If I write details of what happened that day, none of you will believe it. I was in shock myself. All I will say now is please take it easy on her with your comments and attacks on social media.
The only reason I'm writing about it now is because she kinda shared what happened to her on her instagram page but most people didn't get what she was trying to say. Also, like Tonto said, suicide is never the solution to any problem. This is for those who are contemplating it. See the photo Tonto shared on Instagram and what she wrote after the cut...
"WokeUp happy n decided to share diz***I've bin here b4 n I can tell u we stronger Dan our problemz/painz/Etc**That day I realized SUICIDE iz for COWARDZ**if u've gat no1 to talk to like mii I suggezt u strt wit GOD,diz shitzzzz crazy(world) but it iz Ourz dnt leave it in SHAME,ILOVEU"---Tonto DikehTonto dear, you're a beautiful strong woman who deserves to live a long, fulfilling life. Never let what people say about you push you over the edge, because when you really think about it, nobody holy pass. And remember, the haters can scream so loud sometimes that you miss the voices of the people who love you. Hear their voices and know you're loved. Keep your head up, girl. Linda
*Note* - Please keep the comments on this post clean and respectful. And other bloggers, please don't get messy with this story. It's serious! Thanks
392 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 392 of 392Sowie babe, bt u shld also watch d kinda tins u say 2 people cos das d main reason y dey r hatn on u, bt suicide is neva d solution sweetie. Hold on tight dear u got u glam on. We luv u n rili nid 2 c more of u so plz dnt tryy takn ur life again k?
she's finally realised her mistakes..
U c we cudve lost a life......I dnt use 2 comment, infact dis is my vry 1st tym of commentin in dis blog.....I had 2 do dis 2 serve a note of warnin on us LIBers, let's watch d way we take on dis celebrities....we cum here nd reduce dem 2 nofin.....blogs shudnt b a place we'r u let out ur frustrationz.......dey(celebs) cum here nd read dem and are alwaz vry sensitive 2 wot dia fanz fink abt dem.....plzzz plzzz nd plzzzz deyr human beinz lik us nd go astray atymz but d way we hate nd cast dis uncanny spell on dem is not ryt.....effect a xhange tankz.
Tontolet hunnay... I yab you a lot buh I swear down I love u and can fight for you.... If i hear say the tot of suicide enter your head again....... *straight face* Please Tonto I love you cos, you're beautiful, hardworking and determined... Buh I wee still yab u tho *wink* .lol
@Bobo_Edo
Take it easy tonto its well
no body wan die but every body wan go heaven... in tuface voice, hustle dont come with depression its too much joy and flexing that most times bring depression and suicide... has anybody read this poem RICHARD CORY before.
Sweedy Jesus loves u most.pls don't mind what people are saying against you,live your life to God and stay away from bad things.and always have tat jesus loves u and that is not everybody can hate you,love you creamy
Its well.....
The truth must alwys be told.linda u can choose to block this comment but its for the better.if u want ppl to not hate on u then stop with the razz behaviour,stop abusing ur own colleague(do u know if ur abuse also md her suicidal?,did u feel sorry for her that u were doin just what others do to u to her?) Tonto u hv to stop smoking weed n acting irrationl then bring God in wen things go bizzare.this is the truth,I don't hate u jst a sincere advice
Linda give us d full gist na...tonto we r nt ready 2 loose U̶̲̥̅̊ ooo biko..it is well
Thank God for ur life but as someone in the limelight, it will be impossible for pple not to talk even when there is nothing to talk about. I will suggest you build in sessions with a psychologist to keep your focus as you are destined for the top. Wish you well.
Stay Strong Tonto! Seek solace only in God; man will always disappoint. We love u!
Tonto dez go a long way to tel u hw much God lovs n cares abt u. He is givin u a second chance. We can stil love u fm today d way we lov OmoT,MJ,Rita D Jenevieve etc. We ar nt here to condemn u bt to corect u,if out of 100 n 90 ar sayin bad of u then u need to retink. We lov u bt God lovs u more
Tot u were an iron lady. Wat went wrong gurl? Watever it is, take it cool on ursef. Suicide?????........ Nah! Dats not it at all
Eiyaa my sweety poko , jst take tinz easy wt urself ok. One wt God is wt majority ,jst luk de way pple talk and even abuse God our creator ? Den talk more of we human being tonto, weda u do gud or bad o pple most talk so 4get pples talk nd luk onto Lord ur God .
Linda, I hardly comment on ur post and wen I do, I don't insult. But giving us dis serious warning is gonna make everyone say jst nice tins wen dere are impt truths to speak out. So I'm jst gonna say my mind, it's left to u to post or not. I'm sorry dat Tonto has been frustrated to d point of contemplating suicide. It's sad. I hope she feels better from now on. Thank God she didn't do it. Dat aside, Tonto shld change. Y form hard babe wen u aren't dat hard? Now dat she's speaking like a gud person, I hope she begins to respect other pple and calm down too. She provokes d public into saying bad tins bout her. She insults pple for nofin jst like dat mercy J thingy. So in as much as I feel sorry for her, most times, pple are d architect of dier own misfortune.
I guess all of her antics were acry for help... Hopefully she gets it.
All is gonna be okay, dear!
Hmm, this a soul screaming out for love... Sometimes, 'celebrities' are the most lonely people out there. With all the glamour surrounding them, you'd think they're happy but they feel so empty inside. Tonto has to re-evaluate her life and find her personal path to true happiness.
You are loved dear
Am not being heartless but miss tonto u've sed worse nd done worse 2 hurt oda piple's feelings. Nw u knw hw dey felt. I guess u're nt dat strong lyk u claim. Sori bout hw u fil tho. Jst got an advice 4 you "CHANGE!"
Tonto pls don't mind wat haters say about U God loves U and I love U too pls stay strong for ur loving Funs
She for don kill herself now...ewu ocha..
I had always loved Tonto from her very first movie i saw.
In this world we live in presently, all we see is judgmental people who will not even give you a chance before they pass their ill perceived comment to tear one down. The hardest part is finding the courage to ignore them. IT IS SO HARD A TASK. The wisest king that ever lived said, if a king pays attention to all people say, he will soon hear his servant insulting him. I don't know all the answers but i can tell you the one i know is the most potent. Jesus has never fail any one yet. Forget the facts that men and churches try to misrepresent him as someone who can not behold sin. Come to him as you are, because God does not have any person but imperfect people to work with. He is a true father, the very true father.
