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Sunday, 16 February 2014

Nigerians said 'No' to sex this Val unless there's a ring on the finger - Christians.ng sex survey

Valentine's Day and love is in the air. Flowers, cards, chocolates.... Sex? Christians.ng, Nigeria's No.1 online dating site for Christian singles to meet their soulmates, put the question to Nigerians during this romantic period - "Is sex before marriage ever acceptable?"

Nigerians answered in their thousands on this hot topic. It was a controversial question - one that sparked a lot of debate and discussion. And today, Christians.ng can reveal that the answer is no. 68% of Nigerians say that sex before marriage is wrong and that it is a sin. 

That being said, 52% of them did admit to having sex outside of the Holy union of marriage. And it seems that Nigerians are a forgiving people as well - even though they believe sex outside of marriage is a sin, 89% of them would marry a non-virgin. God loves us sinners! Continue...


Christians.ng final question was: Is sex outside of marriage for Christians a sin? 93% of Nigerians said YES. 

If you're a single Christian living in Lagos, looking to meet someone who has the same beliefs and religious convictions as you, in a safe and secure online environment, now is the time to visit www.christians.ng 

Good luck with finding God's match for you on www.christians.ng - next Valentine's Day could be your biggest and best yet!

94 comments:

Unknown said...

Linda na lieeeeeeeeeeeee. All na wash.. Nigerians To Say NO to SEX lai lai... Not Possible!!

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BONARIO NNAGS said...

Am for sex after marriage.
Will teach my children that.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Anonymous said...

Linda you should visit this online site 4 urself to find d perfect man. Am praying u find the perfect man this 2014 who will walk u down the aisle. Amen

AnnMarie said...

And 52% from from the 68% are guilty of the offence. body no be fire wood

Opelicious said...

Hmmmm. That's a good one!

Unknown said...

hehehe nice piece of innovation..
buh sorry to dissapoint im with the other way round o...*kill me*

Anonymous said...

dats a good development. i hope they got their facts right.







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Emeka Philips said...

I agree that it is a sin but that does not mean that they do not indulge in it. Jut saying

Bonita Bislam said...

Lol what a witty advert.The statistics seems accurate and only portrays further the bible passage that said "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak"

Unknown said...

Well done is better than well said. It doesn't matter if they said "no" and did otherwise.

~~Success Has No Limitation~~

Anonymous said...

LindaBody Nor Be WOOD

tuffcookiey said...

Sex b4 marriage is bad.. but I still prefer to check wht im buying and spending the rest of my life wit... God forgive me.

Anonymous said...


hypocrites, Africa will remain d same until we put an end to hypocrisy. we r all sinners, both virgins n non virgins. God will judge all dt have twisted his words for money.

Anonymous said...

Yes Ooooooooooooooo

Mrs E said...

Dear linda, hope you've signed up? You should be their number. Customer! Good luck in finding love

ary said...

That is a tricky question.

sahnzylyn said...

Hmm..this is a very controversial topic. .anyway the truth is that most nigerians especially the ladies tend to shy away from this topic but it doesn't change the fact that most young people indulge in premarital sex..

Anonymous said...

hmmm....I fear oh...I wont blame them them because girls are becoming lord of the rings..for the perfect work from home job visit..www.sfi1.biz/13754838

Unknown said...

Story story = story

('-_-) IMPRESSION said...

Especially if u're a lady and your intention is to get a serious relationship that could result in marriage, NEVER EVER try online dating! It's a waste of time; full of dubious, mere fun seeking wolves, looking for lambs to slaughter. Whether it's a Christian or Muslim dating site, it's full of deceitful married men who are looking for easy access to unsuspecting ladies. I've tried it many many times and my friends have similar experiences too. This is Africa, don't compare us with whites. Be wise!

Igor said...

Sex before marriage a sin ? This message will continue fall on deaf ears (mine inclusive) when the norm this days is pregnancy/ baby mama first before. marriage.

dee said...

Nice 1

Unknown said...

Is good but some of them will still ask for it before marriage

Anonymous said...

I would marry a non virgin over a virgin!!!

Alloy Chikezie said...

Abstinence is the surest way! So "No to sex before marriage"


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Anonymous said...

Though it's difficult but no sex without marriage . God condemns it.

FDJ said...

Noted

Desmond 2 d G said...

Okey

Unknown said...

Kikikiki !!!if i hear !story !dey'd b surprised how birth rate will rise by dz year endin all tanks to val..

Unknown said...

Have u registered on d site Linda?

Unknown said...

Hmmm, See msg, very easy to read but hard to practise. Okay nah, we don hear ooO. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Anonymous said...

Bia Linda, why can't replies to comments appear directly below the comment? It's more interesting that way than reading all the way done and trying to figure out who's replying who. Pls let me know if it's a setting or if it's your fault. Thanks

Anonymous said...

