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Friday, 1 June 2012

‘I can't do without sex daily' - 10yr old sexually abused girl confesses

 
A 10-year old girl who was a victim of sexual abuse has made a shocking confession, saying that she cannot do without having sex with men daily.

She narrated how an old man, who was their neighbour at Mile 12, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria, lured her into sex at seven and since then she cannot resist having sex everyday. The primary two pupil said if she did not see any man to have sex with her in her area, she would go to a popular under bridge at Mile 12 Lagos and beg for sex from touts.



She said she came from Enugu state to Lagos to live with her aunt after the death of her father.
Her case has become so serious that she had to be referred to an NGO, Community Health Support and Empowerment Initiative, COHSAEI, which has taken up the challenge to rehabilitate her.
The little girl said she was lured into sex by a man she called Baba who lived with her aunt in the same compound.
She said the man (Baba) usually called her to his apartment whenever his wife and her aunt were not around and will put his finger inside her private part.
“He will tell me to come back home immediately our school closes and when I reach home he will be waiting for me to finger my vagina,” she narrated.
She said with time he started having real sex with her.
She said when the man that initiated her into it moved out of their area, she resorted to meeting other men in the area without her aunt knowing.
She said she has become addicted to sex and cannot do without it.
“When I desire sex and I do not see anybody to do it in my area, I will go under the bridge and beg the touts to do it for me,” he said.
Her predicament came when she confessed to her teacher what she was going through after the teacher noticed some abnormal behaviour in her.
The teacher contacted her aunt who contacted an NGO for assistance.
The programme coordinator of the NGO, Mrs. Priscilla Ingbia, noted that her case was very pathetic because of her age. She said her group took up the challenge to rehabilitate her because it was clear if nothing was done urgently her future was in danger.
She said her organisation has started the process of rehabilitating her by carrying out series of tests on her to ascertain her health conditions.
Ingbia stressed the urgent need to relocate her from her present environment and start a new life for her.
She said her organisation has not been able to do so because of the financial cost of doing so.

Source: PM News

131 Comments:

  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:01 , Anonymous All Round Gist said...

    I think she is possessed! And if d gud 4 nothing old man is still alive,he should be arrested for child abuse.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:02 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Some men deserve to be castrated. Hissss

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:02 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Oh GOD, have mercy on this girl. As for that man God will judge you.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:03 , Blogger Atobatele said...

    She needs deliverance. May God deliver her from the unseen forces that are disturbing her. I pity her anyway.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:04 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Poor child!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:04 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    hmmmmm...dis is serious, may God help her.. Parents/guardians pls be mindful of who ur children/wards associate with, monitor dem and take gud care of them.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:07 , Anonymous ZoeQuadine said...

    Na Wa O....

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:09 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    LYNTROY SAYS.........
    omashe''oo.na wa for this kind of life way men they live,its absurd that an old man old enough to me her father or grandfather will do such,lord help our little daughters from all this bloody pedifiers

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:10 , Blogger Deyinka Onabanjo said...

    Omg! Dnt even knw wot 2say*sad* May God punish d so called Baba.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:11 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    OMG, if sumtin is not done, this little girl will go into prostitution. Linda pls u can do this again, try ur best. Goodbless u.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:11 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Allllllll Pedos should be KILLED and hv their privates hacked off. Wht as our world come to. Very disturbing indeed. I cant even fathom the level og child abuse going on in this town. All this fashola and predident people claiming to hv mde a diff in Nigeria shld implement new laws and hv a child protection agency set up to investigate such cases. This country brings tears to my eyes. Na GOD only tht one can turn to. Theres no protection for Children, Women, men sef. O ga

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:12 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    But why na

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:14 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Hian!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:22 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Is it actually possible 4 lil gal of dat age 2 be sexually active? Nawao!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:24 , Anonymous princess zee said...

    Na wa o... Lagos, everything odd happens in lagos

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:26 , Anonymous Nekky said...

    this is heart wrenching and really disturbing. wat is dis world turning into? that old baba is a devil. imagine wat he has done to dis minor. God must punish him. i pray d girl gets adequate help and healing cos she's just so young to be undergoing such.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:26 , Blogger jenny-coco said...

    gawd what is this country turning into. last week i saw the tape of that elevn year old girl n the four year old boy, now this??? i feel so sorry for the poor girl. the primary thing is to find this man who this this to her in the first place, cos am sure he is out there molesting other kids, if not, this chain of molestation wont stop. i hope and pray that she would be rehabilitated. poor thing **sad face**

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:26 , Anonymous Tee-gurl said...

