Please women speak up when a man rapes you. It's not something to be ashamed of. Rape is never your fault. No, should mean No, no matter what/circumstance. Please speak up for the sake of the next woman. After the cut, you will find emails from some LIB readers...I got a few more but those ones specifically asked me not to publish their mails. Continue...
Please Linda, do not publicise my name or email for any reason. Daniel is really a rapist. I was a victim, he drives a black prado jeep and he is disgustingly fat. I didn't speak out cuz I took it as 'shit happens'. He lives in one crazy house with tenants in Mary land,he stays upstairs, he claims to be in d entertainment industry, after forcefully havin sex with me, he then said 'i'll want u to be my darling'. Ughh. Like who says that?.this isn't a lie because I can describe every part of his room, he has a chandelier in his room, he keeps his belts at d left side of his bed, he has like 7 or more sunshades placed on his mirror stand. And his bed is largeee. I won't give too much details of my ordeal cuz of shame. I'm glad sm1 spoke up! I hope he rots in prison for 10 yrs with his fat face and body. Btw he met me in unilag too. Worst night of my life on earth.Another one...
Am writing this to thank u for sheading light on this case. The animal has been rapping girls for long, he raped my best friend and threatened to kill her if she says anything. I know of 2 girls he has raped. Please make sure u follow up on this case. It's not his first time, to him it's a norm. I pray he gets all that he deserves.Another one
I went to his house, he said I stole his dollars and he beat me with belt. He threatened to strip me naked and parade me around his neighbourhood, then he told me to take my clothes off and he raped me. After that he beat me again. I prayed for him for seven days.Another one...
Because I am married now with kids, I will like to remain anonymous. I lost my virginity to this beast at the age of 11+ to him and his friends. They raped me until I passed out so right now I don't even know how many of them did it. He is the brother to our famous actress Stephanie Linus. Big rapist he is. We used to live close to each other in Asaba and we were very close to the family. I can tell you for sure, he is a habitual rapist. It's a problem for him. He is a beast. He has such a quiet nature, no one believed me when I told them. Keep me as anonymous please. My husband visits this blog before my marriage gets into trouble.And another one
My respect to the UNILAG undergraduate for speaking out. I am a victim too but I didn't tell anyone because I was ashamed. Mine happened in 2010 when I was a student of UNILAG. I'd even gone to his house ready to spend the night but after he became verbally abusive and disrespectful I decided to leave but he wouldn't let me. He forced himself on me twice that day with little resistance from me because I saw no use in fighting him off. It was the worst experience of my life and I hope Linda that you follow this case up. This man needs to be locked up. And he's actually Stephanie's older brother, not cousin.
286 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 286 of 286The issue isn't whether the ladies in question were aristos or not, the issue is that a lady reserves the right to say whether or not she wants to be intimate with you- the circumstances notwithstanding.
This man is an animal and clearly has a psychological problem- the problem is not with the ladies so adjust your thinking.
I feel sorry for you......
As in, I can't be bothered to put things in perspective for you cos your judgement is inherently flawed.
Go on with your irate rant.
Smh.
@ Anonnymus 11:08 Biko y tell her husband she was raped as a child is he Jesus dat will forgive and forget. Biko Men don't deserve half d story. I thank God for her she has given birth and is happily married obviously if not for this new she had forgotten d incident since everyone she told as a child didn't do any thing. They are d reason he went on raping and shifted base to Lagos.
Go and die, fool!!!!!
Bitter idiot.
I won't be surprised if he has raped Stephanie too with the number of victims speaking up now.
Rape victims should pls speak up early, you will be saving hundreds of girls from facing the same ordeal
Stfu
Visiting a man is not asking to be raped. Girls should please speak out, men are not looking for virgins so why do you keep it a secret when you have been violated.
Ladies, Ladies....whether unilag or other schools,please stop all this quest for acquiring material things (brazillian hair, jimmy choo bag etc). Please be patient ur time will come and all this things will come.
Imagine how many other men in Nigeria rape girls or even easily carry out ritual activities because u want ur friends to see u in a jeep or a house in lekki.
This land is full of blood and cries of the innocent, please lets learn to be contend with our poor parents and wat they give us to go to school.
LET JUSTICE PREVAIL
Well, you all enjoyed it, maybe he didn't keep to his promise be it money or any other material thing. Fucking bitches
Idiot. may your wife, sister and daughter be raped then you'll understand the emotional trauma of being raped.
