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Monday, 17 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: I met my dream woman a week after I got engaged

From a male LIB readers
I gave my girlfriend of two and a half years an engagement ring and just a little over a week later I met the woman of my dreams who is single and interested in having a relationship with me. How do I break things off with my girl without breaking her heart? I'm convinced without any iota of doubt that this new girl is The One. What would you advise? Why did I get engaged when I wasn't sure? Pressure! Some guys know what I mean...

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Anonymous said...

B contented with wat u av nd move on wit ur relationship..

Alloy Chikezie said...

The good thing is that u are not yet married to her, so u have an option


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Dee said...

"Some guys know what i mean..." NOPE WE DON'T

Dee said...

"Some guys know what i mean..." NOPE WE DON'T

Unknown said...

U ARE A CONFUSED PERSON. ASEWO LIK U. DREAM WOMAN KO NIGHTMARE WOMAN NI. THUNDER FIRE U DIA

Ameriestyle said...

Oh wow, this is hard
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Unknown said...

I hv a terrible headache

Ameriestyle said...

Oh wow, this is hard
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Unknown said...

Ur a sick fuck. Now u wanna call thing off with her? Wow it easy for u right?not thinking of d pain u will put her thru. Am very sure tomorrow u will find another woman interesting again. Sick bastard

Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

Eleribuuuuu niwo boy yiiiii. Oloun nio ko oooo

zeel said...

SORRY TO SAY, U R DUMB. YOU SAY YOU R SURE DIS NEW GIRL IS YOUR DRM GIRL GOOD. WISH YOU D BEST IN HAVING THE DREAM(NIGHTMARE) GIRL. I CAN ALMOST BE SURE U WILL REGRET THIS YOUR DREAM GIRL. ONIRANU....

Unknown said...

My friend,u are a confuse person,u can't be too sure about dis new girl being d one for you,u just met her,d devil u know is better than d angel u don't know,so make ur heart correct o don't break an inoncent girl heart

Unknown said...

U didn't meet any dream woman, that's always the temptation that comes once we want to get hitched, u met ur former gal and as time grew u engaged her and I want to tell u, if u quit, u ll later find out when u stayed with ur so called dream gal after 2years and engage her that she is no more the dream gal u want, u ll always meet women everyday so bear it in mind that whoever u choose should be ur dream woman..

El-Toro... said...

I beg I beg I beg,Linda,leave this man joooor he is confused,and if he so convinced he should call off the engagement and marry the new babe naaaa,but I know men like him will away have reasons to cheat

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Anonymous said...

Save her the stress let her move on ASAP

Yinkadec10 said...

Guy, this is 21st Century, you don't get Pressured to get someone engaged. Now you meet your true love. My advice its better you break up the engagement and go on with your new found love. A break up Engagement is better than a divorce.

Anonymous said...

You are a sick dude....SHIKENA!

Anonymous said...

Its Simple!!! Cheat on ur fiancee, and while cheating on her, make sure she knows. That will chase her away and clear d road for this dream girl of urs... GoodLuck...

young FOREVER said...

u r a fool,wicked and most of all a learning child

Unknown said...

This dude is really funny...... Ok, what about in the future when yu decided to get engage to this one, suudenly yu found another gal, so this one will no longer be ur dream gal that newly found catch will and so it continues ryt...?? Yu are not serious...
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Anonymous said...

Omo ale

Unknown said...

Na hungry dey hungry this man no doubt.....
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KELVIN said...

is still engagement not marriage so still disengage her b4 it is late

Unknown said...

wat stewpeed pressure?

Anonymous said...

just stay with d one u av engaged and move on cos if u break her heart and go 4 d new one, one day u will leave her 4 anoda dream girl.

Amarachukwu. said...

U can't be serious,just forget about this new girl n focus on planing your weeding,PERIOD!!!

Anonymous said...

A recipe for disaster. Insatiability has ruined many men.

Debbie Chelsea said...

How do u know dat dis new 1 is d real girl? My dear just stay with ur gf oooo,she is d real 1 i bet u..n if u leave her 4 dis new 1 u might regret it!!!!

Unknown said...

Hey Bro, if ur sure the 1st Lady aint the woman to spend d rest of ur life with, simply sit her down, talk to her and withdraw ur engagement to her.(b4 u marry her and now be a bad husband in the future) but be sure this new chick is the right one ooo! there wont be a "going back" after you've withdrawn your engagement u know. Also, I'll love to ask u, WHAT CRITERIA did you u consider for you to say this new girl is your dream woman? u barely know her. No go jonz o!