Tonto u always cos problems for urself trying so hard to be like riri or lady gaga u ar tonyo and i are not strong enough to take the heat so take a. Chill pill
Linda my first message goz 2 u. First, evrybody i s entitled 2 Dia opinion no mata d situation! U can't b pleaDN 4 pple 2 take it easy. SecondLy, if Tonto wants 2 take her life, Hw is dat our biznes? D least we can do 4 her is pray 4 God 2 rest her soul. Afterall, everybody shez bn insultn, like MJ Neva kill demSef. Linda, I beg u in Gods name 2 post ma comment coz z straight from ma hrt. No hypocrisy
it is well
Tonto i love you and would miss you if anything ever happens to you. your a strong & beautiful woman, find that strength and run with it.
Tonto,pls repent and accept Jesus Christ as ur Lord and Personal Saviour. He gave u anoda chance 2 Change.
Am glad ur still alive tonto but do unto others what u want others to do unto u.you can't spew such negativity and hate to other people all the time and expect love!u get back what you put into the universe!I hope that this period helps you take a good look @ ur self and helps u grow and become a better person! Stay strong girl!
Eeya,plz don't my dear we luv u 2,only try 2 change som of ur wayz dats all,no one is perfect dear
Linda I aint buyin dis shit!!! I love n respect u a lot (no homo) Tonto is an attetion seeker!!! Lemme lisen 2 her story 1st if not......*rme*
Wow so linda has a heart! I'm surprised honestly. Tonto love, nothing is worth taking your precious life. God loves you even if no one else does..Its never to late to start afresh.
BILLIE JEAN HAVE YOU HEARD??? I know ur life is already bitter, pls don't worsen others.
She's a mentol? Are you kidding me?
who stp ha 4rm kilin ha self nawa o
Am a Man of God, pls hw do I contact Miss Tonto Dike? I know what she's battling with.
It is good you tasted the pill you feed people with. I'm glad you have learnt your lessons in life,sad you learnt the hard way. And I pray the peace you feel(I could say from your msg) is permanent by the grace of He who gives peace. Please keep whispering same words to your beautiful soul...suicide is for cowards. You aren't a coward my darling. Remember,You can still have your fame and your God, if you accord your fame to He who has made it so! Don't take glory for what He has done...that's when pride enters you. Stay blessed and enjoy your beautiful life.
Dil
Tonto I like this girl and I wonder what went wrong over the years with her and now... SUICIDE. Abeg you too should change to effect the change you want. #teampokobaby. Linda post my comment for once na...
D urge to chip in a bad word,if nt for ur caution linda,hmmmm#lips tightly sealed,God deliver u toto poko
I've been there too Tonto.THANK God for friends who came to ur rescue.Me I had no one to stop me,no one to care.In my desperation,I heard God's voice speaking to my heart,I don't know how I did it.I just found myself in a deep sleep,couldn't harm myself anymore.GOD took control. My mum used to say "when you think that your situation is worse there is someone somewhere going through the worst".In this life dear charity,we always wish that we had what others have meanwhile we don't know the cross that they're bearing.For Instance,I admire you.I am not nigerian but I watch ur movies.I wish I could have ur talent and success but now I understand that we all have our crosses to bear.would you love to bear mine? lol I don't think so. Thats where Jesus plays a major role. You're not alone sugar banana,its just that you're a celebrity and everything about you is criticized (bad or good). You've made mistakes in the past because of that spirit of depression,you fought so many battles,you're missing your mum.And people don't know,they don't see all those tears of yours hidden behind the display of rudeness and craziness.THATS A CRY FOR LOVE.but you know what?the devil wants to take advantage.HE IS A LIAR.pls darling,find a true man or woman of God who's gonna pray for you.there is a connection with the marilyn monroe face tatooed on ur back.U surely know how she died,suicide,depression in the midst our stardom.I LOVE U thats why i'm not holding back the truth
I have been there before, and i know how it feels dear, but trust me if u are reading this Tee-baby, only JESUS can fill that empty vacuum in your heart. no matter the level of success, frustration, deprivation, loneliness, addiction or wealth, there is a place in our lives that nothing else but ONLY the love of God can fill, give Jesus a change dear and experience healing n Joy like never before, he makes all the difference, Rev 3:20, shalom
I knew frm d way she was carrying on dat she was lonely. Don't worry,just give it all 2 God and he will give u peace that passes all human understanding
I must say I'm very disappointed Tonto. I'v always told people dat u remain in d limelight cos u do tins 2 keep u der. I believed it's ur strategy n considered u very intelligent 4 it. D world knows u...u have fans...how many of ur fellow contestants in next movie star r still known now? N u didn't even win did u? How many musicians were called along wit burna boi n co 4 dat concert? Even wit ur so called crappy song? I can go on....snap out of it n keep doing what u r doing 2 make sure ur name is not 4gotten. D world will talk more had d suicide attempt been a success. Don't try dis again...All d best.
Hey babes pls try n take tins easy!!!dnt b hard on ur slf
Ain't it just a trip dt it takes sm1 to nearly commit suicide for ppl to be nice to or say nice stuff about them....including u madam blogger #Linda#......abeg, enuf wif your pretence.....ain't it y'all bloggers and media workers dt lay celebs n peeps on the public table of mutilation? Now, u talking like u be saint. Anyway, bk to d matter.....Tonto, hold on....I knew you were in some emotional pain, eventhough u tried covering ur pain wif hateful words towards ur fans, crtics and even fellow actresses....#Mj n co#....I saw right through your fronts....but all in all, I am thankful you didn't succeed in ending your life. Remain strong babe!
King David said in the Bible "when my soul is overwhelmed, take me to that Rock (Jesus) that is higher than I.....God is on your case dear. I love you
Tonto durlz..who wulda thunk..U ARE tougher dan dis..lav d way u do n get away wid sum shady stuffs n nt give 2 bleeps.wherz dat chick huh?!dyu knw what sum pple wud giv 2b u!!!helloooo *earth calln*there re pple out der who laaav u!but God lavs u more.MWAAH••• LULUjade
The only solution to your issues is JESUS. Forget what others say or think about you. What is your relationship with God? In Him you will find peace. The bible says in Jeremiah 29:11 " For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saith The Lord, thoughts of peace, & not of evil, to give you an expected end".
