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Tuesday, 4 July 2017

Man says single mothers don't deserve baby showers. 'You are rewarding bad behaviour'

WTF is this person saying? See the rest of his tweet after the cut...



33 comments:

Solomon said...

i go with the guy on this one. a baby is supposed to be conceived in a marriage and not from a single mother. when you celebrate baby showers of single mothers, you

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are saying it is okay to have a child out of wedlock, even though I wouldn't say this publicly i still believe that they don't deserve baby showers.

Anonymous said...

I concur!

Anonymous said...

Well said. A car without engine has no business on the road.

Agwuncha Chikezie said...

You too Linda,WTF are you thinking?he is trying to pass a moral info here regardless of how he is constructing his claims..do baby shower in a right way by getting married

Emmanuel Williams said...

that really true. no reward for fornication or adultery. accept it is known the mani she was married to died b4 or just died.

Anonymous said...

Eyaaaa, drink Panadol, e be like say you get headache.

EDWIN edDREAMZ CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...

Their money and their shower and this punk ass thinks he has an opinion.... This deadbeat and air head of a fellow is Ridiculous though

Esther Norah said...

Unfortunately Linda dats the truth. We are in d generation that celebrate ignoramus. Thou there r exceptions period

Chizzy Liz said...

********************The last Tweet.... I totally concur ***

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment... HE IS SPEAKING D TRUTH

Anonymous said...

What about ladies who were engaged and got pregnant
..then the man left ???

kennymac said...

I totally agree. Simple truth

Anonymous said...

I totally agree. Its obvious miss linda doesn't. Sad and somewhat dissapointed you don't

Anonymous said...

Your opinion is total trash! What about single fathers??? It does not hold water anyway.

Anonymous said...

Your opinion is total trash! What about single fathers??? It does not hold water anyway.

Anonymous said...

Your opinion is total trash! What about single fathers??? It does not hold water anyway.

9ja Parrot said...

Linda, I agree with him. I salute his boldness in speaking the truth! Children are fruits of consummated marriages. Check your dictionary for the real definition of bastards!

Anonymous said...

The truth is always a bitter pill to swallow,i had my first child out of wedlock and never saw the need for a baby shower because i personally didnt know exactly what i was morally impacting on my younger ones,i was patient,after i got married,i had the biggest baby shower for my second and 3rd kids...Trust me those friends arranging and coming for your shower as a single mom talk and laugh behind your back big time and constantly hoping you remain a single mother so you dont come and dull their shine...

Excitment Excit said...

Is that ur case?

nony bright said...

Foolish ... A child z a child weda mom z single or not ... Pple sef ... I hope d person posting dis has neva had sex outside marriage.

Stephn'ad said...

100% True!!!

shityle Atoza said...

Baby shower is not a govt programme. It is organised by the families. You most not Mary to have babies.

ebele onwumah said...

Engaged and being married are two different things... why should a lady get pregnant because she is engaged? Its still outside wedlock.

Peter Chris said...

Bro kindly check the meaning of bastard in your dictionary

Peter Chris said...

Any single mother is simply having a bastard in his home . There are some case I can accept that . Maybe a lady got pregnant and the man rejected it . Or it happen by any unprepared reasons. But having a child to show you are a single mother is having a bastard as a child . Get me right in igbo we call it ime okwa and it's a bad omen .

Anonymous said...

See single mothers provoking anyhow. Eyaa. Next time use condom.

Anonymous said...

Idiot, single father's dnt carry pregnancy, they don't do baby shower

Anonymous said...

@shityle Atoza most pregnant ladies organize their baby showers
So if u want to show d world ur expecting a baby, do it the right way.
It's more honourable

Anonymous said...

Ur an idiot, do single father's carry pregnacy?

Mama J said...

I concur with this

Anonymous said...

What the hell is wrong with you judgemental idiots? Oh I forgot your Nigerians, the judgiest and meanest people, who run to church every Sunday and pray to their god who they don't realise isn't there for them. How dare you judge the woman ha ing the child, no one judges the man and in 2017 no one cares there's no reason to marry if they do t want to. It's me to shouldn't fuck if not married if your applying rules. Stop judgeing others and let them be and yes single or married she is still a mum so deserves a baby shower areseholes.!!
-my view-

Peace Oriahi said...

I agree with you

Anonymous said...

We need to look at this from a different angle. What is the essence of having a baby shower? It is done to assist the parent to be in raising a child. Therefore, it focuses on the child's needs rather than that of the parent. Now going by our moral values, having a child outside wedlock is a taboo. Unfortunately, our society has become so westernized that we celebrate the birth of a child outside marriage. In a nutshell, there is nothing wrong in having a shower for the unborn child. Because two adults decided to be irresponsible does not mean the child should be deprived of things needed to begin his journey here on earth.

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