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You divorced and are quoting bible? Tsk Tsk TskPastor that is supposed to lay an example for his church is divorcing. What is the world becoming?
The plot thickens..
Woow, so much pain being poured out. It is well sha!In other news, she's got the best-fixed lace wigs I ever saw!
Ok now....so puff puff is about to turn to buns. Someone pass me guilder and ram suya pls
wow! What a revelation! It is such a pity that all this is going on in the Church! I am a Christian and hate the fact that "men of God" are not showing us the right path to follow. We now do not put our trust in ANY MAN, but in the hands of our God, who judges right and fair. If what she says is right, May God vindicate her. Silly Pastor!
God dey Ma'am, God will surely vindicate you.
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I have no much to say, but all I could say is God is watching all of you in an HD camera thoooo bheedt quoting bible to divorce. Another style very they will quote bible to have sex....
For those of you who judged and called her names, you totally gawked at the wrong person
Chris Okotie is Gay. He doesn't like women, *whispering* he gets it with guys and he is sick of faking to the world that he is straight. You can only pretend for so long. Pastor for mouth, smh.
she is really pretty....nothing stays hidden under the sun Steph everything is unveiled in the end keep your head up...
I know what i am about to say is irrelevant to the gist, but damn! this woman is fine sha #NoHomo
I see probably d Okotie family no like stepahnie and they are arranging one for him already na wa ooo. Linda thank you I now have a clue of what happened.
Hmmm! *sigh* dunno wat to say, she sounds believable o! And i do know that there a lot of bad people in our churches, ka chineke me eziokwu. i'm off to her facebook. Via BB passat!
Am deeply touched by her words may God in his infinite mercies grant her peace Amen
Linda omo baba ikeji i too gbadun u joor. My advice for stephanie pls move on God will help u raise ur kids. Also dnt bother to clear urself, thank God u came out alive. Lastly please and please do not rush into another marriage u knw say u b fine woman.
Mrs...wat? Continue nau.it is well o. If this is true den I'm disappointed in chris okotie, y wud he send his wife out lyk dat...being a pastor. I thot she was even d one dat wanted out. May God help us all.
Yawns******* pls pass the zobo... Cock nd bull story
Awww I feel so sorry 4 her
nutin we no go hear fake pastors everywer-omo-iwo says so..via b.b bold.5
Epitome of Beauty, its nt the end
I wonder why everyone is quick to assume she did something wrong. We don't/didn't live with them, and cannot tell what went wrong, but with this I can't help but wonder... Na wa oo
Na Wah Oooo!!!Thank God she spoke out Oooo... I thought she was the one at fault. She should leave all those 419 churches and enter MFM... Na anoda woman don take juju cpllect her husband. Even the so call Pastor needs deliverance!!!
This is serious
It is well. M shocked reading this. What kind of message will The man of God preach to his congregation. Signs of end time. People should watch the lifestyle this men of God of live and not just follow them blindly. Afta knowing a man of God for 30yrs. Ha!! God save us. Hope to hear a comment from Chris Okotie soon
No word !!! More than the eyes can see from my computer ....www.gamugaza.blogspot.com
hmmmmm short of words....tru tru the world go soon end
She is so pretty...wow.
Wow, this is sad. I'm disappointd if its Pastor Cris that asked her to leave.
A lot of stupid kids flood this blog....We have heard one side of the story,after you hear his then pass your judgement but then,who are you to judge either?? Can we give them some privacy please.Whatever she typed on her facebook is her state of mind and that should be respected,she has not asked human to fight for her,she said God will vindicate her,oya if you are God here *race up your hand* Neeeexxxxxxxttttt!!!!
LINDA!!! I DEMAND THAT YOU UPLOAD THE REST OF HER POSTS!!! thank you :)
Wow! Why? How? Under what 'law' does a man quietly commands his wife to leave his house? This is not right! The sanctity of marriage has been poked at. I'm not sure if even the Kamasutra allows you to leave your wife without 'good' reason. Good being adultery or she's beating the daylights out of you. My take is that if you have a wife this beautiful that was cooking for you for 10 years when you only married her for 4 of those years, you probably shouldn't let her go. Which brings us to the activities that went on in those 6 pre-marriage years *coughs* afterall the way to a man's heart is via the stomach....
Eh yah....fine woman....but why sharing your personal life for the whole world to see? Vindication from God will come even to those who are silent because God knows the deepest secrets and sees all sides of the story. If na voting like big brother, I for vote for this woman sha because I no kukuma lyk chris okotie before.
Shez bn making his meals for 10years? Weren't they married 4 jst 4years? Chris okotie,hmm!
Ok we hv heard 4rm party one(Steph) we need 2 hear 4rm d 2nd party (OKotie) so dat we can give our own opinion!!! But dAt aside I feel d pains in dis womans post!!! *sad* ZINA GH
Who will want to divorce this fine woman??Woah if I am Okotie I will work out my marriage oh.via Nintendo Wii
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Only Heaven know the truth
i knw woh apund jare! D woman is 2 pretty so church members started beefin her n sayin she has marine spirit.. Lmao.. ! God wil judge Oº° steph,sha kip servin im..
WONU:Serıously ı felt bad for her sha! God wıll make a way for u.
