An email I just received. Read below...
I really don't know where to start from, I'm going
to make it brief. I
have lived in my grandmother's house all my life because my dad was at
one point not able to foot the bills, till he had a stroke and died, my
grandmother took care of me raised me up and sent me to school. Now I am
23 years old with a good job. I fend for myself and cater to my
grandmother's need. I have an aunt in the house that terrorizes us all. She beats me up, bites me at every point she gets.
She started staying
with us when she was deported from London a couple of years and things
have been really crazy since she started living with us, my
grandmother's company, she ran down, at one point she has stabbed my
grandmother, just a couple of days back we had an argument and she
decorated my body with trophies of bites and scratches. The last time
she bit(bite)my face because I went out without telling her. There's
absolutely nothing she doesn't tell people about me(bad) , and this hate
results from the fact that my dad was the first born and she feels my
grandmother's properties is going to be given to me (and am totally not
interested ). Now my problem is this I don't feel safe in my home
anymore, I can't eat at home, am not happy and it's affecting my
concentration at work and my professional exams I am writing, I want to
leave and get my own place but how do I leave my grandmother that took
care of me, I don't want it to seem like am ungrateful cause that's the
last image I want to portray, she has fought so many battles for me and
also will she be safe?
181 comments:
Prayer is the key. God is all you need. It is well
Report to the police. Leave and take your gradmum with you...
Take ur Grand ma along wit u in ur new house or better still get ur family members to drag the wicked idiot out!!!!!!!
...My name is simple CALL ME KYKE...
You said you have a good job? Thank God if that is true. What you do next is to move out of the house and start your own life ok. You can send food stuff and money to your grand mother. You have your life to live now. Go ahead a live it. Read the book “The Other Woman In Marriage” on www.okadabooks.com
Leave and take your grand mother with you
It's complicated....but u shuld talk to ur grandmother about ur plans and see what her opinion is b4 u make ur move
Leave and take your grand mother with you
Beat the living day out of her the next time she tries it!!stand up to her, she is not your parent, she is just an aunt..simples!!
the best you can do is get a new place and move out with your grandmother. flee from every appearance of evil, you may also choose to talk to any other members of your extended family about the situation so someone else will know.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Drop that shit of going away and fight back bcos yu have come of age..
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Beat the living day out of her the next time she tries it!!stand up to her, she is not your parent, she is just an aunt..simples!!
Young girl, please note that you are not a tree that can not move out from its stem even in times of harsh weather. Kindly explain to your granny & get her a nanny (househelp) before your aunt ends your life. Life is very delicate to attach so much sentiment to it...
Thanx
Oghene bikoooooo
Take ur Grand ma along wit u in ur new house or better still get ur family members to drag the wicked idiot out!!!!!!!
...My name is simple CALL ME KYKE...
Is it that u haven't heard of mopol? I guess the lady in question is retarded..Get her arrested..she cant continue to stay with u guy's. And if u must leave the house simply move with grand ma.
dont leave your grandma o carry her along
Some men really need to grow up, this is just wrong. Lindaobserve
Young girl, please note that you are not a tree that can not move out from its stem even in times of harsh weather. Kindly explain to your granny & get her a nanny (househelp) before your aunt ends your life. Life is very delicate to attach so much sentiment to it...
Thanx
why not inform d police or ur family head b4 she ends up killing u or ur grandmother. life is too short ooo
TAKE YOUR AUNT TO HUMAN RIGHT FOR THEM TO HANDLE THIS MATTER
U jus have 2 master ur fears, look evil n d eyes n deal with it..it doesn't mata how far u go, it'll always b a part of u not until u deal wit it.
Talk to grandma and make her understand how things are. From there, you'd know the next step to take. God bless you. Luke 2:52. @Bishop_Dammy
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Drop that shit of going away and fight back bcos yu have come of age..
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
dont leave your grandma o carry her along
bite the aunty back, report, just do something please..
why not inform d police or ur family head b4 she ends up killing u or ur grandmother. life is too short ooo
my dear, leave fast and take your grand-mum along
Its simple dear, take your grandmother with you as you are leaving the house.
