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Tuesday, 29 September 2015

Dear LIB readers; I want to date this girl, but she says no BJ

From a male LIB reader
I fancy a girl and took her out to lunch this weekend. I'm looking to make her my girl but while talking she told me she could never give a man a BJ. She said it's dirty, she has never done it and has no plans to ever do it. Would any guy date a girl who says that to him? And is it possible to ever convince her otherwise?

155 comments:

Unknown said...

Lol

Unknown said...

Mcheeeeeeew! Nonsensical talk. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Mcheeeeeeew! Nonsensical talk. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Mcheeeeeeew! Nonsensical talk. Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

Lol..oo Jesus

Unknown said...

Is bj the reason why your father fancied your mother?


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Unknown said...

She can't give but I'm sure she won't mind u getting down there, mtscheeeeew. Dave

Ada Edwards said...

Just Imagine

Unknown said...

Would you go down on her too?if yes,then you can gradually convince her by showing her that its part of the pleasure of love making when you go down on her.

Unknown said...

Mtschew...gerrarahere mehn! The front and back is better



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AC£S said...

Go find someone else mr man

Anonymous said...

Get a life joor, does your life depend on a BJ? With all the STDs everywhere. D girl shouldn't even give u a second with her. Stupid boy, na una dey spread hepatitis, HIV/AIDS and all manner of STDs everywhere. Stay Off Sex, that's what God said.

Unknown said...

Nonsense. Bj is a dirty thing to do

Unknown said...

Is BJ part of it? Abeg stfu..

Anonymous said...

Only a first date and you people are already talking about BJ?
Umu azi these days! Hian!!!

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Unknown said...

Are u dating her for sexual reasons or cos u love her? When u do things right u will get the best results. Then u can say the end justifies the means.

Unknown said...

Are u dating her for sexual reasons or cos u love her? When u do things right u will get the best results. Then u can say the end justifies the means.

Unknown said...

What do u mean? Guys are so selfish meanwhile most of u cant give a girl head...is it easy? Upon that some no De wash dia scrotum well. Na esi ka akwa ree ere. Onye SAA akpa amu ya mmiri ofuma, enye ya bj.

Unknown said...

I support d gal, u can't force her to do what she doesn't want to do xo live with it ....besides its not all girls that fancy that

Unknown said...

MR BJ, UR ONLY ALLOWED TO COME UP WITH THIS STORY THAT AINT TOUCHY AFTER U MUST HAVE GIVEN HER A HEAD AND SHE REFUSES TO GIVE A BJ...OK?

Naija Inspirational Zone said...

Hit me up and i'll give you a few tips... Bj is not the first thing in a relationship, but it's possible. When you add me, ask your question... when you are satisfied you can delete me. 2C0FE109

Blog It With Olivia said...

Are u looking for sm1 that will be giving u a bj or ur looking for sm1 to date???
If u wanna have fun , there are thousands of prostitutes who wiill give u any kind of bj, up , down , front αи∂ back , just go to them...when ur ready to date , we'd know.
U haven't seen where sm1 did somethn crazy cos of love, so ur brain didn't tell u that if d girl falls inlove with u, she can give bj αи∂ u will even be d one that will be tired.?












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Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

What ur intentions are with the girl determines what u expect of her now. Is she for sex or for love? Let ur intention be honorable, then u will get the best in life and from ur future partner.

Quinn Richie said...

Is the ablilty of a girl to give BJ now a criteria for dating? Weird people

Unknown said...

What ur intentions are with the girl determines what u expect of her now. Is she for sex or for love? Let ur intention be honorable, then u will get the best in life and from ur future partner.

Beausteven said...

Oga you are not ready to date.... If you are ready.... You will know...

Unknown said...

Are u dating her for sexual reasons or cos u love her? When u do things right u will get the best results. Then u can say the end justifies the means.

Unknown said...

Don't mind her.. she is just joking. It's even the ones that say they don't like giving BJ's or don't know how to that end up being professionals.

Anonymous said...

Okpo.... Asked resonable questIon not this nonsence

Unknown said...

If you love her u will date her with or without BJ... Suppose she tells u to suck her p***y will you agree?

Anonymous said...

see. date her.
She will beg for it later.
i once said that to my bf.
now i beg for it

Unknown said...

Bj is a dirty game God created pennis 'for Virginia not for the mouth used. Doing Bj doesn't mean that the girl love you or your wife loves you if it's a thing of interest between two of you that's fine but it's a dirty game.
Some men like it for erection but to be honest it's not a game to be done between a responsible and a reasonable man and woman. When you are doing this thing however let's be decent about it and with it!

Alloy Chikezie said...
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Alloy Chikezie said...

So your basis for a relationship is bj? That's shallow young man.

