My boyfriend told me he would have proposed to me but he doesn't have enough money to buy the kind of engagement he wants his woman to wear. He says if it is so important to me I could buy it and then he would pay me back later. Should I or shouldn't I?
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LMAO.... Badt sharp guy,if u buy it then u r on a long thing... Asin jozing world
Sure you can if you truly loves him.
hahahhahahahahah! Joker
My dear, let him buy. That prove your worth
Then it means nothing! Let him buy a rubber ring, then maybe save up and change it! Then it will be memorable!
Two words: Run Away my dear.
Just same way he would tell U̶̲̥̅̊ if weddin is important to U̶̲̥̅̊,plan it,ltr I wld pay bk d xpenses,ma sis no try A̶̲̥̅♏!
Hehehehe ma dear you can do it for love na and also borrow him money for wedding he'll pay back after the wedding ok.. Afterall There's Scarcity Of Men.. Abi Bekó?? Jabó...
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It doesn't matter
That's disgusting! Hell no hun, what if there's problem in the future and hour stating 'u went to buy ur engagement ring', 'I didn't propose'. Pls think with ur brain not with your heart
Your bf is probably a user, he dosnt even want to waste money buying u a ring. He's like: what's d point when i wont even marry her
Lol*if he's serious n u hav d money buy it urself hun
He is a joker,, doesnt av money 4 a ring, how den will he av money 2 marry u or u wanna b engaged 4 years??
Hehehe! When I thought I've seen it all, guys keeps getting conner
He told u d fact but tell him to propose to u with any ring if his choice nd u will acpt it..
In other words,you are asking if its ok for you to lend your lover the money with which you are gonna be proposed to,eh?
Hilarious...that dude should grow some balls and beards too.
Oooo.... u knw his financial situation beta... e shud buy wat e can aford,but he obviously cant aford "wat e wants his woman to wear" nw... and "if its important to me"... dat nigga aint serious wit u... move on girl
Don't you dare buy the engagement ring cos he won't pay you back, if he truly wants you he should buy u anyone he can afford
Pls wait till he gets the money to buy u his dream ring don't use urs
Pls wait till he gets the money to buy u his dream ring don't use urs
He should stop making excuses. He should buy an affordable engagement ring for now and replace it with a more expensive one when he get the money he is talking about
Don't u dare!
Pls wear what he can afford...
Gurl u would be dumb to do that... Fact of the matter when he is ready he would starve himself jst to buy u wat u deserve. Don't b deceived o cos is he gonna pay ur dowry on credit too??? #Shereefar#
eh eh if he doesnt have money to buy u d kind of engagement ring u want early stage, when will he have d money to give u d kind of life u want?? buh sha if u see he is a hardworkin man wiv a bright future then u can, its not ring that makes a man or marriage
Are u a learner ni? Ofcos u shouldn't... U're not complaining, he shld put a ring on it... And move on..
All this kind jamb question Wey some LIB readers they ask sef, no ans o to ur question
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Am sorry to say this,that guy has no plan of getting married to you.pls be careful that's how pocketless and deceitful guys talk.Run before you clock 50 for that guy hand
Babe, let him buy what he can afford. U can change the ring when shopping for ur weddin band.
Don't buy it, it shows u are desperate.
my sister DONT! he will use that later to tell you have you rushed him into it and all. DO NOT (SK)
Let him buy the one he can afford.
~~Success Has No Limitation~~
Lmao! Google it!
Linda, pls dont. Run from him asap
Babe wake up joo, his borrowing frm engagemnt what wld the married life btwn u two look like if u eventually engage and marry yourself for him. I beg my fellow ladies let learn to filter by calling abnornal abnormal. Dont do it. Nkem
You be Mumu??!!?? Buy now... and engage yourself! KMT
Let him buy the ring by himself. Even if na kpangolo. No b u wan marry am? If u buy it urself, u are in deep shit in future especially if shit hits the fan. God forbid .
he cant afford an engagment ring,so how will he feed your hunger then?girl pls dont,if u buy,u will end up buying every other things.
Y wuld he even tok of proposal wen he is not even ready.? Wen tinez probably go wrong 2morow he might start sayin afterall i didnt even propose 2 u.....
