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Monday 27 October 2014

Dear LIB readers: My wife found out I was cheating & said nothing. Should I be worried?

From a male LIB reader
My wife found out about two weeks ago that I'm having an affair but has not said a word about it to me. She knows I know that she knows that I have a girlfriend but she's refused to confront me about it. Should I be scared or its nothing to worry about? What worries me about this is that she's a very confrontational person, I wonder why she decided not to address this.

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Anonymous said...

If she kills you she automatically becomes a widow.
She still loves you and wants you to come out to her and apologise.
You should buy her a house and car to say SOORRRYYY!
She is really devastated and confused.Can't tell where she went wrong to deserve such hurt.

gee said...

She has made up her mind to start cheating back, that is if she hasnt started.

gee said...

She has made up her mind to start cheating back, that is if she wasnt at it before you sef.

Anonymous said...

Address the issue and ask her to forgive you.
Buy her a gift she desires.
Your ego might break your marriage,please act fast.

Anonymous said...

She is good woman!
You should adore her and ask for forgiveness.
Nobody is perfect, but say sorry before she confronts you .

Anonymous said...

She is good woman!
You should adore her and ask for forgiveness.
Nobody is perfect, but say sorry before she confronts you .

Anonymous said...

You re stupid for feeling she would kill you.
Say sorry and move on and tell your GF your wife knows about the affair.
Buy her an unforgettable gift and move on.

Unknown said...

U wicked o,lmao,"as long as he lives"

Anonymous said...

gosh,itz rilli heartbreaking.ai have unfaithful spouse who is unrepentant nd ai wonder y men get married wen dey kwn dey cnt stay faithful.itz nt cool....yeti.

Anonymous said...

Lmaoooo, made my afternoon

Anonymous said...

U freaking idiot worry shld b ur least problem!!!u shld b very afraid & sincerely if i were ur wife i'll hit u where it hurts most...This is more so as u either 2 daft & stupid 2 apologize or jst plain arrogant dat u hv d right 2 cheat on me!!!any which way go & read all d bible passages on adultery!!!like i sd u shld be verrrrrrrry afraid!!!

Omobola Alfred said...

Hahahha..u just cracked my rib!!!

Anonymous said...

Mstcheeeewwwwwwwwwwwww......i wonder why people do not feel guilty for committing adultery....may God not let we innocent women come across the likes of u....in Jesus' name...Amen!

Elodie O. Mbape said...

It's either she doesn't love you anymore or she's up to something...In either case, watch out!

Unknown said...

If she is not cheating, and u did not say she is, then remember that hell has no fury than a woman scorned. Better beg with impressive gifts and drop that girl fast. If u don't take my advice, u will be dinning with d devil, in hell, by next Friday.

Unknown said...

Hmmm start askin for forgivnss.u re a dead fellow

Anonymous said...

U kn she' CRAZY when she's mad @ u and still smiles or remain silent,broz u r sooo dead cos u just pulled ur last stunt...gather ur relatives and anybody dear to her BEG dat WOMAN

Anonymous said...

Get ready to die cox she ll def kill u.u re a man without vision.

Unknown said...

Isi azu

Anonymous said...

You is in trouble. Take It From A Woman Who Snaps Like A Viper - when you suspect the least. Be afraid my dear. She had put your issue on the scales. There are bigger tinz than confronting you. I am loving this woman.

ukbliss said...

God punish u a billion tyms Ewu Gambia

Anonymous said...

Why don't u divorce him? He is in soup, he is in soup. Mtschewww.

Anonymous said...

Madam, please forgive him.he provides for the house and he needs to be in his right senses to be able to carry out his duties in the office.abi..... Are u God?lol

Anonymous said...

Ur kind never have a happy story in the end.......wish you well

Anonymous said...

Lmao

Utonwa said...

you are finished!

Anonymous said...

All dis people saying u shud run for ur life don't understand.lemme explain.she now realises dats au men behave and possibly her father does d same.so what do you expect her to say when she know dat we men must dig holes.nd check d history of men.na ladies still cause am

niffyt said...

