What Joseph Benjamin told BN
What really happened in his marriage? “I
was married for 8 years. It was a rather odd situation at that time.
She got pregnant and I didn’t want to have a child out of wedlock and so
I married her so we could build a home together, even though we had
given birth to the first child. Things weren’t rosy then, but I believed
it was the right thing to do for the sake of the child. I overlooked my
own personal desires, I just wanted to do right. Our second child came
and I stood by my family like I always have; but no one is perfect, we
had our issues – the crisis persisted but we stayed because of the kids.
But you never make that kind of decision because if the parents are not
happy together then the children suffer.“
“I’ll
also like to correct a misconception – she is not older than me, and
she wasn’t taking care of my financial needs as people have insinuated.
We were both starting off in life on the same grounds – no one was
exploited.”
124 comments:
When he had his interview wit d online radio,I knew Nigerians won't pick any other thing expect for his separation n kids,peeps shd learn to caution their mouth b4 they put Ben into a serious mess.haba!He is such a disciplined man.
So wat If shez Older en d Money baG*Taa!!...#SoulE/queenUre tinzz*#first tymer*dancin*
Tell that to the world.
Oga Joseph this is your own version. Sooner or later, your ex wife will release her own bombshell and we will all know what an ingrate you truely are.
Oh shut up already Mr Joburg. That u revealed that u married her after a baby says it all. Read in between the lines of what you said. You have messed up this lady big time. Slilence is golden. Can you stop talking already!
Stop threatening Legal action silly guy. Do you know if this happened here in the states newspapers and magazines would be offering ur wife big money for her own story. Her dignified silence is worth some big box right now. Truth be said Jo if things had not progressed for you, you would still be in that marriage. Enjoy.
So so shady Mr Joseph..uon need to say it..buh we all kinda knw d truth behnd it all..I hope ur wife finds sm1 wo loves n cherish her..
I would really love it if his wife can speak out.
You married her because she was pregnant and stayed in the marriage to work at it because of the children. So far so good. Now that you are going your separate ways have you factored the children into the equation as well?
Very un4tunate! Ladies no need to hook a man with belle it does not work at all....Yes both of u may be good in bed but not compartible. He would have allowed her to have the child instead of marrying her knowing that she is not his kind of woman. Wishing u Gods wisdom! Dazzling.
to be fair to him i never read where he said that o. kai Nigerians
this is off topic sha.....someone asked for the title of a novel which has jogo, kolade and hannah as it's main characters....i'm sorry its coming late. its either ''too cold for comfort'' or too close for comfort'' can't really remember,but i'm glad to be of help. Stay blessed!
Good. We have heard..... Oya, doubting Thomases, shey u've heard him! Be warned!
People must talk.
if you ask me, na who i go ask??
Yeah right, Benjamin really? Msm
*Rme*
@MzEllatyra
Nonsense. Is this suppose to be news?
If not that benjamin is foolish! Why would he say she got pregnant and he married her? That statement to me either means he was not ready to marry her or he never wanted to marry her. The second one is" u stood by your family" Are u not supposed to stand by your family before? All I see is a forced marriage..... Like u did it because u didn't want to betray. His comments is like giving kudos to himself and at the same time stylishly insulting the woman! That first statement spoilt everything! She got pregnant! Who impregnated her? The pregnancy came on its own ni? "She got pregnant" but u "had to marry her" so we could build a home together. U had to because of the pregnancy right? Please what is this guy not saying? Or am I just reading meaning to his interview?
awww,I have more of pity for him,there'll always be misconceptions,people will always av something to say,especially being a celebrity. No one is perfect.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
Idiot he didn't want to have children out of wedlock but he fucked her out wedlock abi? #nonsense
Dis billie jean i knw ur type of girl.. U must be a very saucy n subbish kind of girl.. N i jus pray U no fine cuz if u manage fine, d Sauciness n Snubbishness must be x2.. Ur type if boy wey no get car approach u u go almost wan spit on am. Na ur type also dey act like dem no dey shitt. I know your type of girl very well. From your comments on dis blog, im very sure i can perfectly describe U. Smh
Let everyone leave the hell alone outta dis dude and his family! Why do pipu enjoy bringing others down? Like such act helps boost ur savings in d bank *str8 face* I'm outta here!
