According to ThisDay, who said they have a copy of the court papers for the divorce process filed at the Principal Registry of the Family Division (PRFD) of the High Court of Justice, Anita filed for divorce on the ground that 'the marriage has broken down irretrievably.'
In her statement of case in support of petition at PRFD with number FD14001650, Pastor Anita however, accused her husband of having inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members.
Okay, let me get this straight. Her official reason for filing is not 'adultery' but she alleged in her statement in court that he's having inappropriate relationship with women? It's not the same thing? Find the statement after the cut...
According to the statement;
"The wife has discussed with the husband
his inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members. She
has explained that this has given her cause for concern. The husband has
minimised her worries and taken no step to alleviate her grievances.”
"The wife submits that her marriage to the husband has irretrievably broken down and there is no hope of reconciliation. The wife will submit that it is the husband’s unreasonable behaviours which have led to this.
“The husband and the wife are both Pastors. The husband undertakes his work, in the main, in South Africa and Nigeria. The wife lives in the United Kingdom. The wife will say that they have lived separately for 16 years and over this time have drifted apart. The wife has come to realise that the husband will only visit the UK for annual church programmes that he holds rather than to be with this wife. The wife feels that he has been unavailable as a father to their children during their developing years.
“The wife feels that their marriage suffered under the pressure of their work. They would rarely spend time together due to the husband unavailability. Special occasions such as Christmas, Birthdays and family occasions and anniversaries past them by and their rarely spent any time together as a family as the husband was more devoted to his work than he was to them.
“The wife feels that she has been used to portray and enhance the husband’s image as a family man when the reality is that there is no existing relationship between them. She feels that she has been present for official functions simply for his convenience. On occasions she has been copied into his travel itinerary which has been given to him by his staff on a need to know basis.
“The wife has tried to discuss her concerns with the husband. He claims that she is carnal and he is insensitive to her feelings and her needs.”
“As a result of the husband’s attitude to their marriage, the wife will say that he is virtually not recognised as a married man in the ministry. His teachings and beliefs on marriage is that the husband is a master and a controller and the wife will say that his concept of biblical; submission is so extreme that it is impossible for her to meet his expectations. She feels humiliated by the way he treats her in the presence of his close female staff members and she feels that she has been taken for granted which has become unbearably stressful for her.
“The wife will say that the relationship with the husband is non-existent to the point that his itinerary which was announced publicly at the beginning of the year had no provision for time with his family. His staff members who travel with him organise both his personal and professional life without any input from her. The wife will say that she is treated with disregard almost like akin to an intruder.
“The wife feels that she has been mentally, physically and emotionally deprived of the experience of a marital relationship. She feels that the husband has persistently judged her and his communication with her has been unduly harsh. The wife knows that he was hard to please and has been extremely critical.
“The wife reserves the right to expand on all of these particulars if the divorce petition is defended.”
144 comments:
Ooh....wish they could settle all this.... Divorce ain't cool at all
Same old story.. Once it's not Panadol it can't be Panadol.. Adultery is all I see here.. Next gist plz..!!
If these allegations are true, the pastor is not Jesus like at all. Pastors please practise what you preach, try to follow in the footsteps of Jesus.
Na wao...pastors preach and councel people on marital issues and evn fix ssome marriages bt they forget to pay atenion to theirs until its broken beyond repair,in dis case now what will u tell ur members with marital issues.
Well it unfortunate dt dere lives is now a public matter
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Na them sabi.....they let us hear word and go ahead with the divorce quietly without keeping the whole world updated .....
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Y treat ur wife dat way?? Thats bad oo..abeg wat do they mean her adultery claim n dis relationship shit na d same tin jare..Dis pastors aint loyal..........................#KingOfKings
All these are unreasonable to, she should have quit her job & made him her job if she wanted family time... Why does she not live where he lives after work? She is a distance away & complaining rather than finding a proper solution but kermit though
This tori too long. Make them divorce already! Ahn ahn. Mtchew..rubbish people
This ia really serious.Lord have mercy o.
Can't blame her!
Can't blame her!
So they have lived separately for 16 years? That is ridiculous. How wont they divorce.