Lol. Loveeeeee her. Its sure she doesn't send u anymore. No normal woman knows her man is with someone else n feels okay. She is either planning to have her own hot hot affair or she plans to leave or harm u. Just be assured she isn't a fool. And mind u Mr mumu, by the time God handles u, that money u have extra that u r spending for girls up n down will dry up. You fool

Anonymous said...

Pray ask God for forgiveness, give ur life to Christ, then ask her for forgiveness. Throw away ur ego, u can involve ur pastor.Dont take it lightly.Above all repent WHOLE HEARTEDLY.

Miss Chief said...

be afraid....
be very afraid.

Unknown said...

U better bring up d issue nd make sure u settle it else..... hmmmm she will retaliate nd will make it clear to u

Anonymous said...

You re stupid for feeling she would kill you.
Say sorry and move on and tell your GF your wife knows about the affair.
Buy her an unforgettable gift and move on.

Anonymous said...

You foolish man.
Pray that God forgives your sins of infidelity.
Your wife can easily forgive you if you tell the truth.
She wouldn't want to lose to that FOOOOL you call your GF.
Don't break her any further,act and think of the future not your EGO.

Anonymous said...

If she has never cheated on you she will never!
If you do not trust her,ask for divorce and go and meet your GF and forever feel guilty.
Remember you GF will never trust you,she will be the one to kill you instead.

exciting lifestyle consult blog said...

Hehehehehehe! Stil laughin! Kiah! O boy u wicked. Dis ur comment I sure wil startle dis cheat. Who knws wht ur wife is plannin? If u ask me na who I go ask?

Anonymous said...

Sleep with one eye open

Anonymous said...

My guy swallow that your pride and say sorry.
She understands those money conscious girls.
Your wife probably loves you and feels betrayed and wants you to come out and apologise.

Anonymous said...

I pity you though.Come out and say sorry,buy her gifts.
Her silence isn't hate but betrayal.
it still probably it hasn't dawned on her that you cheated her while she was praying for your safety.
She has visualised and remembered you guys having sex and isn't sure maybe you prefer your GF to her.
BE FAST HUSBAND

Anonymous said...

when your husband cheats on you and feels you can never find out ,then he's stupid.
Ask for forgiveness and move on .

Anonymous said...

You said your wife is usually confrontational, so for her to be quiet on this matter you need to know that your wife is deeply hurt by this. If you don't love her now is the time to move on and be with your mistress or alone. Us women can nag and after some years of marriage things can become mundane and monotonous, you felt you needed to spice YOUR life up with an affair but what has been your wife's escape? She loves you and has stayed regardless and how do you pay her back? By cheating, it is so unfair honestly. Your wife is in deep pain right now you have hurt her to the core and shaken her confidence. If you don't love her fine! But IG you do you better go and beg for your life and sincerely apologise. You need a big gesture do something fun to bring the excitement and romance back to your lives! Something you may feel is reserved for girlfriends not wife! Hmm remember just as you think your a correct guy remember your wife is also human a young woman in fact that still needs to feel good, young, sexy and Fab. If you love this woman restore her faith in you and men she deserves that at least don't you think? If you don't love her, no wahala nothing spoil asks now!

Anonymous said...

Ask your pastor to please speak with her in your presence.
Plead never to do it again.
You're too egoistic.
Nothing good will come out you if you allow your BIG ego ruin your marriage .
You have no regard for her or you think your GF can play your wife's role?
You must be mistaken FOOOL.
THINK AND ACT FAST MR CHEATER HUSBAND!

Anonymous said...

She is a good woman!
You should adore her and ask for forgiveness.
Nobody is perfect, but say sorry before she confronts you .

Anonymous said...

YOU ARE A VERY STUPID MAN YEYE DEY SMELL FOR THINK THAT YOUR WIFE WOULD NOT DEAL WITH YOU. INFACT I WILL HOLD HER HANDS TO TEACH YOU A GOOD LESSON NANSENSE MSCHEW SEY YOU ARE NOW SATISFIED ABI SILLY THING

Anonymous said...

