Below is what she shared on instagram this morning
'The amount of emails I have received from women across the
world going thru difficult situations is heartbreaking. (Thank you all
for sharing). In a world where the popular belief out there is that
women hate each other, women can't stand each other, etc. I have gotten
emails/calls from women sharing their own personal pain and that is
courageous. I can't reply everyone, (even though i honestly wish i
could.) It is Funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to
bless you.
I have been given a voice, a platform, (i don't even know how
it's all happened) but I woke up one day and I found God and with that
came purpose. It's never about you, as hard as it seems, sometimes you
go thru things not for you but for the people around you who need
direction, a word of prayer or more. May God heal every broken heart out
there, may his light give you the courage to begin to love yourself. It
is tough being a woman, the preasure is real. You don't have to be a
victim, you can rise above it all. Do not let society tell you
otherwise. Be Bold, Be Strong. Trust God's purpose for your life and
keep shinning. *And Yes, to all the people asking, there is a Vlog this
week *
Good Morning
TM'
270 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 270 of 270Toke is amazing, I've always thought all she knows how to do is to glam up & speak English, I've always misinterpreted her personality it's arguably clear to me now that she's beauty & brains, well articulated & eloquent, I love her choice of words & her strong faith in God... Thou the sorrow may last for d night but joy comes in the morning, May God see her through this storm, may she come out victorious in the end of it all.. Luv u Tokes..
Linda biko dis Toke's drama is getting boring..
Cash in on it Toke and make mad bucks! I don't know how youtube works but if you make money going by the number of views then I bet this week's vlog will be a bumper harvest! I, for one will definitely watch. I ask though that you use this week's Vlog to clear the air, speak on the situation of things and your stance on your marriage to Maje so that your fans can know if you wish to remain with him, as, if that is the case, those raining curses on him can slow down or stop outrightly and respect the fact that you are still married to him regardless. God help you in any decision you take now as I know that whatever decision you take will greatly affect your future. Be wise girlfriend. You are indeed a strong woman!
Nice 1 Toke, all is well
Av neva bin a fan of Toke..buh if dis shit is real den she is handling it d rite way
May the Lord heal every broken heart ..
Another major mistake...in a situation like this,stay off social media.sound judgement will be almost very difficult with about one million voices spewing poo in the name of advice..
Thank you Aunty Toke for dusting up. God bless you.
I love you Toke!
I love you Toke!
Ok spot on!
Nne ndo nu
Eeeeeeeeeyah! She is really hurting but I'm glad she has risen above it. Linda take note!
Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!
Toke...
Somehow I really do like the parts I know of You, however I want to beg U as I have been trying to for a while now.. BE MORE DISCRETE about your life, stop being everywhere and projecting EVERYTHING about your life! It only brings you so much bad attention and complete disregard of your private life. We understand that somhw Yur a celebrity but cant You only be heard creating an impact to societal good and nothing more. Must the world know how U sleep eat dance marry watch-TV think hang-out pray dream cry sneeze dress-up travel party wake-up quarrel run chew kiss spend earn read bank ...and generally operate?
Learn now or continue to live for empty public attention, to the point that even when you walk into a store the sales illiterate is as informed enough to explain to yu why U weren't good enough for yur husband's fidelity. Men would always do stupid things but your ability to contain the situation measures ur virtue as a woman, now tell me how that can be achieved when the world has begun to handle it for yu already.
...retrace yur steps woman & start to keep ur business quiet. & May God take good care of Yu
Brave woman. Shine on
Madness...
This kind wife wey no de answer husband name sef. *thinking out loud*.
Enough of this Toke ish already. Is she the only woman to have gone through such? Abbbeeeggggggg
Linda cogitate
I admire her courage... You are not weak TOKe. Good luck
Oh thank God for her.
I have heard and read a lot about this lady, her life and personality, very many different views- good and bad. But one thing remains, she has got it strongly together on the social front. Even if she lives a pretentious life as many claim, I can categorically say she knows how to use the art of pretense to her good. And even though she may spend hours in the corners of her closet crying about some things, she comes out strong. Afterall, how many of you can really help her if she comes out crying about her problems? That's a lesson many people need to learn. The social media isnt the place for you to let your guard down, 90% of the people on these platforms dont really care. The people who really matter wont come through social media. On social media, you can be seen as pitiable or powerful, it's your choice.
