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Thursday, 18 June 2015

What keeps a man? Ali Baba shares his opinion

Someone posted this on their IG page, ace Comedian shared it on his own page and shared his own opinion on the matter. He wrote;
Much as I agree, because examples abound, many men have left very good women. But a man who wants to be kept, has to see what will keep him. Don't be fooled from what you see outside. There are usually reasons that make people walk away from what may seem to everyone as the best relationships. I know a lady who left a guy who had everything and was buff plus handsome. He however had vowed he would not have kids. The lady had to leave. Bottom line... There is more to what makes a relationship end than we may assume."
I believe you can't take a man who doesn't want to be taken. You can have sex with him, you can even be a part of his life, but you can't take him from who he really wants to be with. Thoughts?

92 comments:

Unknown said...

Heard

Unknown said...

100% True!!

Mzz_Mary said...

Well said

eka said...

that`s a million dollar question
that only God can answer
even d men sef can't answer the question..

Bonita Bislam said...

You cant keep a man who doesnt wanna be kept#ThatMuchIsTrue
Nothing to add or subtractmShikenan

Unknown said...

Believe me this is what has been my tot since the Toke issue. Reflected on alotta relationship in which the wan is pretty, godly buh nah the straying dogs still stray. I concluded with "it's better for a woman to keep herself happy "

Unknown said...

I totally agree with him..

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Bishop Dammy said...

Everyone with his own opinion anyway, so I don't expect you to digest all he says or anyone says.. so many things keep a man! And this is put in a short word "FACTORS". 2thess 5:17-32

Anonymous said...

VRY CORRECT...TOMJERRYSWIT

ROMAN RANKING said...

YES HE IS RIGHT, NOTHING CAN KEEP A MAN, GOOD SEX, PRETTY FACE OR WHAT EVER CANT KEEP A MAN, HE STAYS IF HE WANTS SO WOMEN DONT THINK BEING BEAUTIFUL OR GIVING HIM GOOD SEX CAN KEEP HIM, IT COMES NATURALLY FROM HIS HEART

Unknown said...

#FACT

didi said...

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Hell, being a good woman barely keeps a man. The only thing that keeps a man, is a man who want to be kept... #word!

Davido's driver said...

Indeed!!

didi said...

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Hell, being a good woman barely keeps a man. The only thing that keeps a man, is a man who want to be kept... #word!

Davido's driver said...

..plus a man with the fear of God

Unknown said...

So much love all what I just read. And dats true..the only thing that keeps a man its man who wants to be kept.

Unknown said...

And I also believe self sincerity is paramount in a relationship... if u are sincere with yourself I will be when it comes to settling down. for example, "can I marry this man that smokes or drink?" can I put up with the smoking and drinking? Can marry this lady that can cook but not good with sex et al.... if no, desist from such relationship don't deceive the person into a union u know won't work.

Ladun Liadi said...

Truth. If d man/woman dsnt want to to be taken, U dnt stand a chance. Friends with benefits is d most U'll get.

Anonymous said...

maje wasnt just faithful to his wife... and the wife was all about social media, less concern about her man...



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Anonymous said...

maje wasnt just faithful to his wife... and the wife was all about social media, less concern about her man...



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Unknown said...

And I also believe self sincerity is paramount in a relationship... if u are sincere with yourself I will be when it comes to settling down. for example, "can I marry this man that smokes or drink?" can I put up with the smoking and drinking? Can marry this lady that can cook but not good with sex et al.... if no, desist from such relationship don't deceive the person into a union u know won't work.

kunta said...

Well said.....

Anonymous said...

So true,most guys outside are just fake ass...

BONARIO NNAGS said...

I don't get having sex with a man and being part of,his life is enough damage already.
Is it till he packs out of his house, then you have taken him.
To each his own, there is no arithmetic formulae to it, love is sacrifice, true love outweighs every sentiment.
The more we dwell on cultivating love instead of trying too hard to appear artificially pleasing to the other, the better for us.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

So damn true. Dont be fooled by wat u see outside. Some relationships look good on camera (in public) bt behind close doors its hell.

