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Friday, 23 January 2015

Reasons why you should never marry... John Dumelo to the rescue

Not for sex, age, pressure or money. Single Ghanian actor John Dumelo took to his instagram page to advise those who feel pressurized to get married for one reason or the other. Continue...


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AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Ladies dey is every reason to marry john dumelo oo..lol

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Ladies dey is every reason to marry john dumelo oo..lol

Unknown said...

Words of wisdom...

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Ladies dey is every reason to marry john dumelo oo..lol

Unknown said...

His cup of coffee.

Unknown said...

speechless

Unknown said...

Well spoken. Unfortunately, all these reasons you listed, are the reasons why many get marry today.

Unknown said...

I 100% agree wit him... There is more to marriage than some of us think...

Unknown said...

Words on marble

Unknown said...

Nice one

Unknown said...

And to add to it get married because God has ordained it. Love most of what he wrote because marriages of now adays I don't understand it anymore.

xquisite said...

Word!

Unknown said...

True talk. Buh where's love in you?

Bonita Bislam said...

Overflogged topic!

Obiora jamal said...

Gbam

xquisite said...

Word!

Unknown said...

Preach! Unfortunately most people won't listen.

Unknown said...

Well said

Chilaka C said...

Dats Tru MyBroda, Really Need Dat Lady dat will Truly Luv Me, Any Single Lady Ready 4 A Serious Date Shud Addup, 2bcdd5ed

Emeruem Chijoke Stanley (stan4real_25@yahoo.com) said...

That is a very good one

Unknown said...

On point

Unknown said...

True talk... But not 100% correct.

Unknown said...

Yes we will...

eka said...

Good advice 4 those waiting.........

Unknown said...

True talk. He said it all

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Unknown said...

Very true.

knowurway.com said...

Ok gbam

Unknown said...

My man na true u tok sha.........
*oparoescalade*

cleo said...

True talk

Daralohi said...

Wow dumelo is such a sweet guy.

Miss indomie says so.

Anonymous said...

truetalk

Josephine said...

Wow!!! this one na true talk! true life story

Unknown said...

My man na true u tok sha.........
*oparoescalade*

Anonymous said...

Yeah, yeah, we all know this. Please tell us something that we don't know.

Unknown said...

My man na true u tok sha.........
*oparoescalade*

Anonymous said...

my crush of life!!! love ur opinion shaa

missvee

Unknown said...

I'll look into that and get back to you…lol

Unknown said...

True talk,marriage is meant to be fun not endure .

Unknown said...

I love this. Hope de love won't come wit Divorce

Bokunor said...

Kk






Candybecs said...

Ok! Note taken.

Anonymous said...

Ok, add me if u re a responsible girl only. Age 18-20 for relationship 2B22673E.

Amarachi said...

Agu ka o bu

Unknown said...

Good to know dude but you are getting old...if its now a female celeb that is at his age and single am such thousands will blast her
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danny fisiye said...

Linda
this is for u iwatago

knowurway.com said...

Ok gbam

Anonymous said...

Nice writeup John Dumelo.that's me right now.someday I'll get married too

khemorah said...

Hmmmmm

Candybecs said...

We know, so nothing new.

Unknown said...

True talk







~FromOutOfThisWorld ~

Unknown said...

True talk,marriage is meant to be fun not endure.

Unknown said...

You're right but also do the right thing at the right time. Get married when you're suppose to



#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

Vela said...

u have made my day with this wonderful words. may God bless u am so glad to read this, thanks to Linda too for sharing this.

Unknown said...

Hmmm, Reasons.....
⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Unknown said...

we dnt care if you become a pope nigga!! STFU

evablaze said...

GBAM! Well said

evablaze said...

GBAM! Well said

Manuel Kunmi said...

I find the last sentences making the best sence cos I have been pondering if its true you will love that person forever ... its just impossible ..... love fades that's just it

Anonymous said...

So true!

Unknown said...

Nice one! Buh pls marry ohhh

Unknown said...

Ok seen!#Somedayiwillgetmarriedtoo..

Aamarachiogueji said...

....If he likes he can get married when his children will call him grandpa....#nwamas

Unknown said...

Good insight. Marry for the sake of LOVE which is very paramount.

Anonymous said...

I concur... unfortunately I married because of one or two things above and I'm getting the consequences. Nothing kills a woman faster than knowing he has a cheater and bully as a husband. One day e go beta

Unknown said...

God bless you plenty Dumelo 4 dis lovely piece. I hope d single ones out there would adhere. Linda take note!

9ja Parrot said...

Can there be love without money?

Unknown said...

My opinion too.

cleo said...

True talk

*Dee* said...

Well said

Unknown said...

tanks for d advice.

Anonymous said...

Very true John!Good Advice For Us Ladies.

Unknown said...

He is right tho

Anonymous said...

I guess he is getting pressures now...well it's any man 4 his life.

Prophetess chimdi said...

