I don't think u should dear... Wedding gown is a personal effect and it's very significant... She and her boo should contribute money to buy one. If they can't afford a classy one Like yours, they should buy a cheaper one... You could also assist her with cash too...
Nothing wrong with it, I do think your doing her a favour, think of it as your contribution to her great day, my younger sister was given hers by my friend, she had hers on Feb and my sis used the same gown by April same year.
I don't See anything wrong with it but it will have to boil down to ur level of relationship nd trust dat exist btwn u two. My two married Sisters used d same wedding dress.
What kind of question is that? Some people are funny. Instead of giving your friend your wedding gown, You're asking for people's opinion. Nawa for ladies.
Give her na, why is this even on this blog? What kinda stupid question. Its not wrong to borrow her, expect u will go and tell everyone that she's wearing ur wedding gown
Please borrow the babe abeg, except if u have not used the dress already, if you have, give her, don't take it spiritual, especially if she cannot afford to get one right now
It depends on how close you ladiess are and how well you know her
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If you have used it already, yes you can lend it to her. You should be happy to have someone else use it as you wont be wearing it ever again. she could enhance or take out somethings so the gown looks different.
Since you've used it already and it's probably just seating somewhere why not? At least you get to make someone else happy for a very important day in her life. wedding dresses are overpriced IMO, time to get its price value lol
Do u still want to wear d wedding dress? So why asking us if it's right. If u know u plan to remarry u can withdrew back from borrowing her but if not borrow her plz. Some questions are just so stupid
What do you want to do with it, wear it when u die? Wedding dress that most people give out after the wedding. Pls buy her a new one if you can't after all she is your friend!
like you are seriously asking? You should be happy she considers it beautiful enough to wear after you have won it. It's a validation of your taste, an approval of you sense of style. You should give her
If u have used it already, then there is no problem. Just consider u are renting it out. After all u are not gonna use it again and u can't keep it for ur children to use cos fashion changes everyday.
I don't see anything wrong if it fits her perfectly well like it fits you, besides she is your friend and ur wedding dress is once in a life time. Ppl rent wedding dresses.
What are friends for? Some people giveaway their wedding dresses after the wedding to help others. You should be happy your friend is not the proud and pompous type. Give it to her with all pleasure. Asking is not an easy task.
I guess you are a graduate and yet the level of stupidity in this post is highly unprecedented. You are asking if it its right to borrow a wedding gown to ur friend. Pls there is nothing wrong in giving her ur wedding gown. Pls do and stop having the stingy tendency
No it is not right. And please don't do out of sentiment oo. Why borrow when u can actually use any good cloth that u have. No be by force to use white wedding gown now!!!
I don't subscribe to such. Except you will give it to her and will not collect it back from her anymore. I am talking from life experience. Please beware.
The type of question people ask baffles me sometimes... What is wrong in borrowing someone a wedding gown that u will never use again.. Some people put their wedding gown up for rent after their wedding some sell their own . My dear there is nothing wrong in borrowing your friend your used wedding gown.
This one na question...... abi na small pikin u bi.... in the 19th century that was the order of the day....even now they do lend out gowns....some even hire it out....so the choice is yours sweetheart.....
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Must u publish wht u wnt to do or nt to do for ur frnd on social ntwrk, wht if she sees dis hw do u wnt her to feel, ws wrong wit u borrowing ur frnd ur wedding dress, 4u askin 4pples opinion u ar totally nt a gud frnd atall, am ashamed of u cos u ar stingy Das 1, u mst b a wicked som1 Das 2, u talkany hw cos u cnt kip ur frnd secret from others, imagin. Hmm! Dat ur frnd doesn't even deserve u atall. If she asked u 4it y dnt u do it 4her as a frnd without askin 4pples opinion, mumu lik u, idiot na him u b..my advice 4u is dat u b odehfirstclass anu ofia
It depends on the kind of friends u are,if u are really close to her,then there's nothing wrong in borrowing her.but if she is a once upon a time friend,don't borrow her instead rent one for her.my 2 cents though
Well a wedding gown is very significant. It all depends on the relationship you have with your friend, if she is very close den you can explain to her if you don't want to give it to her, you really cannot trust anybody these days please be very careful and do everything with wisdom so your friendship won't be affected. You can also talk to your husband about it and hear what he has to say. All the best
I wish I had someone to give my wedding gown to cost $4,000 and just there rotting away since wedding 4 years ago . i don't even know where it is now sef. I would have been honoured if I had a friend humble enough to ask for it. Please give it to her. If she has a good tailor they can even alter little details to make it a bit different from when you wore it.