    That so called 'Baba" should be hunted and castrated. He has ruined the life of a little girl. I wonder how peadophiles sleep at night.
    Our government really need to lay down some laws as regards child welfare.
    Parents also need to keep an eagle eye over their children cos we have all sorts pf monsters out there.
    I pray the little girl will be able to vercome the trauma (and stigma)the stupid old man has made her go through.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:27 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    huh?? which kain wahala b dis?? Abasi mbok!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:27 , Anonymous aprill said...

    this is so pathetic...that baba must be punished for his wicked n barbaric act.thank GOD she spoke up.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:34 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    The Baba should be brought wherever he might be to face the full rought of the law...The aunt is so careless,or is it because the girl in question is not her biological daughter?

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:35 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    The world is finished is all i can say ........ Speechless

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:36 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    LYNTROY?Short of Linda's Voltron?What a stupid name.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:39 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    OMG this is not true.May God Almight punish that so called Baba that did this to the innocent Child,no Law in that Country let himcome and try it here in Europe,even if he has moved to another Country they will find him out Animals in Human skins are too many in Our Country because of the bad Government.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:44 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Bt wts rng wf men of nowadays like rili ? I feel 4 her...can she truly truly b heald 4rm this addction...can she truly ? In all sincerity can she be normal agen! I wsh ha d best

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:44 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    she is possesseddddddddddddddddd with evil spirit...she needs a thourough deliverance...as for the man..let God be the judge

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:47 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    She might not have hit puberty yet! But y? How many infections would dose touts have given her naw...this situation is sick

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:48 , Anonymous Kudoz said...

    God please help this girl....

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:49 , Anonymous juliet igboekwe said...

    @all round gist was has been possessed got to do with a girl that has been wrongfully molested.
    may that man knw no peace in his life

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 10:59 , Anonymous pinkielepa said...

    dis is so sad,BAba ur hrt n u Dick needs 2b cut out n fed 2 my dogs. May God help dis child.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:03 , Blogger Lilspicer said...

    WETIN I WANT TALK AGAIN SHE NO GET PARENTS TO STOP HER O WETIN SELF....ABEG MAKE I GO CINEMA GO WATCH AVENGERS...MTCHEWWWW WWW.TWITTER.COM/LILSPICER

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:09 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    she is not possessed and doesnt need deliverance but needs propoer counseling and therapy. It is very common for abused kids to become promiscous adults. Its all part of the mental and psychological trauma they face. 97% of prostitutes or loose men and women were most likely abused sexually at some point in their life

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:11 , Blogger MY TURN said...

    What is this world turning into? older women are abstaining from sex while YOUNG GIRLS between 7 and 12 are having sex like its going out of fashion.The other day it was that disgusting video with the 12 year old girl having sex with a 4year old boy now this.Please God have mercy on our little girls and shield them from bastards and beasts stealing their childhood.

    @all round gist what has being possessed got to do with a little innocent child being abused?u must be of the GEJ clan, colony of daft men and women.

    And for BABA who started this torture on this innocent child may he NEVER find peace he will beg for death but won't get it.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:12 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Did you possess her? You plonker!
    She was molested by an old man!
    She didn't become sex crazy by herself....you numpty!
    Read the damn article again before posting silly comments.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:14 , Blogger KOFOSHY said...

    wetin pesin no go see for dis lagos....

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:15 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Ode,kainda question ar u̶̲̥̅̊ asking,dnt even thnk it cos dats HO̶̲̥̅̶̷̩̥̊͡ it starts

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:22 , Anonymous Adaugo Ubechu princess said...

    tears of anger.for her to tell her aunty at school,is not easy.i feel for her.i pray she get over it when the time comes.
    if you ve been a victim u should know how it pains at tender age.
    God pls comfort her.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:23 , Blogger Ebere said...

    Abi make women no born girls again or what?I am sooo sad with this news. what on earth is happening in the world now?young girls being raped and all that...........some men are wicked sha...what joy will u derive in sleeping with a girl who is not even matured enof to respond to sexual acts ehn?

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:24 , Anonymous wivestownhallconnection said...

    She really needs help, and as for this old baba, I hope he doesn't have kids because if he does, then they are not safe under his roof.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:25 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    you know that part of the bible that says do not be ignorant of d devices of the devil...oh yes it applies here....this little child needs the urgently help for her maker because sexual sin at this early age is the way 2 d peck of disaster....sprit husband and wives do exist...her case needs serious spiritual help(deliverance).....i pray the good Lord would fight her battle for her and set her free from this terrible shackles!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:29 , Anonymous LALICIOUS said...

