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Friday 4 October 2013

Dear LIB readers: I'm addicted to sex toys, is that a bad thing?

From a female LIB reader...
I'm in my late twenties and I am addicted to sex toys. An ex-boyfriend introduced me to the toys about three years ago and ever since my life hasn't been the same. The toys do to me what no man can ever do no matter how much they try. Ladies, you haven't known true joy until you use some of these toys. And because of how addicted I am to them, I don't crave a man's touch any longer and haven't had a boyfriend in over a year now. But because of pressure from a dear friend of mine to give men a chance, I decided to have a fling with a co-worker last week and after a disappointing attempt at love making, I've decided to stick with my toys and only have sex with a man for procreation. Are there any ladies out there with me on this?

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Unknown said...

First to comment again, it sure is

Anonymous said...

Is good

Gbabe said...

Well said , I don't depend on a man to satisfy me sexually too, becos most times they are not up to the task, except for companionship and drinking together.

Anonymous said...

it depends on your perspective > adsense approval here

Anonymous said...

Oh whao!!so strange!!!

Anonymous said...

na wa o > adsense approval here

Anonymous said...

speechless > adsense approval here

Anonymous said...

offcourse yes > adsense approval here

Anonymous said...

no > adsense approval here

Anonymous said...

I don't think so> adsense approval here

Nikapetrelli said...

Deliverance tins for u

Unknown said...

good luck being a machine.

but I think and know, that it's human nature to want to feel loved.

lol. if your machines do that for you, goooood for you. :-)

Aphrodite said...

Lol! I knw whatchu mean dearie, u prolly use em often nd got addicted fast, d best way to Handle Toys is to use em wen u dnt av an option, I bring out my Toys only wen my Man/Gurl is nt available! Nd u enjoy dem cos u get to control d pace at which u go! But Nuffin nd I mean nuffin beats a Lovers touch, u nid to stay off em Toys 4 a while girl.

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

The trouble with trouble is that it starts as fun, that's how addictions stick unto us, I don't expect it to be easy to let go though, except you wanna live without a man, you have to find a way to kill your interest for the toys, I am not sure you can get into a serious relationship or get marriage with not being connected to your man sexually.

Anonymous said...

Yeeeeeeee!! Awon men ti daran O!

Anonymous said...

Ha!!! Oga ooo!!

Unknown said...

good luck being a machine.

but I think and know, that it's human nature to want to feel loved.

lol. if your machines do that for you, goooood for you. :-)

Anonymous said...

Sister of life, you are not alone, I am here with u, sex toys are d bomb, no pregnancy, no STDs and HIV, you just stick and relax********, ahhhhhh wat a feeling.
Mz Blacky

Anonymous said...

You are completely finished. You already have a sexual disorder. You need to see a therapist. Desist from this shameful act.

Anonymous said...

Are you a machine? If you are continue

Anonymous said...

Intervention of God is needed in ur life, sex toy ke? Bring it out and burn it now, my guy bought it for me and I dumb him just because I dnt like it, once u accept it ur name is Sorry.

Prof Wole Sonyinka is a cultis! said...

I'm not a female but I think you need to treat this addiction like drug addiction why? It's not healthy even if you only want to make love with a man for children you'll find it difficult coz in other to procrate you need a relaxed mind. Not to mention if you eventually marry you won't find it easy with your guy and it may lead to divorce i.e if you eventually marry o!

Anonymous said...

Noooooooooooooo

Unknown said...

hw does this change asuu intention bulshit

Anonymous said...

Ode give ur life 2 christ. In ur late twenties u shud be married n raising children not playing with sex toys.

Anonymous said...

Dearie, lemme start by saying pre marital sex is sinful and so is the use of sex toys. God hates masturbation, Ave been there nd back but all I can tell u is to cry to ur maker and u can read books such as NO MORE SHEETS by Juanita Bynum. I pray that God will really help u in Jesus name.

Unknown said...

u hv a problem ,a big one

Anonymous said...