Coz she too is not safe with your aunty. And also you can go report to the police if you feel your life threatened by the activities of your aunty.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
DEAL WIT HER I BLIF U R YOUNG AND MORE VIBRAT TO BEAT THE HELL OUTA HER....TOMJERRYSWIT
This ur aunt get super powers ? I don't understand , deal with her Urself, l
Linda publish his details, he needs to be Mended..
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.NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..
You have no reason whatsoever to continue staying in a place that makes you unhappy. Its clear that your grandma really loves you so she'll understand your need to leave. You can visit her weekly and ensure she's well taken care of but don't be sentimental and continue to suffer. You're more useful to your grandma alive
Is the old woman aware of this? It is better you find a place where your mind would be at peace After all you careless for your grandmother`s properties
This ur aunt get super powers ? I don't understand , deal with her Urself, l
This ur aunt get super powers ? I don't understand , deal with her Urself, l
GET A NEW PLACE AND TAKE UR GRANMA WITH YOU, SIMPLE.
Say no to domestic violence. Engr Emy
Say no to domestic violence. If you have much power in you, go fight with mayweather. lol. Engr Emy
If u got a good job like u said, I would advice u get a place and move with ur grandma, maybe a 2 bedroom flat. So u can ve peace of mind,comfort and happiness. Thank me later
lmaoooo....aunty boer bull...aunty rottweiller...u bera stand up and fight, for yaself and ya feeble gramms.
report her to the nearest police station.
This is so sad. All you have to do is rent an apartment, take your grandma with you & leave your aunt in the house to live as she pleases shikena!
Not a big deal.since u have a good job,rent an apartment,get a maid n move ur grandma in wit you....mak sure u let her knw u wil arrest her Anytym she cms visiting.....
Violence... dis is so silly.. wat is goin on here.. the person shld b punished
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Face your fears, you are 23, act like one, even if it means knocking out ur aunt's teeth to prove that... On the real, she won't stop until someone stands up to her bullying, and that's you.
Are you a baby?
Why will you allow your brain dead aunt do this to you. Girl, grow up
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It's well so many persons are going through similar problems of domestic violence even me...... the first question is are they the only existing members of your extended family? if no be bold consult other members of the family. If yes confront her and fight back. You did not state if you are male or female. Be prayerful too
It's well so many persons are going through similar problems of domestic violence even me...... the first question is are they the only existing members of your extended family? if no be bold consult other members of the family. If yes confront her and fight back. You did not state if you are male or female. Be prayerful too
You can only protect your grandmother if you are safe. I advice that you leave the house. Explain to your grandma the circumstances and why you have to leave. Most domestic violence graduate from little fights to something bigger and even death. I advice that you leave. You Aunt is mentally unstable.
Worried Liber
Get her arrested
Since she has stabbed your grandmother, both of you are not safe in that house.
Just rent your own house and take your grandmother with you,she will understand.
u sound like u already know what to do. if ua reading this, go and show ur grandmother those bite marks and hear what she has to say. ua a grown young lady. u know what, bite ur back!!!! look for her trouble n bite her. Period!!!
Marie
take ur grandmum along nd report d case 2 d police so she cud write n undertaken 2 stay away 4rm u.u can't jt leave ur grandmum wit ur ant it's her obituary ul hear next(God4bid),bt pls jt liv d house 4 ur aunt d day she Won't b around..sorry abt d violence it's all bad belle....
Why can't you and your grandmother relocate to another place that your aunty won't be able to trace?
take ur grandmum along nd report d case 2 d police so she cud write n undertaken 2 stay away 4rm u.u can't jt leave ur grandmum wit ur ant it's her obituary ul hear next(God4bid),bt pls jt liv d house 4 ur aunt d day she Won't b around..sorry abt d violence it's all bad belle....
