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Tuesday 20 January 2015

All these couple that play love on social media, do they say same words to themselves in real life?

Went through instagram this morning and saw quite a number of Nigerian couples sending loving messages to each other for their followers to read. What I wonder now is if these couples look into each other's eyes and say it to themselves when they are alone and no one else can hear what they are saying? Abi, is it only on social media we hear all 'dem cheesy love quotes?' What do you guys think?

133 comments:

Anonymous said...

most of them don't, its only when they offend their wife's, they come on social media to post things begging for forgiveness...

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Question for d gods..lol

Anonymous said...

all of them have side chicks, they all pretend on social media...

Unknown said...

Na them sabi o

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

All na lie......if is dat sweet y plenty crashed marriage??

Unknown said...

I'm with you on this Linda don't mind them always wanting to live their lives on social media then at the end of the day, u will hear they ve divorced

Ochuko Arhiakpore said...

Making linda jealous LOL,but it's absolute rubbish,the bitter truth is that they don't.

GEJ till 2019

!! BIG BROTHER SAYS SO !!

Unknown said...

Social media love is fake love jare...

Unknown said...

the things that go through your mind hein linda.ur question got me laughing so hard

Unknown said...

For where... It always end in d social media circle... Dats d more reason y their marriage doesn't last...

CHERRY said...

Its left for them o Linda!

Anonymous said...

God bless you Linda. I PERSONALLY know a number of couples that have serious issues with their marriages but go on SOCIAL MEDIA to profess love all the time.
If you talk now they will say it's BEEF!! They will say it's because you are not married or you have issues in your marriage. I find that most people who keep their love to themselves last longer.

Nothing wrong with PDA every once Im a while (anniversaries etc) but when it gets too much. . .

Unknown said...

I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


....LIB ADDICTION...

Unknown said...

I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


....LIB ADDICTION...

Unknown said...

I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


....LIB ADDICTION...

Unknown said...

I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


....LIB ADDICTION...

Unknown said...

Really cheesy and corny love quotes. Before you know it bae is gone =baygon.

Bonita Bislam said...

Lol everyone has caught the bug.Say sweet things about your partner on sicial media while you maintain a gorilla face when the both of you're alone.Its called E-showoff

Dave Mide said...

Only God can answer that ... ! Question for the gods

Unknown said...

I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


....LIB ADDICTION...

Unknown said...

I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


....LIB ADDICTION...

Unknown said...

even some of them fight like cats and dogs in their home but come to social to display love and made people believe all is well....
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Unknown said...

Some do, while some don't.
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@Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

9ja Parrot said...

No mind dem o Linda, na form many of dem dey form o.

Unknown said...

It's their headache shaa
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@Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

Uche said...

U v to be in love real life before u can love on social media.

Unknown said...

I personally do it in real life

General said...

Made me rememba ''pretenders are d worst''

Elodie O. Mbape said...

I believe very few do say it to each other in private. Most of them play the 'happy couple' card on social networks to remain relevant in the eyes of their many followers and friends. In fact, I dare say some of them are far more romantic on social media than in real life.

Preciousgirl said...

Bunch of show-off-ers lol...attention seekers

Unknown said...

Well if a couple is bold enough to say it on social media, they shld be comfortable saying it to themselves wen they are alone.

Anonymous said...

Honestly Linda it's all paparazzi. Many couples live a fake life.they love to have a picture perfect marriage which they throw at people's faces.my next door neighbor is an example.they r always fighting n even breaking stuff.but when ever they Av visitors they start calling each other some sugar coated names.there was a day she ran into my home n said I Sud help her that her husband wants to break her to pieces.she had managed to escape with 2 blows.i was shocked when her friend called her she swiftly changed tones n said she was getting set for an evening dinner wt her boo of life.all her Insta gram n BlackBerry dps all show cases her love for her man.this same person confesses to me that her hubby hasn't slept wt her for over a year.he has numerous side chick's n pay their bills.she handle all her bills n sometimes settle d housebill.i Av never cautioned her on ds her fake "I av the best boo in d world mentality ".advice for peeps-never listen to pple dat keep professing their undying love for each other.90% are fake.

Damilola Tee said...

I have always thought about it ...Its good to know Linda also thinks about it that same way.Too much of Love messages in the air,do they actually say those things when they are with each other or is it just a show off thing...jut saying

Damilola Tee said...

I have always thought about it ...Its good to know Linda also thinks about it that same way.Too much of Love messages in the air,do they actually say those things when they are with each other or is it just a show off thing...jut saying

Anonymous said...

Too many relationships are for show these days.

Unknown said...

