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Monday, 19 December 2011

How do you stay a virgin till 30?

Not that it's a bad thing, in fact it's highly commendable. But how do you do it in this day and age where everything is almost about sex.

Heard that gospel singer Nikki Laoye said on her wedding day, which held December 11th in Lagos, that she was a virgin bride. She and her husband decided to wait till after their wedding before having sex. Nikki is 30 years old.

Me I can't o, I'm sorry. I'm engaged to a hot dude and I won't do? Ha...life is too short abeg! lol. This my current situation is even giving me nightmares....hahaha!

I'm absolutely not for casual sex, one night stands etc...but in a loving, serious relationship that's heading to the altar? Abeg, dude has to perform so we know whether to call off the wedding or continue as planned...lol

180 comments:

Anonymous said...

u r a bahdt girl

Str8FrmDaHips said...

But Linda there lies your contradiction...I get u..but if say one dude doesn't match up..then you would have to try another and hope you don't have try another..wouldn't that = few casual relationships??

Anonymous said...

Shut up Linda, you sound like a child.

Atobatele said...

Its highly commendable....

Anonymous said...

good for you Nikki. I hope a lot more people emulate you.
Linda, you know you are quite pathetic.
Grow up!

Anonymous said...

Linda

Anonymous said...

I hope sey..she no go complain about doggy style o!!..Linda don't be silly a lot of fondling goes on..so they know their equipment well well..dem just no do the real thing!!

Anonymous said...

I don't how they do it oh. I'm 23years old doing my M.Sc, trust me when I say I'm feed up wit dis virgin thing. I can't wait to be disvirgined, but I have to find the right guy for the job *winks*

Anonymous said...

linda c as virgin and sex issue shake u so tay ur typo and gbagaun no be here sha,hehehehehe
chuks slam

Anonymous said...

hahahaha...Linda!!!u are so hilarious...luv u girl!

Anonymous said...

U must test drive the car b4 u buy it oh

Black Dating Experiment said...

Not everyone is hot in the pants like you linda! All it takes is a little discipline and self control.

Anonymous said...

The fear of the Lord is the begining of wisdom. There is something called self control Linda. I have met a couple of people who are above 30 and chose to keep themselves till marraige. That is how God wants it anyway. However, if you are not a God fearing Christian, then of course you can go do your own thing. With all the men you have slept with so far, you still have not found one to take you to the alter Linda. How many more men are you going to exchange body fluids with all in the name of test driving? Disgusting I must say.

laughprince said...

hmmm linda wetin u expect d girl to talk na>>> she one claim gud girl...but from tge husby em face too tyte oh...... u sure say no be wash.>>> just saying oh sha>>>

LOST VIRGINITY AT 18 Says said...

Who cares is it something to brag about, is not as if she found a cure for cancer. Annoucing it at her wedding was so tacky and downright unneccssary. Virgin bride my ass, as long as you mastrbate, kiss, engage in heavy petting, oral sex and foreplay u are not a virigin in my book. So she is no virgin, most girls like me can have orgasms by just receving heads and sucking of nipples, if I do that with a guy and cause he didnt penetrate me I wouldnt say I didnt have sex with him cause I did, Sex is sex oral, penetrative all na sex.

Anonymous said...

And Linda please how is this news? You need Jesus.

Anonymous said...

Yea its possible. I'm 21 and I'm a virgin. Just because you can't do it doesn't mean others can't. also your theory of trying a man out before marriage is stupid. Is he a car?

Anonymous said...

O linda you truly crack me up. No worries your man will come and you can catch up on lost time ;) Please don't let your pent up...needs be keeping you awake sha.

virginity Rocks! said...

Hey Linda sweety seriously its not a big deal and its not as hard as it seems. All one need is self control, be principled and most importantly a VERY understanding companion. Am 30 I just got married 2wks ago as a VIRGIN BRIDE. Yes and my husband adores me like mad!

Anonymous said...

Linda I support u, me I no fit jump inside water without testing with stick to be sure say my leg go fit touch ground befor I come make lifetime mistake. But d Nikki try sha... if na true o!

Anonymous said...

well i dont think its difficult, being a virgin in this day and age is something to be proud of, you are like a unicorn and am proud to be one.

ruby said...

Wow!!! Bed Undefiled..........that's d Gospel Way...kudos to her...

Tmonei said...

we fit dey loving relationship then u go get enough of bedroom loving...I love a woman with healthy sex appetite

Deby said...

Do you believe that there are many worlds on earth, and you can only see what is happening in the world which you belong to.Honestly there still women of virtue who are ready to keep themselves till marriage.Do not think because you are in it, other are also doing the same. you can if think you can; no matter the the pressure around you. she is a great girl indeed and should be celebrated.

Anonymous said...

Ok oh well done Linda,it is not impossible.Obviously,it will surprise you to know that there are very many virgins around despite the age and time we live in.I just turned 31 and I have never had sex with any man.I have had relationship but I have kept my virginity by God's grace to honour God and my husband.No one says it is easy,but then it is possible.It's a choice,like you said,you can't oh,so you can't.Well,I can so I could and can till I say I do.

Anonymous said...

Linda, please ask her (Nikki Laoye) properly whether she was not taking dicks in her ass wile claiming to be a virgin. I have come across many so-called virgins in their 20s and 30s who will not allow one to penetrate their vaginas but allow ass-fucking. Check properly!

Jenny said...

Linda aaaaaaaaaaa, it's okay for you to want to have sex. I am 31 and still a virgin since i'm not married yet. It's really no big deal...just a decision if that's what you want. I promised God to keep it and that has helped...Just to put in in check.

me,maself n eyes said...

linda bebe u go sabi do...ooo...choi!

Anonymous said...

Linda! Respect ur sef oo, no carry laff kil me abeg! Ur so funny, but hey atleast u said the truth and I love u 50times more. Anyways I think its possible though.

Olu said...

Linda:

Your faith and commitment to God, when my husband and I got married not too long ago, we were both virgins. Its not strange, people still wait these days and I have friends that waited too.

Our faith says sex outside of marriage is fornication and when you have sex with someone you get into a covenant with them, you become "one" with the person. Sex is more than 2 bodies colliding and its meant to happen in the context of marriage. God created sex so He knows what He is saying when He says stay away from it till you get married.

When you have a understanding of what sex really means it helps you wait.

I don't regret waiting one bit. It's one of the best decisions that I ever made.

Luffy's thought said...

Linda! SMH for u.

Anonymous said...

Linda

Thats what makes her different from you and made her attract the right man for her! Im sure there are plenty of guys who will happily bang u till your wedding day. But there are those who have chosen the godly path to do it the way God wants it.
Levels dey, this one na first class,you be economy!

Anonymous said...

Chai, Linda u too Spoil, U need to come and meet me let me rotten you, I got the right Magic Stick for you, And i know how to hit the right spot at the right time, Come to Me Linda will make all your dream come through Call me The LOVE DOCTOR

Dee dee said...

Lol! Linda, I know right? I thought I was going to remain a virgin until I got married...then I met my first boyfriend. End of. lol...and I don't regret it. The flesh is weak my sister. Kudos to the lady though, each to their own.

ng said...

gurl i just have notn but LOVE for u. Being a realist dat u r is the most difficult tin on earth and i highly commend u fr dat. It's wat makes u "you".
cheers ma'am!!!

orange said...

