In an interview with
Vanguard yesterday, fast-rising Yoruba actress Oluwaseyi Edun said sex before marriage is the way to go. When asked what her take was on sex before marriage, Oluwaseyi said;
"I think it’s an individual thing. Once you are an adult and you
think you are ready, go for it. Personally, I think sex before marriage
is good. Because it will make you know your partner well before going
into marriage. So if there is anything you are not comfortable with, you
have an ample time to correct it before actually going into the
lifetime contract of marriage. Doing it before marriage also reduces
adultery and fornication. It is also a good way of studying your
partner before you get committed to him or her."
Nah, I think zipping up is the best... but
to each his own. What do you think of what she said?
339 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 339 of 339I believe in your own point of view Lindodo...ZIP UP.... What makes her think that sex before marriage is not adultery and fornication. Sex before marriage is a sin against God. Remember" Your body is the Temple of the Holy Spirit".....And quoting JULIET ...if you go by her own ideology, you will end up sleeping with thousands of men because every potential has to be tested sexually....Please lets consult our bible once again on this issue...#lindapleasepublishmycomment#
my dear, you're not wiser than God. The instruction from the word of God is to stay away from sexual immorality. It's the truth because the advantages of staying pure is way bigger than disobeying the word. I'm sticking with the word of God
bad idea
She's just a hoe trying to justify her wayward ways. Die bitch
Forst to comment
* blacknfly@gmail.com *
The word, fornication is from the bible and it's same as sex b4 marriage which the bible condemns. So where did she get the idea that 'sex b4 marriage will reduce fornication'. Simply DUMB I would say. And every Sunday this one goes to church, singing and dancing , claiming visitation by 'holy spirit'. Hypocrisy.
So let me get this Linda, U find this very charming guy u always hope for, u guys fall madly in love with each other; u mean u won't give it up b4 marriage? common that'd be cruel.. Fine, what if he agrees to ur terms & decides to wait & after years of anticipation, Bam!! u're married, but the first sex is horrid. I don't totally encourage it, but the idea is not that bad.
Pre marital sex is wrong!wat of if it was sooo wonderful b4 n den becomes sour afta,wat den happens.
i concur only wen u r convinced it's gonna lead to marriage.
ur just been selfish for not having the fear of God in u n considering Gods judgement concerning furnication. God is our helper. (chynnatu@gmail.com)
lol your pus*y must hav seen hell. Not surprise cos an average yoruba lady has a child for 2 different men.
everybody has a choice to make ,but as for me it not dat bad oooo
MICKY: I don't agree with her. One can study his/her partner by askin question,observing reactions,answers and so on. If anyone totally goes with her idea then get ready for plenty bodies and maybe one or two flushings#u know what I mean
Individua understanding,
i concurred
She may have experience some guys sexually inability to handle her
is that what your mother tought you.
Every human being wif different mentality.go for what will work for yhu#iamswish#
I laugh in igala. Wetin dat one come mean? Hmmn! Guys are gonna hv a good time gbenshing sooo many babes sha. Rubbissssss.
Doing it b/4 marriage also reduces adultery & fornication. What r u insinuating madam?
That's her own point of view. It might actually work for some people and don't for others.
God forbid ds act and we shud always remember meeting Him one day.its an evil act listen 2 God bcos no matter how long uw definately meet Him one day.
God forbid ds act and we shud always remember meeting Him one day.its an evil act listen 2 God bcos no matter how long uw definately meet Him one day.
God forbid ds act and we shud always remember meeting Him one day.its an evil act listen 2 God bcos no matter how long uw definately meet Him one day.
God forbid ds act and we shud always remember meeting Him one day.its an evil act listen 2 God bcos no matter how long uw definately meet Him one day.
Doing it before marriage reduces adultery and fornication........sorry for u
Where is the morals or wisdom in Edun's saying? She's got it twisted and quacked. Sex does guaranty anyone one's absoulte knowledge about his/her spouse. Even after marriage you will continues to learn more about your spouse, everything coming in terms with things you never would have considered tolerable before the marriage. And I think it's same things that makes the marriage/relationship interesting as the two parties grow/learn/love/age together. Zipping up is definitely the way to go. And if someone you love and want to committment with in a marraige is not capable to telling you the truth about his/her sexual capacity for compartability reasons; before marriage, then I still believe is an issue 'marriage' itself can resolve. Have faith people, keep doing the right thing.