Beyotch!!

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmm!!! No be small tin oooo

Anonymous said...

Its a dangerous addiction. !!!!!! Most men just don't know how to make love...

Unknown said...

u be a problem that can't be solved

Anonymous said...

I'm not with you on this one oooo!

Anonymous said...

It's a bad thing ma dear...Infact u are killing urself gradually.God created Adam and Eve,not Adam and toy.So u better have a re-think.

Anonymous said...

R sex toys dat gud? Hmmmmmm....thinkin

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Gehn Gehn!!!!

Anonymous said...

Bet this is Linda's confession; posing as a reader's contribution

Anonymous said...

No dear you're very Alone in this and i think you're actually sick..You Prefer a Toy over a real man's touch? Girl you need to see a shrink Asap! I just can't.............









PRETTY GIRL

Anonymous said...

Demons has taking over your life, go scoan for deliverance like Jim....?

Anonymous said...

My dear its not gud. Give another guy a tryer

sdk's first lady said...

Hmmm,mature,imtelligent and experienced LIB readers,whr u all @? As for me sex toys r cool if u wantu remain single

Anonymous said...

abeg na you sabi O... U hv ur lyf to live

ipele temitope said...

u are crazy dats all

Unknown said...

You are sick in the HEAD! But u jst don't knw it yet, too bad! A shame and a sham!

Anonymous said...

Linda, why do you always like to post stories like this one?

Anonymous said...

There r somtins not worth trying or getting into for any reason cos the consequences are dire nd dis is one of dem. The 1st time I came in contact wit a dildo nd I felt it vibrate wit my hands, I dropped it quicky nd I told my friends dat if som1 eva uses dis wit d way it was vibrating, dey wuld neva enjoy sex wit any man nd by wat av just read, av been proved right. Its mostly recommended for women who r married but their husbands r neva dere for dem nd they r sexually frustrated so dat dey don't go out to commit adultery. Its also for couples to play wit nd help dem improve their sexual pleasures and lastly for pple who are not confident of demselves sexually to help dem improve. I don't even know wat advice to give you my dear but u av tasted d forbidden fruit nd u will av to bear wateva consequence it holds for u but I wuld neva substitute a man's hands, tongue, lips nd d*** for a toy. I pray I neva get to d level where I wuld resort to using sex toys. Its very tempting but not somtin am willing to try out even for d fun of it.

Egyro

Unknown said...

happy married life to the toy...its all about love...you love ur toy, it loves you too...shekina

Ameriestyle said...

Ugggggg...smh
www.ameriestyle.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Errr.... u nid help nd prayers

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha....bad girl....u r on ur own o...nobdy is with u on dis....u need spirtual help....better go and meet TB joshua to delivery u frm dis mess....is not a good life....go get a life dear

Anonymous said...

na wa

Unknown said...

U ve nt met any romantic guy

ms k said...

You're sick....

Blackberry said...

Yea baby.. I'm with u, I got 2 dildos n a strap-on

Anonymous said...

How are you sure this electric foreplay (sex toy) does not cause cancer? Dear, if it does not cause cancer now, it will cause it later. Abeg, try to kill the addiction to sex toy. In fact, pray hard about it. Lindi babe, we they fight? How come you don't want to post my comment. Your picture with dbanj was cool, but still be careful. Celebrity marriage no work oh.

Anonymous said...

My name is Olaedo,u cnt be condemned but toys r not God's design for us,u need to get counselling.

Anonymous said...

At ur age wot u need is a husband and prolly kids. God created Adam n eve not toys and eve.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmm! Linda. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥Ơ̴̴̴͡k⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ na

Anonymous said...

Imagine the Idiot!!

BONARIO NNAGS said...

My dear many libers can relate to ur story,u not alone atall.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Anonymous said...

You're not normal my dear..u need deliverance and counseling..
And No I'm not with you on this..no matter what, those toys can't be compared to the natural method of God..
*Nita Briggs*

Anonymous said...