Lol,its the only place they can say reason cos they don't av the nerve to do that face to face or may be they are not really inlove just knocking each oda or one party is and the oda isn't , etc

Ogechi@ afakos@yahoo.com said...

Is true jo. Most of them don't say it when they are alone. Deceit.

Deedee said...

GOOD QUESTION, I FEEL D SAME WAY LINDA ESP THE YOBOS & OSAS WITH GBENRO ALTHO GBERNO DOESNT DISPLAY SO MUCH LIKE OSAS. LINDA U GET BF OR GF?

Deedee said...

GOOD QUESTION, I FEEL D SAME WAY LINDA ESP THE YOBOS & OSAS WITH GBENRO ALTHO GBERNO DOESNT DISPLAY SO MUCH LIKE OSAS. LINDA U GET BF OR GF?

ary said...

It is easier to write than to say how you feel, helps you be more creative and sometimes hide how you truly feel! Words speaks better than action and the social media proves it everyday

Unknown said...

Who cares if dey say it or not


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Unknown said...

To me this types of couple are neva in good terms in real life becos if you are in really in love wit each other you don't really care wat the world cares about your love life's. So to me all this love play on social media are just dramatising

Unknown said...

Too many relationships are for show these days,all we have now is social medial marriage!!! JC

cutestlove said...

I think they do say those words to each other....but if they don't is there selves they are deceiving not me nor linda ikeji.

Anonymous said...

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Unknown said...

Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

REXOVIC said...

NA NOTICE ME THEY WORRY THEM....I BET THEY MAY NOT BE IN TALKING TERMS AT HOME!

Pink Bananas said...

Linda, all Na for show

OMOOBA said...

IF ANYONE HAVE 1000 NAIRA AND CLAIM IT'S 5000 NAIRA, WHEN HE FINISHED SPENDING THE 1K, HE WOULD HAVE TO WAKE UP TO THE REALITY OF THE MIRAGE 4K

Unknown said...

Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Believe me those tins r just show off,those kind of pple av d worse love life

lgho said...

All na wash..

Unknown said...

Na em sabi

Unknown said...

Exactly

elovi said...

They are all seeking attention but might love dia spouse ffor real

luvmybaby said...

Most u tak all d space here,

Unknown said...

Datss true...dey r jes fronting!

Anonymous said...

Many are fake o, lol. Fake, fake, fake! Some dont even talk to each other but on social media they do lovey dovey.

Unknown said...

Lol...!@side chicks
I do worse with my boo tho...

GALORE said...

Lol.. . tell the world that u love me

Just like @Osas told world that she loved @Gbenro(UTI's rebound)



@Galore

yawanow said...

its refreshing to express your love and kinda makes one confident about each other. I'm sure it extends even within themselves and not just on social media.

Unknown said...

Most of them dnt say those words, some people would rather feel comfortable in typing it than saying it..

Unknown said...

Lol.... E-showoff.
See linda being curious like say she never ever do before.




Sincerely speaking the mind of Amadioha

Damilola Ade said...

Their cup of tea

Unknown said...

Stupidity..if I get a thousand naira for every girl that has the so-called twitter BOO or social media boo that I have slept with tho..I'll be competing financially with Dangote and Adenuga......................................#KingOfKings #6God

Anonymous said...

All na show off...

Anonymous said...

I hope this ur friend isn't an LIB reader shaa

Unknown said...

its called social media love..........




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Anonymous said...

Teebillz323 and Tiwa used to do it very well before naw. I wonder why they stopped? Remember that his poem to Tiwa "You slipped into my skin...bla...bla...bla" All na show!

QueenSheba said...

Don't get it twisted love is a beautiful thing. Lol

Damola Gbadegesin said...

They don useless the word love sef. Lol

Anonymous said...

I noticed Toolz and her boo never do all that PDA shit on social medias unlike Adaeze Yobo. Whereas her hubby stays cheating on her. Fake pple everywhere.

Unknown said...

Its really chessy, i get putting your love out there 1's in a while but always is a chessy as it gets.

Anonymous said...

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aproko manager said...

Abeg make I hear word jor...lyk d spirit...love nor dey exist na only God nd Jesus love us cos I neva count 100pple wen don die for one craze boy or girl

Unknown said...

Of course they do...

As d saying goes "charity begin@home".

It doesn't cost anytin saying it face2face.

In fact, it much easy saying it face2face bcos no other person may b there wit u compare to d social media when d world r there and r ur witness.

If u ask me I wil tell u I prefer face2face. All dis social media love is too fake for my liking and I don't beliieve in it.

Anonymous said...

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Unknown said...

Of course they do...

As d saying goes "charity begin@home".

