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Saturday, 14 March 2015

Dear LIB readers, can I date my third cousin?

From a female LIB reader...
"Is it OK to date my third cousin? I fell for him before I even knew we were somewhat related. But it's too late and the feelings is mutual. I have been intimate with him but no sex yet. I can't get over him. Is there anything wrong in dating my third cousin?
Which one is third cousin again? Well, I watch Telemundo and cousins sleep with each other. But then again, those people are not well...lol. What do you guys think?

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Anonymous said...

In my place, u can marry from ur 4th generation cousin but have to perform some rituals like killing of a cow.

Cute G said...

Thank God you know those people are not well. You just answered ur question.

Dave Mide said...

Its ok to sleep with ur 3rd cousin (whatever that means), its ok to do it with ur brother sef! Everything is alright in this age

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

kikiki na today,alot does dat, even sixth cousins does dat..lol

Unknown said...

It's not appropriate, since you can get over him just move on... OBSEQUIOUS

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

kikiki na today,alot does dat, even sixth cousins does dat..lol

Unknown said...

Hhhmmmmm

Anonymous said...

Date Ur dad.
~D great anonymous!

favour4life said...

Abeg cousin na cousin, I'll advice u kill such feelings, and jst move on. Its nt too late.

STARRY LARRY said...

Pls ask your mum cos I don't know how it's done in your family

Unknown said...

lol! no u cant

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Zamani said...

Wow, is there really something wrong with dating one's relative? Pls visit rellanaija.blogspot.com

Gazo said...

It's wrong

Unknown said...

So, u want to become sick like telemundo people abi? What is wrong is wrong no matter how u paint it...

Unknown said...

You are free to choose, but ain't free from the consequence of your choice!

Unknown said...

So, u want to become sick like telemundo people abi? What is wrong is wrong no matter how u paint it...

Unknown said...

bad idea

Unknown said...

So, u want to become sick like telemundo people abi? What is wrong is wrong no matter how u paint it...

Unknown said...

It is abnormal. Third or last cousin I. LIB EMPIRE

Unknown said...

So, u want to become sick like telemundo people abi? What is wrong is wrong no matter how u paint it...

Unknown said...

Somethings are not meant to be even tho u met without knowing cos it won't work at the long run

Unknown said...

Since u r related, is nt right 2 date him unless u wnt ur family 2 become sodom n gomora. Free him out off ur mind n create a space 4 a new guy in ur heart.

Unknown said...

Since u r related, is nt right 2 date him unless u wnt ur family 2 become sodom n gomora. Free him out off ur mind n create a space 4 a new guy in ur heart.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

I guess you should be asking your parents not LIB readers, because in some places its acceptable and in some its abominable.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Unknown said...

I dont think its right....cousin is cousin....no mata d position ....1st....3rd....6th..........Stop watever U both have now dat U can....



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vera cruz said...

I dont think its right cause he is family

Unknown said...

Since u r related, is nt right 2 date him unless u wnt ur family 2 become sodom n gomora. Free him out off ur mind n create a space 4 a new guy in ur heart.

efe said...

Well your third cousins would mean that your grand parents are cousins so your parents are second cousins and you guys are third cousins in other words your great grandparents where siblings. I still think its a bit awkward cause theres still somewhat of the same blood flowing through you guys, not wrong but awkward, I wont do it though

Unknown said...

Somethings are not meant to be even tho u met without knowing. It's just wrong, cos it won't work at the long run.

Anonymous said...

U can get over him.


Distance and time always does the trick for me.


Gay Life of an Anonymous Writer

Unknown said...

Weda third cousin of tenth cousin, d bottomline is dat u guys are related. Wch makes it incest.... U bera pour water on d flames of luv!
(MadamLinda"choppinComments"Ikeji)

Anonymous said...

It's crazy #bright bravo # 7EFA4A13

Unknown said...

You say?

Unknown said...

Hmmm...whc one be third cousin again. Abeg no dciv yasef. Ur relation na ur blood. No try am oo

Jenny said...

It's not right.....u can get over him

Anonymous said...

Fuck him once and forget it...

Anonymous said...

She is not well too.

Lady Fola said...

I think that's inappropriate shaaa

Unknown said...

The Bible allows relationship after the 4th generation. At third, it's considered incest.

Anonymous said...

No date ya fifth cousin....go fuck ur papa since u r insane

Bash said...

In Islam, it's a yes as far as you guys didn't suck thesame breast.