All dis media house all u do is add. Salt to injury.abi una brain don twist?ben u get time to dey explain
It is seperation not death and as long as there is life, there is hope, faith n courage (of getting back 2geda) huh??? Dis idiot don turn politician o Anyway all na 4 d Ladies, why M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ wey be man D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ even read dis BS
Mr Benjamin, Abegi!! Make we hear word jor, you didn't say it directly but that's just the logical implication that most people including me would relate your statement to. All this won you are doing is just Damage Control and Public relations polishing.
Who cares....dude bye
Yes Joseph . You may not have said that but that's what u meant. Too late to take it back. Sorry....... Don't believe u. U r hot though!:)
Ppl shld stp talking rubbish. If u ve no idea wuhs goin on,seat bak,STF en watch as d story unfolds..Really its jes a seperation nt d end of dia lives.
Joseph don't mind sawa belle people.
Nigerians like to hear bad stories and promote it. But wen its sometin gud,dey knw how to say all sorts of rubbish.
If u continue to reply everytin u hear,u will drive urself to high BP. It is well
Ungratefull guys always have a way to justify their mischivious attitude.ladies pls don't ever help a guy finacially becos they will always theme it"desperation".allow them to suffer ,make the money and u balance to enjoy urlife with them..#passd mick let them guy leash#
Nonesense
Would have been better you didn't say anything.dumb ass
As for me n my house...d main reason to get hitched is LOVE n not "to do right". After all d road to hell is paved with good intentions! where couples are in love, marriage can still be difficult to navigate so imagine where there's no love. Personally I feel if the marriage is causing so much pain and misery to either or both parties, it's time to let go. Staying together bcos of d kids is wrong bcos kids sense d tension and animosity and most kids who grow up living under these conditions end up angry and bitter individuals. If you must fight to keep d marriage, make sure it's what fighting for and kindly consider d long term effects on all parties.
Benji biko wipe that brown powder off your face! As long as you keep talking, people will interprete stuff how they want, so bear in mind you can't abuse legal processes to undo your actions. You were feeling smug, like a bobo when you were mouthing off, its time to face the music! Face your children, and let their mother be! You don't need permission to dump your wife at the height of your success.
Its. Okay jor mR foolish. Shebi u left her abi ar u talkin dis one out of pity again I only pity ur old age wen Ur kids ar Made and u need dem to b wif U. Aad aal u get is a No. No I can't b wif u out of pity den u will. Understand waats comes arund comes arund enjoy ur 5min fame. Oh nii wooh tan.....
WTF? I am honestly sick and tired of men using that phrase "i married her because she got pregnant" i mean, did u think of that before you went pouring ur cum inside her without protection? its such an immature excuse for your failed marriage. It just shows how reckless and randy you truly are. Think about it for a sec, why would you go sleeping with a woman whom u dont want wanna marry? *some major bullish*
BULLSHIT!
i tire for Nigerians out guys should back out and let them be.shu,dem say dem no 1 marry again una no go free dem ni? Ngwa joseph move on biko.wish u luck all the way.
''She got pregnant....so I married her,I overlooked my personal desires'' linda it sounds like he blames her.why didn't he say ''I got her pregnant,decided to do right by taking responsiblity for my actions so WE got married'' what personal desires is e ranting about??
I think e wanted the lady to remove it and she refused and due to the pressure he had to marry her.
This is a lesson to girls who get pregnant out of wedlock,it's nt compulsory u marry ur baby daddy!!!if es not the ONE...don't pitch ur tent with him..u can't force somebody to fall inlove wit u.
