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Wednesday 21 December 2011

Oby Edozieh responds to husband snatching allegations.

She wrote this on her Facebook page a few hours ago....
Why is it that every time an actress is about to wed, all kinds of stories start coming out from people who just don’t want them to be happy. And unfortunately,our beloved people that we entertain are quick to buy into these unfounded stories from d aggrieved ex-wives &mistresses. This is one of the reasons why I chose to keep my court wedding secret.I only want to state this once and for all, that my husband is married to only me in this whole world.When my husband arrived into Nigeria, saw an email sent to him by this white woman. In d email she was saying how much she misses him, & now realizing d true meaning of d popular saying, that,ONE DOES NOT KNOW THE VALUE OF WHAT THEY HAVE UNTIL THEY LOSE IT.Emails and text messages don’t lie.She also made other related comments.A day after my wedding,I got a call from her, saying she is Alex’s Ex-wife. I asked her how she got my two cell phone numbers. She raised her voice and was rude.
I guess once there is a former wife, there will always be drama. Continue reading...

 
I asked her what she wanted,since she & Alex are separated. She then said that the court granted Alex full access to their daughter,any time he wants to see her.She said she now wants d full custody of d child, now that Alex is married to me.And that he should come back & sign fresh custody papers.I cut off d phone,only for her to start sending text messages saying all sorts of things to create problems between Alex & I.replied that there is nothing in this world,she would say,that will make me not to stand by him.When she figured out that her plan wasn’t working, she started asking for all sorts of money & threatening to go to press & say all sorts of things to tarnish his good name. Alex asked me not to reply her messages.showed him d text message of her asking for money,he called her & d phone was on speaker.He started asking her, what money she was being owed & who owed who. She hung up• a friend called my attention to a blog, where she was saying all sorts of nonsense about being married to Alex.

‎​ Such a woman can go to any length to achieve her ulterior motives;including telling all sorts of lies that may seem to be true.What married woman wil be talking about re-drafting custody papers if she is stil married to the man Which woman would want to contest their divorce if truly,the man is such a horrible person as she has painted him to be?How can somebody who has changed her surname back to her maiden name, even changed her email address which had her husband’s name,back to her maiden name stil claim to be married to him?Alex is a reputable public figure, very calm, humble, hardworking, caring & honest artiste, loved by everybody.am d only one Alex O is married to,in this whole world; so, she can go,knock herself out on all d news media.It is such a big laugh,that someone who is 6 years older than I am,is calling me names & referring to me as ‘old.She can dent us how ever she wants, no more comments. I AM DONE AND I AM OUT.
*cringe worthy*

77 comments:

Anonymous said...

Then why not just marry a man who has never been married or engaged in the past to prevent these occurrences.

SOLA said...

babanla cringe worthy #smhgn

Anonymous said...

I really don't know what to make of this.SMH.

Anonymous said...

my own is that, all these actresses,dont they marry men that havent married before? see Dakare egbuson, she married a single man no wahala from anywhere. Abeg make she go sit down, na person husband u snatch, desperado!

Anonymous said...

Reading this gave me a serious headache...Why Caps lock?....Okay,we've heard your side of the story but make sure you don't come running back to complain had i known...Good luck to you though cos you really need it.



Mma
MMA

Pjobaby said...

Wow! Now, I believe Oby.
But why do Nigerian actresses like to marry divorcees/seperated men???

Anonymous said...

Lol...linda you are too much! This is exhilarating....like pure awesome "Gbaguan"

Anonymous said...

This will make a very nice script 4 one of their movies...

Anonymous said...

I noticed that 1976AD promised a 10k donation if she can back up her claims as to Alex being divorced...

Sits down and get out box of pop-corn... Christmas drama...

Anonymous said...

linda lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!! gist no dey pass your eye ohhh she only posted that 3 hrs ago!!! hahaha but u like gist sha! quick quick i ran to her facebook page sef to read it direct from the source. Nice one! inspector gadget aint got nothing on u boo!

Anonymous said...

linda !!!! u and controversy sha.... lol

Anonymous said...

U think we r buying this story

Legaldiaries said...

