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Sunday, 18 December 2011

Quote of the day

Women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex.

Do you agree?

86 comments:

Anonymous said...

I agree wit u..wit ma head Απϑ might.

Anonymous said...

dts so true, at least in Ninty nine percent of cases weighed

Anonymous said...

very correct

*ajalahtravel* said...

Yes, i agree

*ajalahtravel*

saemoenl said...

Yes

andee said...

That is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...

Anonymous said...

Not always true, but mostly true. Some girls will have sex if d affection is dia while some develop after sexual relations

Osagie1 said...

Direct and correct linda. Gbam

med said...

Only desperate ladies give in sex to get L♥√. Cute,young ladies cnt give in such. As for the men 70percent give in L♥√ to get sex

danachuka said...

What an Irony. They statement is true to an extent. As for me i'd love a woman whether she'd give me sex or not. Women tend to respond with sex when the feel loved and cherished. While some will give sex to get affection from a man. On the other hand not all men show women love just to get sex but the majority of men do. Its possible for love to abound in the absence of sex just like in some platonic relationships. In summary the above statement is 97% correct but not 100% correct

people may say said...

its a mutual thing. Give me, i give u

Anonymous said...

Truest talk of the year

PoLyMaT said...

Women risk SEX to get LOVE...men fake LOVE to get SEX

me,mysef n eyes... said...

thou ar so so correct!

Anonymous said...

Yes. Funny but true

Anonymous said...

.....MEN GIVE THINGS TO GET SEX. THIS IS CLOSER TO IT

Anonymous said...

Standard

tejiri said...

no....women also love sex.....both more women do give sex to get love.....

Anonymous said...

Very true! Many girls think guys will love them if give sex to their guys.

Label said...

If yu ask me... Na who I go ask??? The matter yu see so e ta when e start ... No bi me go talk am e heavy for mouth!!!! That being said review yur blog post on d lady dt complains her hubby sexs her too much, therein lies d ans

FrenchKissMyArse said...

Very TRUUUEEE!!!

In fact,

You are wise

Str8FrmDaHips said...

love ke!!..that one na lie...women give sex to get things..and men give money to get sex..women created this bad market..it doesn't matter how fine or hard ur body is they always make it seem u need it more they do..and their's a price..oh darling there's a shoe I really like..u no get that shoe..that's it no sex gbam!!

Anonymous said...

LINDA PLEASE TALK ABOUT THE INJUSTICE HAPPENING AT THE LEKKI TOLL GATE. It must be publicised. People who even want to pay the toll have to endure a mad traffic before they can pay. Its no joke. Why upgrade a road and ask the people to pay for improved services and then when they want to pay,, the traffic is worse than even when the road wasnt upgraded

Nollywood REinvented said...

It would have been correct if you had said "Most women....most men"

Anonymous said...

DUH!

but then again... *whispers* most men and women just want to have sex.

Anonymous said...

Somewhat.some men love truthfully without making it about sex, why others falls inlove after he had had sex with the girl. I was with my boyfriend for 4yrs without no sex, and he promise to wait till I was ready. On my 21st birthday we had sex, and we are still together. It's been 7yrs now....we are planing to get marry in a year time.

ONYEDIKING said...

Yes http://naijagosip.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

linda please, instead of idle talk< can you pls address the lekki toll issue?????? the toll collection started today and we experienced HELLISH traffic trying to get to church and back.. why does our government like to see its people suffer? WHY??? only God knows what tomorrow will be like ! i said this this morning and i say it again, IT WILL NOT BE WELL WITH THOSE SELFISH AND INSENSITIVE LEADERS !! THEY WILL SUFFER A HUNDRED FOLD WHAT WE SUFFER IN THIS COUNRTY ! awon OLE ! i hope someone BOMBS that toll gate in the middle of the night ! when and how will Nigeria be better when its citizens live in frustration and poverty?? only time will tell !
may God give us the Grace to endure till things change for the better !

Titi said...

Can't say 4 sure how true dis is cos... Women generally get to love b4 they give sex (except for these days where women give d sex cos the man is def gonna give something in return, sooner or later). Men on d oda hand don't have to love to have sex... The only thing they gotta love is her body or her ass or her boobs or her smile... Jst a part of her and nt d whole of her!