Linda you dey craze. I don laugh tire. It will be to your credit na. What is the hurry in rushing to eat what you will eat forever. What if the guy taste you and dump you. I ve heard of an engaged couple who tasted the forbidden fruit and later found out when the church insisted on HIV test that the guy had the virus. Who si to blame. The church gave her the option of opting out if her faith and love could not carry on. Babe could not tell anybody that she has been chopping the thing. Her family members are putting pressure on her to dump the dude. Abeg o Linda, wisdom is profitable to direct. After the marriage, you go bag bang you go tire. Be careful, your hot dude could be banging others of less virtue than you. You know some men have their brains hanging between their balls.
Na money wet I get I borrow you. Nwa nnem, well wanyo.

Anonymous said...

Dear Linda,

When we talk about sex before marriage or not we fail to put into context the origin of this law - God. To think that we would all think that abstinence until marriage is impossible would be representing God as God of the past and not of the present or future and yet we go on to invoke His help in situations of the present!

Yes, abstinence before marriage is impossible for man as he is but with God all things are possible..

It is very difficult but also very possible. We should stop settling for the easy way out and choose what is right.

FYI there are even older virgins today, and it is sad that society see these as the odd ones. May God help us all..

Anonymous said...

You bare your mind too much and most times send the wrong massages out. Lots of young girls read this blog yet you choose to write such nonsense. This is how we fail this society when people like you foolishly show their ignorance. There is nothing impossible about virginity, you are in the wrong mix of people that is why you don't get to see thousands of young women who are getting married as virgins. My wife was a virgin when when we got married and her honor is sacred to me. DONT POLLUTE OTHERS WITH YOUR STUPIDITY AND PLEASE STOP SHOWING YOUR FOOLISHNESS AND IGNORANCE.

Lesbian Dwarf said...

This is easy.

You stay a virgin till you are 30 by keeping your legs closed, they spread ya legs after you're 30.

Hope I've been of help.

Anonymous said...

Linda seriously you are getting perverse more and more and the sad thing is you dont seem to know it.

Am not a S.U. but I do know sexual imorality is bad (PS: am not married and am not a virgin and quite sexual active) even at that I would not encourage imorality in any form. Linda you do it alot of time sometime sublimaly most out rightly.

Babe Chill reconsider your stance on life and think careful before you talk (in your case type). just because you making money from your blog does not mean you have to be overtly perverse in any manner (ethical earning has its benefits) physical, mentally and spiritually.

Lets not encourage immorility in any form. (Babe e no good) the current way people are looking for money, sexual gratification and all evil lusts and desires is bad and almost at breaking point. Girl I gbadun ur charisma you are outgoing, positive, and beautiful with a good business sense. But your western character is destructive not only to you but worst of all to those that are easily influenced reading your blog. (na bad thing) this is not a telling off. Its a plea. My black sister, My black queen, my african Mother. Linda think about what i have wrote.

May said...

Linda you are very funny.. lol
By the way how are you doing? Merry christmas in advance..

raji.teflon me said...

to stay a virgin....it's easy,jus do it before knowing d meaning of the word VIRGIN...lol

Anonymous said...

Everybody knows there are virgins by technicality only. Some people think as long as they did not cum they are still virgins and dry humping, oral sex, hand action doesn't count. Who knows what she's done with him? Who cares? Why did she announce it? If it is a religious reason then it is between her, God and her husband. Should we give her a prize now?

Anonymous said...

i am 25 and still a virgin.

Anonymous said...

Linda and her meat roll analysis....u too gbadun the thing joo. Better than same gender jare.

Anonymous said...

This Linda na one badt chic. Terry teddy where you at?

Anonymous said...

JEEEEZZZ...nigerians r sooo hypocritical....Linda bared her mind and gave her honest opinion on d matter...dat now makes her morally peverse ?? pls take a chill pill...

if u find it offensive simply close the tab...aint by force

@ 21 year old virgin....duh ur 21 she is talkn abt a 30 year old...holla back in a coupla years mate

Anonymous said...

everybody done turn virgin now abi??becos some1 is.......nonsense...most of u dt claim to be a virgin mit not even be....d finger thing,sucking,licking without sex is wat most of u cal been a virgin...am not a virgin but havn*t had sex 4 years cos i wanted to kip myself 4 my man...and still respect me for dt which am proud off.....lay d bed undefiled is wat d bible says/

babeontop said...

For all those cursing Linda out, na wao...Una no get any sense of humor? Make una no visit the blog now if it offends you that much. Like, seriously!!!

Anonymous said...

i absolutely lovvvveeee your blog!! the absolute truth!

Anonymous said...

lol i lost my virginity @ 19, last yr and i regretted it and all because i was pressured into doing it. Actually, the bible says that once we repent we are new creatures in God's sight. To all those virgins out there dont rely on ur flesh oo it is very weak but rely on God's strength. That i lost my virginity doesnt make me any less a christain than the virgins out there, God says he doesnt remember our sins no more, when we genuinely repent. The bible says marriage is honourable and a bed undefiled. if i meet a guy tomorrow, he has to keep to my no sex rules, if he doesnt, he can go through d exit door, afterall my ex that disvirgined me still left me to marry another person.

chichiluv said...

it might be impossible for you, linda but not for other people who are focused on the prize which is honoring God's command. ask youself what you have obtained with all the test driving you don do because if na test driving dey guarantee marriage, you for don marry tay-tay. i wish i had stayed a virgin until i got married but once i knew that sex outside of marriage was not God's will for my life, i remain celibate until i met my husband. i tell young men and ladies, this sex thing has been happening since the beginning of time, it is not going out of style so keep yourself and use your mind to attract, KEEP a partner and not your body. your blog can serve as a tool to educate and elevate, however sometimes you post things and i wonder what's up with you, for real.

grace said...

im only 20 so i can never know but it is very possible, because as a christain, we are supposed to stay so before marriage.

sonia said...

@ LOST VIRGINITY AT 18 I'm a virgin and proud never kissed a guy and proud and yes it is a thing to be very proud of in this day and age. Almost forgot to add that I do not crave sex in anyway, shape or form.I know it is hard for someone like you to believe but I am VERY PROUD of it.
@Linda I could easily go the rest of my life without sex because since I don't know what I'm missing I'm missing nothing at all right?
But honestly I will just wait till my wedding night :) and yes people like me are still very much in existence.

Anonymous said...

I am still a virgin and I am an expert at blow jobs and anal sex....yummy, me too, I can brag on my wedding day about being a varginal virgin.

Wait until she finds out the dude is impotent or infertile..... rubbish!

ugo frank said...

For all those criticizing Linda, yes she said her mind and she is not influencing anybody, don't tell me any girl that reads dis blog and surfs the internet has not known any bad thing except what linda which will make them to change their mind about loosing their virginity. Pls let's face the fact, all man to his personal decision.
NB: for the record I don't encourage SEX before marriage, I have actually met many virgin girls back then in school and I left them virgins because I respect their decision.

Anonymous said...

I believe that it is something to be encouraged especially in this day and time. I don't think it is wise to sleep with a man just because he is your boyfriend. I am married and my husband met me a virgin and it is true he absolutely ADORES me for that.

Anonymous said...

I have been celibate for a long time (due to not being in a relationship and will stay celibate until I meet the right man) and I do find it difficult sometimes but I would never disrespect someone else if they want to have sex with their partner.

