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Friday, 7 July 2017

What could make a man hit you? - BBN's Ese Eriata asks

Fake BBN 2017 housemate, Ese Eriata wants to know why men hit their wives. Acknowledging that she's not married, Ese is asking her fellow women if its possible for their men to hit them for no reason. Have answers for her? Comment below...

50 comments:

Olu Obasanu said...

God bless you for this question. Nothing should justify hitting your partner but however just like stepping on some animals tail will make them sting naturally, same for is it when you step on that human male or female. They will sting. Victims usually don't wanna accept they did something to trigger the situation they found themselves.However don't hit your partners and partners too know what brings out the devil out of your partners.Love is sweet understanding lo matter.

OSINANL said...

WHEN YOU DON'T RESPECT THE MAN AND RUN YOUR MOUTH ANYHOW

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Dupsy B said...

For every reactions there must be an action but some are forces caused by side chik.

K_W said...

Women of these days lack manners, scornful and promiscuous in their ways and they keep on talking about domestic abuse which they cause upon themselves...

Anonymous said...

There's no reason enough stupid.especially if u didn't hit him first.

Anonymous said...

Yes its possible. Maybe out of jealousy or when a man feels his an is being disrespectful even when she is not. Remember the cctv footage of a man who beat up his girlfriend at a supermarket for no reason. On the other hand we have women who dare their men to hit them and even block their way when the want to leave. Some will cease the car keys. A man who naturally wouldn't hit a woman will even be pushed to do it cos of some women's terrible attitude. Some men beat up their wive out of theie own frustration. Make sure You are working before you get married and you are saving alot. Men hardly beat rich women. They go for the ones who are financially dependent on them

Isaac Ebuka said...

pls ask them

Anonymous said...

My sister, most women feel they have the right to insult the living day light out of their partners, even hit them if they feel like doing so, but the man should be a "man" and take it all in under the guise of "nothing should make a man hit a woman". It's a terrible thing to hit a woman, just like it's a terrible thing to make your husband feel like a low life, respect is reciprocal. Some idiotic , wrongly brought up men do hit their women for just frowning though!!!

Anonymous said...

woman are blessed with the exceptional ability to run a man down with her mouth that's what could make a man hit his wife

Anonymous said...

my dear ask dem ooo' cuz av seen were a wife beats up her "Mother in-law" or scenario were u ar nt in good terms with ur wife, she den tranfers d aggression by uses electric iron to burn ur nieces cuz she burnt a pot of soap..

Anonymous said...

When a woman runs her mouth outta line, she deserves a left or right smack to reset her brain to loyal

Anonymous said...

Club girl Ese y wont a man hit u ure such a wild bitch better go and marry, in ur thirties ure still single claiming 23...story for d gods mtsheeew

Oghenetega said...

Stupid question ..
Abeg gerrout of here Joor..
Wetin this aunt gwegwe dey ask.?

Oghenetega said...

Wait till U are married b4 asking ur stupid question.

Anonymous said...

the headline in the post after this reads, 'woman kills 4 kids and husband.' Go figure.

Jim said...

it is usually a case of transferred aggression or delayed aggression. transferred aggression is where someone else annoyed him and once he gets home, he starts

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sparking. delayed aggression is where the wife insulted or offended him for a period of time and then just one incidence makes him lose his cool.

Dozie said...

The answer is,Real Men,dont hit women,only BEASTS do hit women!

Fanimoore said...

Same reason some women wives hit their husbands too.

Femi said...

1. Alcohol and drugs.
2. Forcing yourself on a man and later he realizes that he has made a mistake when he finds a true soul mate. He wants you leave by yourself.
3. Adultery-The man has found one hot side chick and wants you to vex and leave by yourself. 4. Bad Advice - Some friends advice their friends that if they don't beat their wife, she won't respect them.

Victim blame is a terrible culture. The victim is not always to blame.

Let's tell her now and not wish she passes through the experience before knowing.

Anonymous said...

Good question Ese and a wise one too.
Men hit for various reasons;
some do out of anger, some due to provocation by the words of their wives, some when the love is no more and slight provocation erupts avalanche of anger, some women push their husbands, some men are quick to anger. Violence is dangerous and either the man or woman can end up badly injured .Some men maybe suspicious of their wives being unfaithful which may or may not be most likely be true.Some men mayhave inferiority complex due to being financially incapacitated and any woman not threading slowly with their mouth may arouse his chained and wild anger. Above all Men ought not to hit their wives. Women to try and back down and revisit the issue some other time.Though some women beat up their husbands but these cases are not so common.Hitting anyone could be fatal cause you may not see internal bleeding fractures and things could happen crazily so fast. If you do tell yourself I would rather not hit her.I will keep my mouth shut and take a drive away. Women be patient and put all to God in prayers.We are all God's children. Let love reign. Avoid things that hurt one another.
.......lyrical magician

Anonymous said...

