Below is what she shared on instagram this morning
'The amount of emails I have received from women across the
world going thru difficult situations is heartbreaking. (Thank you all
for sharing). In a world where the popular belief out there is that
women hate each other, women can't stand each other, etc. I have gotten
emails/calls from women sharing their own personal pain and that is
courageous. I can't reply everyone, (even though i honestly wish i
could.) It is Funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to
bless you.
I have been given a voice, a platform, (i don't even know how
it's all happened) but I woke up one day and I found God and with that
came purpose. It's never about you, as hard as it seems, sometimes you
go thru things not for you but for the people around you who need
direction, a word of prayer or more. May God heal every broken heart out
there, may his light give you the courage to begin to love yourself. It
is tough being a woman, the preasure is real. You don't have to be a
victim, you can rise above it all. Do not let society tell you
otherwise. Be Bold, Be Strong. Trust God's purpose for your life and
keep shinning. *And Yes, to all the people asking, there is a Vlog this
week *
Good Morning
TM'
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Ass so flat
Sorry chris b!
Kikiki Kukere looking for CB trouble now oooo..ok na, she make sense thu..looking like a sweet mayonnaise.
FEELIN FREE LYK D BIRD...TOMJERRYSWIT
Which body? What's d diff BTW this body and a five yrs old's?
Sorry i hope you get over him...
She is just fronting, we all know it hurts, bad bad!
Word!
Maximum respect Toke.... remain strong woman.
Ok o no wahala life is a bitch and it finds a way to humble us dats all am gonna say
Yea that is what I called STONGER go toks we are praying for u
I feel for her sha #bustrightnow
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God bless women
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It is well my dear
Men are insatiable. U can't kill urself over them.
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Love you Bro.
Heard....linda we've had enough of toke, no be person die and I don't think she's even feeling bad. I tink she's kinda relieved! She's free now so plzzzz
Awwwwwwww now I feel sorry for her
Well she shouldnt beat herself...its okay not to be okay sometimes we are all humans. She should rise above the situation because God has bigger plans for her. Dont feel the need to prove a point and vlog immediately just to prove a point...we still love and pray for u anyways.
Wow! Strong lady. God will keep strengthening you
Toke is d definition of strong woman!
Pls Libers, i'm in need of a job. I'm relatively jobless at the moment and of which i have loads of responsibilities on me. May God grant your heart desire as you help me.
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Nice.
I feel your pain dear
Who cares, if you like social medias, then open your blog and Linda stop giving this lady cheap publication. Engr Emy
I love her resilient spirit.She's tough.She'll weather the storm.Love truly and you will die everyday.Love is an act of faith!
Atta girl. Shake it off, life goes on. Whatever decision u take is urs and urs alone.
Love me some Toke... The Lord is ur strength... I luv u more...
Strong lady
God bless her.. Awww!
Stay strong women.
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Strong woman.
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I pray she gets some closure, to enable her move on as soon as possible.
Men cheat, women cheat only God is ever faithful, put him first in your life and marriage.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
How admirable her strength is. Wish her all the best.
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Ntoiii !!!! You too sabi give advice how to ensure your man dosnt cheat . but how come you couldnt do it yourself ????
I really feel for her, I like her cos i love listening to her on radio ,I pray God give her the strength to go thru this
I pray u learn ur lesson and have time for ur man cos u are everywhere, parties, naming, babyshoer etc. So I wonder if u even cook for d man at all and also plan to make babies and I also believe ur man is not complaining bcos he's getting Whts he's lacking out dere. Am sorry once again but pls stay alert and devote ur time to ur home and man so dat he won't be taking again. But I pray u guys come back together anyway cos u guys look good together.
Well said, love †Ñ’ξ way she's going after things.....
#ITwillONLYgetBETTER
#itMUSTendINpraise
she dosnt satisfy her man
I really feel for her, I like her cos i love listening to her on radio ,I pray God give her the strength to go thru this
MH! ODI EGWU OGO'M!!!
God will indeed give u a heart to bear!
I love you Toke!I am so glad you are strong. Keep being beautiful and keep being you. Someone good and God sent will definitely come your way. I can't wait for the vlog.Up Toke!
Well said.
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***adult content***
Can we now move on pls....
Awww,she is trying to act maturedly
Why your man no go cheat on u when u no dey cater for am. na so so event and guy u sabi
strong woman.
I really feel for her, I like her cos i love listening to her on radio ,I pray God give her the strength to go thru this
Where did she acknowledge it?didnt you see how she stylishly avoided that part?biko you ppl should Toke jare.she doesn't want to talk about it,respect her biko.