Most Nigerians r hypocrite.....MineRhoda

Anonymous said...

Nid a serious yoruba lady, workin class /God fearing, based in lagos(btw 26-28yrs old) kindly add me; 25DFE01F. God bliss us

sunday otuns said...

Is it only the guyz that enjoys sex?As if you dont finger yaself or use vibrators if guyz didnt smooch you for 1 month.
@ladies.

Anonymous said...

Linda my so called bf doesn't care, from wht he displays anyways. He says he rele does but I doubt cuz he doesn't call, he doesn't text, or even want to knw hw am faring and worst case is dt we dnt stay togedr in d same city in Nigeria. In ma mind av so moved on cuz after I confronted him abt it, he promised ro change buh none is coming. I can't keep on calling him. Am tall, beautiful, shapy and intelligent to be treated dis way. I dnt even want a boyfriend anymore sef. Am believing God for a life partner. Libers just felt like sharing...if uv bin in ma shoes, u wil understand.

Adorable Jewel said...

Dis info came verrryyy late cos i've already said yes!! To sex two days ago

Unknown said...

What an interesting survey.

babyboiynk said...

Ok noted
Ynk

Anonymous said...

Let them go have sit jor is not saying is the problem but putting it into pratice is what matter the most, for we the ladies we really agree to "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" but 95% of Nigerian guys can not put it into pratice

Anonymous said...

I support d move but can dey keep 2 their Promise? Am sure 80% of 9ja single babes had sex or touchingston. L̳̿Ö̤̣̇☺ː̗̀(=)))ː̖́☺Ö̤̣̇L̳̿.

Danny Csi said...

We all knw the truth b4 nao....buh d truth bitter die........................

Anonymous said...

Ebenebe...

Anonymous said...

Why no sex damm guys is not going to agree #bright bravo#

Anonymous said...

I second that!!! Ladies shine ur eyes oh. No sex...till he puts a ring on it

Unknown said...

Na lieee ooooo.i chop like 6babes dis Val oooo.i even get luck self,1 na vergin self without no ring

pwitie B said...

Making sense atleast it wil reduce illegitimate kids baby mama biz wil reduce drastically lol

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm abeg are dey only in lagos? Looking for my missing rib in the church abeg.

Anonymous said...

Wel, we all no d@ is a sin b4 God, sex b4 marriage, bt even if I wil abide in dis rule not 4 u aunty linda, abi I lie? Ceceeboi says so..

Harnikky said...

Ok º°˚˚°ºoo .......

Ceeflo said...

Lol,this site would soon be a Badoo or eskimi in no time

You can't change the culture...

If may ask, who are the "Christian" brothers and sisters?

Their self acclaimed stand... Is it gonna be stamped on Their reproductive organs?

Well,nice initiative nd in between I'm a Christian brother,lol

last baby said...

Say big NO to see before marriage

Anonymous said...

Dafe etibo God punish u!

Anonymous said...

See d small boobs used for no sex b4 marriage
~D great anonymous!

Unknown said...

Wow...am moved by the Christian values we,Nigerians,have.
niceeee

Anonymous said...

Yes dats a very good move to cause d changes we want to see in our society. No sex,no unwanted pregnancy,A better tomorrow for everyone! Say no to sex b4 marriage today!!!

Anonymous said...

is a well cum development buh i'm sex addict wot shld i do plsss #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY

Anonymous said...

WE ALL KNOW NIGERIANS LIKE TO PRETEND..

Anonymous said...

WE ALL KNOW NIGERIANS LIKE TO PRETEND..

Unknown said...

Dafe af played fast one on u abi? Lol

Anonymous said...

Linda said "Us sinners" == Linda is not a virgin, who is the guy *wink*

Anonymous said...

ANO..!!!BETA STAT NW B4 ITS 2 L8.GOD BLES U

Anonymous said...

U R CRAZY.KIP ON SHARING D KURSES&BLESSINGS PLACED ON DOSE GULS.UR LYF EN.

Unknown said...

bfl

Bike Packing Blog said...

These things can never work in Naija. Nigerians have beautiful laws but poor implementation. So will be same for this

Unknown said...

bfl

Visages Parfait said...

May God help us!

Adorable Jewel said...

Dats good ....leaders shuld as well lead by example and not hypocritically***

Anonymous said...

Omo oba u kno get sense c as u com for public dey tel people hw stupid u re "idiot". Linda abeg post my comment

Anonymous said...

U should be ashame of yourself!

Lucille said...

D ladies can keep to dis rules but I swear 90% of our Nigerian guys r. Sex maniac, when it comes ladies can control demselves compared to guys... Guys abi na lie talk cos if God wants 2 punish us 4 d sin of fornication he will start 4rm d guys cos dey can't control their sexual urge...

