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Sunday 26 July 2015

Playboy's first transgender model warns Caitlyn Jenner about 'rushing' her transition

60 year old Caroline Cossey, a transgender model, appeared in Playboy back in 1981, at the time her transgender identity was a secret. She has since broken boundaries and fought tirelessly for the transgender community.

And while she is thrilled by the outpouring of love and support for Caitlyn Jenner, the former Bond girl has admitted that she is worried the reality star is moving too fast with her transition.

When Caitlyn made her debut on the cover of Vanity Fair in June, unfounded rumors that she had already undergone gender reassignment surgery began to swirl. But as a transgender woman who went through countless and lengthy psychological evaluations before she completed her transition, Caroline has admitted to Daily Mail Online that she is 'praying Caitlyn hasn't had surgery' just yet.
'She looks amazing,' Caroline said. 'But everything is being done in such a rushed hurry.'
Guidelines for sexual reassignment surgery (SRS) vary from country to country, and Caroline explained that a candidate typically has to undergo psychological testing, and wait at least a year before being approved for sexual reassignment surgery.
However, she imagines that someone with extreme wealth, like Caitlyn, would be able to find a way to bypass these requirements.

Recalling the detailed and incredibly personal questioning she had to undergo before being able to proceed with gender reassignment surgery, Caroline explained that during Caitlyn's powerful interview with Diane Sawyer in April, the athlete, who maintained she is attracted to women, was not asked whether she got sexually aroused when dressing in women's clothes.

'That's the first thing they asked,' she said of starting the SRS process. 'They try to deter you from surgery.'
Caroline said there is a huge difference between being transgender and being a transvestite, and while there is 'absolutely nothing wrong' with being a transvestite, confusion can lead to a painful surgery and a lifetime of regret.

'She is beautiful. She looks amazing,' Caroline said of Caitlyn. 'I just want to make sure she is not going down the wrong road.' 
Caroline is not only protective of Caitlyn, she is worried about the countless others who may be rushing into SRS as a result of the increased public awareness about transgender people. 
'I am very concerned about the people who are following and rushing into things without getting the right counseling,' she explained.
Ultimately, Caroline said she wants Caitlyn to be happy, and while the I Am Cait star hasn't reached out to her, she said she would love to share her experience and answer any questions she might have. 
'You can't just go from playing the male role for 65 years, and then go to being a female and expect for it to fall into place,' she said.
'The most important thing she's got - and I was very touched by this - she has got a loving and supportive family. That's what kept me stable, and that's what will keep her stable.'
Caroline recently spoke with Playboy about her experience after decades of silence, as well as the initial shock she felt when Caitlyn came out as a transgender woman. However, the interview was conducted before Bruce transitioned to Caitlyn, and she referred to her using her former name and male pronouns.
'I hope she wasn't offended by anything that was in Playboy,' Caroline said earnestly. 'That interview was done before she came out. I wouldn't be that disrespectful. She deserves the respect to be Caitlyn now.'
While she candidly shared her concerns about Caitlyn, Caroline was just as quick to offer praise for her. 
Caroline found Caitlyn's Vanity Fair cover to be 'beautiful', noting that she liked how 'she embraced the old glamour of Hollywood' when she posed in an ivory corset. 


Source: Daily Mail

57 comments:

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Their plate of Banga soup!

Unknown said...

Ok

Unknown said...

Mtcheew.

Unknown said...

Rubbish!

Anonymous said...

Ok seen

Do You Have A Big Tummy? Get In Here for solution!

Unknown said...

Ok!

Unknown said...

Fools!

Unknown said...

Ummm. So we've had a Transgender for years now Nd the world hasn't still ended?

Unknown said...

K k k


OKORO UPGRADED**

REAL BLOGBRITY said...

Leave her to rush. Dunno wen her death will come

Unknown said...

Mcheeeeeeew! Akuko ndi ala! Linda take note!

Ladybird banks.birdlover said...

After seeing dis boo is now demanding for my baby pix...to be sure I wasn't XY chromosome...lol

Manuel Kunmi said...

Awon weyre

Unknown said...

Very kind words from this woman. She sounds very caring...
And made valid points.
And same points apply to homosexuals.
Don't just jump and tag yourself something.
Or make drastic changes to your body because that is the body you will live and die in.
You must examine those feelings you think you have.
Go for therapy
Walk in the shoes for a while before you make serious alterations.

Sometimes it's just a fad or a transient feeling.
Simply dressing and living like a woman in appearance is not transsexual. Or saying 'im a man but I have a woman in me' or 'call me father but I wanna be a woman'. Those are transvestite traits. Catlyn Jenner's publicity is making people rush into what they don't fully understand. Sometimes when you get what you think you wanted, you find out it wasn't necessary. So Catelyn and co should know this before chopping off their scrotum.

Mihearty said...

May God punish devil. Mental deranged motherfuckers

Unknown said...

This trannies have 99 probs.....

amrizing said...

Pls can someone tell Linda to stop posting issues of transgender and gay on her blog. Am tired of it all. Caitlyn Is not a Nigerian and I do wonder if Linda is promoting gay and lesbianism that is far alien to our culture. Linda be warned that u have a place in our society and don't misuse it.

amrizing said...

