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Sunday, 14 June 2015

Ladies...wise words from Wunmi Obe

Gbam!

149 comments:

Unknown said...

Word

SANDRA said...

#he who has ears. Thank u, we have heard

Chyachebe said...

So true

Unknown said...

Well said


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SANDRA said...

#he who has ears. Thank you, we have heard

Unknown said...

That's Tokes mistake, putting everything out there.. Relationships should be kept private, very private in fact, cause of things like this. Hopefully she's learnt her lesson

Unknown said...

Gbam......pple shud stop all dis social media relationship/marriage

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Unknown said...

Very wise indeed. Those who have ear should hear.



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QueenSheba said...

One thousand likes from me....#learning

APPLELIPX said...

All this bcos the relationship advice expert has been cheated on. #nice words

Unknown said...

True words...toyin aimakhu...u listening?

STERN said...

I'm surprised that etcetera hasn't written any epistle yet on that case...linda find out.

Anonymous said...

Tell that to Toke Makinwa. Her husband wants children but she's too busy taking selfies.

Unknown said...

Nice words.

Unknown said...

Ladies,, take note!!

Unknown said...

Lawd!! I love me this lady, never seen in public frolicking. She's always modest

Unknown said...

@wilheminna moses Na only ur comment I dey always like see.. Ur igbo comments kills it for me, Biko jisike n'olu

Unknown said...

True word my sister. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

Thank you ma, God bless u

Unknown said...

Eally Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on sociaal media.

umoh Linda said...

Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

Unknown said...

This is what they call hard core truth. She's sitting, standing in short lying on point. Many people don't want to see you happy, so when they can afford to take away your source of happiness, they do it without hesitation. Dont go rubbing the source of your happiness on people's faces. Keep them guessing what keeps you happy.

Now, many people re forming likeness for Toke. Bc she's in trouble shey? Are they not the ones that have been bashing her online and calling her mtn? Truth is, people prefer to see you sad than happy. They prefer to pity you, than rejoice with you, even the so-called friends

umoh Linda said...

Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

umoh Linda said...

Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

umoh Linda said...

Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

AQO said...

God!! She just wrote what I've been meaning to say. I just didn't want bashing so I kept mute. God bless you maami.








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Anonymous said...

Gbammest, this guy's are terrible

Unknown said...

Let them hear

NMaa said...

What of those dat don't go public abt their spouse and was still cheated on? Nne Na 50 50 tin ooo.

Unknown said...

Toke, op u don hear

Unknown said...

Toke, op u don hear

Unknown said...

God bless you my sister. ..

Unknown said...

Well spoken

Davido's driver said...

That's why I love linda, she hasn't disclosed our rlshp yet. Lindaobserve

Unknown said...

It Is Well!

Unknown said...

Tell them.

Anonymous said...

Paranoia talking. People can derail your happiness/relationship if it's weak to start and you're showing off without having the real deal. If it's truly strong, can't nobody touch it no matter what they try.

Juleslouis said...

Exactly! GBAM!!!

Anonymous said...

reaaly wise words


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3race said...

hellooo.....who r u by d way? take several seat jor

khaleesi said...

Abegi, story! so I cant brag or praise my partner publicly, or even express my happiness?? if a partner wants to cheat they will cheat, its a conscious decision biko. live your life the way you please, do whatever makes you happy, there is no written formula on how to act when married or in a relationship, all the people with advice invent their own ni, them no go school study am, you sef invent your own, if it work fine, if not, move on! everything in life is a bloody risk mehn! some get lucky and some dont! simple!!

Anonymous said...

Love you for this Wunmi! When you tell people they say you're crazy. Even my kids I don't praise publicly. The heart of man is desperately wicked! Toke learn from this and move on. It is well with you. You deserve better and God is not asleep.

Unknown said...

FACT...

Unknown said...

That's a powerful words for ya'all that love
showing the whole world the source of ur
happiness......pple are bad! Not all that smile
with you, are happy that you're blessed!
*word*

Unknown said...

Ok!

Dreezy the quidnunc said...

Word#

Anonymous said...

Linda please help Juliet
Somebody is using her name and her logo
419

Anonymous said...

