From a female LIB reader...
Please I need your advice. My husband is the dearest thing in this world
I've ever had! He's so different from most other guys: intelligent,
funny, handsome, very muscular and well-built, and is an amazing person.
He's also extremely playful. And I love him so much for
all these. But there's this part I don't really enjoy: he makes some
demands I'm not comfortable with. The two main ones are these: most
mornings when we wake up from sleep he would insist we should kiss
deeply with our unbrushed "smelly" mouths. The few times I agree, I
don't enjoy it at all! Our mouths usually taste very sour then! I can
never understand why he likes it but he says his love for me far exceeds
my unbrushed mouth! Also when we're eating, he would tell me to pour
food I'm chewing in my mouth into his own mouth, even when my saliva has made it so wet and yucky!
Sometimes he just wants me to
put plain saliva from my mouth into his own! And he would say it's the
same thing that happens when we kiss, but to me they're VERY different.
And funny enough, the few times I agree to do these things, he would end
up with a very very huge erecti*n and we would end up... But the
problem is, when I don't agree, he would say I'm not interested in
improving our intimacy, that I'm the only person in this world he can do
them with yet I'm denying him the pleasure. The truth is, I don't think
I'll ever be comfortable with these things. Please what should I do???
Does my agreeing to do these things really build our intimacy?
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this woman no get problem...
Hmmmm, really weird....but he's ur husband tho...so deal with it hun...
Bro gimme one popcorn & cake lemme sit down & read comments jare
Not a problem. Ladies una too complain biko
Jst do them with joy, find a way of enjoying it. Try to relax
Wow! He's truly in love with you, and guess what, you're lucky to have him as a husband. If you claim you love him and still want to keep your man, I see no reason why you can't do all these things. There's nothing out of this world he's asked you to do. If you brush before you go to bed, I don't think your mouths will taste that sour! Since it turns him on, pls try and get used to it. Men are everywhere, but husbands are hard to find!
U said he's intelligent abi?...then enjoy his madness while it last. lol
So Disgusting tell him how yoyu ain't comfortable with that shittt.
Really? May sound disgusting. But some ppl have weird sexual request but I don't see anything wrong here. Especially kiss in d morning. Prolly u guys can brush before u sleep which is ideal. U hv to love with these since he loves u so much. Also I can make him kinda 'work' to get wat he requests for by doing some form of play. ;)
1st part......just brush before you go to bed....it is manageable, as per d 2nd part....hell fuckin NOOOOOOO.....wat da hell man....dnt do it luv....tell him straight up...HONEY I LOVE YOU, BUT THAT SHIT IS NASTY AS FUQ AND I WILL NOT DO IT.
Weirdness weird, scheisse my tell him you are not comfortable with it pls he should understand you😜😂
Ihula ruv choro igba oso. Hehehehehehe. Enjoy it dear. Both of shld brush @ nit so dat wen u wake up in d morning ur breathe wont b bad to enjoy d unbrushed morn kiss.
Maybe that is what turns him on. But for me those things are kinda gross. I think u should do more of kissing with an unbrushed than pouring chewed food into his mouth
U ave such a wonderful husband n u are still complaining,if he's aving girlfriends u will complain but he's doing everything to satisfy u. Don't worry just don't be giving in to demands n let him go out to look for dose dat will satisfy him den u will know hw to hold on tight to what u ave.
nne u beta continuing doing it and improve on it self. lol ask him if ur urine or shit wud make sense for the intimacy.
Agree with him,he's your hubby.
Yes, beautiful mind your man had
Easy
Hmm yeah.. I think it does.. He's just showed that there's no reason for him not to love u.. Beautiful or ugly
It's just be a regular guy. I think the real problem is your perception, he's cute, muscular, sweet and all of that and u see him as THE perfect example of a Male specimen. Well he's been a regular guy. One of the reason male decides to stick to one female and be faithful is because in her he finds himself, been able to related and behave like the female is another him, but when he doesn't feel that liberty of been himself around you over time he will start keeping to himself. My advise to you is this, see how u can put up with him, I'm sure there are other things u do that he tried to put up with after all that's the reason for coming together to become one.
