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Thursday, 21 November 2013

Nigerian transgender claims she was jailed in Nigeria for being trans

Nigerian model and singer Miss saHHara (pictured above - who was born male) claimed in an article yesterday to mark the Transgender Day of Remembrance that she was harassed and jailed in Nigeria for being a transgender and even attempted suicide but is now proud and free.

Miss SaHHara writes...
I am standing in front of the mirror looking at my reflection. Tears of joy trickle down my rouged cheek before going on stage.
I am in tears because I just can’t believe how realistic my dreams have become. I am a woman! Living my life freely. Accepted and respected for my achievements as a model and a performer.

My fellow transgendered sisters and brothers paved this way for me. They fought for acceptance, understanding and respect. Some died while fighting for what they believed in and others fell before their time due to hate, rejection and society’s unfairness. Every single story gave me strength to fight on and never to give up.

I wish I could tell the younger me who tried to commit suicide twice that life gets better and dreams come true.

I did not imagine life could be this amazing many years ago after being released from a horrid Nigerian prison for being different. Then all I could think was I could die in this prison and no one will know or care.

Being imprisoned felt justifiable, considering I was being punished for being ‘gay’ – something they assumed due to my feminine features and mannerisms.

 

I wasn’t gay, I am a woman born differently due to natural defects. What I felt did not match my outward appearance, Being assigned male at birth doesn’t make me a man or a woman, nobody was born a man or a women, you develop into your preferred gender as you grow up. For me that gender was female. I was born male but my brain, gestures, features and carriage functioned as female.

Growing up and not knowing what was happening to my body made me confused and lost. I couldn’t discuss it with my family because my femininity was frowned on due to religion and I could not talk to my friends because they would not understand what I was going through. I found solace in music and dreams.

I dreamt of being free to be myself, free of insults, free of judgment and free from harassments.

That freedom came when I moved to the United Kingdom, finding girls like me gave me hope of not being alone in my journey of self-discovery.

I found out what I went through growing up in Nigeria was quite common with transgendered people. Having freedom, acceptance and knowledge are the key most important elements to a successful transition.

Knowing I am not alone in my struggles helped me to reevaluate my views on life and how I should go about my transition wisely. I researched my transition and reconciled the conflicting emotions involved in the process of accepting myself as the woman I am.

It is a lonely world during transition, as your body changes so do your emotions, which leads the mind into the darkest path in life. If the chemicals are not professionally controlled, you can feel suicidal due to rejection from loved ones and society.

In life perfection doesn’t existent, but for me having the freedom to be my true self feels almost perfect. As a black transgendered woman I am faced with many daily challenges such as transphobia, a complicated love life, poor career prospects and racism. But when I remember my life history, these challenges become water under the bridge.

That is why I will always remember those who built this foundation for freedom and knowledge. Also those who never got the chance to enjoy the acceptance we have achieved so far.

Transgender Day of Remembrance today (20 November) is particularly import to me because I have lost close friends to suicide and have seen many more wishing to commit suicide as a final fix to their gender dilemma and rejection by society.

The media is silent on the subject of transphobia and the effects it has on young transgendered people of today, because they don’t see transgendered people as ‘normal’ members of our community.

Remembering my fallen friends helps me to keep their memories alive. It also encourages me to carry on the fight to be respected, understood and accepted for whom I am.

I dream of a world where we are given some sort of understanding and tolerance to live peacefully as able, intelligent fellow human beings who make positive contributions to society.

Transgendered people are human too. We are your brothers, your sisters, your children, your friends and your lovers. Stop the hate!

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Anonymous said...

God continue to protect us men!

Anonymous said...

IDIOT!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm touching!! So thankful

↭PRINCE JOBLESS↭ said...

Nigeria is the type of country that can jail someone for being ugly.

Anonymous said...

let fashola catch you

Anonymous said...

what the heck??? God that made you a male is a fool abi??? Hell awaits you. If you were to go to heaven, when you get there and God sees you as a female and he planned a space for you as a male, DOOMED thou art
















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BONARIO NNAGS said...

Where was she jailed,Kirikiri or Kuje.
They always sound alike,something they do to gain international sympathy and maybe move abroad.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Dewunmi said...

yaaaaayyyyy,first to comment. na wah o

Anonymous said...

Oponu,oniranu, a lailero ara galatia!

Anonymous said...

can she furnish us with more info on the State and Police station she was jailed, the year and the Court that sentenced her to jail?

Anonymous said...

Honestly, this is disgusting....... **smh**

Anonymous said...

Blatant lie from hell I knew clifford very well in Benue State University , every one knew he was gay and he was never victimized for that infact he was popular in school for organizing beauty pageants .. Clifford left Nigeria a free man and has never been jailed for being gay.. After a long time I bumped into him in the UK looking like a super pretty woman infact it was he that recognized me first .. Two truths Sahara was never jailed and She is very preety as a woman and it make U think yeah I think this one was born to be a woman .. I am happy clifford has found joy

Mich said...