It is not easy to marry Pastor oooooooo!The thing you see, the things you hear,the pains you endure! I am married* to one I feel like this woman is telling my story oooo! God as long as you are living show yourself and vindicate us!* Tethering on the brink of divorce
okotie, lemme guess what ur problem is and i must be right with one if not all1. u are prefer a prick in ur ass than sticking urs into a vagina2. ur cult people couldnt use stephanie's head so u need a replacement3. u are not a true man of God just a pretender who believes in number of followers in ur church than teach people the teachings of christfor some reasons i feel this woman just might be telling the truth.stephanie pls go and look for a real man of God to deliver u just incase okotie has donated any part of ur body maybe hair or watever to his occultic group. he might have collected the piece he needs from u and moving unto the next one.ds man irritates the hell outta me.#hiss#
We all know divorce is never an option ,what some people divorce on is what some people have managed to pass through and still celebrating years it's meant to be only when you catch your spouse sleeping with another man/woman that you can divorce and not even when someone told you or they say something about your spouse or you read about it somewhere,you must be able to catch red handed before u can divorce. To me Marriage matter dey no de put mouth inside ,if you think say ur marriage perfect or say you be God then put mouth or criticize any one of them involved,but if you are not perfect and have your own shortcomings then I advice you leave them alone and move on to other things you have knowledgkeon like soccer,baseball,dancing,law,Medicine,engineering,trade,banking,insurance,furniture,surfing Internet,computer,comedy,singing,movies,presenting,directing etc these are what people should have a say on about people and not MARRIAGE. So I don't appreciate people talking about or saying the pastor or the wife Is wrong. Let them be,she just confirmed it in her post that she married a man who loved her and adore her but the church people are the ones calling her bad names and wishing her bad. Some how you would understand they both know what their problem is that made them to separate. Once again pls don't judge any of them and don't take side ,lets focuse on our homes and other problems In our lives bcos none of us here without issues in our homes or lives.
she cooked for him for 10 years...wasn't he married to someone else at some point during that 10 year period? issoke...me i sha know this story is still plenty
I never trusted that greasy haired fake ass wannabe rnb crooner cum "pastor"!!! I kinda want to believe this woman cos frankly you cant really trust black men with greasy jerry curled hair....proof: eddie murphy's coming to america
So dey нαvє been shooking for more than ten year. Mr apocalys na wah. Wat can u preach nw. Sephanie u will get a betta hobby not a homo
QUOTE "3 WEEKS I WAS ASKED FOR SEPARATION AND A WEEK AND 4DAYS I PACKED OUT"..#lipsSealed
you're just so funny but the lady fine die
one word..... beautiful. but all d same if u did notjing to him and he sent u packing then let God be the judge. dunno wot hapund but na only baba wey dey heaven de see every every via his 3D.... posh!
Hmmm.........Abbeg all the "And-co"(to-match) cloth wen dem dey wear together,,how dem go do am now?........An-co no good oo,,bcos if Kasara burst,,how una go dey wear d cloth..*just asking*
ok o...i tink we should all calm down ..Cooking for him for 10 yrs eh???What was your marital status 10yrs ago..??..i feel bad for both of them sha....but neither are role models for anybody sha....ok bye
na wa oh!
Raise U mean???
Damn.... She Is Fine....*Dirty Diana*
Gbam!!!! †ђξ pasitor sef nEEds deliverance
Honey u wonder what happened to your marriage huh? You cooked 4 a man 4 6yrs b4 u 2 finally got married(wsnt he married during those years?) I'll tell u what happened. Karma jst slapped you in the face! Another option: u were jazzing hz meals n d jazz jst expired. Go bak 2 d babalawo. Onto other things jare,plz I nid ur lacewig stylists phone no
Hmm...Yeahhhh!! Y'all bite me,buh I'd rada not tlk about "The anointed"..Y wouldn't u let God judge him??He cld b very wrong,buh its not 4 us to say....The bible xplains beta,Don't judge,ka ofozikwa,onye bu uko chukwu..yeah yeah! Bite me**eyelashes**
LMao!!!u dis anon badt gan!! Hehe
Part 1 waiting for part 2!
Church members fingered..didn't someone mentioned certain big gals had plans to hook Chris...until he brought in Stephanie..seems they handiwork is clear here...PART2..coming soon!!
First anon you are a big fool. What do you mean by divorced and quoting bible? You think God is a man like you? That holds our sins forever over our heads? No sir, he's the God of all who come to him. Divorced, ex-prostitute, ex-armed robber. Whatever you may be, Jesus will accept you into his fold. You become a child of the most high and you can quote bible anyhow you want to.
Nollywood go soon take am act Nigerian movie naw. e no de hard dem.
I just went through her facebook, you will really felt for this woman, it seems pastor is at fault? but why divorce marriage is for life, that what the Bible teaches.Get news update in Naija herewww.naijabreakingnews.blogspot.com
Please go and sleep! Ur story Is damn too much! Arrgh!
Linda,sometimes i do believe u go a bit over board.U are not even her friend on facebook.If she wrote on her wall on facebook,she was writing to her family and friends but mst esp her family.I know u nid to do ur job but try n ave some respect for people.Well,i guess this is the major reason most people opt out of facebook cos people use ur info against u most of the time.My Auntie is goin thru a very tough time at the moment,if u are human n not just intrested in all the numerous comments this would attract on ur blog,u wud pray for her.The professional thing u cud ave done was ask around for her number,get it and ask her if she wud luv to grant u an ingterview or better still if u cud copy from her facebook wall n post here...that's not too hard a thing for u now i suppose?Never judge a book by its cover.Thank u.