Anonymous said...

No date ya fifth cousin....go fuck ur papa since u r insane

Anonymous said...

u watch too much tv,nd nope u cnt date even ur fourth cousin.ur cousin is ur cousin it doesn't matter if he/she is ur first,second or third cousin
aittyfinest xyz

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Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmmmm.
Ask your parents they should know better. OK
I know a friend who married from his grandmothers house.
Just stylishly ask your parents, mummy especially.

Unknown said...

In my place its a taboo, but I no housas do mary there cousins

Unknown said...

Taboo...there is amadioha ooo

Bishop Dammy said...

These things don't need to be discussed atall. The time of ignorance the lord overlooked. Now you know you too are related... stop the relationship ASAP. there's nothing to ponder on. 2 cor 5 :17. @Bishop_Dammy

Unknown said...

Pls my dear deres nothing wrong with it oh

Anonymous said...

Lmao @ those people are not well. Linda oooo

hormohsexy4 said...

Third or first, cousin is cousin and since there is no sex yet, I think u shud try and forget about him.

Unknown said...

Yes idiot date ur papa too!

Unknown said...

It's very very wrong my sister, once u av discovered make a correction as soon as possible

icares said...

its not normal, there noting like its too late. Especially since there is no sex yet dey should be thanking God.

Unknown said...

Taboos are gradually fading away. I know u guys have been fucking.

Anonymous said...

Plz. Be careful

Unknown said...

Reading the story again self looks u neva reach d level to dey date sef and e be like say dis ur cousin na ur first love...
Sha go ask ur mummy first before or story come turn to one wey I sabi ooo.

Unknown said...

Bia "bad thing na bad thing" simple! There's no justification of dating a blood relation in naija. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Bia "bad thing na bad thing" simple! There's no justification of dating a blood relation in naija. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Bia "bad thing na bad thing" simple! There's no justification of dating a blood relation in naija. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Lmaoooooooo @telemundo pple r not well. My dear.. I know northerners do it well but heck! I can't! I mean there r over 6 billion people on earth.. why ur cousin? U could as well do ur stepbrother if u had one n see nothing wrong yeah? Girl... think well. AND PRAY!!! Bye.

dunny odunayo said...

please do not date him, the gene is too close. stay away and find another fella to date. i would not recommend it.

Anonymous said...

What is 3rd cousin? Stupid girl u better look for anoda guy or jst zip up werey! Everytin is wrong!!! Quit now b4 it's late

ary said...

As long as the word 'cousin' is there and you are not a Muslim, then you can't marry a cousin. No matter what!!!

Unknown said...

I think you should ask your mother

Unknown said...

You go ahead and give the heart what it wants. You are not dating your blood brother ooo. Third cousin ni? Continue jare

Anonymous said...

Why not? Go ahead jare!

Anonymous said...

Let go off ur barbaric feelings...its an abomination

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Unknown said...

Third cousin is your cousin's child's child.just as you second cousin is your cousin's child.family is family no matter how long you think the chain is.its not right.

Anonymous said...

Third cousins are those who share same great great grand pa or grandma I.e grandpa or ma by the third degree however high so everm which can be either from the maternal or paternal side. Its not a big deal in some cultures and in Islam one is allowed to marry even first cousins.

Damola Gbadegesin said...

Well for me there is nothing wrong in it.I can actually marry my cousin if am in love with him. Have seen it happen in the North.

Titus Inyambe said...

Not at all, blood is ticker than water.

Anonymous said...

Yes, i can marry my second cousin because it is allowed in my religion

Anonymous said...

Not at all because blood is ticker than water.

Unknown said...

IT is called "ALU" in my place.. Gal Na ur cousin b d only man wen de dat ur area? Biko I hv plentiful in my area,cum I link u up bt don't date ur cousin ooo nne Oma.

Anonymous said...

Forbidden Passion!!!

Unknown said...

Better for her no sex yet stay clear he's family is ur blood or are u a Chinese

Anonymous said...

once u r related by blood in any way, shape or form, that's a big f.....g NO!!! man/woman don finish for world??? its bordering on incest jare. and no one in ur families knows u r related??? get to steppin jare.....

Unknown said...

Lol,linda ur sense of humor is epic,which one is those pple are not well? Lmao... Chai!!

Richard said...

madness

Anonymous said...

My dear, nothing like 3rd cousin. Your cousin is your cousin period. Cherish him as cousin and not as a lover.

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Outright rubbish...

Anonymous said...