Anonymous said...

it looks like i may agree with you linda but on the other hand may be no,......

here in the states women love sex even more than men. i can tell this fro my own experience with two women.

i can remember the first one telling me even b4 we started....micheal pls fuck me me so hard...pls pls....as a nigerian i have never had that from a nija woman all of my life even b4 the show will start.


the second lady said to me....i want to discover the most sensitive part of your private part with my hand and tongue.......i almost colapsed...

and all of the africans around me tells me that it is the same experience for them....the first thing an american woman does is to finish you with oral sex...

it is not only my friends in the states that are having the same experience, but also my male friends in europe.....while i do not want to generalize based on the my experience and my friends, there seem to be some truth about this...

My take is that the african woman is timid about sex, and never outspoken, afraid to discover her body and so would find it hard to desire sex. So she gives sex to the man to get love without having a feeling for it.most of my friends in nigeria always tell me that the wish to experience oral sex someday, because they have never had it b4 only seen it on porn.

most nija guys would never give up on their wives in europe or the states to marry a nija girl because of this even though the know yankee girl no believe in marriage. the would come home to marry nija girl but still keep their akata wife.

iykmezu said...

True word.

Anonymous said...

Pls note this does not apply to prostitutes. Lol.

Anonymous said...

yeah dats usuall bt for me i give love for love n sex for sex

U-drimz said...

101% correct

Anonymous said...

Women give sex to get money. Men give money to get sex!!

Anonymous said...

As a guy aint gonna hide d fact... Itz True!!! Cuz i alwaiz fake luv to get sex!

Kemi said...

Men PRETEND to give love so they can get sex.

OSAS said...

YES I AGREE

Anonymous said...

Yes I think it's true

Anonymous said...

bullshit; men give money to get sex and women give sex to get money.
---Gbenga

Anonymous said...

Linda,

I am quite suprised that you did not know that. That is why I can never believe any man who claims to genuinely love a woman. Men profess "love" and give supposed 'affection' just to get to your vagina. The only man I know that gives pure, unadulterated, UNconditional love is Jesus and that is it. And women give their vaginas and even their butt holes to get conditional affection from men. That is why they sit there and let their men tear their vagina and nyash hole to pieces while they groan in pain and then come to LIB readers for advice all for a little conditional 'affection'. The day you don't give a man your vagina or maybe your nyash hole for the closeted gay ones, watch his affection for you disappear like the morning dew. LMAO!(laughing my ass off).

Anonymous said...

No futher details am convice linda..u r ryt jh0r

Anonymous said...

Yes oooo! 100% agree! Men! Wicked Bastards! Wif wha d put us through:(

Innoxx said...

'Practically' Linda believe me that love wey men dey portray na fake.Love no de men of nowadays dictionary.Immediately they get what they want,they either dump u nor begin to cheat on u cox they've gotten wat they want and need to explore more.Except for married men which i don't know watz up about them.But u see wat married men do too; polluting our young gurls.So that love is out of the question.I blame the ladies for this cox most of them are desperate.

Fearless! said...

Yeah that's right, wish I knew that it does not work!!! ​​​​​​​​​​=))º°˚˚˚°ºLmaoº°˚˚˚°º‎​°º‎​=)) but sadly I think its a lesson you need to learn on your own.

Anonymous said...

Yes ! That is right

Anonymous said...

dats true but some men my hubby gav luv to get marriage we didnt av sex until our wedding night

Anonymous said...

Why give sex to get love if you truly respect yourself. If you need to give sex at all then it should be for the right reason 'love'.
You should be in love with someone before engaging in sex except you are trading sex for money, car or the current trend BB. This is the more reason men don't respect and take advantage of women who will give everything including their body just to be loved.

Anonymous said...

stale

babeontop said...

True word!

Anonymous said...

I so much agree, most wmn only giv sex bcz dey r desperately tryin to kip dia man, nt bcz its wat dey want, whyl mst men only love o act romantic cz dey want sex! 1nce dey av it, dey r bck to sqre 1

Anonymous said...

