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Friday, 13 March 2015

Ibidun Ighodalo's ex sister-in-law cries out, claims her ex-husband (Ibidun's brother) has refused to give her back her children

Friends of Lamide Agunloye (pictured above with her 3 boys), who was once married to Dare Ajayi, former beauty queen Ibidun Ighodalo's brother reached out to me to share a statement with the public about how her three children were allegedly taken from her by her estranged husband. Lamide's spokesperson released a statement today (with photos) detailing what's going on. Read below...
We live in a country supposedly governed by the rule of law, a country where a court order should trump the bidding of anybody, but that only seems to apply to the common man. Why else would a mother be crying for justice over three years after her three biological children were abducted by known persons? This is Lamide Agunloye’s story. 
In 2012, after a year of separation from her ex-husband, Dare Ajayi – during which she had been in custody of and solely responsible for the welfare of their sons – Lamide’s sons were taken from her Abuja home forcefully after Dare Ajayi is said to have jumped the fence, broken the door and beaten up the house maid.


Efforts to gain relief from police intervention were frustrated as the Police tagged it a domestic issue. The children were taken to the home of popular Lagos pastor Ituah Ighodalo, whose wife and businesswoman Ibidun Ighodalo is sister to Dare Ajayi. What should have been a simple case of a man of God and his wife doing what is right by returning the children to their legal guardian has turned out to be a deliberately orchestrated nightmare for Lamide Agunloye.

The lady and her brothers were beaten up by the Ighodalo's security agents, at Dare's instance, when they attempted to sort it out as a family issue. The Ighodalos are no doubt a power couple, with Ibidun running a successful events management company and her husband heading a Redeemed Christian Church of God congregation that is filled with many rich and powerful individuals.

When the news first broke, many expressed doubt that a man of God and his wife would go against the law, and they urged Lamide to go to court. Over a year later, with a court judgment (FAM/25y/14) determining that Dare indeed kidnapped the children, awarding Lamide legal physical custody of all three children and granting Dare visitation rights every other weekend, Lamide has remained unable to gain actual physical custody of her children.

Her children have remained in the forced and illegal custody of the Ighodalos who, rather than obey the court judgment dated March 5, 2015 have gone ahead to subvert the course of justice. They have continued to deny Lamide access to her children. Primarily aided by Asue Ighodalo, brother to Pastor Ituah and Founder/Managing Partner of one of Nigeria’s foremost law firms, Banwo and Ighodalo, the Ighodalo family is basking in the illegality of their actions without remorse.

In the face of the court order, they have taken to boasting about their clout, claiming to know the Chief Justice of the State amongst other influential people – they have made it clear that they have no intention of obeying court orders. Yet thousands sit in their church, not critical of the example that the leaders of the flock are laying.

They remain quiet in the face of the injustice that has seen a mother denied access to her children, an injustice being perpetuated by a so-called man of God and his wife. What hope is there when the very people who should be defenders of the law are the law breakers? What hope is there for parents when extended family members can willy-nilly snatch children and hold them for years because they are amongst society's rich and powerful?

What respite do parents have when institutions that should be instilling morality and order are aiding and abetting lawlessness as did Mrs. Durand, the proprietress of Greenwood School, Ikoyi? When Court Officers and Lamide Agunloye, with a court judgment in her favor, approached the school in which her sons are currently enrolled by the Ighodalos, instead of allowing them entrance and access to the children who were in school at the time, Mrs. Durand joined the charade by denying them entrance and spiriting the children to Asue Ighodalo who arrived at the school with armed police officers.

After Lamide's attempt to enforce judgment, the Ighodalos hurriedly filed an appeal before a Lagos High Court, asking for a stay of execution. It is nothing short of appalling that Dare Ajayi, Pastor Ituah and Ibidun Ighodalo, Asue Ighodalo, Mrs. Durand and so many others who should know better are being allowed to get away with several crimes.

When Lamide left her husband after his violent antics which included an attempt at drowning her and flinging her kids across the room, it was because she feared for her safety and that of her children. A court, considering the merits of the situation, deemed it fit to grant her sole custody to the children. It is thus very worrisome that it is this same violent father who, through his sister and her husband, still has access to the children, whereas Lamide remains subjected to the intimidation tactics of the Ighodalo and her ex-husband.

She is left with nothing but videos from three heavily supervised visits in three years with three young impressionable sons who are being fed misleading information to believe their mother left them. In a country where the rule of law truly prevails, the Ighodalos and Dare Ajayi would be behind bars for kidnapping three children and for obstructing justice.

In a country where the rule of law prevails, Olamide Agunloye’s story would have a happy ending.

Olamide Agunloye's statement below...

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Unknown said...

Na wa o
Olorun a ba yin yanju e o

Unknown said...

Ok

Unknown said...

It's not about being right but letting peace reign! Things need to be settled amicably... OBSEQUIOUS

Unknown said...

MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.

This is bad.
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CHYNELL said...

Ije di, person no marry case, e come marry, bigger case

Alloy Chikezie said...

Please he should return her children back to her for goodness sake.

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CHYNELL said...

Ije di, person no marry case, e come marry, bigger case

Unknown said...

Nawa ooo...it is well with them!justice will surely prevail

CHYNELL said...

Ije di, person no marry case, e come marry, bigger case

CHYNELL said...

Ije di, person no marry case, e come marry, bigger case

CHYNELL said...

Ije di, person no marry case, e come marry, bigger case

Anonymous said...

Hmm i is so so sad that a woman will be denied her chidren dat she suffered to give birth to. I pray that justice prevails. as the man no wan marry then he should let go of your vhildren too#jojo

Anonymous said...

Hmm i is so so sad that a woman will be denied her chidren dat she suffered to give birth to. I pray that justice prevails. as the man no wan marry then he should let go of your vhildren too#jojo

CHERRY said...

Hmm na wa for some pple sha!

Bonita Bislam said...

Brings to mind the story of Doris,Dino etc.in this part of the world,Women are always the concubine of pain when divorce sets in.Not fair at all.I pray she gets justice soon.

Bishop Dammy said...

You don't joke with children oo. When it comes to children all seriousness is needed! Please this should also play here. It is well. Psalm 127:3. @Bishop_Dammy

Anonymous said...

There is no smoke without fire!

Anonymous said...

There are 2 or more sides to every story. I wish her and her kids the best but I wonder what benefit the kids will derive from being pulled out of school and probably out of Lagos mid term because of their parents. At least, let them complete a term. Now that the whole world knows what school they were enrolled at, does it make them any safer? The least one could do is try to allow the kids have a semi normal life. Imagine how the kids will feel on Monday morning if they make it to school and either paparazzi are there or their mates are asking them questions cos the parents of all their classmates have updated them. I dunno what or who is right but I feel, the children's faces and school should have been left out of this sharade. Just saying.....

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Too long but i pray God come to her favour...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

ASAMPOKOTO said...

This is fucked. When will we women have rights in Naij oh! Like actual actual rights?