Pls go to the market and buy spices, maggi and salt then use the items to make pepper soup with the gown and eat!! Since you can't borrow your FRIEND the gown, u can as well eat it!
Given her should not be the problem but d problem you using it against her in d future bcos if u can come here for advise it means u can as well yab her later.meanwhile people rent wedding gowns,my wife bought hers n resold same to bridal shop.
The question you should have asked is why is she borrowing a gown. For a woman to do that she must be facing serious challenges. I can't believe it can even happen. Your present question is immature and I hope you don't ridicule an unusually rational and brave woman. I respect her.
There's nothing wrong with that, you can borrow her your wedding dress since she is also using it for her own wedding not for something else, mind you if she doesn't like you she will never come to you to borrow your used wedding dress for her memorable day. Also Spiritual, it is not bad.
Best answer. You want to let us know that u in ur infinite wealth & benevolence is being asked to help the poor. Shame on u for bringing this silly question to this domain. #iamricherthanmyfriend
As per Nigerian belief, it will be a tough one. But really very simple. You can either dash, lend it or sell it to her. You are so done with it. If for any reason you have to remarry, god forbid, fashion would have changed. So sentiments aside. Dispose it. #GodWin
There's nothing wrong with that, you can borrow her your wedding dress since she is also using it for her own wedding not for something else, mind you if she doesn't like you she will never come to you to borrow your used wedding dress for her memorable day. Also Spiritual, it is not bad.
R u from the moon? Do you not know that ppl rent wedding gowns even at balogun market?. Or u think ur husband will now run after her if you lend her ur gown? U r simply dumb for asking. Keep the gown for ur next wedding dear.
What is the life experience? Talk am make we hear. There is absolutely nothing wrong with lending it out to her friend. It's a wedding dress that she has worn already. Unless she intends to get married again I don't understand the hesitation oh
Wait! She came to ask you to borrow her? Na wa for some people o not even to rent and then let it be that you choose to give it to her for free. She get mind sha.
I am willing to give her to own. How can i reach her. help me drop how to reach her as a comment here, i will send her mine. She will love it, believe me. I am doing nothing with it since i wedded in 2013.
Yes we all know you are below 18, because your level of stupidity and understanding of the Nigerian economy is shaky... read your book and prepare for jamb...
My dear dis is not a matter of begging abeg. Wen u nd ur bestie re d same size tins like dis re inevitable... Besides its bcos she liked it dats why some even go as fa as renting it frm deir best frnds so its not all dat re given foc
Oh!please with our over spiritualism... tell her to come borrow mine. besides who wants to buy it sef? And to ur question. you should lend her urs... weddings are pretty damn too expensive these days, you cant even imagine how much you might be saving off her.
Some people can borrow for Africa! Here is my advice,if you know you can't dash her,biko don't borrow her,if you're giving her just forget the gown, DO NOT BORROW HER,JUST DASH HER IF YOU CAN!
Decorate the house with it. Wish your friend will reject it. People even borrow bra na wedding gown be wetin. Are you using it for the marriage of the lamb with his bride?
It's not bad! I can afford a wedding gown but a friend voluntrily asked me to take a wedding gown...I felt loved cos that's so thoughtful of her! my reply was awwwwww thanks a lot dear...it's no big deal Pls! Una wey dey make mouth for here can't even afford a wedding gown...keep ur advise jor*
Dunno anything about wedding, But i believe it's not safe to do such, Don't scatter your home yourself sis, She can't afford to buy a wedding gown or what? But she can do the wedding, Think twice :D It's fucking wrong to me..
Excuse me..why would her friend ask her if they could afford it? What personal effect?..its goinu be for decoration after..its not bad helping someone in need.
What do you need the gown for after the wedding, I think you should even give her the gown and tell her to also give it to someone in need after her wedding! Giving makes the world go round.
People do it all the time so I think it's no bigi except of course you don't want to give her for reasons best known to you though. Be nice and lend it to her and if it makes you feel better, you can leave instructions on how she should use it and when/how to get it back to you
Quite a sensitive matter for a sensitive and traditional kind of environment we find ourselves in......If we were in a better place,Yes....But from my little experience i would advice you don't do it. #justmyopinion
For the guys here calling her names,I wouldn't say its your fault cos u wont understand..but for u ladies calling her names for asking this question,your all very stupid..extremely mad...not every girl this days is ur friend..one thing I dont do is share clothes if u aren't my blood..as per you come,borrow it and return it..i can give u any other thing or dash out the clothes.this lady only asked you people to help her with answers and most of u are bashing her..how do some of you even reason? I have seen an experience like this and it didn't go down well..give the lady some advice instead of calling her names,saying she is diabolical.rubbish. My dear all I will say is if you have some money,take her to the shop and rent for her or if you aren't going to use it anymore,pray for it before giving it out and it depends on how close u girls are..if u know her kinda person,then you should know if its possible giving it to her.