I hope this will make her change her ways and serve God
Its not as if people just hate her for no reason,,most times its cuz of the way she behaves n how she behaves..she should sha take it easy and try not to b on d spotlight for bad things everytim, she should just relax n calm down n really focus on her life for now n try to make amends.. Always remember that God loves u..
The haunter now becomes the haunted.baby tonto biko,we love u.
Linda u bring d news here and we comment now u r making us feel bad. Dats bad. Its better u close ur blog cos we r free to make our comment. If tonto had done a good job notin people say wod break her down. For instance I remember when dey said tins abt pastor chris, p.adeboye etc even kim k bt did dey commit suicide NO. Tonto needs help nd dats d truth. The blog is for us to express our feelings nd there shouldn't b restrictions. Tonto pls don't commit suicide allow God to strengthen ur path. He is d only one dat can heal u. There is nothing u r going through dat people ve nt. + linda stop bringing news and watch people leave ur blog.
Tonto na Beht y?if anytin happens to u who wd take those roles u interpret so well dat nobody else can? I get how a person wd want to take their life,buh wen u jst pass thru dat stage n come out alive u'r shinier than u ever were...stay strong sister n u'll come out shinier.
#seriouslysayin
Well,I tot she wanted tu alwz b d talk of d mo.btwn she shuldnt v started wt she culdnt end na..mtscheew
u've alwys bn a hard girl hu can't be tamed nor derailed by wat ppo say abt u.why tryina kill urself dear we love u buh try 2 be gud abeg!pls post my comment!
i normally read your blog every morn but commenting for the first time
you may not post this but the truth is that tonto needs medical and spiritual intervention,this wont be the last until she gets help
may GOD help her
Try n take evrything 2 God,we still love u.
Try get a grip gal...peeps dont hate u..jus try 2 b friendly n stop d i dont care attitude, diz iz africa
..u ll b suprised d amount of luv u get back..Stay alive, there iZ so much living to do...RZK
Tonto Dikeh apologize to all u av hurt n insulted n turn a new leaf.nobody insults u wen u avnt done nytin rong.u kip actin all strong like u dnt care.even ur colleagues dat smile n laf wit u aren't all on ur side so try to b 9c n bhave well.coz if u had killd ursef my dear movie premiers wud stil go on dey cud jst rmemba u n giv u one minute silence#shikena# first stat by putin a pause or stop to ur musical carier which stats d buzz jst like wat genevieve did,she didn't even boda again.GBU
re yo gbaggzz intentional?
No matter wat Haters say abt @TONTOLET. You will keep bin my sister.You will grow old Dear....*Proudly Rivers*....*Proudly Ikwerre*.
Tonto people like you alot. its just that you act as if u just dont care, being overly wild etc. my dear if only u can calm down, you will see how we all love you.
You are so pretty and u can act so well. Just stick to your acting, dress classy and stop being overly wild.
God bless
Linda abeg! Wen she is insulting oda pple's life and cursing out dia mothers on twitter she doesn't knw her own words can make pple commit suicide abi? Mtchewwww, now ur saying kip ur comments 'clean and respectable' well I advise u to pass dat to ur tonto, she shud kip her life clean and respectable! If u like don't post my comment, kmtt
Tonto dear, suicide is not the best solution, but shaping up ur life and being a better person is! Next!!!
Toto, haba! U too busy body, why not lie low for a while. Why always u? I'm not casting blames here but plz as a lady, get a grip of urself n stop all dis notice me tings. Frustrations sets in wen one won't relax n think.
Maybe its true,but to me its just a way of getting peoples attention. The best way is for her to change her lifestyle.
Life isn't a bed of roses and while passing through the journey of life,we get frustrated and pushed to d edge even to d extent we start considering suicide as an option to put an end to our torment!!
But then there are many things to live for,our few love ones for one(1), Two(2) our purpose in this empty world. Have we ever wondered what our purpose in this world is?? Some people get so carried away with riches,enjoyment and merriment of our immediate world forgetting eternity....now am not preaching about christianity or any religious believe, but then I wonder if other people think in the direction I imagine things a times; some scary questions I ask myself is:
i. where am I going to after this
world?
ii. what will it look like if I can't
Breath again?
iii. My dead grandparents,friends,
Close relations,where are they
at present?
iv. Is it just one life or there is
another one after death??
I think those four question are enough coz more questions will keep coming if I go on! Now back to the matter on ground, Tonto Dikeh as far as this world is consign, every1 is on his or her own! No one have the right to judge anybody coz the last time I checked no one can boast of being a saint, and b4 God we're all equals in sin, but then self forgiveness is really important here; that is U have to forgive urself first b4 u can be happy again!! Forget about side comments and gossips no one is feeding u, so u have the right to be ur self and do whatever u like but most importantly cease being the enemy of urself.....deal with the enemy from within b4 facing those outside!
Be at peace with every1 that way u'll feel secured and happy. The only reason u'll want to end ur life is coz over time u've succeeded in making enemies out of those who should be called ur friends i.e envying,being unnecessarily jealous and abusive. U should put away such unnecessary behaviours and move on!!
Now the last point is please turn to God as he alone is the only true friend and comforter in times of distress..... + its not all about this world alone,how prepared are u for eternity??? If truly God delivered u from ending ur own life,pls ask ur self these questions and have a rethink about life!!!!!!
The message isn't for Tonto alone but to everyone of us who reads it!
ŊO̶̷̩̥̊͡ kill yasef oo babe cos Ω̴̩̩̩̥a anoda gbege b dat season to everlastin...change ur wayz A̶̲̥̅̊₪D̶̲̥̅̊ run to baba God....Linda ŊO̶̷̩̥̊͡ bother bring τ̲̅hε̲̣̣̣̥ bottle of heneiken *sob
Tonto.....big ups on coming back shug! I used to be one of those people who used to be a jerk in my statements on suicide..until I saw LIFE for what it was! But there's nothing the sky spits out, that the ground cannot withstand. This thing we call life is humbling.. We gat this booboo. Love ya!