    Obviously U ar an Aba made'

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:40 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Some people r rily stupid. How can she be possessed? She has been psychologically twisted by dis so called good for nothing baba. She needs rehabilitation. Our people can be brainless sometimes. Someone has been sexually abused and people r saying she's possessed! Dis is y we never progress. Smh!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:40 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    wat a world r we in nw? Letz our parents b extra careful of gven out our kids though it wasnt d poor gal parnts faults coz dey r nt alive.. Plz d anty of diz gal, cant imagin diz gon for three years n u cannt observes, notice or seein som strange Act or character 4rm d gal... It rlly a pity.. Linda plzzzz assist mre n May heavenly father rewards u mre ijn. Ameeeeeeennnnnnn

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:44 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    wicked man, God will punish him and may he neva know peace. this is a real lesson 4 us women nt 2 leave our kid(either boy or girl) with neighbor or even relative becos we might neva know d ones dat are crazy. dis days wicked people are just everywhere and they live with us as family, neighbor etc d very reason 4 us 2 be careful.


    Mariam

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:45 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    wow i pity her. she needs lots of counseling. may God help her.
    chuks

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:46 , Anonymous ihuoma said...

    Please madam LYNTROY at 10:09am, it is PAEDOPHILES not "pedifiers" ooh! Before u go outside go talk am.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:46 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Everyone has one sorry word or the other to say abt d situation bt failed to recognised dat we can all help to rehabilitate d girl by hooking up with d NGO involved and contributing our Widows mite to get her a bete accomodatn and secure future.pls talk less and act more!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:49 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Na wa ooo.nw dt almost all d young girls are disvirgined nw wat is d hp of my son getting married to a virgin.hmmm....i feel for ds young gals oo.its sad

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:49 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Na wa ooo.nw dt almost all d young girls are disvirgined nw wat is d hp of my son getting married to a virgin.hmmm....i feel for ds young gals oo.its sad

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:51 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    70% of men cannot control their dicks. Old and young. They can hump almost anything,anyone,anyhow,anywhere. Pity.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 11:54 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    nigerians,.,.,.is it every thing that is evil spirit???i tire for una o!i'm a psycology major and this is a clear case of victim coping mechanism,.,.has nothing to do with evil spirits!she needs a therapist and the rehabilitation!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:03 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    For God's sake, what is this world turning into? She's just 10 fa. She's supposed to be wanting to go into secondary school. I think it's about time they introduce chemical castration for pedophiles

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:03 , Anonymous ZoeQuadine said...

    What has being molested got to do with being possessed ehn? When someone is abused before they hit puberty this kinda behaviour is expected... Nigerians should stop being so "Religious" all the time

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:05 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    shut ur stupid mouth u all possessed people,u 4come confess her now!
    Linda this paedophiles are pathetic,wish i had my NGO running,several research has revealed that you cannot even trust ur ward or child even with a reverend father,as i have heard a case of a sixteen year old who a reverend father has been molesting since age ten,for 6 whole years nobody knew,it took a doctor to notice the abnormality of a boy getting serious infection so frequently.As for the little girl she needs a therapist,much love,counselling and environmental relocation with monitoring.hope she is not HIV positive already.so sad!!.....NK

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:13 , Anonymous Doris said..... said...

    I wonder why people are saying she is possessed?? When it is obvious this little girl has been molested and abused by an idiotic man... its just like most of us who are fashion freaks are they now possessed? Thank God for the intervention of the NGO and i pray she is rehabilitated as i fear it will take along time since she is addicted to it and still very young...God pls take control..

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:13 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Seriously, what has sexual predation got to do with possession? We should learn to be able to discern abeg! A child was preyed upon and all a fool can say is that she's possessed? Mscheeeeew!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:15 , Anonymous Nkem said...

    This is so sad. Poor girl. It is unfortunate that some people are calling her possessed. I wish you were abused so you understand the motions. This girl should go for therapy, unfortunately this country is so messed up and things like social welfare is not provided for. God please save this poor child. I wish I could help!!!!!!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:17 , Blogger Aba Da-Woode said...

    I really thought it was supposed to be the other way rounbd as in abusers hating sex. too sad

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:18 , Blogger Fearless! said...

    This is so sad!
    This looks like the girl in that sick child porno!
    May God help her

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:23 , Blogger Fearless! said...

    I think this is the girl from that sickening child porno video! The one with the little boy

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:27 , Anonymous Engr Oge said...