Plus, what is the difference between kissing, oral sex, masturbating, giving hand jobs to a man or fingering a women? As many people have said, these acts are all part of sex and I know many virgins who have done these acts and still get excited to tell me that they are virgins! Oh please, people need to sit down and reflect on their own lives before they judge someone else's.

I personally do not understand why she needed to announce that she was a virgin on her wedding day and no one cares!

oshash said...

@anon 7.24 & chichiluv...well said.best comments iv read ere.tho,im not a saint in any way,but cant just be supportin immorality in any form.

valerie said...

pls what exactly did linda say that makes her perverse? i'm really confused. she hasnt promoted immorality in any way, just aired her views. everyone to his or her own abeg. being a virgin till ur 100 doesnt make u any better than the next person.

Anonymous said...

You guys should free Linda abeg. At least, she's honest enough to speak her mind. Being a virgin doesn't turn u into a good wife and not being a virgin doesn't make u into a bad one either. If u are still a virgin, keep it up and if you're not one, just make sure u make it up to ur husband in other ways.

cressidachic said...

For you all that are crucifying Linda,she's only airing her opinion!U wanna air urs,go create ur own blog!For whoever is able to keep his/her virginity till marriage,I applaud you for a job well done.However,for pple like us that aren't able to do that,it doesn't mean we are doomed for hell!All I'll just say is:Dnt misuse ur not being a virgin to be fucking anytin and everything!HIV/AIDS is real!Be faithful to one partner even if you go use condom!

Sugabelly said...

If her husband wasn't a virgin, she's stupid.

She just gave her virginity to a man who didn't respect her enough to save HIS virginity for her.

Bianca said...

It's highly commendabble. If you set your heart on it through christ, you can do it. I'm still a virgin at 25yrs old. I will like to get married soon but if it takes till I'm 30 then I will wait.

Anonymous said...

Some people are vegetarians, some ppl eat meat. Some are virgins and some are not..no big deal. Hopefully she checked her husband out to make sure he is disease free.

Anonymous said...

What I don't get is; all these sanctimonious delusional I-made-a-covenant-with-God blah blah dickheads who condemn Linda for been real and unpretentious. If your virtuous I'm-a-virgin lives are so fulfilling and linda's is so sinful, what in fuck's name are you constantly reading her blog for?

Ada said...

@Sugabelly,

you have it all wrong! No she did it, because she honored God enough to put him before any other man. Its God himself that will reward her. She isnt looking to her husband (man) to reward her.
If her husband wasnt a virgin but has gotten it right with God. Its God that is the judge that deemed him worthy, to be given this His daughter.

Get it right!

Anonymous said...

dis sex of a tin iz too overhypd abeg..who cares if ur a virg or nt....u dey giv blowjob anyhowmu stil dey laim virgin...abeg abeg abeg...OLOWO

Doja 2.0 said...

You stay a virgin by not having sex before you are 30! Good for her, what irritates me is the way people lay claim to virginity as if it makes them better than those who are not!

jenny said...

Linda ,keeping ones virginity b4 marriage is a very good thing especially for the women folk,its a blessing to any marriage ,i really commend Nikki for keeping hers b4 marriage ,with so much temptation around the corner,i am 25 and still a virgin and would continue do so by God"s grace till i get marriage..keeping ur virginity is the best gift u can give ur hubby on ur wedding nite..thats my candid opinion

Anonymous said...

Dear Mrs. Nikki, call me when you have the cure for cancer and then I will give a damn. Until then, keep the details of your love life to yourself. Shior, it is not as if you are the only person in the world to wait until marriage, why all the noise? And to those attacking Linda, calm down. Linda is entitled to her own opinion, it is her blog after all. If you don't like it, piss off.

signed
Me, just being a hater...hehehehe

oscar said...

You are not the first neither are you the last.... Am sure the very reason you kept your virginity is so that you can announce it to the world on you wedding day. Why not go to Alausa and announce it to Fashola maybe he will give you an SUV...........By the way being a virgin bride doesn't make you a good woman... it is only for your own good.

Femi said...

As ƒor me, sex is something (oh love to call it fun)soulful and spiritual. It's a symbol of oneness and unity. Imagine what take place. So i can't test-drive. Is always good to keep it for that special person in your life. After union, it's a matter of time you will become an expert. Guyz ‎​who found themselves in that shoe should never be nervous but heartily take it as your duty as husband. So ƒor those ‎​who keep it, keep it UP. Linda, join the train.

Anonymous said...

linda you are a bad girl,,but i like your way,,,,
about virgin,i has spend one year plus with a swiss girl here who is 30years plus then,2008,,i believe her the day she ask me to inter,but trust me,i did not open the box,,the time i see it,,even two fingers can,t inter the box,,
but my nigerian far girl friend that live together with me for 3years plus then claim a virgin to the new guy she catch after waiting for me for 4years without having a sex,,and the guy believe her,,wat a life,,every day sex is now a virgin,,waoooo

Anonymous said...

This is my take.

To my daughter, she makes up her mind when to lose her virginity. If she is about to marry, i shall ask her if she is pregnant. If yes, we proceed fast to marriage. If no, mum is the word.

To my son, please impregnate your proposed wife before marriage. No bullshit over "i love her, everything shall be ok after the marriage ceremony".

My reason? I shall not follow any1 around to correct an otherwise avoidable situation by visiting any pastor, imam, native doctor or howsoever called. I can't fast nor engage in praying over such things nor engage in any night vigil. I have ulcer and love my sleep.

Anonymous said...

This is my take.

To my daughter, she makes up her mind when to lose her virginity. If she is about to marry, i shall ask her if she is pregnant. If yes, we proceed fast to marriage. If no, mum is the word.

To my son, please impregnate your proposed wife before marriage. No bullshit over "i love her, everything shall be ok after the marriage ceremony".

My reason? I shall not follow any1 around to correct an otherwise avoidable situation by visiting any pastor, imam, native doctor or howsoever called. I can't fast nor engage in praying over such things nor engage in any night vigil. I have ulcer and love my sleep.

Anonymous said...

I'm laughing hard u know. I have a sister who got married as a virgin at 32, highly commendable isn't it? Anyway, she's the typical woman who sleeps with her husband in the mummy and daddy style; the missionary position. We got talking one day and she confided in me that her husband requested for a blow job but she didn't give him cos she cannot use the mouth she uses to pray to 'sin'. I visited a club this past weekend and saw her 'Christian' husband caressing another woman. I went up to them to make sure he saw me. I got there, exchanged pleasantries and when I asked who the girl was, she gleefully replied, 'I'm his fiancee'. I checked his hand and discovered that he had removed his wedding ring. Who is fooling who?

Anonymous said...

lol...Linda u too funny...and i AGREE....LOL

Anonymous said...

Sex before marriage is wrong,like it or not.And as a xtian,if u ar havin sex n sayin u ar testin,u r wrong

Anonymous said...

But isn't that almost always the case SUGABELLY? That's why I find nothing commendable in this. Two ppl who have preserved themself for each other are worth talking about IMO.

Anonymous said...

Pls u all should spare me with ur talk, don't know y pple always insult linda when she puts up something, its not by force to read her blog ass holes!!!. Btwn she's a Virgin bride so d fuck what, is he? I don't know y women think a guy will love and respect them more for that crap, 'I wanna be a virgin till I get married' it would have been fun if men think that way too, while she's there being a virgin her man is out giving it to some other girl real hard, to ma ignorant pple in Nigeria and shocking enough it comes from the girls, linda ma sweetie I love u so much as well as ur blog, whoever don't like what u put up should go to Oyedepo and get a slap...... Smh

Anonymous said...