Unknown said...

Story! Story!! Story!!!
All dis all r simple matters dat r b hype just for unnecessary attentions. Must we paint each black b4 we mak our points in issues?

I think d best tin for her is for both families interventions. Simple as dat not all dis court palava. Let go to d grass roots of settling family issues pls.

Unknown said...

This is unfair and injustice
Pls right organisations should handle this woman's case
This is out of hand
Woman rights pls help

Anonymous said...

so linda,na everybody personal issues u go de display????e b like say them never sue u b4.when dem sue u collect all ur money,u go get sense

Mercy said...

Everyone has one sour or the other. Unless made public, you never can tell.

Unknown said...

Make them settle now

Anonymous said...

Why can't she tell her story without dragging Ibidun into it. It's a sad case alright and she will still get sympathy and the needed attention. but I don't the point of referencing Ibidun.

Unknown said...

God knows best.


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Anonymous said...

And they wonder why their own marriage is childless. True some people deserve no sympathy. Only idiots will seat in a congregation where this man is a "pastor" useless people.
I hope some strong and highly mouthed lawyers and law enforcement bosses read this story and help this woman out.

Unknown said...

na wash

Anonymous said...

no be everything we de shine be gold

Anonymous said...

Hey Linda, you should have called Dare to hear his side of the story. Lamide is not telling the whole story. There is great danger in telling half stories to the world. Dare has been a fantastic father, the boys are in good hands. They should resolve whatever problems they have, I know Dare will respond and open a very big can of worms. Lamide will not like that. I pray God grants both parties wisdom to resolve this. Amen!!!

Anonymous said...

Awww! Hope dis is not d same senior lamide agunloye(fggc akure)

Unknown said...

Let's start a campaign and get naked and run on the streets for him to give her back.

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Anonymous said...

Awwwwh! Hope dis is not d same senior lamide Agunloye (fggc akure)

prettiyz said...

What kind of man does dat

Anonymous said...

if you wan release statement, get your facts straight na. Pst Ighodalo doesn't Pastor an RCCG church, rather he has founded his own church.
Seems like they want to use public blackmail against the Ighodalos joor......

Unknown said...

one sided tory... we await dares robust response

ary said...

The man belongs in jail

Unknown said...

Not fair
If the story
Is true.

Unknown said...

Give the child back to the owner naaa

dharmmy said...

D pastor should better hands off, b4 your it affects dia ministry

Anonymous said...

And they say they are christians. What a shame.

Anonymous said...

Ibidun if this story is true, pls do the needful.one day u will know the pain of motherhood....Don't deprive a mum of her kids irrespective of what...Don't. .....

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm one sided story bt until we hear d other side no comment

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Okay. So wat's ibidun's own in dis matter now?

Unknown said...

Some men are just useless.

Anonymous said...

The Ighodalo's again?

Anonymous said...

im a journalist and i believe in balanced reporting. linda, verify these claims from dare. i know him well and the ighodalos. olamide is lying. she was a sweet girl who suddenly changed and became a lesbian, drug addict and wanted the limelight. she is concern to her family. i pity her estranged husband dare. i know the two of them very well when they were in abuja. her shop was in wuse 2 nd they were happy togheter until olamide went beserk

Anonymous said...

This their story did not start today. Dont even try painting Dare as an angel. Way back then in Abuja even her customers witnessed him using her as a punching bag so the beating did not start today.

Anonymous said...

The ighodalos please resolve this amicably ,is not good for the image of the family ,remeber this woman is the mother of these children for Christ sake

OIL said...

Fool y d repetition? ?

Anonymous said...

pls dont rush into marriage because your friends are doing it, be prepared, be matured enough(not age) i feel for this kids, see what broken home is doing to them.unstable life from this age. too bad

Anonymous said...

There are two sides to a story. That said, I have a very strong feeling that this story is very faulty. The whole article looks like a very poor orchestrated attempt at getting public sympathy. It will be nice to hear Dare's side of the story. And Lamide as much as I know you love your kids, you havent done well. You have exposed your family , your kids and the school they attend all because of what? And come to think of t in whose interest it this? Can you give them half the life these kids are now used to? You see, we should avoid sentiments and all. I didnt grow up with my own mother and today I know I wont have turned out well if I did. Its the bitter truth. Please leave the Ighodalo's out of this.

Anonymous said...

There are two sides to a story. That said, I have a very strong feeling that this story is very faulty. The whole article looks like a very poor orchestrated attempt at getting public sympathy. It will be nice to hear Dare's side of the story. And Lamide as much as I know you love your kids, you havent done well. You have exposed your family , your kids and the school they attend all because of what? And come to think of t in whose interest it this? Can you give them half the life these kids are now used to? You see, we should avoid sentiments and all. I didnt grow up with my own mother and today I know I wont have turned out well if I did. Its the bitter truth. Please leave the Ighodalo's out of this.

yawanow said...

I feel for the children dragged in all this. They shouldn't even have custody until they start behaving like adults.

Anonymous said...

This is a very serious issue,let's not be quick to judge until we have heard from the other parties.



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SI said...

This is not fair atall, I dnt c the reason y any parent should b denied access to their child/children excepted if the kids' life is endangered with any of them. Pls and pls, let's be human and fair in this case

Unknown said...

This is so bad, no matter what a woman is not suppose to be denied her children. Whatever it is let them settle for the well-being of the children it is important.

Anonymous said...

Are you stupid? The kids were kept with Ibidun and her husband, yet you ask why she's being dragged into it? She already dragged herself into it. You sure say you well so?

GCN( LADY G ) said...

Wicked ex beauty queen... Day is why God hasn't answered ur prayers... Go and bear children for ur husband instead of kidnapping someone else's children... Pastor my ass!!!!

TAMARA SPLASH said...

Family issue not my biz.

Unknown said...

IBIDUN HERSELF HAS NOT BEEN ABLE TO CONCEIVE (GET PREGNANT)SINCE SHE GOT MARRIED TO ITHUA OOOOO, INSTEAD FOR HER TO FOCUS ON HER GOD SHE IS BUSY FIGHTING ANOTHER WOMAN'S BATTLE. ANYWAY GOD IS WATCHING.

Unknown said...

long story..go sort yourself

Anonymous said...

Only in a country can a so-called respected Pastor like Ighodalo go around aiding in abduction. And every week he preaches love and peace in his church. This is a sad sad case! They should respect the court and allow the children to be with their mother. Abi they no fit born their own pikin?

Anonymous said...

This girl I know is not a mother, you left your kids for 4 years in the care of her husband and sister-Inlaw and all of a sudden she appears and expects the school to just hand over 3kids to her, please I ask what mother would ever do that, from day one the school never met her only the father. So please olamide agunloye sort out you life and all the men you duped and don't bring this poor kids into your drama

Juleslouis said...

This is so heartbreaking! Denying a mother access to her child is d greatest punishment u can accord her. Smh

ShaddyGul said...