What is this? Is this english or u were not able to complete what is in ur head
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANALYZE THIS. " THIS IS A CASE OF SHINE YOUR EYES. EVELYN HAS BEEN MARRIED TO CHIEF FOR THE PAST 12 YEARS AND HAS HAD NO CHILDREN. SINCE THEN CHIEF HAS MARRIED 3 OTHER WIVES WHO HAVE 3 CHILDREN EACH AND THEY ALL HAVE BEEN VERY HAPPY EXCEPT EVELYN WHOM CHIEF'S MOTHER HAS SOMETIMES REFERRED TO AS A MAN JUST TO SPITE HER. CHIEF LOVES EVELYN SO MUCH BUT HE IS AN ILLITERATE, SUCCESSFUL IN BUSINESS AND VERY BUSY. AFTER VISITING A LOT OF PRAYER HOUSES AND BAFFING IN MANY RIVERS, SHE VISITED LUTH WITH CHIEF WHERE TESTS WERE CARRIED OUT FOR INFERTILITY. NOTHING WAS FOUND WRONG WITH EVELYN, CHIEF PROVIDED A SPERM SAMPLE , BUT WAS TOO BUSY TO GO BACK FOR THE RESULTS WHICH SHOWED THAT HE HAD AZOSPERMIA. HE FIRES ONLY BLANK BULLETS. EVELYN NEVER MENTIONED THE RESULTS TO HER HUSBAND CHIEF. ONE YEAR LATER I AM IN EKO HOTEL IN IKOYI CELEBRATING THE NAMING CEREMONY OF THE BIRTH OF A BOUNCING BABY BOY TO EVELYN AND CHIEF MONEY MISS ROAD. CHIEF IS ALL OVER THE PLACE, RECEIVING A LOT OF CONGRATULATIONS. WHAT A PROUD FATHER " !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#Postpones frying akara.# grabs guguru and zobo instead. I no want miss any part of dis tales by moonlight.
This is not surprising;i always believed the woman was a victim of church pressures. Gossip and lies seem to be everywhere, even in the church!
it is well i wonder where all this drama is leading to i pray pastor chris realizes that he is making a big mistake and takes his wife back and put the devil to shame.
Linda abeg connect me with this woman, am 27 bt I don't care if she is older than me or not. She is too beautiful!!! Gush! Pls rply me asap
Shaaataaaap sleek you have come again. Looks like you have enlightened yourself by reading your bible. So now you believe marriage is not a do or die affair laughs hard.
A lot of pain being poured out in public. Girl, start taking care of yourself. If that man loved you, he will not humiliate you like this.Right now his affections are not what is important. it is what God thinks and how you value yourself and work on your self esteem that is is important.Don't be a doormat for anybody otherwise they will trample all over you.God mad you a beautiful fine woman. hold you head high and know is God still loves you and cannot be influenced by man. He will always love you unconditionally and that is what is important.
Hmm! The true story will eventually unfold. So they have been together for that long? when did they start fornicating?
Madam, take it easy. The Lord is your strenght. I know how it feels when you love and you are not loved. However, the naked truth be say Chris de knack man. Na im make im tell fine babe like you to go without any problems. The Lord will surely bring you your own husband wey go appreciate your qualities. The good news be sey the guy no browse you at all and you get low mileage.
I too sabi. U no see say d sentence dey in quote?
"U DEMAND"? As what na? D person who foots Linda's bills? Mschew! All these peeps who no get respect (˘̯˘ )
Why she & chris no use aboniki eat bread (˘-˘)*buying guguru nearby* bros,I fit cme join u ni? Stictly heineken baba
I find it so funny when people rain insults on others with different opinions and then quote the Bible.How we all feel we know God but we dont even have a clue about who He is.
And remember she is calaber ohhhhh and realllll fine. Did she cook her way into his heart? So she was a family friend of the pastor and his ex wife then? And then she starts cooking all his meals, when his former wife leaves, then he marries her.... mennn na wa oh... sorry but since you were friends with his ex wife...you should never have married him. That betrayal....by cooking his meals you knew exactly what you were doing
Exactly however I think pastor Chris's eyes must have opened now...he probably seen beyond beauty and innocent look
@Anon, the 6yrs before she married him, he wasn't married and even when he was married his wife far away in the USA, while he was pastoring in Nigeria. And she made it clear that she wasn't coming back! For those of you who love to judge, ponder about this...Jesus forgave the very people who killed him, nailed Him to a cross, I wonder if that is a lesser crime than divorcing?
Wow dis lady is very beautiful, so beautiful she is dt am distracted 4rm d topic @ hand...smh for me
Just a sentence for all the many self-righteous accusers on this matter"IF YOU HAVE NO SIN, PLS CAST THE FIRST STONE"We all have our own skeletons...so all ye judgemental people, pls SHUT UP.This is their own cross and God will take care of them both. He loves them still and as annoying as it is, God still loves you even as you judge them, Selah!!
For wateva rzn yur separated 4rm yur husband I pray yu find peace and move in christ
Yeah, if divorce is bad, he should never have left his first wife, unless she cheated. What was his excuse then?
THIS IS SOME SERIOUS ISH...WOW I WONDER HOW THIS WILL PLAY OUT.....MY HUNCH IS THAT THERE MUST HAVE BEEN SOME RUMORS SHE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR, HENCE THE REASON SHE WAS ASKED TO MOVE OUT....KRIS OKOTIE U CLAIM TO BE A MATURE MAN..IS THIS THE WAY TO TREAT YOUR WIFE? KICKING HER OUT WITH NO EXPLANATION, OR DISCUSSION...SHE IS INDEED A VERY BEAUTIFUL LADY!!!