LGBT!

Ammy said...

She is more sexy Dan Karen.

Unknown said...

I'm s#ort of words; Lord k"ows better.

Anonymous said...

I have never heard of people growing into their gender. My dear I don't know how you jumped to that amazing conclusion but I can tell you, you are born either male or female. Doesn't mean there aren't mix ups along the way sha.

Anonymous said...

N I was almost crying

Unknown said...

Speechless!

Unknown said...

*sighs* Things dey happen sha.......

Alicia says... said...

Its been specifically proven that gender and sex don't always coincide with one another. You can have a female brain with a male body and vice versa. Before the educated illiterates comes in her spewing their religious jargon.

That's one ugly female tho lol

sam said...

Ehmmmmm...
Good for her...
As long as she is comfi in her skin...#tor
Who am i to judge...
Pope Frances sef no judge ....
Jesus sef no judge...
#mindofafreeman,...

Fammie said...

Hw did they work on d Vjay area to be that perfect, abi dem pad am ni *Puzzled*
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Anonymous said...

Abeg abeg tell her to go and sleep,God was stupid to create you abi!!Free from your stupidity abi..idiot

Anonymous said...

This thing is such a liar.Nobody knows who the fuck u are dumb ass.
And u say u were imprisoned in Naija? You jst needed to tell a pitiful story I get. Bastard.

Anonymous said...

she looks like she still got a dick..cos d bikini pic shows sumin s swollen under her panties.Neway we are happy u are happy. Goodluck and Godbless

Sapphire said...

You are not a woman if you are not mestruating . Rubbish

Anonymous said...

Imprisoned??? Who knows you. Idiot

Unknown said...

Issokay

OMG!WOMAN said...

i doubt

Unknown said...

who cares if you like turn your self to chimpa your cup of garri#linda tomorrow is my birthday show some love.

Unknown said...

Eyahhh,anyway tnk God 4 ur life,@least u ar out of d so call prison,dats nig 4 u,buh cum 2 tink of it,its nt everione dat can c it on ur own point of view,just some pple blives dat transgender ar human....

jaybeyblu said...

My heart goes out to these misunderstood souls out there. Can't be easy being judged and sometimes killed for something u have no control over. This world be deep! And I ain't one to judge esp things and situations I don't understand

Anonymous said...

Its OK darling live ur lifé nt every one wld undstd

Anonymous said...

My dear u still luk lik man.see muscles n ur legs ar urgly in female heels. U would av been a fyn guy

Anonymous said...

Ah this is Clifford nau. Benue state university student some years back.. niqqa now has more curves than me. life is just a pot of beans yo!

Anonymous said...

ksnkksnks

Unknown said...

I'm sure dis is derogatory bt I cnt help bt refer 2 transgender pple as HeShe, anyway I still believe in live n let live so God b with u. I heard dat its d low level of testosterone dat causes a man to feel lyk a woman n low level of oestrogen dat makes a woman believe she's a man. I don't know 4 sure bt once again 'live n let live' Nigerians.

Anonymous said...

i pity you.. well is your life flex. but just know every decision a man makes he accounts for it some day

Genevieve's sex tape leaked too bad

Cute G said...

And this is supposed to be a motivational speech?Prophecies fulfilled indeed!

BEN said...

I'm very sure this is Oynxx Godwin's best article of the century! Gay'ass Mofo!

Anonymous said...

All ı c ıs a man who felt the ALMIGHTY was wrong 4 creatın hım a man n not a woman...honestly,wordz faıl me,The world z ındeed comın 2 an end.. He(she) aınt lookın berra,stıll got legz lyka mahn + she nhad pweedıe!.God elp us oll! #Mz_NenyeH

Mr Speaker said...

Noted.

Anonymous said...

you shd thankGod that u are out from prison. u are suppose to remain in prison for all the days of ur life.

Unknown said...

NONSENCE AND SO WHAT GOD WILL JUDGE U SHA

Anonymous said...

you dey madt!

Anonymous said...

Whatever floats your boat, you alone decides who you are and what you want to become. Man/woman make choices be it wrong or right and God allows those choices because he gave us free will.

Unknown said...

Surprisingly!!shes stuning

Anonymous said...

This epistle and the wrong words sha....

Back to the matter, I see nothing in accepting this people sha... So far they are comfortable in their skin.

donnyperry said...

'He' is a mad transgendered woman.Full of bullshit.

Anonymous said...

hmmm so na guy be dis b4? na wa ooo either way come back to Nigeria, and we're still gonna jail your gay ass.

APPLELIPX said...

TOUCHING!!!!

