tym 4 der woman rather dan der biz/work.
Mmmmmmmmmm Yeah I kinda go Wif Her...As She Said Most not All#NneMumzzzzzzzzz#
Linda e be like say this one just come back from Yankee?? She never halla
She's correct,but see her red eyes like sum one dat smoked weed.just saying
U really take style fine sha, but what u said about Nigerian men na lie cos we are Good lovers unless u neva find a real man come and apply I dey available biko *laughs*
ENUGU RUNS GIRL SMH WHY WILL MEN LOVE N RESPECT U LOL WEN U DEY GO BAYELSA GO SELL MARKET LOL::::
BETTER COOL DOWN N FIND ONE BOY MARRY MAKA OGE NA AGA AGA
Silly girl passing comment like she would date a broke ass guy.
Gbam! You have said it all.
Real Men don't buy their women over with money. This doesn't apply to nigerian babes specially IBO girls
She just have a myopic view on d subject.....probably from being hurt a lot...sometimes I feel like I hate men but I know that they r plenty good men in Nigeria..#well, I need to believe dat less I bash their heads in wit my stiletto#...she just needs to find herself one..
You don't agree with her??
What's there not to agree?
Na true
So on point,nig men feel in their little heads dat money is the fixer and maker....long hisssss.
I DISAGREE WITH YOU NNE,ALL MEN HAVE NO RESPECT FOR WOMEN WHO DON'T RESPECT THEMSELVES,THEY WILL NOT TAKE YOU SERIOUS BASED ON HOW SERIOUS YOU ARE WITH YOUR LIFE,THEY SLAP YOU WITH MONEY WHEN THEY SEE IS WHAT YOU CARED ABOUT AND WANT AND WILL DUMP YOU AS SOON AS THEY ARE READY TO SETTLE DOWN,I BELIEVE THAT EVERY WOMAN IS ENTITLED TO ONE SOUL MATE FOR HER WHO WILL LOVE AND CHERISH YOU BUT MOST LADIES OVERLOOK THAT SOUL MATE TO FOLLOW MONEY BAG SO HOW DO YOU EXCEPT TO BE LOVED WHEN YOU ARE WITH THE WRONG SOUL MATE ?
Some men is realy like dt.
She's right biko. Some feel it's all about money, hence they Cheat n just shut their wives up with car, money etc...even they wives sef, along as he's bringing money the they don't kia.
Look who is talking.
Fool! How will dey tk u serious when u don use cheap bleaching cream scatter ur body coupled wit ur flabby sagging breast and ur dirty black stretch marks...and ur bad mind towards oda upcoming actresses 2 remain stagnant mke only u dey climb...i know dis enugu based cheap whore wella..nija men abeg no mind dis girl she is a cheap whore and uses jazz on men...now she don desperate 4 love..dis si jst d begining cheap whore!!!
u get money woman wld say u dnt respect her b/c of ur money, u no get woman wld say u respect her cos u no get money to me women re jst confused being.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
i agree to a reasonable extent... i think all men are guilty of this. men need to stop thinking tht all a woman cares about is money. we need love and affection.we need to be respected and cared for as well.
I agree with her. No regards for women, it piss me off
not that i support her a hundred percent.. but men need to understand that money isnt all a woman need from them.. she needs love and affection.. she needs to be respected and pampered.. money is only an accessory..its never the most important thing.
I am a Nigerian woman and I agree!!
Hush bitch. Nigerian men are not good lovers yet, many women weds evryday, omo sexy has been married for years without issues, so do other ladies, if you are being a bitch and cant find a man to tolerate you, blame yourself and stop condemning Nigerian men. By the way what is stopping you from dating foreigners, bleaching fake ass bitch
True talk my sister.May God bless u
Lindodo, Me I agree with her like die! Na c0nfirm truth she yarn.....I h8 9ja men c0z they think l0ve z all b0ut sex nd m0ney.