I just love Joseph Benjamin...I wsih I was his desire...lol
STILL SOUNDS LIKE YOU MARRIED HER JUST COS SHE WAS PREGNANT AND NOTHING ELSE...
You're not Man enough....ure saying τ̣̣ђё same thing, you married her outta pity. U wan dey manage marriage?? you should have avoided from onset...Now ure in this mess....anywaiz A̶̲̥̅♏ not even a fan..wohever..live Ūя life...God help Ūя kids.
What he said is not different. Frm people's conclusion. The summary is he married her out of pity,so he shld sharrap there.
This guy is a learner, he hasn't understood Nigerian media and public yet. Best advice go and ask Desmond Elliot to teach u PR
So he was the one STELLA DIMOKO mention recently, aha!
Only God knows the truth!
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Joseph benjamin or whomever you are stop boring us with your woeful marriage issues. EVERYBODY has marriage/relationship issues ther are no perfect relationships!!!
FACT: You can NEVER get permanent Happiness from a partner wether married, boyfriend/girlfriend.
Whatever your issues are act like a REAL MAN and work it out.Forgive where there needs to be forgiveness,tolerate where need be, make room for mistakes,sacrifice where you need to,give if you have to,put other peoples needs above yours,work to gether where you want change, Communicate!!!Go back to your wife it was not a mistake that you 2 got married and go do some work on yourself.All those things that you are chasing out side are just adding more probelms physicall and mentally to your life.The devil you know is better than the Angel you dont.
Hmmmmmmmm. When couples r not happy 2gether again, d best tin is to go dere saparete ways, so dat life will not b lost.
Liar
Wat is he trying to explain again....it's obviously clear dat he married her cos of d child,not becoz he wanted to....dat sounds like pity to me
mtchewwwwwww
Joseph abeg shut up! U r humuliatn ur slf and ur innocent kids d nore u open ur trap! U didn't hve2 say u married her outa pity we read btwn d lines and got dt 4ourslves after al marryn sum1 cos of a baby.........u sef introduce ur brain2 ur mouth and tok beta! U make it seem like deres notn2 it its nt "death its a seperatn"! Its nt as easy and u paint it2 b! For d sake of a babies dt u love right dis wrong!
Who cares????deal wit ur shit dude
This guy jst dey complicate himself sha.Frm ur statement its obvious u married her cos she was pregnant nw,nt that u married her cos u were ready.Jospeh who re nt fools.Its ur life after all bt becareful cos of ur kids.
This guy juz implicated himself more wit dis interview. So,wen things weren't rosy he overlooked his personal desires becos it was d right thing to do. Now dat things are rosy, it nw dawn on him to look at his personal desires nt considering if its wrong or right.She was nt ur personal desire but u managed her up to d extent of giving u 2 children wen things were nt rosy bt nw u have to let her go.JB juz shut ur trap cos u don't have any xcuse to giv 4 ur actions. I really pity d woman. Some men are juz nt worth it
You ve been seperated for 1yr nw abi?Nw my question is y re u opening up to the public nw?U for jst remain slient abt am for ur children sake?
Na him suga mama dey shack am..yeye boy
Benjamin, feel its your private life but if what i just read is true then I think you did so out of pity #myopinion. and sincerely, don't see y u need to come out to announce to the world that you are separating or is it breaking up with your wife. If you respect her, then its between you two. seems to me like cheap publicity. and you too handsome for that.
Benjamin, I am very very disappointed in you. You better just keep quiet and stop all your stupid explanations. You heartless man. Why did you not divorce her before your so called fame. You think you will find peace in next relationship? I trust God, He will give you a wolf in sheep clothing that will torment you all the days of your life! Wicked man.