Unknown said...

Marriage is for serious minded fellows, so if u had happened to wed her? U ll tell her u want a divoce cos u just got ur dream woman, listen make what u ve what u want, treat ur woman as if she is the last option..cos if u start getting dream girls now u ll still see many dream girls morrow and next..

Anonymous said...

Dem dun jazz u mumu,u better fast and pray

Anonymous said...

Happened to me too. I have had a high school sweet heart who only agreed to date me after i got hitched to my wife. It worries me everyday ...

Anonymous said...

Wow!!dis is so easy.. Get a matchet n break ur head open,den kneel down n pray 2 God 4 wisdom....cos u fked up big time

Anonymous said...

Double wahala for living body. That's a lesson to others never do things out of pressure, my brother carry ur cross, am wondering if you would feel this way if you hadn't met the new girl. If you have to leave her pls do, don't stay with her out of pity cus you making matters worse but let me add agbalumo wey de hand better pass the one for market margot fit de inside.

Anonymous said...

a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.your current fiancee would hurt now but trust me it is better now than when you get married and you guys then become bitter.BUT be sure...dont go chasing after shadows

Anonymous said...

yes bro I know wot u mean...plz hold on a lil b4 any 4da step wt both of dem. don't brake up yet & don't b too close 2 ur new "crush"...u ll thank me later

Anonymous said...

Let her know dat u re no longer interested in marryin her..it wil hurt her but she wil get over it...its better dan divorce or marriage wtout luv..i pray God giv her a man datz far more better dan u

mercy said...

Abeg just gerrout! U r just an unrepented playboy! U really have a long wayyyyyyY to go. Which one is woman of ur dreams? D one u proposed to, is she d woman of ur alertness? Infact I don't even know how to classify u!

Unknown said...

Your a jerk! Selfish ass nigga!

Anonymous said...

All I can advise u is dat u ar a confused mad bastard clothed with a dress of stupidity and foolishness

Anonymous said...

there is no miss perfect out dere... u are only blindfolded wt d physical attribute of d new lady.n let me tel u ..u dbt knw her too wel as d old lady...d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knw

Anonymous said...

Your a jerk! Selfish asshole!

Anonymous said...

LUST

Anonymous said...

sabali

Anonymous said...

LMAO, My dear so sad to be the one to tell you this, but the bitter truth is you would always meet your deam woman, the irony of life is it aint fair, but truth is no woman is perfect. u take your imperfect woman and turn her to your dream woman, otherwise you would foever constantly meet a strange woman(your dream woman) every now and then, especially when you are about to make major decisions in your relationship.

JENIFA KAN SAYS SO

Swerve said...

You are not sure about someone you dated for 2.6 yrs, how are you sure about somebody you've just met less than a month? Say NO to temptation before you would do something you will regret forever.

Anonymous said...

sabali bruv, Sabali. (be patient)

Unknown said...

When you've engaged her why go after another woman? Or you just saw "this dream girl" and without a word, you clicked? Please choose wisely. You barely know the new one

Anonymous said...

neva marry outta pressure

Amy said...

First of all don't be sentimental about marriage its a life time thing if you have seen ur mrs right then go for it and the bible which is the word of GOD forbids divorce. Pray to GOD to prepare the heart of ur girlfriend to receive the news and them break it to her. GOD help you.

Utonwa said...

This is so painful...i understand how you feel. please take your time. dont rush to break things off with your girl or jump in with Miss right. If you believe in GOD, Pray and ask God to "dissolve and resolve" with a sincere hear, maybe for two weeks, dont say which you prefer, just tell Him to dissolve what shouldnt be and resolve what should. And see a miracle! it happens like magic,everyone will be happy at the end of the day...no heartbreaks. Am talking from experience!

Anonymous said...

r u looking for advice from Linda or from libers? cuz u'll get d latter. dunno when Linda turned to Dr.phil

iris said...

Marriage is not a weak affair! I advice you pray about it

Anonymous said...

Men are never satisfied... You've been with her over 2 yrs and you did not realize she's not the one? #alwaysthirsty

*Kelly Crush*

Beautifulllll said...

there is no way you won't break her heart. you just have to do what you have to do so you don't make her life miserable in the future.

