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Saturday, 8 July 2017

"Society lied to you about what men want out of a woman" Married sex worker who has a boyfriend schools 'good women'

A married woman who still has a boyfriend by the side and calls herself a "womanist sex worker" has taken to Twitter to school good women who play by the rules.

The woman who goes by the name Claudia on Twitter revealed that she's a womanist sex worker with a husband and boyfriend.
She said she does not understand how women keep to all the rules society laid down for good women yet they can't get a man. Finally, she concluded that society lied to the women about what men want out of a woman and the women bought it.

She wrote: "You abstain from promiscuity, cook, clean, have a degree, a job, no kids, are constantly trying to appease men and u still not chose"

Claudia added: "It's almost as if... society lied to you about what men want out of a woman and you bought it."

She concluded by advising women to stop giving men so much importance in their lives and the men will come calling. 

She wrote: "Make men a non motherfucking factor in how you live and operate and they will still be there, cuz men."

Over to you men; is she telling the truth?

 

26 comments:

hope hope said...

This is so true because I have seen too many cases of wayward women landing the almost perfect soul mates while the so called good women struggle to find a decent man.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Hmmm


... Merited happiness

Anonymous said...

Yes she is. Men get bored with good women. They need that uncertainty and excitement to stay intrigued by a woman.

Ben Ibeh said...

Ur formula Doesn't work for all ladies because some already have what I call 'the deterrent' factor. Overrating themselves would make it even worse.

uniquechic said...

be independent no doubt but ur choice to live decently, get a degree, cook, clean and cater for ur family is not becos of a man..
u choose dat for urself amd u owe it to urself as a woman who is d care taker of d home..yes WE build d home.
ur choice not to be promiscous is btwn u and God..not becos of a man or becos of ur husband or d society
obviously ds lose woman doesnt have d right screws tightened...u have both hubby and boyfriend...shame to u woman..ur thunder is rily doing pressups..wot dos ds one know about schooling good women...mschew

Anonymous said...

Yep. Men love women who aren't desperate and who are not afraid to be alone. Meanwhile Linda there's flood In vi, Lekki. Come and see my house floating

Anonymous said...

She is right. Women need to stop getting their validation from men

Anonymous said...

When hoes get wifed by stupid thirsty dudes, this is what happens. They think they have the formula. Pls ladies, play by the rules, good men will find you. If they don't, it's still better to be a good woman than a hoe. A hoe with a mansion is still going to be called a hoe.

christie benjamin said...

Womanist huh? That's laughable. Yur nothing but a s3x worker...don't make a fool of yurself by adding 'womanist' to yur dirty lifestly!

James said...

Linda, I think you can answer the question. You'd know. Apart from your occasionally atrocious grammar, you have a stable job, interests in different areas, money, no children, probably the ability to cook and clean but yet, from what we know, there's no man in sight. Obviously, she has a point but the same goes for men as well. Stop making the opposite sex a priority. Chase money and women will come... possibly... eventually. It's just how humans are.

P.S: Just because the men in her life are into polyamory doesn't mean other men are.

Anonymous said...

Women 've fun and fuck any.

Anonymous said...

She is not right, and can never be right. Birds of the same feathers flock together. Good women will inevitably find good men, and wayward men will always be attracted to wayward lady's. The day she will begin to regret meeting those men, she may not have the hands to tweet. E.g., is her hubby aware of extra marital affairs, and is he encouraging her on? Stop being deceived by evangelists of hell (sorrow)

Anonymous said...

Wayward women gets perfect soul mate you say. Does perfect mean equally Wayward men?

Tito said...

be independent no doubt but ur choice to live decently, get a degree, cook, clean and cater

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for ur family is not becos of a man. u choose dat for urself amd u owe it to urself as a woman who is d care taker of d home..yes WE build d home. ur choice not to be promiscous is btwn u and God..not becos of a man or becos of ur husband or d society.

Anonymous said...

Gbam!

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Apparently, the men in her life are those she can easily 'Rob'.

Alice vincent Andrew said...

sorry

Anonymous said...

And do women get bored of good men too? Does the uncertainty and excitement of their waywardness keep them intrigued?

Anonymous said...

Loool. Puntastic!

Anonymous said...

Once men chase Money and get it, whores follows sharp sharp....... Then the so called good women will be forgotten... Oh! Is called civilization

Agbomen said...

Very nicely said. I chose to keep or build a home because it's something I desire. The choice to be faithful to my husband is between me and God. Tnk you @uniquechic. Respect!

Rita said...

Your future is bleak and your life is a mess if you take marriage counsel from a self confessed harlot.

Rita said...

Fool yourself u hear, cheat on your husband and your Ghana must go will safely arrive at your father's house in the village

adebola thompson said...

100% agree with her.

Davidson Vincent said...

@Uniquechic, Thanks for putting sense into that "WAYWARD" harlot. It is very sad that in this generation people make excuses for their wrongdoing! I advice women to be virtuous irrespective of the situation not just to please your husbands or the society but for fulfilling your destinies. All this rubbish life the so called wayward women are living is just for a while. Insist on doing the right thing even you are the only one doing it!

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