Stylist Jerry Ogbodo goes to church with Toke, says people should pray for her
They went to church together this morning so they must have had a conversation about what she's going through right now. Quite sad! Toke has since removed some of Maje's pics from her instagram.
For real, most "internet" marriages will follow this trend! What do u expect when everyone knows every intimate detail of ur marriage. U r always posting one crap or d other on d internet to show d world what? That u have d best man or woman as a husband or wife? Arrant nonsense!! Most folks slamming this guy r in deeper marriage mess! Ur husband's cheat or ur boyfriends do. Common, let's give them room to think. Toke, maybe d internet advisers r gonna assist u. Pls do what is ryt. Take a logical decision and not an emotional one or internet-based one. Still got a lot ahead of u! Cheers.
Maybe the guy just wanted a child so badly and Toke was busy gallivanting. Bt still feel sorry for her. Ntin hurts more like wen sum1 u hoped 2 spend d rest of ur life wit hurt u. Well, shit happens everyday in this life and dis is no where near worse. Its left to both to decide which way forward. Either part or sail through the tide.
Even if she bullied him, is he such a goat that he couldn't walk away instead of disgracing her and himself like this. You and him are obviously the same, for you to blame this on her. Insensitive and wicked souls. God is watching you in HD!
Hmmmm! I am short of words. This is wrong from every angle, but was this marriage meant to be? I still wonder, it does not look like the pregnancy was a mistake. Clearly this Maje guy was and may still be in love with the person the world knows has 'side chick' (it is evident in her Facebook pictures) which she didn't bother taking off Maje's photos even when he 'secretly' got married to Toke. My fight with Maje is 'why did you bother marrying Toke?' Did she make you look good in the eyes of the society? Was that it? Toke, I had and still have a problem with you carrying on in the social scene as if you are in Hollywood. Face it girl, you are in Africa and Nigeria at that. The society is not kind to women, so the onus rests on us to do everything possible to protect ours, including keeping a low and respectable profile. I worried that this guy didn't go places with you. I sensed that he wasn't cool with your kind of person,but I thought I may be wrong. Toke is a glam babe, Anita is just a regular girl next door. What does that tell you? This is really sad. Let. This serve as a lesson to all women. Maje you try well well o. God dey sha. Maje seems to be in love with Anita Solomon, this was not a mistake. While Toke was busy being a society chic, Maje was busy loving up a chic who clearly is mad about the guy. She threw caution in the wind and kept seeing the guy. She lives in Calabar and not Lagos, but she got pregnant. How were they meeting? That speaks volumes.
basically you dont give your husband blowjob. look you women should take a chill pill. from a guys perspective, having a child with another woman is on a far deeper level than having a fling. tokes case is a bit more sensitive than yoi guys are seeing it
My husband cheats on me and I have to make my marriage work says one of his moronic bastard he calls a friend…..
I checked his phones – I shouldn’t have says this idiotic bastard….In almost 7 years, I can count the number of times I have checked my husband’s phone but this time around, I knew something was up. He’s out of the country, hasn’t called you or your kids for a month cos he’s mad at you for the most childish reason ever. You call him and tell me you’re coming to see him to call it a truce…
You get to his place and you can feel that sense of ‘ your hubby is banging someone’ ….never caught him in the last 8 years…. Hubby’s not randy or trying to get you under the sheets…. You then decide to probe and alas, you find out hubby is banging some babe….
Yes, I checked his phones, infact hacked into his phone as there was some password locker called vault. You send him out of his apartment in the night threatening him with a knife… he keeps quite. You tell him to go meet his bitch… You eventually let him in after his brother pleads with you to keep things quiet – he’s on assignment, you don’t wanna jeopardize anything, his career and reputation….
It’s been over a month, hubby is still outside the country and he hasn’t said a word about what happened…. Me!! I have to live with the shame, the rejection, cried my heart out for almost 3weeks and then decided to call his friend….
Best decision I did – He talked to me for an hour and gave me the most chauvinistic advise ever… with that advice, I realized I was only wasting my time. Only in Nigeria would a man cheat on his wife and the wife must have done something wrong…..if the tables were turned and the wife had a wandering p***y, then the husband must certainly have done something wrong for the wife to go around philandering….
Who says marriage is fulfillment – can one be sad and be fulfilled – does marriage grant you a free pass into heaven….. Marriage is overrated and I refuse to keep quiet over a cheating bastard…
Waiting for you boo…. Come back home, I am not only going to treat your fuck up but I am going to ruin you and then take a walk for good…
Toke, hang in there, this too shall pass – in a couple of months, you’ll be free and trust me, it’s gonna hurt so bad, like you heart wants to pop out!!! But it’ll get better.
Hummmm to all the comments, only God knows what we all don't know. There is 2 sides to a coin.... May God strengthen all in this situation. Like is said there is always 2 side to a Coin.....