The Epistle according to Oby. Phew, why type in caps lock? Poor punctuations, too much abbreviations etc. Eye don dey pain me sef

Legaldiaries said...

The Epistle according to Oby. Phew, why type in caps lock? Poor punctuations, too much abbreviations etc. Eye don dey pain me sef

Anonymous said...

Anon@7:36 PM -"see Dakare egbuson, she married a single man no wahala from anywhere"
Wahala de everywhere concerning marriage. Single man or not.
If no ex-wife, then ex-girlfriends, "friends" or competitors, then family of the guy or friends who have a stronghold on the guy.

Anonymous said...

Wow I had a headache just attempting to read that. Separation is one thing, divorce is another. You cannot marry while separated. Does she have a divorce certificate showing a judge granted divorce? And has Oby thought long and hard about how Fathima really got her number if not that Alex used it to make a quick call to his family in SA. As the adage goes even when you're crying, open your eyes and LOOK! love is sweet but do not let it blind you.

Priestess said...

Lol, i no fit laugh oh. Ok part 2 is out, watch out 4 part 3 "COMMING SOON". Ma beer n stockfish in hand. Lol

Anonymous said...

could barely read and understand what she wrote!

summary of all the story; She is married to a divorced man! who caused the divorce in the first place that is the question at hand? so why a secret wedding if truly he was finally and legally separated from his first wife?

well, there is a saying,cane dem take beat the first wife, nah for up dem hang am!

Anonymous said...

The issue here is not an ex anything, it is having a current wife and going to marry another behind her back

let's not get issues confused.

Anonymous said...

She needs to learn how to spell first!

Anonymous said...

Things have really changed. People used to weather the storms in marriage and stay put. These days, divorce is so high. As a result, there are many more men and women that are single(divorced)
When the divorced men want to re-marry a girl who has never married before or a divorced wouman, there is usually always drama from the ex who feels somehow threatened, especially if children are involved. Then the Ex's get up to all types of tricks to sabotage the new relationship or new marriage. It could be the Ex's are tyrying to protect their kids, maybe to ensure the guy never forgets their own kids. Cos if he has a new wife and kids, finances will be tighter. Not saying this is the case here cos only God knows the truth, but I see this happening a lot.

Web_evangelist said...

Shut up oby! Why u sef go marry old man wey don marry before.
All that story concern u.

Nonny said...

What is our business with all these your "turenchi". You should go and hang your head in shame. Olodo rapata. This goes to show that your marriage is not straight. I pity you oooooo!!!

Nonny said...

Abeg shut your trap. Go sort out your issues and stop bugging people with your half baked English. You could not even add the punctuations correctly.

Anonymous said...

This is just the beginning!!! Shame, shame

Anonymous said...

My dear oby Edozieh, all this details is not important okay! You're now married so shut your mouth and keep calm. The more you talk, the more the drama so be quiet okay.Here is Wishing every contributor on this issue a 'HAPPY HOLIDAY AND GOD BLESSINGS" INCLUDING YOU, YES YOU. am out of here.

Anonymous said...

are we saying that people cannot marry a previously married person. All of you talking, go and research your family background very well.

I say this in response to first anon who said "Then why not just marry a man who has never been married or engaged in the past to prevent these occurrences."

what nonsense!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

AKUKOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Deltagirl said...

Who even gives a crap about these two washed up, wannabe celebrities.They can all go and marry each other. Linda, please we need gossip from people who really matter in the society biko.

Anonymous said...

husbands are not easy to come by so when u see anything manageable so long as love dey dia,grab anything grabbable.....truelly a man who goes to the extent of marrying another woman,abeg women make una stop to dey cry over spilled milk...let him go,if hes the same old shit,he will do same for wife number 2,otherwise he will as well just get it right d second time....at times the fault could be from either we women or the man is just a stupid,greedy fool

Anonymous said...

I keep saying it that this is a case of a woman scorned. Her description is very typical of dumped women and I am buying her story hook,line and sinker. Mercy's own was a drama bcos people were feeding off the gossip. As a man, if I discover that my wife is hooked up to another man or woman, I will divorce her first before making complaints and not telling her partner to back off. If you mumus here are interested in knowing the truth and not gossip, what sense does the South African wife make in her sorry story. To those asking actresses to find virgin men, find one first and let us know how easy it was for you to find a husband. Y'all need to get a job and leave people's lives alone. If Alex-Oby wants to marry each other while married to other people, its their business and not yours.
--Gbenga

Anonymous said...