No don't. I had same problem but d elders told me 2 withdrew from my plans 2 marry her. Thank God we ve sex. 4th generations should b OK but not 3rd my dear.

Unknown said...

During dose days in isreal n som hw in d bible,sisters marry same man,cousins marry each oda. But dis days its nt accepted so far d blood is dere, its very wrong. 4gt abt d feelings n u said his is mutual so?

QUEEN AMANDA said...

Is evil abeg

Unknown said...

Is it wrong to sleep or have any feelings for ur third cousin think about it and if ur answer is yes u are a sick sick person who needs prayers and deliverance

Anonymous said...

Lindo! 3rd cousins in your case will be your great grandson dating laura's great grand daughter. Daz all. Where I come from,4th cousins are allowed to marry.
...Mama J...

HUMAN BEING said...

Some tribes actually allow that so long as ur not same direct father and mother. If ur tradition abhors it then STOP. SIMPLE & SHOT. THIS INFATUATION WE MOST TIMES CALL LOVE IS FUCKING US ALL UP. IF HE DROPS DEAD NOW WHAT WILL SHE DO. GO START SHAGGING THE NEXT CUTE DICK AFTER MAX TWO MONTHS. LOVE IS ONLY WHEN THE HEAD AGREES NOT WHEN THE HEART OR SOMEONES MID SECTION GETS ATTACHED. ANYTHING OUTSIDE THE HEAD IS CALLED INFATUATION, SEXUAL ATTRACTIONS OR SORTS PLEASE PEOPLE.

Unknown said...

It's wrong joor. Go find another man.



Vote no fight

Unknown said...

ask god ooh

emmyfabzibekweblog said...

Third cousin?are they blood related or what?hope he is not ur paternal third cousin

Unknown said...

FOR ME COUSIN IS COUSIN!!!!WETHER THIRD OO OR 100 OOO AS LONG AS YOU AND SOMEBODY ARE COUSINS NOTHING SHOULD BE INVOLVED AS IN SEXUAL FEELINFS THATS MY TAKE LINDA FORGET OYIBO THOSE PEEPS ARE SICK JC

Unknown said...

Any blood relation should be family

Dreezy the quidnunc said...

It's a strange thing to do , I don't think its a good idea

Anonymous said...

Otuocha eeh!! Biko Espeakilekwe maka confusion. God have mercy on our generation. @BEAUTY is mua

Unknown said...

Abomination _pls dnt try it o

Unknown said...

my dear jux confine in ya parents, elders n spiritual leader if dey say it is well, den u can go ahead!! Aside frm dat it is wrong frm ma point of view. All de best

Unknown said...

my dear jux confine in ya parents, elders n spiritual leader if dey say it is well, den u can go ahead!! Aside frm dat it is wrong frm ma point of view. All de best

Unknown said...

Haaaaa, its wrong ooo. Very wrong gan its even too close. Plsssss break off frm d relationship o.

Unknown said...

Sorry miss,which one be 3rd cousin? Well d bible is against dt,u r lust

sisi said...

Abomi what ,my dear, it's better to stay out of trouble.

Chigoo Bae said...

There is every thing wrong with it. Is he d only guy out there to satisfy ur lustful desires? Better don't bring nemesis on ur self.#bewise#

Obiora jamal said...

You know the answer why you.asking us God help you overcome this lusty feeling Say Amen

Unknown said...

Pipo should stop watching telemundo
Its a shame that we are blinded to the
Extend of some1 thinking that its ok to fall
For her 3rd cousin. That's taboo and I
Personally condemn it.

The Monarch said...

I don't know over to lib readers I'll wait and read comments

Davido's driver said...

Cole and date me...;) lindaobserve

Unknown said...

Is very wrong
You can't date him
Is incest

Carina Kikelomo Jacob said...

Don't know. Which one is third cousin anyways wish her the best. In any decision she Takes.

Carina Kikelomo Jacob said...

Don't know. Which one is third cousin anyways wish her the best. In any decision she Takes.

@Osirmah said...

Which one z "third cousin" again! Abeg somebody explain beta! Na so una family wide

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Anonymous said...

Hmmmm

Unknown said...

Well, I ll advice you to change your feeling because, before you know it, your children will sleep with themselves and see nothing wrong with...Telemundo nonsense....

Unknown said...

I think u shud go 2 Telemundo world, u re allowed 2 date him der..Nonsense question!

Henry Ekene Obianika said...