Hector
She's looking for those who will follow her footsteps. Everyone who claims to be a christian should abstain from sex if he/she is not married.besides after sex wat next?some women think its their responsibility to sexually satisfy every man dat comes their way. Anyway its her lyf.
u can be in a serous relationship without sex.
zip up still the best oo.
sex before marriage is not a good idea and God does not sign it dat way, so many women dat tried it ended up heartbroken so women beware of dis advice it will only cause u more harm.
She has great points, not let's deny her that. But if you have to have sex with every guy you come about then I don't know what to say. The big question is, how many girls really don't have SEX in every serious relationship?
SHOCKING: Do these 3 things & you'll have SEX with any girl on the first date [18+]
I know that many female LIBers will come here forming when they know that lady is speaking for them
Linda, I'm impressed with you for saying 'zipping up is the best'. I dont know if out of a religious conviction or a personal one, but good to know where you stand.
I wonder the upbringing of Seyi Edun for her to utter these words. Train up a child in the way of the Lord and when s/he is grown, s/he wont depart from it...doesn't apply to her obviously. And to unashamedly say that in a national newspaper! What a moral decadence!
How do you correlate premarital sex to reducing adultery and fornication? As in how???
God's word is clear for ever and it stands that: Marriage should be honored by ALL, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God WILL judge the adulterer and ALL the sexually immoral Heb 13:4 (emphasis is mine).
This is the one I fear most, because some people will read this and be happy they have 'a star' with this and boldly go ahead and sin!!!: If anyone causes one of these little ones--those who believe in me--to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea Mat 18:6.
It is a terrible thing to fall into the hands of the Living God! Heb 10:31
Cindy
Linda, I'm impressed with you for saying 'zipping up is the best'. I dont know if out of a religious conviction or a personal one, but good to know where you stand.
I wonder the upbringing of Seyi Edun for her to utter these words. Train up a child in the way of the Lord and when s/he is grown, s/he wont depart from it...doesn't apply to her obviously. And to unashamedly say that in a national newspaper! What a moral decadence!
How do you correlate premarital sex to reducing adultery and fornication? As in how???
God's word is clear for ever and it stands that: Marriage should be honored by ALL, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God WILL judge the adulterer and ALL the sexually immoral Heb 13:4 (emphasis is mine).
This is the one I fear most, because some people will read this and be happy they have 'a star' with this and boldly go ahead and sin!!!: If anyone causes one of these little ones--those who believe in me--to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea Mat 18:6.
It is a terrible thing to fall into the hands of the Living God! Heb 10:31
Cindy
who cares visit emecah.wordpress.com for just that news that matters
@Gbolahan Akinboade HIV awaits u
Biko how will it reduce fornication? Is the act itself not fornication? Hmmmmm. God help us.
Her opinion....let's see if her spouse doesn't cheat or go for another woman in some years time.
People just open there mouth to talk....well "
a wise man talks because he has something to say, while a fool talks because he wants to say something"
I disconcur
There is God ooh in mama patience voice
That's her opinion.... But abstenance is the best...... Its a sin to fornicate......
i totally disagree with her, because having sex before marriage usually clouds the judgement of both parties especially women. More so the woman tends to feel there is so much at stake, it will takes God to see clearly. it's also an excuse for those with loose morals because the bible makes it clear that it's a sin.
its nt really a nice idea
The good book cannot be wrong. God's logic cannot be faulted. What is appears right isn't always the way. Abstain from sex before marriage.
Nah not a good idea
Sex before marriage is fornication and d bible condems it. This lady supporting sex before marriage will neva make a good wife and mother. There is a road that seemeth right 2 every man but d end is destruction. Sex is not a determinant factor 2 if ur relationshp or marriage wil last or not. Wat is wrong in following Christ's teaching dat our body is the temple of God? A lot of people have destroyed their destiny by sleeping wit girls frm d marine kingdom whose vagina is serpent mouth (spiritually) and swallow a man's glory d moment they meet. A lot of women too destroyed their destinty in d same way cos d pennis of men frm d marine kingdom is snake and u think its sperm or seminal fluid dat comes out meanwhile it is simply satanic deposit dat can cause a woman many hinderances. Be warned all ye fornicators! D devil is angry and ready2destroy souls especially tru sex cos he knows he has only a little time left. Sleeping wit witches, occultic pple, etc are not better and many Christian fornicators cannot identify witches, cult pple, etc cos sometimes they appear innocent.
wrong idea
A typical yoruba attitude
"doing it before marriage also reduces adultry and fornication" I am sure this lady does not know the meaning of fornication let's not go to adultry, she's committing fornication for sur and should be made to know it.
i agree with her idea.
i agree with her idea.