My husband who is born again was a virgin at 33 when I married him. We've been married almost a decade. I'm the only woman he has ever slept with and he is a hunk. I know both men and women who were virgins at that age. All the ones I know really take their servise to God seriously. My husband said it was a vow he made to God as a teenager and the Holy Spirit helped him. I know it's possible even though not easy. I really cherish my husband for that.

oyinkan said...

Anonymous 8.02pm has killed me ooo.dat d 21 yr old virgin shld holla back later, lmao.u pple r crucifyng Linda all cos she poured out her mind i thot we all have a right to our opinion.na u go say linda dis n dat n u will still come n read again.can som1 remove anonymous from d name list sef so we will knw who u are.Mscheeew leave linda oooo.so every1 is a virgin now cos som1 is.if we r all virgins now then who r those pple buying d condoms and d pills.d abortions nko.guess d animals r using dem.good for her at 30 i dnt envy her at all at all.until she doesnt knw ow to do jack n d guy starts cheatng on her or is d guy a virgin too.monkey dey carry monkey climb palm tree.oshisko punana.abeg linda next topic.virgin or no virgin dem sha don open am now.where is d blood stained handkerchief.linda am waiting for proof oooo.

LOST VIRGINITY AT 18 says said...

@ sonia, I respect anybody who wants to be a virgin to each his own, it doesnt make u a better person or will it make you a good wife, you can be a virgin and still be cantercarous, dirty, abusive, violent and a bad home maker.
Am concerned that you say u dont have and has never had sexual feelings or urges then the is something seriously wrong with you, you definitely have a sexual disorder(lack of libido), read it up and check out the symptoms.

I HEART VIRGINS. said...

@ lost a viriginty at 18 LOLEST!!!! You are mad indeed, I find you comment to be the best, realest and funniest comment here lol cant stop laughing. My brother`S girlfriend claims to be a virigin too but my brother said she gives the best blow jobs and hand jobs and they always engage in anal and oral sex but no virginal sex tommorow somebody will marry her and start boasting he married a virigin LOL!!! And yes she is 27 and my brother is her 5th boyfriend, do the maths LOL!!!

Anonymous said...

virginity is still in vogue o, forever will, dont be deceived

Anonymous said...

A guy actually called his mother-in-law during their wedding night to thank her again and again for her daughter. He adores her like no other business afterwards. seriously, the old path is always the good way

Anonymous said...

PLs you guys should not forget that one can buy virginity theses days !

Anonymous said...

Announcing virginity or ur number of sexual partners to the world is tacky.

Anonymous said...

Haba Linda the things u post at times amazed me. i doubt if you have a personal relationship with God. in your own bible, sex b4 marriage is allowed abi. i knw u won't post dis

Anonymous said...

I got married at 32 as a virgin. There is really nothing to brag about it. It does not guarantee anything.

Posh Pearls said...

Linda you crack me up. I love your blog!!

Samantha said...

Ah, Linda I love u.. And na true oh, entering a marriage where the buy no fit perform, na frustration be that oh! Lmao

Ebonyjenny said...

Nikki dont worry its not all abt having sex 2ru vegina, i know dt most of u virgine does it 2ru the anal maybe u re one of them, u cant decieve me.

Anonymous said...

I was just having this same discussion with someone. Being a virgin doesn't make you a better person than the person who isn't . Because I haven't had sex doesn't make me that much purer or better than my other active friends. I don't even mention it because I don't see it as a trump card over anybody. It's a choice I made and it's between me and God. Now if they were giving prize money for being a virgin, then errmmm, I will be making all the noise


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Femillionaire said...

It is either a lot of your posters are liars or Nigerian girls are not as sexually active as previously thought.

Goodluck to anybody who chooses to maintain her chastity till marriage. I however think it is better to know what you're getting into beforehand as marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment and any mistake could lead a lifetime of sexual frustration. Linda, yours is the pragmatic approach.. No mind all these yeye posters...

Anonymous said...

i wish you had the like button on you blog, chichi luv, nailed it, for me, i'm not a virgin but i'e stayed away from sex for over 4yrs and it will remain like that until i'm married, my body is God's sanctuary and i do not plan to defile it anymore...

Anonymous said...

Enough of this crap! If u as a lady keeps ur virginity till marriage and ur husband has been banging around then it is foolishness to come around and say 'my husband met me a virgin and yet he still adores me and bla bla bla'. The question is do u adore ur husband having met him a disvirgined fellow while u a virgin?
And come to think of it who says u r the saint here since u kept ur virginity till marriage, and also is virginity till marriage a certificate to heaven?

Anonymous said...

@Sugabelly: You are wise. We need to stop the double standards. Saving oneself for marriage is equally important for men as it is for women. If a lady feels so strongly about the need to remain a virgin before marriage and goes ahead to marry a non-virgin, she is being silly and a hypocrite IMO.

Yetty said...

dear nikki, if he is not a virgin as well stop making noise. He shagged plenty girls before you& he is still going to shag YOU!! *next>>>

Yetty said...

so all of a sudden there is a conference of virgins here!

Anonymous said...

i don laugh tire Linda,in my own case i don be celibate cos av been told to.i tell u,its not been easy when you don chop the forbidden fruit.

Anonymous said...

I have been married for years now and I have 2 lovely kids. Before I got married I went to the doctor for counselling on family planning because we didnt want to have kids yet. When I told him I was a virgin he laughed me to scorn, he said he didnt envy my hubby and did not wish to be in his shoes. WHen I told him my hubby too was a virgin, the laughter quadrupuled. I left his office very upset but today......all of you put together cannot possibly be having a better sexual experience than we are.....its first class all the way baby,anything less is economy.
God that designed marriage like that is wiser than all you advocates for premarital sex...its your loss.

And let me say to all these sadists who find it hard to believe that someone can be a virgin without anal sex, kissing etc .....too bad for you guys, you only see the world as you are...liars!

As for Linda,you can use your platform better in all honesty. You could stop at commending Nikki and ending it there. You dont have to give your opinion which you know at the bottom of your heart is the wrong way. All the sexual experiences you have had, where have they gotten you? Over 30 and very horny!...thats not life.
Except you change your way of thinking, your flesh will set you up so bad,you might fall into the wrong laps..but God forbid.
We enjoy your blog sha but dont get carried away so you dont go extinct.
Everyone in this world is fighting to do better, live right, resist temptation of one kind or another. Help them, dont work against them. A young girl could read your comment decide to jump into bed with a man that says he loves her and get pregnant and dumped cos Linda Ikeji sef said it is hard to hold body when you have a man....Think before you type gurrrll...but overall keep up the good work..once the issue is based on morals, dont give an opinion or better still,decide to encourage the right way even if you are struggling with the wrong way cos one day Linda you will be older and wiser and your heart will bleed for those you erroneously misled and you wont be able to take it back.
So when in doubt, shut up!;)

Anonymous said...

"This my currently situation is even giving me nightmares....hahaha!"
---Linda

Can you the error in the sentence?

Joke: You love to 'yab' Mrs Jonathan. Mrs Jonathan has gone back to school because she is preparing for 2012.

If it is the same popular Laoye family then you would know why it was better for her to keep her virginity until she got married. I cannot blame her.

Anonymous said...

