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Tuesday 16 June 2015

Tragic obituary of young man goes viral

The obituary of a young man who died from a drug overdose has gone viral. The obituary, which uncommonly explains the cause of death, was written for 22-year-old North Carolina resident Clay Shepard after his drug overdose. It noted that his family loved him, but that love wasn’t enough to fight Shepard’s addiction.
The full obituary, via Legacy.com, can be found below:
Our charismatic and beautiful son and brother died Sunday morning from a drug overdose. Clay was the youngest of four children, raised in a loving home in Apex with two brothers and one sister. Outwardly Clay looked like he had it all: Intelligence, confidence, athletic ability, height, beautiful blue eyes, broad smile, fantastic wit, and the ability to engage and forge a relationship with anyone. Inwardly Clay was sensitive and had struggles that he hid well from his close and clannish family.

We loved Clay with all of our hearts, but we now know that was not enough to shield him from the world. This note isn't an attempt to assign blame for Clay's death. It's not to vent our anger and frustration at a world where drugs can be ordered and delivered through the internet. We write this obituary in hope that it may provide an insight to those that need to change their behavior one night at a time.

Clay was a solid student, decent athlete, and a very likeable kid. With his seemingly endless positive traits, he had the potential to be anything from a captivating politician to a brilliant engineer, but drugs began to creep into Clay's life while he was in high school. As trouble hit, his father stepped in and forged an incredible bond with Clay. Although Clay could never be completely honest about the trouble he was in, his love and respect for his father became a lifeline over the last few years. He successfully completed drug rehab several times, but the craving that comes from true addiction was more than he could overcome.

While we always felt we had some grip on Clay's issues, his ability to hide and disguise his addiction proved superior to our parental (and sibling) sixth sense. The worry that we have felt watching Clay struggle, has been replaced by a deep feeling of loss that now exists knowing we will never see his smiling face again. Despite these troubles, we can smile knowing that the last communication we had with Clay was a text and answer between mother and son to say "I love you", just as it should be.

To all children, this note is a simple reminder that there are people who love you, with everything they have and no matter what you do - don't be too afraid/ashamed/scared, too anything, to ask for help. To all parents, pay attention to your children and the world that revolves around them - even when the surface is calm, the water may be turbulent just beneath. Clay's struggles have ended. He is finally at peace. We will miss his keen sense of humor, impersonations, cooking, plant advice and rhythm on the dance floor.

Goodbye Clay, we love you and miss you dearly.

Mom & Dad, Cole, Wade & Jess, Jean & Lucas
Source: FNC

56 comments:

Anonymous said...

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Unknown said...

Touching....

ary said...

This is just the best, not rigid and mechanical like some of the obituaries I have seen in the country. Honest and sincere.

Anonymous said...

So touching.... Hope Larma Odom Also got the msg......




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Anonymous said...

Love wasn't enough really. My heart goes out to the family. Wicked boy

Karlsson said...

Wasted life. God help those suffering from drugs addiction
Ubanagum

Unknown said...

Too long

Dave Mide said...

#Word !

Unknown said...

Wow! So touchy.

Fuck your opinion said...

So who's going to read all this crap?

STERN said...

Rip young man..

kay said...

Beautiful people,i pray God will help them bear d loss of their son.

gab2shoes said...

These words, skin deep To all parents, pay attention to your children and the world that revolves around them - even when the surface is calm, the water may be turbulent just beneath.

Very true
The gods are not to blame
Gab2shoessaysso

Anonymous said...

I'd like to draw your attention to your bashing of kris(a mother).

I'm not criticizing your job.I'm making reference to some of your posts.while the choice of what you post is yours,it would be admirable if you post all or post none.(toke/annie/tiwa) I wish you would use your platform to stop cyber bullying.there are so many other news that can get you traffic and you'll be better for it as a lot of your readers will benefit from the informal education you will provide.Back to Kris,I don't know her ofcos,just as you don't.you have constantly bashed her mothering skills,my dear Linda,read the obituary post again.at times,parents do all that they can,but if the child rebels,will you throw away the baby with the bath water?I look forward to you being a mother.I wish you the best of luck.its the grace of God o my dear Linda.

