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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

A Hubby Starved Of Sex For 6 Years Seeks Divorce

 
A vulcaniser has asked an Otto-Ijanikin Customary Court, Lagos, Southwest Nigeria to dissolve his marriage to his wife because she starved him of sex for six years. (Couple above)

The petitioner, Akinwale Ayinde Sodiq, accused his wife, Kashimawo, of starving him of sex since he was involved in an accident six years ago.

When I confronted her, she bluntly told me that my half-dead manhood can no longer satisfy her, it only tickles and leaves her high and dry.
Mr Akinwale, WTH do you want a woman to do with a penis that tickles? Lol! Not to laugh at him (God forgive me) it's just so funny...telling your husband - your penis only tickles me, get the heck out of here with that shit! lol. Callous woman!...:-) Continue reading...



He told the court that the accident which paralysed parts of his body, including his manhood prevented him from being able to satisfy his wife sexually and this led her into engaging in extra marital affairs.
The tragic incident, according to him, occurred in June 2005 while they were travelling to his home town in Oyo State. The divorce-seeking husband narrated amidst uncontrollable tears, the rejection and anguish he went through in the hands of his wife.

Recounting how it all began, the father of four narrated: ’’I got married to Kashimawo at 26 just like every other man. Although I wouldn’t say our marriage was rosy because there is nothing like a perfect marriage, but we resolved our minor quarrels amicably. In the course of our living together, I observed that my wife likes money too much. She is easily carried away by material things.

“Trouble began in 2005 when we were involved in a ghastly road accident on our way to my home town. After the accident, I lost consciousness but was revived days later. Later, I discovered that some parts of my body were seriously affected. I couldn’t move my legs and hands. After my discharge from the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, LUTH, I was taken to a local bone healer for treatment,” he said.

“When I returned from the hospital, my wife worsened my predicament by making life uneasy for me. She was fighting me always over minor issues. Anytime any of the children tried to intervene, she would beat the hell out of him or her.

“The most recent fight she had was with our last born, a 15-year old girl. Yemisi confronted her for daring to hit me and a big fight ensued. Not satisfied with beating the girl, Kashimawo went ahead and set the girl’s clothes ablaze.”

Sodiq told the court that the most painful part of his experience was his inability to have sex due to the damage of his manhood caused by the road mishap.

But luckily for him, he disclosed that he started feeling a bit of life in his pelvic region as the bone healer kept massaging his body. This later resulted into having erections months later. Although a weak one but he was eager to quench that burning desire for sex he had endured for long.

“For the first few months, my wife was responding to my desire for sex. Whenever I felt a little nudge in my manhood, I quickly called on on my wife for a little intimacy. We managed the weak erection to our best satisfaction. But along the line, she started withdrawing and was no longer giving me the attention I sought.

“When I confronted her, she bluntly told me that my half-dead manhood can no longer satisfy her, it only tickles and leaves her high and dry. Consequently she would no longer grant me my conjugal rights. All pleas to make her pity my predicament fell on deaf ears, as she callously insisted on starving me of sex. It is over six years now since I had an erection, not to talk of having sex.

“As if that wasn’t enough, I have been hearing rumours of her illicit romance with other men and sleeping with young boys on our street. Some of them even have the guts to come looking for her in our shop in my presence. Each time I confronted her and her evil deeds, she would abuse me, calling me all sorts of names. I am fed up with everything and can no longer cope.

“Therefore, I urge this court to grant my prayers for the formal dissolution of this marriage to save me from untimely death and help me secure the future of my kids,” he concluded. Responding to the allegations, Mrs. Kashimawo Akinwale accused her husband of being the cause of their marital crisis due to his recent predicament. The middle-aged woman claimed that her husband’s hot temper and suspicions were the obstacles to peace in their home.

“I agree that I have not been satisfying my husband sexually, but he is not helping matters at all. He gets easily irritated and was always angry.

“Based on his problem, his family abandoned him to his fate, but that notwithstanding, I still love my husband,” she told the court.

After listening to both parties, the president of the court, Chief S. K. Hussein tried to broker peace between them but all his efforts were rebuffed, as the petitioner had made up his mind to divorce the woman.

The union was formally dissolved and N28,000 was awarded to the respondent for maintenance. Both parties were advised to maintain the peace.

Source  PM News

34 comments:

For better for worse said...

For better for worse oooo! People forget that with all the excitment to get married...Madam.. you should try and help your hubby out now..
Eyaa.. poor man

Anonymous said...

na wa o! poor dude

meanwhile Linda, guess who is back in town? the one and only Chalya Shagaya. will you do a post on it? id love to see the commenters take on it

mwah.

Anonymous said...

Linda pls this pic look somehow becos i can not idetify d man and d woman. But d man try sha for good six years no sex i go die ooo

How to money online said...

The man too must ..... Him want to enjoy every

Anonymous said...

Love na 4 better 4 worst o. there are other sure ways of both parties complementing each other sexually...Also, i think the accident and inability to satisfy her made him insecure...Love nd Sex...hmmmm

Str8FrmDaHips said...

for once..just lost for words..has he tried the magic blue pill??..of course her engine's being revved up..HARD!!

Anonymous said...

she starved her husband of sex?? Can't say I blame her!

Anonymous said...

No offence, Linda I think u r the bomb.com and everything but still there's got to be more to life. Way too much sex topics going down. If its nt 2face's finger prediction, its Goldie's _____or the gays. Fuck the gays. No one gives a shit.

Anonymous said...

spot the woman lol

chillysauce said...

They look alike. R they gay men?

Etisalat free browsing tweak blog said...

It is a pity that this has to end like this...

Imsu released pre-degree admission list said...