Time was when a girl just getting to know a guy better would go visit him at home, drink soft drinks, gist and then leave to come another day for whatever. You visit a guy now, be ready to be raped!!!!!!!!! Nor try am oooo. In his Prison Diaries, Jeffrey Archer writes that inmates convicted for rape or paedophilia are hated by other prisoners for being TOTALLY WEAK MEN, and they suffer such bodily harm that they have to be transferred to another unit!
My dia ashawo is sexbdone with consent. If the ashawo doesnt wan leave her and go elsewhere. This man is a rapist. He has even confirmed it. Aristo is no reason to be raped. And what of the 11 yr old????
Osas n that stupid anon 1.13 the thunder that will scatter u both are doing press up.wicked souls
This animal should be jailed for life.
na wa ooo
it is well..
I've been raped twice so I know how it feels to want to keep silent and just move on. Its very traumatic and depressing but I've learnt to suppress all that. So many women are dying in silence! Please this man should be dealt with and set as an example so that other rape victims can be courageous enough to report.
na wa oo
it is well..
I am sorry to read of your experience.
Can we take our eyes off the ladies and focus on the perpetuators please. Rape is rape and it is wrong whether someone is greedy or not. An 11 year old girl was raped too was she being greedy? Lets get things right. IN NIGERIA WE MAKE TOO MANY EXCUSES FOR THE RAPISTS AND IGNORE THE VICTIMS. ITS GOT TO STOP
Can we take our eyes off the ladies and focus on the perpetrators please. Rape is rape and it is wrong whether someone is greedy or not. An 11 year old girl was raped too was she being greedy? Lets get things right. IN NIGERIA WE MAKE TOO MANY EXCUSES FOR THE RAPISTS AND IGNORE THE VICTIMS. ITS GOT TO STOP
Listen have some respect for yourself too. Dont allow a women who is not your wife sleep naked by your side. WHAT DA HELL FOR??? BIMPE
This man is a ritualist met him some weeks ago this story is really said but I have to say it is with tears in my eyes... This animal comes to unilag everyday of his life .. This very day I was on my way to night reading then we stopped to give me a lift n then I said no don't know how he charmed me then I found myself in his car then he said his an artist showing me a video on his phone then I found myself in his house I was really scared because his house was really creepy I wanted to run then he told me if I did he will tell some men to hold me n he will rape me in his house I was a virgin this monster took my virginity... I hope he rots in jail forever n to Stephanie okereke you have an animal as a brother God will never forgive him n he will die a painful death ijn
May your sisters ,aunts,cousins, be raped too. Lemme see if you would talk this rubbish . This is the reason why alot of women don't talk when they are raped because of people like you.
This man is an animal and to those saying unilag girls are dogs may your sisters n daughters be raped n even your mothers... This monster took my virginity... This monster is a ritualist after we met he lured me into his car that fateful day and took me to his house he told me that if I didn't accept to sleep with him he will tell 9 men to hold me down n he will rape me right before them n he will make sure they rape me one by one I cried n tried to run but it was too late because he his fat n big he forced me n raped me this man took my virginity from me..I just hope he dies a painful death or rot in jail.. People shouldn't say what they don't know this man is a ritualist n a rapist he has the charms to take any girl to his house if you think I'm lying let him meet your sisters to the people saying rubbish
This man comes to unilag everyday to prey on young girls he his a ritualist
I am sad that everybody thinks a lady deserves to be raped when she ends up in guy's house, this is warped mentality. Yes, what if she wanted sex even for money, and she changes her mind half way through. Should it be a valid reason. I support capital punishment for rape that has been proved beyond reasonable doubt. When man start dying like chicken, when a girl enters their house naked , they will jump out. Linda you have to write about this- We need to start educationg the minds of people. Linda also please delete the email addresses of these women before Ayedee's colleague jail break into your email and start blackmailing them, even a staff of yours can stoop low. Erase every record of their emails.
How dare this anonymous 10:58. I just pray u don't get what you deserve from this comment cos Urs is sure on d way
@osas and anonymous 1:30pm, you are one of those people that will make women not speak up when they are raped cos you always blame the victim. Have you ever blamed a car robbery victim before for driving his/her expensive car on a lonely road and @ ungodly hour? A rapist is a rapist no matter what. He is only a civilized rapist that will cajole ladies to his house instead of raping them on street corners. Mtcheeeewwwwwwww
You must be stupid what is the stranger story? He is a single guy and will toast like u have done to girls..... Do u toast them for 10 years before they visit where u live? There is no justification for rape....he raped a girl at 11 how is that her fault? Till it happens close home keep judging stupidly
Your parents deserve death for birthing an idiot and a waste to humanity as you... May u never see good all the days of your henceforth miserable life..... Bloody animal
U are so bloody stupid..... So the girls who have boyfriends was it not oneday they visited them? Was it not one day they slept in their houses? So cos they were lucky then u idiots insult the unlucky ones? U hypocrites expect rapist to be persecuted when bastards like u blame the victims..... Till it starts happening to ur sisters and daughters that's when justice will start..... Bloody idiots
Your mother us a bloody harlot...... Your mother should tell you who your father is... Your parents are stupid for not using a condom to stop you
Dont worry, you will marry and have daughters.