    I weep for this poor kid. This world is so wicked.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:39 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    omg

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:40 , Blogger adukeologe said...

    i dont understand what demons and possessed has got to do with this. why cant Nigerians think logically without blaming the devil for every situation abeg? I hope the girl gets the treatment she deserves and that that awful man has his willy castrated. lol

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:41 , Anonymous naijapikin said...

    The little girl was molested, and now has psychological issues and people are here shouting she's possessed? Too many self righteous people on this blog.

    I pray she gets the treatment she deserves. Linda, can you provide the contact for this NGO? Maybe people can assist.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:43 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Ah! God our children r no longer safe. Bt wait o y kids n nt adult? C adult plenty for ground way day look for man to even finger dem, dem no c n pikin dem day choose. He goat (baba) u need to b castrated, hop u knw dat wat goes around comes around...

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:44 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Oh!dear...where do I even begin? Deliverance prayers is in order. what did the man do to her to get her so addicted? jeez!!!O.O

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:47 , Anonymous Woman of Virtue said...

    So sad.I pray dat God shld intervene in her matter.Dat man will neva know peace even after death.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 12:54 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I really don't get all these guys saying she's possessed. Some fool has been molesting a minor 4 Christ sake!!!!! Operation hunt down d fool and castrate joooor.....
    Mekaiz....

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:00 , Anonymous LALICIOUS said...

    Dis things happens all d tyme,,,,A̷̷̴̐͠ frnd of mine was molested wen she was young now she can't stay witout sex
    Thank God d lil grl spoke out,,

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:19 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Is this the same girl that did the film with the 4yr old..confusing post..this is the fallout.all this people sending their little cousins and nieces to Lagos..a place so corrupt..and rips out the soul of the innocent!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:24 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Linda you should probably put the name and contact info for this NGO so people can donate or help where they can. This child has experienced a lot of trauma and is probably deeply psychologically scarred. It is obvious sex has become a coping mechanism for her (which is common for those who have been sexually abused.) I am not Nigerian but I plead with those of you who are, to pressure your legislators and demand the establishment of laws that guarantee the protection of children and women from rape. Educate men not to rape as opposed to the victim blaming and slut shaming common in most patriarchal societies. It is our common duty as Africans to protect our women and children. I wish this baby recovers and becomes a better, stronger person because of this.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:38 , Anonymous Dr Necta said...

    hmmm,Nigerians n spirituality,can't u guys think out dat box,this is a young gal,picking characters n behavior ,all she needs now is a socio-psychologic remodeling ,which a psychologist can do

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:53 , Blogger Jojo said...

    We should thank God that this was discovered ontime. Why would people say she is possessed when she has been taught to think sex is food by an old man who had sex with her everyday?!!! Can people just be realistic? It has been proven over and over again that sexually abused females either become promiscuous or they grow to hate men with great intensity - it's either-or.

    And P.S., she's not the one in the video from 2 weeks ago - that was in Warri and she was 14!! Check that girl's history and I'm sure you'll see she was also sexually abused. The abused usually becomes the abuser if not rehabilitated ontime!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:53 , Blogger Jojo said...

    I just pray I can be a good parent that will protect my children (male or female) from evil. Lord help us all!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 13:56 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Dr Necta pls tell them ooo. Its so silly wen I see some posts saying "possessed or deliverance" ndi ala. Hope you all have gone to be delivered u possessed rats.

    The story clearly stated that the girl was constantly raped and got use to d feeling. Some1 like her will always want a man if she does not go through therapy. Sure your prayer would be an added advantage but don't just post rubbish

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:05 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Hu told u it means linda's voltron I mean d name is lynTROY!!! U weh ur mind think am to b so na u mumu pass noni! *rolls eyes*

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:05 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    hmmm...dis is scary oh! A ten year old child?i am 25 and still a virgin and i'm even kinda scared of "first time sex" to be honest,not to talk of an adult violating a kid #shudders# and she's addicted??? Hian!!! Wahala dey oh!a child that should still be innocent...God help her get her life back together cos i was almost raped as a kid and it has affected me even into adulthood not to talk of actually being violated...i hope she gets tge help she deserves!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:13 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Sick of all these stories. Enough already. Where are the happy stories??? I open this blog and all i hear is bad news about rape and ppl eating ppls faces. Sick of all these pathetic stories.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:13 , Anonymous Papiloshe said...