I wonder the kind of Men of God we have these days, no matter what the case maybe, No man absolutely No man has the right to separate a mother from her children. Ibidun Ighodalo, you want to be a joyful mother abi? and you, your husband and the rest supported your brother in this ungodly, wicked act, making a mother sorrowful, denying her the joy and fulfillment of complete woman? Do the right thing, and release her children for her, there's no need to prove anything here we know you are rich and powerful. if not, remember God owns everyone and everything......If God can bring down Goliath and his armies, you and your entire cabinet are little. God is not on vacation; He is still in the business of taking vengeance.

ShaddyGul said...

I wonder the kind of Men of God we have these days, no matter what the case maybe, No man absolutely No man has the right to separate a mother from her children. Ibidun Ighodalo, you want to be a joyful mother abi? and you, your husband and the rest supported your brother in this ungodly, wicked act, making a mother sorrowful, denying her the joy and fulfillment of complete woman? Do the right thing, and release her children for her, there's no need to prove anything here we know you are rich and powerful. if not, remember God owns everyone and everything......If God can bring down Goliath and his armies, you and your entire cabinet are little. God is not on vacation; He is still in the business of taking vengeance.

ShaddyGul said...

I wonder the kind of Men of God we have these days, no matter what the case maybe, No man absolutely No man has the right to separate a mother from her children. Ibidun Ighodalo, you want to be a joyful mother abi? and you, your husband and the rest supported your brother in this ungodly, wicked act, making a mother sorrowful, denying her the joy and fulfillment of complete woman? Do the right thing, and release her children for her, there's no need to prove anything here we know you are rich and powerful. if not, remember God owns everyone and everything......If God can bring down Goliath and his armies, you and your entire cabinet are little. God is not on vacation; He is still in the business of taking vengeance.

Anonymous said...

I heard that her brother used to beat the shit out her, i think shes a fashion designer or something along that career path, beast and she was the bread winner, anyway since Ibidun and her husband have not had the blessings of children they dont understand from the womans pov, i wonder who goes to their church becos ibidun is the worst person as a pastors wife

Anonymous said...

Linda, thank you for posting this. This is what women in Nigeria suffer. Is the mother of these children a drug addict, is she a drunk, does she have an illness that makes her not capable of caring for her sons??? If the answer is no, this woman should have primary custody of her kids. The law in Nigeria is so skewed. The children are not even living with their father but with Pastor Ighodalo and his wife, Pastor Ighodalo should go and look for children to adopt or have someone have kids for them instead of them commiting this crime.

Anonymous said...

Hypocrisy is real! Every week Pastor will be telling us the virtue of forgviness. What is dis womans crime that she cannot be forgiven Pastor? Shame on you sir. This is the last I ever visit your church

Anonymous said...

It has never worked and that is why the court is important. Court palava protects women

Anonymous said...

The law gave her custody, if he is so good...he should not have kidnapped them. Abeg let us hear word

Anonymous said...

I don't care if Lamide is an asewo!!!She has a right to her children regardless of what! Why punish her with her kids! Those supporting dare and his family ! The same will happen to u

Orimolade said...

Why won't she drag her into it? Is Dare not her brother? Are the children not living with Ibidun? If you don't want Ib dragged into it, then tell her to return the woman's children abi what kinda ode comment did you just make?

Orimolade said...

So it's OK to deny the Mom access to her children? I don't think you have kids, if you did you wouldn't make this dumb comment.

Anonymous said...

When Lamide abandoned her kids in Nigerian and went to do breast and bum implant and lyposuction no one said anything, tell her to tell the truth! and stop blaming people that took care of her children

Anonymous said...

Even if there are two sides to the story, the point is he's disobeying the court order and breaking the law by kidnapping the kids. She can be a great mother too if given the chance to be a mother to her children. Because the law is on her side, he's in the wrong and should give the children back. The kids aren't bargaining chips. They should be raised by both parents despite the divorce. He forfeits his parental rights by breaking the law to have sole access to them.

boladale said...

Number one, please note that Pstr Itua is not a RCCG pastor.

Number two, it is a pity that this kind of a thing is happening and the faces of the children are involved are on display. Am a mother and I cannot imagine staying one 1 day without my children talk-less of one year without access to them. Please let right organization should rise up to defend this woman. No matter what might have happened between the husband and wife, the children should not be allowed to suffer.

Anonymous said...

Abeg keep quiet and listen to both sides of the story, Lamide that brings different men to the house to sleep with while her kids are present!

Unknown said...

There are two sides to every story.

Unknown said...

why on earth would they deny the mother of the boys to have a contact with the children she carried in her womb for nine good months with all the traumas involved? Please the Ighodalos should respect God and mankind to release the kids to the Mother plsssssssss

Anonymous said...

This funny. she sounds like a stubborn lady who thinks she can just walk up to a court gets her prayers granted and dont give a damn about any other thing. Moreover God hates divorce the bible only sanctions separation. What offence has the ex-husband committed that cannot be forgiven?
You praying to God to help you get your children and yet you can forgive in your heart. If the husband wants to keep the children fine they are his too as long as he can take good care of them why not. Please woman leave everything to God or do it your way maybe some activits will come to your aid.

Anonymous said...

This is so unfair and unjust. Pst and Pst Mrs do the right according to the Bible you preach.

Unknown said...

Well it's one sided story.but if it's true pls return her children back 2 her cause ibidun can't accept dat nt fair

Anonymous said...

I think its time people start thinking properly before just typing. On what basis would a father kidnap his own 3 children & the wife gets beaten up????people we should think furthermore why would ituah & ibidun allow children with a living mother who is financially able (shes iconola with stores in lekki & abuja) take abode in their residence to the extent of beating up & locking up the mother & her siblings. Again ask yourself as the pastor/general overseer of a church is your moral duties to alienate families or try to keep families. I was in court on monday for a case & i saw the charadenits only in nigeria that a father will kidnap children and still brag about it in court. We should think deep that the very corruption of moral in this country. some people will write different things but in this digital age the children will have access to all the drama later in life...is it fair on them>. i think both parents & their families should sit and resolve this if not for anything but for the children

Anonymous said...

I think its time people start thinking properly before just typing. On what basis would a father kidnap his own 3 children & the wife gets beaten up????people we should think furthermore why would ituah & ibidun allow children with a living mother who is financially able (shes iconola with stores in lekki & abuja) take abode in their residence to the extent of beating up & locking up the mother & her siblings. Again ask yourself as the pastor/general overseer of a church is your moral duties to alienate families or try to keep families. I was in court on monday for a case & i saw the charadenits only in nigeria that a father will kidnap children and still brag about it in court. We should think deep that the very corruption of moral in this country. some people will write different things but in this digital age the children will have access to all the drama later in life...is it fair on them>. i think both parents & their families should sit and resolve this if not for anything but for the children

Anonymous said...

Give lamide back her boys!!! Simple.

Anonymous said...