For the early morning kissing, I will advice you guys form the habit of brushing your teeth at night before going to bed. That way mouth will be fresh in the morning. My hubby enjoys that
Yuckkkk!
Well one advice I have for u is about the kissing part.....make sure u both brush @ nite before bed.. when u do u won't feel sour, especially with a good toothpaste....when I wake up in the morning, I kiss my husband!
True love can be expressed in many ways but when the other half is not interested in weird ways as explained by the complainant, then should be discussed by both parties and make amends. If one-half then insists on that weird action then it becomes selfish and abnormal. Please have a serious discussion with your spouse, if need be, you can call a very important personally(known to both of you) to ear both of u out. Cheers!
u dont love ur husband period!
i pity the poor man.
very soon u will say hes asking for too much sex.all these yeye girls that dont know what they have. Another girl will help u collect him.
I hate girls that complain their husbands are too touchy-feely,sex craving etc... big fools
some can eat but have no food. u have food but u dont want to eat,dont cry when someone eats him
I'm sorry but dats really disgusting! U both can talk abt it nd try to find a better way to satisfy him. Sexual satisfactions shld be mutual. My opinion tho.
my dear, let me say you are very lucky. Alot of men choose to find intimacy outside their relationships. Other married women are having problems with their husband's infedelity and wish their man loved them like yours does. Even if it makes you unformfortable, try, even pretend. Would you prefer he went to someone else? please im talking from experience.
Abeg my sister ur even lucky although it sounds wired but please do it oooo. To keep ur man their are so many thirsty girls out dat won't even mind to eat his shit
Madam be happy for what u have, if he ask for all these irritating things then he loves u, pls don't complain
Well..if it makes im so happy nd hard for u..gt used to doin iy nd hopefully wiv time u wld gt used to it..things we do for lov sis..abt d deep kissin witout brushing..my hubby s a fan of dat too..men we wld neva understand..
Well..if it makes im so happy nd hard for u..gt used to doin iy nd hopefully wiv time u wld gt used to it..things we do for lov sis..abt d deep kissin witout brushing..my hubby s a fan of dat too..men we wld neva understand..
Fuck OFF already!!! What z. Weird abt dz? Ur just looking 4 cheap attention,u should b thankful he's not asking u4 3some wt ur house help..
Poster, u are a big FOOL! Period. Thank ur star for having such a Man, ode oshi
You can both chew bitter cola at night before you go to bed and your mouth will still be very fresh when you wake up.
Women!!!! Much ado about nothing. Uve described ur husband as amazing. This tiny flaw of smelly mouth and saliva swap is ur problem. It's like u want major problems instead. I'd say I'd ur husband loves ur smelly mouth, kill him with smelly kisses ahan ahn! Or make him brush d night before so it's not as stale and wake him up to kisses erry Damn morning!!! Enjoy these moments they may not last forever. Kai kai
I advise you to carry on dear!
Hmmmm So irritating, cant do dat.. It doesnt build any intimacy.
Dear, it's called "marriage" u don't always get all u want. If he's loving and everytn u want in a man, just overlook it. With time, u'll get used to it. Little tinz like dis can hold a marriage or brk it. I agree it very irritating. Don't think I can do dat myself. But if it's part of d sacrifices I av to giv in my marriage, I will do it. Just make sure he doesn't add sumtin new to d already ugly ones
Not bad @all
I think u charmed him wit a love portion.....so enjoy it whn it last
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WDF?! As in, let me spell it out so u understand. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. U can like to refer him to a specialist. Thats not intimacy! That is disgusting. Is he an animal?
Eeewwwwwww. OMG. That man is a freak. You are married to a freak. Jesus. Oh my goodness. Yuuuuuuck.
Start a routine of you both brushing your mouths before bed, after your dinner, it will help reduce the smelliness of the morning kiss. Eeeewwwww. I pray I never marry such when my Oga is done with and dumps me. Eeeeewww. You are married to a disgusting man
Eeewwwwwww. OMG. That man is a freak. You are married to a freak. Jesus. Oh my goodness. Yuuuuuuck.