    Na thunder go fire any person wey say this girl is possessed. She is normal but was abused period and the continous sex is due to the trauma she has gone through she finds comfort in sex but she within herself know is not right that is why she reported herself meaning she will be well again.. That Baba ehh!! I wish I know where he stays I would take laws into my hands because Naija no fit do nothing..

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:23 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    "she said" she said" "she said" what type of primary 3 writing is that?

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:26 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    This is really pathetic.
    Those saying she needs counselling and those saying she needs deliverance are both right. Sexual addiction like all other types of addictions are bondages that make the individual feel like they can't stop even if they knew it was bad and want to stop. This is why we need the saving power of a loving God. One minute in God's presence can lift off all those things. Haven't you read Isaish 61? Yes counselling is needed to help her see the error in what has been done to her and what she is doing, but deliverance is needed because she needs God to help her defeat this vile thing.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:44 , Anonymous kay said...

    So sad, I can't even imagine what she must be going through. She has completely lost her childhood and that is meant to be priceless.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:48 , Anonymous Theo said...

    While we think that cases like this is a clear sign of "spiritual possession", I'd like to clarify that that is not the case here. The little girl is not possessed. She is first and foremost abused and this abuse has led to a traumatized mind which releases itself of the torments therein by repeating it's initial source of abuse. She is psychologically damaged. She feels filthy and defiled and the only moment she feels a relieve from that inner pain is to have a man doing to her the same thing that snatched her innocence. She needs her childhood restored to her, something almost impossible.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:50 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Shebi I talk am here before, (una busy they correct my English).

    Parents, please pay very close attention to kids. If you are watchful u will see these abnormalities in them. Talk to them when u get back from work and make them tell u what they did at school and after school.

    It's important to do this. And don't say, "thank God it's not my child" You never know what could be happening to ur own child right now (God forbid though).

    Most importantly, always pray for God to guide and protect your kids because there's so much you can do as human but God can take care of ur inabilities.

    Adaeze O.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 14:58 , Anonymous Nkem said...

    Can we get the details of the NGO so we can help. Me I want to support the NGO.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 15:17 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I CANT HELP BUT SHED TEARS AM A YOUNG LADY IN MY MID-TWENTIES AND THRUTH IS I WAS ALMOST A VICTIM WHYL I WAS YOUNG...MY NIEGHBOUR'S SON WEN I WAS YOUNG WAS ABOUT 15YRS OLDER DAN ME AND HAD DIS STRONG FACE ALWAYS FORCING ME TO GIVE HIM A BLOW JOB WEN I WAS YOUNG I WAS ABOUT 4-6YRS OLD DEN AND HE WUD FINGER ME I NEVA LIKED ANY OF IT AND MY MUM AND DAD WERE NEVA HOME WEN I REFUSE HE WUD BEAT ME UP...SO I RESULTED TO NOT STAYING AT HOME ALONE COS WE USED TO KEEP OUR HOUSE KEYS WITH DEM AND ON DAYS MY STEP SISTA WUD NOT BE HOME I HAD TO COLLECT D KEY SO I HAD TO ALWAYS RUN TO A FRNDS HOUSE OR NEVA CUM HOME EARLY AND TAKE MY PARENTS BEATING TO ME I PREFERD MY PARENTS BEATING ME DAN BEING USED AS A SEX OBJECT BY NIEGHBOUR'S SON I KNEW IT WAS NOT RYT CAUSE WEN ANY1 WAS CUMIN HE WUD STOP....GOD I SUFFERED TILL I WAS SEVEN YEARS OLD HE WUD TELL ME TO DROP MY BAG AFTA EATING AND CUM TO DIER HOUSE BUT I USED 2REFUSE I EIDA AND WEN HE WAITS AND DOES NOT SEE ME HE WUD CUM KNOCKING AND FORCE ME TO OPEN AND WEN I OPEN HE WUD BEAT ME AND STILL FORCE ME TO GIVE HIM A BLOW JOB,SO SAD I NEVA LIKED ALL OF IT...GOD SAW MY HEART BUT IT HAS AFFECTED ME I DONT ENJOY SEX OR NEVA WANT TO HAVE SEX I STILL HAVE THAT FEAR I USED TO DREAM OF SPIRIT HUSBANDS AT AN EARLY AGE TANK GOD FOR MFM SINCE I DID MY DELIVERANCE I VE BEEN HEALED...TOLD MY PEEPS BOUT IT WHILE IN THE UNIVERSITY AND MY DAD ARRESTED THE BOY NOW A MAN EVEN MARRIED HE WAS LATA TRIED AND FREED BUT AT LEAST JUSTICE WAS SERVED...PARENTS PLS BE KIAFUL UR KIDS ARE NOT SAFE EVEN LESSON TEACHERS ARE TO BE WATCHED CAREFULLY ONE ALMOST MOLESTED MY COUSIN....D YOUNG GAL NIDS HELP HERS IS 2 D EXTREME.GOD SAVE US ALL