AND SOME PPLE BE LIKE "END TIME TINX"

WE R QUITE CIVILIZED IN DA OPOSITE WAY IN DIS PART OF D WORLD

D BIBLE DINT SAY ANYTHING ABT TRANs.... BEING A SIN

LET'S LEARN TO ACCEPT AND APPRECIATE PPLE D WAY THEY ARE

THIS HOWEVER; DOESN'T JUSTIFY BEING GAY IN ANY WAY

Anonymous said...

yeah right! Just ask 'former' school mates at Benue State Uni and they will tell you that this chap was a rampant transgender guy who prefers the company of women and acted like a man. Ask any of his boarding school mates about his behaviour in the shower room and they will tell you that he refused to change in front of his fellow boys because he was too shamed to do so! Anyway,I must emphasise that these are only stories that I have heard, I have never set eyes on him but that said, he does look better than most Nigerian women!

Anonymous said...

Like seriously? This fucking people are just so damn crazy.
Wtf?? see what this naughty nigerian lady uploaded on twitter+18.

Anonymous said...

If she was so afraid, how come she is wearing a tag showing 'Nigeria'? I just wish our people would learn to stop all that nonsense of tarnishing Nigeria's bad name for their own purposes

Anonymous said...

This person (bcoz I can't classify u under any gender) is on some really cheap drugs. WTF *huh*confused face*

Anonymous said...

Wowwww he/she is hotter dan most girls born as a woman

Linda's Fan said...

Dear Linda/LIBers,
Wetin come happen to the pennis wey God give this human being? How dem do am? Abeg una I need answer.

Anonymous said...

WTF!!!! Omo na only oluwa know how you were looking as a man, woman fit you die. Haterz can hate o,but just carry dey go nuffink do you!!!!

Ijjoy said...

she looks beautiful. Kudos girl and live ur life.

Anonymous said...

First to comment! lolzzzz. Seriously!! He got his penis removed?

Anonymous said...

Wow! this hot body was once masculine??? Amazing!

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm, she looks like a woman more dan most grls I know.

And sexy tooo.
Don't hate, am grl and straight. Lol

Anyways, I believe she was born with both male n female features, she chose the one she is more comfy with.
Good luck.

Elanneka.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm, she looks like a woman more dan most grls I know.

And sexy tooo.
Don't hate, am grl and straight. Lol

Anyways, I believe she was born with both male n female features, she chose the one she is more comfy with.
Good luck.

Elanneka.

Anonymous said...

My nem. Mr julius
kutoka
dar eslam tanzania

naigeria mna watoto wazuri saaana mko juuu. vibayaa. Tuna wpata kwauuzuri kabisa.

Anonymous said...

Be reasonable wen u comment,as u can c she is nt gay nd its nt her fault she is d way she is,it will only take a retard brain to insult her, make ona de do lil ppl wey go sch somtims abeg, stop hating and pretendin asif u dnt sin,ona own na to judge bt only God knws wat mani fellow LIBers do behind closed door and de wil com out to insult karen n evryoda ppl who dnt wronmg dem, I wonder hw u guys feel wen u insult ppl who dnt knw u or u have nvr seen bfor,u read tins on papers n u start talkin lik somone crazy,linda pls post and let naija peeps av an open mind for once,dis is y we r backward,3rd world country

Anonymous said...

What will people not say to get attention and british citizenship?

Anonymous said...

Thank God in Igbo land, u ask questions , trace someone's origin before you marry the person. Imagine getting married to a follow man parading as a woman. Na wah.

Anonymous said...

Werk!!! she looks good:)

Anonymous said...

Hmmm,dis is so tourching ,wish pple cud understand dat transgender pple are different from Gay,dey wr born wit born sexes organs

Anonymous said...

I have never seen anyone strut the catwalk better than Sahara, and I am even talking about when he was a guy - Clifford way back in BSU! I remember way back then people would actually rush to the windows disrupting lectures just to glimpse of him walking by with his hip hugging jeans.

Anonymous said...

Good for her. Fine babe....

Lady Stelusy said...

Good for her, she made a wise decision.

ejikebiggerdick said...

As in, seriously....he or she must be high on cheap drugs.....
Those legs looks more turgid nd muscled like that of Karen Igho's type.
I wonder if men nyash u or u nyash men.
Or u nyash women or women nyash u?

ejikebiggerdick said...

Wetin dis one dey talk? U smoke?

Anonymous said...

Lol wen d juju didn't work well d baby was female and d mother wanted male and here is d result!

Anonymous said...

Iftosay linda writes in igbo u for understand wetin she write?...
*the cook*

Anonymous said...

Has he cut off his genitalia? Hmm, people are born male or female, they don't grow into a gender. However, transgenders,gays, etc should not be stigmatised just as we advocate for other conditions. It's a psychological condition. I don't know about 'his story' but some of them were abused as children. Anyone who attended OAU in the late 90s would remember Sisi Dapo - he was sodomised by a male family friend several times as a child.