Isokay John but help me tell Joseph Benjamin that I love him. Can lay my life down for him. Linda help me.

Unknown said...

MR EDDY said this harmattan is sponsored by MTN. It is everywhere u go.

He's so on point.
^
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^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~wishes u happy new year.

ary said...

#SomedayIWillGetMarried

Unknown said...

Nice one,there is no hurry in life,he said the whole truth,some babes wanna marry cuz their friends are all married,see u going to #HELL#

Anonymous said...

True talk man....

Unknown said...

He is right shaa but how can someone u luv makes u smile wen the love is no more? Someone shld plz explain it for me.

Unknown said...

He is right tho

Anonymous said...

Perfect statement.

Anonymous said...

True talk man....

Beautiful wifey said...

U are right.

Unknown said...

True!

winniekoko said...

Thank GOD he is still single! Am coming Johnny u most marry me. Dumelo my boo of life

Unknown said...

His right.

Unknown said...

hmmmmmm...True talk....... It all bores dan to LOVE..





Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....

Anonymous said...

Well said sha!!! dee

Davido's driver said...

Now i wont marry at all

Anonymous said...

Okay.
Love or Trust, Trust is much more important than Love. If someone loves me, it is more of that person’s business than mine.  But if the same person trusts me, it places a duty on me to live up to that trust. In other words, Trust challenges one to reciprocate; Love might not always do that.....what's that ISSUE that gives you sleepless night in your relationship? Its time you talk to someone.
For your relationship issues and psychological counseling halla at
Petersonconsultant@yahoo.com
Or add up on 27FCBFBE for one on one conversation.

OSINANL said...

True talk...

Unknown said...

one thing I knw is dat love grows..dumelo or wateva u are called it's hard to get exactly wat u stated here..If u are a guy u can wait but ladies don't hav dat much time....................................#KingOfKings #6God

Unknown said...

Wow!!! This is so swt nd touching... I support it o

Unknown said...

Good one true talk

Anonymous said...

True words

Unknown said...

Gbam!...True talk John Dumelo

Unknown said...

True talk! Most ppl dat are married are not even happy coz dey married for d wrong reasons + marriage is not like dating

GALORE said...

Hmmm....."When that love is no more,he/she can still make u smile"

So true my brother




"Heaven on earth!!!!!Wonders without end,that's my new realm"




@Galore

Unknown said...

He's definitely right!

Is Real said...

Are you serious? so john is not married. hmmm just wondering what he is waiting for after all this money

Unknown said...

True

Unknown said...

In a nutshell, don't marry for the wrong reasons. I love this guy. Very well said.

Unknown said...

Hehehe!!@Someday I'll get married!! Issokay!

John said...

And what is LOVE?

lgho said...

I agree wit him...nice one :-)

yetty said...

#word.Nice one

Unknown said...

I've read this before a friend sent it to me! Nice one for single ladies like us.

Unknown said...

sure those reasons are definetelly not worth it nice one !!! JC

Unknown said...

TUE TALK..

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DON RICHIE SAID SO VIA TECNO

Anonymous said...

True talk...





Watch and pray for the evil days are here

mimi said...

someday you will get married to yvonne Nelson. Next!

Unknown said...

Umm..cool stuf

Unknown said...

Nice one. People should marry cos of love and not to please people.
$.
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@Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

felicia said...

well said john

elovi said...

Sooooooo true

Mma said...

supported by me

Ngstello said...

True talk...

Unknown said...

Gbam

Unknown said...

Nice one John

ebonyz... said...

lol!!! Thanks John. This simply implies you and Yvonne as per best friends will get married abi? Lolzz, just kidding

Unknown said...

On point

DeeD25 said...

Nice one!! this message needs go be passed around ALL of Nigeria!!! #PreachJohn

Unknown said...

True

Anonymous said...

Linda dont mislead us with title coz people think he's saying one should NEVER get married.

Marriage is a blissful thing once you make the right choice. We are designed for companionship and no human is never truly complete without a life partner.

Catwalk With Pat said...

Bless you John

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Unknown said...

Hmmmmm!!! Nice one.


@Sophia Stephen

Ijay said...

Well said.

Unknown said...

My dear forget all this sentiments, we are africans and no matter how hard we try to disput dat fact we still remain africans. My dear fall in love and marry don't wait until u turn to metuseller before u find the friend u are talking abt.

Anonymous said...

Linda...wetin u dey always do with my comments? Plz tell me o

Unknown said...

Linda hope this guy is not encouraging u to remain single?? Ur mates done marry finish oooo. If u like u post my comment I no send. Hahahhahhaa

Unknown said...

Linda hope this guy is not encouraging u to remain single?? Ur mates done marry finish oooo. If u like u post my comment I no send. Hahahhahhaa

King Jaja said...