Tie ba e

Anonymous said...

Are you trying to advertise your sex toy product here?This is not a oyimbo blog o.our naija babes love the human toy than the plastic one.

The great punter said...

Seek help my dear you are slowly losing it

Anonymous said...

There is a hidden lesbian in you. Focus your energy on bringing her out. Any true woman who has tasted GQD (GREAT QUALITY DICK), knows that all this sex toy things no be the ultimate. And besides my dear poster, if you are straight then it only goes to show the kinda men you sleep with. Simple. Real talk

Unknown said...

This iz very very bad.she needs to be delivered asap.addicted to sex toys...are u kiddin me

Anonymous said...

Well, a sex toy can never give you STDs nor break your heart. It can't piss on your intelligence or fuck up your life.
On the other hand, a sex toy can never give you intimacy, communication nor possibility. It will give you pleasure, but not intimacy. And pleasure cloys. Intimacy is the wow factor that a living man brings.
If you want to risk wonder, surprise, beauty, pain and possibility, find a man. If you want none of that...and prefer an uncomplicated, self-absorbed, little-risk go at life, keep the sex toy.
It's really a matter of understanding yourself and making your choice, my dear. Neither a sex toy nor a man is inherently bad.

Mischievous said...

Linda, how many did you buy on your recent trip to the UK? Just curious.

Anonymous said...

OYO!!! So man no dey again? Na Toy??Go marry! U don Old! Chai! Devil dey Dance Skelewu for u head.

Anonymous said...

Sincerely I join this lady to say I enjoy sex myself too as in NO man can ever finger me to orgasm and I do that to myself and its heaven becos I honeslty DO NOT enjoy having a male Kini inside my Kini and with all this shakara from this useless guys Am on my own for now jare

frank dre said...

I think u ve. Gat nt just a psycological problem but also addition and emotinal truma.

Anonymous said...

I guess dis is linda's case

Anonymous said...

I think is wrong bcos u need a manly touch not atificial....lol

Unknown said...

nobody

Anonymous said...

u cannot compare a natural gift 4rm GOd to artificial toys. My dear u are damaging ur self if u continue to use electronic toys. Be4 u get to 30s u will see d changes in ur body system............

Anonymous said...

Am married ,anytime my Hubby make Luv to me... I must complete it with my vibrator toy. I luv my rappit vibrator... say no to pennis women

Anonymous said...

My dear dats a bad thing oooo. If u rili want to get married yhu hv to stop it nw or never...

Anonymous said...

sorry you need deliverance

Anonymous said...

My dear, you can use the toys with your man if he doesn't mind. It is a more wonderful experience that just using the toy.

Anonymous said...

Linda would know. Na her pastime be this.

Anonymous said...

You need to visit synagogue church of all nations fast fast before devil finish your life,secondly,i believe you an agant of satan trying to introduce immorality to readers here,pls go for deliverance

Anonymous said...

Go Girl!!!! FUCK MEN! They only give heart breaks

Anonymous said...

U are alone o. Repent.

Anonymous said...

Yea I know such things happen is swit if u have not try it but will all need a man in our life, my advice is that u need a man that understand your way of sex , even with toys u can till be happy wit him. Becos if he play with toys wit u is for the fun , but addicted won't take place there is a man. If u not carefull u turn to a lex *******

Charlze said...

What a question?
You should know na!!!!

Anonymous said...

God of Isaac, Moses and Abraham....Na dis one need d deliverance, dem come carry Jim Iyke put as film trick...U r alone on dis one ooooo

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm, as it is now, only God can save u. I actualy dcided not 2try dis toys cos I knew the implecation as much as I ws almost carried away with the pleasure which I was told. Just try hard to stay away 4sum tym

Anonymous said...

U need deliverance

Unknown said...

I reserve my comment cos dat co-worker of yours don fall ma hand...if to say he rub aboniki for em dick u for no com hear de yarn rubbish smh*NDI ALA*

Anonymous said...