Anonymous said...

As in more a woman than karen will ever look like

Anonymous said...

Anon 12:09: Please be reminded that the issues we should be discussing here should be the LEGITIMACY of her story that she was jailed in Naija for being Gay! My question is when and which court was she prosecuted and how long was she jailed n in which prison. Cos all i see is SOMEONE who's trying to create attention for her/him self to the detriment of our country Nigeria. Whatever sexual gender or preference anyone chooses is his or her own biz, but noone should blackmail our country for attention seeking purpose.
-Da Councillor

Anonymous said...

She made d right decision.. N stop judgi pple u don't knw

snr makaveli said...

I feel 4 u dear#tears in ma mind fam+non is perfect fam.......

Anonymous said...

Gorgeous! You better weeeerkkkk honnaaayyyy!!!! *snaps*. She looks like Karen Igho in the 3rd pic. Let the #endtimetinz comments and insults begin. LMAO!

Anonymous said...

If I were born wif both male nd female *stuff*, I'll rather go for d male, cus a male can always get married, no matter the disability, unlike d females.

Anonymous said...

Kolo mental! Na wa o, only God kows who d parents might hav offended 2 be blessed with such a child. Parents hav 2 be vigilant wit who ur kids hang wit n wot dey watch. Dis Cable TV has started givin pple anyhow ideas

donnyperry said...

'He' is a mad woman.Nothing wey person no go see.Linda,abeg post my comments.

Anonymous said...

English pls

Anonymous said...

HMMM...IT is pretty. i'm curious though, where do the penis and balls go? and is there a pussy to replace the penis and balls

Anonymous said...

She is fine and hotter den sum gals I know

Anonymous said...

She is beautiful! Don't hate what you don't understand, tolerance is key. She is at least honest and open. How many of us are? Stay fierce

chinny said...

Hmmm I understand the emotional pain she felt during her transition,the rejection,insult,hate and the list goes on but thank God she has finally come to terms with her personality.Nigeria is still mentally backwards that's why people here might find her story funny or something to ridicule but it aint ok.may God continue to be with her as she still unfolds her being.judge not.

Anonymous said...

Crioxli d world is soo deep#

Anonymous said...

I agree wit u!!! But ur English tho *sigh*

Anonymous said...

is it just me or can everybody c the resemblance between this person and Mabel Makun (Ay's Wife) especially in the second picture.

Unknown said...

Issokay

Anonymous said...

Stories like this break me because truelly,we didn't create ourselves...Am happy she's finally free and has got her self confidence bak..
Anon 12:09pm ''A Retard Brain''? English hard sha










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JOYCHY said...

She looks more of a FemAle than a Male.....Good u are happy now...

Anonymous said...

If Gays are not mentally ill ( scientists found no link between the teo) then at least transgenders are. "No one was born male or female" now that's so laughable. The other time a 5-year-old boy was dressed up as a girl because he was supposedly "trans". So stupid, one among these three: gay/Lesbian, transgenderism, bisexuality, has to be a mental illness, seriously! #No Hate, Just Truth#

Anonymous said...

Abeg just shut it. He said it himself that she was born male. He termed it 'natural defects' bcause he didn't want 2 be male. I'm all for doing what makes u happy but be truthful to yourself in the process. He said he wasn't gay..he never mentioned anything about his sexual orientation so lemme not speculate. He should just be truthful 2 himself. He wasn't born with any defects, he just ddnt like being male n he did something about it. Same way you celebs n rich people don't like the excess fat in their bodies n or they small boobs n they do something about it.

Unknown said...

Tnk God she's free now..

MY TURN said...

Meeeeeeeeeeeeen!!!things are happening o

Unknown said...

Reading her story is really inspirational b'cos it aint easy n this our riduculous police that wud not fight crimes but lock pple for flimsy reasons arrested her, I am happy she has peace now

Lola said...

I don't get,z she female or male who had surgeries(breast implant & had d d**k removed) I'm totally lost here,or she's an amaphrodite? Wat she jailed for doing guys or gals? If she's male & calls herself a woman,doz she menstruate also? Wat doz she mean by being assigned male @birth bt a woman? Lol,wat a joke.

Chris said...

She looks better and more feminine than attention seeking Karen Igho! Good luck to her

Anonymous said...

I used to knw her in nigeria, at the time she was male. We attended same church, he sings really well. I must confess, I avoided him too, for that i feel bad. He went to BSU and started running a modeling agency. He actually thot gals how to model. There was this time cultists caught him and beat d crap outta him and stripped him to see his penis. Guess Oche clifford is gone. And a beautiful woman came out. I must confess, she went through a lot! I used to wonder how she handled it. Thank God u didn't commit suicide, cos its a coward's way out. Wish u luck!

Anonymous said...

I know this person quite well. His name was Samuel Elendu. He also went to Igbobi College Yaba, set '99. Times have truly changed.