Please, my sister don't borrow your wedding gown to anybody, not even to your sister, rather give her money to rent anyone of her choice from vendors. After all, what she needed is your assistant which must not be your own gown. God bless you ma.
You can give it to her. what i think you should do is to give her not lend because you wont wear it again. On the other side, people are funny that they can use it for something bad. Pray without Ceasing.....
Well you only get married once and its not like you will be wearing the gown to parties and shit, so if you adk me I say borrow her!! But seriously shaa no be news be this!! #movingon
There's is nothing bad in giving it out. Besides the one set on hire is been wore by many different people. It's something you wear ones and can't wear again no matter how classic it is. So I don't see anything bad in giving it out to a friend. Maybe she actually liked that particular gown... u Cnt say for sure that it's all bcos of money. en evn if it's all about money, then note u have done her a huge favour..#
It's your call my friend, but since you ve brought what was asked of you in confidence to the public domain, I would strongly advice your friend not to collect it again. No need.
It is a garment you will not go back to use, you can lend it to her depending on the relationship you people shared back then (if it was always about you people being close, she always wanting to be better off or have what you have). In African setting nothing is impossible- people can exchange people's fortune and luck by such acts. Is she diabolical? Those home videos should teach you more dear. Most importantly, share it with your hubby and hear what he has to say.
Before nko, are you planning another marriage? It happens dear, besides she is your Friend, dont rent or sell to her, she will feel bad. Anyways, it depends on the definition of your " friendship" ooo, if you don't mind, you can still collect it back after the wedding if you so treasure the gown..but don't wear it again oo(anyway, nothing concern you with wedding gowns again) on the other hand, you can leave it for her if you are not so sure or having a second thought as regards your " friendship"
But tell your husband first ooo, seek his approval and hear what he has to say about it.
To be on the safe side, just offer to buy her one as a gift if you can afford. There are affo,rdable ones. Wedding gowns are symbolic, they can be used to represent your marriage for destructive purposes. Be careful.
It's not all friends that are truly friends, sorry. There are unfriendly friends to. People that are your friends but secretly hate your progress and want or plan to destroy it.
AFRICA WITH THEIR DIABOLICAL PROBLEMS. i will advice you give her assistant by renting from a vendors.wedding gown symbolizes a lot of meaning to some individuals in our societies today, due to our backgrounds.please either you make or rent for her since is your friend.
Personally i dont think anything bad in you given her the wedding dress.i chld av love giving her my wife expensive wedding dress dat is just lying fallow at home
First, I must say u are silly to ask us this kinda stupid question . Are u keeping d gown for ur burial? She is supposed to hire it from u but I will NEVER collect money from om a friend who admires my gown and wld luv to wear it on her day. I shld rather be proud. I percieve u as stingy and proud. Keep ur gown and wear it on ur burial day. I wish she will see this and related it to ur discussion with her.. Ewu Gambia like u.
First, I must say u are silly to ask us this kinda stupid question . Are u keeping d gown for ur burial? She is supposed to hire it from u but I will NEVER collect money from om a friend who admires my gown and wld luv to wear it on her day. I shld rather be proud. I percieve u as stingy and proud. Keep ur gown and wear it on ur burial day. I wish she will see this and related it to ur discussion with her... Ewu Gambia like u.
Pray about it. When and if you finally decide to borrow her. Please let her know to dryclean same appropriately before returning. Just in case another person might need it.
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Givers never lack.... So lend am after all na only one Dem dey use am
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U wldnt wear it again, so in my own opinion u cn use it as a business by renting it out.
It's kind of funny lol,well it bad oo
It's allowed. #IRepLIB
y u telling us.. u want wear d wedding dress again? abeg no dey tell us say u wan borrow person
I see notin wrong in it...u should have offered it in d first instance
If your friend cannot afford one, I don't see why not.
It is ur choice to make.
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dis kin girl sef fi go dey tell people say na she give the girl wedding dress..