Tonto dearie, u dint ve to attempt suicide 4 any reason, wen Jesus Christ has given his life 4 us, i suggest u draw closer 2 God, so u can experience true happiness & joy lik a river flowing thru ur heart always & nt suicidal tots.
Tonto seems to be living a good life, tho life gets tough evry now and then; is that enough reason for suicide? Suicide is for the brave. Saying u almost committed suicide is a cry for attention. Shld Mercy J have committed suicide when Tonto used such salty language and cursed her to Saturn and back. Tonto is rude and foul (personal experience) now she's forming delicate. Linda pls u know better!
Fikky
Who cares? NFCS α̲̅πϑ Maltina#jst passing#tontolet no die o abeg*
Linda ur comment is disgusting, sorry to say n pls post this. I'm not taking sides with people that feed on putting others down. When u guys open ur mouths n drop d word "haterz" do u reason? If someone isn't doing well n u wanna help, don't criticise but u must make d individual aware of d faults n point to d solution. Tonto herself is always mouthing off, did d people commit suicide? Ex; MJ?NO!!! Help her by pointing out her faults n d solution at d same time. She can't b perfect, but she can be better. May divine Wisdom n peace reign in ur life Tonto. Amen
--Teeteelahyo--
Woow. My frnd from uni called me up saying she wanted to drink omo+dettol+bleach coz her fling of one month stopped picking her calls. She said she had d cup in her hands, I told her to ahead. She couldn't, now she married with 2boys.
CoMmitting suicide isn't an overnight act, it's a build up of several yrs of issues. Tonto & my frnd just was down and needed a shoulder to cry on. Tonto is a lot of things, suicidal isn't one of them.
Janet J
Abeg abeg abeg dis is a ploy to stop people from wrtiing negative things about her, it won't work f me though, grow up n save urself all dis negative publicity
I seriously hope this is not a publicity stunt. Cause a lot of these celebrities will be doing anything to create attention.
But if it is sha real...my condolences go out to her. She should hang in there. As my people say...jide ka i ji.
These gbagz makes me wanna commit too mehn!
Tomato nkemu don't even try to write S talkmore of Suicide bikokwa hia Sui gini...........
Tomato nkemu don't even try to write S talkmore of Suicide bikokwa hia Sui gini...........
Pls tonto if u don't like negative talks den try to b positive and if u don't like talks at all stay away from d limelight. U can neva eat ur cake and hav it. No pity from me.
First of all linda we all knw u her fan Ãήϑ close 2her,secondly u trying 2give her all the attention she crave 4.well ¶ fink wats happening 2her įs Nemesis after she insulted Mj. НªvΣ she seen how it feels 2b insulted.or she fink she įs a tuff girl. Or she got attitude well news flash nobody cares! She įs jst an upcomer she shuD learn 2act mature and professional Ãήϑ follow the footstep of her role model Rita D..she shud learn 2respect people Ãήϑ mind her biz..nobody hate her she only makes peeps 2hate her b/c she acts childish and insensitive.but change įs all she nids Ãήϑ give her life 2christ not the Devil.follow me @emakc Ãήϑ ¶ will FF back.
I love u Tonto Dikeh
Plz all u haters should free the poor girl, she's but human just like you all, you all should just take a chill pile and put ur selves in her shoes, she may not be perfect, but well who is? Your not her creator.
Very well said anon 11.55, and above all she should stay away from these twitter and things.secondly,she should stop her bitchy attitude and stay on a lowkey.I bet she would be the better for it. Its a way of regaining her self respect back cuz she has lost it long time ago.
Tonto baby God lvs u ok m he will never allow u waste. Come back to him, bc hz all loving. And u Linda, mind d kind of these u post abt our celebs.
This life is 'do me I do u,man no go vex' u dish it out to people and they give u multitudes of ur insults. That said, I can only wish u well tonto!
Amanda bynes?
I can't believe it has to take this for Linda or other bloggers to urge their readers to be positive it's sad why can't u tell your readers to be positive?plus Linda you control your blog and accept comments so you are part of the problem and the starter your blog has the most evil commenters and comments because they are miserable people because I don't see how happy people with a good life great life hood upbringing can always write evil things about people it's so sad that the media knows its power but choses to use it the wrong way.Linda the media is a strong tool people believe what u and other blogs say I know you want to make money but if you can allow positivity it will still make you money.see now because you said they should be nice it's nice comments meaning you don't approve the bad comments right?you can do better
My advice to you Just by merely observing your actions and comment .... I have realized that you have bipolar affective disorder. If indeed you have attempted suicide once, please see a psychiatrist for mood stabilizers and psychotherapy. Otherwise a recurrence which is inevitable, might not give a third chance. Good luck. Dr Dapcee
Hmmmmmm,me surprise oooo,neva knew she has a soft spot in her hrt cos she appears just too hard for a lady all d tym.queen sheba abi wetin sef...take life easyooooooo
Fame is not only about money, its also about containing criticisms from media & detractors. Some of these are sponsored by colleagues in the industry who wants to bring u down. What matters in this world to those who believe is ur relationship with God and to those who doesn't believe take to ur consceince. People talk about u cos of who u re and the fame u worked urself into. Cos of that u want to blow ur future cos of low lifiers who all they do is sit and type rubbish and post without caution on the impact it will create on the receiver. No body deserves my sleepless nite not to talk of suicide. They can say all they wish to but they can't change u. U alone can change urself. So be strong and focused. And I think as a celeb u need a pschyologist cos u can affordto pay the bils to help u in situations like this.I love dearie
OK LINDA if you want clean comments on tontoh cos she nearly committed suicide, think of the thousands of people you blog about too that nearly committed suicide as well not just TONTOH. tontoh puts herself out there and she knows it. you go the airport see an ex classmate and then you tweet, you sing and tweet, you have weeds on your page and later deny it has nothing to do with you. when the lashing gets too much i hear suicide.
you want to this to end, speak to the right people and hide yourself. you are not the only celebrity out there. lots of good celebrity keep a low profile even with their instagram pages having new pictures every week.
concerning the near suicide attempt, can i just say you need continuous counseling for the time being. its not just putting up pictures and saying ''i am glad i overcame this''. this is a mental issue and you need someone to practically hold you hands in prayer and mentally and walk you out of this junk spot. ALL THE BEST TONTOLET...