Unknown said...

True talk
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Jasmine Joseph said...

I support jor, a man that wants to be kept will be even without d sex. But d one wey wan waka no matter wat u offer, bros will still bounce

Jasmine Joseph said...

I support jor, a man that wants to be kept will be even without d sex. But d one wey wan waka no matter wat u offer, bros will still bounce

Anonymous said...

Seems like Toke doesn't wanna have kids? Juz saying,Thursday arithmetic

Favour said...

True

Unknown said...

You can take a horse to a river but can't force it to drink water.

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Unknown said...

Thank you sir.....

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmm.am speechless, but I will go wit Ali baba....

Anonymous said...

Women una don hear am abi, they chose their path, what to do and how to behave. Please women let's make ourselves happy and be healthy that's should matter to us now because men knew exactly what they are doing. Selfish beings(MeN)

Anonymous said...

The bitter sweet truth...

Unknown said...

Well, it all boils down to what a man wants... Unless I decides to give my all to a woman, I cannot be taken. My GF is gorgeous, educated, from a wealthy home and she has got a good job.. She wants us to get married already, she's 27 and apparently wanna get married before her 28th birthday. She can't hold me to ransom with marriage, ve got issues to settle before taking a wife and babe don't wanna see reasons with me. Bottom line is that she threatens to call it a day if we don't marry this xmas. But I don't care.. Told her "I will find another you in a minute".

Linda cogitate

Unknown said...

#Word!!!

Unknown said...

Ali Baba on it again.

Unknown said...

Couldn't agree less. People judge by what they see. Little wonder it's said that he who wears the shoe knows where it hurts. A man/woman chooses to stay or to fly based on circumstances

Anonymous said...

kinda ryt ! fine bobo

ary said...

Truth is a man is like a wild stallion which has to be broken/tamed to be domesticated but like Ali baba said we can't be from outside looking in and decide that a relationship is this way or that! Look at a woman like Amber Rose, rich, beautiful and with a great body but yet she couldn't make men like Kanye and Wiz stay, guess there wasn't enough to keep them with her. The same thing goes for the opposite sex, must women go into relationships with certain things in mind, if a said man doesn't fulfill that, they move. It is that simple.

DaVinci said...

I'm forced to comment on this. There's perhaps no greater truth than this. When we all know some basic truths about relationships, life can be pretty much easier for us all.

Anonymous said...

Somewhat true. On the other hand, a man that doesn't want to have kids with a long time partner may suddenly want kids with a new partner. This buttresses what Ali Baba said. He saw something that made him change. Look at George Clooney who never wanted to get married before Amal.

kaunar Allah said...

Well Said!

lola said...

this write up contains some elements of truth! but being faithful to one's spouse is a command from God sha ooo.so it's a must for every1

Unknown said...

True talk.

iyke cindy said...

Hell yeah....true talk***

Unknown said...

On point!

Unknown said...

True, relationships vary and people are diverse. When they say 'keep' is it to just keep him in the relationship/marriage or keep him faithful ? Which is the bigger problem ?

Unknown said...

Yes oooooooooooooooooo

Unknown said...

I agree wif u linda....no matter how hard u try...a man can only b wif who he wants to b wif

World People said...

M sick of all this man talk .

Can we pls talk more Jesus Christ and how awesome he is ?

Thatigbobabe(Lilyflower) said...

I hate that everything is now centred around Men, more like a Man's World..

Anonymous said...

So thought provoking!!!

Unknown said...

Very well said....

andre kelvin said...

Ok

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carlos said...

Very true. We men hv a mind of our own. If a man doesn't want to be kept, u can never keep such man.
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Unknown said...

Words of wisdom

Anonymous said...

U sure say d guy neva use him juju do rituals?n don't want to be caught?