A husband is not supposed to stay away from his wife for that long. 16 years? I am surprised they didn't get a divorce earlier. And imagine, he has been away from his wife for 16 years, and yet, he surrounds himself with female worker...how wont he develop feelings for those young females.
Are You A One Minute Man?
I dont think dis is a mata of divorce,just sake the divine face of God
May God help their union please God
Jeez....what do they take people for? Fools? Not adultery but innappropriate relationship. 16yrs apart and u expect him to be faithful. E be elijah. Well anita state the terms straight...
"Inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members" is a subtle way of saying he is having an "adulterous relationship with his female staff members".
Hmmmmm.......... Invisible God!!! Only u knwz wot is hiden.
Eyaaa..I feel for Anita..Linda I get wat she meant by adultery is not d basis for d divorce..pastor chris is a huge pastor dat has grown big over d years..due to d hugeness of his church its possible he doesn't av tym for his family or wife..its nw more lyk a business thing..she filed it based on personal ish on wat she feels as a wife..she been deprived..even as pastors we should av tym for our wives nd family.. How dare he accuse her of being carnal cox she confronted him on his duties.. It is obvious dat Anita suffered from neglect Wich is lyk anyoda naija woman..I feel ur pain woman..jux cox u a pastor doesn't min u av to pretend..u need ur man..he can't get his outside nd go free but if she tries..she a hoe...#sighs#....#nellietalking#
This really Sad! Poor Anita, I can just imagine the level of Loneliness she must have gone through all these year, am sure that's not Gods intention for marriage. IVY says so
JESUS take the wheel.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
"Inappropriate behaviour",yes cos I see no reason y his female workers worship him n re nt allowed t marry outside d church. Besides,she hz every reason t think dat was cos Chris DOES NOT sleep in d house weheva he visits bt stays in expensive hotels wt these gals. Why won't a woman/wife not think d other way?
Wow...this is even worse than alleging just adultery! all that glitters isn't gold
She allowed d devil use her... I pray God help pastor chris
Anyhow you put it, it is adultery. I know a Pastor who is a culprit, he will bring girls to the guest section of the church with rooms, pretending he is doing all night deliverance, only to have sex with them. The wife knows what he is doing and he beats her whenever she confronts him.
A former Deputy governor of an oil rich state turned pastor is also involved in this, his wife use to warm members about her husband.The church was virtually deserted some years ago.
Madam,you are saying the same thing.Husbands and wives must live together no what.Then what is the essence of marriage? Lead us not into temptation-living apart in marriage is temptation.
Mtchew...when will people mind their business for heaven sake? stop poke nosing to their affairs rather pray for them. If u like don't post my comment and eat it like u used to Linda
Only God knows. #####QUEENMAYA#####
Guess long distance relationship is not an option in marriage! But why would people who give advise on marriage can't seem to fix theirs? They both have private jets or at least a steady means of travel and they couldn't even put up the effort to fight for their relationship? Too bad!!! Guess in the end their 16 year relationship wasn't worth fighting for, their marriage was simply a convenience; a business.
Na dem sabbi....dajaX
Linda pls post my comment, I want pas 2 see it thru dos dat r close him. I commented on pas chris n pas Anita. Patience
One side heard. It is not impossible she has an attitude that inadvertently pushed him away. If you're married you will learn to look at wives' complaints with one kain eye till you hear from the husband. As such, one cannot decide/judge based on her allegations. Meanwhile there is nothing like broken down irretrievably if ya'll are willing to make amends. Think of the kids and the flock.
Linda pls post my comments, I commented on pastor chris. patience
In Africa they believe marriage is till death,pls,if its not working take a bow..wen 2 get married 2a pastor but he was 2 busy travelling every country had2 call d wedding off
past Chris need to beg d wife u dont delegate d responsibilities of a wife to ur staffs...She is ur helper not ur slave thou she hv to b submissive y in return u hv to love her..Anita joor ma binu..
Dis non of my concern mbok,dnt wanna say sumtin dat will make God slap me dis sunday o
Abeg dis two adults should go sort themselves out and ask for forgiveness from God...
They don't fool us! They want to change story. lol
God pls vindicate dis wounderful couple
as a man of God,his family should be his first ministry
his family should be his first ministry,u cannot neglect ur wife nd still claim to serve God.