Ah ah Stephanie na so? was he not a married man all these 15yrs and 10 yrs ago u r talking of? or did he hire u as a cook to be cooking for him? i beg go and sit down joo. when u married him u thot u were the winner. now we wont rest. u have seen what the first wife suffered.
1) U too fine y pple no go suspect say u be obanje. 2) u knew him for 20yrs, u were frds for 15yrs,u cooked for him for 10yrs & u r married for just 4yrs, biko maybe I don't undastand english,na melon una dey break for dat 20yrs? Sisi eko
dis woman looks to classy to be updating her personal status on facebook. una sure say person no hack into her account. That said, I wonder how people can still attend that church? tshuo, man wno fit keep him home, wetin e wan teach me about Jesu. i'm so angry that he seems not realize the responsibility his office holds. which type of message e go dey send to men in his church! choi.
Her FB page was meant to be private to her, close friends and family. She thought the privacy settings were strong enough to ward off hackers. Its her first time on fb
My thoughts exactly, does that mean you cannot trust your friends or cooks? In case they want snatch ....
Abeg was she not married to another man 10 yrs ago....cooking for another man?
linda this is really unfair,this was taken from stephanies private face book wall.it very private to her,her way of letting off,u should not have posted it.
You are so small minded and dumb. Do you think everyone does jazz the way you do
You gotta love Naija!! Anytime ur wife tire u, all u ve to do is simply say "hey woman u ve bin evicted" Not all dem Uk women dat will be telling someone to sleep on the couch! Linda me haff bin dreaming of that ur very tall sister o! Is der any chance of her following me to Ibadan? N no need to worry, me am a gentleman and in case of eviction I will give her 6 months notice not 3 weeks!
lwkmd @ Nollywood go soon act am.Omo cooking for a man for 10yrs, 15 best of friends, omo babe in ur case, Karma no be bitch ooo, na ur best friend.And u had d guts to tell us. Nne clean ya mouth and swallow ur vomit
Linda Ikeji some of the comments you approve on this blog is just vicious, but then again this is how you feed. Until you bear the unjustful loss of a spouse or a nasty separation you cannot undestand what this woman is going through. Adie, God is your strenght, I cried to God for vindication once and he answered my prayers. Your vindication will not come when you are gone for your children to see it, it will come now so the devil can be shamed. It is well my sister.
Forgerrit this woman is amongst the top 20 finest women I have seen shuu, she is fine kai, okay what is the story about again? lol
Wahala dey o!
Seriously coughing O!!!!!!I dnt unstand d oda 6yrs O hehehehehehehehehehehe 'I tot,I tot I saw A̷̷̴̐͠ pussy cat'
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Who appointed u??? Disappointed ko,disappointed ni!
Only the spiritually discerning can understand what happened. A truly meek and quiet woman of God won't go public in the manner you have, bringing your matter to unbelievers. the man hasn't condemned you in anyway- both in church or in he media but you're making comments to tarnish his image, that alone says a lot about you steph. If you are truly born again and understand the word of God then wait for the vindication of God. Man's approval or vindication is temporary and unsteady. Benny Hinn's wife never uttered a word after her divorce with the man of God. They even later reconciled. with the way you're going about this, how possible is a reconciliation? FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Abeg wetin christian association of nigeria dey do? Which kind yeye pastor? Mtschwww. Dis wife sef u don't need to report or talk too much, if u re ryt God go surely judge. But pls ma stop dragin holy name of d lord in dis shit. Una go registry at all.
This is so sad! the lord is their strength.
Guys chill they r seperated n not divorced
linda,take stephanie henshaws post down,u are a woman,this is something personal to her its not fair.
Water don pass garri b dt!
My beautiful angel, i really feel for you, but don't you think what goes around, comes around? did i hear you say you have been cooking for him for the past ten years, before you married him 4 years ago? do you mean to say that both of you were dating even while his wife was still with him, don't you think this probably contributed to his divorcing his former wife? so sad. My dear God is not mocked whatever one sows that shall he reap. My advice is that you gather yourself together and make peace with God. He is still your father and has better plan for you peace. you are wonderful and fearfully made shaa...o
B mindfool of ur words. U r nt GOD
u Jus took d words outta my mouthu
Linda oh, this is the hottest news u've brought in ages, kudos to u, u deserve hugs and a medal, lol
the muslims are throwin bombs today cos islam didnt go thru a refinement...pple must speak out against this despicable acts by 'men of God' enough of this blind docility in the name of 'harming the prophet'
WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND, YOU HAVE BEING HIS CLOSE FRIEND FOR 20YEARS, "CLOSE FRIEND" FOR 15YEARS, COOKED HIS MEALS FOR 10YEARS, SO YOU WERE IN THE BACKGROUND ALL THE WHILE HE WAS MARRIED TO HIS FIRST WIFE ABI? AS WHAT NA? COULD YOUR 'CLOSENESS' TO THE PASTOR HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO THE BREAKDOWN OF HIS FIRST MARRIAGE? I HOPE NOT, OTHERWISE, YOU HAD IT COMING, KARMA IS LIKE 69, YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE. NO NEED FOR PITY PARTY AND BIBLE QUOTING, GOD CANNOT BE MOCKED. LINDA, PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU PUBLISH MY COMMENT.