Aluu!! Abomination!! Taboo!! Sacrilege!! Which other adjective can I use??

Linda I said so..

Unknown said...

Is not right oooh is an abormination

NovenaIcon said...

Are u nuts? D question is can u marry him when the ship are down...it's abomination where I come from

NovenaIcon said...

Are u nuts? D question is can u marry him when the ship are down...it's abomination where I come from

Anonymous said...

Na wa ....this world chai

Baby P said...

I dont know

Anonymous said...

Na was oh

Juleslouis said...

Depends on Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ culture. But in my area, third cousins dey marry.

Unknown said...

If u dey naija abeg is wrong but u can go over to Mexico ooooooo....lol

Unknown said...

Your first cousin is the child of your uncle /aunty, the child of this your first cousin is your second cousin... That's what I know but I stand to be corrected... Linda see me

Anonymous said...

Lol Linda u funny sha

Unknown said...

Abeg make one person explain thhird cousin to us first before I know what to say

ELENA (HER MAJESTY) said...

Do we look like her parent

Y d fuq is she asking us

Does our approval matter?

When u got intimate wv him did u consult us

Abegi go and ask ur parent and whatever dey tell u dt u ought to do

Sonipinky said...

E be like say d babe head no set well...do u need Jesus to shout in2 ur ears dat dat is incest?!!!

Unknown said...

Be it 1st, 2nd Or 3rd cousin ur not suppose 2 fall 4 any*getdat*

Anonymous said...

Oshio you are right! Your third cousin however is your cousin's Grand child. Or your parents' cousin's grandchild. The relationship is already distant na! They can get married sef. My mum's elder brother and wife are distant cousins. But if the family is really close knitted I don't think they can o! I am already feeling dizzy sef trying to explain.

Anonymous said...

d relationship might seem distant to u...buh picture dis...its just like ur daughter dating ur cousin's son....ur parents will never agree

Anonymous said...

Looooool @ already feeling dizzy sef trying to explain. You guys can be funny at times.

Unknown said...

U better stop seeing him again for own good.

Anonymous said...

Useless muslims marrying their cousins

Anonymous said...

Lol don't u know a lot of white people have "type b" or retarded off springs as a result of family inter marriages. Please read more about it

obiora said...

This is Africa...migrate to China.

Unknown said...

It is wrong, you cant date your cousin

Unknown said...

It is wrong, you cant date your cousin

Anonymous said...

Hahaha. I'm assuming U're joking. Right?

Anonymous said...

A third cousin are ppl whose grandparents were 1st cousin. That means their great grand parents were siblings. I don't know if that's far removed enough to be acceptable.

Linda Fashion Blog said...

It depends on how serious these kind of things are viewed in your family's tradition. I advise you dig deep as some blood ties could be disastrous for generations to come no matter how distant. Some muslims are allowed to marry their cousins.

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Favour belle said...

Lmao...your comment crack me up. There's madness in the land, am sure nollywood will take this up already.

Unknown said...

It is allowed in some places while in some places it's forbidden. You just have to know which side you are from.

Anonymous said...

No you cannot, you disgusting pig!!

Unknown said...

Am sure u have gotten fair share of answer.. Ask ur self how right does it sound can you publicly say am shaging my 3rd cousin or wteva u name it

Unknown said...

Lmao @linda...seriously dose ppl are nt well Brandon d dog n camila shey bebe...sweedy I really don't knw

Subomi said...

HELL NO!! what rubbish

Unknown said...

You already knw so pls don't allow people wash mouth all over u,#GetSense nd kill d@ stupid feeling u claim to av...haba do u need an angel to tell u d@ w@ u r doin is wrong?
Ko shi so'un o jare!

Unknown said...

Lol! Olumide you are crazy!

Anonymous said...

She said can't. Not can

Unknown said...

Pweeew!!

Anonymous said...

nice clarification

Anonymous said...

Hehehe! So people at what levels it ok to marry someone's relative o! 5th, 6th cousin?? Afterall, aren't WE ALL related somehow?? Abi we didn't all descend from Adam and Eve???

Unknown said...

All y'all judging...thre is saying dat says " what you hate most about others is what you can find in your self" careful

Unknown said...

well, it is permisible if u wish

Anonymous said...

I suggest you discourage the use of lol bcos adherents of the devil use it as in Lucifer our lord. Any time you use it you may be unwittingly acknowledging the lordship of that evil being

Anonymous said...

Everything is wrong about Islam....ewww

Unknown said...