Bad sex :(

Anonymous said...

Reason or no reason, never hit someone.

shityle Atoza said...

You don't need to be married b4 one can hit you. Whatever a women does shouldn't resort to hitting.

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FRESH said...

A woman with a nasty attitude & a long loud mouth is a potent magnet for a good beating.

Anonymous said...

It is very wrong to hit a woman or a man for what ever reason. Violence isnt good at all. But these are the causes ......When you are not submissive, when you rant uncontrollably , when you stair up issues unnecessarily , When you are not peaceful . When you dont get facts before the accusation .

DANIELS said...

thank you very much my sis for asking this question. some people will say no matter what a woman do to you, you shud not hit them but they will never understand what the woman did to you until they are in ur shoe.
it is only a very stubborn women a amn can hit morethan once in a life time bcos some women always want to dear the man knowing fully well that the man has hot tempered. they will provoke the man till the man will be exhausted.

some women, if a man say dont touch my fone of dont do this, that is the time they will do more n if the see that d man did not touch them, they will double it to make sure the man do his worst. some women, instead of them to call their husband n ask if he is ok at work and what he will eat when he comes back from work late, they will call him and say WHERE ARE YOU? WHAT IS TIME NOW? WHY ARE YOU STILL OUTSIDE? etc this always makes a man b very angry bcos the man may b in a bad mood.

a good woman OBEY their husband but the bad once RESPECT them.

DANIELS said...

thank you very much my sis for asking this question. some people will say no matter what a woman do to you, you shud not hit them but they will never understand what the woman did to you until they are in ur shoe.
it is only a very stubborn women a amn can hit morethan once in a life time bcos some women always want to dear the man knowing fully well that the man has hot tempered. they will provoke the man till the man will be exhausted.

some women, if a man say dont touch my fone of dont do this, that is the time they will do more n if the see that d man did not touch them, they will double it to make sure the man do his worst. some women, instead of them to call their husband n ask if he is ok at work and what he will eat when he comes back from work late, they will call him and say WHERE ARE YOU? WHAT IS TIME NOW? WHY ARE YOU STILL OUTSIDE? etc this always makes a man b very angry bcos the man may b in a bad mood.

a good woman OBEY their husband but the bad once RESPECT them.

Anonymous said...

Jamb question,go and ask your momma,for ur mind u b celebrity

DANIELS said...

thank you very much my sis for asking this question. some people will say no matter what a woman do to you, you shud not hit them but they will never understand what the woman did to you until they are in ur shoe.
it is only a very stubborn women a amn can hit morethan once in a life time bcos some women always want to dear the man knowing fully well that the man has hot tempered. they will provoke the man till the man will be exhausted.

some women, if a man say dont touch my fone of dont do this, that is the time they will do more n if the see that d man did not touch them, they will double it to make sure the man do his worst. some women, instead of them to call their husband n ask if he is ok at work and what he will eat when he comes back from work late, they will call him and say WHERE ARE YOU? WHAT IS TIME NOW? WHY ARE YOU STILL OUTSIDE? etc this always makes a man b very angry bcos the man may b in a bad mood.

a good woman OBEY their husband but the bad once RESPECT them.

DANIELS said...

thank you very much my sis for asking this question. some people will say no matter what a woman do to you, you shud not hit them but they will never understand what the woman did to you until they are in ur shoe.
it is only a very stubborn women a amn can hit morethan once in a life time bcos some women always want to dear the man knowing fully well that the man has hot tempered. they will provoke the man till the man will be exhausted.

some women, if a man say dont touch my fone of dont do this, that is the time they will do more n if the see that d man did not touch them, they will double it to make sure the man do his worst. some women, instead of them to call their husband n ask if he is ok at work and what he will eat when he comes back from work late, they will call him and say WHERE ARE YOU? WHAT IS TIME NOW? WHY ARE YOU STILL OUTSIDE? etc this always makes a man b very angry bcos the man may b in a bad mood.

a good woman OBEY their husband but the bad once RESPECT them.

Anonymous said...

Na better question me this, oya ladies, over to you...tonto dike, where are you?

dee boi said...

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Agbomen said...