This is just my opinion and i repeat my opinion, the pastor hav e just recieved his deliverance from what have been holding him back, the union has its origin in adultery, if you check very well this relationship started when the pastor was still married to his first wife, the lady was cooking for another man's husband and while she was still married,nice woman and i think the pastor was jazzed during this period, you can say how can they jazz a pastor? it is possible because of the adultery loophole he created in the first place,if care is not taken the lady may have been responsible for the childless first marriage of the pastor.the whole thing have just backfired whatever you sow is what you reap. the woman left her husband to marry the pastor, and the pastors first wife ran away just like that men ,the pastors action might be justified ,he should hasten up and bring back his first wife, and ask God for forgiveness for sending away the first wife.this is just my opinion
Your have known him 20 yrs, you prepared his meals for 10 yrs plus the 4 yrs you guys were married.My question is why will a married woman who is supposed to be preparing food for for her husband, turn and be preparing food for another married man who happens to be a pastor? The answer: you two were dating while married to different ppl and now u want us to believe that u are innocent abi? Woman maybe you guys left ur different marriages to marry each other and you think God will be happy? Nonsense!
I smell another pastor cheating haha.what do we now do? We wey be followers opening my own church soon.LOL End Time a lot of pastor Weevers
Her fb page is blocked/unavailable. Issok.
First and foremost...all of you saying she is fine im sure if she had a face like a monley yall wont be half as sympathetic wiv her. She is fine but pls she aint all that yall need to come see fine black American women. Secondly I dont know why no one has noted this but this lady is the pastors second wife...NO NO not the one ordained to him from God because he has a previous divorce so lets not get carried away here. Thirdly is it just me but it evidently seems like Mr Chris Okotie isnt able to produce children and I just guess that after a second trial at making children wiv anoda lady, its seems unsuccessful and he just got tired of all that cooking and serving she has been doin for 10years now and wants to try his luck elsewhere. I dont throw punches at either him or cough** ex-wife but lets remember that these two people are human not extra-terrestial and they have human needs as well. She wants undying love and d man clearly wants children..simple I rest my case. NB: Chris Okotie pls can you sort out your issues and stop making us not want to come to ur church ever again..im really sick of hearing about this breakup now....need more refreshing news from real actor/celebrities not one who is acting from the pulpit, MTCHEW!!! HISS!!
You are an imbecile.......I think you are one of chris's followers. If it was jazz d woman for waste time or do you tink she wouldn't have renewed it? You just comment without thinking.
God! Pipu xpecially men! Dem wicked ooo! Wetin pain me pass b say ! Na nao d pastor com accuse ha say she b Witch nd mermaid spirit! Wetin steph do nao! And iz gettin married 2 a memeber in. Iz church...all dose sisters don flash PANT 4d man of God..sote e confuse...naw listen*Dear future husband if na HOusehold of God u de Go*omo nothing 4u oo I d rather go 2Lords chosen church....wat a shame,,,,steph it is well continue wiv d Good tinz,...4m lily
All dose sisters don flag white pants 4 REV...aunty seph biko apu dat tin
Chris Okotie and Soul E both married beautiful women. The way their marriage failed shows you that they just married based on beauty. SOul E married his ex wife for money. Honestly, Chris needs to examine himself. He is playing with God's word, but i know God will judge each of us accordingly. She needs to stop blaming the church, look at your husband. He's a womanizer and thinks he's above everything. Naija people kill me, look at yourself and husband, it takes two to tangle. Stop saying the devil caused it.
Ppl just talk d way dey Lyk...cnt u see shed nt blaiming her hubby?dont judge cs u don't know wot went wrong behind cs doors...may God strengthen her...
IS THIS STEPHANIE THE ADIE HENSHAW THAT WENT TO FOUNTAIN SCHOOL SURULERE, AND QUEENS COLLEGE YABA?? COULD SOMEONE PLS CONFIRM...THE ADIE I JUST TO KNOW WHEN I WAS VERY LITTLE WASN'T THIS LIGHT SKINNED...
One can be a pastor, bishop, evangelist, born again or whatever by profession and not such in heart. Just as many do claimed the spirit of God said this and that to them whereas God has never speak to them. For God is in spirit and those who worship him do so in truth and spirit as well, so therefore, to know God is to know power and to have Jesus denote you have power and with such power brought about healing, deliverance, accurate prophesies and others of God blessings in the lives of the believers. Concomitantly, God is not a man that he would be equivocal other than Christianity has perverted wrong way up. Listen, a person can quote bible from genesis to revelation perfectly and sermonize it impressively and profitably convert many to minster yet without power of God. Even as many bible authors are just philosophers and not Christians. In other words, (Matthew 7:15–16) beware of false servant of gods, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves. By their fruits ye shall know them. (Gal. 5:22) But the fruit of the Spirit is: love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness and faith. (Eph. 5:9-10) For the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth. Proving what is acceptable to the Lord. All I know is that, one with God is more than majorities the same as truth always without doubt win through. Happy birthday at 49 years our lovely prophet TB Joshua Imagine that to be a pastor is now an occupation.
Oh pleeeese, just shut up sleek or meek or whatever you call your self. Via*thuraya*!
why do people always blame others when their marriages fail? the church members, his family, lagos big girls. Honey, its no ones fault but chris and urs. the earlier u start accepting that, the earlier u will heal.