Start a routine of you both brushing your mouths before bed, after your dinner, it will help reduce the smelliness of the morning kiss. Eeeewwwww. I pray I never marry such when my Oga is done with and dumps me. Eeeeewww. You are married to a disgusting man
So irritating that I cud not complete reading the demands. So strange
And what is weird about what he is asking for? It is very normal. Not like he is asking u to poo in his mouth. Smh...
Intelligent,very muscular.......babe for better for worse and since he isn't cheating u have him for proper keeps
Read it up on Google. He is a sexual fetish in those aspect, there are those that are foot fetish, that love getting their toes sucked. Just research on it, I guess u will understand him better when u do
All you have to do is to sit him down and have a heart to heart talk on the issue .. Nothing more nothing less ... @methusah
Lovely husband u gat trust me*wink*
As long as u're nt d one swallowing d spittle or d chewed food i suggest u play along. As 4 d morning unbrushed kiss, it is normal with married couples
Ur hubby is too fetish I must say...its not normal so try nd find out what d problem is.
Sound irritating, but count urself lucky because u r loved. On d other hand take him for a hygiene counselling he will understand better
Like seriously don't you guys brush before going to bed????
What's wrong with early morning kiss?
The best love makings with my hubby is early morning as soon as we wake
in fact most of the time he wakes me with head giving
from down there he comes up to my mouth
we give each other very passionate kiss
no smell or whatsoever
there is nothing nasty with the one you love
there's nothing I haven't done with my hubby
except the one of licking his ass
that I shall not do!
Madam u and oga should improve your hygiene
Pls my sis, my candid advice to you is YOU BETTER ALLOW HIM AND ADJUST TO HIS PLEASURE SEEKING BEFORE ANOTHER WOMAN WHO UNDERSTANDS HIS NEEDS AND SNATCHES HIM FROM YOU.
My dear, u guys can brush ur teeth at night. When you wake up, drink a glass of water and I can assure u, u will feel much better. That food part, I no understand sha. Pls enjoy ur marriage.
Madam, perform ur marital duties. .Humans are never satisfied. .u v a man who is willing to go all d way for u, u r complaining. .; By d time he finds another lady out there dt wud b willing to do wt u r objecting to and even much more, then u start complaining
He has a saliva fetish!
thank God u said he his ur husband...the earlier u get used to it the better...else u wil just throw him outside...u both are one naw so u must learn to adapt....
It's just be a regular guy. I think the real problem is your perception, he's cute, muscular, sweet and all of that and u see him as THE perfect example of a Male specimen. Well he's been a regular guy. One of the reason male decides to stick to one female and be faithful is because in her he finds himself, been able to related and behave like the female is another him, but when he doesn't feel that liberty of been himself around you over time he will start keeping to himself. My advise to you is this, see how u can put up with him, I'm sure there are other things u do that he tried to put up with after all that's the reason for coming together to become one.
My dear, your hubby's demands ain't weird at all. You should try to get out of your comfort zone and indulge in his demands. The fact that it gives him erection proves that those things turn him on.
He is your hubby and doing that with him would deepen the level of your intimacy.
All the best hun..
My dear u can handle d early morning kiss. Just insist that you both brush at night so ul ve a fresh breath in d morning. But d rest I find it so disgusting.
Ewwwwww!!! Gosh y did I opened dis wen I was eating!!. Eyama... Tell him u don't like it.. Simple
Eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwww!!!!!!!!! Yuck!!!!!!! Wierd couple!!!
Na wa o, wat sm pple r praying 2 gt in der marriage, u c it on a platter of gold n u r still complaining, may God 4gv u. Thank God 4 ur own n respond 2 ur husband +vely b4 he seek asylum outside
DH is very sick.
I DO NOT SEE ANY PROBLEM SINCE HE IS AT THE RECEIVING END OF THESE QUIRKY THINGS.