Tah. U b learner?
Na, don't do it. Let him buy the one he can afford now and then change it later to a more suitable one. Don't appear like you are desperate for him.
Let him buy d 1 he can afford.
Then he should wait when the money comes he should buy the ring and propose to you,you can't buy a ring for him and he proposes is not done that way #bright bravo#
You should. Desperado.
Na wa...the kind of stories we hear! My advice is u let him buy what he can afford. I believe d spirit behind d engagement ring is not hw expensive it is bt the act of proposal itself. So if u wldnt mind, u shd make do wit what he can afford dear.
My dear wait till he has enough, if he really wants чσυ he will do his best to make the money for it. Men can't be trusted
U had betr dnt buy d ring.....wait till he can afford d type he wnts his lady to av on or betr still ask him to buy any1 he can afford for now then he can replace it wen he has d money for d typ he wnts.... avoid future problems...
kind of sounds weird.
If I here,linda stop dis gist jor if d is no new's
Don't buy it. he should be a man and source for the means to get u what he thinks u deserve.
Dont!!!! Dat dude gt no balls
Don't buy it. Whenever he is ready, he shuld buy it. Besides engagement is not d most important tin. U could buy dat tin and wear it 4 years and he won't send you. Wen he is ready, he will do d most importatnt tin which is marriage.
That is to say you are the one proposing to yourself and if anything goes wrong he got nothing to loose.
Ohhhh you don't say hmmmm buy d ring nd get prepeared to foot,hand and even think of the bills wen u guys get married
Please don't. But let him buy the one he can aford.
my dear dat ur so called bf can't buy an engagement ring buh if its time 2 sleep wit u he wil b Eva ready. if he is serious ad truly lovs u he wud struggle 2 get d ring dnt make d mistake f buying it. if he is man enuf let him do wat oda men do .
U b learner ma! Na so u go buy car, buy d haus, pay sch fees 4 lekki british cuz his mouth is bigger than his means.
Wat kind of dumb boyfrnd is dt who cannot buy d engagemnt ring..if rily he cnt gt u a ring den aw do u expect him 2 take cr of u n ur childrn wen u av dem pls dnt buy it dt man is nt crious.
Some women can be dumb sha. Then in marriage somebody will start complaining abt emotional n physical abuse. This is how it starts now! Wot kinda stupid ring r u contemplating on buying, woman?!
Smh...silly things we ladies do for love! He's definitely not ready to wife u..so don't start what u obviously can't finish.
Don't be stupid my dear. Pls let him buy what he can afford now. He can always change it later when he has got the money.
DON'T!!! Cos afterwards, you will buy your wedding dress and rings and pay for the entire wedding and pay the rent and buy him a car and pay the kids tuition and buy him clothes and feed his family and buy him shaving razor and buy his friends beer... DON'T!!! He doesn't want to engage you. He's playing with you. "The kind of ring he wants his woman to wear"! Ha! Lie of life. Babe, if he really wants you, what he would have done is buy you a ring, no matter how cheap and beg you to manage it till things pick up. Shikena. And he should learn to cut his coat according to his size abeg. If he wants big things, he should work Hard and get em. And that's how he'll be feeling fly when people are complimenting the ring. If you start paying for things to make him look good, that's how it will be forever. Next thing you hear is, "I can't marry you now because I don't have the kind of money to give you the wedding you deserve". Taaaaaaaaaaa. Even Toke had a very quiet wedding so why can't he? Another one is "I want to give you a good house to live in so you don't suffer. Can you pay now, I'll totally pay you back later". Tsk. Another can be "i don't want our kids to go to a public school. Can you get them into a niiice private school? I'll pay back". Sigh. Women have suffered sha. Abeg, don't buy anything. Na you go engage yourself? Eh? I wonder what gives men the effrontry to make such comment... well, except you're coming off as desperate to him or presurring him. Hmmmmm
Tell him 2 buy d one he can aford 4 now,later wen he has money he can replace it with d one he wants 2.d cost of d ring does nt matter,its d love attached to it dat matters.
Very funny. Let him buy the one he can afford if he really wants to engage u!
