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Monday 11 August 2014

Regina Askia's writes about the side chick and the powerless wife

Any answers?

79 comments:

Ceeflo said...

The side chicks always have a personal vendetta against "happy marriages"...they come from the side buh usually they always make moves to shift to the Center...and wives feel threatened because the side chick is mostly younger.......nd all....

Anonymous said...

In conclusion, regina askia was once a side chick.

Bishop Dammy said...

I don't understand all des! Here is what I know; Prov 31: 10-31. BishopDammy#

Zinny said...

She's right. A lot of wives were once side chicks and home wreckers. But now they act victims wen their husbands cheat wt another woman. We say "all men cheat" but it's women they cheat with.

Lloyd ... said...

I beg your 'pardon' please, is the wife even loyal, what's she saying bout herself? Abegii all nah F**CKing things ... She made sense though ...

Anonymous said...

You're too old to discuss typing sh*t when last did u shoot a movie? Oh I remember 1999 go & make money like your colleagues & leave social network for your grand children ah I'm so angry I dey burn dey here dey talk about side chicks with your rotten expired toto your grave is close go dig am smelling thing

Unknown said...

Regina is now aging gracefully. Answer the question by yourself my dear. I'm out. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***

Angie said...

JAMB QUESTION.. I guess the side chick be like "If I can't have him, you won't either"..thereby creating chaos that may lead to the couple's separation.

Ka chi fonu.


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barmmie creamy said...

Hmmmm,that's a deep qst tho,buh it really saddens ma heart to see pretty ladies lowering theirselves to such a degrading act,i mean hw can a woman willingly be a side chick to a married man huh?opening her legs,or even a committed guy sef*sighs* it is well

Unknown said...

Ibere nla!

Unknown said...

I dnt real understand what she mean

Anyikwa chinonso said...

Wow.. Looking cute...
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pearl gold said...

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obietrezy said...

I think she's right because there's always that chick and the chick.... Its simple, what goes around comes around.

Anonymous said...

Correct my sister when a woman is single she dates married men, engaged men e.t.c . The moment she signs the dotted lines with a man every other woman becomes a husband snatcher.

Anonymous said...

I pray I never have to deal with a side chick in Jesus' name, amen.

Kimmy*****

Unknown said...

A home is where gives you peace. A woman to her man is a home. When a man can't find that peace in his home he eventually empowers the side chick when he begins to tell her about the wife flaws. Am not married yet, but i know its a woman that makes a home.

comfort said...

#dunno ooo#

Unknown said...

HMMM....plz am waitin for u guyz reply ooo..so dat i'll know..y the side chic's mission..is always on vengeance...please!.am not married..neither am i a side chic.n not hopin nor wishin to b a side chic...just hopin i can get some gud reply duo.

Anonymous said...

She's Being candid and y'all b***es know it

Awon Stephen Oshi said...

Mscheew

Anonymous said...

Women doing what they do best: attacking the other woman while ignoring their other half who is most responsible for the presence of a stranger in their bed

Anonymous said...

See who is talking...Have you not been and still are a side chic, husband snatcher and an Ex.
Why should you ask those questions when know the answers? Those are rhetorical questions.
Next story joor

Unknown said...

I think it's unfaithfulness and lack of self control that will make a man have a side chick.Godliness with contentment is great gain.

Unknown said...

Wives and side chicks Oya answer, I'm single and not a side chick..

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Unknown said...

Wahs dis one sayyin u soundin like side chick,see her face like mr ibo yansh

Anonymous said...

Jst like adaeze yobo she was sleeping and dating a married man before she met yobo and got pregnant

Anonymous said...

Where is ada yobo the preacher someone who is not happy in her home trying to advise other people

Anonymous said...

Just prayer my sister

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Unknown said...

Go and die you low life good for nothing hater. Since you are so angry you are burning, maybe you should take a vacation in hell and give space on earth for good meaning people. Big fool

Anonymous said...

Of cos!
like 98% of Nollywood actresses were once side chicks or are still side chicks.

Anonymous said...

You have spoken well just like ada yobo she was sleeping and dating a married man. Now her husband is doing the same thing sleeping with everything in skirts karma is a bitch

Unknown said...