U r a disgrace to womanhood

Anonymous said...

Did you hear yourself? Imagine asking folks to help you know if "marrying a husband" is bad?. The mere fact that you came to this forum to inquire if "it is right"? means that you already know in your mind that you are treading on a minefield in the name of "pleasure". Your sound conscience has revolted and you are looking for people to give credence to your actions so that you will deaden your conscience; i.e. like silence it. The evil one has stolen the desire you should have for your husband and that is the gift of God. Jesus can help you recover this stolen part of you and more and that is why you need to make him your Lord. Repent!

Anonymous said...

If you need me to give you thumbs up for being sexually perverse, sorry to disappoint you. I understand your fantasies but every addiction is bad. You've to break lose babe, because you're gonna drown if you don't.

Anonymous said...

No, no ladies out here wit U, Ure on your own

Anonymous said...

No dear, u are alone. U need Jesus Christ

Anonymous said...

This's linda ikeji tlkin. Pls u nid a husband no mata wat. Pls gt 1

jewel said...

Yes D̶̲̥̅̊έA̶̲̥̅̊я...ur not alone. To me, men are jst a necessary evil. If God had not commanded it...I'd hv jst stuck 2 myself

Anonymous said...

Put some of the toys u use let's see

Anonymous said...

Omo babe you dey on your own oh!!

Anonymous said...

Signs of end time everywhere. This is definitely an advertisement to sell more of these sex toys.

Anonymous said...

You are dying gradually !!!

Anonymous said...

You are dying gradually !!!

Anonymous said...

Lady..u r finished.com

ola said...

You are dying gradually !!!

Doncarta said...

babe, i think u're being unfair 2 men. U should lower ur xpectations so as not 2 b disappointed. P.S; the fact dat ur co-worker couldnt satisfy u doesnt mean dat no man can.

Unknown said...

1st,u seem really cool wit it,which is quite scary,sex toys are alternatives 2 masturbation,dependin on wat rocks ur boat,, I tink u shud stop 4 sum time,cos d toys wil bore u out anyway,!find a man or men,som1 out dere can satisfy ur needs,we hav some realy goood sex freaks,,u can't jst depend on toys 2 satisfy u till u die!! Rethink sister! *ONYX GODWIN*

Unknown said...

You need God in your life ohhhhh.

Unknown said...

My dear, u need God ohh

Anonymous said...

Hope dis not u L.I lol# anyways dats crazy whoever is it need renewing of her mind, imagine dere is so much to enjoy in guys dick dan sex toys#

Anonymous said...

U go old for thr o..ur late tweenties..u re stil asking us a foolish question

kidodo said...

Babe u need concealing and I hope those toys will b able to pregnant u.

Hajjo said...

Woman u have seen the light....welcome home to Nubia! Lol.

Anonymous said...

My dear is better you quit now bcos the harm it will cause you will be far greater than what you are looking at now.please stop and have feelings for nature. Sorry to say this that addiction is not ordinary you need a touch from strong man of God to be free from a strong man of God so that demon that causes that addiction.

Anonymous said...

My darling, i completely agree! Sex toys means fake orgasms and STIS are out of the window! Not that i fake orgasms anyway! If i aint feeling it, I aint faking it! Toys are the way to go if great orgasms are your thing! Only thing better is sharing the experience with another chic! Wink*

hash said...

Wat shit is dis babe?wise up nd stop dat f**'k

Anonymous said...

Dat ur boyfrend were dah hell is he,b4 him were u not avin massive sex without d toy, grow up or u become a lesbina

Anonymous said...

That's now a habbit for u.. So, if you keen on stopping it, u should work on urself and mindse... Sure, it would take a while before u can get over the obsession of sex toys... Gosh, don't even know how/why people like masturbation/sex toys cos it so irritate me

Anonymous said...