Yetunde A.S.
I heard Toke Makinwa was an Aristo while in Unilag. Could she have made other women cry in her hustling days? I feel if she trys loving again it could still turn out worse. All dis feeling cool to display public strength is cheap deceit. Women are there own worst enemies, did Maje fxck pillow abi pxssy okay am guessing the pregnant lady is Transgender. A lonely man found companionship in an old friend and we crucify him. Pity Toke all I care am indifferent.
Saka writes in from Gbagura
Nawa Linda....ur blog is becoming dry...I think as ur updating us with more news, someone else should be in charge of updating comments...The news keeps Us refreshing the pages but the comments are also very interesting....The blog market is becoming competitive with Stella following closely behind you...pls make ur blog readers happy, we need steady news and also steady comments! Thank you.
Take it easy its one of those things
It's ok to be hurt, stop fronting like you're ok, when we all know you're not.
Rubbish, she still doesn't get it...
You should be ashamed of your English
OHHHHHHHHHHHHH SHUT UP TOKE
Anonymous Anonymous said...
dont let any whore take away a man you raised.
June 16, 2015 at 9:33 AM
WHAT MAKES ANITA A WHORE? SMH
pls dnt rush in2 any relationship 4 nw.dere are wolf in sheep's cloth ds days.it took me more dan 8 years b4 i cld recover 4rm mine.dt's life...
Anonymous 8.57am. It's advice like yours that put women in the situation Toke has found herself in. Its human to be vulnerable. Her being in the limelight as she heals does more harm in the long run than good. Whatever happened happened for a reason. Bottom line there's something Anita was doing she wasn't full stop. This is a time for reflection for her if she want her marriage to continue and not forming strong woman. On the other hand if she's done with the marriage then she can move on. Lesson for Lagos big girls nails weave etc don't do it.
instagram queen. she just can't help herself.
Stay put ke. You are mental.
Unless you are a married woman, please shut your whole mouth!
Not everyone will kill themselve to satisfy a man biko!
Linda u don fuck up....u mixed comments post am to d wrong post. Lol
I agree with u sister... 👍. By their fruit we know them..
Don't worry, Toke. Let your marriage continue.
Did she say it doesn't hurt?Angry bird. Some people are just so spiteful.
she sure lives for the internet. women like this don't attract good men.
stop making stupid ppl famous!!!
Toke can't you just stay off social media for 24hrs. Why do you crave publicity so much. Can't you just shout your mouth. Men cheat all the time. You're stupid enough to air this rubbish. You'd probably get back together with him,why do you just shut up and sort your problems outside social media. Wait or are you making this up
Linda this is between u nd I, we are suppose to be best friends. No rest for the wicked. After all her runs wey she Don do nd bleaching. You think ur husband will go free? Now let's wait for maje to talk and expose the ills of their marriage.
Righ
This is an example of westerner lifestyle messing up peoples way of thinking this pathetic example of this woman shows a degration of soctiety values, she is someone that thrives on attention and believed in this me me me independent culture kim kardashian lifestyle i pray no man goes nears this woman. She is the architect of this mess of a life shes into.
A patheitc woman that lives a pretentious life what sort of example is she setting out attention seeking and wanting this fake life. Woman lime thid will always lose in the long run. Sadly her living this lifestyle is becoming common
i love Toke anyday anytym.. whether or not the story is true, it is the man who isn't man enough. MEN cheat, and you see women criticizing, so we should clap for the man for cheating abi? but lets be certain about the story though.
Strong woman my asssss! Is she the first woman that ever got cheated on? Why is her own case so special and everyone is telling her to be strong? Mstcheeew! Parkwell Toke abegiiii, the same media and blog u pray they notice u and praise u on their platform, is now rubbing sand on ur wound. U shove ur life and affairs down our throats so don't feel bad wen people judge u, and ppl like me ain't nice to hungry fame touts like u. Gerrit?? Ok??