It doesn't cost anytin saying it face2face.

In fact, it much easy saying it face2face bcos no other person may b there wit u compare to d social media when d world r there and r ur witness.

If u ask me I wil tell u I prefer face2face. All dis social media love is too fake for my liking and I don't beliieve in it.

Lifematters-Mattersoflife(PEOPLE AND SOCIETY) said...

Na today

Unknown said...

Of course they do...

As d saying goes "charity begin@home".

It doesn't cost anytin saying it face2face.

In fact, it much easy saying it face2face bcos no other person may b there wit u compare to d social media when d world r there and r ur witness.

If u ask me I wil tell u I prefer face2face. All dis social media love is too fake for my liking and I don't beliieve in it.

Unknown said...

relationship is a personal thing. why bring it here.

omowunmi okunti said...

Na that one concern them. Who are they deceiving if they don't truly love themselves.

kezie said...

I can see how that will definately help me in life na..mtcheeew!!next

Unknown said...

If I hear, most of them don't.

aproko manager said...

U won just write kill yourself abeg calm down

Unknown said...

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All na show biz.... Go to their homes and see war....
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Unknown said...

Their wahala

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Ask Kabi esi

Anonymous said...

Good point. Then send them a PERSONAL SMS!!!!

Unknown said...

morale of the today....don't believe everything you see on social media





#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

Unknown said...

Good question.

BRIGHTINO said...

Saying it is useless if you don't show it

GR8BABE said...

HMM Dont pose for the crowd oo!BE REAL,DO THE RIGHT THING...

godson onyekuru said...

All is just a bloody lie just tryin to fool them self's

Subomi said...

with some peeps, dont mean much even if they say it in person.. but when you act it by proving it with your actions, I can start to believe you

Unknown said...

Linda,get married and give us the answer urself.
Lol

Unknown said...

I llove u,is a normal phrase .
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debbie said...

I think some r real n some r fake...but shldnt be everyday display....but d fake ones r more Dan d genuine ones

Redcandy said...

Well, my hubby and I are not into PDA but privately, I can tell you that we say the sweetest words to each other and we show it too. There are indeed happy relationships out there and by the grace of God, I have one.

Redcandy
****www.idoncomeagain.com****

Unknown said...

They just love cheap popularity. Thanks to people like you that help them achieve that.


Busy Fingers.

Gentletee said...

If there is no correlation between what is shared on social media and what goes on in real life then it is pretentious and only making a fool of them selves

Unknown said...

Nt all do
Besides some ppl (like me) dnt knw to go abt the i love u thingy in person
Express my self more on chats

ebonyz... said...

i dunno oh

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha. 4 wia. Real life Ba fight and quarrel oooo. Lol. De more u look. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

Unknown said...

Dats deir bizness!

DADDYSWIFE said...

Ka awe si things. #nothanksi'llratherbeselfmade#

Anonymous said...

If u are in their shoes u might probably do more, I tink its romantic...never underestimate d power of true love.

Richard said...

They're fouling themselves.

MY TURN said...

RUBBISH!SAY IT TO MY FACE

Unknown said...

Sometimes privacy is good. But these days social media is the privacy. Lol.

Unknown said...

Bunch of attention seekers

Anonymous said...

Words.... Excellent raps!

Unknown said...

All dos things are pretence o

Unknown said...

Lolz ask them oo . My dear..

Unknown said...

Most of dem do it while making love especially wen d man releases, he uses d word to appreciate d woman lolss

Unknown said...

Seriously some is 4 publicity

Unknown said...

Nd d woman as a fool will say I love u too after being used lolssss awu

amaka said...

Dont mind them its activity.

D!D! said...

#Word!

abujakenneth said...

That is why I don't support my parish of RCCG Sangotedo bringing out couples to demonstrate their love in the altar when actually they are enduring themselves in the closet

Anonymous said...

@Wisdom Aku wat kind of brain do u av? And u the bigger fool wasting ur sperm n future kids all over the place and u still av the guts to call d women fools! Who trained u? We should be sending u to your Mum but because i'm not ill mannered like u i won't do that.Small boys who hide behind their computers and spit rubbish. Werey Omo.U better pray for ur future n d kind of kids u'll raise!

Unknown said...

All for publicity sometimes

Unknown said...

Awwww that is so sweet.

egowein said...

No be only tell the world....
Na preach the gospel....

egowein said...

No be only tell the world....
Na preach the gospel....

Anonymous said...

Linda I av got a track for you.....badbelle by MI

Anonymous said...

mind your business and stop scrutinizing people's relationship...also get a man!

Celestina Anthony said...

Lol

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

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