My dear your man truly loves you,it is rare to see any man of this generation doing stuff with woman.As a matter of fact i cant do it,my piece of advice for you is to get use to it
My dear your man truly loves you,it is rare to see any man of this generation doing stuff with woman.As a matter of fact i cant do it,my piece of advice for you is to get use to it
Yes nah! Him no do nah make one single lady come help u
Wow,he is truely wierd but if he makes you happy and tight,why not-he is your husband not your boyfriend!!
He's ur husband and by not doing what he wants he can go out and find some one who will do it for him.Then u will start complaining that he is cheating on you. Do what he wants and save your marriage.
I understand the early morning kisses with your "sour" mouth but I really do not get why you have to put saliva in his mouth and transfer food from your mouth to his for him to get an erection. Yuck!
Pour d saliva into his mouth jare! Ppl come here with real problems & u sent dis 4 us 2 read. U will suspect him of being unfaithful when he stops asking for these tins.
Lucky you.
That's weird
Marriage is compromise, tolerance and sacrifice and in this case I don't see much of a sacrifice, when you love someone you are prepared to do whatever it takes as much as possible to make them happy, this isn't a vice it's what your man wants and I am sure you won't want him to get it outside marriage, if you can't get him to change them see how it can work out...for instance have orbit chewing guy handy in the morning to pop into your mouth just b4 he wants to be kissed and as for saliva exchange just work on your mind and begin to see it as something not so difficult and finally remember some other women have to cope with men with terrible vices- I know you can make the best out of this and I wish you luck.
Weird.... but it's what he likes so bear and give it to him.. all husband's are weird darlin.... just deal with it
lol loosen up and enjoy your man.
I refuse to comment on this. Just waiting for people's opinions......beyond my own.
Nne handle ur matter abeg. If u ve talked with him and he isn't seeing reasons he should stop it then continue. We all make sacrifices for the people we love. In fact start enjoying it so that u can start bearing it and not abhoring it .
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Rubbish!!!! Ur hubby has gone nuts, d only tin u can do is 2 continue prayn 4 him. E nids prayers wella. D madness don dey show signs. Those ar d signs.
Newsflash... Your husband is a freak...
Disgusting mad ppl everywhere
lmao. very weird indeed. just do it abeg. for d saliva part, close ur eyes wen doin it and dont think about it. if yu dnt do it for him who wil? lol hes ur hubby so satisfy him. then go find wat makes yu horny too and make sure he does it too to "improve ur intimacy" lol
U shld be happy he is asking u himself there is Notin in it 2 kiss ur husband in d morning dey are all part of love *wink* first to comment post my comment linda
Ewww...ayanma! pls RUN! He needs help
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*Pls where is the toilet bcos i wan vomit nw*
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This lady....u matter tire me. Na simple things u can't fulfill, wait Sandra go give em all of this add blowjob join....oniranu.
Simple thing u can't fulfill, if dis man dey die, can u give em kidney or stay by em...I doubt.
U bera give em dirty and play same without involving linda or me!
The gods are wise
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If ur mouths smells in d morning den brush ur teeth n tongue @ nyt,let it be d last tin u do bfr going to bed,trust me u ll feel so fresh in d mrning,i dnt see anything weird with those demands.there are somtinz men desire dt u wud nt want to hear!!!
My Dear, dis might nt completely mean he's 100% faithful to you, but I would like to think that He's not ready to let dem 'goons' out there to help ur 'unwillingness' to dese 'extras' which in itself isn't disgusting as u may leave ur mind to believe. I REALLY don't see anytin wrong or terrible in dis situation. All you mentioned here breeds intimacy in a relationship. If you can go down there on him, why shuld dese be any more unappealing? I beg you to behave urself. Communication is paramount, which he's tried to do by asking for these of you n nt anoda bitch out there. Pray you don't hear/experience worst fetish activities some men subject there wives to. MY SISTA, I REPEAT, IT'S NO BIGGY. OPEN UR MIND TO ALLOW DESE 'FUNNY' REQUESTS AND U'LL BE FINE.
Dear you are such a luck lady
Ewww. Sounds like your husband is a keeper. If he loves these things, don't deny him of them. Afterall, he's not suggesting that he does them to you. Play along. There's no harm in it.