God bless you for this, the lady has no dignity and shouldn't be given the kids, how can she reveal the identity & faces of her children and all the life history online... she's not a fit mum I must say but then it's still wrong and painful they deny her access to her children

joy said...

Linda abeg follow this story till the end! I cant believe this o! This woman must get her kids back abeg u.

Anonymous said...

My kids attend same school, I know Mr Ajayi and he's a great dad... he drops them off and pick them everyday, didn't know he was separated till this mess... she could save her kids dignity atleast and stop embarrassing herself, the show she made on monday was disgraceful

Anonymous said...

Much as I don't like judging people,but some things are just wrongggg. I am utterly disappointed in Pastor Ituah and Ibidun. No matter what kids belong with their mother,i do not care what you people claim this mother did,because next thing they will say she was unfaithful in her marriage. These people,including the father have no right to take them away,they have a living mother,please go and adopt your own kids and do not adopt kids that have a living capable mother. we do not care what she did and did not do. Just rmbr that a mother's love is different from Aunty and uncle Love. No matter what kids will always go looking from their mother. A court has granted the mother custody,they must deem are fit. Please release her kids and stop making this mother weep.

Anonymous said...

No matter what happened , no children should be separated from their mother for 3years. The court has ruled in favor of the mother so keeping the children from their mother is a crime

Anonymous said...

I suspect you are Dare's mistress

oiza said...

You are so foolish and dumb! Y won't she drag the so called pastor ibidun and her husband? When they are with the kids. As so called men of God don't other know its wrong? You stupid!

Anonymous said...

Same Lamide that couldn't take care of her children because she was sleeping around with senator's in Abuja??? Lamide fear God o

oiza said...

You all igodaho family and friends start typing anonymously!

Ebun said...

NIGERIA IS A COUNTRY WHERE POWER AND CONNECTION OVERRIDE THE LAW. BASICALLY, IT IS ABOUT ''WHO YOU KNOW''. ON THIS ISSUE, I WILL NOT TAKE SIDES BUT AS LONG AS THE MOTHER IS NOT IN ANYWAY INFLICTING PAIN ON HER CHILDREN (PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY), NO FAMILY, RELATIVE HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE THOSE CHILDREN. IBIDUN SHOULD NOT ENCOURAGE HER BROTHER WHEN HE IS GOING THE WRONG DIRECTION IN THE NAME OF ''HE IS MY FAMILY''. FAMILIES SHOULD STOP USING SENTIMENTS TO CARRY OUT ACTIONS. ALOT OF US THESE DAYS DONT EVEN KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG YET WE CALL JESUS, GOD EVERYDAY. YET WE PRAY AND ASK GOD TO ANSWER OUR PRAYERS. THE THINGS WE DO AND CALL LITTLE ARE THOSE THINGS THAT HINDER OUR BREAKTHROUGH. IF THESE TWO FAMILIES CANNOT SIT LIKE ONE TO DISCUSS (MEANWHILE THEY ALL SAT DURING THE WEDDING OF THIS EX COUPLE O) THEN SHAME TO THEM. BRINGING THIS SITUATION TO THE PUBLIC TO ADDRESS IS A BIG SHAME. INVOLVING TUGS TO BEAT AND BE BEATEN IS A SHAME AND GOD WILL NEVER CONDONE THIS TYPE OF ACT NO MATTER WHAT. SIT LIKE A FAMILY, DISCUSSES THE ISSUES ON GROUND REMEMBERING THERE ARE KIDS INVOLVED. THEY CAN ATTEND THE BEST SCHOOLS BUT NOTHING LIKE THE LOVE OF A MOTHER WHO TRULY AND GENUINELY CARES FOR THEM. AS FOR THE HUSBAND BEATER, WHO WOULD GRAB HIS KIDS WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF THEIR MOTHER, I PRAY FOR YOU. I PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU INVOLVED IN THIS CASE AND I PRAY GOD WILL GRANT ALL OF YOU ''PEACE OF MIND'' SO YOU CAN THINK THE WAY A REASONABLE AND FAIR MAN WOULD.

Anonymous said...

I hate it when children are deprived of their mother. No matter what, he and his family have no right to torment that woman. The court has given her guardianship so they should give her the children

diamond said...

Ibidun if this story is true, pls do the needful.one day u will know the pain of motherhood....Don't deprive a mum of her kids irrespective of what...Don't. ..... *motherhoodno jokes*givebacktheboys

Anonymous said...

This is obviously not the whole story and my instincts tell me she is economical with the truth. Banwo and Ighodalo is a respected law firm and I believe they will uphold the law. She also said all she had were videos of three heavily supervised visits, so she was allowed supervised visits, by who? There was no need whatsoever to bring the school and the proprietress of the school into this, that was uncalled for. If she was not allowed to see or collect the children and the school called the lawyer, it would have been for a good reason. This is not the way for her to go about a resolution. We look forward to hearing the truth about this matter.

dazeydiamond said...

The psychological trauma those kids will be passing through eehn...otukwaegwu!

Anonymous said...

Lamide fear God

Anonymous said...

Lamide agunloye fear God

GALORE said...

@Ibidun don't be like @Stella damaturu damasus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan


Return someone's children ooo....is not yours....ds story don tay....ds woman don dey beg for her children since


You are still praying to God to answer u @Ibidun......na wa ooo....do the needful bikonu





@Galore

Anonymous said...

God bless u, there is more to this story than what u guys just read here, I do know one thing for a fact, these boys would rather be with there dad! That's the truth, not all mums are mothers guys.

Anonymous said...

I tire o, Wetin concern Ibidun and her hubby now?

Anonymous said...

Dear Linda, unfortunately you just bit more than you can chew *sighs*

Anonymous said...

May God forgive u for ur "cluelessness"

Anonymous said...

She won't like that one bit, she thinks she's d only one that can cry wolf? I pity her for what she's about to bring on herself.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmn, reading thru d responses from people n I shake my head!. If you're a woman n you've blamed Lamide for crying out, pls do pray to God. You do not experience what it feels like having your children taking from you. I do not know d facts of this case, but I know what it feels like not having your kids around you. Lamide, I feel your pain. Pls continue to fight, I did n it all ended well for me!!! NO MATTER HOW BAD A WOMAN IS, SHE STILL WANTS HER KIDS WITH HER.

Anonymous said...

Oga stop lying,a lot of. Pple know them and we know there are 2 sides to a story. Dare is d drug addict,woman beater and broke ass.he's always been jealous of her achievements and success.he's obsessed with her.anywaz,irrespective of their personalities and character,either of them shouldn't be deprived of a relationship with their children. Am sure you don't. Have kids,if you do,u will know dat no mata wat,a mother needs her kids and d kids need their mother

Anonymous said...

I never really believed in the sincerity of God purpose that pastor Ituah followed or not followed when he married the Ibidun woman. Are u
telling me if she wasn't who she was,yellow etc he would. It was just,fake so to speak

Anonymous said...