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Juliet Iwobi said...

Must she suck it???
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OlayinkaSmatt said...

STUPIDITY".. JUS LIKE PEAK...IT'S IN YOU.....

Anonymous said...

Be happy if she even wan to fvk u. BJ is not the end of the world

@joeydapoet said...

no B.J?...bro....move along.

Little_lady_by_Ariel said...

My dear na wash

Anonymous said...

...and that's your problem & condition for dating a girl?! You're half a a man

Anonymous said...

And how do U know it wasn't the reason? LoL

Anonymous said...

Abeg she's lying

Unknown said...

Does your life depend on BJ?
Gerrrrreahhere!

Unknown said...

Madness

Anonymous said...

Wel said....I really dont have words for the mother fucker

Anonymous said...

It's obvious this guy is still a child. Reason why he sent this to a blog confuses me. Child, please grow up! Sex is not food!

Unknown said...

Lol!!! Lwkmd!!!! Lmao I always look forward to reading ur comment.

Unknown said...

A lady is not expected to affirm she can do such on your first date. Save the question for your intimate moment. Dry clean her pussy and be sure she'll do same. Sex is best enjoyed dirty but keep such discussions out of the menu when on a date.

Anonymous said...

Hahaha..you're too funny. No be only onye saa akpa amuya mmiri ofuma

Anonymous said...

You are a fool, I can as well write Linda to help me ask people if my boyfriend should help me have shave my punani or not... Phool

Anonymous said...

Only Village Girls don't give BJ
I get irritated if a girl does not do that however there is hope

Jules said...

Nawa ooo...nothing we no go hear!

Anonymous said...

If she can't do it, respect her opinion and find someone else. Shekina! #repentjesusiscomingsoon

ary said...

So na BJ be criteria for dating now?! Alright

Unknown said...

Dumb fuck...

Unknown said...

But is not by force, let her be pls

Unknown said...

That's why I asked the question. I don't Know.

yawanow said...

channel your mind else where or risk losing your thing. nexttttttttttttttttt

Anonymous said...

Flee Brother

Anonymous said...

Mr man re serious at all, if says no den keep it to urself why post such nonsense,pls Linda take note some lib readers post should be screened posting on air.

Unknown said...

Abeg must u get ur dick sucked? Me as a dude I can neva ask a girl to giv me a bj unless she wants to. Its nothing. If u like her bro a bj shldnt b ur problem

Livvsreamblog said...

Which one be bj again??may God forgive this generation

Unknown said...

Fam, forget her. True story

Anonymous said...

Whille moses i love u so much.nne ibu alobamu oooo nwannemu nwanyi dalu oooo

Anonymous said...

BJ is not luv Mr man.

Anonymous said...

You can as well give yourself BJ. Foolish man

Unknown said...

a girl friend to bj you habba not even a wife, you must be an idiot to think of that. abeg ladies be very carefully of the guy u want to date or dating already.

Anonymous said...

some men are selfish. i once dated a guy, he cud not go down on me but always want me to bj him. is that fair?

Unknown said...

your life did nt depend on bj now olaniyidavid71@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

ode people with stupid question

Unknown said...

Wondering....why does every body here understood vividly the meaning of "BJ"...seems only me doesn't, all I read in the comments tells me it relates to sex and sexuality...even d ladies comments with enough enthusiasm...Are there some Christians here who doesn't really get the meaning of that acronym like me....??? Dikeanagbaruizu 1

Unknown said...

King of village shut up your dirty mouth
Why you dey look for my trouble?
You say you can never ask but if she give B J. You go gree abeg who be mugu
This guy wey open up even beter pass u.

Unknown said...

Olatunji you get sense jare

Unknown said...

ode people with stupid question

Unknown said...

#gbam

Anonymous said...

Mr. Man, you better carry ur books and read, dey there dey wait for BJ. Children of dis days sef

Unknown said...

hmmmmmm things people say ode question

Anonymous said...

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liz swt 16 said...

I don't c my sef doin it either, its indeed dirty n irritatin eewwww

blackboy said...

No mind am, him dey deceive himself

Anonymous said...

The guy is not afraid. what if the girl cut out ur d**k someone u r just getting to knw.i pity you

Anonymous said...

Where and when?

Anonymous said...

MY DEAR BJ OR NOT YOU WILL SURVIVE. BUT TRUST ME AS YOU GUYS GET MORE INTIMATE SHE WILL DO IT SINCE ITS WHAT YOU WANT - EXPERIENCE. IF YOU WANT HER TO BE AN ANGEL, MAKE A HEAVEN FOR HER.

endy said...

Y r u taking it personal abi u done get std b4 tru bj?

endy said...

Lol. hw u take knw? I dey even dey suspect am since.

winniejoy said...