I pray for the lady in question (ur ex) that God Almighty will wipe her tears away, bless and give peace on every side. Remember divorce is a sin before God forget about civilization, the word of God remains the same, it can never be changed!
what a pity bro... good luck in your search...more gist on entertainment and celebrity lifestyle here at www.gistyinka.com
I no fit shout try n fix things up bro
Oga Benjamin this matter will not go away n will bring about your down fall. Legal action my foot. Useless thing,
I actually liked this guy so much before now, so much that I would want to watch any movie I saw him in. He never mentioned about having a wife not to talk of having two children age 10 and 7. Why has he kept this woman in the background all these while, is she that ugly? is she deformed, is she an older person? is she an illiterate? yet you had sex with her and even married her, she gave you two wonderful children, only for you to dump/divorce her now. Remember whatever a man soweth, so shall he reap.
You had the first child, things were not 'Rosy' but you still had another child with all d thorns surrounding the marriage abi?? Your guilt has not yet started to haunt you yet o! You will still write a book to prove your innocence in all this. See his one. Sided mouth. Loooooooooong hissssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anon 7:36 I soooo agree with u o. If u help a guy finacially its like ur tryin 2 pay dem 4 bin in a relationship with u. Am talkin 4rm xperience o. Helped a guy as in rili helped him wen he wuz down. He dint hav any1 o. But in d end he dint giv a damn. So I broke up with him now he wants me bak *rolling my eyes* not even in his dreams. I'd rada b alone dan go bak 2 him.
This dude doesn't strike me as an intelligent fellow. He is getting carried away by his recent fame and stardom. Why didn't he separate from her before his recent rise to stardom.He now feels his too good for her.I advise that you go back to her for the sake of your future and the future of your kids.I wish you luck and I rest my case!
Ok. Like seriously Joseph der wuz no point in u replyin o. Cos u just made it worse. U married her cos she wuz preggy 4 u rite??? Dats sum BS man. Wen u dey shag her u no no say u neva put ring on her finger abi! Now ur der talkin nonsense. But wait o if u married her cos she wuz preggy how cum u got her preggy again?? *smh* God help u and give ur wife d strength she nids 2 move on cos ur obviously not good 4 her.
Oga I did d right thing nw seperatn is also d right thing pshewwwww useless and ungrateful man anyways God will def judge u
I agree total bullshit! All my respect 4 dis guy has gone down d drain...." U put aside ur desires to marry her"......u're just an arrogant pompus being lyk she got pregnant without ur sperms!
Dont mind dis fool.watchd him on who desrvs to b a milonia...d guy culdnt get an answer right! So dumb n shalo!! Usin his fine boi looks to get to peopl. Douchebag. Am sure he has anoder woman waitin 4 tins to cool off so he can tie d knots. 4 God's sake y didnt he see all des faults den? Oh i 4got! He is suxesful now! Fuckin bastard wit no brains!(angry face)
yea, soo true getting pregnant to pin no longer works. Guys don dey shine eye.
U def married her outta pity. Ur comments state that vividly dear,except u dnt understand english lang properly.u choice of words re definitly stupid if u meant otherwise. But y blow this issue outa proportion sef? Is he the first 2 want a divorce? Pinky
I am not surprised at this, Joseph..one of your issues is in presentation(pun intended) you know we had an incident once and remember what i told you ehhh...words, tactics, style...ehh Joseph.THE GREMLIN HAS SPOKEN!
Its the same thing weda u married her out of pity or becos she got preggy for u. Of course u won't come out to tell the world what's really on ur mind. I wish she picks up the pieces fast and continues wif life.
*bizzy body madam*
Irresponsible duo.
Any man that publicly humiliates the mother of his children, God is watching you. You guys made love(had sex) and u guys got pregnant and now its "she got pregnant", God is watching with his 5D. You really fucked up Ben, I never even knew u were married. The only man in Nigeria I respect when it comes to baby mama drama is 2face. The guy doesn't talk shit about any of his baby mama. You wear suit but u are far from a gentle man. If you want to divorce your wife, please do it silently and spear dis woman who ever she is d publicity drama, she deceives more from u as d mother of ur children.
Joseph stop talking oh Nigerians have zero tolerance for fools.
Mere playing with words.... U mean same thing!! Tete boy!!! U fink all dat glitters is gold!!! Odee!!