Damn! This is serious!
Truly every woman has a breaking point.
Pastor chris really went too far. He obviously underestimated her and never thought she could go down the route of divorce.
This woman tried to have endured all these for so long. There's obviously no turning back for her. I feel her pain though. This is a lesson to all men. In EVERYTHING, put your WIFE FIRST !
#scotlandsfinest
Its obvious! I knew he won't have time for the wife. Women needs to be loved and to be with but for pastor chris he has done precisely the opposite. felixlino82@yahoo.com
O maa gaa ke?16yrs of living seperately....wow,no1 can take that pls.
Shame to bad people, I know pastor Chris is truely a man of God, is not interested in fucking, he love doing the work of God, that is y he is here, Anita please let him fulfil it ohhhhhh.
That's her business.... How does your issue with your husband affect the country's wahala..
Inappropriate towards women and adultery sounds same to me but hey I read computer science not English so what do I know!
They are trying to muscle her to swallow her truth.People have been murmuring for a while now about this guy unfaithfulness to his marriage.
Na wah o! Can't even hlp my self 'stil crying' God plz Jst take control. Speak to both of them as u wuld as of old
MadAm LindA, na wah 4 u, 2dAy U Go sAy dis, 2morOw na Smtin else u go tAlK. Stp pokin in2 private affAirs esp wen it concerns a MOG,all u cAn Do is pray 4 deir matrimony 2 Be re united AgAin, not castigatin false news...
This matter is getting confusing, but come to think if it, marriage is worked out by d couple. Women pls note as ur husband climb d ladder of fame, power and wealth, he's no longer totally urs alone, vultures will be going after him
16 years....oh my God, i am just shocked about it. Really praying for Rev Anita, whom i really honor.
16 years....oh my God, i am just shocked about this plain truth written in this article. Thanx for making things clear, Linda! Really praying for restoration of Rev Anita, whom i really honor.
Which one is take ppl for,who the hell are u? Nobody. Shutup and mind you buzness and leave them with theirs
i'm also a pastor's wife, they are dsame jor, he will travel for 3weeks, wen he comes back if i ask him dat we shd make lv, he wil complain of tiredness,five mth he wil not touch me, our family settle tire. Finally i decided to fight for divorce dat is when he became afraid and take me serious. Thank God i'm enjoying sex now.opkoroko babe
For her to b saying all dis,my dear she has tried but d fry fry hair pastor no gree look her side for d past 16yrs....no closure at all for her nd his kids dat absurd....as per d distance Hmmm he has transfered it to his own pastors nd its really not going down well wit d pastors dem....
Shut up big fool! It was her husband dat transferred her to uk so wat do y want her to do? D guy get plans dat was y he said she should b in uk supervising
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
linda pls post my coment, i'm yr new frd dat normally coment as opkoroko babe. 35yrs mrs Alice
My dear I tire oooo....16yrs no time for her nd d kids but u ve time for oda female staffs nd all wat not....tomorrow if she had started misbehaving outside pipo ll still talk....me my hubby dey go rig work 3-4 at times 6 months I no hw e dey bi me nd d kids yet alone 16yrs...Anita u don try sef....pipo won't understand wat u r ve put up wit nd gone thru until dey put der feet in d same u hav on....
If it was ur sis,mum or u are a woman,u won't b saying dis.....its easier said Dan done....abeg park well joooooor!!!!!!!
She didn't have an attitude when he met her? She didn't have an attitude when he married her? She didn't have an attitude when he pumped her with two kids?...I beg e make we here story.
Oh thank you!!! Why was she not following her husband everywhere.. I think she's been influenced tho.. if you claim to be a pastor and serve God truely divorce shouldn't even be an option.. it's her home she caused everything by herself.. sitting down in Uk doing authority when you are supposed to be by your husband side..
Uhmn. I. Pray for u sir n ma for God,s intervention. Think of d children and the church Christ redeemed wt His blood. Pls for His sake go back to the first love. Agape love. God blez u sir n ma.
I guess emeritus okojie was right in asking his interviewers whether they are true christians talk less of d "shepherds" they claim to be...