Lol. Funny lady. Well maybe you should be waking up b4 him and brush n go bck n lie down till he wakes n if he says he luvs ur chewed food,babe give him or he gets frust8td n walks out n u blame him of cheating.
You just described my husband! Hope we r not married to the same man? Its so weird... well I just tell him 'no'. so I guess you can just say no, dont explain.
Okokobioko!orishirishi!oreghereghe akpor,nawa
See the early the better.. Start doing it or lose him bcos I never see anything wrong with that.
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Seems ur husband enjoyed u more. And for u 2 satisfy him and for him not 2go out side do what so ever he requested from u. Am a married man and I under stand ur husband. Tank u
That's pathetic
Your man is mental unstable
Take him to psychiatric hospital
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Chai. ..what most people are looking for! ! Madam abeg you don't have a problem. ...except for the early morning kiss sha *yuck*...As long as he doesn't pour his own saliva into your mouth, I don't think you should be complaining.
you have to continue doing it the guy loves you ok
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To me the man's request are not akward. It's quite normal to some people
ewwwwww that disgusting
If he's truly an amazing guy, why allow something so little become an issue?! Different things turn on different people, since you have already seen how effective they are when ever its done, why stop? Sweetheart people have bigger problems this isn't one.
Lmao! You never noticed before you married him? Get a breath mint for thé morning kissing or mouth spray. As for thé feeding him like a mama bird, get used to it.
My dear, you have no problem unless u want to create them for yourself.
Get used to it
ARA Di Dat ur hubby small sha. .. but diwe ....
People have different ways of been turned on sexuallly and its fine if they aren't wield.
Your husband is sick and requires immediate treatment perhaps take him to Yaba left.
For one thats disgusting. U need to tell him how uncomfortable that is for u. Or learn to enjoy it if not ur inviting another thot into ur marriage.
Well dear, I love d way u say his d dearest !
Jst continue wid wot u do ! Like ,agree 2do it 2day den refuse 2mao.
Also , come up wid tins DAT u love n also ask him 2play along. :)
Yes it does
You enjoy the aftermath of the act. Why seek opinion. Get use to it joor. So many women can be willing to do it for him outside.
Omg you husband is a freak! Pray he never practices skat sex with (if you don't know the meaning , google at your own risk) **throws up**
hmmm, I don't even know what to say. There's a therapist that's missing a lot of dough from trying to figure out the spitting thing. The kissing is not unheard of. Really, nothing to say cos the spitting's not superbad but its really uncomfortable for you so he should put that into consideration. Yuck. Lol.
hmmm, I don't even know what to say. There's a therapist that's missing a lot of dough from trying to figure out the spitting thing. The kissing is not unheard of. Really, nothing to say cos the spitting's not superbad but its really uncomfortable for you so he should put that into consideration. Yuck. Lol.
Jamb question. Its really disgusting but if That's the only way he gets erection then is really difficult. You guys should just sort it out
Yucky! Feel like I will puke
Lol. This is funny. I am so happy you shared this. I used to think it was only my husband that asked for these weird things. I refuse to do them. If you do not like it, explain to him that you are uncomfortable. He will understand.
You knew all this things before you agreed to marry him. So why ask WAEC questions here.
Ewwwwwwwwwwww!!!! Yuck!!! I feel like throwing up just reading this... Well guess nothing good comes without a huge price attack to it. Ma'am, if u ain't ready to share husband with someone else, u have to get use to it since that's what gives him pleasure. Here is a tip, just think about the bright side ok.. Embrace it, complaining will only make it worst Darling
disgusting, crazy, and shamefull
You are my married to a vampire!
You are married to a vampire I mean!
Learn to live with it that's what I call undiluted love from above love him no matter the demand
If dat makes him happy,den do it. U have 2luv ur husbnd without reason to bring out d best in him. That's d contract we signed for o lol,to be submissive even if it displeases us to please dem.
I opened this just as I was abt eating my banga soup n pounded yam...yuck!!! anyways tell him u dnt lik it it. Simple , n stop doing it...let him repent cos he is possesd
My sister you non get problem o! If it turns him on, why don't you do it.I bet there are many women who would happily trade places with you.