Lidiway she's entitle to her own opinion.
Attention seeker Dis one follow for actress If I hear
Can you date a poor guy?
Chai linda...u dey Cari stupid news smetyms sha!shuuuoooo!
True sha but Nigerian women are worst lovers
Most of them are runs girls or ladies.
True #word#
Yeah ryt...including ur father and brothers....we all in this circle...even ur boo 2...we r all Nigerians....mtcheew
She is right. Nigerian men are always full of themselves, unintelligent but insecured shits.
She is right. Nigerian men are always full of themselves, unintelligent but insecured shits.
She is right. Nigerian men are always full of themselves, unintelligent but insecured shits.
She is right. Nigerian men are always full of themselves, unintelligent but insecured shits.
I agree. Nah true talk.
Yeah ryt...including ur father and brothers....we all in this circle...even ur boo 2...we r all Nigerians....mtcheew
Av u tried all of dem??
I quite agree wit her a little,may b she has bin dating d wrong ones
U are right dear, they always think dat money is everything...
I tink she shuld go n fuck herself, y shuld money nt b evrytin wen our girls dnt value a broke nigga ?
You can't find what you don't have to give. You Nigerian Actress are Promiscuous, If you ever Date a man who never Regards you as anything, Look for his real Girlfriend and she will Tell You that her Boyfriend is Her King. You actress don't deserve love at all. You know that you can be bought, Used and Dumped so stop making public Noise.
Pls tell dem º°˚˚°Âºo º°˚˚°Âºo dat everytin is nt all about money
Nonsense talk,Onyx is a better lover try him...
bia miss Linda, so you just confessed you have dated a line of Nigerian lovers. Anyways it is true some Nigerian men are like that o
"She actress said" lol Linda u go kill person.
#DatSoftWarriBoi#
Abah, so you have dated all the nigerian men except me. Nawa o...
Gbam. Too lazy! Just too lazy! Money for hand, back for ground concept meant that these so called men do not feel the need to wine, dine and respect a women and to show and give love. No romance at all lai lai!
Aunty, take several seats abeg abeg.
Off course you don't agree with her.... And that's why you're very happily married to your Nigerian Prince Charming..bloodybuttkisser
Well our fathers loved our mothers na...maybe you should be a good lover ni..
She is very correct jare. My nt up to 3yrs marriage is already very boring. Hubby neva staying @ home, no trips , nothin. Na jes to drop money he sabi.
I agree with her. Btw,she's beautiful.
Shygal
Sure dear.I agree wit u.
I don't blame her because she's popular; 70% of woman are dangerous lovers, they prepares money instead of love, Even thou they're 10th wife
VIA TECNO B3
You're just a hoe.
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And who told you to test all the men in Nigeria? Mumu like you..
ok naa well spoke SHE actress. There's NO Love without money, MONEY to LOVE is like icings on the cake. You guys will agree with me on the fact that without the ICING, the CAKE Looks ugly. !!
She should speak for her ex nd current lovers, not all naija man,
How many Nigeria men she don date? NA the basterds wey she like NA them dey treat her like a piece of shit! Your heart is always going for the wrong men open your big eyes and see the right men ANIMAL.
thank God is u dont tink...... dat means u dont know as well....
Linda wat r u saying? Its true joor!....most men r like that but I tink we ladies gave dem d room 4 such thoughts.
I agree. She said "most" men.
And has she forgotten that Naija ladies are the least in terms of being romantic on bed? Let her go kiss transformer abeg ~Onahboy
She has been dating the wrong ones. If you can date a poor nigerian guy with that your beauty. Am sure the guy will even be worshiping you. But instead you will want to date celebrity why won't they batter you.
I laff her in indian way,dats not 2ru dear...av u try to fall in love wit any alumanjiri b4? They will loves u d way u wnt it if u can feed dem heavily#dindinrin
I agree with her! Most Nigerian men think all they have to do is give a woman money and material things and she should be happy. Women need affection, attention and adoration. They need to always feel feminine! May God teach our men to know how to make us happy.