Please stop and go for deliverance it is not good. Bcos as it is now no man can satisfy you if not toy. Can't you see it is not normal. Also you don't expect man to defet toy bcos it is powered by electric. So my dear you better stop so that you will start now to think of how you will make you own home cos if you don't love your man and believe is only babies you will be making in that marriage definitely you will be out of that marriage sometime some day. Therefore you better stop for your own good. Ak

Anonymous said...

You'll soon bcum homo , na so e D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ take start wen U̶̲̥̅̊ no b wood!

Anonymous said...

You'll soon bcum homo , na so e D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ take start wen U̶̲̥̅̊ no b wood!

Dunni Magic said...

Speechless bbm *straight face*

GALORE said...

abeg continue with ur sex toys joor

what a good good feeling

Is better to do ur thing ur own way,,,,dan a Man to stick his Pee inside you

What ever rocks ur boat Darlingggggggg.

Oyaa...all d LIB HYPOCRITS,,,START RANTING.

@GALORE

Anonymous said...

please continue as na electric shock u dey find, u go soon get am..rubbish

Unknown said...

Dear reader, u have developed a psychological problem and it will get worse if u do not see a shrink ASAP.. No joke

GALORE said...

you blog visitors can condem......Haba

What if she was ''circumcized?...and she does nt enjoy sex

And you guys,,,if she ask u to suck her pussy and gv her foreplay,,,u will refuse

Abeg leave her....make she chop her life jarreee

GALORE said...

no be only ''lesbina''

Mumu dey ur head oo

GALORE said...

preach on

Anonymous said...

Na battery go finish ya salary. Mtcheeeewww!

Anonymous said...

Pls whia can I buy a sex toy, I need it so badly. The man I L♥√ε doesn't last up to 1 minute in bed. Abeg wia dem D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ sell am ?

Anonymous said...

U nid christ!

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

You never know where dey pain you. Mtcheww! Continue...

Anonymous said...

YOU NEED JESUS!!!!

Gentletee said...

You definetly need help cos you are going to get tired of it someday and I hope it will not be too late then. www.gentletee.blogspot.com

Loriye said...

My dear, enjoy your thing jareh! how many men can even make a woman climax.Let them be sitting there believing that they are doing something.Men, u better wake up, we are just there to chop your money and clean mouth, and collect pikin.Now who be the real maga.Gbagun

Anonymous said...

are u into women?

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

*get into marriage

Richie Rich said...

Am I missing something here? Linda, are you sure you are not using this opportunity to ask us about what is happening to you right now? You must really be addicted to toys since we have not seen you with a man

Doncarta said...

hahahaha. . .truth bro. Word!

Anonymous said...

if na me you meet you go shout, my rod is medium size but HE no dey fall hand. I can vouch and swear by my mother, after one round of earth shaking sex with me, you will do away with them vibrators.

pray say make u meet somebody like me, am engaged. DONT GIVE UP ON LOVE. GIVE IT A TRY AGAIN.

LOOK DOWN MY LADY, LOOK DOWN, that man that can fulfill ur dreams MAY be so close to u. stop looking up alone, its in ur shokoto stop going to sokoto. cheers.

Doncarta said...

hahahaha...word bro.,. Real talk!

Unknown said...

No wonder Linda doesn't post most of u pple's comment.De only fin u kno hw 2 do is 2 criticize others n una own dey una body oh ! shio ;;)

Anonymous said...

Stop misleading ppl. If u had u wulda knwn it's "rabbit" nd nt "rappit". Moreover, u're married, y shld women "say no to penis"

Anonymous said...

I get what u mean my dear! Sex toys drives me crazy! Wow! I love the feelings. Makes me cum like there's no tomorrow! Especially when prince charming and I use it together. Wow he is so great at using them on me.

anonymous said...

I'm married, Believe me marriage is not the ultimate, so if being single makes you happy then stick with it.Please do whatever gives you Joy but do it with God in ur heart.

Anonymous said...