Your Assumptions are almost right!

steezz.com said...

I tink there's some truth in dat. First of, i have to demonstrate to a girl dat i care for her. Dat'll help me in getting her to bed. If i enjoy n love making, she gets real love from me in return. Dat said, i tink it's true to a large xtent.

ibo boy said...

Well, Men too give sex to get love. But i'm certain women don't give love to get sex. They just seduce em guys

Anonymous said...

YES !!!!
100% in agreement

Kris Sexwell said...

I don't care about love. I want sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex. Okay, that's enough sex talk for one day. It's time for action. Linda, where are you?

lol

Anonymous said...

Absolutely...

Anonymous said...

Tomato, Tomaito, bla bla blah!Linda, how are you doing?

VANESSA SYLVER said...

Hmmm, not really. Men doesn't necessarily give love to get sex, they feel we owe it to them.

chi chi said...

word.

Anonymous said...

Yes! Becos that is wat woman needs to help man bring down his dick weneva it stands erect. Tell her wat she wants to hear or give her wat she wants (e.g. - money)& she is already spreadeagled.

Conversely 2, that is wat she has to offer or pretend to offer to gain man's attention or attraction. His ego becomes tripped or over-tripped, loses his senses & his doom starts. Ask Adam.

Femi said...

NO, both parties need Love and Sex. It's complicated for now.

UBADIRE ASHIEGBU said...

i agree to an extent, cos a man can do everything within his power to get a woman to bed, he ca even promise marriage and run after he got what he wanted

RITA H said...

To some extent u re rite but men dont give luv to get sex ,they just fake watever they know how to do best to get sex

Ebonyjenny said...

u re right somehow

Anonymous said...

Yes so totally true

Loudmouthed said...

Definately! The truth is women deceive themselves about this fact, thinking they can remove emotions from their sex life. They end up getting hurt

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Trimsatech said...

u re right Linda but I dnt love bcos of sex, money ve taken d place of love in girls heart

Anonymous said...

anonymous 84
i agree

sabiboy said...

i cant agree less with you linda

Emeh Achanga said...

yes..its so true...we think we can get a man to love us by giving sex while men know all they need to do is show a lady love and gbam,,she loses her defences..sha any how person do am,men wld still mess up..

differentheart said...

i agreed, yes

@UgoChime1 said...

Like generalizations, it is not necessarily truth. It is for some, but not for some

Anonymous said...

Linda this is very true.

daniel said...

MEN ARE NATURALY MEANT TO GIVE LOVE TO GET SEX COS,THEY ARE NOT CHICKENS WHO CAN JUST HAVE SEX WITHOUT LITTLE FOREPLAY.

nma said...

Dats nt true, not all ladies give sex 2 get luv nd vice versa we gat ladies dat r willing 2 protect their dignity nd do things the right way. E.g me 4 real

Smart said...

Very true!!!

Shaddy said...

Linda I strongly agree with you that equals to sweet home

Wildglo said...

yeah....i'm guilty, let me give u my story, i met this guy and fell hopelessly in love with him when i ping him and talk about sex i get his full attention when i ping him about how much i wanted his body. We cont. and vola i had a great sex with him and i am still looking forward to having plenty of sex with him cos he has this huge d.... which now added to the flavor of my love for him. he doesn't love me as much but i am ready to kip having great sex with him till he falls in love too.

Anonymous said...

wey my comment joor!!..

eniagk said...

ur more than correct my dear. that is the environ we are today. true talk!!!!!!!!! gbam!

Grandad said...

Na so!

omo oba said...

If u want d ryt answer chk out 2face.#gbam

Anonymous said...

Men's hearts are between their legs while women's hearts are in the right place. QED!

Eniola said...

I don't agree in anyway. I don't have to give sex to be loved. If I'm loved,I'm loved and if I'm not loved,I'm not loved, but to give sex to be loved?No, No way,Never! Then where is my dignity as a lady??? I'm loved because I'm me!!! Others might be doing it, but not me. Shikena. Not at this age of mine. I don't have to go with the majority's belief, I go, and stick with mine because it works for me. Though it's saddening that that is the trend in this age, but you don't have to go with it...

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