Love is in the eyes of the beer holder period
I beg this girl dey find big prick, linda introduce am dat essien ananconda u post last week, make she get new mind about african man, I for say wiz kid but him thing small
When you've been following aristos up and down how on earth do you expect the same aristos to respect your ass??
She no want ferrari, she no want designer....but....
Thats true,only few of them!!!!
Well, I'm a good lover. But I think I know where you are coming from. It has a lot to do with our tradition too. People have problem seeing a man that's all over his woman or vice versa. Nigerian couples don't really hold hands. And then a lot of nigerian we mom don't respect nice men. If you don't control them, they will finish you with insults both in d house and in public. Trust me I know
Men don't respect women at allllll. We are like a commodity to them and this is becus a lot of women have rubbish themselves before men.
What love do you want again from men when a woman can do better whatever a man does, or are women suddenly taking their Biblical role?
she is very right
That's 2ru Nigerian men are not good lovers but American/European mean are very caring n romantic, ladies who have dated American/European men can tell d difference, its just few Nigerian men dat are good lovers.
dont say that you are a good lover cause you dont know .Only woman or women can say of you re good or not hahahaha
And I guess u'v tried all Nigerian men to av bin able to com to dis conclusion... Mumu
Some men u said,but me I wnt d money nt love and respect,give me d money,fuck LOVE
Then why do y'all ask for money and material things like beggers a few weeks into knowing a guy?
I see noted
Lol Maybe she should read America's divorce statistics. Not nice. she's right in a way tho. -Papi chulo
She's right!
Hnmmm dis girl is so beautiful ohhh my God and I lv ur movies keep it up have hard de way u help the needs nd motherless God will bless you in Jesus name amen
I don't agree with that.
0h pls. Broke nigga becmes senator n he's still an idiot. Broke or nt I get her. Nigerian men hve zero respect 4 women. They aint wrth time or love bt sha there are loving 1ns who get it n they are very few ----C21
No of women cheats alarming? What a laugh. Na pack we go comot pack 4 naija if they talk of cheating men. Love 1st then let's see hw she cheats.
Please it is not only Nigerian actresses that knw what she's sayin. It is a general Nigerian man prblm that all Nigerian girls will relate with by the time they turn 21:D----C21
What's America's divorce rate got to do with this? Russia has the world's highest divorce rate.
Beliv me u dnt need 2 date them talkn 2 them is enough 2 tell
Keep proving her right Mr. Man. Nothing we want nothing 4rm Nigerian men who say sharrap at every slightest thing. Who take n take bt never give
Bedding and dating are nt the same darling
Seen...my man ain't like that n his Nigerian!
Most definitely you and the so called xtabel hav sampled so many Nigeria men that the local league is no longer romantic now you want to go international, God will judge both of you
Are u perfect ur self? Who will want u? Oh. I 4got! Monkies!
Yea ryt so dats romantic to u abi mtshewwww abeg shift jare.
oooh really? na today u know
lol cant stop laughing
BORN TO SHINE!!!
@Bonario, seems u hv been seeing too much of romantic movies....if I hear say u make dat kind move,#straight face#
She is probably messing with one white man that's why she is yarning dust! Women need to come together and decide what they want cos everyday they come up with new things to confuse men with! Today one group will say money, tomorrow another will say love, another will say both, yet another will say none! How do we know? We ain't God! Haba!!!!
Right ko left ni abeg she shuld juz go nd sempe
She look like a runs girl, and a runs girl will be treated like a property.
Madam, you are talking RUBBISH but I like your BIG breast.
Fake woman.