Toke be opening her eyes and mouth wide as she gives advice to poor girls as if she knows everything. Master of relationships, yet hers is the worst! Ohhh please get ahold of yaself b4 talking trash on ya vlog. Physician heal thyself. Nansense.
fake ass sob note,this girl is enjoying every second of this circus,she is just fake fake fake.
Shoro Niyen???
So overated and it only brings tears and blood. How many people are truly happily married?
In as much as i sympathize with you over what happened, I have refused to judge with just your own side of the story I wish i could hear the side of your hubby as well.....Coz to say you dated him for 7years before getting married to him means there are so many hidden things alot of people out there do not know....Secondly i heard after a long time of dating the both of you did a secret wedding WHY?? There are more to what has happened than just him impregnating his EX... If you dated him for 7years or there about and he still had an EX then there is something you have not told the world so WOMEN should stop raining insults on the MAN and start to look deeper than just the surface.... Until i hear his own side of the story i refuse to condemn him bcoz i know women are quick to cry out over minor pains to gain sympathy unlike men that will keep their pains to themselves..... A man will never do anything Irrationally there must be a reason and something we all don't know...
Ure such a fool.toke actually looks beautiful without makeup.so stfu
#lolz@# B4 Wen A Guy take U To His Folks Nah Serious Relationship Den But Nw Nah 4mat If U Like Meet His Ancestors U Will Still Become Is Ex-Gbam. Lolz
Are you for real? It is a marriage not slavery so deal with it. So bloody local and irritating.
Mr Man just shut up and stop this comparison everybody is not blessed in the same way and the people that are your role model have sad stories to tell too if only they choose to voice it out. Whether Toke was a stay at home mum with dozen children, a useless man with a roving ugly Penis (cos the guy ugly small) will still do that and much worse. Don't be too fast to blame the woman both parties should be careful in their conducts in a marriage to avoid scandals, to mess up is not a preserve of only the male gender. Men should learn to respect themselves Biko!!!
You would've loved to read a story about how sad n heart broken she is? That's how you know a strong woman... goes beyond a cute face.
Nice one.
Na wa o why are you guys feeling sorry for Toke? Toke is a pretender and also the biggest liar on this earth. All the romantic Novels she reads is making her crazy. Toke knew about Anita from day 1. All these lies Toke is coming up with ie "the Mo Abudu's video" making it seem like the Anita girl is crazy is either a lie or she's referring to another girl. Toke just say the truth, you know Maje loves Anita, you know Maje will never stop seeing her, Maje used to beat you in front of Anita, Maje stood you up at your court wedding before he finally did the surprise secret wedding. Toke should say all this on her vlog/MoAbudu'sshow and stop lying. Maje does not love you and if you don't run, baby number 2 will enter.
Ouch! Why taking it so personal? You sound bitter than the victim. Biko, take a chill pill.
She might be wrong in some ways but you aren't in the position to judge her. Some things are just beyond human control even when you think you are perfect.
And this lady doesn't know when to draw the line. You just lost your man! Did you die? Can't you deal with it privately? Do you need everybody to sympathize with you? Will that make you a better wife? Quit the attention seeking and focus on learning from you mistakes and correcting them instead of trying to paint your husband's infidelity as murder. I'm sure if your husband is to have a say now he will have a long list of your shortcomings as well. That's the way life goes!
Blah blah blah blah blah blah .....men this men that and who do they cheat with.....women....If women stop servicing married men, hearts like Toke would not be broken......
Hiss story for the gods
This whole drama is ridiculous. All the pictures of Maje and Anita were taken in 2007 - 8 years ago. If they were carrying on a relationship all this time why are there no current or more recent pics of them together?? Toke and Maje also didn't date continuously for 11 yrs - there were many breaks during which they both went their separate ways and likely dated other people. Stop trying to turn this into some mega cheating drama, trying to invalidate their relationship and embarrass Toke.
Eeyaah....shit happens
How u take know? Na u been dey book hotel accommodation for their two? If Anita was d love of his life, and he married another person cos of fame, that doesn't make him a good person either. Either ways, he's still a selfish a**hole
Toke b like...abeg shift make I see correct rich guy Wey don dey eye me since
That's my girl
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