Abi oh! My sentiments xactly! He shld hve jst shut up!
Dnt mind him he shld include his brain in d legal tussle after al he wasn't tinkn straight wen he said what he said! Oju oyo lari! Dts what joe is ungrateful! If u hadn't made money u wnt wnt2 leave ur "pityful" wife and kids! Dusgbe
Abeg tell it!
As in ehhh! D monkey is tryna make himself look lyk a saint in the matter. How sure is he dat d woman even loved him, she sacrificed 2o nawww. Stupid, obnoxious man. Must he bring his marriage ish 2 d media 4 debate? Becuz he 'll soon marry anoda woman..*kmt
It is "too cold for comfort". One of those pace setter books
I ve lost my respect for dis bastard he is selfish wicked & above all ungrateful ur children will grow up with hatred 4 u.his real life is an example of his movie mr & mrs God is watching u on 3D
I ve lost my respect for dis bastard he is selfish wicked & above all ungrateful ur children will grow up with hatred 4 u.his real life is an example of his movie mr & mrs God is watching u on 3D
Shut up already. This guy is so boring, he needs to just shut up.
Its either i no longer understand English or this guy is just daft? Now because i know i still have a good grasp on the English language i believe the latter. He said and i quote "she got pregnant and i married her because i thought it was the right thing to do" LIKE REALLY?JEEEZUS H CHRIST!!!!
Silence is golden Mr Benjamin, like someone said if things hadn't progressed for you, you would still be stuck in the marriage. I remember you coming to my office in 2009 to do a voice over job that paid next to nothing, i saw the hunger in your eyes willing to do anything to get a few coins today your mouth is running. Poor woman, i wish this country made sense she would be suing your ass now for character defamation and anything else a smart lawyer can pin on you.Silly guy i had so much respect.MTCHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEW.
I swear I don't like u nymore...remember,God is watching every
This Joseph is confused and wicked, I used to like him bt ryt his so so out of ma mind. his doing al dis bcoz he has a gf that is in d Uk(she's also on d fat side) he travels most times to go be with but i jst want the girl to know that any man that divorces his 1st wife will always have a reason to divorce subsequent ones. I knw the gf so u al dnt tink im tryin to cook up a story
Joe u r such a proud goat...as in you married her bcs she got preg...things were not rosy but bcs u wanted to the things right...are u really doing the right thing now?
'I married her wen she got pregnant,COs it was d right ting to do,I overlooked my personal desires becos of d kids'........................ Does he need to say it in your local dialect before u understand?wake up Silly!!
Any movie joseph benjamin is featured in, I won't watch it! This guy that shagged my school mate in lag! Abeg no be today! The guy is an asshole like so many other men! Just wait till a man has money, u go no who in be.
MR.BENJAMIN, GO BACK 2 UR WIFE OR UR DOWNFALL HAS JUST STARTED.GO BACK NOW.
Benjamin is a Fool. So disguisting. SMH.
Ask me o! So now he's famous, there's no need to stay by his family again, abi! Onyiara! If u r truly innocent of anything Mr actor, try rephrasing ur statement to make u sound less selfish.
Lol....
Oga Joe. I beg you need to stop talking and show some respect for that family the you "stood by". Everything you said just made you seem so worthless. I do not have the time to articulate you blunders but my advice to you is that you make things work with the woman that was your partner before fame came your way. She might just be the reason why God has decided to favour you. Secondly, If you believe that she is not up to your new found status, brush her up. That is what partners do for each other. Trust me if you leave your wife, you ll probably come back to read the comments on this blog sometime in the future and wish that you took the advice of some of the bloggers.#awordisenoughforthefamous
JOSEPH BENJAMIN PLEASE SHUT THE FCK UP, YOU HAVE DONE ENOUGH DAMAGE CONTROL AS IT IS AND THE WORST THING A MAN CAN SAY ABOUT THE MOTHER OF HIS KIDS IS THE STATEMENT YOU MADE ON BN. GO BACK AND READ YOUR OWN STATEMENT, WTF DO YOU EXPECT PPL TO PERCEIVE, THE INTERPRETATION OF THAT FOOLISH STATEMENT MEANS YOU MARRIED HER OUT OF PITY AND YOU NEVER LOVED HER. EVERY OUNCE OF RESPECT I HAD FOR YOU IS GONE OUT OF THE WINDOW.