Iyke Okereke said...

IS SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE SIN?! IMAGINE! Imagine! IS MURDER SIN?. WHAT IF THE WHOLE WORLD SAYS NO ITS NOT! Would that make it right? HAS GOD NOT SAID SINCE IN HIS WORD THAT ITS SIN to have sex outside of marriage & before marriage. & WE ARE STILL DEBATING IT!. ALL THESE INSTRUCTIONS ARE FOR OUR OWN SAFETY AND WELL BEING. THINK CAREFULLY ABOUT THIS. GOD WANTS US TO HAVE FUN, HE PUT THOSE DESIRES IN US & HE HAS PLANNED THAT THE SAFEST PLACE FOR SEX IS IN MARRIAGE. CASES OF STDS, BROKEN HOMES, CHILDREN BORN OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGES, SCARRED & MAIMED HEARTS, COUNTLESS SPIRITUAL CONTAMINATIONS WOULD BE ALMOST NON-EXISTENT IF PEOPLE STUCK ONLY TO THEIR MARRIAGE PARTNERS.

Unknown said...

Wht did Dafe Etibo do to u ?

Anonymous said...

How did u do it? Na wao!!!

Amarachukwu. said...

That's the truth.

Unknown said...

I pray oh.. imagine say dey give yu free suya for val yu go deny???? enjoy guys...

Anonymous said...

I know a lot of ladies that have jump from one relationship to the other on the basis of self acclaimed love which they don't know is Lust..au can a single gal that has slept with at least 5 men including married men claim is love and still say and flaunt righteousness in church.. No wonder they keep wandering about..but 4 u Linda u are a decent gal and I wish dota single gals can follow suit

Unknown said...

You wan kill person ni... after some #Alomo in the blood and she don take some barbeque and Andre.... NO i disagree ooooooo abeg no fall our hand oooo (*LOL* LMFAO*)

Anonymous said...

WE NID 2 STOP DS,ALTHOU 1CE BN A VICTIM OF DS BAD OMEN.WARNING TO YOUTHS AVE D FEAR GOD,ENOF OF S** KOZ NDIRETLY SHARIN BOT BLESINS&CURSES OF D SIN PARTNER INVOLVED.GOD LOVES DS GENERATION&DOESNT WANT US 2 PERISH.BE BLESSED.

Unknown said...

no sex... whooooooooo linda


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Unknown said...

D truth s reli beta nd dts Gods standard...its a no 2 sex b4 marriage!

Anonymous said...

GEJ, if you like, ascend to the 7th Heaven and worship in Araboth (In the palace of Zoharariel YHVH), you will be ruling Otueke Community Development come 2015. We will not be swayed by your ogogoro antics the second time. No amount of religious sentiments you & your shepopotamus may whip up will bring you back to Asorock come 2015. As for the gluttons & covetous criminals parading themselves as anointed men of God, desecrating the house of God with ritualists like Jonathan as if they're not aware of his ritual blood bath every forthnight - your judgment is around the corner. Useless Hypocrites!

zoharariel@aol.com

Anonymous said...

I support but its nt easy to adhere to.MineRhoda.
Linda pls post my comment

Anonymous said...

No sex before marriage,I admit but M̶̲̥̅̊y̶̲̥̅̊ question can a girl behavly to hold herself b4 marriage?

Anonymous said...

Dis is not God's word!
Shane.Logan@ulsterrugby.com

Anonymous said...

Shame on You. Believe in God!
Shane.Logan@ulsterrugby.com

Anonymous said...

Bliss?! Hmmm... While you're getting your girl get an english teacher too.. #Goodluck.

Anonymous said...

I refused t go out wit d guy iv been sleepin wt on vals day cos he has always treated me like im not special nor does he luv me.His actions twd me always contradict his words twd me.Well who am i t blame him?Afteral i was d one who settled for less.No more sex til marriage 4 me.God wil help we single ladies hwevr we need t all wisen up too.

Unknown said...

Common fool isnt common dats wat u r. Sexual mumu

Anonymous said...

Sex before marriage is an interesting topic. God condemns it in all religions but let us face reality. How many of us do practice it. for smart ladies, sex before marriage won't be to their detriment because they are still in control irrespective of it. Ladies shine your eyes o, guys are selfish people. love yourself above all.

Unknown said...

heheheh lets go there!!!!

PAVOUR said...

Lili u re flying high gal. Everyone around me during val was on LIB and its like do u read here too? Lol

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Idiots....
I have never seen more stupid people than folks who think that by shouting "down with sex before wedding night," people will stop being ordinary people....
It is like telling me not to visit the toilet unless I am at home...

MRS OHIO ERANKO said...

I THINK IT IS BETTER, NOT TO JUST HAVE SEX WITH NOBODY, AND BOTH OF YOU SHOULD GO FOR TEST,

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