U don't think wha? From all you read, the woman get husband? No! She's single already, she just wants to make it formal
God said in Malachi 2:16 "I hate
divorce".....
People should learn not to judge till they hear the other side. It is called 'fair hearing' and in Latin 'audi alterem partem'. It is a constitutional right!!!
Eyaaaaa.... Cheei
You guys comment as though u know what's happening. Linda confuses all of you, cos she thinks as a media, she knows all things. Time will tell. You are not God, and can't judge cos u know nothing.
Too bad 4 two of them
You are here because you didn't mind your business. We do gossip here.
It is difficult to prove adultery in a divorce
1. You have to have proof- evidence beyond reasonable doubt like a camera in the room or a third party that can testify in court.
2. The adultery charges must include a name or more with the evidence
3. Also, the adultery has to have happened in the last three to six months of filing for divorce otherwise the court will not accept it as reason to dissolve the marriage. It will seem that you had forgiven and had lived together afterwards hence it's to present in court
It is difficult to prove adultery in a divorce
1. You have to have proof- evidence beyond reasonable doubt like a camera in the room or a third party that can testify in court.
2. The adultery charges must include a name or more with the evidence
3. Also, the adultery has to have happened in the last three to six months of filing for divorce otherwise the court will not accept it as reason to dissolve the marriage. It will seem that you had forgiven and had lived together afterwards hence you can't use it .
This is ADULTERY.
If Rev Anita sights it wen she files, pastor Chris will make it a very long divorce by asking for evidence she can't provide.
It's a shame.
God sees and knows all.
Pastor Anita, we all know now.....
This is adultery.... It's an easy lehgal term "inappropriate behaviour" means adultery.
I'm not trying to judge anybody sha... but I've never liked dat church
I feel ur pain pst anita, dis is wat most married women go thru everyday, men always forming busy, not doing d responsibily of a hubby, I am not God to judge but pls pst anita, jus forgive him and talk to God, he wil fix tins up, might u it might not be his intentions but u see some desperate staff always want to seek his attention. Pls Ma, he deserve a 2nd chance and God hate divorce, pls forgive him for d sake of d kids, church, ur statue and d country @ large. God bless u Ma. More grace
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Best comment so far. Very matured
I am also married to. Pastor and most of the time this is what happen . He never has time and I keep telling him that I miht opt for a divorce if he doesn't change. It's so frustrating. We can't just see, can't have sex anytime. In short it's annoying. Even when he comes home he is tired cause of work overload. U know don't even know what to say again. I pray my husband reads this. Cause they pray a lot for other people and leave their families and duties has a husband and father. My children get confused sometimes sef either to call him daddy or uncle. That's it Linda. Am not happy at all. Really never thought of divorce while growing up but as it is just don't know. Loneliness, heartbroken etc I can't just call my hubby that I want to see him. Sometimes I just hate him. We can't just hang out, nor travel.
how pathetic,so d all mighty pastor chris is involved in adultery...im so disappointed
Am yet to understand dis pipo n their drama
Wisdom tells u to like football if ur husband likes it, to avoid lossing him to football, ur pst chris likes evangelism, u should also like &evanglise like him, this way u have sometin in common u share passion for. So there is a meeting point. Madam pls wake up.
I won't say my mind on this ish cos I don't want to be termed carnally minded but am kinda sorry for anita's plight
Its a man's world. Always find your way around. That way u will be happier.
Or u tink divorce will make you happier. Time will tell.
The allegations are serious.
From my observation your husband is a workerholic so definitely, he needs a sharp woman around him so stop waiting to be adored as THE MADAM , Workerholics gets iritiated by dull people. My father taught me that.
Now that u have made ur family issue public, pls what is ur profit ?
Lmao!I feel u bro!
This whole saga is just not cool but who am I to put my mouth.lets see as it unfurls
And concerning a supposed man & a woman of God, that counsels couples every now and then..it's a shame!. I believe both should share the blame; a woman should never agree to live separately from her husband and the man should always put his family first. They should just fix their home!
*My R1.50c comment*
Couple are meant to live together to avoid gap, because once there is gap satan must enter in one way or the other to control the family, So I advice this couple to find a way to fill the gap instead of this divorce of a thing, if satan finally succeed in their marriage what are they going to preach to congregations again.