Oh boy! Kata don start. I need a bottle of wine and suya meat to watch this new Nollywood movie by silly Oby Edozien not Edozieh.

Why did Oby spell still as "stil" twice? Am I wrong? The title of the new movie is WOMEN IN LOVE (Part 1).

Seriously, Oby needs a slap on the face so that she can accept the fact that he was once married and probably lied to her.

Nollywood actresses are not ready to marry poor men therefore they run after popular divorcees. There are many unknown single men in Nigeria.

Anonymous said...

She has deleted it.

Nativepals.com said...

All these our so called actresses need to go back to school and learn English-101.

Gbam

NONYE said...

I DIDN'T BOTHER TO FINISH READING THE CRAP. YOU ARE MARRIED TO A MARRIED MAN MY DEAR. GROW UP AND LET HIM GO SETTLE HIS OWN SHIT WITH HIS FAMILY. END OF DISCUSSION.

Anonymous said...

4 real oby! Linda why do you put news like this out, when a 9ja celeb gets married! Am guessing every time a celeb gets married you get jealous get a man tricx

OK said...

....u wont blame her marrying Him...
with the persistent decline in "eligible" men in nigeria....recycling already used products is d only option....

btw- if u cant afford designers clothing- go to second hand and u will find designer clothing that can still be so used!

Anonymous said...

From this statement sef, it is obvious say the girl no go school.
mbekes forming celebrity.
go to night school and give us a break here.

Anonymous said...

Na wa o; people can be mean sha...why all the hateful comments?

Galore said...

Yes,,,,siddon well....This is Season 3.........Season 1 INI EDO and PHILIPS and Ist wife,,,,,,,,,,Season 2 Mercy Johnson,,Prince Odia and Lovly...........Season 3,,ACT (1i) Oby,,Alex O and Wonded Fattema......But seriously,,this happens all the time,,,just bcos she is a public figure,,,we all com here and talk Crap....@Linda wel done,,,d day wen u go Marry,,,na that day i go get my Blog,,,cus me eeh,,i go dey post ur bit by bit marital bliss or what for my blog....Make every body see am.....

Anonymous said...

learn to leave peoples husbands alone. God has yours out there.....pray He show him to you

Anonymous said...

By the way, the lady IS NOT white. I find it puzzling that folks in Naija refer to everybody from outside of Africa as "white" including Indians, Lebanese, Chinese, and Latinos...I dey laugh O

Anonymous said...

For her face now,she don write oxford dictionary finish...'asiwi'

HISS said...

is this how to write? now, not surprised about nollywood scripts! wetin she go talk before? #long hiss# i pity you oo, madam husband snatcher!

Anonymous said...

Some people here are so cruel. Not everyone had the luxury of a good school when they were growing up. School depended on family circumstances so stop laughing or delighting on putting them down.

Anonymous said...

Judge not lest yee be judged!!!

Anonymous said...

There is nufing wrong in marrying someone who's been divorced y'all should stop making a fuss over it. My advice to Oby is to try to keep her mouth shut, nobody needs to how it all went down *rolling my eyes* you should learn to keep quiet and avoid all the noise. the truth would eventually surface and you wouldn't need to defend yourself. abeg enough of all the blabbing, the gist is dry. isshhhhhhhhhh.

Anonymous said...

It seems to me that Alex is still LEGALLY married to his first wife. Ha.

Anonymous said...

It takes some time to bubble and shuffle
Afterall na hustle and bustle,
Everybody wan celebrate but nobody wan talk him age,
If you just go ask a lagos mama say 'how many years she de celebrate' she go hala and hala and shout back at you ,'na wetin be your business'?
I fit celebrate 21 today be say, the next time na 22, the next one fit be 20 so just bubble and shuffle and forget about my age.-- Alex O.