It is so unfortunate u dint enjoy dis tins ur husband enjoy doing. I want to believe also dat u dated him and also saw all dis playful acts of his. But in all u married him. Pls bear with it unless u don't love him really much.
I suggest you both brush and floss at night before you go to bed. The morning after breathe would be a lot fresher. Talking from experience.
Jeez that's disgusting. Didn't you know before you married him? Biko carry your cross.
Well I do agree with you they are both weird and unhygienic but to each his own right he likes it and you don't.
Marriage is about understand right swing things from each others point of view and making sacrifices and compromises, your refusal to do such acts font means you love him less, but its just not something you feel you should be doing, my advice for you is to let him now how these request make you feel and how uncomfortable you are with it, let you know you still love him nonetheless and your open to intimacy in other ways, let him know marriage is about communication also so speak to him try to make him understand.
Thanks
Ur husband truly has strange demands, if it were me I will say hell no. But it depends on how far u want to please ur husband
The man is in love and disgusting all at the same time. #GrossBehaviour
Yuck
2 me is irritating!but cins ur husband like it u've 2 learn ao 2 cope madam.as i said is Irritatin 2 me ev my boo said he like it i ave no choice o once i love him!
Okay,,everyone with his or her deranged fantasies,, despite the fact that you never paid close attention to this flaws while u were courting for marriage,, not arguably assuming your position but just saying you might have been eager to get married as u paid more attention to his LOMANTIC gestures and his undeniable good looks that you may have forgotten the things that really mattered,, but then again,, we can never really know the extent of one's sexual fantasy if u never consummated your love while dating due to your good-girl status,, which I think is good,, but then again,, you should have paid more attention,, someone can only hide their mysteries for as long as u play dumb to their tune,, but a solution to sought this out will be having a dialogue but if you do believe he's one to get angry when u talk about how it makes u feel when he demands stuffs like that,, then don't say anything but suggest in the sweetest way,, probably after one of his delirious conquest and you can almost feel his inner euphoria having satisfied his fantasies,, then suggest therapy,, ,or tell him right there how it makes u feel,, sometimes a dialogue goes a long way in setting things straight,, dont act mad or show disgust in your description of how it makes u feel,, keep a smiling face while u present your case,, he obviously needs concise hands suited for his situation, as opposed to what u want, ladies always feel objectively subsidized towards pleasing THe man,,if you are independent,, you'll not falter on your way to set this lil show straight,, but from your text,, you sound obviously like one who got married out of "falling head over heels for his charm, or money, or a taste of the good life with a man that happens to have it all". Probably written a page worth of advice,, but really miss,, you should consider being your own kind of woman,, act like a woman, think like a man.. Adios
I don't believe ur husband's demands are too much or weird. He has given u reasons for such requests. Just bear with him n accept him for who he is. Afterall, u love him for all the other tins he does to u. Pls don't push him out
Tips:for early morning kisses
Brush before going to bed to avoid dat smelly mouth its not weird its love uhm
Fuck!your hubbie fucking disgusting!wtf?!
Thought u said u loved him dearly?
My dear its good to express urself and all....
They also say a problem shared is half solved.
My darling... they also say silence is golden and sths are better left unsaid.
This happens to be one of them. No one needs to know this.
What advise are you expecting?
Ask him why he likes it and tell him how you feel abt it na. Sigh!
P.S Can we really explain why we like the things we like?
Weirdo
Ive seen d one dat said I shud pee on him. Nna leave matter for mathias.
Don't expose his secret biko nu
My man does exactly the same thing but the pouring of saliva is not part but the kissing with unbrushed mouths in the morning is his best I also felt uncomfortable @ first but I have gotten used to it. To tell you what it's love simple.but since you are not try to talk to him about it and encourage him to brush before you kiss but don't let him feel you are irritated with or or disgusted just let him understand you are not feeling it
My man does exactly the same thing but the pouring of saliva is not part but the kissing with unbrushed mouths in the morning is his best I also felt uncomfortable @ first but I have gotten used to it. To tell you what it's love simple.but since you are not try to talk to him about it and encourage him to brush before you kiss but don't let him feel you are irritated with or or disgusted just let him understand you are not feeling it
God wouldn't ve given u such an amazing husband u ve u married him Wats d big deal fuck him kiss me put spit in his mouth from ur mouth suck him cough in his eyes u knew dis before u married him I know it might be difficult but buy mouth spray and spray in his mouth and it's in d mornings d mouth or smell won't taste dat bad anymore OK love
Lol...for better and for worse
HahahahahahahahahahHa.....I no fit laugh.