Couple are meant to live together to avoid gap, because once there is gap satan must enter in one way or the other to control the family, So I advice this couple to find a way to fill the gap instead of this divorce of a thing, if satan finally succeed in their marriage what are they going to preach to congregations again.
harbbay
let God be true and men be wateva we want al i care for is to put an end to the issue and let the couple be togeda for life(God help dem through it all)
harbbay
let God be true and men be wateva we want al i care for is to put an end to the issue and let the couple be togeda for life(God help dem through it all)
Abeg take several seats if you don't have anything to say. Allow the devil use her ko? That woman has been single for the past 16years, she's only making it formal now. She can't continue to suffer in silence under the confines of spirituality. Doesn't her husband know that he is a husband and a father first before a Pastor?
Angie, and if she had disagreed to move to the uk to handle the ministry over there, the whole world would have accused her of not being a submissive wife who is also not supportive of the ministry. Even though she moved, they could have still worked things out with regular visits and family-time together for a period. After that, they could have passed the uk ministry into able hands since the church had developed there over the years so that the wife and children can move back home again. But it sounds like the husband just didn't want that, he didn't even visit regularly talk less of planning to move them back home. I don't think the wife has any blame here if all what is being said is true, she's the one who has been supportive and who also wanted them to be a family once again buther hubby just wasn't heating any of that. It begs other questions like; why would a man of God who preaches about marriage and even counsels married people not want to be with his family even after several years of persistence on the issue by the wife?
They are humans, no one is above mistakes.... He who judges will be Judged.... Pray for them, they deserve it....
because the unaware are unaware that they are unaware.
Stop waiting 4 ur husband to make u happy, Choose to be happy! Like that ur husband will even want to stay around u.
I am a pastors wife too and I knw hw it feels.I always tell my husband that his first ministry is his FAMILY and if in d process of doing Gods work, he makes heaven and his wife and kids ends up in hell,will his joy be full?This always sobers him up and makes him concentrate more on his family.
But it's her husband who transferred her now? She was only obeying him
Lmao...love this comment. Y is she or he here?
Sometimes, we make sacrifices in answer to our calling. Then Jesus said to the disciples, "If any of you wants to be my follower, you must put aside your selfish ambitions, shoulder your cross and follow me." Matthew 16:24. If Anita feels very strong about her marriage, she must leave her ministry in London and relocate to Nigeria or South Africa to be with her husband. Is she not a Nigerian?
What are you saying, but that is what she liked when she obeyed him and move to the UK to head the church
You are very silly for making this comment. I guess you are one of the females who follow him around? was a knife put to Chris head when he married Anita? was it not through funking the had their 2 daughters? one of the sweetness and joy of marriage is fucking and enjoying it! It's all part of love in the marriage. Note I said part and not the one and only reason. but here we read that he doesn't even regard his wife! why the he'll would he come to London and stay in hotels when his wife and kids reside in London? To each according to their own
Pastor!!!!
You think say we be mumu???
Di ris God oooo
That's Oyibo for u there,once they're done for any reason no going back.chai mehn but they were big role models,leaders and preachers.millions all over the world are looking on them...smh
I feel Pst Anita's pain jare....She must have been suffering in silence over the years all in the name of Pastor's Wife..Loads of 'Pastors'that has inappropriate relationship with ladies and still 'speak in tongues in church on sunday..Na only God knows who they truly worship Him.Know of a Christ Embassy Pastor in Karu that dated his church secretary for four years, bought her a house and a car before his wife got to know....
I feel Pst Anita's pain jare....She must have been suffering in silence over the years all in the name of Pastor's Wife..Loads of 'Pastors'that has inappropriate relationship with ladies and still 'speak in tongues in church on sunday..Na only God knows who they truly worship Him.Know of a Christ Embassy Pastor in Karu that dated his church secretary for four years, bought her a house and a car before his wife got to know....
Pastor Chris should go and beg his wife.
Sometimes we need a shaken like this if we are so rounded by bigger morons who can't tell us how bad we are beginning to smell !!!!!!
Sack all the Pastors who are meant to be close aides helping Pastor Chris.