Firstly,I tink linda intentionally does dis to create drama on her blog!I got married few mnths ago a virgin at 27,having not kissed,dry humped or done anal sex wit any1.however,I do not discriminate against pple who hav opposing beliefs to mine.it takes a lot of discipline nd sacrifice to stay away from sex nd God was my helper.so,to each his own!

Jez said...

Linda, have not heard of women that visit special clinics for hymen repair, so that they can be virgins on their wedding night?

You can do it too to fool a man. Please, most Nigerians are backward. Some virgins have anal sex for years. Only god knows the true virgins. In the US and UK, by age 14 most people are disvirgined.

@UgoChime1 said...

Now, she's no longer a virgin!

Now, she's welcome to the real world where sex complicates everything, even in marriage.

Abi, no be married pple dey ask 4 advice 4 dis blog? Or, una think all of dem slept with d whole world & this is their punishment?

Anonymous said...

I dey laff o... Britain's oldest virgin is now 108 years old. Last year, she was a year younger.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1317790/Britains-oldest-virgin-Clara-Meadmore-celebrates-107th-birthday.html

Anonymous said...

Nigerians are just too razz for my liking....this just goes to show that those of you condemning Linda are not exposed cos if u had been reading other blog sites, you wouldnt be this foolish...smh .as 4 d VIRGINS please kip it 2 URSLVES ur virginity as nt stppd dem frm implmting d lekki-toll fee sooo pleaaseeeee kip it shut.

Deep Soul said...

Haha@Anon 1.10am. Funny Story. That's the sort of husband that brings diseases home. So having oral sex with her husband is a sin because that's the same mouth she uses to pray!

Is her BODY not the temple of the Holy Ghost? Doesn't she let him touch her? Huge hypocrite!

@Linda: Since pple are criticizing you, biko put an SNLV warning......that way, they r held responsible for what they see!

You marry as a virgin and tomorrow, your husband becomes adulterous and gives u HIV and you both DIE. Now, that's murder....and suicide :-D

P.S: I do not support pre-marital sex :-)

To each his own jare!

Anonymous said...

Linda so what would you say about a woman like me who would be 40 next year and still a virgin? I guess you would say sometin is wrong with me abi. Let me tell you it is not all women that want men to pass through them before they marry. And i would remain the same until the man marries me before he can have his way. This is simply called self control. So don't be naive when you hear of virgins that old okay!! all women are not public toilets as some still have there dignity to be proud off and I am one of them.

Although getting a professional career and reaching the top of my career ladder was what made me not get married at my age but I also have not met the right kind of guy for myself hopefully i would soon and not to forget MEN ARE MOSTLY ALL WOMANIZERS!!! You can prove me wrong.

Anonymous said...

Such ones will be valued and respected by their husbands.She will always be trusted and she will be proud of her self too.Am a witness at 28 not yet disvargin...my fiance accord me with respect everytime.Thumb up to those who still cherish their virginity outside marriage.

Ponle said...

@Linda,I was @ Nikki's wedding and @ no time did she say she was a virgin! Haba! It was a City ppl article where she was asked if she was pregnant cos she was marrying on a sunday and she promptly responded that she wasn't and that her husband would be her first! The interview was even done before d wedding...

Seyi said...

I dont think its really necessary for her to announce that on her wedding day........

I got married a CLEAN VIRGIN too almost 3 yrs ago(no blow jobs,anal sex and the likes )but that doesnt make me different from other ladies,,,,,,,its between me,my husband and God.......and for those who think its not possible ,,its very possible.......

Linda,,,,how many men do u want to test drive????so if ur not satisfied with one man u move to the next man......may God help u in ur test driving profession oooo,,,,God's words remain the same no matter how u try to make it suit u or ur ways!!!

Anonymous said...

Na wah o.....See pple just hating on virgins.....where u guys forced or raped to loose una own????

Anonymous said...

well, seriously being a virgin is a good thing. remaining faithful to who you do sex with married or unmarreid is another thing. i commend the fact that shes a virgin till marriage. Linda...u shld chk yoursef bef you reck yousef. Markedface1.

viva4eva said...

Mehn linda i gbadun u, a little of me is inside of u. make nikky dey there they deceive herself until we hear say oga no fit perform or na she no fit perform. My friend called me yesterday and told me how she left her boyfriend simply cos he never satisfies her, after one round he will be screaming `AM TIRED`. I jokingly told her to come and marry me since she had no boyfriend anymore and she said, if not that SAME SEX MARRIAGE LAW HAS BEEN MADE I WUD VE BEEN THE BEST CHOICE. That she prefers it to the guy's DICK. U are a virgin so i shud enter Gutter! SMH

Anonymous said...

Who if she's a virgin, u guyz should stop makin noise, if u want 2 fuck somebody, go ahead n stop shouting about being a virgin. Sex is so sweet. So lets enjoy ourselves

Abimbola said...

My stas on this matter: married @ 32 to a tall dark and handsome 34 year old man. Both Christians. Both virgins by choice. Lessons?
1) It is POSIBLE
It is RIGHT
2)It introduces a new dimension of TRUST into the relationship
2) It is soooo WORTH the physical WAIT

Sophia said...

Many of u r jis droppin ur comments anyhw.how foolish.Sex is designd by God.It is spiritual n av eternal consequences.premarital sex is a sin. Pple jis despise wot shuld bn held wiv dearly.im 23, n im a virgin.Nikkie,i adore u.Your doin it d God-way n u r inspiring young pple out der.Leave all dis guys wer dey run deir mouth anyhw.Thumbs up!

Anonymous said...

Sophia, wat is ur own business, anybody that wants 2 fuck should go ahead and fuck. It is all about d enjoyment. Sex is delicious we all need to enjoy ourselves. Everybody lets ride on... SEX all the way...

mercyajeh said...

hey SOPHIA, the girl who wrote before me, sharrap and read the story then read your coment again....
(2) for all the ones that want to enjoy life, well, go ahead and continue becoming one with hundreds of men. when you marry and you go out with nobody will respect him because they know how promiscus u were..linda shey u hear ba.
(3) for all the virgins, more grease to your elbow jare
(4)....LINDA LINDA LINDA!!!! if u dont have anything better to write about sex then SHARRAP! somebody who went to the wedding even send your account of the event wrong.....

Anonymous said...

I don laugh taya 4 here...to d Virgins congratulations! abi no be wetin una wan hear.
so u are bad cause u are no longer a virgin yet u commit other sin shey dem say sin is sin fornication ,adultery stealing, lying so tell me know if a non virgin goes to hell a virging lair goes where.............biko make una just take a walk

Anonymous said...

she's a virgin..u not..why so bitter..noticed your blog is full of twisted single salty women....everything's on the go 4 them..who wants loose tire!!
And those going on about him giving her HIV..face the facts women are more likely to transmit sexual diseases than men...'cos there's is so much harder to detect..looking at a dick u can always tell..with a woman not so easy!!..if u like don't post as usual..at least u seen it!!..

Anonymous said...

Linda needs to get a life. Gaskiya!!

Anonymous said...