Mr every girl is different , some girls enjoy doing that as part of sexual satisfaction , while some find it filty , but if you really like this girl , you should be able to make some compromises, so it can work , and there are otherways a girl could satisfy a guy in bed other than that.., and sex shouldn't be priority in an intending relationship..Goodluck..

Anonymous said...

What is life without a juicy BJ...ohshhhhhh.#onmawaytoChioma'shouse.imo girls are d best

Anonymous said...

What is life without a juicy BJ...ohshhhhhh.#onmawaytoChioma'shouse.imo girls are d best

Lydia said...

She doesn't have to suck it or even use her mouth on it. Because that can really be disgusting for some women, it doesn't even have to be a matter of it being dirty. It's just plain irritating for them. So it doesn't have to be a BJ, it can be a hand job. Thats another technique on its own and can be really pleasurable, maybe even more than a BJ, depending on the individual. There's no need to box urself or girlfriend Into a corner. There are other options. But if u're bent on a BJ and can't really compromise, then free the babe, so u don't find urself going to another person who can give u a BJ when u start the relationship with her.

Anonymous said...

Can u imagine dis maga... If u like bj so much , u can start giving Urself

Anonymous said...

Mehn, I feel ur pain. The struggle is real everywhere. No girl gives BJs anymore.

Anonymous said...

Olatunji Am loving u already

Anonymous said...

MAKE MONEY ONLINE

Miss Dee said...

Una don meet 4sumwhere b4 ni?

PURPLE said...

Would u be ready to eat her as well????

PURPLE said...

Best comment

Anonymous said...

You want her to get herpes or flesh eating disease in the mouth. Small boy

winniejoy said...

Mr every girl is different though , some girls like to do that while some see it as filty , but there are other ways a girl could satisfy a guy other than that , and if you really like this girl you should be able to make compromises , and sex should not be your priority in an intending relationship ..Goodluck.

winniejoy said...

Mr every girl is different though , some girls like to do that while some see it as filty , but there are other ways a girl could satisfy a guy other than that , and if you really like this girl you should be able to make compromises , and sex should not be your priority in an intending relationship ..Goodluck.

winniejoy said...

Mr every girl is different though , some girls like to do that while some see it as filty , but there are other ways a girl could satisfy a guy other than that , and if you really like this girl you should be able to make compromises , and sex should not be your priority in an intending relationship ..Goodluck.

chinwa fine ibo girl said...

A Lot overgrown babies...gerrarahere dude

Quiny said...

Lwkmd

Anonymous said...

Tell dem ooo..guys b asking 4 ds n dt,different positions n all manner of shit 4rm gurls..abeg mk una free us oo..allow us do d ones we can while we hope 2 do berra wt time..

Unknown said...

Nothing is as sweet as the cunt every other preference is perversion (olojukokoro)

Anonymous said...

Big fool, go get a dog to do that for you

Anonymous said...

It's a sin and shouldn't be practiced. It doesn't guarantee satisfaction during sex. Bsids ar u dating bcos of a BJ or bcos she wil giv u happiness. I don't kno wher dis world is heading to

Unknown said...

Oh Jesus!

Dis act is abomination b4 d Lord b it married or not. Apart frm b dirty, its not good for ur health bcos u might contact d contactable via it.

So stay off frm dis dirty act!

Unknown said...

Oh Jesus!

Dis act is abomination b4 d Lord b it married or not. Apart frm b dirty, its not good for ur health bcos u might contact d contactable via it.

So stay off frm dis dirty act!

Anonymous said...

Na wah to you oh, the only thing you are thinking about from the relationship is SEX
You v not even knwn dis lady and all ur mind shook ur tin inside her mouth

Anonymous said...

Nelson BJ mean Blow Job. Getg dwn on d man penis wit ur mouth. Yh dt sound irritating. Bt if a guy go dwn on urs u shd tink of doing same. Currently in Jupiter

bummyla said...

Guy you are sick! Will you return the favour! one good BJ deserves another! Bros You Need Jesus In Your Life! http://www.bummyla.com

Unknown said...

Very funny I just cannot understand men so no BJ no relationship???

Unknown said...

WTF! Town Crier why na? can't eat pussy no more cuz of that vid.

Unknown said...

Linda and fake stories...

Unknown said...

#yeye dey smell!

Anonymous said...

Linda and fake stories..

Miss Ferragamo said...

Is BJ food?

prosperprosper25@yahoo.com said...

Guy u have all the right to demand for a bj,,..,,after all its good for sex.

Unknown said...

Hegoat..sorry hediout! Don't give your life to Christ for the kingdom of heaven is at hand! Stay there be looking for somebody to lick ur small prik!

oguike Emmanuel Obiora said...