They are all vultures. Each and everyone of them ...... Man must eay
I feel Pst Anita's pain jare....She must have been suffering in silence over the years all in the name of Pastor's Wife..Loads of 'Pastors'that has inappropriate relationship with ladies and still 'speak in tongues in church on sunday..Na only God knows who they truly worship Him.Know of a Christ Embassy Pastor in Karu that dated his church secretary for four years, bought her a house and a car before his wife got to know....
Does he want her back?really?
Try younger women in this case??
Pastor married a quiet woman compared to the new age Brazillian haired all fake weave girls available now.
Seems to me he doesn't want his wife anymore.
Ummmhh
And she'll get blamed for divorce
Wickedness of the highest orde.
I noticed u like to defend wrong behaviour in men,same way you told that girl to mind her business and allow her friend's hubby to cheat..hmmm,it is well,hope u dnt cheat on your wife
whatever...
None of my business tho
BORN TO SHINE!!!!!
They got you guys there. This is just a drama that will end in reunion. It will be a last minute reconciliation. I can bet it against the world. At the end, they will let you guys know that if God can heal their marriage, yours is not a big deal for God to do. Place a bet against this and I will win you at the end of Court hearings. It will End in No Case.#VictoryOverDivorce#
They got you guys there. This is just a drama that will end in reunion. It will be a last minute reconciliation. I can bet it against the world. At the end, they will let you guys know that if God can heal their marriage, yours is not a big deal for God to do. Place a bet against this and I will win you at the end of Court hearings. It will End in No Case.#VictoryOverDivorce#
Only in Nigeria,not in the western world.she will be fine
I think there are more to this, 16years is too much to believe when they both live here on Earth and can afford the fastest mis of transportation. It is a issue of concern because he is a pastor. Without being biased, Anita was a Christian and a member of a Church before meeting pastor Chris, instead of accepting to be a wife with every opportunity of staying behind her marriage responsibities, she chose to also become a pastor in another Country to gain control of a huge congregation and publicity like a partner, you can't eat your cake and still have it. The claim of "Adultery" without proven can be labeled to greed or jeloursy as all successful men faces same no matter how sincere they are. I will advice she put out evidence for this claims.
If adultery is not d ground of divorce then I advice u to grab a seat and sit...leave him to do d work God called him for, stop embarrassing your marriage....if sex and loneliness is your problem then go get a boyfriend and be happy...biko let rest dis case..
What is see here is, the woman has people pushing her, feeling she has nothing to loose. Somehow I just don't believe all this stories she's trying to put up. I feel there's something fishy. She's been influenced and ready to go any length is ridiculing her husband bcos she feels she has nothing to loose and the society listens to women.
As usual you guys are masters of circumlocution and have totally missed the point. It does not matter whether she was in Hawaii or UK. The point is, is that enough reason for the man aka man of God(*spits*) to misbehave? Or to treat her like an option? You guys that are talking, where you there with them? Do you really believe we are given the real story or more like an abridged version? You guys just look for ways to beat about the main issue.
pls linda. first thing first please find out wen how and which church and pastor wedded both
The aformentioned particulars is a perfect ground for dissolution of marriage because as she alledged in one of the grounds for petition where she aserted that andd I quote. 'That she feels she has been mentally,physically and emotionally deprived of the experience of her marital relationship' from the grounds above it can be infered that the sole reason why the marriage has broken down irretrievably is because pastor chris has refused to consumate the marriage and not because of aduultery.
I biliv its a game dey ar playn on d public..bt disbelief bcuz its 2 image damagn 2 do so..bt I conclude dt pastor chris in d end doznt knw anytn abt luv..bcuz it start wit givn a woman u call ur wyf an unfllinchn attentn...evn as a guy,I cnt bear 16yrs...wot ministry cud b mor importnt dn ur family...grow up pastor,u dissapointed me
Na was o e be like say James no get sense.
i feel you pastor Anita, men do this things unconsciously, especially the rish and successful ones, hmmmm, pastor kris you have to appologise to her and try and understand a woman in need of affection and attention and dont let pride diktate plss, love you guys
But he transferred her to London, he instructed her to go to London.