Hmmmmmmm you can lend it to her if you two are pretty much close together,or you can tell her to buy it since u won't use it to do anytin again.
i dont see anything wrong wit dat after all most pple sell theirs after d wedding
I don't think u should dear... Wedding gown is a personal effect and it's very significant... She and her boo should contribute money to buy one. If they can't afford a classy one Like yours, they should buy a cheaper one... You could also assist her with cash too...
Give her some money if u have to get hers,its not a good idea to share ur wedding dress.......Psycho
If not that u are stingy and greedy u won't be saying this. No keep it forever
Which kain question be dis? You should be happy that someone wants to borrow it
Nothing wrong with it, I do think your doing her a favour, think of it as your contribution to her great day, my younger sister was given hers by my friend, she had hers on Feb and my sis used the same gown by April same year.
Which kain question be dis? You should be happy that someone wants to borrow it
I don't See anything wrong with it but it will have to boil down to ur level of relationship nd trust dat exist btwn u two.
My two married Sisters used d same wedding dress.
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What kind of question is that? Some people are funny. Instead of giving your friend your wedding gown, You're asking for people's opinion. Nawa for ladies.
I don't see anything wrong with it oh! Abi she wan use am again?
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Of you've done your wedding,there's nothing bad borrowing or even giving it out to another person. Pray about it if you're unsure about it dear.
It is well
Wetin u wan use am do again na...as long as she doesn't mind rocking what has been rocked...borrow her or you rent it to her...B.
If you've done your wedding,there's nothing bad borrowing or even giving it out to another person. Pray about it if you're unsure about it dear.
It is well
No biggy nah! So long as she will return it, just help a sister out, it won't stops u been married to ur hubby.
Be ur sisters keeper. Na onwere onye malu echi.
Pls do. There is love in sharing or do you wear the dress often?
If u want to gv den go ahead but if it's not from ur heart den forget Abt it ...
Enter your comment...there is notin there in giving her ur weddn cloth.by d way do u wnt 2 use it n cook soup.is well.
Give her na, why is this even on this blog? What kinda stupid question. Its not wrong to borrow her, expect u will go and tell everyone that she's wearing ur wedding gown
I don't see anything in it my dear, if u consider her your friend then you should be happy borrowing her.
Sure she should. Wedding dress na every day cloth. Rubbish. Engr Emy
Please borrow the babe abeg, except if u have not used the dress already, if you have, give her, don't take it spiritual, especially if she cannot afford to get one right now
I don't like d idea of someone borrowing wedding gown,but mayb she doesn't have enough money to get hers.well its her choice so, give her.
It depends on how close you ladiess are and how well you know her
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If you have used it already, yes you can lend it to her. You should be happy to have someone else use it as you wont be wearing it ever again. she could enhance or take out somethings so the gown looks different.
Since you've used it already and it's probably just seating somewhere why not? At least you get to make someone else happy for a very important day in her life. wedding dresses are overpriced IMO, time to get its price value lol
Do u still want to wear d wedding dress? So why asking us if it's right. If u know u plan to remarry u can withdrew back from borrowing her but if not borrow her plz. Some questions are just so stupid
Abeg joor... if u want to give her fine, if u don't want to give her, make we hear word.
Wats d big deal, help out a friend in need....after all what are friends for ??
Help a friend...no bid deal
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Don't see anything wrong with it, abi u wan use am dey occupy space for ur wardrobe. Consider it as if u are hiring d cloth to her.
Borrow I tot it was to lend?anyway no big deal lens it to her please
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See dis 1..na gist? Give her na. Maybe she cnt afford to buy/rent 1
What do you want to do with it, wear it when u die? Wedding dress that most people give out after the wedding. Pls buy her a new one if you can't after all she is your friend!
Is this a trick question?
like you are seriously asking? You should be happy she considers it beautiful enough to wear after you have won it. It's a validation of your taste, an approval of you sense of style. You should give her
Your friend and you are having a second thought? you wanna do another wedding?
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Give her na are u use d wedding gown again n I hope ur frnd is gud
If u have used it already, then there is no problem. Just consider u are renting it out. After all u are not gonna use it again and u can't keep it for ur children to use cos fashion changes everyday.
I don't see anything wrong if it fits her perfectly well like it fits you, besides she is your friend and ur wedding dress is once in a life time. Ppl rent wedding dresses.
Deir is noffin wrong with dt,after all people do hire wedding gowns
It depends on the kinda friendship btw u two
What are friends for? Some people giveaway their wedding dresses after the wedding to help others. You should be happy your friend is not the proud and pompous type. Give it to her with all pleasure. Asking is not an easy task.