Woss..ur grandma will understand
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If ur granny loves u, she'l totally understand nd let u go, if nt even go wth u.. d woman is totally. Evil nd I advice u to b extremely careful. Its nt until she rilly hurts u or mayb kills u dt u had wished u left.
If you can rent a smaller apartment somewhere, please do and take your grandma to live with you but what about the other family members??? Linda take note!
If you can rent a smaller apartment somewhere, please do and take your grandma to live with you but what about the other family members??? Linda take note!
My dear move out and take her with you .It's high time you stopped giving a hoot abt what others think of your actions.She might not be there the next moment. You owe her that.
And you can also report your aunty to welfare organisations that handles domestic violence. might be clinically depressed cos of her situation.
If you can rent a smaller apartment somewhere, please do and take your grandma to live with you but what about the other family members??? Linda take note!
show nah wah oh .in short first arrange boys to beat her up then go to the police station to lay a formal compliant as u no say for naija nah first compliant dem dey support besides is your ant that huge or is she a giant that u cannot even beat her up personally .but if u feel say she be winch go rent your own place and take your grand ma along simple .
Your aunty must be related to Luiz Saurez, LOL. Talk to your gran, if what you have written above is true, then grand ma would understand.
If you can rent a smaller apartment somewhere, please do and take your grandma to live with you but what about the other family members??? Linda take note!
Pleaseeee, leave the house. Your life is more IMPORTANT than what any one including GrandMa thinks. Can someone in the family call her to ORDER? What is Grandma saying in all these.
I also think you should report to appropriate authorities on violence against women. ACT NOW!!! I pray, your case will not become eyaaaaa, and she WAS a beautiful young girl
It's time to move, you can't leave with your grandma forever..
Oh poor thing,ve u tried reporting dis to d police?cos dis can result to a homicide.or if u can,leave with ur granny nd get anoda place for now.i fink she is mentally not okay.
My dear, pls listen to me. you need to call your aunty to order. Maybe you should report her to the police or something because if she does something very drastic to u or(and) your granny, it will be a completely different matter. Does she have kids? A woman like that should not be around kids. Pls take whatever action u need to take. dont move out of the house for her instead report her.
Then leave with ur granny n leave d house for that monster!
Try and get an apartment without her noticing it den sneak in and leave the house with your grandmother with that, I think u guys shud live well.
Best movewwould beto move out with your grandma in a mmatter of ASAP.
Let aunty have the house to herself and deal with her frustration
Try and get an apartment without her noticing it den sneak in and leave the house with your grandmother with that, I think u guys shud live well.
I don't think it will be good to leave ur grandma with this lady.
Chai this xoxo touching. Rent an apartment and move with your grandmother. Simple and solve since your aunt cant move out of your family house.
INY
Pls when next she does that arrest her and then take her for mental check bcos she will never go willingly
You better leave and take your grannny with you...better still get your granny to kick the lady out.
SORRY DEAR YOUR AUNT HAS PSYCHOLOGY PROBLEMS. MOVE OUT OF TH HOUSE AND TAKE YOUR GRANDMA ALONG ALSO SIMPLE!
Secure a new place first without anyone knwing even ur grandmother, then we u r ready, pack her tins and leave the house for ur aunite when she is nt around. If u cant do dat then face her the next time she tries raising her hands on u retaliate back,wit any thing u have on ur hands or slap her real hard. All u need is to make up ur mind,stop being soft my dear. Try this if not, she will keep messing u around.
Get a place n take her along
Why not make a report to d appropraite security for dis.i dnt knw d reason y she s doin dis.but my friend ur life is worth much more than anytin.since u r doin well in ur job.y not rent a flat n take ur granny along n leave her in her own misery.i guess she s on drug or sometin.vry high one precisely.in all pray also for God's guidance
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Dear the best you can do is to seek legal intervention. Start from the human right professionals or go to police station. its better they evict her from that house or better still you get your own apartment and move with your grandmother simple
at 23, you're old enough to stay on your own, shes a frustrated witch
nawaoh fisrt to comment
If you can afford it leave the house and take your grandmother with you..do it discreetly too
Please report that evil woman called your aunty to the police, so that she can be rest a police order. Your grandma needs your help.