Abeg make una free these people abeg. Abi have you guys forgotten the above lyrics wey alex been sing those days? Lol. Maybe we should all take a cue from those words of wisdom.

Anonymous said...

@ anon 10.41pm, u so nasty. Whoever said u must always read every headline. If u dnt like it,u skip it. There are pple who dnt mind readin these thins jst 4 d fun of it...so u, get a life n stop hating on Linda.kmt

Anonymous said...

most of u r worse than dis actresses u condenm.......Go live ur lives straight n stop pokin ur ugly nose wr its nt ur bizness.......I buy her story sha......marriage 1 breaks up dosent mean Marriage 2 wld go same way......abi una no sey correct mistakes?????

Anonymous said...

Women r sometimes d Architects of dia own problems. I ve an Uncle whose married 4 12yrs wit a daughter, d wife who is a Med. Doc resides in USA wit d daughter & my uncle is here in Naija. He has made efforts, even involved both families 2 bring his wife back 2 Naija all 2 no avail. He wants more kids & how wld they achieve dt if they aren't living 2geda? The wife is making cool moni as a Doc in US & says she can't live in Naija, meanwhile, they got married here b4 d man went on cross-posting in US. She bluntly refused 2 come back 2 Naija wit him , when he finishd his work dia. Now, dis my uncle wants more kids & 2 always come back frm work everyday & meet his family. He is thinking seriously of marrying anoda woman, shebi dis his wife will come & scream "husband snatcher", when he finally does marry again? She is 2 stubborn & full of herself, do we expect this my uncle 2 live like dis? Hmmmmmm.... Women are 2 b blamed sometimes, chikena!

Ennie said...

Is been an actress or a super star an issue? why can't people just leave them to live their life?
na wa o

Anonymous said...

May be it is all about sour grapes. The Ex-wife would have seen that Alex O, has moved on, and now realizes that she has finally lost out. It happens all the time.

Anonymous said...

@Gbenga...u have spoken wisely. Linda let these pple live their lives. What do u gain from all these....money, free weavon and gas...ok ooo.
God dey...we will see what how ur marriage life wil turn.

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous, why not marry a man who has not married or engaged to prevent..

Where did you get your brain from? So, if a man had been married before, no woman should marry him again, is that what you are saying? I suggest that you go do a medical check up, see whether there is something not right in your brain before you post further comments here.

Anonymous said...

It could be an issue of a jealous Ex-wife, trying to get back to his ex-husband who has moved on.

Anonymous said...

Why can't these actresses leave other womens property alone the other day it was mercy johnson then ini edo and then oby as well watin i tell you the day these wifes would start pouring acid on these husband snatchers is coming. Mschew!!!

Jbabe said...

Na wah for all this our actresses sef,haba must there be gist at all times this is a wedding bell? This is not how it use to be ooooooooooooo,make una no come turn the world upside down oooooo,i will always love CHIOMA APORTHA,DAKORE,OMOTOLA,etc at least no drama. I know there is a man for everyone that is God's promise.......

julz said...

Are divorces not met to be happy just like everyone else? Please for all this anonymous comments if u are really BOLD come out and speak your mind. I support the secret wedding. She is a public figure does not mean she cant have a private life.
Oby congratulations jare.

Nollywood Forever said...

Oby did say they are "separated" how can you marry a man that is only "separated" Na wa ooo

sleekreek said...

This whole shit is giving me headache.........why do actresses find it difficult to attract a single man???? am sure their prayers will always be that men should divorce/separate from their wives so they could have the opportunity of having them as husbands..........good for the three of them,jare!!

Shaddy said...

Habbah! why all these bad comment? This is very bad that some people has NO Manner you just post a comment anyhow, why? This abuses is too much please stop!!! if you don't have anything good to say keep shut most of you are worst leave Oby alone is her life and mind you it was a post on her page not for haters but friends

Rubbish....Nonsense....trash....Junk....Radarada

Anonymous said...

its sad that this lady does not understand that Nigerian people pay to make her whatever she thinks she is.Entertainment is not the greatest job in the world.She looks out of sell by date already.I wonder what she will look like in six months time.

Anonymous said...

Why do dem actresses keep marrying 'exs'? Can't they pray for those that have not been 'used n dumped'?