Thank you very much people never try to hear both sides. Please people shouldn't be fooled by what they read....

Anonymous said...

Na wa for people like you who don't have common sense, well it's not is it.....what does you comment have to do with the issue at hand?

Unknown said...

Waiting for the other side of the story

Unknown said...

I reserve my comment until I hear from the other party involved. Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

@ anon 3:34 shut up fool... ve u slept with her in d presence of her children? probably Dats wat u do.... stop insinuating n give facts. The issue here remains dat she's been denied access to her kids, I pray u don't fall into a situation lyk dis, Bloody coward.

Unknown said...

I reserve my comment until I hear from the other party involved. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

I reserve my comment until I hear from the other party involved. Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

Two sides to a story my left foot. No woman on earth should stay where she will die. If the judgement is given, they should release her kids to her and do what is right by ensuring the children still get the best, that is if they really intend to help. If Dare was responsible, why are they children trained by his wife's brother - the pastor. Men should at least learn to be men. Most of them do not understand what is means to be a father. Look at those beautiful boys... Please Linda escalate this so authorities can get help her. This is what you see from the so-called rich and mighty. People should also fear God in all honesty.

Anonymous said...

May something like this happen 2 u.... nobody taught of then living normal life when they were kidnapped by their father. Now y'all be pushing blame n heaping it on d mum... she wants her kids back thats d bottom line... Mofos

Anonymous said...

Have you ever inquired why she turned to be that way?bad husband, it's not even.what to wish an.enemy

Anonymous said...

You are obviously heartless,may God forgive you. You obviously don't have kids and if you do,may dis happen to you and then we would hear about it.hiss

Anonymous said...

She didn't appear all of a sudden and ur a liar,d school met her cos she came to beg mrs durand to allow her c the kids from time to time.i am sure you are who I think you are.she has been fighting. In silence and she's tired and that's y she's letting the whole world know now.u guys should stop talkin like she just returned from somewhere now nfighting....may God forgive you

Anonymous said...

On no account should a mother be seperated from her children even mad women on the streets protect their kids to the very last.For me as humans and children of God I believe we should all love one another. I can't imagine what the lady is going through it is not fair and not right. Olamide is a good woman of sound mind.

Anonymous said...

Aunty ibidunni why would you take another woman's kids as yours what nonsense

Anonymous said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

Whatever the other side of the story is doesn't count. What can it be ...that lamide is a prostitute and unfit mother lesbian outcast he has naked pictures of her....tummy tuck etc. Does that stop her from being their mother. It's easy for him to say she abandoned them...she ran for her life do you know how much years of abuse can do to you...it breaks you down and kills your self esteem where do you even get the energy to fight when you have been spat on raped abused denied human dignity. She has woken up from your wickedness and social intimidation and it's time to fight . The date or timeliness of the fight is irrelevant now she is ready and the judge agrees give her a chance. PERIOD. We all fight in different ways. For those that say why this medium what do you do when you have a strong man holding your neck.....please let the world know....we are not afraid of what dare will say ...He has been saying it for the past 4years let him produce proofs talk is cheap.

Anonymous said...

You are a fool for making that Comment. I don't know why Nigerians see pastors as Saint. They are not worthy to be called man of God.

Anonymous said...

Sorry what's iconola? Can her income rent the shop or its the fraud she did in abuja she's living on and her runz life. She can't enter abuja today as she ran away

Anonymous said...

You are a big FOOL who believes money is everything. You can live an affluent life, go to the best schools, wine n dine with d high and mighty n still have no value. All you have is an empty life!!! . May God bring peace to this family, heal them n right all d wrongs!. The greatest punishment a woman can receive is to have her kids taken from her!!! You do not want to go through that!

Anonymous said...

@ digital life is the only sense you made, she's stupid for putting her children's pictures and school they attend out here

Anonymous said...

Please does being a prostitute justify their actions ....I'm confused ....someone help me ...I'm a prostitute according to my estranged husband so I stop being a mum ...Help my head around this utter rubbish ...why ain't we dwelling on facts ....didn't the judge think she was a prostitute

Anonymous said...

this is obviously bastard ibidunni I'm beyond gutted

proudondogirl

Anonymous said...

oloshi leleyi o why won't ibidun be mentioned lamides kids are with her for Christ's sake

Anonymous said...

she is the same lamide agunloye

Anonymous said...

shut your gutter mouth she's been fighting since her kids where taking from her oloshi

Anonymous said...

abi o this is a case of using omolomo as theirs

Anonymous said...

speculations

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmnnnnnnnnn.
ABUSE IS SO EVIL.

Mocode9 said...

1. The lady Olamide has a reputable fashion house with branches in Lagos and Abuja, so the people who say is financially unstable do not know better.
2. When has a lack of funds stopped a mother from caring for her children? So many women in Nigeria cannot gather5k together daily yet their kids are with them.
3. If a family law court has ordered the kids to be handed to her then the Ighodalos and her ex husband are thwarting and breaking the law,
4. It is a fact I as a person am aware of that their was domestic violence in the home of Iconola a few years ago when her ex used to beat her up.
5. If the ex husband has the financial capacity why then is he leaving his 3 kids with his sister? Probably because he cannot take car of them as he has no job or steady source of income.
6. Pastor Ituah as a man of God should have waded into the fray and settled the matter not by taking over 3 children that he did not bear. Note thatthe fees in greenwood school Ikoyi range at almost 1million per child per annum. But I doubt this situation should be about who has more money. Kids who go to 50k schools can excel as well as their contemporaries who go to very expensive schools.
7. Wether or not it is Middle of term is not an issue. Children adapt easily! Give the woman her children please.
8. I believe any woman seeking the fruit of the womb must show kindness in all areas to children and her fellow women lest God seal her womb permanently.
9. Ibidun has a huge role to play here. A public figure should not be involved in this kind of controversy. Nigeria is full of ' man knows man' or why will a court order be flouted and nothing is been done about it? A reckless show of power on the part of the Igbhodalos I must say.
What a shame. Did lamide give birth to these kids? Is she their mother? Does she have a right to them? Should there be a constraint because she cannot afford to send them to a school as expensive as the sister in law can afford?has she been granted an order by the court to take her kids? If all answers are yes, then I say ' Rez Ipsa' the facts speak for themselves.
Ibidun be mature act as a mediator, your husband as a man of God and return to Caesars what's his.
Let it not be a case of fighting over another woman's property and she prays to her God to give you your just rewards and you never hear the cry of your own child in life. Do the right thing, mediate, reconcile. May God give you all a solution to the matter.

Anonymous said...

What is he going to say apart from the usual they say about women in this part of the world when things like this happen. It is either they say the woman was sleeping around or she brought a man home or had a boy friend bla bla bla.

Anonymous said...