Anonymous said...

A prettyface she's got thou but those thighs n legs,arrggggg
*ajokeade*

Anonymous said...

what does it take us to love & accept each other just the way we are. Pls if u dnt appreciate the fact she is alive & healthy then dnt hate her for no just course. Wish u d very best

Chi said...

Ta! Go sidon jare. You no read Bible at1 Corinthians 6:9, 10: “Don’t you realize that this is not the way to live? Unjust people who don’t care about God will not be joining in his kingdom. Those who use and abuse each other, use and abuse sex, use and abuse the earth and everything in it, don’t qualify as citizens in God’s kingdom.”

Bonita Bislam said...

Hmm I feel 4dis girl.LInda u did wel by postin it

Anonymous said...

I hope Karen igho can see this picture. The fake breast are even better than her own.

Anonymous said...

Be educated! Some are born woman and don't menstrate nor have womb and some two womb.

Anonymous said...

Oll ı see ıs a man who was dısapoınted ın hıs sex n blame d ALMIGHTY 4 beıng a male n nt a female!..awkward!.Honestly,wordz faıl me.The world z ındeed comıng 2 an end! #Mz_NenyeH

Igor said...

True talk Bona.Furthermore,I still pray that we Nigerians and Africans in general. Will continue to relegate LGBT's cases into the bin where It truly deserves to be

jbankzE said...

If God cum now belive mi Nigerianz wil all go 2 Hell. Y'all judge pple mean while u sin more dan dem.if a Pesin decide 2 b Gay,Les or Trans,is btw d pesin nd his or her God on d last day.99.9% of galz in naija r lesbianz or Bi,79.9% of boiz r gayz so y do we pretend?we al ve a frd,sista,broda,classmate or aunt datz into t. If sumbodi wantz 2 b Trans let dem b,is nt ur place 2 judge. Imagine dem force u eat fufu wen na beanz de hungry u,shebi na vex u go tak eat m? #letz luv LGT #let dem live. If una lik mk una curse mi bt I don pass ma inform. Stupid 1620 peepz na em de naija

Anonymous said...

Dayum that is one beautiful tranny! Nothing about her is manly o. Pretty face, banging body, gaddamn!

FabMandy said...

I know this guy very well, We leaved streets apart! His brother act same. He is Idoma by tribe and from Benue state! He has never been jailed NEVER!!!! Liar

Anonymous said...

You Sabi lie o. See Clifford here you are giving him a new name again. Btw,Karen Igho should be checked too!

Anonymous said...

NaWAoo is she a he or she,'NO ONE WAS BORN BOY OR GIRL'that a big lie if u re born with a dick u re a boy,if with toto u re a girl, if u re born with both hmm (confuse) chose one that u re more conform with. she was jailed in nigeria that a big fat lie. {xconnect}

Anonymous said...

NaWAoo is she a he or she,'NO ONE WAS BORN BOY OR GIRL'that a big lie if u re born with a dick u re a boy,if with toto u re a girl, if u re born with both hmm (confuse) chose one that u re more conform with. she was jailed in nigeria that a big fat lie. {xconnect}

Jade said...

Oche from Benue state university! Were u jailed? Really?lol, indeed.

Unknown said...

I really feel 4 her.

Anonymous said...

Abeg look again dis dude is a Benue and was named Clifford

Anonymous said...

Whether you write dont judge sorry peeps i am judging biblically it is wrong quranically it is wrong why would you try to change yourself i dont understand if God wanted transgender he would have created adam then change to eve then adam again so i believe all these are satanic things and madam pls post my comment thanks

Anonymous said...

Pls,people dat knws him or her,was der breast on her or his chest,just asking cos d story surprised me.# Matic#

Anonymous said...

Look again .. Dude is a Benue chap that was named Clifford before the change

Anonymous said...

Y do people lie too much'dat no one is born male or female dt we chose our sex.some are born with double sex organ dt I acEpt buh dnt tel me no one is born male or female. Anyway,yu just a confused bein seekin for attention. God wil forgive yu jt thank God that dt yu did nt end up lik the one in my area dts is mad now in the stret wen he went and cut off his manhood jt to b a girl bcos e is handsome

JERRIE said...

THIS IDIO SHOULD TELL US WHERE IT IS SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN THAT YOU GROW INTO YOUR GENDER. ALL I SEE IS A GENDER CONFUSED IDIOT WHO WENT TO THE UK TO SEEK ASSYLUM TELLING LIES ABOUT HIS COUNTRY OF BIRTH TO GET ACCEPTED.

Anonymous said...

Accept d fact dat she's a beauty...

Anonymous said...

The Bikini Pix is really eeeeeeeew.
Transgender or not, she still got the yam legs and masculine hands.
This really is the end time.

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ejikebiggerdick said...