LINDA POST MY COMMENT PLEASE.
U are an idiot yourself, u don't need to insult,this person is just trying to advise her to mind her mouth and try not to hurt others, e.g she just wrote sometime ago that people marry horribly.do u know Tonto? One can only know someone from what they say or how they behave.
I agree with u
U people won kill tonto dike abi to me I will rather advice to change her attitude all celeb are meant to inspire the world in a good way instead of you people to tell her the truth
Tonto dike are so dead
Its not easy being a celebrity. Thank God she is still alive
Obehi darlyn is dat u?#UnilagMBA# i know u ve a lovely soul hon! Bless u!
Anyways me I dont have much to say, as u lay ur bed so u shall lie on it...... Do unto others what u want to be done to you.... A golden rule I believe so much in....
N.B: Anonymous 10:40pm, I read ur comment and I can relate with it, Please try and reach me on ibk_jasmine@yahoo.com... we could have a heart to heart chat.... Cheers...
Busola shut up
We love you Tonto always remember that and please forget about all the negativity and stay positive, the Lord is your strenght
LOL really LINDA?and what about the people she says things about?like Mercy Johnson?what should mercy do?smh!!rather sad tho
Tonto I love u.
Thanks Linda. This post was for me. Was just thinking of ending it all. Would try another shot at life.
Tonto my Rivers Sister, The reason suicide is on your mind is because you do not feel good about yourself within. You must love yourself first and foremost. You have to love yourself and recognize your imperfections. Then you have to tell yourself that those imperfections you have no control over are just that, something you cannot do anything about. Then the ones you can control, write them out and design an approach for addressing them (I am not talking nose jobs here but personality issues). The reason people's words get to us is because we don't take the time to define who we are for us so that nobody else can define you. Part of defining you is recognizing that you are the daughter of a king, the earth (including Nigeria) is his footstool and that you are made in his image and therefore represent perfection. You also have to set boundaries for what you expect of yourself so that nobody can sway you with their expectations of you, which most times have nothing to do with you as a person but with what they hope for you to become/what they want to see or what they expect for themselves, which by the way may not be what you have dreamed for yourself. While I can say stop thinking about suicide, I wont because I recognize it comes from a place of self-loathing that comes with a perceived lack of self worth. Look yourself in the mirror, love yourself and stop drinking and cavorting with people who are your FFFs. Make yourself scarce and you become a prized jewel. You will be fine if you do this. Fame comes with a lot of scrutiny and pain. You have chosen fame, so control what people say or know about you, okay. It literally is in your hands.
Keep ur head up girl...for more advice contact me thru wemiann@yahoo.com we need to talk...
Tonto, what pple say affect u a lot and dats y u reply almost everything,even though u try to show urself as a hardcore woman. Ure a sweet cool woman and u deserve better, do not let anyone make u think odawise,Jesus loves u, He loves u so much and he's calling on to u, Jesus is ur safe haven,u'd find Joy right in his arms, take it easy dear, do not take ur life! D ability to fight ur demons would make u a better person, God bless u Tonto.
don't know why she could have contemplated it ...but to each his own! keep your head high people would talk and you can't be loved by all always remember the people that matter are those who know you best and believe in you..... if its all the comments on social media (which i seriously doubt) then its either she gets a thick skin or stop setting herself up cos people would talk plain fact of life! also i suggest she sees a doctor could just be depression and anti depressants would help we treat mental illness( i don't mean this as an insult) with such Levity in our country
Oh my dear. I feel your pain. Have been able to advice and help a few pple like u. Talk to me and am gonna help you in all aspects . 08138803529
I've been there. I know what it feels like to fail esp since I was once in the most brilliant category. I advise that you find someone to talk even if its ur pastor if u can't afford a psychologist. U can even talk to one of ur lecturers. Suicide is not the answer. Keep pushing forward and pray without ceasing. Ull definitely break thru. I'm glad I didn't give up. My life is so good it's unreal. So don't give up
U can talk to us ere if u dnt mind. Stay positive. Everything will turn out for good
I go alwayzz dey pray for u.
I'm jenny,nice to meet you.
You can understand bro, is not easy, if you search Tonto online most comment about her Ǻn̶̲̥̅̊ԃ her music is not encouraging. Yes I guess is down, she gat T̶̲̥̅Ơ̴͡ move on Ǻn̶̲̥̅̊ԃ leave negative comment behind her.
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Linda I stopped commenting on you blog cos u don't ever post my comment but for this Tonto's story, I want to say "Stay strong" many of us love you and God who created you and gave you talents loves you most.
wow! she should go for counseling.i believe Tonto is stronger than me,when things wr so bad I neva for one day thgt of taking my life.for wat nah? this life I live is not mine.she should know God and embrace his words
Yeah suicide will only eliminate the chances of making ur life better so pls try and make it better by changing from those bad ways dat make people see you as a bad person. Start behaving like a better person and people will see you as such and talk about you in a better way.
as long as u ar a human being, u can only be a friend of God or a friend of Satan. Dr is no inbetween, if u choose God u choose life, if u choose satan u choose death. Before u say u ar of God check 1 john 3:8, it says that he that comitteth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose was the son of God manifested that he might destroy the works of the devil. Jesus is the way, accept him 2day n have life. 4dos who ar attempting sucide, its d devils quickest way to throw u in2 hell where u'd be tortured in fire 4eva n eva n its as if he has nt started wit u. Am a gud viewer of emmanuel.tv, join me if u like. Bt i can assure u, u'd come 2a full understanding of the vices of d devil. Jesus loves u and he alone is Lord!
My Pokobaby! It's not as bad as that I tell you. Some people still understand that you are only human after all and love you still regardless...............# kisses#
This has just proven to me , one can never have it all
Life is beautiful if you use it well,#stay strong
am no t gud @ commenting here on linda's blog buh am a regular reader of the comments here..please my dearest tonto,this is my little piece of mind to you,don't copy the behaviour and customs of this world,but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think..dont see the world but see God alone in all you do in life.it's well with you.