Stupid talk

Unknown said...

Bj is funny with my hubby n he use to give me head at anytime,cause we both love it.So guy if u love it n d girl say no run for ur life.

Unknown said...

Guy if u know u love Bj n d girl says no den move forward

Anonymous said...

Wow! Cavemen now reading LIB. Welcome to planet earth bro!

Naija Inspirational Zone said...

Well said elvis...well said.

Unknown said...

that doesn't really determine if she loves u

Anonymous said...

You too much

Anonymous said...

Lmao nwanne m nwanyi igi okwu

PRESIDENT's DAUGTHER said...

Why are ur comments always very long can't u make simple and sensible comment

Anonymous said...

Some men can be so DISGUSTING... God forbid. If a man requests for a bj from me that would certainly be a deal breaker.

Azukor said...

Make you blow yaself now as you dey do before you meet the chikito.

sharon fortress said...

Maybe it's a test..to knw if u won't date her cos of bj

sharon fortress said...

Maybe it's a test..to knw if u won't date her cos of bj

Anonymous said...

How can a man that can't give head to a girl or woman demand for or expect head...
Bad character manifesting...

Unknown said...

Most times people bring up dirty issues which doesn't add a pin 2 a man's life. BJ it's just like a Big Joke (bj). If dating a girl and ur purpose of it is a bj? Park well and check urself . Be a man and never post such here.

Unknown said...

Most times people bring up dirty issues which doesn't add a pin 2 a man's life. BJ it's just like a Big Joke (bj). If dating a girl and ur purpose of it is a bj? Park well and check urself . Be a man and never post such here.

Anonymous said...

BJ ko BJ ni!

Anonymous said...

MY FELLOW LADIES, HE WILL THINK OF YOU AS A WHORE - A DOG. DONT DO NADA TILL MARRIAGE! IF HE AINT DOWN WITH IT, AND CANT ASSURE YOU OF THAT, PLS HE CAN STROLL TILL HE SORTS HIS HEAD, OR WHATEVER

DONT GIVE HIM A KISS SELF, BECOS A KISS WILL LEAD TO ANOTHER THING, THEN HE WILL DEMAND ALL OTHER THINGS AND THEN CONSIDER YOU A DOG BECAUSE YOU MADE HIM 'FEEL GOOD'. WE TEND TO GET CARRIED AWAY AS WOMEN WHEN WE ARE INTO A GUY, AND WE WANT TO GET COMMITTED TO THEM.

MY OWN CASE, I GAVE HIM MANY B.J.S AND WE ENDED UP SLEEPING TOGETHER TOO SOON. HE ENDED UP CALLING ME A 'DOG', AND MUST HAVE THOUGHT THAT'S HOW I GIVE EVERY GUY THAT COMES MY WAY A BJ. WORSE STILL, HE WAS SO SURE I SLEEP AROUND BECOS OF SOME THINGS HE FOUND. MEANWHILE, HE'S THE 2ND GUY IN 3 YEARS that ever stepped my house talkless of entering my personal space. this idiot called me a dog. i cant laugh.

dikkk said...

Jeez.
This is beyond hilarious. I can imagine the look on your face begging to suck his cock.Lol.
So far its keeps the relationship going.?biko what's my biz?

Anonymous said...

Laff has torn my Belle. Cavemen indeed

Unknown said...

Mstheeeewwwww....is bj the reason u want to date her?

Unknown said...

Broda run ooo I had dis lawyer of a gf she doesn't give me bj buh wants me to get dwn there I did once jus to get in bro I bounced after the groove. So bro be wise bj is a very integral part of sex

Juleslouis said...

This is how some men miss their God destined wives over dirty triviality. Tsheww.

Unknown said...

Broda run ooo I had dis lawyer of a gf she doesn't give me bj buh wants me to get dwn there I did once jus to get in bro I bounced after the groove. So bro be wise bj is a very integral part of sex

Unknown said...

First of all.. what you seek is a prostitute. 2nd... relationship built on Sex will always have cracks and will eventually crumble on you two directly or indirectly. |the girl's way sef is not pure bcos how will she give you the green light to bring up such topic?..

Unknown said...

Then ur case is critically...wat is juicy abt BJ...nufin at all my dear.

Unknown said...

U dey write love letter?see comment long as if na employ dem employ u for here..

Anonymous said...

Anita mark your head dey craze. Na una get the blog?

Anonymous said...

Hmmm

Unknown said...

hahahahahhahahahaha.

Unknown said...

hahahahahahahaha.

Baddest said...

It's vicee vers.a. Be also ready to eatto her

Anonymous said...

Lolll! This cracked me up. Big time!! Bwahaahaahaha!

Unknown said...

Crazy guy, BJ ko, BJ ni

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