Many of the comments here aint constructive except for a few.
We are all filled with filth and vices if not in one way then in another... and we all need help as much as this lady apparently does.... In my opinion girl, some toy could never take the place of a real man... never ever.. maybe u need special kind of help. cheers.

Anonymous said...

Is just that most of this ladies have not actually meet a real man like me that have real and strong manhood.

Anonymous said...

Pls stop talking like n illiterate fool, acting all holy, mtchew

Anonymous said...

Ugly bitch, y insult her wen she is only asking for opinion , u r sick for been ugly

Anonymous said...

Na Poi!!!!!..........See as I dey pray make you nor see husband wey marry you!! Because the man go just waste all him time and energy!!!......Kuku stick to your toys, na as you lay your bed you go sleep put o!! - Lapalapa

Anonymous said...

As u big reach,u still dey do 1st to comment. Very shameful

Anonymous said...

It's alright, it's your prerogative. Meanwhile, I hope your are grooming your sex toy well for it's future role as your husband, since you have lost virtually any feeling for men?

Anonymous said...

Is something wrong with you? I am sure yu are perfect even more than JESUS

Anonymous said...

Hahahahahahah,ur comments r hilarious.anyhw sha most men Hv absolutely no idea hw 2 pls a woman,bt den again sme r real gud.deary whteva rocks ur wrld its ur lyf.linda post my comment 4 pete's sake

Anonymous said...

It amazes me when I heard people celebrating a serious sexual dysfunctional behaviour in the name modernization and civilization. Girl, the fact that you find the touch of the opposite sex repulsive may likely set you on the path of divorce when you eventually get married. Turn to Christ and let Him set u free from this self-imposed slavery. And to those of you who are encouraging this,...I'll say it is hightime we stopped excusing modernization as a subterfuge for every evil and objectionable behaviour

Anonymous said...

It amazes me when I heard people celebrating a serious sexual dysfunctional behaviour in the name of modernization and civilization. Girl, the fact that you find the touch of the opposite sex repulsive may likely set you on the path of divorce when you eventually get married. Turn to Christ and let Him set u free from this self-imposed slavery. And to those of you who are encouraging this,...I'll say it is hightime we stopped excusing modernization as a subterfuge for every evil and objectionable behaviour.

Anonymous said...

Sex toys don't pay rent, school fees, neither do sex toys have responsibilities. It is your cross, please carry it alone.

Anonymous said...

I dont have any advice for you ooo,i pray some days some one would get sloan ointment and put it on the had of the dido so u wont even know..so u will be bless in a triple way after you through with your shit...I dont pity you this are one of the things u end up with when coping bad things.

Anonymous said...

@loriye your life is just like a rotten tomatoes and egg

Anonymous said...

Without asking God for help, the devil will only give her more reasons to feel what she is doing is d right thing. Only Jesus can save U ask him for help

Anonymous said...

U r both psychologically and spiritually challenged. Im sure u nid theraphy cos u sound like a nymphomaniac. secondly most girls with issues like urs are been tormented by spiritual husbands. Jst accept u nid help nd ul get it. I hv a frnd wif similar challenge. God rocks

Unknown said...

anything that is not natural is a hi way to death so my dear face reality if u,re not okay with men u,re dead u need JESUS in ur life.coming close to GOD will bring peace back to ur life tnx

Anonymous said...

Spirit husband things. Linda can you hear.

Anonymous said...

Well babes I thinks its a thing of choice, if it makes u happy why not. I do toys a lot but with my fiancee cos he believes is sensual n I love them.

Anonymous said...

And hu cares anywaY...huh...!?

Anonymous said...

Babe I dey cry for u

Anonymous said...

Odè, nd how is Wole Soyinka a cultist?

Anonymous said...

U never jam man wey sabi,that's why,come make I try

Anonymous said...

Linda, haha why you no just ask us for help.. i know you use all this toy so no need to use style write us for ere

M-amie Hazard innit? said...

I think there are evil spirits behind unusual things like this.
If you put your heart to it, you can do away with the sex toys n embrace a meaningful life.
I must remind you - u aren't getting any younger.