Who will sincerely love a tokunbo girl.a fairly use girl..a public toilet girl.
like all these our nollywood girls
can you married a girls that all the senators have donated spiritual acid into her body
let them continue to marry their white turkey.those once don't care they can marry dog
Madam Christabel, that is a sweeping statement. You said real men don't buy their women over with money. That means you've not been with a REAL man. Check yourself, probably you have been giving yourself to men who see you as a commodity to be purchased. Next time, try a REAL man, they are everywhere, they might not be rich but hard-working, they are God fearing and they treat women with utmost respect.
When you marry because of money, you'll lose your liberty.
Wow really
That's what happens when money takes the place of love.
Lmao
Igbo girls too like money. They can be bought, just like you-Christabel. MONEY rule their head!
I don't agree my husband is Nigerian and he's very loving respectful loves to laugh with me , have quality time , there's bad in all nationalities, so to judge one country is not fair ..... It depends on how you treat your man , if you show you love them and do little things to make him happy then he will return the love 😥
Gbam gbam gbam!!!
That's cos all we have at our disposal is runs girls. So we don't really have any incentive to indulge is sweet romance. Just give a little cash here n there and u get what u want...now that's the entire truth...Ruth.
Na wa o! This ur name, are u a home breaker?
@ anon 11:03, why do you men ask a lady for intimacy and romance like hungry animals days after meeting her. If you can figure it out, that's the answer to your dumb question. Poor man!
Abeg who is this?What has she done for her man that he should love you?You just open ur big mouth and say rubbish,Even jesus christ had to perform miracles before people started loving him and following him.My question sister is Who are u?and what have u done
I totally agree with her. Most Anambra men are like that, Nnewi in particular. A typical Nnewi man will shamelessly borrow money from u and will never payback. They love only your money, not your person. Ladies be ware.
My dear if u talk abt yoruba boys bin rude wot ll u say abt my igbo brothers? Me I prefer yoruba guys oo infact am getn married 2 one soon sef. Nigeria men r jst full of dem stupid sef.
you will know does dat sleep wit lebanese men. smh for her
You can't experience what you don't expect.Find a space in your heart that is empty:fill it with good thought and embrace the truth.Speak for yourself;not others.Life is about give and take.When you are blank,don't expect someone else to fill the space for you.
Not all the men pls. My husband treats me like a princess.
Story! Story! Story!,that's ur opinion, by the way, when did i start getting concerned about someone's fallacious opinion?, well, with ur excessive make ups and whitening cream, it's obvious that you are after money, little wonder no young guy will wanna stay with you, bcos you look too expensive. #SugarDaddyThings.
She said 'most' men not all men. Plus, if u say date or marry a poor man, are u saying only poor men can treat a woman right and the woman should pray for her husband to remain poor for him not to change? Most men really don't treat women right. Money brings out the true character of a man. (My opinion)
I'm looking for a lady to spoil with love; wanna be my guest? *winks*
U want dey once dat will be leaking ur p*ssy we black guys blieve in our black culture n not western life. If u neva me meet person wey dey romantic nijja den u re missing
Waoo
I agree with her 100%. She made a very good point.
Which is directly proportional to every male in ur ancestral line. Sad sad
That is when you fuck for money. You hear me, Miss Christabel Egbenya?
I disagree with you and i have serious issues with a particular sex accusing the opposite sex of bad attitudes as if their own sex is better. If all the men that have dated were unloving, that doesn't make all men unloving. At times, your definition of love is wrong, many ladies love the fake life of other counterparts and if the man is not willing, they term him unloving. This is not to still say there are not wicked men around but we also have them in women skins. All men n women r not saints. You may need to ask God to give you a man that will love you and that you will submit to and you will know that all men are not the same.
Correct brother.she probably had a choice bw a rich guy n upcoming guy nd she chose d rich guy nd got burnt.mst naija girls want an already built empire .always tryn to eat dr cake nd hv it nd wen it doesnt work try to play d victim
Moses is angry cos shes headn to d spinsters club.lol.always lukn for already built empire.fish brain.a guy bf he made money ws rejected by girls nd u think wen he becomes a don,he wont get payback
Wetin concern you with Nigerian men , u should be concerned with your own man . It shows you've been sampling too many men . If I may ask , ARE YOU A RUNZ GIRL ?