With ur fore head like eraser....u wuld ave rotten in jail

Anonymous said...

first, he was never jailed, since he did the transgender stuff he/she has never come back home, haba, he was in my school, same department and all, a year behind tho, couldn't graduate and took off to the UK, did his thing, lied to them over there and got a permanent stay...and ofcourse we are kinda in touch..lols

Anonymous said...

LOOKS LIKE ISABELLA AYUK NO OFFENSE.

Unknown said...

LWKMD. Very True

Anonymous said...

If you have a male child who likes to wear dresses and make up, chances are he's gay. I see gay people in the same way as anorexics, looking in the mirror and seeing somehing different, it stems from a lot of low self-esteem and depression. Whatever the case, no one is without sin and no sin is greater than another. As long as they dont affect your life in any way, let them be and let God be the judge

Anonymous said...

I remember watching Ladyboys last year and she a runner-up in a tranny contest in Thailand. Lol things.
If the story of being imprisoned is not true then she must have made it up to seek refuge in the UK. Regardless, Nigeria does have a prison sentence for gay men I doubt that would accept trans. No judgement sha, all man to their own. Like Jesus said "He who is without sin should cast the first stone".

Anonymous said...

I'm a Christian and a devout Catholic so my view may not please most of you but I must give my opinion and must uphold the doctrines of the faith. The Church maintains that
people may not change what Pope Benedict (Emeritus) XVI has called
“their very essence.” In a speech at the Vatican last December,
Pope Benedict directly addressed transgender issues by
cautioning Catholics about “destroying the very essence of the
human creature through manipulating their God-given gender to
suit their sexual choices.” Pope Benedict warned that “when
freedom to be creative becomes the freedom to create oneself,
then necessarily the Maker himself is denied and ultimately man
too is stripped of his dignity as a creature of God.” Attempting to change the sexual appearance of one’s body
because of one “feelings" is like trying to make a square circle.
Better to go with what God has already created. Even when a
person goes through all the operations and plastic surgery, one’s
DNA remains what one was born with. Besides not being
honest, such attempts constitute sins of mutilation of the body.
Certainly, such feelings are a cross. But when one recognizes
them as such, one can offer them to the Lord as a response for
His sacrifices for us and they become acts of great love.
To understand this, one must recognize how loving God is and
how our very existence is all about Him.

Mimi Atedze said...

Clifford Oche,hmmm this guy was my school mate in Benue state university ,he is idoma,lol,yea he use to behave like a girl,he traveled out next we heard he is married to a guy,he was still a guy,after some time we heard he was killed by his gay lover,yes that was the end of the clifford we know,then our friends brought up pictures we didnt believe ,he transformed to a babe,i was the first that blogged about clifford,i received insults,curses,threats and all that.the truth is Clifford was ok the way he is,he doesnt have any right to complain about how God made him,the friends he left in makurdi still behave like girls but are accepted.Please Clifford shut up.
Thanks Linda ive shared it and directed people to your blog.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for your comment. One thing you all should understand is that some of them don't Just choose to be gay. As a medical student I learnt that sometimes someone can be born male but the brain develops like that of a female and so the person feels like he/she is trapped in the wrong body (gender identity disorder). I'm happy he's free now :)

The fashion whisperer…

Anonymous said...

some say na Samuel! some say na Clifford. who we go believ?? biko leave the sahara HeShe creature alone. I cant shout ohh!

Anonymous said...

First to comment! lolzzzz. Seriously!! He got his penis removed?

Anonymous said...

STOP with the hate. No need preaching when your heart is filled with hate. Be accepting of others and mind your business.

Anonymous said...

Karen na trans na!na man wey do implants

Anonymous said...

Tarnish? You dare say tarnish? You're the one tarnishing Nigerians with your hate. Do you know how many transgendered people there are in the world? Your level of intelligence is shocking. Take your computer and throw it away, you dont need to use it anymore and go sit in the corner until you learn to talk maturely.

Anonymous said...

End times

Anonymous said...

what makes u female or male is ur xx or xy genes. So ms(mr) sahara, that u have the outward appearance doesnt make u female(xx) neither does it give u a pair of ovaries and a womb. You still have all ur internal male organs. So my dear ur feminism is just skin deep, deep down u are xy male. *ogo*

Anonymous said...

Google.com.
Educate yourself.
Dont wait for others to give you answers, do the research on your own. The square screen in front of you with a keyboard, yes that one, use it. It works like magic!!!

Anonymous said...

Jokes on you Lola for sounding like a you know what. Educate yourself please!!!

diamond said...

Still luks like a dude. Mtcheeew

Unknown said...

Hey dont disrespect the medical profession. Gender identity disorder is a psychiatric dissorder, if he was born a hermaphrodite then I can understand that as he grew up he/she went with the dominant sex

Rubberband said...