There's nothing bad in that if truly that's what she want to used it for,be ur sister's keeper,in journey & history of her life she'll not 4get u
Yes you can.As long as she drycleans it when she is returning it.there is actually no harm in that.She shd be the one afraid not you.
PLEASE BORROW HER GOD WILL BLESS YOU
I guess you are a graduate and yet the level of stupidity in this post is highly unprecedented. You are asking if it its right to borrow a wedding gown to ur friend. Pls there is nothing wrong in giving her ur wedding gown. Pls do and stop having the stingy tendency
Madam wat else do want to use it for ..... u should make a business out of it if u can.
Yes is very right,giving her to use on her own wedding day is called 'what we do for friends.#Abi linda#
No it is not right. And please don't do out of sentiment oo. Why borrow when u can actually use any good cloth that u have. No be by force to use white wedding gown now!!!
This is your personal decision, take it wisely.....
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I don't see anything wrong with that. My mum used to borrow hers.
Berra still give her money 2 go n get hers#sisi Linda#
I don't think it's right
For me ooo,its not right.If u are financially Ok get one for her or better still rent for her.
I don't subscribe to such. Except you will give it to her and will not collect it back from her anymore. I am talking from life experience. Please beware.
Make she use what she can afford abeg, na by force to wear wedding gown?... dee
I see nothing wrong with that. U may need help someday αи∂ she will be in a position to help u.... Every good turn deserves another
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Hmmm me I dont see anything wrong with it!!if you want you can give it to her nothins iswrobg with it
Are u keepin d gown for ur children????abi u wanna take it to heaven??? If she is ur friend,u ll hav no reason to even think 2wice!
After am done with it yea? If you have used it already I see nothing wrong with helping a friend.
Okbye.
Lend is the correct usage
I dont tink its wrong.... C'mon wats there... Let ya fellow woman look good like u... Not like underwear dat is private..
On d oda hand, its not right sha... Coz its matrimonal attribute.. Its like u sharin ya husband wit her...
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R u serious now?? Wots dere...give her already
The type of question people ask baffles me sometimes... What is wrong in borrowing someone a wedding gown that u will never use again.. Some people put their wedding gown up for rent after their wedding some sell their own . My dear there is nothing wrong in borrowing your friend your used wedding gown.
Wedding dress shd nt be a share wears among frds, don't lend her, advice her to get frm fashion designers or bridal shop.
Its not a problem dear u can give it to her, after all people rent wedding dresses and you wont use it again. she can have it please.
Depends on individual, but as for me, I won't.
This one na question...... abi na small pikin u bi.... in the 19th century that was the order of the day....even now they do lend out gowns....some even hire it out....so the choice is yours sweetheart.....
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I don't see anytin wrong in that. U either charge her a fee to use it or allow her to use it for free. After all u wont b wearin it again.
its just a wedding dress and nothing more at least you are not gonna wear it again...i see as a form of assistance
LORL@the opinions that say 'Use any available cloth...na by force to wear white wedding gown..."
Must u publish wht u wnt to do or nt to do for ur frnd on social ntwrk, wht if she sees dis hw do u wnt her to feel, ws wrong wit u borrowing ur frnd ur wedding dress, 4u askin 4pples opinion u ar totally nt a gud frnd atall, am ashamed of u cos u ar stingy Das 1, u mst b a wicked som1 Das 2, u talkany hw cos u cnt kip ur frnd secret from others, imagin. Hmm! Dat ur frnd doesn't even deserve u
atall. If she asked u 4it y dnt u do it 4her as a frnd without askin 4pples opinion, mumu lik u, idiot na him u b..my advice 4u is dat u b odehfirstclass anu ofia
Suit ur slf naa...Na be ur frnd..
Why not! No be once person dey wear wedding dress??? Linda take note!
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I dont see anything wrong with it...but if you are not down with it (on a personal note).... then explain to her why you cant
It depends on the kind of friends u are,if u are really close to her,then there's nothing wrong in borrowing her.but if she is a once upon a time friend,don't borrow her instead rent one for her.my 2 cents though
Please she is trying to save money. Help her. It's just an event.
Well a wedding gown is very significant. It all depends on the relationship you have with your friend, if she is very close den you can explain to her if you don't want to give it to her, you really cannot trust anybody these days please be very careful and do everything with wisdom so your friendship won't be affected. You can also talk to your husband about it and hear what he has to say. All the best
NA WAOH, IF U WANT TO GIVE IT TO HER BIKO GIVE HER AND STOP ANNOUCING IT TO THE WORLD. SEE INSULT O CHAI! NA MONEY DEY CAUSE AM...I NO BLAME U .