It pains me when I hear this kind of stories. How can you follow a stranger to his house just like that, a lady for that matter, are you sick? With all the news of money rituals we hear everytime, a lady can still willingly just follow a stranger to his house, his room? Haba. She lucky she wasn't used for rituals because many have lost their life like that.
Abiii oooo, if you don't go to his house he won't rape u
Stop cursing, he's saying the truth
ALL THESE IGNORANT BOYS TALKING ABOUT HOW THE GIRLS ARE WHORES FOR GOING TO HIS HOUSE, HAVE YOU NEVER HAD A GIRL IN YOUR HOUSE? HAVE YOU NEVER EVER BEEN ALONE WITH A GIRL? ARE YOU ALL VIRGINS YOURSELVES? HAVE YOU NEVER SLEPT WITH A GIRL? HAVE YOU NEVER HAD A GIRL SAY NO TO YOU? WHY DIN'T YOU RAPE THEM INSTEAD? MY MESSAGE TO ALL OF YOU IS THAT YOU ARE ALL SICK, DISPASSIONATE, JUDGMENTAL HYPOCRITES! YOU ARE NOT WORTHY TO BE HUMAN BEINGS PERIOD
Rape is rape.people sayin runs girls,can't u read dat initially they wanted a relationship with him and he decides to make it rape each time?he changes while he enters the bedroom?if a woman says no,let her be.even if she is a prostitute
We have to know his house.his Landlord cannot tell us he doesn't know the guy is a rapist.or his co tenants they should be questioned too
It doesn't matter if these girls are "aristos" or "runz" girls.. No girl should be forced to have sex under any circumstances. We live in a civilized society where savages such as this man and his supporters should not have a place. I commend Arinola for her bravery and for standing up against this Goliath.
It doesn't matter if these girls are "aristos" or "runz" girls.. No girl should be forced to have sex under any circumstances. We live in a civilized society where savages such as this man and his supporters should not have a place. I commend Arinola for her bravery and for standing up against this Goliath.
It doesn't matter if these girls are "aristos" or "runz" girls.. No girl should be forced to have sex under any circumstances. We live in a civilized society where savages such as this man and his supporters should not have a place. I commend Arinola for her bravery and for standing up against this Goliath.
Ok so I been reading comments and each time anyone try to blame the lady the person is attacked. So she has NO blame good. Now I just heard she wasn't raped but got upset cos the guy didn't give her BETA money and swore to disgrace him. Now you people start abusing urselfs. Talking thrash. A guy that has been raping since 20yrs ago. Unilag girls should be ashamed of themselves cos they allowed him go on for years. Meanwhile let anyone interested in this case investigate it well cos it will help reveal a lot and help other Runzs girls who are still hopping from one man house to the other ! Linda blog is officially open for rape victims to expose any one before is too late!
Seem the guy raped or attempted rape on all the ladies in lagos! Save your story for Bollywood!
And the girl who wS raped at 11+? May god punish all of you that support it, starting from you osas! May all your female family members be raped!
10 likes for ur comment!
Some of u are just retarded, ashewo, runs girl, aristos or whatever u call them. Doesn't that mean they don't have right to who dey give their body to? So because they are the name u idiot choose to call them that makes them less human with no rights? U are just a retard who needs rehabilitation of the mind. There's nothing wrong with a woman visiting a single man in his home. It's called modern time dating. Instead of according the lady the respect she needs beasts like u sees it as an opportunity to make the woman ur victim. I will recommend u see a phych doctor.
Something in return is it by force? Did they force him to collect his money? Uncivilised fool. So when u spend money on a gurl it's rape in return. You are sick
You no go woman house before when you were in school? Silly.
Chai, no be small thing ooooooooooooooooooooo (In Tuface's voice)
All of you defending this act are rapists. thats my own conclusion too. Now let me school you Uncivilised irrational fools even if a lady walks naked in front of you. If she doesn't grant you the consent you don't fucken touch her. Now I see how most of you were raised. Your sisters used to at some point walk naked or wear skimpy things at home around you now go rape them. Retard.
