Dear LIB readers: How do I leave one brother for another?
From a female LIB reader
This is not a made up story believe me. For over two years I was constantly praying to meet my dream man and it finally happened but it happened in the most bizarre manner. I met this really nice looking dude at shoprite Lagos about a month ago and I really liked him and was considering dating him but then he invited him to his friend's child naming ceremony just last week and I met his older brother. His older brother is my dream man. Since I met him I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. The worst or best part is that he is single and was even telling me to hook him with any single female friend of mine. How do I tell this guy I am interested in him when he already thinks I'm his younger brother's girlfriend? I'm not! I've only been out a few times with his brother and only kissed him twice, no sex, no intimacy, none of that stuff but I don't know what his brother has told him about me.
Please I need your candid advise, I want this guy so bad but how do I get him? And who should I open up to first about how I feel, my friend or his brother?
Tell one of your friend to approach him and hint him that she thinks you have feelings for him and get his reaction. If he tells your friend that he knows you are a friend ti his younger brother, your friend should then let him know that between you and his younger, there is nothing. If he considers you, then you can make the move. However, you must use a trusted friend.
Its either you move out of the relationship and wait for another man or you continue with the person you re with. but this feelings cant die easily, so you better quit. but opening up can never work. Same brother you called them? It cant well.
THIS IS D WRONGEST PLACE TO ASK FOR ALL THESE ADVICES..HALF OF THE COMMENTERS END UP JUDGING YOU AND INSULTING U..THE REST CAN'T SPEAK PROPER ENGLISH OR SPEAK THEIR LANGUAGES.....SHEESH
If you r not ok with what u've got,I advise u find ur way.for him to take u home,u knw wut dat means talk more of kissin him twice.brothers are nt just friends u know.
The way I see it is...gurl tells younger bro, younger bro tells elder bro,elder bro agrees, n girl jumps into bed,elder bro has is way with her,dumps her,gurl get all heart broken n runs †̥ younger bro 4 consollin,one tin led to anoda, gurl gets laid, younger bro dumps the bitch!!!...she got served as simple as mummy I want to drink garri
OK HERE IS THE DEAL, YOU DONT HAVE A DREAM MAN, INFACT YOU DONT DESERVE ANY OF THEM. YOU PRAYED FOR YOUR DREAM MAN YET YOU FALL FOR HIS BROTHER FIRST IMPATIENT WOMAN. AGAIN YOU KISS A MAN TWICE AND YOU SAID NO INTIMACY, I NEED TO PRAY FOR YOU SERIOUSLY, YOU ARE SAYING THIS BECAUSE YOU ARE YET TO MEET HIS TWIN BROTHER BECAUSE THEN THEY BECOME 3 DREAM MEN FOR YOU ALONE. INFIDELITY IS A TREE THAT BREAKS RELATIONSHIPS WITH ITS BRANCHES AND WHAT YOU ARE DOING NOW IS THE SEED THAT LL GROW INTO THAT TREE. WELCOME TO THE FAMILY OF FINE BOYS! YOU MY DEAR WONT SURVIVE IN THAT FAMILY BECAUSE THE WAY YOU SOUND YOU LL FIND THEIR FATHER ATTRACTIVE SOMEDAY. WHAT MAKES A GUY YOU MEET ONCE AT A FUNCTION YOUR DREAM MAN? BECAUSE HE IS SINGLE AND WANT YOU TO HOOK HIM UP? ALL OF A SUDDEN HE IS BETTER THAN THE ONE YOU KISSED TWICE. GROW A PAIR MY LOVE, THERE IS NO CONTEMPLATION HERE IT IS CLEAR YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. AND SOMEBODY BETTER HELP THIS YOUNG MAN QUICK NOT TO PUT HIS EMOTION ON A WOMAN THAT FALLS FOR HIS BROTHER AT FIRST SIGHT BECAUSE SHE LL MARRY HIS COUSIN NEXT. YOU NEED HELP MY DEAR AND THAT HAS TO START BY YOU SORTING YOUR HEAD OUT FIRST BCOS YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. IM OUTTA HERE --MALCOM
Believe me, in a scenario like this, you either stay with the first guy or end up losing both. the second guy will never respect and cherish you.As a matter of fact,it will cause problem between the two brothers and you will be seen as a devil.
What makes you feel you won't bump into another again after kissing this one, there are no angels, go slow and allow your heart and especially the truth of (God's) word guide you. Most what we all dream partners are actually agents of hell in disguise.
Excuse me. The first time you met the younger brother, he was your dream guy. You met the elder brother, he was your dream guy again. Sorry is it the same dream? Lol. These days ladies don't know what they want. Fact is that you don't deserve any of them....dreamer
You are just a bastard.To kiss means nothing to you,so to have s**x with anybody,anywhere etc will mean nothing to you idiot.Like somebody said,you will see all his family members and want to have them,greedy animal.God will punish you by not having any of the beloved brothers.Go to hell,ugly girl.The guys are more beautiful than you as a lady.Sweet and handsome booboos.
Babe, the fact that he said u should introduce him to ur single friend doesn't mean he is not seeing anybody. Most guys say that jokingly. Moreover, you are setting yourself for a great trap. Shine ur eye, the guy might not like u. You ve kissed the younger brother twice,wat else is intimacy? life don baje. Linda, post my comment ooo
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 226 of 226Tell one of your friend to approach him and hint him that she thinks you have feelings for him and get his reaction. If he tells your friend that he knows you are a friend ti his younger brother, your friend should then let him know that between you and his younger, there is nothing. If he considers you, then you can make the move. However, you must use a trusted friend.