I wish I had someone to give my wedding gown to cost $4,000 and just there rotting away since wedding 4 years ago . i don't even know where it is now sef. I would have been honoured if I had a friend humble enough to ask for it. Please give it to her. If she has a good tailor they can even alter little details to make it a bit different from when you wore it.
Must u announce friend just bcos she she wants to borrow from u. kia too bad
Pls go to the market and buy spices, maggi and salt then use the items to make pepper soup with the gown and eat!! Since you can't borrow your FRIEND the gown, u can as well eat it!
put a smile on your friend face.
What kind of question is this? You must be sooooo stingy and self centered. Tufiakwa gi
Given her should not be the problem but d problem you using it against her in d future bcos if u can come here for advise it means u can as well yab her later.meanwhile people rent wedding gowns,my wife bought hers n resold same to bridal shop.
I dnt see anything wrong with it o
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Nawa oh.... Everything is now ?.. Is she not your friend? Well if you don't have any interior motive towards it I'll just say u borrow her
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but you called her your friend, what are friends for please go ahead.
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The question you should have asked is why is she borrowing a gown. For a woman to do that she must be facing serious challenges. I can't believe it can even happen. Your present question is immature and I hope you don't ridicule an unusually rational and brave woman. I respect her.
hey dear you wouldnt use it again, so you can give her if you trust her.
Yes..after all u are lending it to her not dashing/ giving it to her for keeps
Borrow her dear uis allowed
Der's nothing wrong with it,der's love in sharing. Abi u wan wear am again? Give it 2 her joor #Abkeeys#
There's nothing wrong with that, you can borrow her your wedding dress since she is also using it for her own wedding not for something else, mind you if she doesn't like you she will never come to you to borrow your used wedding dress for her memorable day. Also Spiritual, it is not bad.
its allowed....some pple will be askin munu question....
#Al sah-him
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To lend you mean? No input sorry :)
Best answer. You want to let us know that u in ur infinite wealth & benevolence is being asked to help the poor. Shame on u for bringing this silly question to this domain. #iamricherthanmyfriend
My friend,want to borrow my weddin dress, U just called her ur friend, do have trust issues or ?.is ur decision....
As per Nigerian belief, it will be a tough one. But really very simple. You can either dash, lend it or sell it to her. You are so done with it. If for any reason you have to remarry, god forbid, fashion would have changed. So sentiments aside. Dispose it. #GodWin
So why do people hire wedding gown? U just have a diabolical mind
Thank you @Cheryl.
There's nothing wrong with that, you can borrow her your wedding dress since she is also using it for her own wedding not for something else, mind you if she doesn't like you she will never come to you to borrow your used wedding dress for her memorable day. Also Spiritual, it is not bad.
But just one question, can't your friend rent elsewhere? But its your choice to make. Some people can beg. No shame at all.
Wild flowers!
Yes ke I borrowed a yonger frnd mine too. Nothing bad in that
R u from the moon? Do you not know that ppl rent wedding gowns even at balogun market?. Or u think ur husband will now run after her if you lend her ur gown? U r simply dumb for asking. Keep the gown for ur next wedding dear.
Buy what you can afford or rent one
What is the life experience? Talk am make we hear. There is absolutely nothing wrong with lending it out to her friend. It's a wedding dress that she has worn already. Unless she intends to get married again I don't understand the hesitation oh
A friend in need is a friend indeed. Let her borrow it.
#LIB ADDICT#
U wan wear am for your burial???pray over it & give it to her_what are friends for???.....
Lol...hmmmm diabolic mind indeed.
You are a sad little bitch for bringing this to this forum. You should be happy she asked. #geraraherebitch!!
Not advisable....
Wait! She came to ask you to borrow her? Na wa for some people o not even to rent and then let it be that you choose to give it to her for free. She get mind sha.
Abi O, she should turn it to Sunday wear since its a personal thing... oshisco..
Which kind borrow? Shabi na borrow borrow she want do for the marriage? Abeg abeg
See me see question OMG you want to be wearing it to office.mtcheew
I am willing to give her to own. How can i reach her. help me drop how to reach her as a comment here, i will send her mine. She will love it, believe me. I am doing nothing with it since i wedded in 2013.
See me see question ooo OMG you want to be wearing it to office.mtcheew
whats special in a wedding gown.. Abeg Dash Her Joor...
It's simple....pray on it before giving her....u don't even need to ask what to do
Yes we all know you are below 18, because your level of stupidity and understanding of the Nigerian economy is shaky... read your book and prepare for jamb...