God loves you my dear, you are beautiful as u are, don't let anybody talk you down
At anonymous 10:40, I know what exactly ur issue is.. Send me an email with ur number esozion@yahoo.com... It is well pretty woman.. Btw, I'm a girl like u, no hidden intentions
Tonto cant please everyone... but let her wear a positive attitude and dont live a selfless life bcos she is a celebrity.its is well with her soul.
Yea,i really pitied her each time i see people abuse her and how people hated,,,When her issue with mercy came up,,,people call her all sorts of name,,i actually pitied her,,,,,her kind of person is d one who when u insult,she pretends to have a soft skin in d public but when she goes back in her room she cries bitterly,,,,
Linda, u try for not posting my comment. Better publish d cold hard truth. Tonto is d architect of her misfortune, wen she changes, tins will get better for her.
i have always admired the fact that u are a strong person. and i love u. Sucide is just not an option there is a heaven to gain and hell to shun. you are loved
Pls do not hurt urslf. It may seem bleak but it will sort itself somehow in the end. Suicide is neva an answer. U r loved.
me idunno why everyone here is faking concerned citizen for tonto dike. cause next week when she returns to her ways we would all insult her
Sometimes I dont understand you Linda?! When she took on the mantle to be like her western counterpartes didnt she know it'll be a downward spiral?!
Thank God she decided otherwise. Wish her quick recovery. We thank God for another life spared!
I have always admired you thick skin.. what happened?? these haters say spiteful things because you have everything they cant have. i thought you understood that.
Sweetie truth is the timid good girl have no place in this cruel world! You have to make yourself happy! I almost had that same trial years back but I turned it around and now folks think am proud and all...truth is I grew a tougher skin when depression wanted to set in! Deep inside I don't feel fulfilled buh nuffin can pull me down! I got Jesus...#5th/25th
Thank God you did not end ur own life dear. failing an exam isn't the end of the world. God has a purpose and plan for every single person. I really do not kno the right words to use but pls pls pls push any suicidal tots outta ur mind. God loves u
PS: Astagafirlahi. I still tink Tonto is thirsty tho
My thought exactly! Nice1
Most times u see ppl go loud n crazy it just to fill a vacuum, we may be fighting a quiet war within, only those who understnd life know exactly wht the message is all about. that's why i always strongly object to ppl judging others. its a noisy but lonely world sometimes. Tonto i dnt hate u cos i understnd life. take it easy and just be real thats all.
Tonto, I can't rili say I knw hw u feel cuz I've probably nt experienced wat u went tru. My words 2 u 'do not take ur lyf cuz u didn't gv it 2 urself, may God see u through. It is well wt u
My dear, education is important but it's not everything. Start by finding things you like about yourself. Maybe your strength is in other things. Boys will come and go, but if you love yourself and let the love of God cover you, you'll have the strength to keep going. Like you said, your mother loves you. Some people don't have that. Yes she might be angry about your bad results for a time, but in the long run, the love she has for you will overcome that. Be strong.
Dear Tonto just give ur life to Christ nd all ur sorrows nd problems will be over.
If you don't post my comment I actually know how to reach her on twitter and many other blogs.
Don't mind the attention seeking whore. Story story
Linda, thank you for a well done job. God be with u.
@ Tonto, Dear, it's well with ur soul IJN. But give u'r life FULLY to Jesus Christ TODAY bcos in HIM lies every good thing in life. He will lead, direct, protect and make a good & perfect life out of you. GOD BLESS U as u do, TONTO.
T. I admire you a lot. do not allow pples talk boarders you. u know pple must talk. May God be with you.
Lady T.. you are my swtheart. I love you.
tonto u better block ur hears, and stay focus. just do wot is rite and forget wot people say.
Godson might be right afterall if not, there must be a reason other than words for her action cos I can't imagine her being depressed over wat she herself does to others wtout thinkn twice. It could be man issue for all u care. Watever d reason, suicide isn't it at all. Nd she shld pls watch her ways. God be with u.
Skillaf.
Kai! this goat tonto is annoying sha. suicide my foot. mscheeeew. After all ur bad mouth.
Sounds like all the drugs she has been smoking is affecting her. I will not be pampering her, she is not a baby, she has brought this on her self. she feels like she can do and undo because of how much.
I could not care less. There are people suffering real problems.kmt
Im sure this was a stunt. Fake girl. If it isnt, oya linda, spill the full gist....i mean what is the point in either of you mentioning it at all a few weeks later??? mscheeew
All these love tonto commentators, hope you remember to always love her... even when she starts her waywardness again.
tonto lool.. sucide ke.. this babe always finds a way to be in the news.. attention seeking.. i feel this is false though
Tonto, we love u plzzzz. May God help us all, amen
If u ask me, I'll say God loves u, and that's all that matters. Seek God and u will find him and ur life will never remain d same. Stay blessed
Be strong Dearie!
Jesus loves U, u just don't know how much!
Y'all that have attempted suicide or are depressed, I recommend Destined to Reign and Unmerited Favour by Joseph Prince.
linda in which movie???
I am happy you got over the feeling Tonto and I hope you read the positive messages being published here.
Dear Linda, I am sorry to divert your topic but I just have to pour this out. I tried taking my life and the very young guy who generally helps people around the street, saw me and even with my eye half closed (I thought I was dying) the guy still said I should borrow him 2000..(i furnished his room, got him a phone&help out with fees or forms) I just woke up from what I thot was death so apparently this combination do not work. Why do i consider this, I am 37. I have no boyfriend nor children.One of my married male colleagues is suggesting I go back (just relocated) that the single men here are out for wht they can get, are mostly bitter over one thing or there other, are just not romantic and the married ones see nothing wrong being married and yet keeping families outside the homes. Its all like a game to them. I do not date married men. All I want is a family. I am a normal woman and have dated in the past, most of them emotionally abusive rlship. I also have admirers presently but most if not all of them are due to the nature of my job. An admirer noticed I looked ill last couple of weeks that he will get me something by the next day to cheer me up. The next week he said the same thing! i do not know what to look forward too, I have loved children from little. I am not perfect but when in relationships arent something expected? Imagine Like lets go to the beach by 7pm, he doesnt show up, doesnt explain why. I am the one to call to find out. Or scenarios like calls duing office hours to say romantic things or just I am thinking of you, what i get is borrow me money for this and that. I am fed up. I am ok looking, very polite, have no airs about me, very friendly and willing to help but say i am in distress no one is there to help except God. An admrer came visiting when i took ill. I told him I havent been able to eat anything, he says he wll bring me something to eat NEXT WEEK. Honestly I am not perfect and am not rude or bossy I DONT DATE MARRIED MEN. sorry my thots are not coherent.