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 15:28 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    This Anonymous sumborry on June 1, 2012 11:25 AM, are you alright? Why aren't you talking about the demon that 'possessed' the person that abused her? Or the ones that 'possess' the men that sleep with her now? I declare that YOU are possessed - with the demons of hypocrisy, ignorance, and plain and abject stupidity *hiss* I'm glad this has come up. You can see that it's almost certain that the girl that was abusing that little boy in the other post was abused herself. And Linda thank you for continuing to raise issues like this (better than false plane crash news, hint hint). Maybe as people start to talk about things like this, Nigeria will finally start to evolve.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:27 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    God what is this world turning into....only GOd can save the little pls let no one blame here....assuming her parents wer to be alive,all this wuldnt have happend.as for the baba God will judge him...

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:30 , Blogger Olutayo Oba Olushanu said...

    God help the girl

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:31 , Blogger Olutayo Oba Olushanu said...

    God help the girl

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:33 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    this girl needs help and she needs it fast. the so called baba should be found and castrated. i feel so sorry for her. if she's not helped, she'll end up abusing other kids just to relive herself

    CHI

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:35 , Blogger Bamidele said...

    It's a Crazy World! , pathetic situation mynaijainfo.blogspot.com

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:47 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    This is soooo sad!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:49 , Anonymous Sunday Homilies and Reflections said...

    I think the process of rehabilitating her should be complimented with prayer because it is not something psychological alone. There must be a spiritual aspect of her problem which should be taken care of. But I pity the man that has led this girl astray.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 16:54 , Anonymous DEEFLAMEZ said...

    HONESTLY, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY...THIS IS SOOOO SAD

    @willadebo

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 17:00 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    If the father is dead, Where is her mother?

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 17:22 , Anonymous isis said...

    This is really sad, am speechless!! How all those touts would have molested the poor girl*in tears*. Only God can help this child. As for that old man, he will not die well and that silly aunty that didn't watch this girl because she isn't her child..

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 17:32 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Na wa for English on this thread o. Wrath don turn to rought. Na pedifiers we hear the other time. Issorai!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 17:36 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    so many people are so quick to judge or condemn this poor child who I believe is crying out for help, unfortunately there are no trained sex therapist to counsel and treat her. Child sexual abuse is a silent & deadly killer in Nigeria. There is no girl who grew up in Nigeria that can say they have never been molested by stupid crazy so called "uncle". This girl has been introduced to sex in a violent way without proper sex education or education of her body especially when to say no. I pray that God touches her soul. I also hope Linda you wont just write about her story, I plead with you to find her and use your influence to get her help. Oprah was abused and she even got pregnant and became promiscuous but due to the help she got she is a living testimony. I will have this girl in pray. I am a survivor of sex abuse but I was lucky to get help and my case didn't get to this child level

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 18:02 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Things we see and hear this dayz.. wonder wat tomorrow becomes of our unborn and this should be a warning to our parents and also to those mothers who think they know best to have their children left out of their daily activities or rather send them out to hawk...as for the stupid shameless man; i think his manhood needs to be cut off including those fingers of him...LI Li hope u re fine.. there is something am not getting on that interview ohh on ya initial post

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 18:12 , Anonymous Janded said...

    I had this on my blog too. it is so sad. It is not the child's fault at all. This is what the atrocity of that pig did to her. He should be found and castrated. Bastard!
    http://abroadtales.blogspot.ca/

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 18:14 , Anonymous Simeon E.Onyemachi said...

    Things we see and hear this dayz.. wonder wat tomorrow becomes of our unborn and this should be a warning to our parents and also to those mothers who think they know best to have their children left out of their daily activities or rather send them out to hawk...as for the stupid shameless man; i think his manhood needs to be cut off including those fingers of him...LI Li hope u re fine.. there is something am not getting on that interview ohh on ya initial post

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 18:15 , Blogger Simeon Onyemachi Ekpete said...

    Things we see and hear this dayz.. wonder wat tomorrow becomes of our unborn and this should be a warning to our parents and also to those mothers who think they know best to have their children left out of their daily activities or rather send them out to hawk...as for the stupid shameless man; i think his manhood needs to be cut off including those fingers of him...LI Li hope u re fine.. there is something am not getting on that interview ohh on ya initial post

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 18:17 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Some men r no differnt frm baboons. I wish d old fool dt got d poor gurl in2 dis is investigate n sentence 2 life inprisoment. May GOD help d poor child (amin).