CHRIS OKO---TIE SPEAKS:2 many slanders,devil in disguise,gossips, insults and aspersions on me..@ anon,b not sceptical of ur verbosity and dnt jump into hasty conclusions..if u must knw,we wldnt b divorced for sum inconsequential incongrous reasons nonchalantly..and I'm not suppose to wash my boxers in public..so paddle ur canoe yl I do mine$$..meanyl,dr wld b a SINGLE SUMMIT @ d House-hOld of God..cum as u are..
CHRIS OKO---TIE SPEAKS: order your tongue and slander not when not certain of ur words..been taciturn pays...raisin insults and aspersions on me thru any medium is unacceptable and provocable..usin d word 'silly' to protray a pastor is demeaning..if u must know,God myt not av called me..bt I called hiM..and he picked##wat matters most is dat dere was a calling--SHIKENA#--@ anon,b PERCORASCIOUS#-last warnin##
CHRIS OKO--TIE SPEAKS: yes I'm gay#-- ur fada and ur boyfriend are my gay partners--at least,I'm not d ONLY 1 involved--now,tel d WHOLE WORLD##--
CHRIS OKO---TIE SPEAKS: its ur sister dat is been arranged for me##--and I wld so dump ha as I did to d rest--NOW TELL THE WHOLE WORLD
CHRIS OKO--TIE SPEAKS:-SEIZE YOUR TONGUE--or I curse u with asphasia or aphonia--its safer to SPEAK NOT,dan to raise cain and slander on a man of God##once MORE--b carefUL#
These are signs of the endtime, based on her report he asked for divorce. Pple repent Christ is Coming sooner than soon.
Am I the only one doing the math from this her confession??????? Wasn't Chris Okotie married to his first wife for nearly 20yrs? So Stephanie 'Adie' also says she knew him for 20yrs too? When they began their CLOSE FRIENDSHIP 15yrs ago, was Okotie still married? *dun-dun-dun!* Even if they weren't sexually intimate while he was married, did Stephanie cause Okotie to stop loving his first wife (or become emotionally distant from her) because of their unnecessary friendship? She says she was cooking for him, but what else was Stephanie doing for the man in the 6yrs before she married Okotie? What about her own marriage? When did her second marriage end? Were they both 'emotionally' cheating on their respective spouses while still married? I feel for the woman but, personally speaking, the foundation of this relationship is troublesome. You need a solid foundation for any relationship to stand the test of time. A beautiful woman such as Stephanie cannot be a close friend to a married man, haba! If Stephanie was in any way linked to the breakup of Okotie's first marriage....karma is a b!ct# ***Lush
Linda biko wey my hard typed comment? Sisi eko
I am not surprised at all cos Bible already mentioned it that by their fruits we shall know them. To this, Only God knows His true worshipper and surely, He will judge rightly.
Says MMM : Stephanie, pls just write a book about your experience; may be ask wife No 1 for inputs. Iam sure it will be a best seller.....use ur pain make plenty money and take care of your fine self.as u fine.other fishes will come *sad face* Linda no forget post d updates oo...*waiting*
Anonymous 7.08.Your comment make sense die.
Na wa for Chris Okotie if this na wetin truly happen...People, the fact say she cook for am for 6 years no mean say the guy be dey chop her "other food"...
She said they have known for 20yrs, being closest friend and cooking his meal and they were married only 4yrs. I can't help but wonder if this 2oyrs was part of 17yrs marriage to Tina his ex-wife. If so has Stephanie been his mistress all the time he was still married to Tina. Just wondering.
Dont u tink u can always correct somborri without callingthe person a fool? Hmmm sis Linda, i bet some pple 4 hiaa no go primary school @all(not mannered)...
Just listening they were adulterrs, 20yrs of stephanie being his mistress only married 4ys..pst pst pst
I'm sorry, I don't feel pity for her. A man of God left his wife of 17 yrs and married you and you think that marriage will stand??? You think you are better than Tina?? God cannot be mocked! I'm sorry, but this is karma in its full state!!
Biko first anonymous, your head siddon well for your neck so? abi e dey shake??? So if she was asked for separation that makes her a bad person and ineligible to quote scriptures eh? Pls God hates divorce not the 'divorcee'.You cannot force someone to stay married to you because you are a christian, if the person decides to leave and files for divorce it doesnt make you less holy.
Dis girl thinks we are all fools. Was she not married wen she was cooking for him in that 6years? What is her ex hubby's take on this? Obvoiusly Mazi Okechukwu needs some explanations?.......Truly this babe needs to leave God out of this...Karma just caught up with her.
Hahahahaahha nor be lie o
Hahahaha nor be lie o
i hear he is getting married again in sept to anoda satita, kai he nids WOFBI mbok. via Nokia c3
Yea I know God forgives evry1 their sin, but dat is wen u have admitted it n come back to God truly repentant, not wen u believe u r justified 4 wot u did
As beautiful as U re U settled for a man who had left his 1st wife? Expecting yours to work out? Remember d old n da new pot ends up in d-same fire. Guess that's d fire burning now. Anoda woman is warming up for her own turn. But you n Chris Okotie should remember. D Judgement of God starts from d Alter. So false prophet beware.
This is cock and bull story, u did not do anything to him and he asked you go.You fed a man of God 10 years (so u were living with him not married then to him). If anybody believe this her story the person can believe anything.
