Actress Moji Olaiya says she quit her marriage because her husband was physically abusive. She opened in an interview published on
Vanguard today. Excerpts below...
"I have no regret leaving my marriage but I regret not being under a
man’s roof. It is not respectable in this part of the world. But I try
to comport myself even as a divorced woman and as a typical Yoruba woman
and to avoid scandal. I have a daughter to protect and cater for.
What was the cause of your failed marriage?
The marriage was not working so I had to quit. My partner went as far as
abusing me so I had to leave to protect myself and my daughter.
You mean domestic violence?
Yes, domestic violence is just the right word.
Any man in the picture at present?
I am in a relationship but I am yet to be legally separated from my husband
101 comments:
That's bad
Smart woman, don't ever stay with a man that beats you
Good thing she's wise and brave enough to remove her daughter from a toxic environment
Hmmmm, Pele Dear.. Next Time Employ Onyx as Bodyguard and your Husband go Melooo...
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Ok...
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Never hit a woman/lady...even with a flower!!
That's what all of them say when they can't keep their home together, don't always blame domestic violence when u can't keep a man, old mama
In another relationship?
Why can't women stay by themselves
U never recover from one..u don enter another
Chanel all your energy and take care of your kids madam
I know u deserve love...but let ur kids be ur priority for now
Good luck
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Hmm ok
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Mind you, majority of women are now using domestic violence as a reason for quitting their marriages. Some are not just compatible with their spouse and vice versa
That's why courtship is good.. At least you will know each other behaviors.
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I pray for rightful partner nd u tooo Linda.. God bless we ladiess oooo
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Hhmmnn. May God help us all. Marriage issues these days
Marriage is also about endurance. Don't be quick to leave.
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Okay o
it is well
U are yet to be seperated legally? Abi ur still in love wit him and ur hoping he will change so dat u can go back to him?
Ok nau. Na u sabi.
May God heal u dear. A man always has a choice BTW hitting a woman and walking out of the house. Am jus SMH at those women in the National Assembly who cant push to enact a law against DV.
Sorry dear!!! Lord help me not to beat my husband when I meet him nd also help him not to beat me too.... #say No to all forms of violence weda domestic or internaltional#
But mark it that a woman or man that is divorced and still went ahead to remarry wen the other partner is still very much alive is going to hell straight forward, take it or leave it
O, fine women. Why is there so much domestic violence?
Please our dear men/husbands, learn to respect women and not beat them to make a statement. It is not right.
Hmmmmmm, no comment. Am married and knows the Koko. I pray the 2 of u work things out bcos of ur daughter.
O, fine women. Why is there so much domestic violence?
Its always easy to use the physical abuse excuse....in as much as I hate men that beat women, I just think this ladies should also take responsibility too for a failed marriage.... One big question is WHY ON EARTH THE HE ABUSE YOU ????... If una like make una crucify me...I no send...
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Things like this will only happen to all this long throat ladies that marries for the money and not the love.... She is looking fresh though and her melons are highly killing me here no doubt....
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Shame unto a man who domestically abuses his partner.
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Do what ever rocks your boat.
Go girl!!!!
You did the right thing
No woman deserves domestic violence
#saynotodomesticviolence
hmmn u sure say na only domestic violence?? is he nt seein anoda woman? incomplete story
She is announcing to d world abt home violence in her home, when she was enjoying it no body knew.
Hw true r her words...?
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Hmmm, she shuda handle it better, anyway, am nt part of domestic violence too, njoy urself moji
Okay, sorry oo, keep living though
Okay, sorry oo, keep living though
So if every women say bcos of her reason of leaving her home does d same dat means there wil b no need to stay married.
Marriage is tolerance and patience.
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don't people notice the trace of violence before they say i do? it just makes me wonder
Ok we don hear next pls
Eiyah. Its good she left. U did d right thing.
hmmmm...
I never I won't ever support domestic violence ....its an abuse to women and we all must stand up against it...
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I wonder hw some men feel wen dey hit their wife......
She's an Ediot......#Gmooore'sTaLk
All dis yoruba actress dat can not keep their home's.
Serving different master's.