Fammie said...

How do I begin to answer this question of yours... Just call up the and be upfront with her that you were not sure when you engaged is better than going on and having regrets about it..

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Fammie said...

How do I begin to answer this question of yours... Just call up the and be upfront with her that you were not sure when you engaged is better than going on and having regrets about it..

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tomisyn said...

Tight shit! Any decision u make,be considerate of ur gf and place urself in her shoes..I think if after all ds while u've waited,she's the one u still goh engaged to, it means u two r meant to be...u just gotta let d new gal go and in the end if d new gal is meant to be,u guys will deff find ur way back together

Anonymous said...

MY DEAR, YOU BETTER THANK GOD THAT YOU ARE SIMPLY ENGAGED TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND NOT MARRIED.....SINCE YOU ARE NOT SURE.A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE.

I WILL ADVICE YOU TO THINK VERY CAREFULLY THOUGH, REMEMBER THAT YOU DONT ACTUALLY KNOW THIS NEW GIRL 100%. ONE OF THE BEST TIMES IN A RELATIONSHIP IS THE BEGINNING WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE NEW. YOUR CURRENT GIRLFRIEND IS SOMEONE YOU KNOW VERY WELL AND IM SURE YOU CAN PRDICT HER WAYS BETTER THAN THIS NEW GIRL.

I DONT KNOW WHAT YOU SEE IN THIS NEW GIRL THAT MAKES YOU 100% SURE THAT SHE IS THE ONE. BUT I HOPE ITS NOT INFATUATION BECAUSE THAT WILL FADE IN TIME.

PRAY ABOUT IT AND OPEN YOUR EYES WIDE. ONES YOU DECIDE TO BREAK UP THE ENGAGEMENT THEN THERE IS NO TURING BACK.

I ALSO WONDER WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN THIS YOUR DREAM GIRL IS IF SHE IS KNOWINGLY WILLING TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU WHEN SHE KNOWS THAT YOU ARE ENGAGED.......JUST SAYING

THE FINAL DECISION IS YOURS.....GOOD LUCK

AKA....... OPK

Unknown said...

Just after 1 week?..u better use your head o..

Ify

Unknown said...

Disengage lol.. But on a serious note, never ever succumb to pressure.. You gotta figure this one out yourself cuz there's no easy way out..

Anonymous said...

So....how do you know she is the right one for you because sometimes our dreams are not what is best for us?? Don't make a mistake you might regret for the rest of your life, when you knew your girl wasn't right for you all along why did you date for that long and even engaged her?

Unknown said...

Oloshi ni bobo yi sha...na so dem go brk up with ur sister without breaking her heart. Ewu!

haters-slayer said...

ditch the girl,and follow your heart

Platinum Tastes said...

Sincerely speaking, u have to break off the engagement. Ur fiancee would be hurt...but then it would eventually go away. Its worse getting married when your head isn't home. Cos surely that marriage won't stand for long. So end it now while you can but before you do be certain you aren't going after this new lady for the wrong reasons.

Anonymous said...

Craze dey worry you

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Anonymous said...

Mr man, I cannot but pity you. Lemme paint an instance for you, You got a job with nice pay and u were confortable with it, just for your employer to come after two and half years and tell you that u were wrongly given d job dat the wrightful owner of that job just checked in and so u gat to vacate such job. How will u feel? I guess the witches and wizards in ur family are after you, rite? That's your problem rite now!! I bet u, it was the outward appearance of dis new girl dat drove u insane to have called her ur dream gurl, thank God you re still dreaming, when u wake up, go meet d gurl u got angaged with and marry her....Can you see where covetiousness can take a man to!

Anonymous said...

But u weren't under pressure when u were sleeping wt her? Don't lie dat u haven't slept wt her dating her for 2yrs. Rubbish!

Anonymous said...

guy my sincere and true advice to u, as a brother to a brother.
pls give it time, i hv seen a lot of guys walk this same path and end up regreting but unfortunately, it is too late.
my advice to you is to allow time to tell, keep her as a friend and still spend more time with ur fiancee. if its true love it would grow, and if it is lust, with u spending more time with ur fieancee it will fade off.
the true and real personality of pple (esp ladies) usually reveals itself over time.