Bia nu! Ds linda sef, u dnt seem to be in d know of wats rily goin on wen it cmes to entertainmnt gossip oo...u neva hear say 2shot don break up wit girlfriend which he proposed to few months ago?? Ngwanu...as u take update us den on d proposal den let us kno wat led to the break up sharply
Why didn't you post comments on time and you didn't even post mine. I tire for you oh
It is so sad, but pls sister keep praying for God's strength and grace to carry on. All you need now is to get closer to GOD abd besides stop thinking about the past. Move on with your life.
So MADAM, you actually expect us to feel some sort of sympathy for you? I have one observation: During the twenty or fifteen years that you knew him and was cooking for him, wasn't he married? If he was, then how on EARTH did you think that marrying him and showing love was the will of God? People..... let us please stop PRETENDING to know and do the will of God when we only care about our selfish selves. My advise for the future: Please do not make a man divorse his first wife marry him and assume that that is God's will for you and that the second marriage will be blessed, because the Holy bible DEFINITLY does not preach that.
Why will you be cooking for a man that is not your husband for 6 good years. When they got married, Pastor Chris sent her to a finishing school, does that mean you werent cooking well before then? I'm not judging any of you two but you guys have just succeeded in bringing the name of God down. May He forgive you both.
El loco..u rock!can't stop laughing.
It takes two to tango. When a couple have problems, they say both sides are wrong. So I'm gonna wait till Chris says his side of the story. She can't be blameless. That said, when I do the math of how long she's known him and she's been "cooking" for him, all I can say is Karma's a real b****h
thank God i never did blame her or cast the stone at her i always knew she was telling the truth. Okotie has failed twice in ruling Nigeria he has failed twice in marriage now he wants to get married December damn i wonder WATS wrong with Chris.even if Stephanie is mermaid or ogbanje and so wat him no pappy water .If i have such a goddess as a wife even if she b Jezebel deliverance no dey. abeg jor Chris no be am
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aww pls enuf with the accusations. Becos a woman cooks for a man doesnt mean they are sleeping with each other. Stephanie also happend to be a widow from her first marriage. I heard her late husby and Pastor Chris were close friends and when her husby passed, Chris helped her and her family. He also went thru a divorce with his first wife, thus the cooking of meals and such. So she was a widow and theres nothing against a widow re-marrying someone that became her best freind. Just leave her be.
u people should be well informed before making comments,pastor okotie and stephanie dated for seven years before they got married.also stephanie had been seperated from her husband for ten years before she and pastor okotie started anything,he also had been seperated from his wife for that long,she has beeb a member of his church since she was 19
knowing a man for twenty years does not mean they were doing anything,most householders have known him for that long and even more,remember the ministry is twenty-five years
A man of God should have at least prayed well enough before getting so committed especially being a second time... Marriage is not an easy "school" anyway. My mum referred it as a parcel and indeed you can not know the content until you open it ( that is when you have entered). This is the time for prayer and leave it all to God. If you truly believe in God and you are convinced that you are blameless and still love your husband, then my sister cry unto your creator....though HIS ways are different from ours...meaning you may come back together or get a better partner.
i cant believe i read about a hundred plus coments and not one of the ones blaming the woman stated the obvious"PASTOR OKOTIE'S FORMER WIFE ABANDONED THE MARRIAGE AND MOVED TO AMERICA" THAT WAS IN FACT PART OF HIS JUSTIFICATIONS FOR DIVORCE....SO UNLESS YOU EXPECT THE HEAD OF A CHURCH TO BE HAVING HIS THREE SQUARE MEALS IN TASTEE FRIED CHICKEN OR TANTALIZERS THERES NOTHING WRONG IN HER COOKING FOR HIM BEFORE THEY GOT MARRIED SO LETS CHILL OUT WITH PASSING OF JUDGEMENT AND FACE THE REAL ISSUE
stephanie henshaw did not attend queens collage
THE MEDIA HAS GOT IT SO WRONG STEPHANIE WAS NEVER A WIDOW,HER MARRIAGE TO REV OKOTIE IS HER SECOND.
Tina probably left pastor Chris cos of the attention he was giving this stephanie, she probably wanted them to move to America to get his mind of stephanie..... it is wrong to be close friends with a married man. I do not like any females especially single ones being close to my man....especially if she was as fine as stephanie....id be very uncomfortable.
u people should go back and read pastor chris interview in 2008 wt enconuim magazine he confirmed that he had been close to her for seven before he married her,so if she was cooking for 6yrs there is nothing wrong,pastor chris and stepanie love each other,this is just a test of their friendship,im kniw most of u have worse thinga going on in yr lives,pls face ye issues.
i think i know what is going on. God forgive me if im wrong. firstly Chris Okotie is not a mad man. secondly Stephannie says there was no fight prior. i think she must have been unfaithful, and he got to know about it. but she did not know he found out. some men including me would react the same way. in fact it is something that actually happened to me before. I found out that my gf was sleeping with someone who lives in the same compound she lives in. my friend that lived there hinted me, and i went there to confirm that she goes to her flat and stay there for long hours. that night i thought of her for a while and then zeroed her from my mind. like she never existed. i did not tell her what she did, i just went ahead with my life. my mum and even hers was shocked that we could break up. but i never told anybody why. to me she does not even exist. she does not know till today that i know what she was doing behind my back. (I Know some people will be like: how do i know that she was sleeping with the guy. what will a woman be doing in a guy's appartment for over 3 hours almost everyday?)
