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Wednesday, 10 September 2014

Video: Chris Oyakhilome speaks on divorce; says media is writing stupid things


Y'all need to listen to this. He said he was not accused of the things (the media) said, and neither did he 'commit' those 'stupid' things (the media) said. And he asked people to pray for his wife because she made a mistake. For those who can't view the video, continue to read what he said...



"I understand that some media houses particularly in Nigeria and maybe in South Africa have been writing some real stupid things. Frivolous charges...that's crazy.

You have to understand something about a Man of God. A man of God is not just someone who worships God or who preaches God. A man of God is directed by God, set on course by God. If you study the scriptures you will not find one Man of God going against God, sinning against God. The only thing you can find is a Man of God, maybe in two different things 1. Moses for example, when he struck the rock twice, provoked by the anger of the people, not because he wanted to do something against the Lord.

No Man of God does something against the Lord. A Man of God is set on course, there is a type of life that he's been given, alright?

Then you have a young man, a young prophet, he wasn't named, he was deceived by another Man of God, and so he went in the direction God says don't go. That's only the kind of thing you would find about a Man of God when he misses the message of God or he acts beyond what God said.

But a Man of God setting himself in defiance to the word of God and living like they are writing those stupid things about me that I did this, that I did that, you don't know what a Man of God is. I don't go in that direction. That seems crazy.

I wasn't accused of those things you said, nor did I commit those stupid thing that you said and I don't need to go to that level and such discussions. Jesus Christ was accused by many, with lots of frivolous charges. There would always be those who would like for it to be true, but you know, in spite of the accusations against Jesus, it didn't change who he was!

There are preachers and there are Men of God. I'm not a preacher, I'm a Man of God. Understand the difference. And I go in the way I'm asked to go, it may cause some troubles with individuals, but that's not because I've done something wrong.

And when it comes to Rev. Anita, what I'd say to you is pray for her, don't act like 'why  is she....' . If you're married to a Man of God it does not you make automatically mature. You can make mistakes, but you know, people expect the wife of a Minister to definitely be at the level of the Minister, and so they may be looked upon and the expectations maybe like that, but it's a positional thing. If a Man of God is married, it does not automatically mean the wife of the Man of God is therefore a Woman of God! That's not how it is in the Bible. That's why you don't really find wives of Men of God mentioned in the bible. How many of them? Who was Peter's wife? Did you ever know her name? Who was John's wife? Did you ever read the name? What about all the other apostles? How many are registered in the bible? You never find their names, why? Ask God when you find Him!

So, they are little things, don't try to make something big out of them. We're journeying, doing the things that God's called us to do. Christians should not have a divorce. It shouldn't be. But that doesn't mean a Christian may not take the step. They may do it, but that doesn't make it right. And we shouldn't take one another to court, but when it happens, not because we want to go there, someone is taking us there. That's a problem. Be wise and stay focused in the Word of God, and don't let those who want to feast on things like this including Christians. The Christians who like things like this, they want to make something big about it. And say yes we said it. You said what? You should only say those things that are from God, and become honorable in your speech. And judge nothing before the time. Be wise, Glory to God.

So we are going greater and greater and greater by the power of the living Christ. So, we are not walking in sin and living in sin and hoping we can mix sin and righteousness together, No! We are the manifestations of His righteousness, we walk in that light only, and that's the way it's going to be! Glory to God

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Stell said...

You just read my mind!

Stell said...

Excellent view point! And very mature and sophisticated. Thanks for staying above the fray.

Anonymous said...

Lexity of Auchi SMG( school mag), nor go do the one dem go take find you assassinate o. You for nor make known your identity o. But your story sweet sha. Dat Pastor Urie matter na im I for like hear. You go the church as undercover journalist abi you be disgruntled church member?

Anonymous said...

You are right , Jesus too was called a bastard by the people of his day for equating himself with God by calling himself the son of God, a common carpenter born in a manger. He must be a fool too for saying he will break down the temple and build it in 3 days. The most holy temple for that matter, very arrogant and proud, how dare a commoner like him say that , deceiving and brainwashing many and telling them rubbish , in short that Jesus is an idiot lets crucify the bastard. So they all said..But i remember that my Bible tells me that as Jesus christ is in this world so are we..note that i said in this world not outside this world , meaning you will face like temptations,trials,persecutions and the world must definately hate you just the same way they hated Jesus. Wisdom demands that you comment only on those things you know with certainty not those things you dont know much about.

Anonymous said...

"Man of God", the psychology of deceit! Na so dem take dey use our head dey empty our pockets. Like one person talk for daily mail, THE HIGHWAY TO HEAVEN IS HEAVILY TOLLED. Heavily tolled by all these our pastors when go command respect, then use dat respect take deceive us. Me and any man of God na the same, dat bros when dey try small small fit better pass we two for God eye. Na so.

Anonymous said...

Men of God do not need prayers. The rest of us are midgets where God is concerned.

Anonymous said...

Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour. But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. Be not ye therefore partakers with them. For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light: (For the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth;) Proving what is acceptable unto the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the light: for whatsoever doth make manifest is light. Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, Redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. (‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭1-33‬ KJV)
Firstly, I want to use this my first time to advice Linda to stop posting abusive, insultive and threaten message. To my comment, Pastor Chris, from your video and this scripture, you are responsible for all this. 1. You should have build your wife up, 2. You should have presented her honourable, not put are down, you are the head of this home that is in mess, you take the responsibility. 3.You should have love your wife as Christ love the church and die for her even when they are still a sin not other woman, 4 You should have join -leave together- with your wife as Bible instructed. From all angle your wife seems to follow the scripture because by now we should have been hearing of her adultery and your daughters, leaving them for this long. My prayer then goes to you that God will open the eye of your understanding to see the mystery of the end of the path you are taken and grace to amend it. Love to all body of Christ. Pst T

Anonymous said...

So your mind tells you, many said so in 2004 but hes much greater now in 2014. But you will look up in 2024 and you will be amazed that hes still up there , far much better and greater than he is now . No man can stop anything that God sets in motion not even the Devil can.

Anonymous said...

"If you are married to a Man of God.....you can make mistakes". Man of God nor dey make mistake?

Anonymous said...

You don't need to 'do religion', give your life to Christ and let him lead and direct you. Gosh what kind of home are you from and to think you're young. Talk of 'train up a child the way he should go'.

Anonymous said...

Abeg make we address the elephant in the room! Religion is wreaking havoc in this country! Men parading themselves as better and more than others! We are equals... Fear... won't allow people say what's on their mind. If it's shite it's shite... Call a shite a shite! Religion... One of the worst things that happened to humanity! Quoting the book... That was an amalgamation of a more ancient text! It's a big trap! Alas most don't know... I couldn't even finish the write... Its several insulting!!

Anonymous said...

PASTOR (FAKE) CHRIS OYAKILHOME IS SOOOOO FULL OF SHIT!!! WAKE UP WORLD CAN'T YOU SEE THAT HE IS SO PROUD AND DECEITFUL.

PLEASE ALL OF YOU IN THIS MAN'S CHURCH UNDERSTAND HE IS SOOOO FAKE!!!

HE TWISTS THE BIBLE TO HIS ADVANTAGE. TELL HIM TO GO AND BEG HIS WIFE!! AND STOP ALL THIS MASQUERADING TACTICS TO KEEP HIS FOLLOWERS AND MONEY COMING IN.

OR BETTER TELL HIM TO LIVE WITHOUT MONEY FOR 10 DAYS AND GO ON A DRY FAST FOR HIS MARRIAGE YEYE MUFU!!! I JUST WASTED 5 MINUTES OF MY LIFE LISTENING TO THIS MOFO AND I WILL NEVER GET IT BACK MTCHEEWWW!!

LINDA NEXT!!

Anonymous said...

Deceivers Embassy aka Deceivers Love World

Unknown said...

na true you dey talk

Anonymous said...

is me or this guy accent don comedown..but d matter pain pastor sha o

PD Young Billionaire said...

Thk u anon 9.19am

Anonymous said...

This is what happens when men go from worshipping God to becoming god of men.....
He just dey do me like say make I tie Pastor Chris to chair, come dey land am anonymous slaps till him face red.
MISS UNDERSTOOD

aboveDfray said...

Man of thief

Anonymous said...

My dear,its not about judging,the bilble says test all spirits.U cant test spirits by not asking analytical and critical questions.We need to be certain of the spirits these so called men of ..... speak with..We must xray every statement in d bible..My dear Chris has missed it.

Anonymous said...

Yes Chis needs prayers.The bible says that a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel....soo?
Again,all those amateurs surrounding him are supposed to be Elders of the church..What then do u expect when he has surrounded himself with children instead of Wise Elders..Hmmmm.I see a man here that lacks counsels!

Anonymous said...

1 Timothy 3: 1-7 “If anyone wants to provide leadership in the church, good! But there are preconditions: A leader must be well-thought-of, committed to his wife, cool and collected, accessible, and hospitable. He must know what he’s talking about, not be over-fond of wine, not pushy but gentle, not thin-skinned, not money-hungry. He must handle his own affairs well, attentive to his own children and having their respect. For if someone is unable to handle his own affairs, how can he take care of God’s church? He must not be a new believer, lest the position go to his head and the Devil trip him up. Outsiders must think well of him, or else the Devil will figure out a way to lure him into his trap.”

Anonymous said...

Such foolishness, how can a man of God talk like this? The wives of preachers in the bible where really mentioned?! That is a very sexist comment?! Your wife is your partner not your follower

Anonymous said...

Foolish man if u can't lead your family how can u lead a congregation? Your family is your first ministry. You've clearly lost God's anointing

Unknown said...

Let God be the judge. Pray for all who have fallen. Let's not take delight in their fall. It could have been you.

Anonymous said...

Listen to d video again b4 u say rubbish. Am sure u all hav ears.

Anonymous said...

Linda....I know u r not a christain, nor do u hv any regard for d body of christ.d spirit of d anti christ is working in u already.pls repent (if u like dnt publish) I have passed my message to u.

Anonymous said...

FIRST TO COMMENT****(GURU)

ALL I'M SAYING IS THAT GOD, IS AGAINST DIVORCE.IF IT IS REALLY TRUE THAT THE TWO ARE PLANNING ON BREAKING UP THEIR LONGTIME UNION..THEY SHOULD CONSIDER THEIR KIDS AND THEIR MINISTRY.

Anonymous said...

God will take control

Anonymous said...

Best comment Eva...

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