I think the problem with our men go down from when they were boys,growing up. In this part of the world, men are lords, honoured and prefered to women and so they grow up believing they are the king who must be worshipped by women. They pay little attention to their manners and behaviurs. They lack courtesy and respect for women whether they are poor or rich. Imagine hearing a conversation from boys of say 15years olds saying 'no be woman? or that is a woman's talk' or 'na wa for women o' and i wonder what experience they have had with women (even my nephew whom i know is still a virgin) as a teenager.
I don't think we can do anything about it. Just ignore the attitude if you can and if you are married to a Nigerian man like me, just try to manage and live your life.
If you learn to cover your breasts and not expose them like a prostitute, Nigerian men will respect you and take you seriously. For now, enjoy your runs.
Well I just read her statement one more time & hey she said MOST not ALL. She isn't far 4rm d truth, in as much as dere are still loving men out dere who respect dere women: MONEY/OR NOT.
There are men who consider women in deir lives a s priceless jewels while others threat dem like trash.
But sometimes we women give room 4 such shabby treatment. Dough a genteman remains a gentle man
true talk
tru talk most men finks money answers all.........
I can agree to her to a certain extent. Nigerian men are NOT Romantic lovers, they love their wives/girlfriends but they don't know how to be affectionate, emotionally accessible, transparent with their feelings and gentle. Nigerian men can be kind and generous to a fault BUT they don't know how to tell a woman how they feel about them.
I have always said Nigerians men make great friends but lousy lovers because they don't think about GIVING pleasure as much as they think about TAKING pleasure.
Christabel egbenya u jst seeking for cheap popularity n u knw it. Wen u sleep with oda women's hubby hw can u get a serx man in ur life. U fight ur fellow girls too cos of married man u knw wat am talking abt. I guess wen ur friends c dis post dey will laff at ur stupidity. Nw I really c u ve got dull brains Datz y u ve to buy ur admission into esut n ur car did u buy wit ur money no u bought wit ur pussy. Plz there re Pipo who knw u very well n I will advice u kip quiet n stop washing ur dirty linen outside. E b lyk say money no dey again, so u wan sample via lib mk u for get new customers. Plz close ur mouth n continue wit ur bleaching, envious xter n jazz tynz. Wen u after odas downfall y wud u rise. Jst dnt post any rubbish kk n kip sleeping wit producers to get cheap roles in movie. Do u ve a pay as an actress. No let me open my mouth pass as e b. Lobby
I beg to differ! Hehehe. He knows what sup.
She's right menh!!! Most Nigerian men can't love geanuinely... Am a witness... Call me San
An example of the kind of man she's talking abt. Wht warranted d insults now. Soon u'll say you're a good lover. Grow up.
See ur life! I pity ur gf, if u hv one.
Instead of countering her opinion with intelligent counter points, all you people can come up with is calling her a runs girl and talking about how she's dressed? Wow, how impactful!
Many Nigerian ladies do no know what love is all about, they are mainly concern about their financial well-being yet they fill they heads with imagination- their version of love and affection is the fiction they watch on western movies and what they read in western novels, fictions based on the fertile imagination of writers. If the things they read in novels exist in real life, how come the rate of divorce is so high in the western world? Why cant they live together with all their romantic skills?
The way you are brought up influence the way you show affection. We live in a completely different cultural setting, so comparing a Nigerian man to a white man is TOTALLY wrong. We do not grow up seeing our fathers kissing our mothers in our presence. How many Nigerian ladies can readily give their boyfriends or husbands a hug and a kiss in a public place?
No matter how much we try to copy others, we are who we are.
I am a proud Nigerian man, and I show my affection in my own way, not in a white man's way and that is because I am a black man, not a white man.
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