Unknown said...

WORD!!!

Blog It With Olivia said...

That's d truth, I agree with him
U can't keep a man cos ur pretty, even ur homily nature αи∂ delicious meals can't keep his ass down....
A man will always do what he wants to do, just pray u get a responsible man/woman... Someone that doesn't reason like an unrefined element, sm1 that doesn't reason in a myopic way.....such men exist , buh it takes time to meet them






#ITwillONLYgetBETTER
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LA' SUNSHINE said...

You are right. All dis ones coming here to write an epistle of how to keep a man, u can't keep a man or woman who dsnt want to be kept. Simple

first lady said...

otito to koro niye!!

Unknown said...

I also agree with him

PRETTY GIRL said...

Ermmmm! He just copied and pasted this.. Not originally his IDEA so it's not news worthy #NEXT

Anonymous said...

Ali baba pls go and sit down somewhere,you just want to justify the actions of your wife who took you from your former wife. Abeg go and face your comedy.

Anonymous said...

absolute truth.

Unknown said...

HMMMMM!!!! I CAN SENSE SOME TRUTH IN WHAT YOU ARE SAYING ALI BABA....KUDOS

Giddytohpweedy said...

And it takes God's grace too..

Anonymous said...

True talk

Unknown said...

Very true. There's nothing a woman will/can do to keep a man if he doesn't want to stay.



#TeamBlessed#

ODUWAS MUM said...

He is very right. I wish women would understand.

Anonymous said...

Same way u can't keep a woman who doesn't want to be kept. Some women still control their lives u know though some claim it's a man's world but some women claim it's their world too ask queen Latifah...


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dessymal said...

Plain truth
#word

Unknown said...

He's 100% on point. There are reasons why men walk away from seemingly perfect rships. However, most men don't complain, they'd rather find various means to get over the woman in question, which mostly includes getting another woman. Now the jilted embittered woman seeing that the man has found another intimate partner, goes about castigating the man, fooling the general public, drawing attention and sympathy but knowing deep down that she's the architect of her woes. Men don't lament.

Anonymous said...

THE FEAR OF GOD is what keeps a man faithful...

Nicole said...

You told her you will replace her in a minute? Lol! Please stop lying to us to stroke your ego. If you don't want to do the needful, let go of her. With all her attributes she will replace you in 2 seconds . Mtcheew! You think it's easy to find a good woman right ? Especially one who's gorgeous with all those attributes mentioned above .....You are on a long thing! I hope someone snatches her so she can dump your sorry ass!

prettiyz said...

I second that

Ikuku AmStrong said...

Quot homine tot sententia! As many as there are men so are there opinions! In the end whatever rocks my boat might sink yours. Just as one man's food is another's poison, so is one man's trash another's treasure!
#Word 👌✌

Anonymous said...

That is if she hasn't found another you and isn't planning a wedding already. Idiot. You 9ja men think you are all that. Y'all are nothing but shit. Fucked up, egocentric, no good bunch of nothingness. Its not you people's fault, society is the one placing rubbish expectations on us. But guess what? More women are chasing their happiness now. Good thing too. We don't need you. Pschew!

Anonymous said...

I disagree with that! With otumokpo any man can be kept even if he wants to leave u can still keep him......

Unknown said...

Yes oooooooo, he's vry correct

Flora said...

Too True..

Unknown said...

Wow! True talk, and well nailed. I sure bet believe dis, and am well blessed wit dis info. Ladies, if u have ears pls pay attentive to dis.

Anonymous said...

I agree with d IG post,if a man wants to stay, he will. Trust me I know. No matter how good you are, a straying man will still stray.

Bonario's baby mama said...

And u know this how?

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abujakenneth said...

Alibaba should go and sit down. Is he kept?

Juleslouis said...

I agree with d IG post. Men r weird!

Judith Peter said...

The statement should be anybody or person including man or woman..... Ali baba and likes stop making men feel like d world revolves them

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