Pls don't buy it else u'd b engaging urslf.
I saw this in a movie. Just tell him to get any kind of ring abi? It is the intention that matters not the ring! He can upgrade it later
Pls dearie don't do that,the guy does not have respect for you and at the end he will not pay you back he is a 419 joor
Buy it jare!!!!!!! Aren't you desperate? MUMU!!!!!!
What's d point of being engaged if he cant buy u a ring? If he cant afford a ring is it a wedding that he can afford? Think twice girl, u r probably being used
So funny so dis shit is real? Na wa o. What v dis men taken us for?
O hell no!!!
Wa d heck
Am sorry..is this a real question??? Girl are you nuts???ask yourself this question..and think deep..what kind of women do we have in the world today????
Then who will finance the wedding?
Dat one na question?... Buy na,u wil b d 1 proposing to urself, if he trully wanted to propose 2u,money wil come out,4get d cock n bull shit his sayin
i just dey laff. my dear be patient with him or alternatively port to a guy with "better coverage"
Your question is so dumb. buy and propose to him fool.
Lwkm hia o...babe he don't like u...cos if he does he wil get it no matter how much it costs...my advice to you is...DNT RELY ON HIM..I don't mean u should leave him o
Lol...
Your boyfriend high nii???
What does he mean by he would pay you back!
Please don't answer him. He should go ahead and buy the one he can afford afterall it's the thought that counts...
*smh* silly man(he will pay you back)
So u wan 2 be Toke makinwa part2...u beta open dat ur monkey eyes,tel him 2 buy Aboki own nw ur finger wil fit in it.EBY
plz do buy it,most of u women look at what ur friends have and try to put that pressure or standard on ur man.buy the ring u feel u will be proud to show ur friends and am sure the man in him will never let d secrect out.and also refund u back once he can get the doe.trust me dear he loves u,but wud rather not get a ring u will hateand feel he wasted money.#TalkinFromExprience .
Lmao! Some men do think wif dia ANUS, lol. Plz don't buy any ring
Duuuh Don't. if he loves you he'll get the money. Please please dont
He is a joker,he should buy the cheap ring and engage you then he can then buy an expensive wedding ring.this kind of man may also tell you to sponsor the wedding let him pay you back later.lol..
You must be on the wrong postineour pills....odè
Yes do pls! Love is always about helping eachoda
Pls dnt my dear.it sounds ridiculous,haba! Y would u buy ur. Own engagment ring? He should borow from sum1 else nt u.d guy is nt serious ni! (T.flames)
Pls dnt try it,if he wants to propose he shld buy any ring if he truly loves u
Why should u? Its not compulsory u wear an engagement ring.
I think you should even buy two and engage him instead of waiting for him to engage you.
Must he propose with a ring, is he hinging his not proposing to not having money for the kind of ring he wants you to wear... Let him propose abeg, if you want buy the ring if you have the money, the main issue is he proposes...
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Sweetie encourage him 2 buy what he can afford for now. It can always be changed later as long as d love is genuine.
I dont think u shld buy it.
Hmmmm 7 years ago my girlfriend bought her engagement ring n guess what we been married for 6 yrs and we have 2 boys. if your guy to you is genuine and honest , BUY IT.
lol..dnt try it girl! beta use ur common sense! he shld buy d one he can afford even if na wash wash..yeye guy who jst wants to see hw desperade u can be!!! smh
Who does that? Are u gonna be d groom or d bride? My dear it more like ur forcing him to marry u and dis is he's own way of doing it. If he truly loves u the amount of the ring wouldn't matter to him,at list ur not the one complaining about the prize. If dere is love that would not matter cos love conquers all. Just don't rush ur self into what u will regret later, abi u be 2years old? U no wise
Don't!! Guys are becomin daring deze days.. A man proposed 2 ma frnd n she accepted, he now asked how much was she bringin 4 d weddin coz he is jez buyin drinks.. Ar u shittin me? She gav him bac his ring lyk it jez got fire.
There is no big deal there. Jen wi te mi say so.
seriously wat is wrong wit u.we r in d 21st century n not d stone age...act in ur rite senses
Babe, y shld u buy ur own engagement ring? Ha! Abeg don't try it.