I guess who U r is what U attract sha.

As for me I just don't buy d idea of being with sb who has been with sb or several other pple. I was 'tear nylon' and so was my wife; and I think it makes a whole lot of difference.

doll (retired blogger) said...

happy married life to her

Uchyyy said...

Oby, i am not one of your fans but i sure have a lil advise for u.

I suddenly developed a lot a respect for you when i read that you got married without the usual media hype around celebrities (Mercy Johnson, Ini Edo, etc). I made up my mind to also try and keep my wedding (atleast the first step) till very close to the D-Day!

However, i now feel disappointed that you came out soo quickly and in the heat of your obvious anger to respond to all the allegations going on about your husband-snatching act. My dear, people are meant to always talk and castigate... why allow it get to you like this?

From your write-up, you sound as though your hands are clean and your conscience is crystal clear... why bother with the proof? Time will reveal and prove everything. Moreso, you are supposed to be on your honeymoon by now.... why waist that precious time together alone with your hubby?

Go back to God and cry your heart to Him for direction at this time. Am sure He'll give you wisdom to go through this season as long as you can beat your chest and say that you were not responsible for Alex's split with his S/A wife. Wish you luck! It is well!

Noella said...

THESE LOCAL CHAMPION GIRLS ARE DESPERADOS...WHY CAN'T THEY START THEIR MARRIAGE ON A CLEAN SLATE AND QUIT MARRYING MEN THAT HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE WITH MINOR CHILDREN?? WHEN WILL ALL THIS CRAZINESS STOP? ...WHAT IS THIS GIBBERISH SHE IS BLABBING ABOUT?? SHE CAN'T EVEN PUT TWO SENTENCES TOGETHER COHERENTLY...THIS CHEAP POPULARITY IS GETTING SO NAUSEATING I CAN LITERALLY PUKE!!! ENOUGH OF THIS NONSENSE ALREADY!!! KEEP IT MOVING!!

Mmakamba said...

all ya bad belle pple, na wa for una o.
why cnt u just wish her a happy life and back off?

Oby, i think is not that young herself, so saying tht she married an old man doesnt hold water.

if she hd married anoda guy, u guys wld probably hv come up wit other hateful talks, like am sure shes older than him, she married him 4 his money, etc.

shes married Alex and if u dont like it, go throw urselves into a burning furnace.

i dont kno Oby, hv neva met her but her marriage is her business, whether it works or not.

Anonymous said...

Plsssss have been in d middle of dis bitter ex-wife or baby mama drama b4. D fact remains dat they r 2 consenting adults who have already tied d knot so haters can hug transformer. If a divorcee makes oby hapi,she shud marry him irrespective of ppls opinions bcos ITS HER LIFE. D only thing I have against her is dat she did a secret wedding,she shud have done a public one and said any1 dat doesn't like it can eat shit

Anonymous said...

Linda Ikeji pls try hard 2 marry d 1 dt will not b talked abt. Pls mind ur business, leave Oby n Alex alone.

Anonymous said...

Alex o. Must produce a decree of divorce from SA court today and all speculation will end. If first wife supported him 10th years and he go on false pretences and marry another woman to advance his career, all she wants is for people to know the truth. Justice will prevail!!! The Nigeria people cannot be fooled by lies and deceit!!

Rob said...

i want u to keep silence with the press. nonso diobu knows how to do it. my advice to u is, if Alex is legally divorsed u re on track. but if he is just separated frm the wife you are in trouble.

Anonymous said...

These are old celebrities, abeg waka

Anonymous said...

Let's leave Oby and Alex to enjoy their marriage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with marrying a divorcée. If they truly do love themselves, why not. Congratulations Oby.

Dee said...

pscheew Y'll talking like ur saints he without sin please cast d first stone and let me hear word biko.majority of our parents where eida married with kids before or had children out of wedlock so whats the noise please let them be!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Double bollucks!!! Nigeria movie industry... Especially the ladies are full if shit,,,!,, stop dis husband snatching frm abroad. Nd for men abroad so useless cos deem want actress nd distort deer happiness not only dat the childrens life. Morons

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