I have three children with my wife. Two of our children are girls and the last who is just three years old is a boy but I have noticed that my wife treats him differently from his sisters. She's not patient with him and smacks him whenever he does something wrong instead of correcting him in a loving manner like a mother should. She also talks to him harshly. If I hadn't seen her give birth to him, I would have thought he was adopted. I have asked her many times why she treats him differently but she says I am just exaggerating. I knew this was getting out of hand when I contemplated getting a camera to see how she treats him when I am not around. That is his mother not his nanny so I shouldn't be scared to leave him alone with her but the sad truth is that I am. What should I do?
Bros I think you are the cause, I think she is angry she's given birth to a man like you, so check yourself, or what do you want me to say? On LIB men are responsible for whatever happens in their marriage, relationship etc. His wife cheats on him, tricks him in believing the kids are his, a married woman cheats on a man with a married man......etc it's the mans fault here on LIB, so Mr. I don't know what you want to know
She needs to see a very competent doctor asap. She might be suffering from late post natal depression. Keep a very good eye on her so she doesnt self destruct. Watch out for the boy too by keeping him out of her way most times. See a very good doctor to help her and keep the boy from her anger.
I know ur son is ur favourite. Allow ur wife 2 train ur son or he will give u problem in future. Ur wife is sees what u will never see in him now. Spear d rod £ spoil d child. Am having d same problem with my hubby. He treats our daughter like a princess but disciplines my boys.
U r probably over reacting, been dat he's ur only son, u r bound to be over protective. Calm down, ur wife probably doesn't want to give u d chance to spoil him
Train up a child in d way he should go, when he is old ,he will not depart 4rm it. My mum made me what I am 2day.if not 4 her. Beating, I for spoil finish. I be only child. Love u mummy.
DNA for all the children ASAP. The girls may be from a bf while the boy is yours or vice versa. If they all turn out to be yours, then she needs to see a psychologist. Probably can't stand boys (even hers) for some reason.
I jst have two tins to say, 1)hope u didn't put pressure on her when she was having all girls as an African man,2)find out if d child is urs,cos it difficult for a mother to mistreat a child she passed through so much pain to bring into d world
i think you need to carmly persuade her to see a doctor, she might be having what is known as post pregnancy depression. This causes your wife to have a certain hatred towards the kid blaming them for unnecessary things. Please do ASAP and take care of both wife n son, they need your attention now.
I don't think the paternity of any of your children is questionable, but if you so wish you can go for a check. What I am seeing here is that there are some parents who treat children differently base on gender. She might not even think or know she is not playing equality among them. Besides, male child could be a little more tough and she might be seeing him as stubborn, hence want to handle him with more strict hand. Guy, I think you should be patient, but always caution her not to over do it. With time as the little boy grows and gets matured his mother will appreciates him as a wonderful gift from the Almighty.
Has it occurred to any of u judgmental DNA champions that this woman may have been a victim of rape which led to the conception of that child? I too would find it hard to love the child of my attacker. It's so hard to open up about rape and get the help and support u need when u live in a society where people blame the victim. However if a child is being abused he should be removed ASAP from the abuser,no matter what.
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Bros I think you are the cause, I think she is angry she's given birth to a man like you, so check yourself, or what do you want me to say? On LIB men are responsible for whatever happens in their marriage, relationship etc. His wife cheats on him, tricks him in believing the kids are his, a married woman cheats on a man with a married man......etc it's the mans fault here on LIB, so Mr. I don't know what you want to know
She needs to see a very competent doctor asap. She might be suffering from late post natal depression. Keep a very good eye on her so she doesnt self destruct. Watch out for the boy too by keeping him out of her way most times. See a very good doctor to help her and keep the boy from her anger.
Learn from the uganDan couple n their evil maid n protect ur child! Be proactive
try and find out what the problem is cos its not normal and ask for the paternity of the child too from her
Go do DNA test on the child......
I know ur son is ur favourite. Allow ur wife 2 train ur son or he will give u problem in future. Ur wife is sees what u will never see in him now. Spear d rod £ spoil d child. Am having d same problem with my hubby. He treats our daughter like a princess but disciplines my boys.
U r probably over reacting, been dat he's ur only son, u r bound to be over protective. Calm down, ur wife probably doesn't want to give u d chance to spoil him
This case dey somehow oh?speechless
Train up a child in d way he should go, when he is old ,he will not depart 4rm it. My mum made me what I am 2day.if not 4 her. Beating, I for spoil finish. I be only child.
Love u mummy.
DNA for all the children ASAP. The girls may be from a bf while the boy is yours or vice versa. If they all turn out to be yours, then she needs to see a psychologist. Probably can't stand boys (even hers) for some reason.
I jst have two tins to say, 1)hope u didn't put pressure on her when she was having all girls as an African man,2)find out if d child is urs,cos it difficult for a mother to mistreat a child she passed through so much pain to bring into d world
Her actions = the child not yours gbam!!! Go for DNA test finish!
i think you need to carmly persuade her to see a doctor, she might be having what is known as post pregnancy depression. This causes your wife to have a certain hatred towards the kid blaming them for unnecessary things. Please do ASAP and take care of both wife n son, they need your attention now.
Too insensitive....
I don't think the paternity of any of your children is questionable, but if you so wish you can go for a check. What I am seeing here is that there are some parents who treat children differently base on gender. She might not even think or know she is not playing equality among them. Besides, male child could be a little more tough and she might be seeing him as stubborn, hence want to handle him with more strict hand. Guy, I think you should be patient, but always caution her not to over do it. With time as the little boy grows and gets matured his mother will appreciates him as a wonderful gift from the Almighty.
You've said it all . Exactly my thought
Get a camera as soon as possible before she does something drastic to your child.
You just hit the nail on the head.
bros,I can bet dat kid aint urs. He sees him as a reminder of a mistake. Probably rape or smthn. Get a DNA test done.
Hahahaha....Google is ur friend. Lmao
Has it occurred to any of u judgmental DNA champions that this woman may have been a victim of rape which led to the conception of that child? I too would find it hard to love the child of my attacker. It's so hard to open up about rape and get the help and support u need when u live in a society where people blame the victim. However if a child is being abused he should be removed ASAP from the abuser,no matter what.
"If I hadn't seen her give birth to him, I would've thought he was adopted". Does that mean it's ok mistreat adopted kids? Poor attitude
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