I strongly disagree, that's the devil talking & so contrary to what God says
You are contradicting the word of with your profession or your personal idea and I want to let you know it more that Premarital Sex is also a SIN before God.
So your personal idea or so called profession can not match with the word of God.
Well, if that is her school of thought. i want her & everyone to look at this this way, if you and that guy or lady had sex before marriage, but if eventually you did not marriage what happens to either of them. That means he or she will end up having sex with every man or woman that comes his or her way.Hence sex before marriage should not be encouraged.
Well, if that is her school of thought. i want her & everyone to look at this this way, if you and that guy or lady had sex before marriage, but if eventually you did not marriage what happens to either of them. That means he or she will end up having sex with every man or woman that comes his or her way.Hence sex before marriage should not be encouraged.
Her comment is very ignorant! 'It will reduce fornication' is that not fornicating!! Utter rubbish.
Well, if that is her school of thought. i want her & everyone to look at this this way, if you and that guy or lady had sex before marriage, but if eventually you did not marriage what happens to either of them. That means he or she will end up having sex with every man or woman that comes his or her way.Hence sex before marriage should not be encouraged.
So in otherwords, we shouldn't follow what God said abt premarital sex abi? Nah! Linda I agree with ur take jare. She said it will reduce fornication, hw is that possible when actually that is what is being done cos its not in marriage. God can never be wrong.
that explains why she is not married YET
Wise comment. 1 million likes.
bad idea for me
Full supported.
Can you read what this yeye girl is saying! Sex before marriage reduces adultery and fornication in your bible abi! May God forgive you, and give you a man that you will sleep with before marriage and after marriage he cant satisfy you sexually. Then we will know if it did reduce adultery and fornication or rather pushed you into adultery. Rubbish!!!
is she saying one must text a man sexually before heading for the alter. well she has her own view sha but am very sure she will test as many as possible. before making her decision. but thats not right girl.. if a man is meant for you (you've seek the face of the Lord)be sure he has all the qualities of being a man (sexually active included) ...my view
She is corect..you hav to test a good b4 purchase.
I don't think its d best thing to do,u might end up laying with all men that comes your way just becos they promised you marriage,u really don't knw how men react to women when its comes to marriage so I don't support what she said but at same time erryone is entitled to their own opinion.itz well#chingychyke
keep thyself 4 thy husband alone..
As u like...to me wait after marriage cos we improve everyday n can amend whatever...engel tony
Am not comfortable with the idea becos the lady will end up sleeping with hundred of men..........*Thatisasin*
Having sex before marriage is wrong and it exposes the individuals involved to dangers. Sex is only allowed in marriage. If one follow her opinion, hmmm.. One will end up sleeping with different men and women..No marriage, no sex. Be warned!
Should we call that sampling Method.......ko dara rara
I dont agreee to dat, u musnt sleep with someone before u no,he or she is d one for u.
#Zip up z da best
This applies to only sexually active Ladies. They can't stand it if their man cant perform in bed.
oluwaseyi or whatever u call urself, keep dat type of opinion to urself. how many souls do u want to take down? if u so much believe in institution of marriage u will not make dat comment. if u believe u exist bcos of God, u excel bcos of Him, y take matters into ur hands and try to play God. pls pple do not take her advice.
There are pple who make statement for publicity sake, pls ask her what fornication and adultry really means?
Are you married? Are you zipping up? #hypocrite.
Reduces adultery and 'fornication'. She just contradicted herself. Lol!
Hmmm...i think she really doesnt care what pple think or say. Not like some of us here lying about ''zip up'' and ''tsting 50'',90% men and women do ''test''. Donr mk yourslf a saint where nobody cares.
I have heard of a story where a guy stayed celibate till marriage only to become a first class cheat just months after.. I have also heard of a randy fellow who got finally got married and stayed insanely faithful to his wife. I don't think I have any opinion on this topic. Its just for all men to KNOW THYSELF
#Fizz
sex before marriage reduce adultery and fonication, what is adultery and fonication then,,, funny indeed... teacher no teach nonsense... use the right wird instead
My dear...if it is a serious guy..yes test it oooo...becoz I almost ended up with a 1 min man...and I could ve cheated if I married him...so every aboki to him kettle
Bad advice
Count me out biko !
#teamsexbeforemarriage#. Jclpz620@gmail.com
Indeed, To Each His Own.
I will go with lindodo zip up till u are married.