Take her along with u then,Ur aunt is really crazy, to think she lived in london and acting like an uncivilized person. U ar 23, an adult, I dnt think u owe her an explanation on whr u go and whr u dnt.
Boooooooriiiiiiiiinnnnng!
Arrange all u hav to arrange to make u move in2 a place of ur own witout her notice.wen ur apartment is ready, carry ur grandmom and belongings in her absence in2 ur new home.
You are a woman now, not a child so FIGHT BACK!!! BEAT THAT WOMAN UP!!! HAVE YOUR GRANDMOTHER THROW HER OUT OF THE HOUSE!!! What are you afraid of? Are you not a woman again? Fight back jor
Lady you are dulling yourself....Give the lady a sleeping medicine, Get all you can get and flee with your grandmother....
one thing is sure, ur aunt is sick mentally, she needs help, u may need to abandone her in a psychiatric home for some time. secondly, u are grown, u can get her arrested with the photo evidences u already have, deal with her so well she wont remember her birth date. noone deserves to be this humiliated.
You have only one life to live!
look for a gud home and pack out wit ur grandma dont allow her in
Dats bad, maybe she needs to go to hospital she might be suffering frm mental disorder or some sort of depression since she waz deported. Haba she cant be biting like dog nah.
Since ur grandma is aware of this violence I don't think she will feel bad if u leave the unsafe house to a better place. My babe run for ur life cos if ur aunt kills u ur Grandma will live on and ur story will be history. I rest my case. Debbie luv says so
My dear please find your way with your groundmother ooo before your Aunt will kill you ooo because she is acting out of frustration. Or better still you can be going to see your ground mother, send her money, get her a maid.
My dear please find your way with your groundmother ooo before your Aunt will kill you ooo because she is acting out of frustration. Or better still you can be going to see your ground mother, send her money, get her a maid.
My dear please find your way with your groundmother ooo before your Aunt will kill you ooo because she is acting out of frustration. Or better still you can be going to see your ground mother, send her money, get her a maid.
I suggest you get other family members involved. If that is not an option, report her to the relevant authorities. And if she continues with the assaults and abuse, u got to defend urself (fight back.) wish you luck.
Take your grandmother with you and do not give your aunt an inkling that you are living. pack your clothes bits by bit or tell her you are giving it out to someone. When you leave, don't let anyone know where you'll be staying including the aunt. May God guide you and your grandma.
If leaving means so much to you, the leave. Get a house and take your granny. very simple!
Don't leave your grandmum with her oh, she will kill her
So sad! Am sorry to hear that and you are right, it's not safe for you or your grandma to keep living with your aunt. How about you get a place for you both and move out without notice. Do not give a forwarding address so your aunt can't trace where you live. While at that, make sure you report her to the authorities. Be strong!
Leave and Take your grandma along so she can keep biting them chairs, tables, silverware, rats, roaches
Thank u dear for sharing your experience with us. I think what you should do is get a place for yourself, leave that house but take your grandma with you, leave without telling your aunt about it, that's the only way to find peace...meanwhile put your aunt in her place, let her know you are no longer a kid so she can't beat/bite you as she pleases....more importantly talk to God about it. I pray you find your peace...God bless you.
April rose' opinion...
Leave and Take your grandma along so she can keep biting them chairs, tables, silverware, rats, roaches, etc.
That's pathetic ,i feel you!your grandma will be heartbroken if you leave her to ur mental aunt(sorry to say) but who bites someone younger than them?if u don't feel safe anymore then maybe it's time to leave but discuss with ur grandma first as she's d person u're there in d house for!since u have a good job,money isn't d problem,just think about ur granny,ur bulldog needs to be locked before she gives u rabbies..lol,all d best dear,God is ur strength!Eeesher
simple ake her along while you go and leave the biting animal all by herself.
my dear u can leave your grandma in that house with sbdy like that. u it may be impossible to throw her out, if she has a child of her own , tell them to come take her or better still involve the law, just that I fear for your life.