If the marriage is so important to him too, he wil look For d mony to buy it
Babes, scam of life. Tell him to buy what he can afford now. When he makes more money he can buy the kind he wants.
DO not buy your engagement ring my sister. The guy na scammmmmerrrrrr.
Beware.....
D guy no well. I guess u will pay 4 ur bride prize as well as the whole wedding itself. Things we hear. Wen they said go get married, were u told to be stupid as well. Rubbish.
Hmm, what can I say? My dear, I'd advice u not to buy d ring cos someone who can't afford d kind of ring he wants his woman to wear won't be able to afford d wedding. Unless u are ready to sponsor d wedding as well. I've never heard dis kind of tin b4, naija men won't cease to amaze me. Dat man is a scammer
Vraiment? is it diamond studded he wants to buy?? He should be the one to buy it. I dont see him paying you that money back if you do(just my opinion shaa....). what if he says "after all no be you deh wear am?
hahahahahsha
I don't think u should buy it. Let him buy what he can afford for now.it can be changed later.if d love is genuine,no one will be looking at how expensive d ring is.
Let him buy what he can afford 4 now.
Hehehe.. Most times I wonder if these things happen or if they fabricated.. My dear better accept the one he can offer if he's serious. When its time for the wedding he must have saved to get a better ring.. But how can a man actually say that to a woman? Just wondering... #Mr Lucky
c wat ur desperation has caused u... lol
R u seriously asking this??? Buying the ring would be a very stupid thing for you to do..you better wait for him to be a man, buy a ring and propose properly to you
Retty
If u do, u will be d one to pay your own dowry and feed him afterwards. He is less than a man.
hehehehehehe..
hehehehehehe..
Gurl, marriage is not about the ornament used in proposing. I see two things in this your report. It's either u are vain and trivial or he is not serious about you. No offence meant.
Oh my world..what is this?some kind of joke?hell no..wait till he has the "money" or better still buy what he can afford..this aint hollywood baby..wake up!
lolllzzz..
Never.even if it's rope he can afford,we shall manage..wakeup
nne' ndo' o..lwkmd, lmao, lolllinnggzzz..
my advice is dont buy it...plz
Dear pls run 4 ur dear life
Ma dear tell ur boy friend 2 buy d kind of ring he can afford den after d engagement u change d ring 2 type he wld want u 2 wear, do not buy d ring he will engage u wit, is Jz like u re engaging urself.
He should buy the one he can afford. You shouldn't be the one to buy your engagement ring
u can as well sponsor the wedding ceremony he will sure pay back... desperate measures!
R u nuts???? Let him get d ring
hahahehehihihohohuhu...
Lmaoooo, wahala wa oh! Ehn buy am na, atleast hes willing to pay back
I tink datz stupid if he really wants to marry u nd he really loves u, he wuld make sure he gets u wat u deserve,I tink if u buy ur own ring for him to propose is just crazy nd u wuld look cheap nd desperate
Its sumow joor...tell em 2 buy any1 his money can afford nd he wil change it wen he has money.becoz anytin can appen nd he wil say.na u propose 2 ursef,men can be very funny ooo.
If dis ring is important nko? What will hapun to ur money if d guy end up not marrying u? My sister I beg open ur brain n eyes o. In dis generation!
Better tell him to buy what he can afford. Pay u back later for how? Lol!!!
Yes you should. Any other ques.? Ok Goodluck! Idiot.
Hmmmm ajuju?no comment
Heck to the NO! That's how you'll marry him and he'll be telling you to pay your kicks tuition and what not. He won't pay you back. He should be a man and do things the right way! What kind of man even says "if it's that important to you". Girl..find yourself a man that would go out of his way to get you a ring and not speak to you that way.
Like seriously u be mutula just hear urself Lmao. GHANAGIRL
Tell him to engage you with the one he can afford.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
For wat, dnt even try to buy it. Expect u wnt to engage him lol.