Mumu. Abeg remove dat sdk bullshit from your id.
Why should they hide in shame? You are retarded. You are the reason why rape victims don't speak up. Boy, girls, men , women are having sex everyday. Have you heard anyone complain? When a girl says she's been raped she's truly been raped take your myopic reason ing else where. And how about the 11 yr old? You retard. May every female in your family including your daughters be raped and tagged aristos. Even if you find a woman in your house naked you have no right to force your way through her if she doesn't give you the Consent. Be justifying evil cos you are just like them.
Dont mind d mumu
One day,two robbers visited my house bt my oga was not at home. They took our laptops,watches n phones. The tall rugged one told me nicely he wanted to hv sex with me. I refused n he pushed me on the bed,fingered me n gave me the sweetest sex of my life. I was clinging to him as he came. That was the first time i orgasmed in my life. He wore a condom .
Yes cos they recognise him. I have been raped before, and worst of all it was in a hotel, cos it was meant to be a meeting with a 3rd party. You'd never just know a guy is a beast till he starts to manifest. Now if I spoke up won't ppl say what we're you doing in a hotel, when all I went there with were my papers for a presentation.. And then the silly dude sent a message he really wants to keep you cos he can't stop thinking of you. Who does that. What ppl don't know is rape is rape even a prostitute knows when she's been raped. Ppl are having sex every day day no one complains but my dear when you've been raped it is rape cos it wasn't with ur consent. Forceful. Now you think if I see that dude paraded here I won't speak up? Reason before you speak. When you grow up around prostitutes you just assume every woman is one
He raped a 11 year old! I just hope this case is followed up and this guy must be rewarded in jail. The prisoners should RAPE his stinking ass in jail, oloshi oloriburuku
And how about the 11 yr old? You retard. May every female in your family including your daughters be raped and tagged aristos. Even if you find a woman in your house naked you have no right to force your way through her if she doesn't give you the Consent. Be justifying evil cos you are just like them
May u be tied up and raped
It doesn't matter if these girls are "aristos" or "runz" girls.. No girl should be forced to have sex under any circumstances. We live in a civilized society where savages such as this man and his supporters should not have a place. I commend Arinola for her bravery and for standing up against this Goliath.
SHAME!!!!!
It doesn't matter if these girls are "aristos" or "runz" girls.. No girl should be forced to have sex under any circumstances. We live in a civilized society where savages such as this man and his supporters should not have a place. I commend Arinola for her bravery and for standing up against this Goliath.
I'm sure d daniel motherf*cker don't rape every girl that visits him, from all d comments here its only d ones he picks in unilag. Do d math, he sees thosee girls as ho's. Unilag girls shud pls stop hopping into any flashy car cos there r lots of beats out there in wolf clothes. If d arinola has just said no, or raise alarm wen he drives her outside unilag/akoka (don't tell me there r no eatery/relaxation pt around there) all dis wouldnt have happened
This isn't steph tho, but who ever you are retarded bastard how about the 11 yr old? You retard. May every female in your family including your daughters be raped and tagged aristos. Even if you find a woman in your house naked you have no right to force your way through her if she doesn't give you the Consent. Be justifying evil cos you are just like them
We knw how dis tins happen jare. Yes he may b a rapist but den wat ws d attraction for u guys?was it d first day he took u to d room n raped u?u dnt go for dates n collect money n recharge cards? U dnt knw frm d first day hs intention ws to have sex wt u yet u continued indulging him? Be cos he looks like angel Gabriel. I dnt support rape but girls to need to show some decorum. Last week I sent 10k to a girl I met online to come over n she deleted my number n bbm....If I catch dat ashewo now dey will say rape...trust me. Lemme help u..If my sisters n mother n even brothers eyes will start to shook anyhow n dey lose all sense of being reasonable may dey b raped to death...wat else?
And they had to be tied up?
And how about the 11 yr old? You retard. May every female in your family including your daughters be raped and tagged aristos. Even if you find a woman in your house naked you have no right to force your way through her if she doesn't give you the Consent. Be justifying evil cos you are just like them
So you now justify rape with the cause of rape? Even if u spend the world on a girl or she walks past u naked u stay civil you retard.