I have no one of my own
someone to kneel and pray with
someone to ask me why i am still awake at 2am
someone to make plans with
someone to discuss the days together
someone who treats me as gently as i treat him and other people
someone to have children with.
i dont have anything tolook forward too. sorry my eyes are blurred and hands shaking. This is possibly a cry for help and any helpful word is welcome.
for those love to curse ppl like me in blogs am glad to have brought some joy to you
Not surprised at all to learn of Tonto Dike attempting suicide... I have followed and observed her with great care and attention and remember telling myself, 'this girl is suffering'. The Tonto Dike she has been projecting is widely far apart from the real Tonto Dike, who is an intelligent, gifted and enterprising woman, and off course, a lady. She erroneously thought fame came her way because she was loud and a little bit off herself, she was wrong. She could not see how gifted and blessed she was/is, an opinion, I believe she had nursed all through her growing-up days. Tonto Dike is indubitably naturally endowed, especially in the area of acting. She should build on that and stop distracting herself unnecessarily. Few words of counsel for her:
i. Stop comparing yourself with others
ii. Learn to keep your mouth shut-it saves you lots of trouble. Omotola Jalade sure understands this point.
iii. Be yourself, I mean, your true self. It's your biggest sell point.
iv. Reach out and lend a helping hand to someone out there.
v. Trust God and believe in yourself.
(A Concerned Psychologist)
@anon 10.40, dont fall for it...its d devils way of cheating on u. I was at dt same point some years back. I tot d world ws coming toan end. I was suicidal....d future looked bleak. I cldnt share wt anyone. Was gettn frustrated In med school...at d verge of failing n was even gettn worse academically as depression kept gettn worse. I broke up wt my bf earlier cos life bcam so tasteless. I used to b d pride of everyone: parents, siblings n friends, so der was no one to talk to cos dey al tot I was doin fine. Devil tempted me wt suicide...bt he dint suceed cos of my strong christian upbringn, I cld nt do it.
He den brot in tots of me havn cancer n HIV...des tots were so strong on me dt dey almost gave me d strength to commit d suicide. I av neva had sex before so I dont even knw where I wld av gotten d HIV...bt dts wat deception frm d devil can do to u.
To cut it short...dt year was my worst performance in med schl...barely scaled to thru to final year...during d hols ...I got closer to God miraculously...n things changed.
I did so well in final year...ad d best result for dt year and I was crowned d best graduating student (shocked) as dey only consider final year results for d prize...I sent all my class toppers to d background...I got a scholarship for my masters... did very well n doin well on my job now. I only just managed to do an HIV test last year ...n I was negative....couldnt do d test before bcos I lost a lot of weight frm d depression bt d devil kept on makin it look like it was HIV I was battling wt...u wl tink I shld knw better bein a med student ...bt wen d enemy wants to drown u...he takes away all d reasoning frm u.
Am doin fine n living my life now...pls pick urself up...ders a lot ahead of u...if u get thru dis stage. ..u wl probably remain victorius for ever. ..wish u all d best
I bless God you did not take your life, all I will say is be nice to everyone, especially your colleague in the movie industry. Don't do things that will put you on paper, just be that positive and lovin girl every one knew years back, it does not matter the mistake you've made, what matter is realizing them and making amends. I love u dearie
People who take their lives are not cowards. Itz not cowardice that makes u take dat final step. Itz a utter lose of hope! Letz be sensitive here. Some pple r better biologically to handle things than others. Some have gone through such hell, as kids and adults, that their reserve is gone. And when they get tired of hanging by the thread, they give up. I know how long itz taken me to get my family to take my lifelong episodes of depression. Now when am down dat pit, they are more supportive rather than being dismissive and waiting for me to snap out of it. While I have never attempted to take my life b4, am too aware of the allure. Sometimes it seems that best option. But then I remember I have a helpless young child who needs his mother, and I find strength again. Some pple don't have this. If u see someone suffering from any form of mental illness, be supportive. Don't judge or be nasty about it. They need ur help and ur support to beat their demon which often overwhelm then and rid them of rational thoughts.
Its amazing how much we all love her but never expressed it until she was pushed to the point of suicide. The greatest thing we can do to one one another is to express the love we feel about each other while still living. Enough of the hate comments, everyone deserves to be loved and live his or her life the way he or she wants. No one deserves to be judged.
Be strong Dearie!
Jesus loves U, u just don't know how much!
Y'all that have attempted suicide or are depressed, I recommend Destined to Reign and Unmerited Favour by Joseph Prince.
Tonto....all I can say is slow down and re-discover your inner self...you've got the money,fame,good looks, talent....the only thing you lack now is Jesus Christ...you,ll be fine..I love you
TONTO W. Contoversies DIKEH
Sori hun!u jus have to be ur own hero!all ll b well.
Pretty Tonto,
Please don't kill yourself o. Most of the people insulting you are actually envying you. I know life can be rough sometimes - it's like that with everyone. We never asked to be here, we just found ourselves in the world. The best we can therefore do is to make the best use of it.
I'm not into religious stuffs, but i think you actually have a lot to be thankful for. Many will kill to be in your shoes.
Please stay off drugs. The short-term gains may look cool but they're addictive and will ruin you.
Take up an open-air sport such as tennis or cycling. It'll keep you fit and help you push out a lot of stress and negative energy.
And remember one thing, your lovers are more than your haters. It would be a tragedy to lose you.
Hugs & Kisses...
Is she leaner ? Ask MJ and Witney Houston. Price you pay with Fame and popularity.
Thank God for saving her from that attempt. i used to be a die hard fan of tonto up until she started insulting people carelessless using social media. As a celebrity,there's no way people wont try to bring you down with their negative and hostile accusations, its only left for her to ignore them. Please we care so much about you, dont take your life, kindly ignore the negative and focus on been a better person
How could u ever think of "suicide"..... what will Beverly do when she's out of big brother. Sweedy take a chill pill n enjoy ur life. Know this, haters must abound but God love surpasses all. Stay blessed sugar!