....as unfortunate and painful as this might sound, I do not know of any relationship that has done well in the public domain or lebtter lived on social media. It's her husband we are talking about. If those friends of hers mean well for her and her marriage it is for them to encourage her prayerfully and privately not on social media. How many of these persons will cast the first stone. Men cheat, women cheat too. Pray and encourage them to sort there marriage issues out. Some people advising her on social media and condemning her husband are suffering worse things in their marriages or relationships. Toke be encouraged and pray God gives you strength and wisdom to handle this betrayal. Do not let the public beat the drums your relationship will dance to. Some are already calling you names if you go back to him, they have nothing as good as what you have or had. Make it your decision please and ask God guides you. I believe you are a Christain. Let the Holy Spirit direct you. Tap wisdom & strength from above.
That's why men stay cheating. Cus of silly people like you. No one forced him to stay there. IF he didn't like her conduct he could have easily left. THERE's no excuse for adultery whatsoever
I have a problem with people like Jerry. I hope he took her permission before putting this out. Friends qho cant wait to break the bad news about you. I experienced this when my boyfriend beat me up in uni. My friends told everyone. Even in front of me. And i was too griefstricken, too psychologically weak and too grAteful to have people around me to tell them how i felt about their actions and words.
Toke's friends need to be careful. If Maje wants to be in her life, she is going to get back with him. She loves him. Its that simple. im not saying deprive her of support. Juat shut your mouth. And dont say u dont care if they use u to settle fight. It will hurt when that times comes. Be the silent tissue holding friend.
Why is everyone shouting sef? Arent your men cheating? So what if she made vlogs giving advice about relationships. Those rules work! (Mostly). N we all share info we cant really apply in our every day lives. Bite me!
That said. I cant sleep. I dont know her but i cant stop wondering if she is ok.
I wonder why people feel the need to air their dirty laundry on social media for the world to see and comment.
A lot has been said about men of this generation. Nothing has changed from then to now, the only change has been the introduction of facebook, twitter, instagram etc.
Things that go on between you and your spouse should remain between you and your spouse.
And to all those girls watching Hollywood movies, looking for HollyWood love and Disney's happily ever after.
The girl is so.plastic and fake. I can imagine what Maje is going through in that marriage. Many men in his shoes would do the same. How would u cope with a woman more concerned with parties and tv glamour than building a balanced home.
Cos no matter how strong a woman could be....yes will seriously weaken her, she's even there posting nice adorable pix of herself forming strong woman....abeggg park well!
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 221 of 221For real, most "internet" marriages will follow this trend! What do u expect when everyone knows every intimate detail of ur marriage. U r always posting one crap or d other on d internet to show d world what? That u have d best man or woman as a husband or wife?
Arrant nonsense!!
Most folks slamming this guy r in deeper marriage mess! Ur husband's cheat or ur boyfriends do.
Common, let's give them room to think.
Toke, maybe d internet advisers r gonna assist u. Pls do what is ryt. Take a logical decision and not an emotional one or internet-based one.
Still got a lot ahead of u!
Cheers.
Senor.
Maybe the guy just wanted a child so badly and Toke was busy gallivanting. Bt still feel sorry for her. Ntin hurts more like wen sum1 u hoped 2 spend d rest of ur life wit hurt u. Well, shit happens everyday in this life and dis is no where near worse. Its left to both to decide which way forward. Either part or sail through the tide.
Lmao making ladies that are not married jealous...na wa o d girl too do. Habba wetin now you will learn to keep your home private toks
Even if she bullied him, is he such a goat that he couldn't walk away instead of disgracing her and himself like this. You and him are obviously the same, for you to blame this on her. Insensitive and wicked souls. God is watching you in HD!
He's not even fine sef, with his massive nose. So angry!
Hmmmm! I am short of words. This is wrong from every angle, but was this marriage meant to be? I still wonder, it does not look like the pregnancy was a mistake. Clearly this Maje guy was and may still be in love with the person the world knows has 'side chick' (it is evident in her Facebook pictures) which she didn't bother taking off Maje's photos even when he 'secretly' got married to Toke. My fight with Maje is 'why did you bother marrying Toke?' Did she make you look good in the eyes of the society? Was that it? Toke, I had and still have a problem with you carrying on in the social scene as if you are in Hollywood. Face it girl, you are in Africa and Nigeria at that. The society is not kind to women, so the onus rests on us to do everything possible to protect ours, including keeping a low and respectable profile. I worried that this guy didn't go places with you. I sensed that he wasn't cool with your kind of person,but I thought I may be wrong. Toke is a glam babe, Anita is just a regular girl next door. What does that tell you? This is really sad. Let. This serve as a lesson to all women. Maje you try well well o. God dey sha. Maje seems to be in love with Anita Solomon, this was not a mistake. While Toke was busy being a society chic, Maje was busy loving up a chic who clearly is mad about the guy. She threw caution in the wind and kept seeing the guy. She lives in Calabar and not Lagos, but she got pregnant. How were they meeting? That speaks volumes.
basically you dont give your husband blowjob.
look you women should take a chill pill.
from a guys perspective, having a child with another woman is on a far deeper level than having a fling.
tokes case is a bit more sensitive than yoi guys are seeing it
My husband cheats on me and I have to make my marriage work says one of his moronic bastard he calls a friend…..