@naive thank u oh, what kind of statement was dat, shame on u solomon smh'..
To me its a privilege and honor to help out. Don't see any wrong in it unless you don't trust her as a friend.
My dear dis is not a matter of begging abeg. Wen u nd ur bestie re d same size tins like dis re inevitable... Besides its bcos she liked it dats why some even go as fa as renting it frm deir best frnds so its not all dat re given foc
#my2k
Oh!please with our over spiritualism... tell her to come borrow mine. besides who wants to buy it sef? And to ur question. you should lend her urs... weddings are pretty damn too expensive these days, you cant even imagine how much you might be saving off her.
Some people can borrow for Africa! Here is my advice,if you know you can't dash her,biko don't borrow her,if you're giving her just forget the gown, DO NOT BORROW HER,JUST DASH HER IF YOU CAN!
Decorate the house with it. Wish your friend will reject it. People even borrow bra na wedding gown be wetin. Are you using it for the marriage of the lamb with his bride?
It's not bad! I can afford a wedding gown but a friend voluntrily asked me to take a wedding gown...I felt loved cos that's so thoughtful of her! my reply was awwwwww thanks a lot dear...it's no big deal Pls! Una wey dey make mouth for here can't even afford a wedding gown...keep ur advise jor*
What's bad in renting something she will never use again? "It is kind of funny and bad ooo" hahahaha Yoruba women with their strange sh!t
Dunno anything about wedding, But i believe it's not safe to do such, Don't scatter your home yourself sis, She can't afford to buy a wedding gown or what? But she can do the wedding, Think twice :D It's fucking wrong to me..
My sister, let d spirit lead
@Muvie Solomon u gat no sense at all.. Kai! Omashe fun e oo
Excuse me..why would her friend ask her if they could afford it? What personal effect?..its goinu be for decoration after..its not bad helping someone in need.
In my opinion don't! Let her borrow else where Ot even help her borrow. the word is a wicked place
Lend it to her
Since u have used it first. Yes it's cool. U can pass it to her.
I don't get it..why are u asking? Is ur friend na!! Isshhhh! Aunty linda post my comment ooo
I don't see anything wrong in it but pray before given her you never can tell no one is to be trust
U wan chop am ni
What do you need the gown for after the wedding, I think you should even give her the gown and tell her to also give it to someone in need after her wedding! Giving makes the world go round.
Buh na wa for you o.... She should sell to her when clearly she cant afford it for some reasons .....
There's absolutely nothing wrong with giving her ur wedding dress.
You shdnt even be asking for people's opinion
See attention seeker. Hian
Borrow No!!
Give it out or sell to her instead
People do it all the time so I think it's no bigi except of course you don't want to give her for reasons best known to you though. Be nice and lend it to her and if it makes you feel better, you can leave instructions on how she should use it and when/how to get it back to you
no wahala isnt it ur friend. so she will not wear gown again>
Quite a sensitive matter for a sensitive and traditional kind of environment we find ourselves in......If we were in a better place,Yes....But from my little experience i would advice you don't do it. #justmyopinion
I don't see anything bad in it...she probably can't afford one
Don't even try it with your biological sister. Wedding is not an ordinary ceremony. The consequences are many.
My friend wants it, I will gladly dry clean, except she has had a record of being silly.
For the guys here calling her names,I wouldn't say its your fault cos u wont understand..but for u ladies calling her names for asking this question,your all very stupid..extremely mad...not every girl this days is ur friend..one thing I dont do is share clothes if u aren't my blood..as per you come,borrow it and return it..i can give u any other thing or dash out the clothes.this lady only asked you people to help her with answers and most of u are bashing her..how do some of you even reason? I have seen an experience like this and it didn't go down well..give the lady some advice instead of calling her names,saying she is diabolical.rubbish. My dear all I will say is if you have some money,take her to the shop and rent for her or if you aren't going to use it anymore,pray for it before giving it out and it depends on how close u girls are..if u know her kinda person,then you should know if its possible giving it to her.
There's nothing wrong with that. Besides are u going to wear d gown again?
LIB ADDICT#just passing#
Please, my sister don't borrow your wedding gown to anybody, not even to your sister, rather give her money to rent anyone of her choice from vendors. After all, what she needed is your assistant which must not be your own gown. God bless you ma.
You can give it to her. what i think you should do is to give her not lend because you wont wear it again. On the other side, people are funny that they can use it for something bad. Pray without Ceasing.....