And how about the 11 yr old? You retard. May every female in your family including your daughters be raped and tagged aristos. Even if you find a woman in your house naked you have no right to force your way through her if she doesn't give you the Consent. Be justifying evil cos you are just like them
Don't mind dem....24 hrs n already on ur house. Go to badoo...all of dem hv fees yet dey will form born again wen u see dem. D truth is nigerian women r d greatest hypocrites. Evn dose dat enjoyed it wt hm in peace will shout rape too now if found out. Alot of nigerian men feel cheated wen dey lavish in u n dnt lay u. Dem b angels? Abi dem wan b ur frnd to dey look ur mouth? Stop rape n stop girls behaving recklessly
Stfu
You're a retard. You blame this girls for visiiting. That your friend that sleeps naked by you was a stranger to you one day. We start friendship in a day. One day she didn't trust u and the other day she did. It's starts in one day. So think
You sound like a great fool. Granted these girls made a mistake by going to his house in the first place,but they are only human we all make uncertain decisions in our lives,that doesn't mean they deserve to be raped! This is why these girls are afraid to come out cuz they end up being blamed,how sad and pathetic. Such a society.
Those of u asking what the gurls were doing in his house/bedroom, r u trying to say no gurl has ever visited u in your house before,besides what is wrong in visiting a guy,he took advantage of the situation, now don't get me wrong I'm not a fan of unilag girls cos I feel they are too FAKE for AFRICA but RAPE is RAPE and should no t by any means be justified even if its a prostitute,
A girl's NO should be NO.
Its really sad.....I pray the law takes its course and he pays for his sins. But still, girls will never learn. Go school go learn, una say na man house una wan go...!
This guy parades unilag with his white Peugeot 205.What I deduced from him and yes he has approached me too was that..He's actually not rich but dresses the part and talks about his Aunty and sister.What he told my friend was that there was a modeling job going on and you know unilag girls,and the spotlight.She asked me to go with her and then he said we should walk like models and I he must have Thot that two of us wouldn't be easy for him!We asked to leave and he dropped us where we would get a cab.Had both our nos and said I should come again but my spirit no gree..He uses his mother and sisters name (Okereke)to boast and am sure they want nothing to do with him!
You are seriously retarded!! Men that can't resist are what we call ANIMALS!!! Thus they should be remand to cages (prison), which is hopefully where this rambling scrotum will end up assuming he is guilty!
Thank you!!! I think that's what these animals saying "what were they looking for in his house.", don't get! NO MEANS NO! Even within a relationship. If you force yourself on someone, that is a violation on their "person".
Let me get this straight...if i visit a guys house it means i shld be raped? How many girls dt visitef ur house hv u raped. Granted, these girls may hv made bad choices in goin der but it doesn't still justify d rape
Rape is a crime...simple
All of useless, low lives dogs cursing someone's all family who have no idea they are here are dogs of Babylon ! ! !
May you all be raped by dogs,snakes ,vultures and monsters till you die !
Worthless morons why not face the person that made the comment ? ! ? ! ?????????
Why bring his generations into this ? ? ? ? ?
FOOLSSSSSSSSSSSSS !
IN FACT THOSE VERY WORDS YOU WROTE WILL BE LAY IT'S BED IN YOUR LIFE !
YOU BE A BOTTOM FEEDER EVEN TO WILD ANIMALS .
Normally i am not one to post a comment on a blog,this is my first time. I have something to say to the guys that insult female rape victims and put the blame on them for going to the guy's house. Have you stop to think how the world would be if a girl never visits a guy in his house. Say you you are asking a girl out and she is still trying to get to know you but keep asking you meet at a fast food you would say all the
girl wants from you is for you to keep buying her lunch.
People make excuses for things that that is why they keep doing it because they know people like you are there to back them up the accused here (Daniel Okereke) actually told the girl from what i read that if she speaks of it they would ask her what she was doing there and you are here doing the exact same thing. Okay, what do you have to say about girls that have been rape in their houses (i know one)because they let a guy come into there house. Just stop and think , when i say think i mean actually think that if girls NEVER visited a guy in his house or he never went to there house how the whole 'wooing/asking out process' would be should it be in front of the girls house, fast foods and open places while the girl is still making up her mind if to date or not. Also what about girls that are rape by her new boyfriend, a girl finally decides to date a guy and goes to his house for the say 3rd time , a virgin and not ready to have sex and lets say the guy went through all the wooing just to sleep with her and does not really like her and he utilizes the opportunity to rape her. What would you say to that. Lets bring it closer to home say she is your sister. Truth is a guy might never understand the impact of rape even prostitute feel emotionally bruised by it. Stop for a moment and think if a guy forcefully rapes you (guys blaming girls).