Then do you get marry? if not for one of this. Love? i guess he's talking about emotions. Love is about you (1cor13) not the other person...Love is patient,kind,not proud etc. When you become this you get love too.What u give is what u get. Emotions too changes or fail but love is about your character. Bros go marry and stop looking for "love".

Unknown said...

#Basic Mindz...

Unknown said...

Truth, nicely said.. I join #somedayiwouldgetmarried.

Unknown said...

This is something everybody already knows na..
#walksaway#

Unknown said...

Linda, this ur caption is misleading.


@Sophia Stephen

Gozman Kumboto said...

U are right Dumelo but u are talking of the ideal world. The reality is that ppl marry for one if not all the wrong reasons u mentioned above and even u too will suit when u wake up. Marriage is not a destination but a journey my friend.

Unknown said...

I agree wif him tho

chinonye said...

nice one

Unknown said...

Words of wisdom.

dansignature said...

I support d term #somedayiwillgetmarried

dansignature said...

I support d term #somedayiwillgetmarried

dansignature said...

I support d term #somedayiwillgetmarried

Unknown said...

She's your best friend and when that love is no more, she can still make you smile.. Yvonne Nelson

Adeagbo Kabir said...

This one is not serious. You will ever remain single if you are setting those criteria.

Reeshahr said...

True talk

Ayomide said...

" Admire every wedding gown you see" got me laughing true tho!


#That happy sister

Unknown said...

The guy made sense. I totally agreed with him 100%.



Busy Fingers.

Marburg said...

well said! so true.

Anonymous said...

..hmmmmmmmm... true that!

Inside Out said...

Correct

KEVIN ABOSI UPDATES said...

Noted. You can visit my blog http://www.kevinabosi.blogspot.com

Unknown said...

There you go..

Unknown said...

Make u day there till 60 b4 u marry

Unknown said...

okay, seen. Nice advise

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
.
Lord knws i will marry bcos i admire someone....
.
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Vincent said...

I total agree....

Anonymous said...

Saw this on instagram yesterday...someone who's never been married is not in a place to give advice on marriage. While I agree that marrying your best friend comes first, it's certainly no guarantee of having a successful and long marriage. There are just no guarantees out there unless you suck it up!

Unknown said...

The reality is, one marries from one the reasons he listed as "don't". Guess he is talking to people that are doing boy friend and girl friend, and contemplating.

Shalom in Nigeria, Amen.

Anonymous said...

John is not making any since

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmm so true don't get married for others, get married to someone dat can make u smile for d rest of ur years

Anonymous said...

True

Anonymous said...

For once, the advice isn't coming from some highly flawed cornball directing cheesy advice only at women. Like women always need advice on love matters and men don't. *Eye roll*

baggwell said...

Hmmm nice one

Unknown said...

God bless u bro. Bt mk sure u define that love.

Ruthcindy said...

Dats my boy talking! U're on point jor!

Unknown said...

Yes! Yes! Nice one

Unknown said...

people who presurize ladies to get married una don hear?

Deariecutebridals said...

Hmm marry ur best friend. "Without superVision vision fails"

Anonymous said...

John is not making since

Unknown said...

2 some extend i agree

win said...

So very true. Hope we learn from this. Nobody knows it all.

Unknown said...

He is right,I just love dis guy,he is always on point

Unknown said...

Nice talk

Mzz_Mary said...

Gud

iyke cindy said...

Nice one......love is d ansa...

Miss Ferragamo said...

Ok papa!

Mz G said...

Dats the FACT

shaakaaraa said...

Pls come n marry me.

Starginchy says said...

nice 1

Pere jay said...

Thanks Dumelo, you have really help me with this piece. Linday find way post ma comment.

fab zinny said...

Aww, dis is so right.

Anonymous said...

Word!!!!
Iya $tainl£$$

nwafor Chizzy said...

On point!!

Unknown said...

True talk

Anonymous said...

John Dumelo is a very intelligent man, people should get married for the right reasons jare, there are a lot of men and women suffering in bad marriages, God help them all!!! Whizman

Unknown said...

Hmmmm anyways . Mary because you are perfectly matched and can tolerate each other

Anonymous said...

John am here for you...I can.be your love and best friend

amakandidi said...

so on point

Roxanna said...

My crush of life

Juleslouis said...

Gbam. Tell them. Some ladies just walk into fire with their eyes open just cuz they need a home and a change of name.

Unknown said...

Thx hes talking to me... bcos I m gonna marry for love and for God. It makes sense jawe

Unknown said...

GOOD TALK

tayo said...

frank talk!!! #thumbs up#

Anonymous said...

Y should one marry...abeg na something go push person...if u dey wait for all the criteria u go dey single till after life ooo....

Unknown said...

Everybody dey shout true talk true talk...... So una no bin know before? Monkey.

Unknown said...

Makes a lot of sense

Unknown said...

Oya marry Yvonne Nelson

Anonymous said...

Hmm,true talk

Subomi said...

best!!!! and most meaningful lil piece I have read in a very very very long time.

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