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my dear, is better u leave dat house for her and take ur grandmother along with u, b'cuz one day she will design dat ur pretty face with bites-------be warned!!!!
Mumu, scram!!!!
Liessssssssss
My advice to u dear is to report dat ur sis @d nearest welfare centr of police station so they can curb her act haba is she on drugs?
Can't u beat ur aunty? Once u beat her, she wil stop d madness. Nobody tries dat nonsense with me.
Report her to the elders and police.
Abella
wow!!!...thats serious,dont u have other uncles and aunts u can call their attention to all des?..its crazy,pray God pt u thru oo.....#dearlinda
ARREST HIMM
It's a pity ma dear especially wen dey re not married dey tend to pour out dia frustration on anoda young fellow...#praymakeshedie# so u kan ve peace!!
Get a place of your own, take your grandma with you! Far from where she lives. Also the intervention of older family members.
dis man sowie woman na wa oo babe move out b4 she kill u.
Get a house and leave wit her
My dear if u give me ur details I'll bring some boys from my barracks and we will beat d living day light outta her, we fit remove some teeth sef just to mk sure she no bite again
My dear if u give me ur details I'll bring some boys from my barracks and we will beat d living day light outta her, we fit remove some teeth sef just to mk sure she no bite again
Then leave with ur grandmother. Shikenah
Leave with her (your grandmother)... Or you let the police in , on the matter, to put your aunty in check. She may have rights over your grandmother's properties, she's her mother anyway, but she has no right over your body, as to inflict injuries on you. You're past 18, an adult, for Christ's sake!
I think you should call in the police to chase her out for house or better still leave d house with grandma, d company can be run from anywhere.
Bite ke?? Is she related to Suarez?
take her along with you. both of you should leave the house.there's nothing like peace of mind
take her along with you. both of you should leave the house.there's nothing like peace of mind
Babe u r no more a baby. .... get ur own apartment nd visit ur grandma from time to time. ..... #shikena#
Take your aunt to a psychiatrist,she has broken down mentally
hmmm...aunty or no aunty, she cant come back from UK and start dictating rules for me because she's misserable. Its just to stand up to her one day, bite me..i bite you back plus a dirty slap on her front face(not side). That should help reboot her system.
Move out. Take her with you.
My dear, get a new house. Then report your aunt to the police and get a restraining order on her. Yes, we do have restraining orders put in place in Nigeria here. I know it for a fact. Once you get her reported, move your grandma and yourself into the new place. Try as much as possible to cut contact from your aunt and warn your grandma that if she gives her the new contact details, you won't be so gracious to protect her anymore.
Chance wella give am one blow.seven.akpus her eye go clear Simple as abc
Ur aunt is frustrated. U can leave with or grandma
If u have d money rent a new apartment and take your grandmother along with you. Don't disclose the address to her or anybody that is a close friend to the wrench aunt of yours.
No be small matter. You have to be your own woman if you want this to stop. Stand up to her and beat her hands down then she willl stop bullying you guys
Nawah o. She's obviously a sadist.
All d way from UK to be behaving like she has mental problem dis sort of people give bad names to us who live oversea u just ve to leave with ur granny no argument for that before its too late always count ur safety as d most important thing in ur life ur very young if its me I don't think ur aunty will try such craze on me I will bit her black and blue let's see whose crazy
Leave the house bcos a misserable person was deported back to 9ja? no way,bite her back the get a FBI involved.
Move out and look for a place to stay before she kills you. Also tell the Police about it.
If it's possible to leave the house and take ur grandma along
Nawaaa ooh so sad what world we live in!!!abeg find your way ooh better be alive than story.JC
sad story my dear, but i think you should stay and think of how to get your aunt out instead , tell her she will feel comfortable staying alone,and all of that. But do not leave your grandma alone with her, as you wont be able to live with yourself if your aunt stabs your grandma to death or kills her one way or another. Please also draw closed to God. He would lead you the right way. stick and stay with your grandma and get that woman out one way or the other. its important
That's s lie.