@11:35 AM Stephanie Henshaw is not a widow from her second marriage.,....Biko the ex-husband is still alive and i know him. Stop spreading lies or wishing him dead
i thank everybody for their comments.some are funny,factual,irritating,disgusting,positive,negative but,above all,lets wait for part two of this interesting movie because okotie and stef knows better than us all.
here is the full update “Lies, not from the world but the church,accusations not from the world, but the church,where are the spiritfilled christians,the ones who fear and hear the lord.my husband loves and adores me,he is not the one saying these things,the enemies from within,who hate me,they hate the grace GOD SHOWED ME.they hate the mecy GOD HAS HAD ON ME,so they come up wt all kinds of lies,my going can bring one mrs okotie,what happens to the rest of u,u bring shame to the body of christ out of yr jealousy and selfish desire and in the process expose yr pastor,the work he has to do cost JESUS his life,dont joke wt it,our friendship is not based on marriage.u manipulate things at the expence of GODS WORK AND NAME.its not about me,it has never been,its about the will of GOD.”
ALL THE TEN YEARS SHE WAS COOKOING FOR PASTOR OKOTIE SHE WAS STILL MARRIED OR WHAT? THE 20 YEARS SHE WAS CLOSE TO HIM WAS OKOTIE MARRIED OR WAS HE THEN A MUSICIAN THERE IS MORE THAN MEETS THE EYE BUT FOR SURE THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT ONE DAY!!!!!
this woman nah oyinbo i just dey ask
She probably left because she could not bear the humiliation of her husband cheating with stephanie....she probably wanted her husband to relocate to the US as well so they won't have such a beautiful and tempting distraction called stephanie....abi what do you think
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Watch your mouth are you calling Linda a hacker? Hehehe....abeg Linda go and hack her Facebook again.....I did not call you a hacker ohhhh
Abeg go and tell your long story or advise to the trees....I am not on facebook cos I am very private...and even though I had a relatively innocent childhood I am not all innocent like most of us so I guard my secrets.... Linda has done absolutely nothing wrong. Try that with Wendy Williams....she'd tell you where to go and hang your mouth. And your aunty cooked her way.into another woman's husbands heart....what did you expect....can't wait for.mercy Johnson hubby to do the same...hehehe...
Abeg she wanted everyone to see it....if it was private ...it won't be visiblr
Yeah I must admit I am abit jelous she is sooooo fine
I dont belive any of dis jack....u cant say u wr driven out of ur home for no reason n den went ahead to say my husband luvs n adore me*rollin my eyez*....either u r plain naive which i know u r not, or dis was d plan... Cos no divorce is biblical except on d gound of adultery...so who go do am? If dsts not d case, den obviously he aint no man of God and church goers r just been tickled by blind reasoning...search ur hrts.....
Game on people.....Let's remain in INERTIA with our fingers crossed even as we await the release of season II of this epitomic bestseller. As for Steph, wot were u thinking? That you'll sow lime and harvest apples? Wake up woman, God can't be mocked!!! You just suffered a BOOMERANG!!! And you Chris, BEWARE!! The path that you tread is full of fatal repercussions. God is not a respecter of persons and never you forget that itx alwx 9days for the thief and 1 for the owner. The way and manner you arrogantly persecute the true body of Christ, trying to always bring it to shame and disrepute with your philandering and hipo-chris-y is calamitous and a prove of your callousness. What audacity impudence and temerity!!! Remember,it is a dangerous thing to fall into the hands of the Almighty. MAY GOD HAVE MERCY "as usual" on you both. What an
Shut the f....k up. Why did she put that on face book...she wanted sympathy but people are wondering what she was doing with a married man as a close friend.... when a pretty girl tried that with pastor taiwo odukoya years ago, his late wife chased the girl Sharp Sharp...I was there...do don't come here talking rubbish
Thank you...I had a bloke..fine boy that was practically begging me to lav
The best comment and advice so far on this matter,God bless you
Very true, I had a fine bloke who was begging me to leave my husband and he would leave his wife so we could be together, did I do it....NOOOOOO cos that's just wrong
This is absolutely ridiculous,let me get something straight,given d yrs involved,apparently,they were both seeing each other while married to different partners.Who knows,okotie's 1st wife may hv discovered d affair,got upset nd signed out of d marriage.I feel sorry fr steph because she't made aware of a reason fr d separation.Additionally,d pastor is wealthy,as such she prefers to stick with him,nd enjoy d luxury,i recommend she job hunts nd gets hired,nd stay less focus on okotie's wealth nd d luxury she had enjoyed,eventually reconcile wt her first husband if has't remarried.She mentioned if she does,t live through this pain,not to worry time will heal her,nd every thing wl fall in place.Linda,pls publish this,other wise,i will stop visiting ur blog.Thanks alot.
De Myk says :Why do people just market their ignorance in public sphere? Contrary to most of the ignorant post here, the truth is that Tina Okotie had always wanted to live in the US but Chris kept stalling that. The armed robbery attack on her (Tina's) mum who was holidaying in Nigeria was the last straw. Tina moved to the US against Okotie's will in 1998.They tried to make it work on transcontinental basis but it never did coupled to the union’s childlessness. They divorced in 2001.How was that Okotie's fault? and that Stephanie started cooking (cooking only o)in 2002 is no biggie. Like we all know, these MoGs are humans like us so are prone to errors. Which of us has never slept with more than one woman in his life here? Nobody (I for one) do not expect Okotie to continually live without Tina for that long (or forever) without plugging-into-some-other socket. Only God knows what has happened in this second marriage but clearly, Okotie is not to be blamed for Tina’s divorce
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