Fooooooool

Unknown said...

Lmfao....

Anonymous said...

YOU ARE IDIOT... CHEATING FOOL! I HOPE SHE POISONS U VERY SLOWLY!

Anonymous said...

I HOPE SHE CUTS OFF THAT UR AMU... EWU AWUSA

Anonymous said...

LMAO, you are involved in a game of power. She has you off balance, you will soon hang yourself with your own rope.

Anonymous said...

She is still processing what happen and what you have done. Go and confess to your Pastor or Iman so he can intervene or tell someone she listens to and respects. Whatever you do pls act.! Act fast and Don't confront her o (The fury of a hurt silent women who can withstand?)

Unknown said...

You are gone
Better share it with her...

BORN TO SHINE!!!

Anonymous said...

U r a shameless dog

Anonymous said...

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Anonymous said...

Dude, U berra be scared!!!!!!!!!!!!

Idiota

Anonymous said...

lol don't b worried or afrad... wen u find out she's also cheating... react the same way as her.... LOL LMAo

yawanow said...

Women don't share their man with another girl. Wahala dey ooo. Most married men don't see it as anything, so far they provide for the family. its just the new trend.

Anonymous said...

NO DONT BE! ANU OFFIA... CONTUNUE!!!!

Anonymous said...

This one na Gobe

Bamidele said...

This is the truth,u are already dead!..Shes nt gonna kill u..U are dead already..Shes gonna cook u fugu(pufferfish)with cyanide..Shes gonna shoot u with an arrow with d venom of dart frog..Ur morning coffee will be a cocktail of inland Taiwan snake venom and dat of the black mamba..Sorry,u are not dead but u will die soon..Maybe before christmas..my advice,make arrangements for ur organs to be donated..Rest In Peace bro

Anonymous said...

u are the most useless chicken on earth, continue fucking other peoples wife . may u die while fucking beast

MY TURN said...

Anonymous said...
If I was you I wouldn't just care. I have a wife but I still have a girlfriend. You need to taste different soups you know. Man must not die by bread alone
October 27, 2014 at 3:40 PM

SHAMELESS BASTARD

Gift Lawrence said...

u seriously need to be

Anonymous said...

Hun o boy u don go. Beta go for medical check up n u will discover dat ur internal organs are already deeply affected.

Anonymous said...

It is damn easy.Pack out of the house for her as your punishment for cheating.She should be made to get the message that the same punishment will be meted to her if you should dream of her cheating.

Subomi said...

RUN for your life mr. cheater, or better still wait sef, let her F u up

yinkated said...

DEAD MAN WALKING !!!

Anonymous said...

Ask for forgiveness give your life to Jesus and truly repent

Unknown said...

Die hard part 2

Unknown said...

U guys have issues oo if she nags, wahala if she no nag, wahala too. Well as for dose guys dat say dey hate it wen their babes nag, lol better like it oo cos a silent women is more deadly and poisonous than a cobras venom. Just look for a way to appease her and stop cheating cos sooner or later ur obituary go soon land here.

Anonymous said...

Oloriburuku somebody. It is the different soups that will give you belly ache till u die before ur time. Arsewipe

Madu Ugo said...

call her and make an open confession....... go for confession if you are a catholic and plead with the priest to call her and talk to her.,,,,,,,,,, avoid her food for now oooh .. all d best

Wagzy said...

She is saying a lot. "welcome to the club darling" I have done worse like cheating on you with your father!

Wagzy said...

She is saying a lot. "welcome to the club darling" I have done worse like cheating on you with your father!

Unknown said...

Lol this is funny

Unknown said...

She is either planning to fuck a guy or she has already cheated on you or maybe she putting in strategies on how to finish you, Lobatoan.

Go and apologies and confess your sin, but this will hunt you for ever life witch.

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