Dr. Me said...

loll..Just met the woman of my dreams y'day I think sef...and I also have a girlfriend whom I ain't engaged to..was thinking of same thing too..this is how i think you should do it...tell the woman of your dreams of your present situation and then tell your gf things might not be perfect between you two in the near future...then tell her the truth if she probes further. do it where she won't kill you though.

candygirl said...

*scoffs*niggah sit yo black ass down!how can you be sure this new lady is "the one"just after one week?!Here is another man thinking with is Mr twinky!..and what do you mean by pressure though?mscheww I just can't! You better think this through before you regret this silly mistake the rest of your life.

konyin said...

tell her exactly what you are telling us gosh... its so painful to even think of your poor fiancé running around thinking she's with the man of her dreams... just break it off already and let the poor girl move on jor ...

Anonymous said...

You are Foolish with Capital "F" 2 and half year over 1 week? Of course, you can break up with her then meet another "girl of your dream" after 2 and half years down the line.

Anonymous said...

i bet you all, the author of this story is a female, or a guy who is a female inside, how can a man asked online readers for advise on his own future, na wah? and which can man never fashee your wife-to-be for babe wey you never even see her pant?ok ride on..

Anonymous said...

Dnt b decieved, hw are u sure dis new gal u jus met is ur ideal woman? Hence u bearlly knw her. Dnt b decieved d devil u know is better dan d angel u dnt knw.

Anonymous said...

Think twice. I think you are confused. Maybe after engaging the present one you will find another match...Relax please.

Anonymous said...

u b idiot naah..... pressure abi? na so u go mari talk sai na pressure.....

Anonymous said...

So should we fry eggs for u?

Anonymous said...

Sorry comment becos same thing happen to me, u cn only work on luv

Anonymous said...

Young man marriage is a lifetime commitment so be wise when making such decision.
Please ask God God forgiveness and proceed with you engaged girl.

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BONARIO NNAGS said...

You are just being selfish.
Soon you will see another lady you will call the woman of your dream,coz you've not stopped dreaming

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Anonymous said...

Fuck u linda and ur fake stories.

Anonymous said...

U really did to go 4 check up young man..how can u tie a girl down 4 dat long all in d name of engagement and now she turns out not to be ur drm girl...u really need some medical check up

Anonymous said...

Its obvious you don't love your girlfriend turned fiancee'. Its better you break it off with her. As the saying goes, better a broken engagement than a broken marraige. PS...your fiancee' is going to be heartbroken.

Unknown said...

Dream Woman my ass, some1 dat u hav only dated in ur imagination is d person u want to chose over som1 u hav been dating in reality for 2 solid yrs.
Guy i think u need d nearest rehab center asap.
Anumpam

Anonymous said...

Lool. Brah, this is your problem broken down in percentages:

1: fear of commitment: 50%
2: desire to try someone new: 25%
3: almighty konji: 25%

All you need is to change how you think. Even if you break things off and marry 'the one' (Jet Li bawo), you'll still meet the 2nd, 3rd till 29th one. Fact is, you'll never stop meeting desirable women. Rather, think hard on what made you give 'the expired one' a ring in the first place then you can work your way back from there.

I don talk my own.

Mr. Sugar

last baby said...

U r a confused man. Tomorrow u will still meet another girl after this one. Anyway, go into prayer. Don't rush things. Take easy my brother. Pls avoid making mistake

odii simeon said...

just break it off, better now tha
n later

Flexy said...

the only thing to say is to break it off but do it right....you cant go into a loveless marriage since you dont love her. goodluck

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AllNaTalk said...

Ogun strike you there!!! Infact, amadioha circumcise you with lightening bolt. Onyiara!!!

Anonymous said...

This is the reason why heartless girls deal with men like you,oh u were not sure and you put the ring.onye iberibe like you.do u kW hw many men she must hv turned down cos of u.mk u no provoke me oh.

beautiful onyinye said...

My dear! Engagement is not marriage! Dnt mk a mistaje dat ll leave u unhappy 4 d rest of ur life! Am engaged 2 a man and nt sure if I can live wt him.. Am jst stuck in d realtionship cuz I feel he has done a lot 4 me n I cnt afford to hurt him..

Anonymous said...

You need to know there is no perfect woman boss and beside what makes you think she is the woman of your dream and if she is then the woman you got engage to is a woman of your vision? Plz come off it guy you have no excuse for wanting to brake up boss

Anonymous said...