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 18:18 , Blogger Simeon Onyemachi Ekpete said...

    Things we see and hear this dayz.. wonder wat tomorrow becomes of our unborn and this should be a warning to our parents, Those mothers who think they know best to have their children left out of their daily activities or rather send them out to hawk...as for the stupid shameless man; i think his manhood needs to be cut off including those fingers of him...LI Li hope u re fine.. there is something am not getting on that interview ohh on ya initial post

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 19:12 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Very unfortunate. The kid is damaged for life. She probably thinks that the sexual activity is one she needs to have regularly. May maggots slowly devour the private organ of the idiot that desecrated her permanently.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 19:31 , Anonymous Queen Esta said...

    PoSsessed of what huh?u're one of those achaic pple don't don't knw d meaning of possess.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 21:06 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    seriously i feel like this is becoming a common thing in Nigeria and its saddening that the men always get away with. If they start putting their asses in jail maybe they're think twice before molesting innocent kids. bastard!!!!

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 21:26 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Pry 2 @ age 10? hmmm....this story doesnt ring true I beg.

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 21:33 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    @All Round Gist! pls., kindly make use of ur dictionary b4 u will started make any comment, do u no d meanin of possess. She is not possess but d whose so called useless baba r d one dat posses n initiate d poor innocent girl. My prayer for her is may God intervene and deliver her from her problem

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 21:49 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I blame her mother for all this. Mothers, future mothers, your children are very important especially the female ones. Do not be carried away by activities surrounding you. Lots of girls are being molested and raped on a daily basis by their houseboys, brothers, gatemen, uncles, friends and even fathers. Pls open your eyes, get closer to your children, be their best friend and u will be amazed at the kind of things they discuss with u.
    As for this little girl, she needs a change of environment, deliverance and a new Best Friend (HER MOTHER). It is well

     
  • At 1 June 2012 at 23:02 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    What is wrong with you fools saying that the girl is possessed? You Nigerians abi Africans are always fond of giving the f*cking devil power. When a man cheats, he blames it on the devil. When someone steals, they blame it on the devil. Stupidity!

    The girl is affected by the sexual abuse in the past and you are saying she is possessed. Of course, She needs prayers but she also needs therapy and a good/stable home.

    You assholes need to get proper education on life and stop bringing the devil into sh*t like this. You have all the degrees in the world yet you make stupid comments like that. Say something intelligent and stop saying nonsense!

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 00:10 , Anonymous ngozi said...

    it is a pity how people react to serious cases like this. mothers are so careless these days and take a lot of things for granted.Linda please can l get the contact of this NGO because there are other NGOs that they can refer the child to who have the facilities to rehabilitate this girl.contact me on cpnlagos@yahoo.com (child protection network

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 02:39 , Anonymous T4Toyin said...

    Sometimes, the truth is indeed stranger than fiction. This breaks my heart! Such men are sick, sick animals. I hope she can get some professional help.

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 03:50 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I am just going to address something briefly. Those of you saying "I blame no one but her mother" are promoting a very problematic line of thinking when it comes to sexual abuse. It is comments like these that further perpetrate rape culture in most African states. It is not uncommon for a mother to berate her child for being sexually molested. The reason why most mothers fail to be there for their children once they are sexually abused and even ask their children to never speak of it again is because mothers mostly bear the blame and face devastating stigma because of it. If you want to play the blame game then the MAN that violated this child in the most evil of ways is to be blamed. Rape culture, patriarchy, lack of girl child and women's rights, ignorance of rape and its psychological impacts, inadequate crisis centers and psychological support networks, lack of protective legislation and our collective refusal in EDUCATING MEN NOT TO RAPE as opposed to policing what girls wear or their behaviors is to blame. Sorry this is such a long comment but we all have to look at ourselves and understand that staying ignorant of the issues perpetrates and reinforces rape culture. I pray for this little girls' soul and healing. Besides it is obvious her mother is either deceased or in a state where she is incapable of caring for the child (hence the child living with her aunt.)

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 08:53 , Blogger Sarafadeen Najeemdeen said...

    Haaa. This is bad. May God save us.

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 09:57 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    U can do witout it. I know its gonna be difficult but you can start from somewia. Pray ova it n see ur spiritual director 4 direction.

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 11:24 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    so sad!