Hummm thats serious, u are nt lagally seperated from ur husband and u are in relationship already.
I don't believe her.
Her words r too good to b true.
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It is well
See her wit her fake smiles and fake big boobs...Lolzzzzzzzz.
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Chai! Nne sorry
Domestic violence is very bad. No man or woman should engage in such.
no mind am jor linda,all these women won fuck around abeg
I'm scared of marriage
Hmmm...I always knew from the onset, she never seem happy. Domestic violence is bad and evil.
i hear you ma
MOJI! MOJI! what exactly led to domestic violence o?
linda forget all these women jor,them wanna fuck around so it always difficult for them to keep mariage
Thank God u left!
Hmmm
It's well Moji in as much as single,seperated and divorced women aren't respected in this part of the world hold your head up high you have a child to care for and I tell you all will be well
Some men are cowards nd useless, they wnt fight their fellow men but wud want to beat their wife, shameless men
Ok. heard
God'l help u
Better she left jare....just hate men dat abuse women
I don't advise any woman to stay in an abusive marriage. Your life is more valuable .
Lol... God help us oh
Only actresses with domestic violence as reasons to quit there marriages.Another reason pls.
May d gd Lord see her through.
I really applaud for taking the bold step to leave your husband due to DV. You made the right decision for you and your daughter anybody that condemns you will not understand the effect DV has on women lives and children. So my dear, keep your head high because it takes great courage for a woman to leave her husband mostly in our country without being chastised for doing so. So keep trying your best and stay positive always know that the safety of you and your daughter is top priority
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Then set up a foundation to fight against it. #saynotoviolence
I hope you two get back in peace again. If you believe, God is able to heal your marriage. Enough of this western 'divorce and remarry' disease.
Hmmm you're not legally separated and already in another relationship?...but women dey try o I wonder how they feel when several men have washed their plate
#Omoh
Na wa oh! Glad she's out abeg, ain't worth it
too bad
My dear if u like court 4 20year b4 marriage it doesn't guarantee knwing 50percent of ur partners character
No time to waste time
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U r yet to come out of one relationship and u r already in another one. Dis new one does not seem new to me. In as much as I hate domestic violence, it shouldn't be used as an excuse for infidelity. So many story for d gods by ladies these days. Rubbish!
Can you still preach endurance to those dead and in the grave? If you can't yhen do us all a favour and shut up! You should be speaking against domestic violence and battery but instead you're looking for who will endure it, really?!!
no respect for woman beaters, absolutely none
He stilll fucks her
its real i thank god that you leave on time
Marriage is sweet nd thr is also a bitter part, a lot of pipo want only d sweet part nd dats not possible to av,wen d bitter part comes they lack understanding nd discernment,understandin matters, knowin ur partner in nd out, lovin dat person is what kips u goin, cos wen u fall out of love, nothin else can kip u goin. one must really be prayerful, careful b4 enterin into d institution. May God help Us.
She said...
Marriage is not an easy constitution.
May God help us allll
John ekpei. ...so u prefer she remain sober and die with loneliness until her ex decides to grant her divorce e..kwa? See u weh never dey infidel b4. she has every right to do what ever pleases her.....in as long as she nd her ex are publically no longer married.
You are on point. They always always blame the man on domestic violence, when it's so obvious that no man can tolerate their dirty behaviors. Ashewo oniranu osi.
You are very stupid. Its obvious you are a woman beater. Oloshi.
Domestic violence she said hummmmm! Women can be defensive sha&u already in a relationship that's d confusing part.are u sure she quit be cos of dv?wetin be my own Abeggyyy carry ur cross
Story that touches the heart,anyway women should also watch their mouth wen speaking or reacting to their husband.When a man is angry a woman is meant to pet him not also get angry.Anyway best of luck in ur new relationships but remember d devil u know is better dan d angel u don't know
its so sad to read about the things some women endure in their marriages.
hmm. this vangaurd people i dont trust them jare. they can lie for africa!!!
Why don't you men use your heads & also respect yourselves? Must you say such language to a woman? It's very obvious you're one of the men who hit women! Linda better look for a way to block people like you from this media!
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