THIS IS A STATEMENT YOU CAN NEVER TAKE BACK AND IT SAIDS A LOT ABOUT YOU THAT BEHIND ALL THOSE GREAT LOOKS, LIES A CONCEITED ASS HOLE JACK ASS. PRAY YOUR KIDS NEVER READ THAT COMMENT ON BN SOMEDAY. IT WAS VERY BAD - VERY VERY BAD, YOU THOUGHT WE WILL PAT YOU ON YOUR BACK FOR THAT STATEMENT, THAT STATEMENT IS AN INSULT - BIGGEST INSULT TO ANY WOMAN AND ESPECIALLY THE MOTHER OF YOUR KIDS.
LIKE I SAID EVERY RESPECT I HAD FOR YOU IS OUT OF THE WINDOW, AND DONT TRY AND EXONERATE YOUR SELF COS IT WONT WORK - YOU CAN NOT TAKE THOSE WORDS BACK. THE WORDS YOU SPOKE IS WORSE THAN SAYING "YOU MARRIED HER OUT OF PITY"
POOR WOMAN.
THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE BEEN FAMOUS FOR AT LEAST 2 YRS NOW AND NEVER MENTIONED HER AND THE KIDS TELLS ME YOU ARE ASSHOLE. LEARN FROM OTHER CELEBS LIKE RAMSEY NOUAH, DESMOND ELLIOT, VAN VICKER, MAJID MICHEL, ETC - THEY NEVER HID THEIR WIFE AND KIDS AND THEY ALWAYS SAY IT, BUT FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU MARRIED HER OUT OF PITY YOU HID IT AND TO ADD INSULT TO INJURY YOU GAVE THAT INTERVIEW TO BN WITH THOSE POOR CHOICE OF WORDS.
My point exactly! He just managed to make himself sound callous with that statement!
Zero tolerance for fools........like dt!
God Moberry, I want to hug you for your statement. So on point!
simple problem that condoms would have solved. forget all that broken condom stories. If you know how to wear one,e no go break.
I always found this boy to be dry and stiff. I no even know say him sabi razzle woman.
GBAM!!! BEST COMMENT. PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS QUICK TO JUDGE, AS IF THEY THEMSELVES ARE PERFECT! FORGETTING THAT CELEBRITIES ARE HUMAN BEINGS LIKE THEM!
Joseph's hoe,Temitayo,
Go and tell him to repent and go bak to his wife else............cos the only time I see dis bitterness on d LIB is when naija 's corruption is being discussed!
...........for ur issue to create such reactions,means ur wife's hands are clean!!
So go back home!! U lost he_goat!!
I want to apologise to Joseph on behalf of the Lib readers who have decided to wag their tongues like people who do not have control..... Dis guy was man enuf to take responsibility and marry d woman.. Ow many of u here can do dis, Hahahha. He isn't happy in the marriage shey he shouldn't opt out ni??? U all should stay off peoples personal stuff it even breaks them more trust me!!!!! The kids will suffer more cos of your comments......fro Eje
If he married her because of the first child , how comes second child come show? Na magic or divine gift?? Mweeech he shld just keep mute and respect the lady joor.
U cldnt av put It beta. Much sense
The guy think say he smart... see how pple dey fight for the woman despite say she no even talk.... joe just stfu... i can only imagine what will happen if she opens her mouth.