Bros i advice u to relax. U see is just 1 wk u know dis babe, dont tink u hv seen all her behavour ooooo. My take is dat u concentrate on ur present relationship & make it work, okay.

Anonymous said...

Ogun will kee u! after 2 nd a half years u not sure she's d one? Imagine d series of abortion she had for you,after filling her 'kpekus' for 2 nd a Half years nw she's not d now? Year case is wit lucifer!

Anonymous said...

Since u no u dnt lv her y did u keep her so long 2 d extent u gv her ring n ow r u sure d single lady is ur dream gal???

Anonymous said...

Ewu awusa!

Amaka said...

Please I really don't know how to say this but please don't hurt your girl. she didn't force you to engage her. am a girl and I can tell you from my personal experience. a short story to inspire u, it happened to my friend and when the guy told her he wants to call off the engagement she died and the guy was arrested and jailed for murder please follow to my advice.


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Mab said...

oh dear, i guess nature does not want u guys to get married other wise she wld have come wen u were not already engaged to someone else, hw wld ur fiancee feel

Opelicious Morgann said...

A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Be very sure this new woman is not a pretender because you might live to regret it. Sometimes, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

Unknown said...

I wish the both ladies find better men, you don't deserve any. what the hell were you doing engaging a woman you don't love or as you said is not your dream woman.

Unknown said...

IS THAT WHY YOU ARE CONFUSED?? YOU DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM AT ALL..MARRY THE BOTH OF THEM JARI. #CASECLOSED...

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Anonymous said...

The devil at work,shine ya eyes

Anonymous said...

You are just a Yanshhole! After 2 and a half yrs you finally engaged but u were still looking for your "dream woman" Your life may just be a dream u may never wake up from - just saying!

Anonymous said...

U must b jokin.....

Anonymous said...

Choi! I hope i'm not d gal oh! Dis guy just sounds like my fiance... if he's d one then I have news for u! better don't break off this engagement if not!!!!!

DR FIBROID said...

And i'm convinced without any iota of doubt that you don't know what you are doing......

sahnzylyn said...

So in other words, you are asking for advice on how to break a girl's heart abi? You dated her for two and a half years and you still weren't sure she is the woman for you. .how wicked you are! !! What makes you so sure that you won't find another "woman of your dreams" the minute you engage this one too? Nawa 4 some people sha

Anonymous said...

Now, this is the reason why women(girls) behave the way the do! with a lot of guys, "it's not over until its over (the altar)".

Hisssssss! You are just an idiot! wait till your "dream girl" unravels!!! Ever heard of "a bird at hand"?

Anonymous said...

I hope you didn't do one of those 'epic' 'will you marry me?' proposals?
Another thing is, when you break off this engagement and you ask 'The One' for her hand in marriage, what are the chances that you won't meet another 'One' a week after?

Anonymous said...

and how do you knw she's whats best for you after 1 week??? plus anyone ready to date a guy or a girl who is already engaged and promises to brake it up with the other party is fooling his/her self big tym. what makes you think he wont find another girl after 1 week and say shes the one????? Be WISE

Gelly said...

Abeg...a case of the grass looking greener on the other end. In less than a week u already know that. How won't she put out her best foot to impress you. To think that u kept a babe for 2yrs and ur ready to dump her and expect she won't have her heart broken...SMH. Babe's pls stop all these long courtship tinz. Check ur intentions man!

Anonymous said...

Ogun will kee u! after 2 nd a half years u not sure she's d one? Imagine d series of abortion she had for you,after filling her 'kpekus' for 2 nd a Half years nw she's not d one? Your case is wit lucifer!

Anonymous said...

If your girlfriend is a very nice person and has done you no harm then you will regret what you're about to do for the rest of your life. Your 'dream woman' may be barren afterall. You shouldn't have 'looked outside' when you were already engaged. Be warned

Adroit said...

Idiot, u re infatuating

Anonymous said...

You are not matured enough to get married, pure and simple. This little one liner sentence says it all. Leave relationships alone and go learn what it means to be a grown-up. Nobody should ever feel pressured to want to make a lifetime commitment to anyone, especially if you are not sure. It is obvious making decisions that involves other peoples hearts are trivial/easy to make. You're not even matured enough to get a job... you're a tad bit irresponsible.