Is very good you can as well date your dad.... That is Telemundo for you..

Unknown said...

Is very good you can as well date your dad.... That is Telemundo for you..

Anonymous said...

God forbid it! Is an abomination when u look at ur sister or even your cousin with a lustful eye in my place. But hausa people do it cos I have a friend who was force to get married to her cousin so I dnt knw if she is a hausa gal cos dey dnt forbid things those people. Gal no do am ooo na ur brother.

Elodie O. Mbape said...

3rd cousins simply means that their great grand parents were brothers or sisters, or brother and sister.

Unknown said...

Why not your dad, then elder brother and even younger if you have. Rubbish!!!

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MYS fabric bags lagos 08134794565, D60E8C4D said...

U knw u re a fool huh, don't we all come from d same man nd woman(adam nd eve).....our religion permit it so swerve

Unknown said...

Don't try it ooo....that's mpu

SWILL MARTIN said...

It's fyne honey do yo thng.

Skilfulheart said...

some tradition and religion accept that if urs do not then stop. period!

Unknown said...

the question is can u marry your third cousin,and NO is the answer so why thinking of dating

Unknown said...

the question is can u marry your third cousin,and NO is the answer so why thinking of dating.

Unknown said...

the question is can u marry your third cousin,and NO is the answer so why thinking of dating

Unknown said...

abeg which one is third cousin kpa..buh my cousin abd I once had this crush on each other buh we called it family tie and resisted it after getting words from nobke friends..its nit good oio

Unknown said...

u'r a mumu..now I know you have a shaking pic cos ur brain is shaking..werey

Unknown said...

All of you that are talking like saints now in the open, if giving the opportunity in the secret you can even fuck your first cousins. Bastards. Pretenders do the worst

Anonymous said...

Best answer so far!hafu ya,ka ya na linda n'ezuzu,o bia juwa anyi jamb question mtchwww

Wise man said...

Please go ahead... coconut head

Unknown said...

Dat ur brother na cos of d strong feelings u have 4 hime mumu

Anonymous said...

I love this dude...

Anonymous said...

Have just one good sex, make sure u don't get pregnant and forget he exists.

Unknown said...

Is very good you can as well date your dad.... That is Telemundo for you..

Anonymous said...

Obiora, ino there..........

Elijah Odugbo said...

LOLZZZ,IS THERE ANYTHING LIKE THIRD COUSIN??? YOU CAN DATE HIM OOO, YOU ARE SO DAMN FREE

Elijah Odugbo said...

LOLZZZ,IS THERE ANYTHING LIKE THIRD COUSIN??? YOU CAN DATE HIM OOO, YOU ARE SO DAMN FREE

Anonymous said...

Yes you can. There has been so much new gene introduced do fear not. If the love is that strong then go on. Life is too short to be in happy.

Bebe

Mz Hardtheyleye said...

Me no sabi watin third cousin b, bt so far u are related by blood weda half or full, it ain't right, except u'll relocate to India (wink)

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm imagine advice

Anonymous said...

Hahahahahahahahahahha enough fucking ooooooo front and back tins ooooooo bad guyyyyyyyy

Anonymous said...

We don't need Muslims here because their religion is disgusting......... gush

Anonymous said...

Oyibo boy because you never reach man

Anonymous said...

Copy copy cat
Why you dey copy Juliet?
Can't you create your own logo
See your face like woman with pregnant

Anonymous said...

You are disturbing for copying Juliet

Mrs CJ said...

Hahaha
ALU no be small
nne Biko no do oo
I take God name beg you inugo.

Anonymous said...

Where are you from? Sokoto? Smell out from here ooooooo

Anonymous said...

omg this comment crack me up

Anonymous said...

this crack me up

Anonymous said...

Smelling, disgusting, stupid question.... taboo ooooooo don't mind all this Muslims commenting here ooooooo. you can't date period

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

So long as dey r related by blood, mk dem break up fast

Anonymous said...

If she's muslim. She's 100% allowed to marry him
:)

slimshaddy20 said...

Abg continue.ad I knw say u don sleep wth am.mayb u re even pregnant sef dats y u re seeking for useless advice. Bt however wen u re done date ur father ad still cum here to seek another yeye advice

Emeka Facts said...

Whether him na 3rd cousin or 19th cousin, cousin na cousin. No do watin ur village go use curse u. Kill d feeling n continue with another guy. Boys are not scarce, dey plenty for prison.

~ @Emekanews

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