Sex bfor marriage...... Naaaaaaaaaah.... If u kip testin testin...if u look bak dey might reach 100sef
YOU ARE NOT AN AUTHORITY IN THE FIELD OF MARRIAGE.What a misleading advice to our young generations?Where are your morale ?Having sex with your partner before marriage is an ill-advice and unscriptural.The reason you put forward self does not hold water.Please desist from passing ungodly & unethical statements not because of anything but for the weak and young ladies outside there.
Thank you.
Abeg, dis her idea nor b am jor! Well, every1 z entitled 2 their opinion. That's her own opinion I guess.
She wants to be sure if d guy is good so she wont end up cheating if he is a 1min guy. my question is - Na sex u wan take know ur partner???? #SheLikeTheThing
Please what is fornication?
she clearly doesnt know what fornication means @ "it reduces adultry and fornication"
Well, d fact dat she said it dosnt mak it right. Wats wrng is wrong, na mata from wich angle u see it from
Well it depends on destiny, you sleep with a guy and he'll leave you, u'll sleep with another guy and he'll marry you, somepeople will zip up and when they marry they find out their husband has erectal disfunction he's on pills to nack, and someother people wil zip up and find out deir husband can't even sex dem well and they won't be satisfied, and someother people would get away wit it, my advice is zip up for sometime and let go when you are sure he's going to marry you
Ode! Oponu like u! So u don dey write ur own Bible now sheh? Bible talk finish, now u dey talk ur own? I pity u, ur case dey God hand! Its helps to reduce fornication? Do u knw d meaning of fornication? Mtchhheeeew! Well sha, talk is cheap, so now evryone fnkz dey have an opinion.....Linda if u like, no post ma comment!!!
Adaora
U WERE DEY SAY NAH I TINK ZIPPING UP IS D BEST, SO U WANNA TELL ME SAY U BE VIRGIN???? LIE NOW MAKE THUNDER BEND DAT MOUTH OF URS LOL.
The Bible doesnt say that.Simple!
How many virgins do we have in Nigeria? Mchwwww, Linda are you a virgin?please spare me!
How can fornication reduce fornication she doesn't knw wt she's saying
linda u dey talk like say u be virgin. who u want deceive
Mtcheeww
she does have a point altho people wud be quick to take it out of context.whats the point in having a high sexual appetite then end up with a spouse who cant match your needs by half???the other alternative is to start cheating becos you need sex which is a very dishonourable thing to do.apart from the desecration of the sanctity of matrimony,u end up looking like a slut or a dog in the eyes of the public.so i guess she shud have said you shud sleep with highly potential spouses
Ao can fornicatn reduce fornicatn i tink she's obviously confused
pervert
For how long will you keep testing men for compactibility? Human philosophy.
Well she is right in one side bt left to me it depend on d way u want it,u can know ur partner well without involving sex.Marriage1ST
Gracenot2001@yahoo.com
Biggest fallacy ever.....
Doing it before marriage also reduces adultery and fornication?????? BIG LIE.
U are already fornicating & u say it reduces it. HOW????
B4 u get married u must hv slept with more dan 20 men den.
ABSTINENCEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. what will be will be, its takes patience & self discipline(dough not easy) but its achievable.
Lmao......
I'm a guy so what do you think!
So by these comments calling premarital sex all kinds of sins, Nigeria is a nation of virgins? I laugh in Spanglish.
I don't agree with her... sex before marriage promote adultery in marriage. If both of you cannot zip up now, what happens when one of you is out of town?
Most ladies think sex can help keep a man. If he will stay or leave you, sex has nothing to do with it.So what is your fear?
It is only someone who have slept with different people overtime that will know if his/her spouse is good in bed or not. If you zip up, you will find satisfaction with anybody.
aboro la n so fun omoluabi...
if u r not a virgin then u dont have right to judge her,stop acting saint
Dis one head don kolo. So dat means I should have sex with any guy dat comes ma way so dat I can, in ur own words, "know them well". Nonsense talk.
U be international ode 1
you want to ruin the lives of our young girls with this stupid advice from hell.couples that marry as virgins with time get to figure out the way to please each other and they end up doing well and raising godly children and yes virgins still exist.
well like she rightly said; is a thing of choice not mandatory for every. there again, the fact that you choose to do it with your man before marriage doesn't give you a leeway to the banging world, lol
Try to always Know your partner's competence.
So many pretenders on this page including Linda
All these comments coming from a country were a girl will have sex with you for next to nothing. Sex is no big deal to most Nigerian people. Be honest for once Nigerians..Haba
Absent all that hypocrisy this girl just said something the majority is guilty of. If there's no pre-testing going on pray who's buying up all the condoms and anti-baby pills and to what end?