So Linda you are now saying that the God who gave that instruction that sex is meant for married couples ONLY!!! has given an impossible wrong command or what? As a Christian did you not read that verse in the bible that fornication is a sin and wrong? Infact you sin against your own body. Anyday, anytime SEX OUT OF MARRIAGE IS A SIN IN THE EYES OF GOD whether you like it or not. Upon all the test drive that you have done which one has taken you to the altar none does that not say something? Absolutely!!! Think before you write things down and open your mouth to speak so that we don’t offend God and his word. My 2 pence

One more thing there are virgins wey plenty well well out there be it male or female and they are prepared to wait until they marry before they loss their virginity you hear…. And I am a virgin in my 30ies and very very proud of it. If I marry a virgin man today the best and if he is not a virgin it is still fine but at least I have preserved my dignity and yes men especially do cherish their wives very much if they meet them as virgins as it is a very very difficult thing to keep but with God’s help it is possible. So use your blog to encourage those who are still virgins and not promoting test driving especially for the younger generation okay!!! Kudos to Nikki and other vigins out there for obeying God’s command.

Tycoon! said...

Linda, guess you saw this. Confirm ASAP. http://www.namywedding.com/articles/248-linda-ikejibella-naija-engaged-celeb-bloggers-set-to-wed-2012

Anonymous said...

You know id have really loved to keep it for him. im talking about my virginity. Just that by the time I found out what it meant, I had already lost it. It wasn’t anything great to me at the time, it was jus something that was taken away by uncle taju one cool evening behind the shop, a lump of sugar to keep me quiet, a scoop of Vaseline in his hands, and three or so minutes, it was gone. it was 1994, i was five.

Anonymous said...

THATS WHY SHE'S MARRIED AND YOUR NOT #justsaying

cute girl said...

All those people saying church,god ,holy this and dat,shut up ur smelling cum filled mouth up,linda spoke her mind,u don't ve the rite to judge her if u are so holly wat are u doing on the internet,are true Christian suppose to be comenting here rather than reading ur bible,ur husband disvirgined u oh,or ur boyfriend or u disvirgined ur self is Nobody's biz better still write α tattoo an ur face with husbands name on ur head so dat everybody will knw dat he is first man u saw ,hypocrites!! If dnt like her update close it up is not by force to read or comment, kilode?

addee said...

LINDA WHATS UP NOW?I CAN SEE ALOT OF DISVIRGIRNED GIRLS ARE MAD.WHO'S FAULT IS IT WHEN YOU OPEN YOUR LEGS FOR MEATPIE AND ICECREAM.I RESPECT VIRGINS THAT IS WHY I WOULD LIKE TO MARRY ONE(if possible lol) NOT ALL THESE USED UP GIRLS WITH THEIR POTHOLe P**** FLOATING IN NAIJA

Anonymous said...

sophia i respect you i really do. you spoke the truth most guys won't like what you send cos they still want their steady income of sex.most girls won't like what you said cos it's a tad bit to late for them to do so and they want to avoid the regret feeling.

Olumide Adeleye said...

I'm in my mid twenties, a male and a virgin. I intend to stay that way until marriage. I've heard different things- mostly negative- but I'm proud to remain that way. Perhaps you could read my post: http://olumideadeleye.com/2010/11/15/when-it-is-wrong-to-be-right/

franni said...

Linda the Hawt mama, a lil decorum please. Stop being ghetto fabulous. Love you still.

Anonymous said...

Anon@6:20 Dec 20th. I must say your statement is the most powerful on this thread. May your tomorrows forever be better than your yesterdays.

Thank you for your sobering reminder that many never got the choice to choose.

Anonymous said...

When I hear people say that those who are not virgins do not fear God, I laugh at their ignorance. I'm 35, never had a boyfriend yet I'm not a virgin. Want to know why? My mother's younger brother raped me when I was 13. Till this date, I'm yet to overcome that trauma and to think someone is out there judging me cos I'm not a virgin? God will judge.

Anonymous said...

This girl suppose de your headline. She is a role model and should be commended for keeping it real.......mcheeeew

Anonymous said...

Babes dey form virgin well well noW Oo..the thing they do is this: they will avoid sex for some months before wedding and on when picking the wedding dates, they cohearce fiance and family members to pick a specific date which is her menstration date...on wedding night,they make penetration difficult for the man and when they are through, hubby go just see blood on bedsheet after sex!!afterall what is the sign u will see when u disvirgin a woman? BLOOD

Eniola said...

Thumbs up to Nikki. I'm proud of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Aunty Linda I just turned 16 3 months ago and my Dad got me a lappy saw your blog somehow and I have seen you as a mentor to me because someday when I'm much older I want to create my own blog and then educate the minds of the younger generation .but lately I feel so uncomfortable with your post I was never spoken to about sex at home in fact my parents always avoided the topic and I don't have friends to ask because they all see me as a nerd, plz Aunty be careful with your words... God bless you Barbara

mercyajeh said...

sophia sorry, i dint know u were referring to nikki, thought u were talking to linda..:)

Anonymous said...

No offence, but I seriously think if you don't have what to say, it is better to talk about how your day went, than talk about things that will either bring curses to you, mare you or even run down the rep that you are trying to build.

Nikki Laoye said...

Hey wasap y'al. Linda hw nw? U don open fowl yansh o. LOL!
This is Nikki Laoye herself,yep! D lady Linda talkd about in this post.
Yes,am 31 now sef,bday was on d 19th dec and I did get married on d 11th Dec as a virgin. Its funny to c how my statement has been blown sky high wen it was just a simple response to City People's questn (b4 my weddn)of why I was getn married on a sunday and dat dia was a rumor dat I was pregnant . I laffed em off and replied dat I be virgin mary o and baby neva show o. And d news spread like wildfire in anoda dimension.

Despite ds,its amazin to c d ruckus this has created on blogs and even twitter. Am proud to say I waited til my weddn day,we both waited and it was our choice. Infact my husband and I were each other's firsts and we are proud to ave shared ourselves wit no one else . My statement wasn't made to rub guilt into anyone's face and I do admit it aint easy to stay celibate and it wasn't by our power but GOD's grace kept us.

Sex is a huge responsibility wen single-thots of contraceptives,Stds,pregnancy etc,abeg we didn av energy 4 al dat. As wel,my hubby and I are sticklers to our christian faith and I practise wat I teach cos am a gospel artiste and my life should b a testimony for God and to d young people that I teach via my music and al.
Thus our decision to wait and it was definately worth it.*wink

I deeply sympathise wit d ladies who mentnd being raped and I say in God's eyes,ur stil pure. May his love heal u inside out and keep ur mind body and soul.

Dearest bloggers,ur life is ur own. Wat uv read is mine and I jst decided to share. Work out ur days and ur choices wit God's grace and wisdom.
Take care of urselves

Wit love 4rm me-
NIKKI LAOYE-OTURU

Anonymous said...

Barbara or wat ever ur name is pls shut up and dnt ever look unto dis blog if u no u dnt want to see worst things,who d brat are u to tell wat to b posted here or not and I guess u should be looking up to topics in d net to help u with ur studies not surfing at linda's blog and u nikki virgin pls keep ur anus and ur mouth virgins too,dnt get them disvirgned becos dat is wat u uses to sit in d church and sing u knw wat I mean,u guys should put it in d riteful place not otherwise

devour said...

i cant stop laffin linda ! u don buy market,even nikki reply u BRAVO

Dorothy Zyna said...

hian! a virgin at 30??? i pity u when u finally do it. na beans?? haa! u can seriously get wounded my dear.

Anonymous said...