Juliet fire that 419
His using your name for rubbish ooooooo speak out

Anonymous said...

Is this an indirect message to or about the TOKE Makinwa situation ? I agree with her sha. Ti Ishu Eni ba ta...

Anonymous said...

Juliet speak out
419 is using your name for rubbish ooooooo

Anonymous said...

Juliet speak out
419 is using your name for rubbish ooooooo

Unknown said...

Seen..

Abraham Ndu said...

Hmmmm....truer words have not been spoken...am sure she refers to toke..

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm..word

APPLE said...

Gbamest. Wunmi tell them o. Wise word.

Unknown said...

Everyone is now a relationship expert including those that cannot keep, hold or maintain their partners

The Therapist said...

Gbam

Anonymous said...

Sai mama... pls retweet.. #ORO

Allybrownny said...

Nice one

Unknown said...

word for Toke!!

Unknown said...

Adey tells u!!!

Daisy said...

Wunmi, you are so right dt everyoda tin seems wrong @ the second tweet

Annonymoux_Ken said...

Nailed. couldn't be said any better

Unknown said...

Ok good

Mayor said...

God bless you woman. I believe those concerned are reading

Anonymous said...

i totally disagree with you on this, the real deal is whether someone knows or doesn't if they are covetous even if u hide it as much as u can they will still want what u have.

Unknown said...

Oh dis y u Linda don't want to tel us who is ur boyfriend

Anonymous said...

what is gbam, there are no hard fast rule in life, it was bound to be!! she dated him for years and finally a very quiet wedding! i think thats where u should start analysis from not her being affectionate to her husband via media!

Anonymous said...

enough said

Unknown said...

#preach

Anonymous said...

Very correct. Men too are wicked sha. Women are women's worst enemy. God help us. Social media is causing wahala.

Anonymous said...

Very correct. Men too are wicked sha. Women are women's worst enemy. God help us. Social media is causing wahala.

Anonymous said...

Yesoooo,i av a lot of friendsoo both married and unmarried,but I don't allow dem closeooo,trust no one, people can just jeelous u, just becos u are happy in ur marriage ,trust no oneooo,only jesusooooooo, he is my rockoo,hate me for dat I don't care

Anonymous said...

See most of dem do dat jst to make d world tink dey are happy wen inside dey are dying. Dats y u see infidelity everywhere. Pple need to learn to keep deir business private dats all and settle dier issues indoors. And wen u not happy pls get d hell out of dat relationship or marriage. U owe no one shit!

Oge Nsimah said...

Chia o pity TOKE ... dedicated to her indirectly

Trendyify said...

Oshey dear

dudette said...

World people!!

Cecilia said...

Gbam. True talk. My sister.

Tendency oby said...

Gbam!

Tendency oby said...

Okwu ka ikwuru!

Unknown said...

Words of wisdom

Anonymous said...

Gbam,Gbamer, Gbamest!

jennykurt said...

Abi

gentle said...

It's true...m sure she's referring to toke. I cn remember one post linda posted about her, she was working way past midnight and she was celebrating how understanding her hubby was for not complaining about her long work hours. Den lib 'ers bashed her and said she was being neglectful to her hubby and I thought they were being unfair. When I heard news of her husband cheating, I just remembered that day.

gentle said...

It's true...m sure she's referring to toke. I cn remember one post linda posted about her, she was working way past midnight and she was celebrating how understanding her hubby was for not complaining about her long work hours. Den lib 'ers bashed her and said she was being neglectful to her hubby and I thought they were being unfair. When I heard news of her husband cheating, I just remembered that day.

Blog It With Olivia said...