I partly agree with her.. And madam sex before mArriage doesn't reduce fornication. My advice, I think we should zip up until you I u r sure the man is going to marry you or if you two are madly in love. Just so u know what you r dealing with. To each their own.
WAIT OOOOOO. SHHHH. DEFINE FORNICATION? IS THIS BABE EDUCATED? HOW DOES SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE REDUCE FORNICATION? WHEN FORNICATION IS CON-SEXUAL AGREEMENT BETWEEN 2 PEOPLE. SO U FORNICATE TO REDUCE FORNICATION... THIS BABE NO GET SENSE. BIA LINDA PICK YA GIST WELL OOO. WE WANT ONLY THE ELITE HERE NOT DUMB ASSES. MISS M
Be careful of what you wish for. Do not take unnecessary risks but take precautions in what you choose to do.
I strongly believe that when the bible advised we should wait until we are married, it was for our own good. However, if the two parties involve can be sincere in communicating about themselves and telling each other what they need to know, it will go a long way to satisfy the curiosity and fears on the other partner.
U re absolutely right buh 4 a lady who has lost her V card
She has 2 know in away weda d size of d man's dick is d type dat ll destroy her cervix, u av 2 see it abeg 2 know if d guys sex pattern blends with urs cuz sum ll lie until after marriage u ll be like Wat is dis. Sex is an important part of marriage
shes so ignorant o...she said it wud prevent fornication....pls wat is sex before marriage?..if not fornication. SMH!!
Lol, she said sex before marriage prevents fornication. Whereas fornication is actually defined as sex before marriage. Lady is super confused.
lol...! but ofcourse, we all wanna taste the cookie in the jar...before going into the jar with the cookie...
@11.59pm go back and read the post. According to her, u must test to even know he's going to be your life partner. So what are you saying? Shallow minded peeps who think marriage is all about sex.
Fornication is a gr8 sin before God so abstain from it nd remember it means selln ur virtues*a-gba-ere
Fornication is a gr8 sin before God so abstain from it nd remember it means selln ur virtues*a-gba-ere
Hmmm lemme chill for comments to roll in! Hehehe
Sex is not a sin...
And please pre-marital sex and fornication are not synonymous...
The forum for further analysis on this would present itself not now...
Sex is a biological need...
However, the need is only to be satisfied with decency in mind....
The need to satisfy the need knows nothing like marriage...
It comes to life once adulthood is attained...
Sex is for adults; not just for married people!!!
It is utterly simplistic and presumptuous, if not downright idiotic to say sex is for married couples...
Human sexuality at best anticipates marriage...
It is not inaugurated by marriage; hence it is foolhardy to say sex is meant for marriage...
People are so dumb!
Sex before marriage is not fornication....
Nowhere did the Bible define sex before marriage as fornication!!!!
Such a belief is the result of follow-follow syndrome, of poor reading and understanding of the Scriptures....
No matter how we try to drum the point that pre-marital sex is not synonymous with fornication, closed minds would remain closed!!!!
For them, sex before marriage is a sin, fornication...
Yet they utterly lack power to resist the lure of pre-marital sex...
For them, holiness consists in their warped belief that pre-marital sex is fornication, a sin!!!
They feel holier than those who hold a contrary persuasion, even if in practice they are the more indulgent sort.....
Bona ur head dey there. One million likes.
You must be a very confused person. Are u implying that what is right in the sight of God is unrealistic to you ?. The only thing that is realistic is Gods word because it has been tested and tried seven times in fire and furnace before it was ever uttered by God who knows the end from the beginning, right from the beginning of days to the very end of days that you barely know nothing about. Her opinion or urs is only thriving on present circumstances and will never survive the test of time. So always think deep before you comment.
I laugh here too. She is what we call an olodo.
Madam Oluwaseyi Edun!! Haaa! anyone who follows this your advise is signing his own death warrant o... STIs, emotional imbalance, depression....hmmn.
na wa oooooo
My bible dint tell me so there4 is a lie.......marriage is honorable in all wt d bed undefiled:but whoremongers n adulterers God will judge.Heb 13:4.
If you want to play free online adventure games, for example, all you need to do
is find a website that offers such games and you can play them immediately.
This is the joy of being able to have the internet.
On the internet, you will find many game sites and
puzzles sites, but many of them require you to become a member before you can start
playing.
My page; NBA 2K15 Download
Post a Comment