NIKKI LAOYE-OTURU, if u really sent that post, you are really a fool and an attention seeker, I have lost all respect for you, you even went as far as telling us more of your bedroom secrets by telling us that both u and ur husband were virgins on a blog, you said that you found it hard to believe you simple response to City people(that response was so uncalled for and tacky a simple no am not pregnant will have sufficed) is all over the blogs and twitter, you still want to be in the news by informing us that ur husband was a virgin too, pls nobody knows who u are or cares to know who you are or cares about your bedroom secrets, I have never heard of u or ur music and I don’t care, if you were busy you wouldn’t be on all blogs announcing that you married as a virgin, Miss Local champion. So the highlight of your career is that you married a virgin. Hope the sex was good foolish idiot. You are so tacky and low class. Now that you are a no more a virgin the is nothing new to report on your life again so go back into oblivion were u belong.

Anonymous said...

This girl na really stupid girl oh!!! She even came to dis blog to make mouth, her husband na really Ibo omata boy, with his local dressing and bleached skin, he remains me of those traders in Onitsha main market, that harass people

Nkiru, Nkechi bia na shop mu e werem u size LOL!!!!

I have never had anal sex so am I am techincally a butt virgin LOL!!!! All na virgin. Ndi ala LOL!!!

Anonymous said...

most women dnt want sex b4 marriage but una d guys go gree let them stay!!!

Anonymous said...

NIKKI YOU HAVE MY RESPECT. your hubby is lucky

Anonymous said...

Ah! Nikky or wetin u call ursef? U r a liar and all liars are bound to make H_ _ L. I thot u are a gospel singer, singing Gospel music, but now, I think we all have to be careful about words from your mouth. Did I hear you say u and ur husband are eachoda's first? It is a pity u guys are starting ur marriage with terrific lies. I know ur husband very well. We both schooled at O.A.U and we all knew whom he dated for years all thru undergraduate days. It's rather unfortunate that he must have lied to that lady. History has it that u av dated several guys too, so who r u trying to impress? Ah! I pity you. Infact, shame don catch you. How old ur husband be? I know he's not up to 30years. So na u go dey control ur husband abi? that's your plan, ur stupid Mr. Oturu too signed up a deal with you. I PITY BOTH OF YOU JARE! Well, wish u all u wish urselves.

Anonymous said...

@December 22, 2011 1:55 WHY SO SAD?you mad cos you didn't retain your virginity like the nikki? It's not her fault you open your deflated overused pussy just to get some change

Gam said...

So funny to see how people have turned Sex into a God. If it doesn't rule your life, you will not go about seeking it.
Not having sex is not life threatening, having sex is now so much of a hassle, it'd have to be God for you to 'just do it'

Anonymous said...

make all this ashawos go siddon joor!!..una never tire..nice girls wey no be virgins no dey yarn like una..na the rotten bitter ones dey come talk rubbish here!!

bkoks said...

@Anonymous December 22, 2011 1:49 AM you have got to be the meanest fellow ever on earth, jeez u disgust me and i op i never get to meet people like u ever, y would u insult some1 you have never met like that. All i can say is girl (u are obviously a girl)get a life cos the one u think u r living is TERRIBLE>>>>> I honestly cant believe this, your comment just ruined my day *hian*

shocked! said...

Some of these comments here are just amazingly stupid, so even after the young lady explained her testimony, some people still find it in their hearts to insult her the more? She is a gospel minister for christ sake! Pst Bimbo Odukoya always made mention of the fact that she married as a virgin! Why didn't people insult her for that??? It just goes to show that the world has really lost it's morals. She said she never said it to condemn anyone, yet the vilification continues??? Na wa oh!

inspired said...

I am really glad to see this and am sure lots of young ladies like me who are looking to keep ourselves would be inspired. I was nearly loosing hope and wondering if it was worth it keeping myself till am married cos a lot of men have come and gone. One of my bosses even threatened to make my life a living hell if I didn't have sex with him. Nikki, tank you for your testimony, even Jesus was condemned for His testimony, pls keep the fire burning...

inspired said...

I am really glad to see this and am sure lots of young ladies like me who are looking to keep ourselves would be inspired. I was nearly loosing hope and wondering if it was worth it keeping myself till am married cos a lot of men have come and gone. One of my bosses even threatened to make my life a living hell if I didn't have sex with him. Nikki, tank you for your testimony, even Jesus was condemned for His testimony, pls keep the fire burning...

Anonymous said...

A man was traveling with his wife, his child and they had one donkey. He started off walking on foot, while his wife and baby were on the donkey. As he passed by some villagers, they laughed at him saying,'look at this foolish man, he is carrying load, while his wife and baby are on the donkey, why doesn't he put the load on the donkey and his entire family walk on foot'. He decided to listen to dem and did as they implied. When he arrived at the next town, d ppl there laughed even harder saying 'see this yeye man, he is walking on foot, while donkey is there carrying small load. He should ride d donkey and let his wife carry the load', once again he listened and began to ride the donkey. On reaching the next town, the ppl there were even agry with him "wicked man! See him riding donkey and his wife and child are on foot carrying load! Wicked man!" Morale of the story @nikki, YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE! Just do YOU!

Anonymous said...

Reading thru d these comments, i see that saying one is a virgin really irks some non-virgins. Why is that? U dont hv 2 abuse Nikki. She chose her lifestyle just like u did urs. She did not condem anyone, not even preach 2 anyone abt being a virgin. Those callin her idiot and fool shd cut her some slacks.

It also tells me that the normal is regarded as abnormal. Sex is so overrated. Not having sex b4 marriage has no health or social complications. Infact, d disadvantages of premarital and extra marital sex abound. So what r we talking abt here?

And those saying that all sins r equal, should we continue in sin then? No attempt whatsoever to live right or do the right thing? It is obvious that the world is really upside down. SMH.

Anonymous said...

@ anonymous Dec 22 1.40am get out you think everybody is like you that sell you cheap puss infested pussy all over Ajegunle where u live, that is if you are not Nikki herself. The boy looks local and bleaches his skin, I called him out on it and you are here ranting. Even his wedding outfit goes to show how classless and a local champion he is. That is my opinion, if it pains U I can offer you some oitment for you maggot infested pussy. Ashawo like u OLODO!!!!!
Linda post my comment oh!!!

Anonymous said...

Anonymus@10:23 and @anonymous 1:49 u guys have spoken my mind

Gbile said...

A man was traveling with his wife, his child and they had one donkey. He started off walking on foot, while his wife and baby were on the donkey. As he passed by some villagers, they laughed at him saying,'look at this foolish man, he is carrying load, while his wife and baby are on the donkey, why doesn't he put the load on the donkey and his entire family walk on foot'. He decided to listen to dem and did as they implied. When he arrived at the next town, d ppl there laughed even harder saying 'see this yeye man, he is walking on foot, while donkey is there carrying small load. He should ride d donkey and let his wife carry the load', once again he listened and began to ride the donkey. On reaching the next town, the ppl there were even agry with him "wicked man! See him riding donkey and his wife and child are on foot carrying load! Wicked man!" Morale of the story @nikki, YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE! Just do YOU!

gbile said...

A man was traveling with his wife, his child and they had one donkey. He started off walking on foot, while his wife and baby were on the donkey. As he passed by some villagers, they laughed at him saying,'look at this foolish man, he is carrying load, while his wife and baby are on the donkey, why doesn't he put the load on the donkey and his entire family walk on foot'. He decided to listen to dem and did as they implied. When he arrived at the next town, d ppl there laughed even harder saying 'see this yeye man, he is walking on foot, while donkey is there carrying small load. He should ride d donkey and let his wife carry the load', once again he listened and began to ride the donkey. On reaching the next town, the ppl there were even agry with him "wicked man! See him riding donkey and his wife and child are on foot carrying load! Wicked man!" Morale of the story @nikki, YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE! Just do YOU!