Keep making him see reasons y u don't like it but don't be too hard on him ok jst keep telling him u don't like it ng give him time to Change
You don marry animal be dat naa. Get him to brush his teeth before you go to bed. He has to know that dental decay increases the likelihood of heart valve disease. Common mouth nyamanyama can cause heart failure. maybe that will strike some fear and sense into him
Lmao,God really created human beings of diff kinds,notin to say tho
Sister....your hubby needs a psychologist or sex therapist.
No it doesn't. Do not displease urself
There is compromise even in the midst of love. You guys should talk it through and he should realize that if he truly loves you, he should also accommodate your supposed weakness.
Ya'll must be white...TF!
His Fetish! We all have ours...
Gross. Already feel like puking.
Inyanma tinz.
Your husband is a weirdo.
Choi! Wen u started to list his good qualities I almost swooned with want for such a man! Buh I can't do such with any man! Spit! Ah!
I'll only say this: you've got a VERY romantic guy
My dear, u are lucky to have someone who love u d way u are okay. If u don't want ur mouth to taste sour or have odor, then pls always brush ur mouth before u go to bed at nite with a good toothpaste. For giving him chewed food : he likes it n is normal with so guys. Saliva, I don't know.
Ur husband demands re very irritating n disgusting buh if U can learn to do them just to please him, fine
Ubanagum
I had once had one handsome, tall, muscular, well mannered guy. He did similar things. He would ask me to wee in his mouth, shit on his chest, early morning kiss. . . so many other unimaginable things. When I decline, he assumes I don't love him and that maybe I have another guy. It was so weird. I was very uncomfortable too.
As for the first one,u can help by ensuring you both brush ur teeth b4 goin 2 bed,dz can help reduce d odour and also using a good toothpaste. As per the second one,talk him into understanding dt u re not comfortable wf it,dt it irritates yu nd shld consider him in his decision-making process . But if he stl doesn't get it,u jst ve 2 try giving it 2 him d way he wants so as 2 save ur marriage nd keep ur man all 2 ursef without having 2 share him wf anoda woman cos he can simply go find it sumwhre else. Ur inability 2 gv him minor things lyk dz can make him 2 go get it sumwhre else.
Nsogbu uwa some ppl are not loved while some are loved but don't like their partners behavior lol
Tales by moonlight nonsense
It does help build intimacy, please do it with him, there's nothing wrong there.. Thank God he's not asking for anal s*x from you sef..
Madam, I know its weird to you, but since ita huge fun to him, learn to love it.. and like he said, you're the only person he can do these things with..
Except you want to send him outside oo..
Kissing without brushing is fun, just endeavor you guys brush together last thing before going to bed, so your mouth n still be fresh in the morning.
As pertaining to eating and him wanting you to give him what you've chewed, its the height of love ooo, do it.. Spit nko, give am.. His demands aren't out of place.. It shows his love and playful nature.. Do anything within ur power, that doesn't offend God to treasure ur marriage.. All d best..
It's his way of accepting you completely. We are not held back by what we receive, but rather what we are not extending . It's a simple expression of love in a language he understands. How deep is your love for him. Take your time and express yourself with your man. How Deep is your love for him?
My sista,he is ur husband agree 2 wit him,u re lucky he tells u all dat,abeg satisfy him ooo,b4 some1 else snatch him away...
It does help build intimacy, please do it with him, there's nothing wrong there.. Thank God he's not asking for anal s*x from you sef..
Madam, I know its weird to you, but since ita huge fun to him, learn to love it.. and like he said, you're the only person he can do these things with..