Funny enough, the notion of Side chick being a threat is only in the minds of the wives. More often than not, men who cheat do not have the intentions to send their wives packing or wreck their homes. They just do it cuz "they are men" and that's what they do best- having an option they could fall back on to clear their heads and their dicks. The side chick usually remains at her destined position- the side. The only people that empower these side chicks are the wives trust me.
If women wouldn't make such a big deal about the side chick thing and but a blind eye to stuffz going on, two things are bound to happen- He gets tired of that side chick and make things right with you or he gets tired of that side chick and move on to another.
in essence, side chicks are not important, weather ex or otherwise, if they were they wouldn't be placed at the side in the first place. A woman who continues to make a mess of the whole thing by attacking her husband or attacking the side chick will only succeed in putting the side chick at the centre stage. So the best bet for wives is to play the fool and top their games.

Anonymous said...

Who is this fool?

Anonymous said...

Regina, what on earth are you talking about you were once a side chick , remember your ex boyfriend the mixed race guy . so get off your high horse and stopping playing the good girl card to the world that does not know the real you

Anonymous said...

Guess she struck a nerve, huh? You too, stop being a sidechick, maybe you'll find someone to marry you.

Wapgroundowner said...

Virtually every lady was once a side chick,getting promoted to being the main chick depends on how you women steps up your game. MEANWHILE after promotion most ladies do believe that they have gotten it all,mean while its not so,every woman/Lady must always understand the fact that must always be a game changer and a master planner,there are lots of Ladies out there trying their luck to capture the attention of your beloved husband or fiance,but once u keep upgrading your game.... No outsider (HOME WRECKER) will ever defeat you supremacy in your own home.

Anonymous said...

I dont even understand the purpose of her question. One saying for the wise - do unto others as it shall be done unto you. So side chicks should have no reason to be offended by sidechicks that give them a taste of their own poison. It never feels right to be cheated on, does it? As for men fulfilling their roles, how could you possibly fulfil your roles when you are sharing your body fluids out there? You are putting your entire family at risk where you are supposed to be the protector. So monetary input does not mean the man has fulfilled all his responsibilities. He just did half or less. the rest is maintaining respect for the household and keeping them safe in every way possible.

Anonymous said...

I dont even understand the purpose of her question. One saying for the wise - do unto others as it shall be done unto you. So side chicks should have no reason to be offended by sidechicks that give them a taste of their own poison. It never feels right to be cheated on, does it? As for men fulfilling their roles, how could you possibly fulfil your roles when you are sharing your body fluids out there? You are putting your entire family at risk where you are supposed to be the protector. So monetary input does not mean the man has fulfilled all his responsibilities. He just did half or less. the rest is maintaining respect for the household and keeping them safe in every way possible.

ary said...

Side chick is usually a woman with a low self esteem or just a money grabbing bitch! Either way, a side chick has something wrong upstairs

ary said...

Side chick is usually a woman with a low self esteem or just a money grabbing bitch! Either way, a side chick has something wrong upstairs

Anonymous said...

Regina Askia always asking mumu questions. You have all the experience coming from your runs as a side, corner and centre chick....Askia indeed asking

Anonymous said...

Amen!

Dike F(xyz) said...

Flesh and Blood did not reveal this to you.

Dike F(xyz) said...

God Bless you.

Esty kudos said...

D powerless wife needs God to fight for her. Shikina

Dike F(xyz) said...

Flesh and Blood did not reveal this to you.

Anonymous said...

@ been younger...I disagree,its neva abt d age!!!weda young or old...no woman will feel confy wit anoda woman around her man.my cousin had a batttle wit a divorcee wit 2 kids who wnt let her husband be.she had jst one at d time,so.....

Anonymous said...

Side chick o!!! Center chick o!!! Round chick!!! All na chick!!! We woman sef we dey give this men too much power!!!

Anonymous said...

Why do you sound so thirsty?

Anonymous said...

You are sounding very illiterate but somehow you have managed to think its ok to voice your own razz comments. Your face isn't so cute either yet you still speak. Double standards.

Anonymous said...

I dont agree! The side chic isnt always the ex or somone on a revenge mission. Sometimes she just happens, sometimes the man might have married the wrong one and suddenly finds peace ouitside. Sometimes the side chic isnt after the home or the wife. Lets be realistic, the side chic comes into being when there is trouble at home. Wives keep your homes happy and secured and reduce the tendencies for side chics tohappen thats all

Anonymous said...

hhhhhhhhhhhh

Anonymous said...

Anon 10:09, you are very unhappy and believe me your grave would be dug soon. Mark my words. It must come to pass unless you apologise to this woman. You curse her that she is old, that old age will never be your portion. You will die young. Mark my words. Unless you apologise and recant what you said.

veritas said...