Its either you move out of the relationship and wait for another man or you continue with the person you re with. but this feelings cant die easily, so you better quit. but opening up can never work. Same brother you called them? It cant well.
THIS IS D WRONGEST PLACE TO ASK FOR ALL THESE ADVICES..HALF OF THE COMMENTERS END UP JUDGING YOU AND INSULTING U..THE REST CAN'T SPEAK PROPER ENGLISH OR SPEAK THEIR LANGUAGES.....SHEESH
stay with your luck,simple
stay with your luck
I wish dere ws a like button,dats exactly wah apens 2me most of d tym
U can eat ur cake nd av it dear
u will only lose in both ways
ARGH! Never keep it in the family please. DO NOT tear that peaceful family apart. DO NOT!
If you r not ok with what u've got,I advise u find ur way.for him to take u home,u knw wut dat means talk more of kissin him twice.brothers are nt just friends u know.
The way I see it is...gurl tells younger bro, younger bro tells elder bro,elder bro agrees, n girl jumps into bed,elder bro has is way with her,dumps her,gurl get all heart broken n runs †̥ younger bro 4 consollin,one tin led to anoda, gurl gets laid, younger bro dumps the bitch!!!...she got served as simple as mummy I want to drink garri
OK HERE IS THE DEAL, YOU DONT HAVE A DREAM MAN, INFACT YOU DONT DESERVE ANY OF THEM. YOU PRAYED FOR YOUR DREAM MAN YET YOU FALL FOR HIS BROTHER FIRST IMPATIENT WOMAN. AGAIN YOU KISS A MAN TWICE AND YOU SAID NO INTIMACY, I NEED TO PRAY FOR YOU SERIOUSLY, YOU ARE SAYING THIS BECAUSE YOU ARE YET TO MEET HIS TWIN BROTHER BECAUSE THEN THEY BECOME 3 DREAM MEN FOR YOU ALONE. INFIDELITY IS A TREE THAT BREAKS RELATIONSHIPS WITH ITS BRANCHES AND WHAT YOU ARE DOING NOW IS THE SEED THAT LL GROW INTO THAT TREE. WELCOME TO THE FAMILY OF FINE BOYS! YOU MY DEAR WONT SURVIVE IN THAT FAMILY BECAUSE THE WAY YOU SOUND YOU LL FIND THEIR FATHER ATTRACTIVE SOMEDAY. WHAT MAKES A GUY YOU MEET ONCE AT A FUNCTION YOUR DREAM MAN? BECAUSE HE IS SINGLE AND WANT YOU TO HOOK HIM UP? ALL OF A SUDDEN HE IS BETTER THAN THE ONE YOU KISSED TWICE. GROW A PAIR MY LOVE, THERE IS NO CONTEMPLATION HERE IT IS CLEAR YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. AND SOMEBODY BETTER HELP THIS YOUNG MAN QUICK NOT TO PUT HIS EMOTION ON A WOMAN THAT FALLS FOR HIS BROTHER AT FIRST SIGHT BECAUSE SHE LL MARRY HIS COUSIN NEXT. YOU NEED HELP MY DEAR AND THAT HAS TO START BY YOU SORTING YOUR HEAD OUT FIRST BCOS YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. IM OUTTA HERE --MALCOM
Chucks - You have made the one sensible/structured comment thus far. As for the seeker of advice, I think Chucks has said it all.
Believe me, in a scenario like this, you either stay with the first guy or end up losing both. the second guy will never respect and cherish you.As a matter of fact,it will cause problem between the two brothers and you will be seen as a
devil.
What makes you feel you won't bump into another again after kissing this one, there are no angels, go slow and allow your heart and especially the truth of (God's) word guide you. Most what we all dream partners are actually agents of hell in disguise.
this babe you are a slut... dont let the fam curse you oh
anonymous 10:33 am.. so i see how you wage war in families... its alright now
My dear,don't just try it.continue with the one you av kissed because try to express yourself to the elder brother U̶̲̥̅̊ might loose both.
Babe,u nid 2 speak 2 urself.den go into a strong prayers n fasting. For God 2 review d rite person.Girlie marriage no b beanz.ooooo.
Excuse me. The first time you met the younger brother, he was your dream guy. You met the elder brother, he was your dream guy again. Sorry is it the same dream? Lol. These days ladies don't know what they want. Fact is that you don't deserve any of them....dreamer
Greedy fool. well tell d elder one you are into him. it doesnt matter cos you ll eventually lose both.
Queen bee u are quite demented! Are u GOD? Hoow dare u!. U that got drunk cos u bf dumped u. Mshew
Lovely! And I was looking for inspiration for my new story...I just got it. Thanks.
You are just a bastard.To kiss means nothing to you,so to have s**x with anybody,anywhere etc will mean nothing to you idiot.Like somebody said,you will see all his family members and want to have them,greedy animal.God will punish you by not having any of the beloved brothers.Go to hell,ugly girl.The guys are more beautiful than you as a lady.Sweet and handsome booboos.
Babe, the fact that he said u should introduce him to ur single friend doesn't mean he is not seeing anybody. Most guys say that jokingly. Moreover, you are setting yourself for a great trap. Shine ur eye, the guy might not like u. You ve kissed the younger brother twice,wat else is intimacy? life don baje. Linda, post my comment ooo
oooo ooooo Hoo hoooe
JUST BETTER TO RESPECT URSELF, U KNW GET SHAME ATLEAST U KISSED D BROTHER B4 COMMON NAU LOOK ELSEWHERE
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