I would end this with a little story, a girl goes to a guys house because he said he was ill just to drop off a meal she had cooked for him, she had told him she doesn't want to date him, she also didn't want to go in cos she knows she hears of stories like this but on getting to the door he drags her in rapes her and lets her go with the same confidence she would not tell anyone because of the confidence people like you give him, she leaves the house passing the plate of food she bought that has now been spilled on the flood cursing the kind gesture that brought her there. This girl was a virgin true story say 17, 18years old.....DO NOT MAKE AN EXCUSE FOR IT. It is becoming more normal some do it casually and might not be a serial rapist, like the guys blaming the girls most likely you have done it to a girl. This accused however is a serial rapist and it is because of statement like this that after rapping an 11years old girl like i read he had the courage to rape more. The funny thing is this girl too i doubt was willing to come forward, she only got to the station because an angry neighbour involved the police. If that hadn't happened many more girls would have been raped in the future because of stupid statement and stupid people like people that blame the girl. This comment is this long because it is from someone with a truely pained heart. INDEED YOU ARE RAPE BY THE SOCIETY ALL OVER AGAIN. for the guys that blame the girl my prayer is that a gay guy finds you attractive and because you are in his house alone or he in your he rapes you continuously in the most brutal ways and brags about the fact that he would get away with it because our society has only more shameful things to say about it because that is the only way you can truly understand and with people blaming you for being alone with him after it happened. AMEN.
To the fellow rapist that support his partner in crime. The reason why he rapes most (don't say only) Unilag girls is because that is his hunting ground. Watch Crime and Investigation you would see these people leave two lives so Unilag is where he can be the beast that he is.
Also, if you say they are hos and aristoes pay the price and sleep with them . The guy that even want to pick up an aristoe what does that make him a saint or we should award him the baddest nigga to walk the earth. People that patronize drug traffickers are also guilty and face punishment for supporting the trade. If you hate runs girls/ aristoes so much why are you people (fellow men) patronizing them.
Ps: this is the same girl that wrote aboute the 17/18years old that took food for a guy that was ill and he raped her (if linda is generous enough to post my long comment)
Dear Linda,
This is to you directly, i realized that if someone had spoken up about what Daniel Okereke did to them they would have spared the other girls the same trauma. I believe you can be a haven where victims are comfortable with sharing their story and when they drop different clues about the same offender it links to one offender another serial rapist is exposed. If he is not charged to court the comfort is that the word is out there and girls that know this description would avoid this fellow and a future victim or two might be saved from a horrible experience.I have therefore decided to speak up about a similar incident.
A guy, significantly tall, dark and slim in the faculty of social science years ago in Ekpoma raped a girl. He used to drive a honda hala and was popularly called 'pablo' and after that i have heard of more than 2 other cases with his named mentioned as the sex offender. I hear her currently leaves in benin so might have continued his crime spree there.
I choose to remain anonymous and if there is anyway you can get my identity kindly do not disclose it as this would stop other people from coming forward.
I have also chosen to withhold some details like his full name so if anyone replies this letter with more descriptions of the person then you know i am not lying. let that be my proof.
I kindly ask that you help post this on your blog and we see where the thread of comments lead to. Note my reason for this is not to punish him but because i feel for future victims as this might help save a girl or two.
Also, i would like to appeal to those he has also done this to post a comment under the name 'anonymous' if they are scared or ashamed. Simply speaking up about the ordeal adding another detail about his identity like the colour of the car or what department he was in, this would go a long way in proving that it is the same person and he is indeed a serial rapist. If you do not speak up you have left a fellow victim like you looking like she has made this up and left her for the vultures that are ready to call her names and blame her for the incident.
Also, if you are a guy that a girl has opened up to you about what this fellow did to her kindly post a comment also leaving description or details of his identity she could have been your sister think about it.
Please note i would not have spoken up about this incident but i am diong so because of his future victim as this seems to be a pattern with him.You may be saving a girl that is just about to undergo this horrible too. think of if this way if Daniel Okereke first victim or the first five spoke up Arinola and the other girls he brutally raped would have been spared. PLEASE HELP YOUR FELLOW GIRLS AND PUT AN END TO SERIAL RAPIST.
I also want to thank and appreciate the family of the girl involved for taking a stand with their daughter and supporting her to come forward as it is a very difficult thing to do and also for not putting the blame of the horrible incident on her. God bless you.