Well you only get married once and its not like you will be wearing the gown to parties and shit, so if you adk me I say borrow her!! But seriously shaa no be news be this!! #movingon
Give it to if she can't afford to pay to get one for herself don't be too spiritual about it
Not a bad idea but make sure she's a good frnd
Why not? Or are u going to use d wedding dress again? U should see dat as an honor and dat will cement ur relationship wit ur frnd more.
There's is nothing bad in giving it out. Besides the one set on hire is been wore by many different people. It's something you wear ones and
can't wear again no matter how classic it is. So I don't see anything bad in giving it out to a friend. Maybe she actually liked that particular gown... u Cnt say for sure that it's all bcos of money. en evn if it's all about money, then note u have done her a huge favour..#
If any of my friends ask for my wedding gown I will gladly give cus I know I won't ask so feelgood giving her your wedding gown.
It's your call my friend, but since you ve brought what was asked of you in confidence to the public domain, I would strongly advice your friend not to collect it again. No need.
It is a garment you will not go back to use, you can lend it to her depending on the relationship you people shared back then (if it was always about you people being close, she always wanting to be better off or have what you have).
In African setting nothing is impossible- people can exchange people's fortune and luck by such acts. Is she diabolical? Those home videos should teach you more dear. Most importantly, share it with your hubby and hear what he has to say.
Before nko, are you planning another marriage? It happens dear, besides she is your Friend, dont rent or sell to her, she will feel bad. Anyways, it depends on the definition of your " friendship" ooo, if you don't mind, you can still collect it back after the wedding if you so treasure the gown..but don't wear it again oo(anyway, nothing concern you with wedding gowns again) on the other hand, you can leave it for her if you are not so sure or having a second thought as regards your " friendship"
But tell your husband first ooo, seek his approval and hear what he has to say about it.
I rest my case.!!!
Nothing wrong.
Nothing wrong.
To be on the safe side, just offer to buy her one as a gift if you can afford. There are affo,rdable ones. Wedding gowns are symbolic, they can be used to represent your marriage for destructive purposes. Be careful.
It's not all friends that are truly friends, sorry. There are unfriendly friends to. People that are your friends but secretly hate your progress and want or plan to destroy it.
It shouldn't be a problem after all you'very worn it for urs and it's not really the wedding dress that matters so do give or lend her
Capital NO
There is ntin Bad in DAT just pray on it since u are nt using it 2 get marry again
Imagine borrowing a wedding gawn,your friend want to start this phase of life with borrowing...odikwa risky...Believe
Yes u can there's nothing bad in it, I've borrow my friend b/4
y wud she want to buy wedding gown,cant she buy? or shes probably trying to save moni sha
linda post my comment o
#IWASHERE
@anoynmous... did u just abuse me? God have mercy on you
Ijeoma may God bless you!!!
Enter your comment...please help a friend in need
AFRICA WITH THEIR DIABOLICAL PROBLEMS. i will advice you give her assistant by renting from a vendors.wedding gown symbolizes a lot of meaning to some individuals in our societies today, due to our backgrounds.please either you make or rent for her since is your friend.
Help the need, there is nothing there. Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity.
Personally i dont think anything bad in you given her the wedding dress.i chld av love giving her my wife expensive wedding dress dat is just lying fallow at home
First, I must say u are silly to ask us this kinda stupid question .
Are u keeping d gown for ur burial?
She is supposed to hire it from u but I will NEVER collect money from om a friend who admires my gown and wld luv to wear it on her day. I shld rather be proud.
I percieve u as stingy and proud. Keep ur gown and wear it on ur burial day. I wish she will see this and related it to ur discussion with her.. Ewu Gambia like u.
First, I must say u are silly to ask us this kinda stupid question .
Are u keeping d gown for ur burial?
She is supposed to hire it from u but I will NEVER collect money from om a friend who admires my gown and wld luv to wear it on her day. I shld rather be proud.
I percieve u as stingy and proud. Keep ur gown and wear it on ur burial day. I wish she will see this and related it to ur discussion with her... Ewu Gambia like u.
That for me is a bad idea pls don't do that,she should go and patronize the dealers by the way most of the wedding gown are affordable .be wise
is your decision to make....angelmakiz@yahoo.com
Pray about it. When and if you finally decide to borrow her. Please let her know to dryclean same appropriately before returning. Just in case another person might need it.
there is nothing wrong in giving her.after all u wont use it again.
Nothing is wrong with borrowing a friend Ur wedding dress provided U have done Urs.
Just pray n give her.
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