Dnt abeg..wat kind of lazy man way out of buying his woman a ring is that?..he shd buy what he can afford abi cut ur coat according to ur size so the same applies..men get married not boys..u dnt have to be a millionaire to marry even poor man gives engagement ring...plz or unless ur the expensive babe kinda gal u might have given him that signal..
He's not ready to marry u yet!
let me ask u this? are u in a hurry to marry him? tell him to buy the engagement ring his money can afford and wen he has got enf money then he can get you the one you really want its just like u are the one proposing to ur sef and not him
Pls buy yourself another man instead!
After den, u can buy d car nd he'll pay u later, u can buy d house and he'll pay u later...*smh...if he doesn't hav d moni 2 buy his kind of engagement ring, whr wud he get d moni 2 do his kind of wedding...
.........@iamgodphrey
He should buy any1 he can afford. If you buy it there's no comitment on his part as such. If he can't afford it, he can ask his guys n pay them back. Not u sis!
Lol....Bad Guy
Are u mad? U no b oyibo, tell ur boyfriend to buy d one he can afford 4 now and buy d one he want to buy later whn he has d money.
He should buy any1 he can afford. If you buy it there's no comitment on his part as such. If he can't afford it, he can ask his guys n pay them back. Not u sis!
Let him buy what he can afford nw, then change it later when he's comfortable enough to...
after buyig dat ring,u will have to buy evry other tin for the weddin for him to pay u back too.
it's the responsibility of the man. If he is the one that wants to marry then he should rise to his responsibility except if you are the one marrying him... That's my suggestion....
Hmmmn oshisko, buy it now, but get ready to buy ur wedding gown, pay the house rent, pay the bills when Ʊ eventually get married. Rubbish.
Lol there's nothin we wldnt see with ds boyfriend and girlfriend mata
Ehn! Is dis a joke? He shud buy d one his money can afford na,or did she giv him a specific kind she wants to wear?abeg he shud buy d cheap one now den wen his money don plenty make him buy anoda expensive one.
I think he should get a ring of lower quality... Its all about intentions. Couples change their wedding rings, when they can afford a more befitting one.
Your boyfriend is silly my darling!
Does he have to propose with a ring??
I hope you also intend paying for the whole wedding after buying the ring!!
Cheap excuse!!! Just know you are heading for destruction with a lazy man that will give you reasons why he can't pay the rent, or pay school fees or feed the family.
Na wa o...dont you dare buy that ring ! wait for him to buy it for you..it doesnt have to be spectacular..
Pls dear don't try it, since its not also important to him then look else wr cos i see you unhappy in the end!
Pls don't try it
He should cut your ring according to his pocket. Or are you sure you are not the one specifying that you want something expensive?..... based on you want a lifetime time expensive ring, not minding if he can afford it or not. And probably he said you can buy it if such expensive ring is of importance to you. Well, we have heard your side of the story and we can't be conclusive about it until we hear his side too.
Your boyfriend is silly my darling!
Does he have to propose with a ring??
I hope you also intend paying for the whole wedding after buying the ring!!
Cheap excuse!!! Just know you are heading for destruction with a lazy man that will give you reasons why he can't pay the rent, or pay school fees or feed the family.
Your boyfriend is silly my darling!
Does he have to propose with a ring??
I hope you also intend paying for the whole wedding after buying the ring!!
Cheap excuse!!! Just know you are heading for destruction with a lazy man that will give you reasons why he can't pay the rent, or pay school fees or feed the family.
No, if he reali wana engage u, den let him buy d one he can afford. Chai! Sm guys sha. Over smart is worrying him.
my dear if you dont mind ur marriage being filled with a lot of "ill pay you back later" then go ahead and buy the ring. Seems like he does not mind you being the bread-winner.
Run run run.... You will be the breadwinner of the relation on the long run.
Babe plz tell him to buy d one his money can buy dt u will accept it. I dnt buy d idea of u buying d engagement ring *eyesrolling
Lmao! You should be a fool to even think of the thought. He should buy even the cheapest. And replace it later when he has d money. Silly excuse.
Tell him to buy it like that..the one he can afford!haba
Since he has giving the go ahead...... I suggest yu buy it....