Guy you are not smart at all. Na dis one yoruba dey call ' oro da le e lori'
LMAO
Sweetheart don't mind them...you can never do wrong in my eyes..I love you and will always love you..everything will be okay with time
all this his talk is just arrant rubbish....why didn't he think before getting her pregnant?!! this is just stupid...he should take responsibility and stop trying to shift the blame
MOVIE PRODUCERS WILL BE REALLY CAREFUL AND MAY NOT USE HIM FOR A MARRIAGE ROLE FOR A WHILE OH.its obvious loads of people are upset about it, especially the WOMEN, NO WOMAN FEELS HAPPY WHEN TOLD HER MAN SAID HE MARRIED JUST COS OF KIDS...I GUESS THERE WAS NO LOVE BEFORE THE KIDS...OR IS IT TO SAY THAT WAS ALL ABOUT HER.OH DEAR :( HE WILL NEED TO SPEND SOME MONEY ON PR RIGHT NOW.
I pray God helps him.IJN
Idiot in capital letter.
I'm always amused when people curse on blogs. Tells so much about them. lol! I wish it could be censored to keep away people of this nature.Its called a comment or should i say opinion on the subject matter. (I shouldn't go further, you may not no more than the four words you type). hehehe
Bonario I read your comments but try not to reply you, but this I must, people tend to judge yes, but Joseph potrayed himself to be perfect and didn't say anything about his family until speculations came up, a real man won't talk about a lady that way, talk mor of your wife, so now you cnt work things out? In your marriage? When she's not a witch? You have three kids? He sounds like his family is a project and he's doing them a favour, one thing is certain, God frowns at divorce no matter how its put, so Joseph should stay with his wife and remember his vows.
To mrs Benjamin,i hope u realise that the earlier u'r rid of this loser the better for ur self-esteem.Let go and let God,no one deserves to be put down...he obviously has insecurity issues that he projects on u.Work on urself physically,mentally n spiritually...may God give u another bite at love with a man that loves u and ur kids to the core of his being.
He shd have been man enough and responsible enough not 2 have had unprotected sex with her knowing he didn't love her,taking responsibility of the 1st child could have been done out of wedlock as i'm sure he didn't walk her down the aisle at gun point.Eje or whatever u're so called,i pray u have a sister of ur own n the same treatment's meted out to her.
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Mumu wr did u c billie J here now? You people can't admit you love her. Nonsense
not to take sides on this issue, i'll simply say something.1) if your that individual that has no sin, cast all your stones now. 2)if you never had sex out of wedlock, cast your stones too. Maybe some of you had the heart to abort it and yu come here pointing fingers (3)Maybe all this years he went into the marriage to make the woman happy, putting her first above his own happiness, hoping they would bond and form a good marriage union. Some women could be so dull and all your efforts to improve them falls to the ground. Trust me it could really be frustrating having to live with someone who cannot function flow on the same page with you. My only question to this dude is " HOW HAVE YOU TRIED TO IMPROVE HER TO THE WOMAN YOU WANT, MAKE HER THE WOMAN YOU DREAM ABOUT, THATS WAT LOVE DOES.
I wont totally blame him cos on the other hand if this guy stays with this woman, and one day due to total frustration, he poisons her, we will all call him a devil. 4) Trust me people change, and real friendship is the only thing that can keep a marriage not even the love feeling cos feelings cant be trusted. Some of us, if you look back and see some people you dated in the past, even if offered a million dollars you would never date them now, cos people change over time and so do their choices, the secret is when both people in the marriage put hands together and ensure they are both developing and becoming the person of their spouses dream.
HE BECAME THE MAN OF HER DREAMS, HE SHOULD HELP HER BECOME THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAMS, BETTER STILL SHE COULD MAKE HERSELF THAT, THEN HE WONT WANNA WALK AWAY. #HE IS FRUSTRATED IN THE MARRIAGE#
#gbam!
Exactly my thought! Foolish modafucka.
Hey guys in d house!! Lesson of the story; "before u put that peg in dat round hole, make sure that she is the type of girl u can leave with all ur life cos one misplaced sp**m means big tommy and forced marriage afterwards"
Watever Mr Benjamin.....
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