So the man thing only tickle the woman thing? Erh? The woman should have allow the man thing to tickle her, then she should go look for who to...
Never mind, Imsu Pre degree admission list released

Anonymous said...

madam want make conji kill her oga,but why see go close d 'door' for 6 yrs,she don 4get say na d man be d landlord.but anyway am hapi for the man as hm don disolve the marrage,at least his nw a free bird.

Atobatele said...

Ehyah...sorry jare, no sex for 6yrs, ko easy at all. And abeg is she starved of sex also or she's getting screwed outside.

oral and visual soliloquy said...

really sad that people have no patience or the concept of real love anymore.if it was the man that married another wife now they will start saying nigerian men are this and that besides if she really loves the man penetration is not the only way one can enjoy sex,if this was the case why then do we have lesbians?

they should have explored oral stimulation,and other sex aids how many oyinbo can maintain a full erection and even the ones who can do only 1 minute thats why they don't place much emphasis on penetration but the fore plays in variety

bloglord said...

i really do feel for the man...wasnt his fault he had an accident nawww,
n d woman sef???? obviously she is cheating but must she rub it in her hubby's face..imagine her male friends coming to look for her in the shop where she knows her husband would be. life is not always fair.
oga, put ur self together n move on with ur life.

Anonymous said...

Sex is the cheapest thing in Nigeria.This man is surely a stupid man.Why go through divorce and advertise his problem.He can easily marry a younger girl who can bring his sex life back on track.I believe this woman killed his sex life and not the accident.A bad woman is a turn off.The woman looks like a gypsy.

Anonymous said...

Sex is the cheapest thing in Nigeria.This man is surely a stupid man.Why go through divorce and advertise his problem.He can easily marry a younger girl who can bring his sex life back on track.I believe this woman killed his sex life and not the accident.A bad woman is a turn off.The woman looks like a gypsy.

Ronny said...

Heya, poor Man!...Where on earth is Alicia?!hv not been seeing her comment for sometime now...

devour said...

lol

Anonymous said...

You know I don't believe this man. He himself admits to having erectile issues so what kind of sex he wants his wife to have if he has performance issues? Why did he not offer to purchase sex toys so he can give her some form of pleasure? Obviously his mouth and hands are not paralyzed, so why did he not work with what he has working for him? All he cared about was himself because a flaccid penis cannot do anything for a woman's pleasure. He wasn't willing to humble himself and adjust to his new condition. This issue could have been easily resolved if this woman was not reduced to a sex robot to run and satisfy his desires " each time he felt a nudge in the penis."

She's female of course she wants pretty things. Obviously they are not rich ppl, but which man wants to keep a wife and not treat her to the occasional new dress, shoes, or a restaurant meal. It doesn't mean she only cares about material things. Every woman wants to look pretty and feel taken care of by her man.

I wish him and his penis well.

Anonymous said...

Linda, biko,na two men picture dey here. Where the wife own?

Anonymous said...

Why would you wanna have sex wif her anywayz? lmao.. Couldn't even differentiate the man from the woman... lmao..

Anonymous said...

Non sense,she has been starving the man for sex,yet she claims to love him. Hypocrisy...She got what she deserve. Yeye dey smell.

Just Me said...

the man really looks starved.... lol!

Anonymous said...

Anon November 29, 2011 10:45 PM; in your dreams. Linda is friends with "you know who"

Anonymous said...

I am sure that when "it" was working properly, he shared it around very well.
Almost everyone here is feeling sorry for this man. Do you know what that woman has been going thru? A lot of married women suffer in silence under the "for better or worse" vows.
If the roles were reserved, this man would still take the same action and Divorce her.
As perviously stated by someone else, penetration is not the only means, he is just selfish and does not want to make any other effort.

Anonymous said...

November 30, 2011 3:22 PM, ahhhh i see! LMAO.

Linda Ikeji are you biased???

Anonymous said...

Now dat he has divorced her, let me c d girl/woman who will "satisfy" him & remain faithful! Smh.

Anonymous said...

ALL THIS MAN IS TRYING TO DO IS TO SECURE HIS LIFE AND THAT OF HIS 4 CHILDREN..INSTEAD OF YOU ALL TO BRING OUT THE FACT YOU ARE ONLY CONCERNED ABOUT THE SEX IN THE BLOG..YOU PEOPLE ARE MAD ATIMES....THIS WOMAN HAS BEEN DOING SOMETHING BAD OUTSIDE THEIR MARRIAGE.

SHE IS HAS BEEN SEEKING FOR HER OWN SATISFACTION ELSE WHERE EVEN TO THE FACE OF THE HUSBAND.IF IT WAS TO BE THE WOMAN IN THIS SHOE...YOU HYPOCRITE WOULDNT SAY SOMETHING REASONABLE AT ALL..THIS IS NIGERIA AND EVERY ONE OF YOU KNOWS WHAT IS LIKELY TO BECOME THE END OF WOMEN LIKE THIS...SOME BROUGHT MISFORTUNES OR DEATHS DOING THIS IN THEIR MARITAL HOMES.I WANT YOU ALL TO BELIEVE THAT FOR THIS MAN TO TAKE THIS KIND OF STEP HE TRUELY AND HONESTY LOVE AND ADORE HIS WIFE...SOMETIMES CHEATING IS SO HARD TO DO WHERE LOVE EXIST

Anonymous said...

Linda sometimes you sound like a feminist, why is the idea of a woman bluntly telling her husband that his manhood tickles funny to you? In previous posts that involve maltreatment of women, I notice how you seriously cajole and condemn such actions. Why are you then partial to the women folk? If this blog is meant to protect only the rights of women, I think you should mention that in your description to make things clearer to any reader

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