Anonymous said...

and how do you knw she's whats best for you after 1 week??? plus anyone ready to date a guy or a girl who is already engaged and promises to brake it up with the other party is fooling his/her self big tym. what makes you think he wont find another girl after 1 week and say shes the one????? Be WISE

eji said...

Don't get into what u will end up regretting, just pray to God for a better leading.

Anonymous said...

You need to be sure... it may be the pressure of finally getting "tied down" is affecting you. Think about the 80/20 principle. You have 80... but you see 20 outside and because u dont have, the 20 suddenly seems bigger than the 80. I don think you should marry someone you dont love, but be sure its not ur emotions playing games with u.. if youre sure, tell her, nothing worse nothing worse than being in a loveless marraige

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Evil of d year goes to u man, u do chop naw e don tire u...breaking news: ure nt d dream man of d new girl...

OMG!WOMAN said...

Two years and a half she's not the one and you didn't let her go? That's the issue with you guys, why keep a girl and waste her time when you know deep down she isn't the one you want, better u break her heart and safe her time to go meet her match.

Anonymous said...

Thank God is ur dream girl..... All you'll do is.... stop dreaming.....

On a serious note...... you can reevaluate your status if u deem it fit...

Anonymous said...

Asshole.
A week after you got engaged,you went fishing.moron

Anonymous said...

Ewu........

Anonymous said...

R USURE??? ALL THAT GLITTERS ISNT GOLD...THIS MIGHT BE LUST AND INFATUATION BE WISE MY YOUNG MAN!!!! MARRIAGE IS TOUGH U NEED AN UNDERSTANDING PATIENT, GOD FEARING WOMAN, WHO IS KIND AND UNDERSTANDING...LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!!!

Anonymous said...

Best you break off with her now cos you will definitely cheat on her.since just a week after proposing marriage,you jumped some one else.

Anonymous said...

Engagements are meant to be broken! Not too late!

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Anonymous said...

I don't know what most guys take girls for? When you weren't sure she wasn't the one why did you engage her, well its your mistake leave the so called girl of your dream and live with marrying the girlfriend you have!

Amicable said...

U need serious prayer,met a girl a week ago and concluded she is ur dream woman...hmmm ife ne me na upper iweka junction

Anonymous said...

Hm, there's' no way there wont be a heartbreak. Maturity will face it and stick with the old girl but otherwise will want to change. It's'true that new things excite

ary said...

We ain't always supposed to end up with the girl of our dreams. Not always.

Anonymous said...

Dude u need prayers. ..u have been wit a girl for 2 and a half years and after getting her engaged u r saying u have met the one u just met over a week...how is she d one? U need ur head washed.

Anonymous said...

The only tin i have 2 say 2 you is that you are mad. Coward

Anonymous said...

U re an idiot,y did u engage her if she wasn't d woman of ur dream?May God punish al these useless n confused men that go abt breaking hearts.Nonsense!!

Anonymous said...

You really want an advise, BEAST that's what you are.

Anonymous said...

a doubleminded man is unstable in all his ways

Anonymous said...

You can go ahead and end the relationship, mind you, you will meet other women in the nearest future whom you would also believe are your dream women. Keep breaking women's hearts because of dream, don't wake up and face reality. Nonsense!

Anonymous said...

I know that feelings......

@izzSinzu said...

Guy follow ur dream.

@izzSinzu said...

But the devil u know is better than thw angel u don't know.

Anonymous said...

Dont do what u will regret...dnt call off d engagement...its a normal thing...it happens when one is about to marry but u will get over it, but u are funny o....u want to leave a girl u dated for two weeks for a girl u met just one week ago? Infact u dnt know wat u want...u dnt deserve ur girl at all...I wish she finds out and dump ur sorry ass and when u xome begging she should give a dirty slap cos definitely u must come back...trust me..mtscheeeew

Anonymous said...

u r not alrite o...you better sleep and wake up again....u want to undo ur engagement...rubbish

Anonymous said...

She could be the woman of your dreams ,but it doesn't mean the relationship would last. Don't make the mistake of leaving someone who truly loves you for someone who LIKES you.

Livvsreamblog said...

Send her text msgs that u av met a woman which is the dream of ur life **joking**....am tired of all this kinda stories,if u want us to help u then tell us the full story we cant just tell u to go ahead with ur new dream...u gonna hurt somebody remember that

Anonymous said...