What is she talking about?? Many men hit for no reason. I was hit by my bf, because I collected an old school mates biz card. Someone we both ran into, I introduced both of them. And after a few minutes chitchat, my school mate gave me his biz card and that earned me a slap two days later. My bf kept looking for a fight nd i was wondering what was going on. So, pray you don't date or marry a lunatic. There's always a reason for doing it as far as they are concerned. But truthfully, most of the time those reasons are no reasons.

Anonymous said...

A man has every right to hit you if you don't know the full meaning of B.SC

Anonymous said...

A man has every right to hit you if you don't know the full meaning of B.SC

Peace Oriahi said...

Ese shout if big mouth small girl talking any how u are lucky that u mother was not a victim that's why u can ask shirt question I have seen my animal of a father abuse my mother without good reason so just short up and pray God bless you with a good man

Anonymous said...

The no 1 reason is when a man suspect his wife is cheating on him, or the woman normally comes home late at night, or the man's pastor tells him his wife is sleeping around , any little mistake will trigger him. Am talking from experience..

Anonymous said...

If you have a devil inside of you, you don't have any business being in a relationship. Having sociopathic tendencies, does not give you an excuse to submit to violent urges. If you want to fight, join a boxing club.

Anonymous said...

You're a madman. Respect is reciprocal, perhaps if men don't feel entitled to respect, and they respect their partners, maybe their wives won't "disrespect" them.

You know what. You're a son of a bitch, you'll get what's coming to you, you fucked up bastard.

Anonymous said...

Good that you've made that realisation, let's see if your backwards, sexist, peasant existence, will find a woman who will tolerate your stupid attitudes.

Anonymous said...

Keep waiting for a modern, educated, well brought up woman, who will "obey" you, just because you were born with a penis.

Between your grammatical errors, and your warped logic, it's clear you're an uneducated fool.

bukki said...

Says who? Whether the woman is rich or not, if she marrys a beast, he will definitely beat her one day. They go for the timid ones, those who fear them and are ready to die in the marriage

Anonymous said...

Your comment is so out of point...you just want to insult her don't you? You have a very bitter soul

Sandy said...

Good one,God bless you plenty dear.

Anonymous said...

Insecurity and Uneducated. A man believe his beautiful wife maybe/is cheating on him and if she dare say anything she gets the beating.

Anonymous said...

Ese,don't worry.I pray ur husband will hit u if u finally get married so u ll get the answer to ur qstn. No matter wat a woman does, hitting her is not an option.Am saying this as a man,don't see y a woman like u shud ask such a stupid qstn.

Anonymous said...

Some women resort to slapping over heated argument(a case in point Abuja gym house saga)...some men don't let it get cold b4 return the favor with upper cut. Next morning she is all over social media chanting domestic violence

Anonymous said...

I WANTED TO JUST IGNORE THE POST BECAUSE JUST AS I GUESSED, ONLY A FEW WILL THINK OUTSIDE THE NIGERIAN BOX...SOME PEOPLE HAVE PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES...UNLESS YOU EXPERIENCE IT, IT'S ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO BELIEVE. I SOUNDED LIKE MOST OF YOU TILL I LIVED WITH A "MANIAC" FOR NEARLY 9 YEARS! I DON'T NEED TO ATTEMPT TO VINDICATE MYSELF AT ALL, BUT I NEED TO PUT THIS COMMENT HERE ESPECIALLY FOR THOSE WHO KNOW LITTLE OR NOTHING ABOUT THIS ISSUE BUT LIKE TO FEEL LIKE THE AUTHORITY OVER IT. I AND MY CHILDREN ARE MUCH BETTER FOR MY DECISION TO SURVIVE RATHER THAN DIE TRYING TO SATISFY THIS SYMPATHY-LESS SOCIETY WE LIVE IN.
AND TO THE QUESTION...IN MY EXPERIENCE, YES...UNFORTUNATELY WHILE THERE ARE WOMEN WHO BRING IT ON THEMSELVES, THERE EXIST MANY WHO ARE SIMPLY MARRIED TO CRAZY PEOPLE. WE SPIRITUALIZE EVERYTHING RATHER THAN SEEK HELP...OR RENDER SUPORT, WE CASTIGATE EVEN WHERE WE KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
NOW I CAN GO TO BED WITH MY CONSCIENCE CLEAR. I HAVE RESOLVED TO SAY MY BIT EVERY WHERE I SEE SUCH DISCUSS...MIGHT BE ONE OF THE REASONS GOD PERMITTED IT TO HAPPEN TO ME IN SPITE OF ALL I SACRIFICED AND ENDURED...IM LETTING MY LIGHT SHINE! #TEST TI MO NI!

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