NICE AND LOVELY WRITE UP
Hmmmm, she never acknowledge in dis her note dat she is under going any tin@all. She only acknowledeged receiving mails, and all dat.
All d same, God bless her abundantly, and thumbs up to her. I wish her well.
I'm happy she has found christ, good for you. Don't worry, you will be fine.
Hmmm nice one Toke just keep going and dont luk back...
She is a strong woman! Im sooo soooooo proud of toke, she put alot of pple to shame, u go girl,God is ur strength! Love u... Inspired
I don't know how u r doing dat, but u r one heck of a strong woman. God's grace is sufficient for u. May his light keep shinning in ur path. That's my prayer for u Toke!!!!!!!!!!!
Linda why is uti ranting? Bring us news *sipstea*
I feel for her,then again this post seems coated...she kept wishing people strength n courage...Ma'am its very ok to show hurt n vulnerability. God is love...Ur strength is encouraging.
God bless you Toke.
Thanks for being so strong and having and living up to the voice God has given you.
We all pray for you and ourselves likewise because as you rightly said, being a woman in our society isn't easy.
Love you much much. Don't be too distraught. Keep being strong please.
Kisses.
God help u
Toke heal your own heart first
Pray for your own heart to heal first
Adviser Toke
The way you are sounding is like you want to still want to keep Maje back
Nice one
For give him
His your husband
I feel for her though
Toke pray for your own heart first
Good for her. It will be easy for her to move on because she was never seriously involved in the marriage... Always all over the place. On another hand, it might be a bit challenging because of societal views and expectations. For better or for worse? I don't think so !
Yes.In everything u do..let God be the first nd not the last...things will definately go well...
Nice write up Toke.......May God continue to strengthen you in dis tough situation you have found yourself.....
Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB......
Nice one Toke.You will definitely pull through.
Now Linda that is not confirmatory in any way.
As for Toke, she is strong. I listen to her almost every morning and she seems to be in ontrol of her world.
Intrestin
D heart of man is desperately wicked
Good morning Toke,I continue to appreciate and respect the way you have chosen to handle the situation.Others say you should get off social media.why?that's my question to them.
Why should you be the one to go into hiding.why should you be blamed for another persons indiscretions.You are a media personality.your career is based on visibility and hard work.
You are not marketable if we don't see or hear from you.I have only watched an episode of your vlog.after today,I will watch everything you post.that's my own way of supporting you.
For those that keep saying he cheated because she was too busy.you are obviously Ill informed about marriage,partnership,relationships and GOD!!!!.
He cheated because he's weak.he kept seeing this other lady cos he was man enough for Toke.He dated two beautiful ladies for extensive periods.took away their youth and trying to take away their future.Toke chose to stand and I choose to stand for her in any discussion,anywhere.(I don't know her personally).This is not about the other lady as we don't know her story,so I won't talk about her at all.who knows what the black weasel of a man told her.
This is about a lovely lady called TOKE!!!just relax GOD is going to vindicate you and treat you sooooo good,you'll wonder if na only you waka come.God bless you Toke.
It is well Toke, stand by God & He will never let you down, this is what most women are going thr in our society. We women are d one doing ourselves.
We men love it natural and real
Fake ass girl
Lesson for you girls
Toke is a brave woman. she has really dealt with this issue maturely
Which one be marriage woes.Una to dey overate marriage sef. Let Toke rest biko . Love u T for Toke......Titi
Linda I don't understand why u re d only blogger over trashing dis Toke's story o. It seems like u re happy it happened. Pls do u have any beef wit her?
I love this woman..
Lesson for all fake girls out there
Every man want real and natural beauty woman
It's well
Fake girls everywhere
Lesson for you girls
If you like you learn
Oh dear, i really feel for Toke. Be strong dear. I watch your vlog every week and i also asked myself if there will be a vlog this week? Thank God for you dear. To the Nigerian women married to Nigerian men please be strong so they don't send you to yaba left. No wonder more and more Nigerian married women are cheating. ( say no to cheating )
TOKE, FROM UR WRITE UP, U'VE TRUELY CONFIRM THERE IS TROUBLE IN PARADISE, BT PLS I ADVICE U TO KIP MUTE ABOUT THE DETAILS FOR NOW & NEVER-EVER VLOG ANY BULL-SHIT ABOUT THE DETAILS OR INCIDENCE. BETTER-STILL, LET BOTH FAMILIES COME TOGETHER FOR A MUTUAL RESOLUTION. SWTHRT, "IT'S NOT YET OVER - UNTIL IT'S OVER". & WHAT HAPPENED IN VEGAS "MUST" STAY IN VEGAS FOR THE TIME BEING. AND LASTLY, U HAVE DIVERS LESSONS TO LEARN FROM THIS. MAY GOD STRAIGHTEN YOU.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Some people with their busy bodies nw... Sending her emails with ur problems kwa. Be strong babe....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Isokay
may God heals every wounds in dis state. sorry dear
She should advise herself.... Who she dey talk to.