Except you want to send him outside oo..
Kissing without brushing is fun, just endeavor you guys brush together last thing before going to bed, so your mouth n still be fresh in the morning.
As pertaining to eating and him wanting you to give him what you've chewed, its the height of love ooo, do it.. Spit nko, give am.. His demands aren't out of place.. It shows his love and playful nature.. Do anything within ur power, that doesn't offend God to treasure ur marriage.. All d best..
Madam what is your problem???
I think if truely he is the dearest thing you have ever had, then these your complaints are best sorted out in the privacy of your bedroom than bringing it out to this blog. Thanks.
My sister I belive he loves u deeply dats y pls kindly say it politely
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Ohhh my goodness***fanning myself about to pass out***.lol
Women!... neva satisfied wt wat dia husbands do intimately... Mehn, first tym I'm hearing a Nigerian man as romantic as ds woman's husband... madam pls get used to his demands.. Remember if he stops showing how much he loves U, U'd start running helter-skelter, lukin for one pastor or close relative to report him to... Ma dear.. wise up!
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Your Dear hubby is one funky guy.. I can understand d part about kissing without brushing..d saliver one is totally gross..
You are so lucky to have such a romantic man as a husband. There are a million and one girls outside there who would kill to get your type of man. I once had a girl friend who would tell me to pour the water in my mouth into her mouth. She does all sorts of weird things which are not far from what you just described. The thing is she was madly in love with me.
Your husband looooooooves you very much, better learn to reciprocate. You can start by accepting the fact that he is crazily in love with you, with time you should get used to it.
Dear mrs ur husband love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuu,so many women are out there praying for such.
Is that all? Wish that was the problem we all had.first problem brush your teeth before bed and make sure he does too and put mints in the drawers beside ur bed. Second question is no issue couples do that.you even do it with ur babies.
YUCK! Nasty dude hehehe
Well its gross I have to agree with it but you have to sit him down so he understands you are disgusted by these things....he will understand if he truly loves you
You are probably the luckiest woman in the world if the whole story you ve told are real and true...pls oblige him jaree...i think he's one of best around
Am waiting to read peoples comment cox i dont knw what to say.
#Hajia Mufliat#
Woman! You ain't serious yet.
good enough, u said whenever u managed to do either of those things, that he ends up having an erection, dat is d key thing. you are his wife and those stuffs from you turns him ON, so dear friend, i know its hard buh keep doing it for him>. if you can give him all the weird things he wants from you, i dont think he will have any reason to seek for it outside.
And again about the early morning kiss, u guys can be brushing ur mouth last thing in the night, when u wake up in the morning, ur breath will still be fresh.
goodluck girl
that is the crazy things people do when they are in love. i think you should learn t reciprocate. as long as it is your hubby you re doing it with. good luck
You should have dated him before marrying him. This is what you would have noticed before u say i DO!!!
u no get problem, mtchew
Keep ur man with what u hv#he luvs dat,just do it
I'd love to have someone like that. I pray
Aww your husband is a true romantic but with a few weird fetishes. I'd be happy to do all. Except the morning kiss unless he agrees to suck my asshole then no wahala
My dear,embrace it,he's being totally open,comfortable and honest with you,when myself and my hubby make love in the wee hours of the morning,he doesn't kiss me cos I haven't brushed and I find it awkward,love making without kissing cos I haven't brushed,who cares,both of u are way passed that,i admire ur husband and there's nothing weird in his demands
Wow, while I was reading it, I was Jst laughing kos dis is xctaly wat my boi frnd does and demands most of d tym, I use to feel he is weired, buh nw I knw am Nt alone on dis one, bae I now knw u re Nt weired, lov u so much........linda biko post my comment, thnk u
Heeee ooo! Lawd is this love again??? Na wa o! Babe try to brush every night b4 u go to bed,make it a religion and compel him to do same.as for the others,no idea o but I cnt deal abeg...
Yh... All these things really go a long way!
RUN FOR UR LIFE.
IRANO ABACHA
he is sick ... those things are odd and sucks. that isn't building intimacy.
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