I checked his phones – I shouldn’t have says this idiotic bastard….In almost 7 years, I can count the number of times I have checked my husband’s phone but this time around, I knew something was up. He’s out of the country, hasn’t called you or your kids for a month cos he’s mad at you for the most childish reason ever. You call him and tell me you’re coming to see him to call it a truce…
You get to his place and you can feel that sense of ‘ your hubby is banging someone’ ….never caught him in the last 8 years…. Hubby’s not randy or trying to get you under the sheets…. You then decide to probe and alas, you find out hubby is banging some babe….
Yes, I checked his phones, infact hacked into his phone as there was some password locker called vault. You send him out of his apartment in the night threatening him with a knife… he keeps quite. You tell him to go meet his bitch… You eventually let him in after his brother pleads with you to keep things quiet – he’s on assignment, you don’t wanna jeopardize anything, his career and reputation….
It’s been over a month, hubby is still outside the country and he hasn’t said a word about what happened…. Me!! I have to live with the shame, the rejection, cried my heart out for almost 3weeks and then decided to call his friend….
Best decision I did – He talked to me for an hour and gave me the most chauvinistic advise ever… with that advice, I realized I was only wasting my time. Only in Nigeria would a man cheat on his wife and the wife must have done something wrong…..if the tables were turned and the wife had a wandering p***y, then the husband must certainly have done something wrong for the wife to go around philandering….
Who says marriage is fulfillment – can one be sad and be fulfilled – does marriage grant you a free pass into heaven….. Marriage is overrated and I refuse to keep quiet over a cheating bastard…
Waiting for you boo…. Come back home, I am not only going to treat your fuck up but I am going to ruin you and then take a walk for good…
Toke, hang in there, this too shall pass – in a couple of months, you’ll be free and trust me, it’s gonna hurt so bad, like you heart wants to pop out!!! But it’ll get better.
Hummmm to all the comments, only God knows what we all don't know. There is 2 sides to a coin.... May God strengthen all in this situation. Like is said there is always 2 side to a Coin.....
....as unfortunate and painful as this might sound, I do not know of any relationship that has done well in the public domain or lebtter lived on social media. It's her husband we are talking about. If those friends of hers mean well for her and her marriage it is for them to encourage her prayerfully and privately not on social media.
How many of these persons will cast the first stone. Men cheat, women cheat too. Pray and encourage them to sort there marriage issues out.
Some people advising her on social media and condemning her husband are suffering worse things in their marriages or relationships.
Toke be encouraged and pray God gives you strength and wisdom to handle this betrayal. Do not let the public beat the drums your relationship will dance to.
Some are already calling you names if you go back to him, they have nothing as good as what you have or had. Make it your decision please and ask God guides you. I believe you are a Christain. Let the Holy Spirit direct you. Tap wisdom & strength from above.
Hahaha.. I swear
That's why men stay cheating. Cus of silly people like you. No one forced him to stay there. IF he didn't like her conduct he could have easily left. THERE's no excuse for adultery whatsoever
Father fix it!she needs uuuu
I have a problem with people like Jerry. I hope he took her permission before putting this out. Friends qho cant wait to break the bad news about you. I experienced this when my boyfriend beat me up in uni. My friends told everyone. Even in front of me. And i was too griefstricken, too psychologically weak and too grAteful to have people around me to tell them how i felt about their actions and words.
Toke's friends need to be careful. If Maje wants to be in her life, she is going to get back with him. She loves him. Its that simple. im not saying deprive her of support. Juat shut your mouth. And dont say u dont care if they use u to settle fight. It will hurt when that times comes. Be the silent tissue holding friend.
Why is everyone shouting sef? Arent your men cheating? So what if she made vlogs giving advice about relationships. Those rules work! (Mostly). N we all share info we cant really apply in our every day lives. Bite me!
That said. I cant sleep. I dont know her but i cant stop wondering if she is ok.
Take a vacation honey. No wifi. 1 week.
I wonder why people feel the need to air their dirty laundry on social media for the world to see and comment.
A lot has been said about men of this generation.
Nothing has changed from then to now, the only change has been the introduction of facebook, twitter, instagram etc.
Things that go on between you and your spouse should remain between you and your spouse.
And to all those girls watching Hollywood movies, looking for HollyWood love and Disney's happily ever after.
Good Luck to you o
Psycho! U r brain dead.. really sick n d head for ur comment.
The girl is so.plastic and fake. I can imagine what Maje is going through in that marriage. Many men in his shoes would do the same. How would u cope with a woman more concerned with parties and tv glamour than building a balanced home.
So sad!!!
jacksoninem@yahoo.com
Am sorry I don't even see the marriage as real one from onset.....everything is a set up jare!
Cos no matter how strong a woman could be....yes will seriously weaken her, she's even there posting nice adorable pix of herself forming strong woman....abeggg park well!
so sad, sorry dear Toke
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