To Arinola, they say only a person that has walked the shoes of a man knows were it pinches, only those that have been brutally rape know how much you hurt especially when people in the society point fingers at you. I pray God helps you heal and sees you through the healing process gracefully. Kindly remember this when people try to make you regret why the incident became public, that you have saved a lot of future Unilag victims and out of your horrible experience this invaluable good thing came out of it. For the girl that the above person raped it has help her become stronger and more security conscious which may have prevented her from a worse experience. I also pray out of this thing i have done more good would come out of it than bad as i know that some ignorant, wicked, insensitive people would have something disgraceful to say.
Thank you.
Dear Linda,
This is to you directly, i realized that if someone had spoken up about what Daniel Okereke did to them they would have spared the other girls the same trauma. I believe you can be a haven where victims are comfortable with sharing their story and when they drop different clues about the same offender it links to one offender another serial rapist is exposed. If he is not charged to court the comfort is that the word is out there and girls that know this description would avoid this fellow and a future victim or two might be saved from a horrible experience.I have therefore decided to speak up about a similar incident.
A guy, significantly tall, dark and slim in the faculty of social science years ago in Ekpoma raped a girl. He used to drive a honda hala and was popularly called 'pablo' and after that i have heard of more than 2 other cases with his named mentioned as the sex offender. I hear her currently leaves in benin so might have continued his crime spree there.
I choose to remain anonymous and if there is anyway you can get my identity kindly do not disclose it as this would stop other people from coming forward.
I have also chosen to withhold some details like his full name so if anyone replies this letter with more descriptions of the person then you know i am not lying. let that be my proof.
I kindly ask that you help post this on your blog and we see where the thread of comments lead to. Note my reason for this is not to punish him but because i feel for future victims as this might help save a girl or two.
Also, i would like to appeal to those he has also done this to post a comment under the name 'anonymous' if they are scared or ashamed. Simply speaking up about the ordeal adding another detail about his identity like the colour of the car or what department he was in, this would go a long way in proving that it is the same person and he is indeed a serial rapist. If you do not speak up you have left a fellow victim like you looking like she has made this up and left her for the vultures that are ready to call her names and blame her for the incident.
Also, if you are a guy that a girl has opened up to you about what this fellow did to her kindly post a comment also leaving description or details of his identity she could have been your sister think about it.
Please note i would not have spoken up about this incident but i am diong so because of his future victim as this seems to be a pattern with him.You may be saving a girl that is just about to undergo this horrible too. think of if this way if Daniel Okereke first victim or the first five spoke up Arinola and the other girls he brutally raped would have been spared. PLEASE HELP YOUR FELLOW GIRLS AND PUT AN END TO SERIAL RAPIST.
I also want to thank and appreciate the family of the girl involved for taking a stand with their daughter and supporting her to come forward as it is a very difficult thing to do and also for not putting the blame of the horrible incident on her. God bless you.
To Arinola, they say only a person that has walked the shoes of a man knows were it pinches, only those that have been brutally rape know how much you hurt especially when people in the society point fingers at you. I pray God helps you heal and sees you through the healing process gracefully. Kindly remember this when people try to make you regret why the incident became public, that you have saved a lot of future Unilag victims and out of your horrible experience this invaluable good thing came out of it. For the girl that the above person raped it has help her become stronger and more security conscious which may have prevented her from a worse experience. I also pray out of this thing i have done more good would come out of it than bad as i know that some ignorant, wicked, insensitive people would have something disgraceful to say.
Thank you.
PART 1 FROM A1
To all these guys thinking that all girls that are raped are deserve it and the are hoes, most of you are saying it because you have been hurt and shored by girls maybe because you don't have money or for whatever reason, i understand your pain. I would tell you a story...true story...to God in heaven
There was a girl that a guy liked so much, he liked her because she treated every human being with love, care and respect regardless of who you are even though she is veryy beautiful she is extremely humble. She met this guy he didn't have a straighten out life but even if she did not want to date him and made it clear she kept advising him on living a good life that would bring him sucess in the future, he was into this mail fraud thing and when she found out kept advising him to stop and focus on other things, she went as far as giving him ideas on legit ways to make money. He would offer to buy her stuff but she would refuse (i swear down, on my life, i know this to be true). She however refused to date him because she felt he was not for her and had a funny feeling. After he found out it was never going to work he lured her and by lured , i actually mean he lured her, they had a mutual friends that was living with him she was meant to believe the friends where in the house, she did not even intend to go in, just to drop off sth, he forcefully carried her in and the gate man was an accomplice just like in Arinola's case. He tried to rape her, the only reason she got away was because she was on her period. This girl was a virgin, imagine if she got rape. Though she didn't she still felt the pain of it cos almost everything was done but the penetration.