That moment when you marry an african man and still try to be independent...*sobs* Lool
This relationship ish is being too sensationalized. This stuff happens to hundreds of thousands of women all over the world. I'm not in support of it but please wash your dirty linens in private. Work your stuff out, it can either make u or break you... after u have settled the issue then can u go public because right now u are opening urself to billions of advise both good, bad and downright horrible... I wish you well Toks (yes i had a crush on you those days)
Way to go girl!...i commend ur courage. in my own case, time had its way of healing wounds.
strong woman
Move on dearie.. nothing missing, nothing broken #fresh
Yep saw it and felt she is handling this situation pretty solidly. This would have killed most people but she is working it with her head held high.
Much love Toke, you are a real gem
I blame the husband that made her blv
he's in love with her.
On the bright side, she's gonn' to be famous
becos of this her present situation.
Awwwww... She is an amazing person
#Strong Woman!
Strong woman! My respect for her just rose to another level...wow!!! That maturity tho..*sigh
You are real Woman! I do appreciate your words and i pray that our creator will illumine your heart and mind to see clearly best option to sort the issue at hand. You are a Pearl, keep it up mama.
love her demeanor about the whole issue
it could happen 2 anyone out there
so people should gloat @ her predicament
its a tough one..........but she would definitely overcome.
Wooo touching !!! So Brave and Strong
This whole toke ishhh is beginning to annoy me. Is she d first to experience heart break?? Do we even know if there was true bonding between d two, cuz all I have been seeing is a desperate socialite who has been keeping up with her relationship only on social media.
Ladies there is more to keeping a man than just flaunting pictures and tweets online.
#truthbtold. Its very difficult for a man to date two girls simultaneously for good solid eight years, its either one is officially d side chick yet claiming to b d Main chick or d Main chick hs not been able to keep her man from d side chick
I love this Lady! Mercyelvis williams
Ok strong woman indeed
God gat you dear. It is well.....
It is well with u, toke
Ok.
yeah dats it!!! big,strong woman! before Maje Ayida dia was a Toke and long after d Muh'fuka gone, dia still gon be a Big Toke
Ok... Enough pls. My hubby is been out of job for 6mth now. I am going tru a lot too praying and hoping something good comes so that we take care of ourselves and kids..give thanks in all situation and move on..God will see everyone going tru difficult times.
Proud of u Toke :*:* Much Love
Drama queen
Awwn.she didn't add Ayida abi na Ayinda
Be strong baby.......there is hope ok
She is such a fame whore ....I can't deal
Serious case
That's my girl. Muahhhh....Do the vlog and we would be here to watch it. #GirlPower #Strong #NeverAvictim God bless u sister girl.
My Prayers are with her,she is a strong woman,she will definitely pull through by His Grace,Amen. Xo to Toks. *BraveHeart. Oh yeah...waiting for her vlog...!
Toke, it is well!
l beg to differ women are not the only or the most vulnerable gender, it's about 50 :50. Genuine couples should learn to take responsibility for their actions & inactions. Always acknowledge/take responsibility of your family obligations, if you don't 'others' will come in and help. A word is enough for the wise. My two penny thought. Omazo
Aww, am loving Toke the more, she is so matured in her response, I would like her to
use the same maturity to work on her marriage, Toke please stay put, though, it is not easy that i know very well.
God is with dear TOKE, Shit happens life goes on!
God is with dear TOKE, Shit happens life goes on!
interesting... no preasure*
It is well dear Toke....No woman deserves what has happened to you.Be strong.
www.onometalkam.com
You're a rock star Toke. I love you.
Keep on be strong
this is so lovely #teambraveheart....you are a woman with purpose
You haven't acknowledged your weakness to work on them yet but other people's ish is what you are talking about. Madam stay out of the media
See as u hurry post this one,....God is watching you on 3D
dont let any whore take away a man you raised.