Give Olamide back her children, nothing she might have done can justify Dare's crazy actions. Dare is a violent, irrational, and mad man. The boys call Ibidun mommy. Ibidun, you are their aunty. Lamide labored over those boys. She poured her blood and water on those boys!!!!! Give her back her children. Act like true christians!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You harbored kidnapped kids all this while. The court saw lamide fit and awarded her custody. Return the kids!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Did u read d article at all or you are just dumb? she has attempted seeing the kids and got beaten and also the matter has been in court. Read!

Anonymous said...

The world must hear this is very wrong. We must all raise our voice it can be anybody tomorrow, pls let's sign a petition to the judge let's help her.this is painful I kn God will help her

Unknown said...

I'm disappointed if Pastor Ituah is actually fathering those kids. Marriage can be really tough o! #choosewisely.

Unknown said...

Na wa oooo....

Anonymous said...

The world must hear this is very wrong. We must all raise our voice it can be anybody tomorrow, pls let's sign a petition to the judge let's help her.this is painful I kn God will help her

Anonymous said...

One sided story needs no judgement abeg. And face your hubby not the Ighodalos. Must they be mentioned in your rants??? Only God knows what you did too... No man can just wake up one day to break his marriage and take his kids. All these one you saying that hes a wife beater has no evidence to prove it so so parkwell...

Unknown said...

One side of d story let's hear from Ibidun and her family won't judge yet

Anonymous said...

You shouldn't judge what you dont know. What reason in the whole world justifies denying a woman access to her children. Absolutely nothing. They need to obey the justice system and return her kids to her. Also do you not think that all the facts were presented in court? Dare and his family must have cited all their ridiculous reasons why this woman is unfit. Despite all that the judge granted her custody. Why not return the kids. If the said pastor and his wife were sensible they would stay out of this and not get involved especially because they are not parents and never has been. As a mother myself, I can say that if you haven't been there and done that you do not have an opinion on the parenting skills of another parent. Bcos you just dont know. You also cannot be praying for children and at the same time deprive another woman access to her kids. Instead they should seek help for their very sick brother who is obviously mentally unstable and irrational. I know him and I have seen him in action many times.

Anonymous said...

Dem Neva born that man that will come and abduct my kids . That's the day he meets his creator bastard.

Anonymous said...

I know everyone involved very well. Please do your research. Every single last one of Dares Ajayis old friends are no longer his friends. He cannot say anything bad about Olamide as a wife or a mother to anyone who knew him well before he kidnapped the boys. Dare has burned all his bridges. Everyone. The only people he can fool with the stories he has been spreading about Olamide and her family are lies. Lies. Lies. And may God forgive him because you do not stand in front of your inlaws and curse them. Which Dare did. Dare is not well. He is suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. He is merely using those children to punish Olamide. The future will tell and when Dare starts to reap he wont know what hit him. As for all the people that are standing by him without knowing the truth, be very careful. Be very careful. Justice will prevail and we shall all reap as we have sown. Without a doubt

Anonymous said...

Women have rights in naija. The court ruled in her favor. Dare with the help of the Ighodalos are trying to obscure justice

Anonymous said...

Pleaaassee!!! Everyone knows Ibidun is the one sleeping around. Lets not in our attempt to air the dirty linens of others, open the yansh of the person we are trying to support

Anonymous said...

You say this because you don't know Dare. Those kids shouldn't be left with him even for one more day. What kind of a father tells his young children that their mother is a prostitute? Even if it is true. No sensible parent will turn a child against the other parent no matter what beef they have with each other. All couples fight. It is very sick of him to do such. He needs to move on. He has been saying the same things about lamide everyday for the past 4 years. He is clearly obsessed with her. This is just crazy

Anonymous said...

What could the fire be to justify taking away kids from their biological mother. Can you please tell me. Not even to grant access. You are clearly not a mother to say sth like this cos if you were I am sure you yourself are not a saint and that doesn't mean that a husband who had battered you consistently for so long should deprive you of your kids

Anonymous said...

It breaks my heart that the children are so brain washed that they even call their mum a prostitute ....really who is the fit parent here...If you love your children you will regard their need for a mother and not downgrade their mother by teaching your children bad words and language. Your children's school says you are a star father they need to know dare is jobless which hardworking dad in naija today is really a star father? Isn't that a red flag ...really are people logical at all. It's the need to constantly proof a point a shameless unrequited point. If the school believes in him so much how about giving the mother a chance too you have no basis to compare... Dare needs help ....serious help ...If you see him and you love him take him to get help

Anonymous said...

It doesn't matter what she has done or has not done. NOTHING justifies taking kids from their mother. And NOTHING Justifies a man beating his wife. Nothing. No one is perfect. Stick with the issue of the kids

Anonymous said...

Too much bullshil and simply an attempt to tarnish image of Pastor Ituah and Mrs Durand. The Agunloyes too are not paupers or nobody's .her father was Minister under Obasanjo and such cannot be bullied as claimed in their write up .the man is also a Senior Pyrate and friend to Wole Soyinkka. If you cannot enforce your court judgement is it Linda Ikeji that will enforce it for you? I am disappointed because I thought Ibadan Girls had more sense than this. Your stupid Lagos friends have pushed you to behaving like an idiot. The igodialos and Aguloyes have common friends and could have settled the matter without bringing the matter to Gboromiro.. Now you will open your yansh to public. God help you.

Anonymous said...

For those who are asking why Ibidun and her husband are dragged into this, let me clarify:
• Dare kidnapped the kids like a criminal. He scaled over the fence, beat the housemaid (there is a police report on this) and then escaped with the boys to Lagos. He then took the boys to his sister’s house Ibidun and husband Mr Itua. A true Christian will not aid Dare and will try and intervene or resolve the matter. But rather, Ibidun denied the boys were with them for the first few months. They (Mr and Mrs) didn’t only deny the kids were with them, they also housed the children that were illegally kidnapped. In any given country where there is a sound justice system they would be arrested as accomplices and will also be charged with kidnapping. Dare and kids were living with them and they (Ighogalo’s) became financially responsible for the kids. • Eventually Lamide confirmed that the kids were at the Ighogalo’s and she was only allowed phone access then that stopped, Ibidun stopped picking up her call. Lamide’s family attempted to reach out to Mr Itua but instead of being a peacemaker, he insulted lamide and refused to intervene. Lamide and her siblings attempted to visit the Ighogalo’s residence to see the boys. Indeed they entered and saw the boys briefly until Dare showed his madness. Dare beat and dragged Lamide, and with the aid of Mr Itua’s security men beat everyone of the siblings (3 grown adults) and got the security guys to shoot at them. They ended up at the police station that day where Dare almost got arrested for insulting the DPO. Despite this, there was no apology from Mr Itua or wife for the injustice that happened in his compound.


Anonymous said...

That this on a blog is such a shame. I knew this couple in Abuja ....very lovely people and i was so sad when I heard about their break up...I believe they could have dealt with this privately. God help those children. Found this old article on them
Our family comes first — Olamide and Dare Ajayi | Newswatch Times
http://www.mynewswatchtimesng.com/our-family-comes-first-olamide-and-dare-ajayi/

Anonymous said...