Dehinde Sogbanmu said...

A society that promotes online purchase of drugs with no strict restrictions would continue to have issues such as this. It is advice able that limits should be placed on the quantity that can be bought at a time.



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Faith Eze's Blog said...

Creepy things do happen#jstpassinsha#

Anonymous said...

even when the surface is calm, the water may be turbulent just beneat
Touching!




Chawqi

God Dey?! said...

Damn!!

Unknown said...

Well too bad

#FOCUS n #ACHIEVE

Blog It With Olivia said...

What's so sweet in all these drugs they are using to send themselves to their graves?
Another young man will still go ahead αи∂ get addicted to taking this particular drugs that killed this man
May his soul RIP though





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Unknown said...

I see why it went viral. May his soul rest in peace. Linda take note!




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Unknown said...

Wow! Dis note is so wonderful, and it contents is wholesome. I just luv dis part of d note "We write this obituary in hope that it may provide an insight to those that need to change their behavior one night at a time".

Its only God dat can truly change someone frm inside out, and pls desist frm d use of hard drugs bcos their is a bad spirit behind every bad habits.

PATSY Collections said...

I can feel their pain. May he rest in peace.

I B M bolubantin said...

May Clay's soul Rest In Peace.

Unknown said...

May his soul rest in peace


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Unknown said...

How sweet, how sad! RIP still

Sashayluv said...

This is really food for taught.....

ogeee said...

RIP. Stay away frm drugs simple

Unknown said...

Touching.... May God give the family the fortitude to bear the loss, RIP.

Roman! said...

RIP CLAY

Trey said...

This is really beautiful... grieving and @ the same time passing across a message. Strong people.

Unknown said...

let him take more in hell

Unknown said...

Awwwwwn....so heart touching

nunulicious said...

aww this makes me wanna cry!

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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His parent really tried to keep him alive though..... RIP....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

Sad!!!

Rosee-ii said...

May his soul rest in God's bosom, amen!

eka said...

hopefully, drug addicts would be lucid enough
2 comprehend the message...

Unknown said...

It's quite a pity, hope we all learn from this. Addiction can really hit one into many terrible tins. RIP CLAY

Ladun Liadi said...

Beautiful family.
My righteous mother for don dey broadcast how d devil was at work in me.

Unknown said...

That's so sad!...RIP.

Nky said...

so touching.... may his soul find peace in God's presence....

Juleslouis said...

Ehyaah! May he rest in peace.

Finest said...

Touching

Anonymous said...

Sad
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Anonymous said...

what a loss, such lively boy. Yes the obituary is really an eye opener
Sharumi

Unknown said...

Touching ... Family is everything

Unknown said...

Drug again? I op other addicted pple wl read dis n change 4 d better

Unknown said...

Drug again? I op other addicted pple wl read dis n change 4 d better

Anonymous said...

The opiate epidemic strikes again, a lot of young whites in the US are addicted to pain medication. Guess this kid was one of them. Of course it's being called epidemic and treated as a health concern because the majority affected is white. Had it been young blacks injesting these drugs, the prison walls would be bursting with them. There'd be no sensitivity or compassion, just prison sentences.

henrietta lucky said...

Make haste, while the sun shines.

Anonymous said...

Please kindly STFU about Kris, who don't know you're somewhere in Africa moaning and groaning on her behalf.

Unknown said...

SO SAD PEOPLE ENGAGE IN ACTIVITIES THAT WILL DESTROY HUMANITY SO THAT THEY CAN LIVE.

LIVING ALONE IN THIS WORLD WILL SURELY MAKE THEM POORER THAN THEIR CURRENT STATE.

WHILE SOME ARE TRYING TO MAKE LIFE LIVEABLE SOME ARE STRIVING HARD TO BREAK IT.

GOD SHOULD CHANGE THE MIND OF THOSE THAT ARE CONCERN. CLAY'S PARENT NEVER FEEL BAD IF YOU HAVE DONE WHAT YOU SHOULD DO AS PARENT CONDOLENCE

Unknown said...

So sad
My heart goes out to the family.
Nice words

Unknown said...

Rip Clay.

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