She needs to stop this superwoman ish and go and grieve the death of her marriage.believe it or not that's the only way she can move ahead.its like losing a loved one,grief is part of d process.she alone knows how broken she feels inside.i feel for her and pray she gets the strength to overcome,but I think she needs a break from the world for a little bit to get her self back. #MyOpinion
Be safe
Awwww! I love u Toke....
God be with you girl and make you happy all your life..
Wowwwww, Strong woman with unbeatable inner strength!
Toke can't you just stay off social media for 24hrs. Why do you crave publicity so much. Can't you just shout your mouth. Men cheat all the time. You're stupid enough to air this rubbish. You'd probably get back together with him,why do you just shut up and sort your problems outside social media. Wait or are you making this up
Correct..pick your self up and move on..
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I know this is out of the topic but I don't think its possible for this lady to ever go out without all the heavy makeup.
Ehyah! I wonder where and how Maje is feeling right now.
abeg stfu, now you've found God abi.. after all your years of iranu. sit-down pls
abeg stfu, now you've found God abi.. after all your years of iranu. sit-down pls
i love her spirit.
Good for her..
If na me, as no child is involved yet btw us, I'll dust my bum and walk away.
But hey; God knows best!
God will heal your broken heart dear toke...The lord is your strength
All dis 'GOD' talk sef.....
Does he/she/it exist???
D lord is strent
God bless you Toke. This has made me love you more. All will be well by God's grace.
God will see her through this phase
She is a strong woman and i love the way she carries herself!She will go through this i know.
She's sure on top of the situation. That's how to keep going in good health
Abeg get out Toke
Awww. That's good of her. Am happy she has risen above her limitations and has come to terms in knowing God as well.
I like her courage she is my inspiration
Thank God for the strength his giving this woman
Thank God for the strength his giving this woman
Thank God for the strength his giving this woman
Don't normally comment but this girl is so smart. #iloveyou
Dear, toke... life isnt dettol if u dont tk care of ur man anoda woman wud. i fink u were too busy cooking ur brazilian hair in the salon rather than his food in d kitchen... just saying
Good morning Strong TM. God will direct you daily. 👊
Well said...God is the author and the finisher of all
GO SIDDON ABEG
Shut the shell up Toke. I dislike it when people in situations that they obviously triggered start forming born again child of God. Can you tell me how holy and sanctified you are? Fake people should stop using God as cover up. How many people have you converted through ur vlog to repent and turn to Christ? You have turned to be a victim so suddenly when you obviously were aware of your husband's philandering ways and was still bent on marrying him. Abeg Toke,except genuine women that actually go through these situations, I really don't feel sorry for you so please quit acting like a victim and go back to ur husband. He didn't beat you up and guess what, it's "for better for worse" if you know what I mean. I know deep down, u still want to be with that toad you call ur husband, so please follow your heart and stop playing victim. This time, u will keep ur ass home more often to prevent more step children....@Bia Bia🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊
She was busy appearing on magazines front pages and parties without thinking of making a home. Someone who is more willing to make has done that. For me no heart feeling for her. It what she bargained for.
She was busy appearing on magazines front pages and parties without thinking of making a home. Someone who is more willing to make has done that. For me no heart feeling for her. It what she bargained for.
What a lovely message. God bless u
She's still advising other people not advising herself.
Ok. She's found God now...that's great!
You can be a celebrity and still keep your marriage/family life private. Unnecessary exposure puts unnecessary pressure on your marriage.
Every marriage has its ups and downs, dont let outsiders blow yours beyond manageable proportions.
And I keep loving this babe day in day out
God bless you and comfort you...
@Galore
Oh dear!!!! May God guide u tru it all....
Well, life has to go on. She has two solutions to this situation she's found herself in and she has to choose one. Go or stay!!!! If she goes, she could move on and find another boo (trust me, e no easy like that 'sef') and the Anita babe may come in and take her place sharp sharp!!! After all Alicia Keys went through the heat over Swizz Beatz for allegedly stealing someone else's husband and eventually we all forgave her or she can stay, and accept the fact that he has a child outside but still have kids for him and continue as a family. Don't allow pride get in the way, do what your heart tells you to do. Do what makes you happy. Our mothers and grandmothers went through situations like this. It's not new, but they found a way out. Whatever you choose we're by ur side momma...Take heart!!!
you go fear emails from women across the world naw.
mtchwwww!
when una go dey form form...come finally marry who dont even give a fuck about you atlast.