Whatever anyone says, Ibidun has no right to hold on to those children with the help of the Ighodalos. Nkan ti o da, ko da. Ko loruko meji!! Ibidun was also a runs girl before she became a pastor's wife. So for her to seat in judgement against another woman is so bad. She should not let people fight for another person's problem and place a curse on her. Every woman who has carried a child in her womb for 9 months knows what it is to deny her access to her kids. If she can afford 50k schools for her children, no problem. Send the difference of the 1m school you are sending them now to their mother to assist in their upkeep.
Dear Ibidun, you cannot fight your brother's battles for him. Return the children to their mum.
Finally, no matter how long you and your brother brainwash them. You cannot be their mother. They will still ask for their mother.

Anonymous said...

please i need to make edits to the last post, hold off, I will resend shortly
For those who are asking why Ibidun and her husband are dragged into this, let me clarify:
• Dare kidnapped the kids like a criminal. He scaled over the fence, beat the housemaid (there is a police report on this) and then escaped with the boys to Lagos. He then took the boys to his sister’s house Ibidun and husband Mr Itua. A true Christian will not aid Dare and will try and intervene or resolve the matter. But rather, Ibidun denied the boys were with them for the first few months. They (Mr and Mrs) didn’t only deny the kids were with them, they also housed the children that were illegally kidnapped. In any given country where there is a sound justice system they would be arrested as accomplices and will also be charged with kidnapping. Dare and kids were living with them and they (Ighogalo’s) became financially responsible for the kids. • Eventually Lamide confirmed that the kids were at the Ighogalo’s and she was only allowed phone access then that stopped, Ibidun stopped picking up her call. Lamide’s family attempted to reach out to Mr Itua but instead of being a peacemaker, he insulted lamide and refused to intervene. Lamide and her siblings attempted to visit the Ighogalo’s residence to see the boys. Indeed they entered and saw the boys briefly until Dare showed his madness. Dare beat and dragged Lamide, and with the aid of Mr Itua’s security men beat everyone of the siblings (3 grown adults) and got the security guys to shoot at them. They ended up at the police station that day where Dare almost got arrested for insulting the DPO. Despite this, there was no apology from Mr Itua or wife for the injustice that happened in his compound.

Anonymous said...

Please post this version:
For those who are asking why Ibidun and her husband are dragged into this, let me clarify:
• Dare kidnapped the kids like a criminal. He scaled over the fence, beat the housemaid (there is a police report on this) and then escaped with the boys to Lagos. He then took the boys to his sister’s house Ibidun and husband Mr Itua. A true Christian will not aid Dare and will try and intervene or resolve the matter. But rather, Ibidun denied the boys were with them for the first few months. They (Mr and Mrs) didn’t only deny the kids were with them, they also housed the children that were illegally kidnapped. In any given country where there is a sound justice system they would be arrested as accomplices and will also be charged with kidnapping. Dare and kids were living with them and they (Ighogalo’s) became financially responsible for the kids. • Eventually Lamide confirmed that the kids were at the Ighogalo’s and she was only allowed phone access then that stopped, Ibidun stopped picking up her call. Lamide’s family attempted to reach out to Mr Itua but instead of being a peacemaker, he kept giving them the roundabouts and said the kids were happy and thriving there. Lamide and her siblings attempted to visit the Ighogalo’s residence to see the boys but they were not allowed entry and Dare showed his madness. Dare beat and dragged Lamide, and with the aid of Mr Itua’s security men beat everyone of the siblings (3 grown adults) and got the security guys to shoot at them. They ended up at the police station that day where Dare almost got arrested for insulting the DPO. Despite this, there was no apology from Mr Itua or wife for the injustice that happened in his compound.

Anonymous said...

I DO NOT KNOW DARE AJAYI.
I DO NOT KNOW OLAMIDE AGUNLOYE.
I CERTAINLY KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT AND WHAT IS WRONG !!!

I AM A WOMAN, I AM A MOTHER.
I KNOW THE PAINS and PLEASURES OF MOTHERHOOD.
I UNDERSTAND THE BLISS AND BLISTERS OF BIRTHING A CHILD.

For any reason WHATSOEVER under the sun, A MOTHER SHOULD NEVER BE DEPRIVED THE JOY OF BEING WITH HER CHILDREN ....except she's DEAD and NO MORE.

Didn't the BIBLE admonishes us to RESPECT and OBEY authorities?
Is the COURT OF LAW not an authority to be obeyed?
Are ministers of God excluded from obeying authorities?

I AM A CHRISTIAN with a VERY SOUND MIND. I don't follow pastor says this ... pastor says that ... which is the common norm in our society.

A whole lot of us have been brainwashed to hero-worship these ministers as we have been made to believe that they cannot be questioned or held accountable for anything ... THIS IS WHAT I CALL RELIGIOUS BONDAGE!!!

As ministers, have they tried wading into the matter and finding a lasting solution to it?
Have they not taken sides by NOT OBEYING COURT JUDGEMENT/ORDER?
Have they acted out their common slogan ...W.W.J.D meaning What Would Jesus Do?
Is their CONGREGATION sooooo PURE without blemish and sins?
Do they not have SINGLE MOTHERS in their church?
Why haven't they collected all the CHILDREN of their single mothers because they will be prostitutes and lesbians since they are not married ???
Mtcheeewwwww ... Oshisko.

There will be A REASON why the court GRANTED OLAMIDE CUSTODY of her boys ..... I want to believe if she is as crazy and irresponsible as she's been painted, the court wouldn't have granted her custody.

Is no one seeing the ABUSIVE part of this story ????
I HATE ABUSE !!!
I AM UNASHAMEDLY AND UNREPENTANTLY ANTI-ABUSE !!!

*DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
*EMOTIONAL ABUSE
*SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE POSSIBLY
*THESE ARE EVILS THAT NO WOMAN DESERVE TO LIVE WITH.

Also, UNHAPPINESS DO HAVE EXPIRY DATE as NO ONE (Man or Woman) CAN BE UNHAPPY FOR TOO LONG.

Haaaaaaaaaaa ....GBOGBO ABIYAMO AYE E DIDE LATI GBA OMO FUN OLOMO.

OLAMIDE ... The sun will shine for you and you will have YOUR BOYS back !!!

Anonymous said...

It is!!

Anonymous said...

Putting your kids pix and school out here is wrong and says a lot about her. I'm a parent in the school and I've never seen her. I know a lady that stood every morning for 5 years just to wave @ her son, she didn't bring police to lock down the school. Her son is back with her now.

Omalicha Speaks said...

If they were girl would he have hustled them from her too? The kids are young and need their mother more than anything at this abeg.
Ironically I wrote an article about the effects of divorce on children today. Click my name to read my personal experience and also share yours.

MY TURN said...

I believe Anon 6:43pm

Anonymous said...