Yeah, we know what you mean.



We know you are an IDIOT.

Anonymous said...

Lmao confused human being

missfixit said...

Awwwww.....i understnd how u feel,m.a woman i can understnd she will feel used n dumped,2 wasted years.but my dear a broken relationship s beta dan a broken marriage.i dnt c u being happy in dt home wen u get married to her*mayb* cos ur hrt s sumwhr else.follow ur heart my dear
God b wii u.

@izzSinzu said...

Follow ur dream, but beware... the devil u know is beta dan the angel u don't know. abi how dem talk am.

Anonymous said...

Just pray to God, He answers prayers. Listen to His voice and He will answer you. That you are engaged does not mean she is your wife. Be wise this is a life time project.

Anonymous said...

Shes not ur dream girl! Ur just lusting After her ode, onuku igala!

Anonymous said...

Ur problem

Miss X said...

There is no way to call off your engagement without breaking your fiancee's heart.

But a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

Be honest, tell her you had doubts but did it anyway. But now can't go thru with a relationship.

You will be insulted and bla bla...but marriage is life long. In time everyone will move on.

Anonymous said...

u re a bastard!!!!! i pray dat u shud hv a sister, nd anoda man wil treat her lik u wana du 2 dis one, heart breaker!!! u r not sure n yet u went ahead 2 propose 2 her..... infact dnt let me get angry wif u o

missfixit said...

People will insult n curse u buh my dear,non of dem wil ever liv with u.

Anonymous said...

It's not too late, better an ex girlfriend than an ex wife...

Miss X said...

I am just curious though how you know this new woman is your dream woman?

Really think about this before making any decisions.

Think about the important things and not booty size. #FYI

Unknown said...

Ojukokoro is the name of your problem. If u cancel ur engagement and marry this new 'woman of my dreams' girl, u will still meet someone 'better' after marriage. Get a grip and stop hopping around.

Unknown said...

Woooow!

Anonymous said...

Cam down and make your decision, the future matters not today o. U got to leave with your decision for life.

Anonymous said...

U can't tell in a wk, u r just carried away wiv d phase , let it go tru fire then wen it stand....

aristocratdammy said...

Gobe nla,na to breakup noni tell her you don move to d next level.God go provide better option

Zenki brown said...

What kind ☀f story is dis. Plx make urr choice Ūя̲̅ self.

Anonymous said...

Poster onise, face ur work!

Anonymous said...

after giving ur girl a ring u still went around flirting. girl of ur dreams kor, girl of ur dreams nii, my brother not all dat glitters is gold its always like magic in d begginning, ul think every1 u meet is d one. go fix urself, build ur current relationship and stop flirting around

Anonymous said...

Well, the best thing is just to let go of your former relationship oo cos if this new girl is truly your dream girl,go for her wit rush cos future is at stake here

Anonymous said...

Boring....

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm...... How come u didn't notice she wasn't right for u all these yrs? 2nhalf years no be play nah! Bro think well

Unknown said...

Go ahead and tell her the truth...she's not the right person 4 u

Anonymous said...

At this point dude, the woman will/should remain in your dreams... There is a reason( God knows) why you did not meet until you took the plunge...Pele..


Mayowa

Anonymous said...

Its better 2 hv a broken engagement than marriage, so....... follow ur heart

Ammy Becky said...

Ur name na MUMU!!!!!!
Ewu hausa dika gi.....go ahead nd break it off with her nah
So dat u can go nd be wit d woman of ur "dreams"....
Y propose to someone wen u know u r not ready for marriage nd u dont love her enuf to marry her..
Fool, mtchewww.

Anonymous said...

Pls think twice

Unknown said...

The thing there ιƨ, every woman possess a great quality, ßut how are you sure. The one you Just saw now isn't a camouflage? Tell that present devil that surfaced to pack out of your thought. God has a reason For you to have engaged your present girl. Take this αѕ a blessing.

Anonymous said...

follow ur heart no matter how hard it looks

Anonymous said...

Break off d engagement with ur gf. Marriage is hard enough as it is. Don't just settle 4 wat u don't like. Grass is always greener on the other side. But bear in mind that this 'the one' girl might end up not seeing u as 'the one' in d not too far future.
Ole Olojukokoro somebody

Anonymous said...