What matters most is the genuine and true love between you two, not until he propose with a ring that will accertain you two to get married or not, not everyone seems to get a proposal ring and they are doing so welland some happily married. But if you actually felt u desire the engagement (proposal) ring and its important, you can get it ad am sure your man will fulfill his word back to you and truly I hope you wouldn't need to make him pay back, because its all about you two and your union. Happy union and success to you two.
Scam
What is d meaning of dat, my sis don't dare to buy any ring, 2morrow he will say u forced him to engage u. Nothing we no go hear from all dis useless men. He should go get a cheap ring for now, later he can change it to a better one. Rest my case
Scam
I think he is out to play with your emotions. He is not serious, stupid guy...
it depends..........
Real men don't discuss their proposals.Buy the ring and put yourself in prison yourself.I like this guy
Rubbish
Pls don't buy dat ring,d fun of engagement ring is dat a guy bot it 4 u.if he really loves u and dosnt hav moni 4 d ring,i suggest u go on without d ring till he is ready to marry u. BECKY
You are a very desperate fool for asking such a question...Make sure u pay 4 d wedding 2..*hiss* Miss Foxy
Na so marriage hungry you.
Please don't do that o cos that's his responsibility and uf u take that away from him cos u tink u wanna help him den na san san u dey pour for UNA two garri, besides sef its not compulsory u wear an engagement ring. What's important is proposing and getting married ASAP, shekina!!
Pls don't....let him buy what he can afford
Hehehehehehe you are asking us, Nne abeg run 4 ur life to avoid heartbreak.
Dis our guys self wit diferent tactics!wayo man. Just be very careful dear!
Wat kind of question is dat,are u a fool?who den is doing d engagement?
Lol... Pls don't... He's not serious
Pls buy d ring and also get ready to pick d wedding bills. Mstcheeeeeeeew!
Madness
My dear is like this man does not value u, please don't buy it, he should buy the one he can afford and when he has the money he can renew it.a pastor or a parish priest can bless it for u all over again. On a second thought if he can't buy a ring to engage u now then I wonder in how many more years to come before he will buy the wedding ring
Run.......
Oh yes,the proposal is important to u but he should try to be the man and stay within his limit by buying u the ring he can afford n not u buying what he feels is ok for his woman.
Run....
Buy na, Since u're a fool, nd marry ursef in d process too, I wonder aw sm pple can be soo daft dt u av to go seeking pple's opinion to an issue dt its solution is Knocking u on ur head! D Dude is nt ready, nd believe me, he won't be ready 4 a long time! My dear go nd read the book "WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES" and thank me later.
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Buy na, Since u're a fool, nd marry ursef in d process too, I wonder aw sm pple can be soo daft dt u av to go seeking pple's opinion to an issue dt its solution is Knocking u on ur head! D Dude is nt ready, nd believe me, he won't be ready 4 a long time! My dear go nd read the book "WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES" and thank me later.
~APHRODITE~
Wat is wrong wit dis generation? Think! Think!! Think!!!.....He should buy u anyone he can afford madam pls have some dignity biko, if he can't buy engagement ring how wil he buy ur wedding ring? Tomorrow u wil come here nd tell us u're d bread winner. Nonesense!
dont try it
Pls let him buy wat he can afford.. Love and marriages are not all abt the engagement rings.. Are u expensive or do u put pressure on him on the kind og ring u want? Do u compare? Be moderate....
Lmao!
Lol don't make me laugh if ur bf does not have d money to buy u an engagement den he's not ready for marriage. A Sensible or reasonable guy won't ask his gf to buy an engagement n pay later. Babe d truth is dat he's not ready for marriage n if he luvs u so much dat he want to get married to u he can buy any ring by himself n not asking u to get one by ur self plsss use ur head n tink
Buy now if you are that desperate. If he was a wise guy, he shld stylishly borrow money from you to buy the ring. But buying it urself, well I dnt know..o. Follow ur mind or collect what he can afford
He's not ready to marry as in financially, don't buy it and don't push him.... Pray and everything should be okay for him
U must be dumb to still be with him
That guy is not serious! he should buy the one he can afford at the moment.......later on he can buy the one he wants his woman to put on...he aint serious
Lol
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