Aunty Linda pls post my comment oooh. Wetin I do u???
Tonto...really didnt want to comment cos i smelt publicity stunt initially...but trust me luv, suicide is definitely not the solution to anything.Your numerous fans(me excluded) still love you and wish you well..Be strong...much as it might be hard to believe, you've got so much going on for yourself. Life is for the living okay...
Tonto stop smoking weed. It causes depression!!!
To d lady that wanted to comitt suicide......dnt be depressed. There is always an end to every tunnel. Do what is right at all times, God will turn your story around. I am a testimony to that.
All this religious advice is not enough to help the young lady... you have to do something to physically help your self. To those out there who might be having the same thoughts...
First off, stay off substance abuse.
2, change the friends who make you feel bad about yourself and don't add positives to your life.
3, get out of the house and get some sunshine... (there's a hormone the sun triggers that helps lighten your mood).
4. Exercise (even if it is to walk around your compound, wash your own clothes, pound your own fufu, play with your niece/nephew, etc)
5. See a professional counselor not your priest... a qualified clinical psychologist or a psychiatrist...someone with a license at stake so when they don't act professionally you have a recourse.
6. Stay away from negative people, negative music, negative programming, kill you social media accounts.
7. Visit a motherless babies home, jail house, mental institution and see people with real problems.
8. Take a good look at your diet and remove "depressing" foods.
9. Pick up yoga or some self meditating habits.
10. Pick up a book.
MY Tonto please don't even think about this act next time please am begging you in the name of God my creature,you should know that people always talk about you cos you are a strong and sweet lady;please me specially love you so much,please be alive for me cos i have something important to discuss with you
Hi It would seem like ur d only one going through tribulations but believe me other people are going through worse problems. Just stay strong and remember Gods promises for your life. If u seek God you will find him, read the word of God. Some things happen so that we will be closer to God and reach our expected ends.
Stay strong sis
God loves you.
Tonto and her attention seeking tactics ...ok o
if u care abut wat pple tink show it by acting rite. tho it wont stop dem 4rm hating bt it ll reduce d negativity. Be strong. EVE
...my dear lady, that's usually how unfair life can be. Ur not d 1st, I know quite a no of smart kids in pri/sec that ended badly in d university but it does not/ will not decide how well we will end, it is only a phase of ur life. Believe me, another will start sooner than u think, and am sure it will be better than d former. I have seen several third class's, etc, make it to the top.
Now unto ur boyfriend, let him go! He has other priorities which definitely are not same with yours! Has it ever crossed ur mind that there are men who do not like d slimy's? Has it ever crossed ur mind that love is friendship based, friendship comes b4 love? What is love? What am saying is very simple, our physical attributes should be d last thing our "Friends" should judge us with, if they do, it simply means it is not friendship and CANNOT be love.
I think the hardest and best thing we humans will have to learn is loving ourself, it is key and answer to a lot of depression. Once u see yourself you are the best, nobody can tell you or make u feel rubbish, I repeat rubbish.
A little advice now, why don't you concentrate and make ur grades right, that is if the opportunity is there, and also make ur parents effort worthwhile since it is one of your greatest worries. If you have lost the opportunity, nothing to worry about, it is only God who decides how well we end up. Meanwhile, I believe nothing should stop you from confiding in mom, even if u see her as Margaret Thatcher, it is still best to let her know about your grades and how you feel, nobody can feel genuinely bad/ happy for u except family. Am sure your mom will express her disappointments, but she will surely come around, wish my mum was here today, honestly will share none of my challenges with anyone except her.
Am not gonna preach about dieting and weight watching, love your self first, appreciate your person and you will be amazed at the magic that will follow.
Finally, you are young obviously, you have your whole beautiful life ahead of you, don't ever contemplate suicide, it is for people without God in them, for those who are in Christ Jesus know no fear for tomorrow and remember, nothing like family, it is a very powerful asset that God gave us, nothing like it, don't take it for granted and USE it, yes! USE it.
Much luv from this end!
good and bad talks towards a person make him/her human,that does not justify your action by committing suicide,its just a feeling.do the doing while others do the talking and let see who triumph over life
...with the kind of life you live in secret, who needs you? see mrs perfect. Idiot
...God bless u dear one, don't mind people claiming sudden love for Tonto, fake people! The way I see it is that the way you treat people/ conduct yourself, is the way you will be treated! Am sure no one really hates Tonto, except the fact that they don't like her insults and bad altitude to people. What you give is what you get, love and be loved, hate and get hate in return, let's trade fairly. Wish you well dear Tonto!
OK I M BEGGING YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD DONT TOUCH THAT LIFE; IT BELONGS TO GOD. THE TIME HAS COME NOW FOR U TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND POSITIVELY AND OPPOSITELY.
You will be fine., jst turn to God wen u feel low..
Tonto I don't know you, infact most people here don't. That is becos you are always acting up, like you've got to act an ass to justify yourself. What's with all these warped personalities. Please be yourself. Learn to love yourself. Am sure you are a sweet person once one gets to know the real you. Concentrate on acting your singing is atrocious. Just be real, stop faking hard bad chick. I for one don't buy your act. Be real babe!
no mata wat hapen, pls turn to God He is d giva of lif,if u were d only sinna on earth, Jesus wuld ve stil die 4 u n rememba dat God luv suppases every oda tins on dis earth,pls Tonto turn to God n give ur life to Him..we luv u but God luv u more.
Wow for a while there I thought I was the one writing except I have had something worse happen to my sexual life and have even cut my wrists at some point just to be free I wish to know you more I cried reading your comment please reply u are my soul sister.
it just makes me fell good to see that someone who I thought was always on top of the world also has struggles, makes me comfortable to know that God didn't make anyone more "human" than others so all of us that wanna make it - we each have equal opportunity as humans . Peace love and joy to you readers and Tonto
Tanx God 4 ha friends dt save ha...if at all is 2tru dt she tries 2 do dt....
Tonto behave urself and b urself u 2 dey fuckup u sef u knw
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