If he wants and loves his family he needs to apologise to her and the children for all the neglect of all the years, beg for their forgiveness and a actually love them not just for show. Oh sorry it is unafrican for a man to apologise abi
Divorce is nt in the bible pls settle
PLEASE PEEPS, ESPECIALLY LINDA IKEJI AND HER CARNAL FANS, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY, ESPECIALLY ABOUT ANOINTED MEN OF GOD. THE BIBLE TELLS US TO PRAY FOR PEOPLE IN AUTHORITY. ALWAYS PRAY FOR OUR PASTORS. LINDA, HAVE YOU EVER DECLARED A DAY OF PRAYER FOR OUR PASTORS AND LEADERS OF OUR COUNTRY? YOUR OWN IS JUST TO GATHER WORTHLESS STORIES AND POST. BE CAREFUL, LESS YOU FALL.THEY ARENT TOGETHER AGAIN, YOUR BIZ? STOP MAKING UR MONEY OFF OTHER PEOPLE'S LIFE STYLE. YOU CAN AS WELL TELL US YOUR OWN STORY. HOW YOU RUN UR FAMILY. #TALK TO MY HAND#
Every woman be it a pastor or not has expectations in marriage. I do not attend their church but what's not fair is not fair. Is she a piece of furniture to be abandoned or a delicate piece of China to merely adorn d house? Let's face it, for those of us married, we don't take it lightly when our men don't remember birthdays or anniversaries. Or important dates. Doesn't he even miss his daughters? Can a man be a celibate for 16yrs? She has even tried to stay this long with him. She has kept quiet for years because she doesn't want to embarass d church and her husband but crying out loud, she has bn suffering for 16 yrs all becos of a man who doesn't even care! What happened to all d marriage vows? The man should practice what he preaches or set her free! Shealso has blood flowing thru her veins. There is a limit to what an individual can tolerate whether pastor's wife or not. I do not blame her one bit! She who wears d shoe knows where it pinches d most! How manynof us can take that?
But just weeks ago Kenneth Achumasara published that there was no rift in the marriage (at no point did Christ Embassy/Pastor Chris refute the falsehood). I think journalists have missed it here. No one has tracked this Kenneth down.What prompted such arrogance and propaganda? I think it will be fair to say the husband was calling it all a bluff and never humbled himself to save his marriage.
Now the wife says I can't take this brutality any more, the world too decides online she has to be crucified.........
ok...so because 'they' said, you open your mouth to insult a man of God? where you there when they got married, where you there in their home? where you there in the marriage? Most of these comments are coming from a place of HATE, and it is really a pity for people to harbor so much hate for for another human being you do not even know on a personal basis. Ask God to forgive you o.
this is only big news in Nigeria because Nigerians can be quite jobless, here in the UK people are too busy with important things than to chat trash about others.
There is a movie by mount zion called busy but guilty. You cannot be doing God's work while ur household is in shambles. God won't buy that. That is hypocrisy and misleading members. U are putting families together bt ignoring ur own. God is not an author of confusion. No, she is not carnally minded. If he could not balance both, he should have been a full fledge priest. He needs to watch the movie busy but guilty by mount zion. ... Tolu Lawal
Shut up! You sound retarded and lack the ability to think constructively.
hmmm, now Christ Embassy will turn their hearts against Pst Anita to save Pst Chris. Now, it is Pst Anita's fault, and Pst Chris is the innocent victim. I hope they dont harm the woman to shut her up or simply bully her into silence ... all to save their Church image. Already, they are changing it from Adultery to Neglect...yet the woman's fist allegation was adultery!
hmmm, now Christ Embassy will turn their hearts against Pst Anita to save Pst Chris. Now, it is Pst Anita's fault, and Pst Chris is the innocent victim. I hope they dont harm the woman to shut her up or simply bully her into silence ... all to save their Church image. Already, they are changing it from Adultery to Neglect...yet the woman's fist allegation was adultery!
hmmm, now Christ Embassy will turn their hearts against Pst Anita to save Pst Chris. Now, it is Pst Anita's fault, and Pst Chris is the innocent victim. I hope they dont harm the woman to shut her up or simply bully her into silence ... all to save their Church image. Already, they are changing it from Adultery to Neglect...yet the woman's fist allegation was adultery!
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