Exactly, so true






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#itMUSTendINpraise

Unknown said...

to all Nigerians..either against-buhari or for-buhari...please you all should exercise patience...Nigeria has gotten to a critical stage where its problems can never be solved over-nyt...it needs de grace of God, we de people, to bring about De change we all have been clamouring for...we need to check our hearts n minds...deep down we all are the solution to Nigeria's issh...we should stand and fight for what we want, not jus sittdown n keep quiet n act like dummies we all have been until march 28th....let's all work with the present government, no matter what it takes..this is our country,we can't allow it to slip out of our fingers, we own the key to a successful country...help others, show love to ur neighbours, that the ultimate key to a glorified human...LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF.....give freely, show mercy, help the needy, show appreciation to every little thing given to yu...let us continue to live in peace and Harmony...so that we can live the life we all has planned and dreamed for, for this great NIGERIA ...even if twasnt done when you were there, remember, it could be done for your children...LIVE A LIFE THAT PLEASES YOUR FELLOW BROTHER SO THAT HE DOESNT GET JEALOUS OF YOUR SUCCESS...once again, let us all be patient...#shareWITHfriendsIFyouLOVEme...jideblaq..twitter: blaqcejay whatsapp 07037210981...

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Alll na TALK! No matter what Toke puts up and no matter who gets jealous and wants to destroy it, IT IS ULTIMATELY UP TO HER HUSBAND TO TURN IT DOWN. Abeg! I'm tired of these silly excuses.

Anonymous said...

Word!!! He that has ears let him hear.

Anonymous said...

Word!!! He that has ears let him hear.

Unknown said...

#WORD#

Anonymous said...

My dear ehn dat was exactly wot i said wen i read on ur blog months back wie toke was saying heaven and earth about her hubby...
Tnx wumi for ds. Great and best advise ever. He/ she hu has ears let 'em hear ohh


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Unknown said...

What is it ment For? What are you going to do with It? It. Is not for everybody but it is for somebody?

Anonymous said...

Too apt,I kuku don't publisize nothing,he loves me,he bought me this,took me there,he's the best man in the world etc,some people are really just going to need to the ends of the earth and destroy it also juju dey inside town,be wise,because you're a Christian and God covers you doesn't mean you won't lock your door when going to bed,a word is enoug for the wise

lgho said...

Absolutely rite rite....

Unknown said...

Words of wisdom, quite philosophical

Lilly said...

Honestly Wunmi, you are so right. Its so irritating seeing all these young wives professing love for their man publicly!!! They fail to realise that they are principalities in this world, whose sole purpose in life is to destroy marriages. These baby mamas, second wives, mistresses, side chicks etc have one thing in common, to destroy. Ladies guard your home. Never share your happy moments on instagram, twitter etc, they are lots of haters everywhere.As a matter of fact, let them believe all is not so good sef. Thats what the world wants to hear. Its really sad. Women have no self respect anymore. Morals have been thrown to the dustbins We need God in this country to help our marriage. God heal all who are hurting now. Give them the strength to move on. No one has the right formula. We can only try

Anonymous said...

The thing tire me self

Anonymous said...

I strongly belive that no 1 can take anyone from you unless he/she is willing to leave nd if that be the case there's nothing you'l do that will make them stay... People should stop making silly excuses nd take full responsibilities of there Actions cause that's what Adults do...

Unknown said...

Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

Unknown said...

Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

Queen Jay �Private IELTS tutor 08033338272 said...

Dey also don't get a public disgrace like dis. Toke is probably facing dis much bashing bcos she put so much out there. See all d jokes abt her vlogs n not takin her own advice.

Anonymous said...

I always love comments from @asampokoto. U always make sense

Unknown said...

Wow! U spoke well. Lovely comment.

Unknown said...

Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

She nailed it, and is on point wit her comment. Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

Unknown said...

Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

She nailed it, and is on point wit her comment. Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

Amy said...

This one na medicine after death. Akuko na egwu.

Alberta said...

There are no rules, different strokes for folks. Not publicising is not a guarantee for a long lasting and perfect relationship. Just do what makes you happy even if it means posting every detail of your relationship and leave the rest to God.

Unknown said...

Can u hide anything under de sun,oku I seal ma mouth. Ekweme

Amy said...

True talk. She had better ass down and become sensible for once.
I believe people that publicly declare their 'assets' have this deeply rooted insecurity in them plus a bit of complex that make them feel they need to announce to the world that they think they have achieved which they never felt they would ever have got; getting married( being the ultimate acquisition these days); making money etc.

* At least Linda sef too don learn after she clash or connive with Ayedee. Na dem no what's up.