Liar

Anonymous said...

all ds talk of transgender spok me. outryt disgusting is hw I see it

Anonymous said...

lol....naija I like una!everyone knows him now ba?ok na m e sef I know am.Karen igho na oche brother.mimi

Professional jobseeker said...

Truth be told,formerly he now she can't have done his transgender surgery in Nigeria because there are no facilities that can successfully complete it. (Maybe some would be able to start and not finish the procedure. Mehn!!! That would have be so awkward.............) so i doubt him been arrested for been transgender.

*Goes back to editing CV to upload on Insidify.com

Anonymous said...

Looks exactly like a tranny. and that's what it is.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmm..am soo speechless..all these comments got me thinking...u don't say God made u the way u are..if the dude felt he wasn't comfortable with being a guy.its his ryt to change it..so u guys wanna tell me that God made imbeciles,blind,deaf and all those pple with one defect to be just like that??that if a dwarf has a chance to be taller than he is he shuldnt accept it cos he was born to be dwarf?? Or a blind man shuld not boda abt getting bk his sight cos God made him blind from birth?? That's bullshit..and y'all knw it..

Unknown said...

Oche Clifford, u were never jailed in Nigeria for any reason, stop lying. But please repent. This is just disgustting. Na wa o!

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm but she still looks like a he to me ooo... Only God will judge though.....

Alicia says... said...

*scientifically.

Anonymous said...

what happen to the penis now?

Anonymous said...

Lolz, Clifford was never jailed in Nigeria, He attend Benue state University and was into tutoring Models, He has always being n was sleeping with one of the male lecturers, Somehow he met a white man who he married and divorced, it was the marriage settlements he used for his surgery. Being a female suits him, he looks hot! But at the End God is the final Judge.

true said...

U fucking gay

Anonymous said...

Lmao!!!!

awie said...

*stones u dictionary*

Anonymous said...

LIE!!!!

Anonymous said...

LIE!!!!

Anonymous said...

Why did he/she have to lie. Soooo, she hid under the guise of seeking asylum to go abroad. Sister, abeg hide yourself before your lies find you out. Nobody jailed you. Well, you have given me a line: I'll seek asylum becoming transgender, however, when I get there, I'll change after one year.

Mazi said...

It's a big pity to hear deserve sad stories, I am more perplexed that sm pple are supporting him, if God in His Infiniteness made u a man and u decide to turn ur self to a woman, ur invariably saying that He dat made u didn't know y He made u, I pity u cos u hv sold ur self to the devil, xcept u make a turn and in all seriousness ask God to have mercy on u, u r headed for destruction without mercy

Anonymous said...

Buhahahaha! I'm rolling all over the floor with laughter. Yes true

Anonymous said...

Choi! Ignorance full this your comment.

Anonymous said...

Miss sahara why are you attacking her na

Anonymous said...

He was my close friend back in the days in Abj. My mum liked him so much cos he was different and she would blast me and my other friends for always joking about his girlish reflexes. I never knew he would change into a woman finally.

Unknown said...

80% of people commenting and saying shit like ehn u can av female body and male brain are too stupid with t he fake science they are bringing if this theory is real then i can say one can be a man and have the brain of goat brain of goat to and extent of eating in gutter,etc lets face it God created us and but identification in us male female when we young when we old etc when u see a toddler u knw,when u see an old being u know...when u see a dead person u knw...to an extent of when a spirit passed beside you u can will feel it..so why will one gay wake up and tell us we dont know our gender its as simple as saying there is nothn like gender..(well i guess the scientist fabricate d lies for he-she)almost eryone supporting this guy are into something of such na their type u go leave ur younger sister or brother to wey dem go dey finger her or play with her dick since there is no gay o lesbian partner to mess around with..i know loads of females and males that behaves like opposite sex but they wonnt practice the gat thing with opposite sex cos their parent has made it clear to them that it is a sin and they just abstain and they are living happy without commitn that sin of same gender sex..as for this guybabe he should kiss ass ok ? am not God but i know the quran and bible says everything God created are all in good..so u get black lips u do pink lips u are 4kd u carry tattoo put body u are 4kd dont you get it if God wanted us to have tattoo bliv me as dem dey born us you go dey see mad fine tattoos what God wants in us he created them with us....anyway all this Gays wey dey always support stuffs like dis we know una..

Anonymous said...

Abeg na where im prick. Abi e don remove am?

TheChocolateBarr. said...

Lolzzzz... Dunno why but this just got me lmao...

Anonymous said...

I soooo feel u. This dude probly watched too much oyibo movies....his words look like they are straight outta some foreign movie script. Smh for all em lost souls that think God is some guy dat fools around in a science lab. He don't make mistakes, men. And he never will.

Anonymous said...

And you are educated? When were u taught at school dat people were assigned genders @ birth but grow into some other gender??? U just say educate urself to feel among The Educated. Hope ur education takes you to heaven.

