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Saturday 14 March 2015

Dear LIB readers, can I date my third cousin?

From a female LIB reader...
"Is it OK to date my third cousin? I fell for him before I even knew we were somewhat related. But it's too late and the feelings is mutual. I have been intimate with him but no sex yet. I can't get over him. Is there anything wrong in dating my third cousin?
Which one is third cousin again? Well, I watch Telemundo and cousins sleep with each other. But then again, those people are not well...lol. What do you guys think?

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Anonymous said...

You have to be clear within yourself, whatever decision you take. Look inside yourself and ask whether what you are doing, is wrong? As for me, there is nothing wrong in 2 cousins getting married as long as you two don't have the same family name.It's an abomination if you two bear the same family name.Love is the criteria. Can you live without each other ? Can you face the sick society, who will be looking at you with condemnatory eyes maybe. The very question shows that you are not strong enough inside yourself and just relying on other people's opinion will make you suffer more.
I will be getting married to my aunt's son though some of my family members are not okay with that. My dad and mom are okay. the only fear they had is that it will cause some problem within the family if for example we have problem in our marriage. I don't agree with those who are saying marrying your cousin is an abomination. It isn't when you don't have the same family name but it is when you have the same family name. My religion support that too.
No judgement that's the path I choose and don't regret it one bit.
PS: Im french sorry about the mistakes.

Anonymous said...

Take a Flight... Run as ur legs can cari u. it's an abomination. Thank God u noticed this on time.




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Anonymous said...

If possible, take a Flight... Run as much as ur legs can cari u. it's an abomination. Thank God u noticed this on time.




twenty4yu@yahoo.com

Yeshaazy said...

I don't think its wrong. The rekationship is distant and the bible only condemns close relationships. Third cousins only share the same great, great grand parents. So their great grand parents are siblings. I wont even consider myself as related to you to be honest.

Anonymous said...

Lol no be only otu ocha. Na Otu purple

julz said...

If you like date your 21st cousin na you sabi, sha get ready for Egwere things, una 2 go act movie, write book on top this una abomination saga cungangan twangaga it is an Odoriferous saga

Anonymous said...

But una sure say this person no be man wey want fuck his male cousin. An homo sexuals they usually have this abominable thoughts. Anyway as someone talk say Hausa dey do am. You see how messed up all this Hausa Muslim be? Even give them 2 Naija them go blow themselves up. An sick people now? As for you wey started this topic say you no know say una be cousin, an lie you dey lie. You knew and you like some people out there want kpansh your cousin, brothers, sisters,uncles,aunt and even your mom and dad. I beg you dey lust too much and you can lie to us here. And if you no know, when you found out the first thing you should be feeling is disgusted and ashame. Not, " I can't stop. I feel for my cousin." My advise to you is FUCK OFF.

julz said...

If you like date your 21st cousin na you sabi, sha get ready for Egwere things, una 2 go act movie, write book on top this una abomination saga cungangan twangaga it is an Odoriferous saga

Anonymous said...

Lol....story sounds familiar..I think I know dem...dream on dear

Buqore said...

Lol.@olumide david,u are damn funny

Anonymous said...

Lmfao....so funny in this 21st century 😄😄😃

Unknown said...

No start from ur first cousin, then second and finish with the 3rd,,,,,, Otodo ask me again

Unknown said...

#if you feel its wrong, don't! If your parents refuse,don't! If onye isi umunna gi refuses,don't! If your pastor refuses, don't! Please don't!

Unknown said...

You should not.

Abity.nneoyi@gmail.com said...

Father Abraham married his sister...SARAH

Jacob married his mother brother's daughter......1st cousin.

So, telemundo is no perfect watch but the BIBLE a standard for living.

jp said...

Nne enjoy ur life biko! Its a free world.

Unknown said...

No is not proper now dat very wrong of u,dont do it ooooooooooooo

Unknown said...

It depends on ur culture , in hausa/fulani (muslim) culture where I came from. There is nothing wrong with it.....ask ur parents about it , if it is wrong just quit it.....

Anonymous said...

Your d useless one stupid animal like you

Unknown said...

Hello Girl,you were in the relationship when you didn't know that you guys were cousins, but now you know, and while it is not too late take a u turn. There are guys out there with nicer look, character and many other futures that you see in him. The U-Turn will hurt you for a while, but you will over come it.

Anonymous said...

who even invented that you cant marry your cousin? after all we are all cousins since we all came from the same source Adam and eve

Anonymous said...

It's called Incest!

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