Pls can someone tell Linda to stop posting issues of transgender and gay on her blog. Am tired of it all. Caitlyn Is not a Nigerian and I do wonder if Linda is promoting gay and lesbianism that is far alien to our culture. Linda be warned that u have a place in our society and don't misuse it.

lami said...

Vanity upon vanity..........

ary said...

Yes mmebi! That is a guy?!

Celine Oma said...

Yeye

Ikuku AmStrong said...

See his elvish ears, lol. On the flip side though, I don't see anything beautiful in Transgender. I still is as ugly as hell. Period. And all these devilish people should stop tryna corrupt impressionable people's mindsets.

Unknown said...

Their cup of tea abeg.....



#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

Im irritated. This Transgender ish makes my head ache

Anonymous said...

Rubbish

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Na dem know

Jasmine Joseph said...

Lost souls, una spot they wait heat up for hell, u go soon meet ur master d devil

Unknown said...

This Caroline is obviously in regrets, but she was being too careful not to let that slip, maybe for fear of public backlash from the transgender community and how far she has gone in promoting the cause. Its such a shame. Living in lifelong pain and regretregret... spits on them

Unknown said...

Lol ...eleti ehoro! Rotfl

Anonymous said...

Gbogbo e ti da ru! The world has gone mad!

Unknown said...

Both you Caroline and Caitlyn are foolish. Why did your names start with letter c. Bruce I will always regret you. Wish I did know you before your transition

seyi crown said...

No one will no she's a man. Men r u trouble

Sweet Ama said...

I thought as much...she is regretting it badly...

Sweet Ama said...

I thought as much. .she's regretting it badly..

Golda Awosika said...

Transy, transy, transy and more transies wt a whole lotta problems
#*karlishah*

Unknown said...

Signs of the last days
...NA ZO

kemikane said...

She's passing a very important message. Only people with deep insight can understand that she's likewise confused and may be regretting it and wants them to think well.

Anonymous said...

You are so right. He/she is regretting her actions.

Unknown said...

Pls desist frm dis act of transgender/homosexual for is abomination b4 d living Lor and pathway is hell.

Anonymous said...

I tire too. This will be my last comment on the issue of trans or homosexuals.

knowurway.com said...

Amrizing, I tired for Linda oh, nd I also believe Linda is a Lesbian.

Anonymous said...

Not may be regretting it. He is so regretting it. He didn't wanna say because monies he could lose

Anonymous said...

Onyx when are you transitioning

Anonymous said...

Weston coinsign aboki with ur comment na.u no fit write ur comment separetely¿

Anonymous said...

Shiorrrr.... . confused people

Oluwadamilola said...

She is hot...

Anonymous said...

nice, dont hide whu yhu are,if yhu dont lyk it change it!after all change z constant

Unknown said...

Ndi Ala

yawanow said...

Once a man always a man

Unknown said...

You are so right Lyndy. Spot on, right on the head. I thought it was just me that noticed it... So much for bravery

Anonymous said...

@ Irabo bobby $ co, mechipunu onu nsi. I cant remember Linda forcn u 2 read d story. What is wrong in bringn such news? And Did I hear u call Linda a Lesbian? Frustrated animal $ hater, u r der abusing her while she is here mekn her millions. Haters, u better go tek several sits in hell. Onyx, Onyx, Onyx, how many times did I call u? pls dnt hesitate 2 ask 4 financial help anytime u r ready 2 bcom a complete woman.

Anonymous said...

@ Irabo bobby $ u r falling no b only "AMrizing" mechipunu onu nsi. I cant remember Linda forcn u 2 read d story. What is wrong in bringn such news? And Did I hear u call Linda a Lesbian? Frustrated animal $ hater, u r der abusing her while she is here mekn her millions. Haters, u better go tek several sits in hell. Onyx, Onyx, Onyx, how many times did I call u? pls dnt hesitate 2 ask 4 financial help anytime u r ready 2 bcom a complete woman.

Anonymous said...

Your mama dey crase

Anonymous said...

Men with tities- get hard on some unknown transgender & what I see is a dick. What am I supposed to do cos I like tits & he's got tits....

Anonymous said...

oriburuku lo bawon ja

Anonymous said...

so should we be proud of this whole transgender ish? It is well

Olmec The Premier Transgender surgery world said...

Sexual identity is the core issue of human psychology. Gender identity poses a great embarrassment for transgenders and we can imagine the problems of a person who just keeps on struggling to find his own gender identity. Their mind needs a constant help and support in this venture of establishing their own self, so that they can integrate themselves in the society at the earliest as per their psychological need. The problem still gets exaggerated when they don't get enough expected support even from the basic supporting pillar, their own family, as well as society. By en large lack of awareness about the gender identity disorder and absence of defined regulations in the society may be the main attributes for this. This puts a transgender (who is already in a constant internal conflict between body and soul), in a conflict with the society leading to hampered interactions and interpersonal relationships with family, friends and colleagues. We understand the core need of an advanced skilled support system for transgenders at every level of their journey of becoming part of society with dignity.

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