Anonymous said...

Jesus is Lord

Anonymous said...

Jailed in which prison? Tell lies o. Abi you rape small boy for farm when im mama nor dey house na im make dem put you for jail? Just being inquisitive- How were you able to raise cash for breast surgery, etc? Once again, which prison? Under what circumstance? Do tell!

Anonymous said...

Jailed in which prison? Tell lies o. Abi you rape small boy for farm when im mama nor dey house na im make dem put you for jail? Just being inquisitive- How were you able to raise cash for breast surgery, etc? Once again, which prison? Under what circumstance? Do tell!

Anonymous said...

This female brain, male body theory---- International Union of Women Empowerment, have you agreed?

kaychi said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

Lord plz have mercy. Man has mocked in so many ways.

Rough Diamond said...

Tank u anon 3:59

Rough Diamond said...

On point!

Rough Diamond said...

Stupid talk!

Lisa said...

Still looks like a man!!!!!

Anonymous said...

This whosoever sha me sef I knw am I'm name be Jeffery wey go ibadan secondary sch

Anonymous said...

All those of una commenters wen dey jand, for una mind o.... una eye open well well. Nor be una we dey see wen we come visit or buy things?!!! Una wan pose another thing wen una nor be. Na una we dey see wen we travel abeg.

Anonymous said...

Actually d guy iis trying to say that God made a mistake which btw is impossible. He also is gay and God hates sexual immorality. Anyway let God judge

Anonymous said...

Her legs still looks like men's. She is still a man to be...euish!

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Homosexuality and its ramified manifestations as lesbianism, bisexuality, and transgenderism, LGBT for short, is the newest religion in town...
It is also a movement not just to overawe traditional morality, but pointedly, albeit subtly, mock the Scriptures and undermine the Christian faith established on it...
And you know what, masked in sly subtlety, the gay folks are brazen about their intent....
They are manipulative, and tell lies blatantly in a gambit of emotional blackmail...
That is what this unfortunate thing, who yanked off his manhood to become a woman, who in the course of his transition gulped tons of female hormones to become a woman, who underwent expensive reconstructive surgeries to become a woman, has gone about doing...telling lies against the country of his birth...
Just to gain asylum?
More than that...lies and manipulation are part of the structure of being or ontology of gay-hood...
It is also their weapon for winning sympathy and ever new converts...
LGBT are as subtle as their father, the devil, who's the god of lies!!!
Interestingly, the now Miss Sahara's lines are not new at all...
It is just a rehash of LGBT's usual manipulative story meant to blackmail and open up space for more converts, closeted and open, who in turn will parrot the same line in time...
My hope is that Nigeria will remain an impregnable bastion of sanity...
LGBT is not welcomed in this climes!!!!!!!!
They are at liberty to migrate to the West, where they've already taken over as the future; where they are celebrated like royalty...
No matter what, darkness can never overthrow light...
What nonsense!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ur father's inner room he locked u up in is now prison. Ewu who know you fao naija...bloody gay!

Anonymous said...

I feel so sorry for the he\she. i dont know whether to call him\her an hermaphrodite but she has not found happiness nothing. frustration will soon set in and its obvious this is taking advantage of the craziness of the western world on the fight for human rights for gays, transgenders, bi-sexuals and even the ones they call queer. queer! its there ask anyone who works in an NGO especially on gender equality they are the ones advocating for this right from the pit of hell. Very soon they will start advocating for bestiality. These are the last days indeed

Anonymous said...

God cannot be mocked

Anonymous said...

Transgender rubish, gud u carry urself go country meant for akebaje's lyk u infact it shows ur upbringin ws terrible

Anonymous said...

Thunder fire you there> Ewu!!

Unknown said...

The only reason hes claiming to have been imprisoned in he's house so as to be able to stay in the UK . He claimed to be representing Nigeria in a beauty competition.

If he was jailed what year was it , he has done a boob job he says he needs money for surgery for he's penis to be a Virginia so he say the real reason rather than all this cork and bull crap

Anonymous said...

Rubbish analysis @fashion whisperer. Are u suggesting that God made a mistake? Which trapped in the wrong body are u ranting? Abeg stop encouraging crap in the name of science. Smh

Anonymous said...

Abeg if u wan do bad tin, dnt find reason to justify it. He loves been a woman rather man, so dnt say trans whatever caused it joor, just tell God why did u make me man n boldly tell Him u wnt female n do d tin, all these anti Christ fulfillers, make dem try.

Unknown said...

Empathy, love and understanding are all we can give to maneuver through the maze of confusion of the belief of those who tell us of the accident of their creation, which in itself seeks to threaten the foundation of our faith and conviction. But an overriding injunction that we must love our neighbors as ourselves still stand, especially when that injunction did not define the looks and characters of those neighbors. Our prayers will always go a long way to change that erring neighbor.

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