Anonymous said...

OMG!!!! I was just askin myself d same question yesterday....its actually ma 3 attempt on vibrations n I went 2 straight hours with multiply orgasm....rly no man can give dat 2 me...max is 2 on very special occassion. But menh seriously pleasing 1's self is d way 4wd....am not rly into penetration too.

aHKMe said...

see d ladies feeling like on top of d tree as if na all of them sabi 4k. As if men don't have their own toys too! imagine how d ladies here will crucify a guy for using flesh light or a silcon female sex doll, instead of having sex with a real woman. After all, d female doll is always ready, morning, afternoon or night, it never complains of headache or not being in the mood, it never menstruates, can't get pregnant, won't give u STDs, never nags nor wants affection nor luv in return, never asks u for money, never cares to have an orgasm or cuddle after sex, never complains if u want to watch soccer, drink beer or bring home another doll. Yet u cannot (ever) compare electical/mechanical toys to the real thing (dick, pussy, boobs, mouth, tongue, etc). So have a rethink girl.

#To whom brain is given, sense is required#

aHKMe said...

see d ladies feeling on top of d tree as if na all of them sabi 4k. As if men don't have their own toys too! imagine how d ladies here will crucify a guy for using flesh light or a silcon female sex doll, instead of having sex with a real woman. After all, d female doll is always ready, morning, afternoon or night, it never complains of headache or not being in the mood, it never menstruates, can't get pregnant, won't give u STDs, never nags nor wants affection nor luv in return, never asks u for money, never cares to have an orgasm or cuddle after sex, never complains if u want to watch soccer, drink beer or bring home another doll. Yet u cannot (ever) compare electical/mechanical toys to the real thing (dick, pussy, boobs, mouth, tongue, etc). So have a rethink girl.

#To whom brain is given, sense is required#

Anonymous said...

LOOOOOOOL These comments doe!! you people kill me

Anonymous said...

LOOOOOOOL These comments doe!! you people kill me

Anonymous said...

You need a man that can learn to use your toy on you, as well as plessure you... Ladi

Anonymous said...

I think some people are DOG.

Anonymous said...

No matter how last a man on a woman some will still not satisfied man don't kill yourself u cannot satisfy an insatiable woman

Anonymous said...

U nid help deAr. GOD bless you

Anonymous said...

God bless u.....thought so to

Anonymous said...

God bless u....thought so too

Anonymous said...

Problem with that is, the toy will always do better than the man... (as man no fit change battery!)... then women start to sneak to use it alone... and eventually still get hooked.

Anonymous said...

This is Linda speaking alright. The 'fling with co-worker' line is meant to ward off any suspicion.

Anonymous said...

@co worker's issue. its possible you raised your expectations to high (lining up his performance to your vibrator's), and considering the fact that it was the 1st time with you, he must have been overtly excited and came quickly. sometimes great sexual pleasures takes time, communication, understanding and patience, which you are short of because you have become accustomed to toys. you need to change your mindset about men and open your mind to a positive relationship dear.

danny boy said...

Wht do you get for ist to comment

danny boy said...

U have not met the right guy. when u r into a guy it becomes magical

detective chammy said...

snif! sniff!! sniffi!!! sniffing something here. looks like someone is telling us her problem here. Linda...... this is just my own opinion o

Anonymous said...

Hmmm...stil can't see ma sef...so u enjoy sex wif toy rather dan a man....u r on ur own...u better stop or....tongue iz out...

Anonymous said...

i need that ish too because my man lasts like 3 to 5mins in bed, he is so bad in bed, same 5mins routine all over again, if u try to do somethin new with him ,he may start complaining...i know where they sell it. nt just confident enough to buy it.

Anonymous said...

Holy holy holy macroni!..I jst dnt knw hw sm ppl crave for sex dz days..ehmmmn why not aswell get a dog or a monkey dat'll do u well too wen ur partner aint around jeeez!as a girl sha u shud learn hw to control yrslf biko kwanu sm of dz sex toys av after effects dangerous ones,both psychologically nd wat av u..@ didi

SIMPLYCOCK said...