#DavidKing
May God give you the grace to go through all this. But my honest advise to you is to cut down on the way you attend events. Give your husband attention and give him a reason to always come back home. Don't give the devil room in your home through your absence. God bless
But wait oo,Toke or token,where you not cheating with him when he was dating this same girl?Because if i am correct that girl was his ex,so probably the girl was banging the guy well more than you,I heard you do give advice or bla bla,i dont really know you tho,heard your one busy body girl,But anyway what is good for the goose is good for the gender now,Just take it as normal since you did the same thing,Lol if you marry a cute rich guy what do you expect?Except your a good fucker,and your pwussy have sweet vaginal fluid,and you can handle diffrent style,you will have to drain him,to keep him.,otherwise my dear,forget it he can never be faithful to you,Na only you like better thing?Am not saying its good to cheat,But rich guys are never faithful take it or leave it,Because to the girls he is a catch and he got what they want,They will go for what your eating too,they wanna share from the cake my dear,Deal with it darling,And next time work on your sex life properly,because thats where the fault its,with my investigation am not sure your banging that guy well,that guy alone u not know say tall guys like dat well shaved ,dont smoke proly,prolly dont drink,what do you expect?He just be aloof?He will be eating pwussy like mad,so feed him well and dry him off,you should prolly hire me self make i advice you,Instead of crying foul play<Every Game got rules,Play by it and enjoy the game simple..Thats my advice!
Thank God she as over come it
Thank God she as over come it
SHIT HAPPENS MY DEAR....NEVER ALLOW ANY MAN TO TAKE AWAY YOUR HAPPINESS...KEEP SHINING IN GOD'S GRACE
Bunch a mumbo jumbo. Is she staying or going? Will she be another Annie?
Toke, is ur heart made of kpomo?...ur so strong!!!
God bless you Toke....thats inspiring
Shit happens my dear.....Never allow any man to take away your happiness....Keep shining in God's grace.love yahh
Awwwwww!
I love you Tokes'. May God give you the direction you need to tackle it all
Awww strong woman
You are indeed strong and courageous
Sharumi
BE STRONG, AND STOP GOING TO PARTIES UP AND DOWN ACROSS THE WORLD NEXT TIME,PLAY YOUR ROLE AS WIFE FOR HOUSE SO THAT YOUR HUSBAND NOR GO SEE YOU AS WHO DEY DO AM FAVOUR FOR INSIDE MARRIAGE, PELE SHA
Now! that's a strong woman....Nothing holding her down. May God give her and other women going through same situation the grace to stay strong.
I love you toke....its well sweets...but one thing tho' I follow all ur vlogs, and the way you lash out at ladies who find themselves in the love gone wrong situation is annoying, ur recent blog, u said u don't know why girls keep being fooled by listening to what the men are saying rather than watch their actions, by this ur situation, u see that some men cover up so well in both words and actions, and you never just know until it blows up. So pls stop that lashing out part my love. Some girls just can't help the kind of men they end up with until its too late. Even the devil is baffled at how some men outdo him in the game of deceit.
Her problem
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Awwwwww well said!
My dear as sad as it may sound, you are the cause of your own problem. Try being more useful in your home than pursuing your social status, u're either here or there and on those absent notes who is taking care of your home. Come to think about it in the past 6months how many times have you been home to act as a wife or even have the concern to become a mother? But yet you travel the world leaving your husband to play dumb and wait for you to come back, as if he doesn't want a heir to live his legacy when he's gone. You should be happy you never got married to a more traditional man that understand the ethics of marriage and life.
Basically i do not hate you but kindly understand the meaning of marriage and ask the likes of Omotola Jalade Ekeinde how she keeps her home. A word is enough for the wise.
Awwwww!
All The best Toke.....Stay strong, you are not defined by a man but yourself, so yes continue to do you.
you go girl...t m back to.....
It is de worst tin a married woman will ever encounter in her marriage.Hmmm may God give them de courage
Am actually very pissed about this whole situation.. Everyone keeps blaming Toke's husband,and painting Toke the saint.She is equally at fault,infact she has the most blame.She is just too busy to keep a home,you cant stay away from your home and think praising your hubby on IG is enough...pls think again.She forced the guy into marriage in the first place,through publicising her relationship and even engagement and breakup rumours.The love of his life was Anita but he had to marry Toke to gain the love of the media;Everything was just a publicity stunt.I see so many people saying Anita is ugly:that is a woman without much makeup like Toke,men admire women who go simple...and her skin glows like stars.She is so real and keep her affair less public.Toke's hubby never broke up with Anita,infact he travel many times to be with her in the states.
I like here Spirit! Stay Strong Toke.
When people play the victim game. God give U strength to carry on with ur life. Certainly dis is not the end of life
Ubanagum
Fame whore
It is well
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