If you guys like, call it side chick...I call it being a mistress....side chick is in bad taste...Now for me, I'm a side chick but older than his wife by a few years...I however look younger than her, take better care of myself and take care of her husband, emotionally and physically. for me, it's not my intention to wreck their marriage, he's just a man whom I enjoy his company and love. I try not to get him in trouble and cover his shit for him. I don't want to marry him as I've been married before and decided I love my own company. But he's a man I adore and will continue to. I do however know that nothing lasts forever and know the flame will burn out soon, but until then, I will keep on being there for him....men cheat, best for him to sleep with one woman than to sleep with so many

Anonymous said...

Yea u really right, when women are single all what they will be saying is, I can't date a young guy, hmmmmmmm I need rich guy, I don't care if he his married, soooo far is rich, but when the woman is finally married, then all ladies are slot. Hmmmmmmm obirin, women.

APPLE said...

Look's like a side chick is in her marriage???

Anonymous said...

Good summary Zinny

Anonymous said...

Nawa ooooo linde, u don't like posting my coment.

Anonymous said...

Please, what is ur 'beef' with Adaeze Yobo???

Anonymous said...

Brainless,she quit acting but nw a nurse abroad.get a life.

Anonymous said...

Very smart answer. I've learnt a thing or two frm ur response. However, the difficult part for me wld be how to turn a blind eye when I know my guy is not being faithful esp knowing how much I love him. *sighs* Relationships are sometimes hard work. I put my trust in God, He will perfect my union, in Jesus' name. Amen!

Anonymous said...

Please, what is ur 'beef' with Adaeze Yobo???

chizzysignature said...

Sometimes I read comments here and am like why would an adult be so abusive and mean. We should try and let kindness and love reign in our hearts.

Anonymous said...

we reap what we sow. period. fuck another man's man, they will fuck urs too. karma is and always been a bitch

Anonymous said...

we reap what we sow. period. fuck another woman's man, they will fuck urs too. karma is and always been a bitch

domina said...

abeg na normal tin. its better to face the reality than to live in denial or a lie

kels. said...

Veritable has said it all. Nice 1. Diff side chick wt diff intention. It's beta 4 a man 2 b wt a side chick dats not a home breaker dan 2 sleep around with diff ladies outside.

ZeeZee said...

First of all be calling yourself.... we were all once side chicks how? I have never been a side chicks - If a married man tries to talk to me or someone that is engaged its bye bye I tell them off. Let me hear word... I'm laying a bed that I can manage to sleep in when it's time to sleep.. everything I do I can he held responsible for and not deny it IN PUBLIC

Anonymous said...

Regina wat are you saying? am married am a wife, I cant ncan neva be powerless to a side chick. any side chick dat crosses her boundaries will live a life of regret. Good radiance to bad rubbish. I was neva a side chick so any one dat cums disturbing will neva try rubbish wit me.

Anonymous said...

abeg make i see road pass jare as if she was not a side chick herself nansense

Anonymous said...

Suprising!!! See d amount of power given to men, look at u ladies making excuses for dese men and in d process branding urselves as side chics. What abt d man? Why is it d woman dat is given a derogatory tag?

Anonymous said...

You drop this comment like a bomb. If drop in Gwoza or Sambisa, our girls would be rescued instantly.

Unknown said...

They are cases of women who never slept wit married and engaged men but still ve husbands sleeping around after marriage. So my dear it's not all about karma or nemesis. Some women marry as virgin yet ve unfaithful husband. All we ve to do is pray we don't witness such

Unknown said...

Chei!!! Diaris God ooooooooo!!!!

Anonymous said...

The issue is the men and their wives not the girls. The men get bored with their marriages for various reasons and look for other women to make them happy. I have a man who has been disturbing me. Once I learnt he was married I told him off, but he has refused to go away. Buying me stuff and always calling and saying he loves me. I know its wrong but I love the attention. He is a good person and I would like to have him as a friend but he refuses to just be friends. I think wives should learn how to take better care of their men and not let them look outside and then fall in the hands of the wrong girls and stop blaming the girls outside for their failure. Men are babies we are the ones who must learn how to manage them, at least the good ones not the ones who will misbehave no matter what yph do for them

Anonymous said...

Anon 9:17am it is your father's grave approaching. Dumb beast little wonder that how you call your mother never gave u quality home training you lack it all & chale I'm as successful as any other business tycoon in the world so u can't measure up to me by any standard

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