Defend yourself next time. Are you a child? So because she's older than you, assault is ok?
Shut up
Your Aunty is sick with frustration. Becareful,she's dangerous
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Lolzzz,she apparently sounds like a peaceful person,abi u go help her go beat d aunt so u go take ur own biting share? Lol
Na Wa o
I think your aunty is frustrated and she's taking it out on you. Don't you have elders that could talk to her? No matter what u decide on, never leave your grandma with her. May God help u to decide right....
Get another apartment for yourself and then employ a help to stay with your grandma. Make sure you always give her allowance. That's your safest strategy.
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Lolzzzz biting share
U na no serious
Take d advice jenny proposed.
Then even if u av to live there, b extremely careful of wot u eat n drink from ur aunts pot !
She's frustrated n depressed n also has an eye on properties!
BEWARE !
U could K*** ur Aunt 😉👍
She's obvious schizophrenic n d earlier u decent urself n call for help the better. Sorry ok
Discusse with grand ma, get a house and move with her, report ur anut to police, by the way here is my Email id lets talk, emencor@gmail.com
She's obviously schizophrenic n d earlier u start defending urself n call for help the better. Sorry dear it ain't easy
Stand up to her! Or better still, leave with your grandma
Just pray about it. look for an apartment, move out with your grandma. Most importantly dont let your aunt know your new address. This way you and your grandma dont have to deal with her again.
GERROUT FROM DIA & TAKE YA GRANMODA WITEW.
Report to the police and eject ur useless aunt from your grand ma's house. Other wise she will kill you both and inherit everything o.
Since u said u'r having a gud job. Get ur own apartment urgently and move out wit ur grandma. Such a woman is dangerous! D earlier u make d move d better, b4 she throws poison into ur food.
report to the police. get a place. move your grandma with you. Dont tell the wicked aunty. Nothing wrong in having 2-3 guys stand up to her for you
Inform oda members of ur family,nxt time she tries to bully on u..stand up to her...u ae an adult nd if perchance u finally leave,go wit grandma* sefini***
Luis suarez aunty
Awwww..... resolve this wisely. They have said it all
Babe u noe get teeth and nail to fight back.if u continue letting her walk over u it will go on forever
plsss take ur grandma and leave that evil woman..
Please next time she bites u or whatever just arrange boys to beat her scata then move out with your grandma and leave her in misery
What kind of aunt. Is that
Comot that house with your granny before the vampire go finally drain you....if your grandma is still stong take her with you or just take he with you and report this mad dog to the police.she would sign an agreement never to touch or harm you guys
Babe see ehn. . When she bites you next time. . Look for the part of her body that is very soft and give her a nice sharp bite. .. The type of bite that when next she sees you all she'll see is a tiger
He who runs away with her grand mum lives to fight another Day!!! Dats all
I would advice that you move yourself and yoru grandma if you really love her out of that house.Your aunt as it seems might end up wounding one of you seriosuly.Please leave very fast
This is such a simple problem. You have to 'man up', since you can afford another place, move with your granny. Tell your grandma not to tell your aunt about where you are and if she finds out, arrest her for trespassing- a few change will get the police excited.
I would have locked her up ages ago. You have bite marks and you are still typing. Psst, don't you know that she can pass disease on to you by biting you sef. Were tutu. You better free her, na deportation frustration
if u really want to put that ur retarded aunt in her place, contact me on autch4pay@yahoo.com she'll be taken care of and u bet she gon treat u like an angel..
I totally agree with you my dear...... Go with your grandma without your auntys' knowledge before the vampire kills you oo because you only live ones and you are just how old, haven't even started living bae, if the VAMP kills you pale will suck and kill you even in death for you stupidity oo......Fleeing is the key!
Report to the appropriate authority.....don't let the mad woman kill your grandma.
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