All you assholes hitting on women for embracing sex toys, shut the fuck up!
Women have the inalienable right to experience and enjoy the full potential of their sexuality..
And the guyz are fucked, fixated on ejaculating in a jiffy...
Can't keep their erection for even 5 minutes!
The cursed among them are even baring their anuses to be fucked by men as themselves!
Shame!
If we lose our women to the damn efficient toys, the vibrators, dildos, Sybians, etc, the fault is ours..
Not theirs!!

Anonymous said...

Wat a feeling! She-id**t, was that wat your mum was addicted to be4 she begat u. F**l
Go and ask ur mum?
~Fabians

Unknown said...

I think you've said it yourself...you have an addiction. Lovemaking with a partner is hit and miss, especially for women, as it's harder for you to achieve an orgasm. You use a Rabbit or similar and you get instant gratification. Soon, that's all your doing and probably overdoing, to the point that you even forget how to have a normal orgasm without it.
To each there own of course, so i won't exactly call it a bad thing, but to state the obvious, lovemaking is called that for a reason. As hard as it may be, and the same with all addictions, you may have to go cold turkey. Finding a guaranteed orgasm generating partner is not easy to near impossible, so the alternative will be to find one open minded enough to let you use the rabbit to take you there, if he can't do it, without freaking out.

Anonymous said...

you sure say no be linda ikeji be the chic?

Anonymous said...

throw those toys away they r truely addictive! lol...in london i visit soho and they have the best toys...plus attendants in the shops give me loads of advice on different ways to stimulate a man with the toys and mints, cocoa cola...n stuff like that hahaha ...so glad im anon.

i love sex but i couldnt do toys all day they can feature in my sexual time

Anonymous said...

sister u need Jesus. in the first place a mans p***s wasn't made to be vibrating and since you don't have any feelings towards men, you'll neither have feelings towards your child when u do have one. that said you become what you use, a MACHINE. moreover sex is meant for both parties, what you want your man to do to/for you, tell him how to touch you and lets see if you'll not crave for more.

Anonymous said...

Go to www.zeevirtualmedia.com

Anonymous said...

gal i think u nid SANZU i swear u forget about toy hahahahahaha

Anonymous said...

You're the most confused psycho-bitch ever liveth! Shoutout to your being lonely forever. Okponu

Godstime maurice said...

you are love frustrated

Anonymous said...

Anything in excess, aint gud. Moderation dear. Toys dnt cuddle nor spank ur butt......some perks to men. Set boundaries to help curb ur addiction.

Anonymous said...


She-id**t Hahahahahaha
hahahhahahahahahaahaha funny u! I almost fell off d bed#lolz# as in like seriously she needs help/deliverance tinz

Anonymous said...

My dear im sorry but u have a problem. ..u have become dependent on it...every time u have an orgasm u brain releases alot of feel good chemicals nw ur body is used to it and the average man can have an erection forore than 30mins a dildo last for hours if u want to stop this u need to wean urself off it ....dont trust ur self to be with a dildo or be alone bcuz nw ure a full blown addict just like any other addiction...u can control it and be incharge of ur life again...well this advice is only useful if ure intrested in a meaningful relationship on the long run.....becuz honestly u may noy finf a man that will replace dat dildo except he is a kegal expert...I use to masturbate for and average of 6-10hrs and it nearly ruined me but I took charge of my sexuality and nw im fine and I channel all my sexual energy to more useful things....ul be fine ko.....and p.s stop using porn ...its nt real and its all acting most of these peopele need to make everything look good so u can buy their dvds ....finally its all in ur head...its just chemicals (dompamine and shit) u can control it ....if u need any advice mail me at teeboydebrecen at gmail dot com.....dont worry im nt intrested in sex ....n I dont live in nigeria ....good luck nwyz

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