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 10:23am, does nikki herself look 30 to you???

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 10:23am, does Nikki herself look 30 to you? When she said they were each other's firsts a good understanding of the english language would tell u that they were each other's firsts in bed! So having a girlfriend or she having boyfriends don't compute! Unless you are saying he slept (had sex, in case u tink I mean shared a bed space) with your friend whom he dated in school!?!

anon 1.40 said...

December 23, 2011 1:01 lmao YOU MUST BE REAALLLLLYYYYY MAD THAT YOU PUSSY KEEPS DEFLATING&EXPANDING EVERY MINUTE hahaha well if you had some class you could have kept your filty legs closed till marriage LIKE I DID and not offreing it to every being around. don't be to sad you can always find a dog to f***k when the next d*ck shrivels @ the sight of that rotten fish smelling filth hole you call a vagina
p.s why are dissing ajegunle didn't you also distribute there? 'women' like you disgust me.infact the title ANIMAL fit you
foh I can't be caught replying to a loose pussy*spits into it and walks away*

big ups nikki & to other women out there mwah

anon 1.40 said...

@addee THEY ARE REALLY MAD OOH LOL some even opened for puff puff and akara too lmao their mothers must have REALLYY taught them well haha

Anonymous said...

anon 1.49 and 1.55 are just bitter. calling the girl names because she's a virgin? haba! you just sound like hoodrats who are upset that this world still have decent females in it. kmt

Anonymous said...

@ ano 1.40 it is now so obvious that you are Nikki the attention seeking fool, afer all your choir members have fucked you anally u come here to claim virgin, LOL!!! So Pussies smell like fish, you must be talking from exprecience didnt know that LOL!!! Hope u have bought diapers you will wear for the rest of your life after loosing elascity in you anus. Pls I can smell you leaking virgin and anus from here, you need a shower. You learnt from the best, your mother who taught you to use your anus to get money and lie that you are a virgin LOL!!!. Now that you are the lastest unvirgined in town. Merry Xmas LOL!!!!.
@ BKOKS I dont care what you think I just find it tacky and unclassy that Nikki will come to a blog and say that both her husband and herself where each others first and it was worth the wait thats so tacky and too much information so if she is judged on that she shdnt start posting anonymously on a blog so as to keep herself in the news or think she is relevant or important. So I sign out with on last word MERRY XMAS TO ALL VIRGINS AND NON VIRGINS OUT THERE LOL!!!!
Linda post my comments oh!!!!

Anonymous said...

anon 6:23/anon 1:55 biko what is it with you and virgins naaa?just because you lost your doesn't mean we all have lost ours and why would anyone lie about, I also was a virgin till i met my husband in 2008. You are beginning to sound frustrated you even accused nicky's hubby of bleaching . This is why i encourage every lady out there to maintain your virginity till your wedding night at least you woon't have to regret anything and take you frustration out on virgins like some of the women are doing here.

anon 1:40 biko don't waste you time with someone suffering from regret i can only image her pain and loss of dis-virgined and most likely dumped&single

Linda hmmm i read somewhere that you are dating how true is that?

Anonymous said...

@ anonymous dec 25 2.09am LOL!!!! Nikki you again, I know it is you posting as anonymous because you are not that important for anybody to keep on coming back her to fight your cause, yes your ibotic husband is a bleacher and he looks it LOL!!!
Poor you, u wish I was frustrated and single ha!! ha!! sorry to burst your bubble I am happily married and have been so for the past five yr with a handsome son to show for it, I just hate attention seeker and wannabes so that why I needed to deflat your ego. LOL!!! An old virgin like you married at 31 LOL!!! While unvirgins like us married at 24 to one of the best husbands in the whole world, am too happy today to exchange words with you, too grateful for my life just recieved the best present any woman could wish for from darling hubby so what more can I complain of, thank you jesus!!! So Mrs Nikki the virgin move on, you have lost your viriginity so you now have nothing to brag about but only to wish and hope that some of us who make comments her are sad, you put yourself in the line of fire so bend over and take the bullets. Cheers. Pls tell your husband that hydroquine is bad for the skin and can cause skin cancer. Anyway u married you class, no woman worth her salt will allow her husband wear the horrific dreadful outfit on thier wedding day, or did her wear white to pay ode to his own virginity too LOL!!!

Anonymous said...

angry@nickyforbeingavirgin poster i'm not nicky dear ok? damn after reading that i must truly say i feel BAD for your husband the poor dude smh
p.s i got married at 25 lmao

ehen linda update us on the guy your dating now lol also heard mercy johnson is carrying a bun in the oven happy for her

Anonymous said...

Anon 9.43 u r just an agbaya with no sense was I talking to you bebe to.like you were surfing the net when u were my age .people like u I will employ to work for me few years from now .so be busy replyn msgs not sent to you just right behind u ...hmm u have bo give way ...Barbara

Anonymous said...

@ anon December 27, 2011 7:56 PM, see this fool oh!!! If you are not Nikki why you dey buy her case. I have a right to express my opionion, you intentionally avoided the person that wrote that your husband was never a virgin and focused on my that called you husband out for bleaching, see me see wahala, u dont need to pity my husband, cause I dont pity urs. We are the best thing that happen to each other so move on.
Or you can also decide not to move on and keep on defending your yellow pawpaw husband am kind enjoying this exchange. Any who Later!

Anuofia LOL!!!!

Anonymous said...

Am proud of you Nikki, its really sick to see that morals have died and been buried. People openly criticizing what is good.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm...watz all dese fuss abt? Virginity or no virginity? Nigerians surprise me a lot. Whether u re a virgin or nt,strive hard to be a gud wife 2 ur husband,a gud moda to ur children and a gud role model to d society,most of all,strive to make heaven cos dtz d ultimate goal...Tnks.

Anonymous said...

Very funny post up in here. Trust me virgin, non-virgin it doesn't matter. Men don't worry so much about keeping virginity so women don't "owe" virginity to any man.
U don't keep virginity for your husband and u don't really keep it for the sake of the church either. You keep virginity for yourself....its your body and therefore your choice. It doesn't make you holier than anyone. But u have the right to wait if u choose to...
Strictly speaking Christianity never talks about fornication...it mentions adultery as sin...(adultery is not fornication) Yes yes I know some people will start arguing...if u can give me one quote in the bible on fornication (not adultery oh) then I'll take what I've said back.
Let's just be honest we live in a world ruled by men and that's the only reason so much emphasis is placed on womens virginity. Notice how nobody screams at men who aren't virgin?
The same men who are enjoying sex here and there will be looking for virgins to marry cos they somehow feel entitled...such a joke! And we as a society claim we want sexual purity yet we somehow condone polygamy? Isn't polygamy just adultery covered up as "culture" get real abeg.
Being a virgin b4 marriage doesn't ensure ur husbands faithfulness to you trust me. It does have its benefits sha and is only worth it if he is virgin too.
I'm 24 and a virgin myself. I don't stay this way bcos of the church or for my future husband. I'm virgin just bcos I want to wait. Like I said its my body I don't owe anybody anything and I'm certainly not deluded enough to think that not having sex before marriage means I'm holy or any such crap. Life isn't rosy...premarital sex or not marriage isn't easy....so let's not insult each other over a non-issue.

Anonymous said...

You are very correct!

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