This is not about sentiment, it's about doing what is lawful!! Since you didn't grow up with a mother I don't exactly blame you for placing materials things above family values. You are the one being sentimental, pandering to wealth and affluence. The law has decreed that the children should be with their mother. Pastor Ighodalo and his wife are not above the law. Annoyingly they have the audacity to flaunt their disregard of the law publicly. what is the difference between them and public officer that blatantly abuse their office for their own enrichment.Pastor Ituah as a "Man of God" has a better example to set than this worldly line he has toed. No woman should be deprived of her offspring. And as for those accusing her of sleeping around, pray provide names and places. keep in mind that there is a long list of person Ibidun is also servicing which can be produced at any instance. The accusations and cross accusations of waywardness are even irrelevant. Let the Law begin to prevail. Let there be order. Nigerians should stop glorifying the corrupt and amoral.

God bless said...

It would all end in praise Lamide would get her kids back. So if she did a tummy tuck or boob job am sure all of you saying that wished you could afford it.

Anonymous said...

This is not about sentiment, it's about doing what is lawful!! Since you didn't grow up with a mother I don't exactly blame you for placing materials things above family values. You are the one being sentimental, pandering to wealth and affluence. The law has decreed that the children should be with their mother. Pastor Ighodalo and his wife are not above the law. Annoyingly they have the audacity to flaunt their disregard of the law publicly. what is the difference between them and public officer that blatantly abuse their office for their own enrichment.Pastor Ituah as a "Man of God" has a better example to set than this worldly line he has toed. No woman should be deprived of her offspring. And as for those accusing her of sleeping around, pray provide names and places. keep in mind that there is a long list of person Ibidun is also servicing which can be produced at any instance. The accusations and cross accusations of waywardness are even irrelevant. Let the Law begin to prevail. Let there be order. Nigerians should stop glorifying the corrupt and amoral

Anonymous said...

People should not be so quick to judge. I have been in the same situation and did not see or speak to my kids for 6 months. It is any mothers nightmare and pain you cannot wish on an enemy. The man will say every and anything to paint his ex wife as the devil, as did mine. This is in a bid to justify his actions, unless there is evidence that she is a danger to her children, there is no basis for taking her kids away from her. Her actions are for many reasons. I played the fool for months but underneath all that I was planning and making sure I did everything according to the law. I got my judgement and it was still war in retrieving my kids. She has to cry out for help to ensure that her children are not kept away from her any longer.

Anonymous said...

Men who refer to their wives as prostitutes are deranged! Often times, its badmouthing.
A true man would usually maintain a dignified silence and walk away (or forgive- if so inclined).
The animals amongst them are ever so quick to call women prostitutes even if your offence is owning a better car than them!

Anonymous said...

Whose this SICK person????????? F___ OFF!!!!!

Lisa D said...

And the pastors wife went to use the money from the congregation members and tithe to open event center and will be flaunting it in out faces.Next time you will go and be putting her picture up as top power abi made women in Nigeria the poor congregation members cannot even afford bicycle.Na wa...There is God

Anonymous said...

We Continue to treat pastors and ko like they are Gods that is why people continue to perish.You will be carrying savings account to pastor when you dont even have any.And dont judge the mother, when we live in a lawless country.useless pastors

Anonymous said...

No, women do not have rights in Nigeria if the law won't enforce the justice system's order giving primary custody to the mother. The police would have done their job, knocked or rammed down the door where the kids are being kept and got them out. In a functioning system, the courts make the rules and the police enforces them when they're broken.

Subomi said...

I have never been a fan of kids kept with just one parent and refused access to the other. Very unfair... if this is true

Anonymous said...

Hi Linda, the way you reporter this story is biased and unprofessional. You only listen to the story of the woman. You did not hear from her ex-husband and the Ighodalo. It seems you have a beef with the Ighodalo's. Try and learn to be professional in your writing

Anonymous said...

Na wa!!! Issues sha. I feel for the children. Pastor Ituah should have known better. Ibidun should have avoided all this. Being God mother to other lovely kids. They should have encouraged this mess @ all.

Anonymous said...

Good

Anonymous said...

Nice comments. the writing of this story by Linda is unprofessional

Anonymous said...

linda please. take note , d said pastor is no longer a pastor with rccg again. he left b4 he got married to ibidun.

Anonymous said...

There's a strong bond that exist between Mother and child or children as the case may be. It's unexplainable . Right from when the child is in the Mother's womb. No right thinking man that truly loves his children will keep them apart from their Mother. As we celebrate Mother's Day, I pray God give all the parties involved the grace to do that which is right.

Unknown said...

I really dnt knw wat to say, I am doing right nw is cry for her

Temi said...

Libers sha...how can some pple even refer to Ibidun not yet having kids in dis matter, DAT is sooooo below d line. And PST Ituah,haba fear God now and do His prophet no harm. I'm a mother and I know children always belong with their mother, I can't begin to imagine how much she's missed Ind past 3-4 yrs. No matter wat. Well notwithstanding I know lamide, Iconola when she started, Di's same Ibidun who is d enemy helped her grow.introduced her to her pple and her sis in laws like Mrs Ify Ighodalo, Asues wife. She's was one of her good customers. And den dose days of her being on magazine covers with her hubby and kids. So as for the kids being known, no b today. Edon tey. Another lesson here is not all DAT glitters is gold. when U see pple on magazine covers and on d media as a whole we shldnt envy dem. Our lives cld even b beta.no one knows what the pass thru in their closets.
It is well o.

Anonymous said...

Shut up and hear both sides of the story! Laude was sleeping with different men in front of her kids! WHICH FATHER WANTS HIS CHILDREN TO GRIW UP IN THST ENVIRONMENT!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for this reply!

Anonymous said...

Linda please explain why you didn't post my comment? Like I said before. Is it that any story sent to you gets published? There are professional ways of presenting gossip.

Anonymous said...

This is so unfair ... Pls ibi dun return those kids to their mother...

Anonymous said...

Obviously you have strayed away from the point ...i hope you never face a damaged self esteem as a result of a very very abusive relationship. I'm sure lamide is grateful for the help ....The news is time up ....While you are busy talking about surgery she forgot to fix her nose tip that dare tried to bite off with his teeth....diaries of a mad black woman.

Anonymous said...

Either she is a runs girl or not she is their mother. Give her back her kids and stop focusing on senseless factors. Asewo De born pikin wey go take Asewo money send am go havard even ibidun na Asewo.....

Anonymous said...

The kids will rather be with dare .....lol did they tell you that. Gosh read between the lines....are they really with dare? It's a joint custody judgement what is the power tussle for ....If not that there is more to it.

Anonymous said...

'Without even delving into the details... 3 Children! 3 Trips to the Labour Room and someone won't let me see my kids???? NA TO DIE THERE BE THAT!!!

Anonymous said...

no matter what please give this woman her children , at least let her see them biko...... she shld not stop talking o.......the human heart is indeed deep and desperately wicked,

Chikaka said...

Isn't her Dad Olu Agunloye? What's he doing while this is going on? He too has some clout.

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