Ojukokoro, be satisfied




Female teacher who sent nudes to her 18 year old student

Anonymous said...

very easy breakup with your fiancee right away,you will be doing her a great favour,like the say goes a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage..... if were her i will be glad not to end up with a looser like you

Anonymous said...

Wahala dey oooo

Unknown said...

Guy are u sure this is not lust or fantasy

Anonymous said...

I do undrstnd u very well cus same hapnd 2me after my girl frnd got pregnant & decided 2 kp it 4 me wit d hope of marryn her after she gave birth. I meet some one after my heart. The woman that I hav bn askn God 2 send 2me 4 years. Am still on the cross roadd rite now hoping 4 d direction of my Destiny.

Anonymous said...

Bia u diz two timin fool,am sure u av a sista yh? Now ow wud yu feel if diz hapnd 2ur sista..dude free dat so called gurl of ur dream,and work on ur fiancee 2 bcome d aPpl of ur IYZ,dnt dul!

Na me;HARRYPOTTA

Anonymous said...

very easy breakup with your fiancee right away,you will be doing her a great favour,like the say goes a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage..... if were her i will be glad not to end up with a looser like you

Anonymous said...

hello dear, my first question is how can you be so sure after a week???? we humans love new things,so at the initial stage it all looks shinny and beautiful and we just want to hold unto it. please be calm, you've been with your fiance' for over 2 years now trust me no matter the pressure you say you had before proposing, you till did it without a gun being put to your head, you were with her for that long. don't break it up just cuz you met someone new....

but then again i'm confused how can you be talking about a relationship with someone else after a week??? ....i'm done here. just think before you act.

Honsylglobal.com : UK Global Online Financial Advisers said...

The usual smart moves from men to continue soiling the Royal "Oats".

Naija babe said...

Thank God you said engaged and not marriage. My brother, speaking honestly, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage and no one should be pressured into this life-time commitment called marriage. Its better you have a heart to heart with your fiance, make her understand you are having cold-feet about settling down and encourage her to go on her merry way. Of course you know you'll have to keep ur new relationship on d low for sometime. DON'T tell her its because of another woman you are chickening out. Now speaking as a woman and as a mother, after wasting the poor girl's time and giving her high hopes, sampled her pussy endlessly and probably gotten her to abort a few babies for you, you now realize @ d last minute that she's not ur kind of woman abi? Turn d table around, would you be happy if you were on d receiving end of this kind of mess? Pray for God's forgiveness brother.

Anonymous said...

Dorh!

Anonymous said...

Patience is a virtue, u cud have waited and not rush into what u wud eventually regret and Never u jilt ur lover for another, its heart aching, remember it cud be u.

evalsam said...

Ur just a sick modafucker!! Pls tell d poor girl now so she dosnt end up with a looser like u who dosnt knw wot loyalty, trust n love is! Psycho bastard

Toluwalope said...

Don't leave your fiancee...take a conscious effort to develop the right feeling for her because I know she loves you.

Anonymous said...

stupid , idiot . you have known her for just a week and you think she is the one . my dear have a rethink ok

Anonymous said...

Guy, don't ever make d mistake of being sentimental about your future. If you are so sure of this new woman in your life then please be a MAN enough n tell your now fiance the truth and end it before you make a mistake you will regret & have to live with for the rest of your life.

Let just say am talking from experience, because I was in your shoes and I know where it pitches now.

Met this totally amazing girl 3 months before my marriage and we bounded like we had known for ever, we did everything together, she was my friend & confidant, she made me laugh and she completed me in every-way, but was not MAN enough to break up with my now wife for fear of breaking her heart.

But today I have my regrets, so be wise friend.

Anonymous said...

Linda or wat are u called,how about this young telnt boy from PH Jcin producer and song writer there inform u and u said no space but u can va space for dis nonsense

Anonymous said...

You must be insane... Idiot

Sylvonce said...

U feeling pressure frm guyz not even mum or fam? Odiegwu.com! What makes u think she is ur dream gal?? All of a sudden, u find nothing "Dreamy" in ur supposed fiance?? Dude jukwa onwegi ajuju ofuma b4 indulging in d newbe. Nevrdless I dnt advise u go into marriage wiv some1 u ain't comfortable wiv...stay away frm d both of dem for a while and go search urself, if aftr u no stil get d ryt answer, nwanne OYO!

Unknown said...

You are a goat!

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