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 11:55 , Blogger Str8FrmDaHips said...

    Possessed??..any clinical psychologists in the house to break it down to this agberos..now dem go say..I be ITK..little girl abused..it can go either way..either recoil within and hate sex or be promiscuos..most have very low self esteem..hence the sexual gratification..confusing sex with love..simples...

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 14:53 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Funny how backwards Nigerians are. Everyone screamed "God, she needs deliverance" at this story, not one person was sane enough to suggest therapy. smh Bigots all of you. ----- I_SPiks_Da_Troof

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 18:43 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    This goes to say how stupid her aunt is, as she seems not to be monitoring the activities of a child that has been kept in her custody. I bet you, if the little girl had been her biological child, she would have known long time before now. A good example of Wicked Naija Aunt! As for 'Baba', such kind of people should be brought to book and make sure that they are not seen any where near kids, even his own kids!

    I know the govt are never gonna do a damn thing about this and our vulnerable children are gonna keep being victimized. NO BE NAIJA WE DEY!!!!!!!

     
  • At 2 June 2012 at 19:39 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    see ppl crying shes possessed when in actual sense shes just traumatised and probably taken on a victim mentality from the sexual abuse..nigerians sha!!!

     
  • At 3 June 2012 at 03:42 , Anonymous miss X0X0 said...

    This problem isn't spiritual.She needs to be rehabilitated.She needs medical care.

     
  • At 3 June 2012 at 04:25 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Strange occurences. God have mercy on your children.

     
  • At 4 June 2012 at 13:10 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    the girl is not possessed , it happened to me too when the person u violated me from age four till seven was caught and sent away by mum ,i was left will strange feeling of wanting sex i did with with my neighbours , family friends any male i could find since i lived in a gated community i lucky not to patronize tout even though doing it with the gateman occurred to me but i didnt, i even used to finger my self it was during sex education class i had in primary six that made me cautious of what i was doing wrong i was ten years old that was the year i stopped . i am now 25 year i never slept around when i was in the university , i was good girl i still made mistakes but was neva a whore , i am happily married now and expecting my first child.
    such is life

     
  • At 10 June 2012 at 23:33 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Umm sorry to burst ur bubble honey but you're kinda the one who doesn't know the meaning of the word possessed otherwise u wouldn't have asked that 'bright' question. The poor child is obviously possessed by demonic spirits of lust hence her abnormal behavior. Oh and an adult nymphomaniac is also under the influence of demonic spirits of lust...Fyi

     
  • At 11 June 2012 at 18:09 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    It's really amazing that some people still don't fathom the abnormality of a child nymphomaniac. For the record sane people IT IS NOT NORMAL FOR A CHILD TO ENJOY OR DESIRE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE irrespective of whatever happened, religion or not there exists such a thing as demonic possession, kindly refer to comment #3 above

     
  • At 29 October 2012 at 14:23 , Blogger Paul Orazulike said...

    i seriously think that this is just fiction. Linda just arranged this story to get us all into her page.... otherwise what is the original source of this story? if linda is the original source, then how come she is the only person caring the news? the newspapers should have the news too

     
  • At 12 January 2013 at 19:12 , Blogger Jon alen said...

    Totally agree with all these. Unfortunately, I have met men who have had all of these traits. I am by nature a pleaser and love giving to my partner, but have learned to back off a bit and reserve that for the man who is deserving and not selfish. When a man is really into pleasing me, it makes me want to please him even more, and it's a win-win for everyone!
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  • At 18 April 2013 at 13:39 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Wow. This so fascinating. I don't think she has a mental disorder or any disorder that makes she go out to the extent of begging guys for sex. No, I agree she might be addicted or already has been. But that old man has special role to play in the recovery of this girl. She also need to be brain wash of having sex daily. That's left for the doctor on how they will go about it. She should also be keep safely from contacting with the opposite sex. I never had sex so I don't know how she might be feeling. Try hard to keep her safely from opposite sex. If I may ask; where was her aunt or guardian all the while she was messing up her life? Did they know when she left the house and I guess that they were not into to notice any changes. Please find some to do girl. Yeah, Yeah, Yeah........she was influence at her tender age but the should not lead to having sex with all the man in her area daily. Lastly she also need prays. Thanks for ya co-operations.

     
  • At 14 June 2014 at 08:46 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Pls do help dis young girl she is ignorant of what dis tins implies she was only pushed into it pls 4 ha future sake n as 4 d stupid old fool his 2 b nailed hard n moreso is children will b a victeem of such too

     

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