*Toyin aimakhu has learnt one or two things with her husband-online praise. And the list goes on.
A word is enough for the wise.

Gaddiel said...

You said my mind. Felt so sorry fot her tho. #pensive

Anonymous said...

So sooo true...this world is full of wicked and heartless people

80 shades of tizzy said...

True but, d partner wasnt blind wen he let d temptress in. He didnt mistakenly do it.

Unknown said...

1million likes for u don't mind dat over bleached girl wt fake life

Anonymous said...

Listen to a great advise for once. You sound stupid

Anonymous said...

This is wisdom. Nice!!

Anonymous said...

STFU!!! you both have to age things work.

Anonymous said...

*make

knowurway.com said...

Lol, plus social media every minute Toke Mak, Toke Make this. Toke Maka that. Toke Makvin learn! Lol, i can't stop laughing

Chioma Ijomah said...

This is true ooooh

Anonymous said...

U are a big chicken sir looool
Sha u people always make this blog so enjoyable for me

ary said...

That is just why I hate living life on the social media, the 21st century way, because there are a lot of people lurking in the corner, liking your pictures and waiting for you to fail.

Anonymous said...

Don't b so sure...

Anonymous said...

Abeg this is just one of the trying times in life. She will hurt but come out of it stronger. I don't think a women has control over a man's character even if she spies on him 24/7. Men do cheat no kiiiiilll ya self. If u like hide oh or expose ur praise the human mind .....no one can fathom it jooo. The babe fit form another blog called ' once bitten' and use it to make money.....toke u can do this....keep flying...I salute ur silence already.

Anonymous said...

Toolz take note, anoda busy body in d making. Engaged dis engaged dat we no go hear word for you.

Unknown said...

I just used ur last sentance as my dp common that was so right of u to say !!

Anonymous said...

Haba that's not right to say now..if he can wait for 12years fr her then he should have waited..well everyone is entitled to thier opinion

Dreezy the quidnunc said...

Did it work for u?

Anonymous said...

Why are u saying dis is she God that gives children. Do u no if she has been trying to conceive pls live her alone let her face her world

Anonymous said...

Mercy Johnson please take note.

Anonymous said...

I wish there's a like button for this. If your relationship is strong and true no amount of public display can derail it. Its he ones that are unsure of their standing in a relationship that hide.

Unknown said...

Yes I agree wif her, son ladies r nt just it! Dats wa I do. ..keep it private away from prying eyes

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Amen! Thank you.

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Alll na TALK! No matter what Toke puts up and no matter who gets jealous and wants to destroy it, IT IS ULTIMATELY UP TO HER HUSBAND TO TURN IT DOWN. Abeg! I'm tired of these silly excuses. There are absolutely no rules to life.

Adetunji Saka said...

I wish our young celebs can learn more frm our veterans e.g Omotola Ekeinde, Joke Jacobs, Wunmi Obe, Annie Idibia e.t.c. kudos Aunty Wunmi.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmm this is so true God bless u 4 this words Mrs Wunmi & God bless u 4 posting this Miss Linda.

Anonymous said...

Thanks a lot for this advice Wunmi. It makes sense. Now, some advice for you too. Please don't take offence. You need to lose some weight, not just to enhance your looks but for your health as well. Abeg! My 2 cents!!!!!

Anonymous said...

This is stupid. Wunmi is using style to say this is Toke's fault. A man who wants to cheat will cheat no matter what his wife is saying or not saying about him on social media!

Anonymous said...

I hope tonto don hear. Many fishbrained gals

Anonymous said...

Noted
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yawanow said...

Nice words

Anonymous said...

Asampokoto, there are no rules to life but there are proven principles for successful living that have passed on from gen to gen. So wise up.

Anonymous said...

SO RIGHT! we should beware of those we surround ourselves with. esp female friends - so envious.

Anonymous said...

Toke makinwa hope you don hear

ASAMPOKOTO said...

It's wisen up mate. Not 'wise' up. Generation to generation really? PLS how recent are these social media platforms? Lol! Clown

Unknown said...

Gbam!

Unknown said...

Gbam

Unknown said...

Gbam

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