After that she found out he had raped more than four girls as far back as from his unidays, and this was just the one she knew, apparently he is a serial rappist, hers was probably delayed because he wanted to have a relationship.
PART 2 A1
Now i have this to say the guys that support, yes i know girls have fooled themselves to get money but guys are not innocent either, these guys that are committing internet fraud, if they were girls they would be runs girls. Truth is you can never and i mean never know what guys do when they are rapping girls, u see it as just penetration but they do worse, they become animals, it is not funny. It can be the most bruised experience you have had. Even for this girl that there was no penetration it messed her up, and this spoils the chances of other guys. These guys talking how would you feel if you sincerely like a girl and she is so rigid in relating with you because of what your fellow man has done, truth is the whole boy met girl, boy woes girl, girl plays, then agrees or don't agree process would be flawed. No one can enjoy it. Please all these guys that are making excuses kindly stop and think if no girl ever visits you in your house cos of fear of rape would you be happy, would you enjoy the toasting process.What about girls that rape in cars, I HAVE HEARDDD...and for the guys that said why cant the girls get out, for crying out loud there is a thing called 'child luck' and it can only be accessed from the driver's side, even the windows...please stop this , stop hurting people that are already hurt in more ways than u can imagine. if she wants paid sex or that she is a runs girl then give her the money since you want the service, if you don't have then let her be..even the beating before the act is something else, it is inhumane.
PART 3 A1
The girl in the above story was almost strangled to death, realy she almost went out of breath, when i tell u till date, that girl might be the best girl you can ever meet in this life you wont understand but she is, that faithful day she was even doing a favour for the accused by coming to drop off something.
I will end with this, when we were kidnapping white men in the oil producing regions in Nigeria, someone made a statement that people are making excuses for it but at the end of the day when the whites are gone, the person said we would stat kidnapping ourselves and what do we have today..WE ARE KIDNAPPING OURSELVES FOR RANDOM! When people were defrauding white men we said it is good for them they are stingy, but now we get scam mails on our phone that we have worn a stupid lottery. trying to defraud ourselves.
Pleaseeeee i am begging with tears, fine girls do stupid things for money but don't you. This rape thing forget it, even if u are a prostitute and u have different men entering u daily that forceful penetration and the beating that follows or the guys mocking u after wards that u can't do anything about it because they know people like u are out there to say 'what did she go and look for there' is one of the worse things that can happen to a girl. a guy has been rape before by a gay cult guy he told me it wasn't funny, he is so scaredddd, his self esteem went downnn, please just take a moment to imagine if it were you, be you guy or girl pleases don't do this, this is why guys that rape boast of it,there was one time they called it RnB (Rape and Beg) she has to forgive u cos she has no other choice, tomorrow a guy can do it to your sister simply because she is hanging out with him just to see if she would want to have a relationship with him. Let see you mother thought her right don't go to a guy's house , what if she is in his car, people have told me of times it has happened to them in the car, or a young naive girl that just wants to go out and have fun because her parents shielded her all her life, my hostel mate was raped like that in uni, her friends abandoned her with the guy in the room after she gather them round for security, all she wanted to do was go out clubbing for the first time in her life...i beg you all, you guys that blame the girls for being alone with the guy, ohhhh i beg you with the name of God, stop it, u cant imagine how much it tears the girls apart and gives the boys courage to continue. To those of you that have still done it casually, ohh i know a friend a nice guy that said he did it cos the girl is all about town they were drunk and wanted to just have fun, i swear he is a good guy that protects girls he thought she desires it, so i know some ple do it casually, i beg with with God even if you just do it casually, one or only twice plsss, imagine she was your daughter, even if she starts moving with guys for money would you want that to happen to her, see the beating arinola got, would you want that for her, no matter how bad she is,plssss i can cry now just to beg guys STOP THISSSSS! RAPE IS A WEAK CRIME! IF YOU SAY GIRLS ARE HOES THEN FOR YOU TO RAPE A HOE THAT IS EVEN READY TO SLEEP WITH YOU FOR CHANGE WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU. GUYS SAY WOMEN ARE SO CHEAP AND SHAMELESS THEN HAVENT YOU STOP TO WINDER IF THEY ARE SO CHEAP AND READY TO OPEN THEIR LEGS WHY RAPE THEM! GOD HAVE MERCY ON PEOPLE THAT SUPPORT RAPE. I PRAY HE HAS MERCY ON YOU!
It's not a unilag girl thing... could be anyone and there must always be a starting point in any relationship...
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