Dear LIB readers: my husband bought me a dildo to compliment his non-performance
From a female LIB reader
I got married six months ago to the man of my dreams. He is everything a woman wants in a man except that he is small 'down there'. Of course I knew he was small before I married him but I didn't give it too much attention as it was always complimented with his long stay. I started noticing that he doesn't go beyond 5 minutes during our honeymoon and that continued until I started drawing his attention to it. It went beyond drawing his attention to crying. Last weekend, he opened up to me that he was taking drugs to meet up but that the drugs are now affecting him so he had to stop. I felt betrayed and bitter. Had I known... anyway, he returned that evening and handed me a gift bag, I wondered how a gift would compliment his non performance only to realize the content. Lo and behold, it was a dildo! I became utterly resigned before he went on his knees and asked me to compliment him using the dildo. I am really confused. I don't know what to do or who to
talk to. My communication with him has never been the same since then and we've not made love.
Please help me share this for advice.
In dis case I cnt advice u bc I hvnt used dildo b4. I dnt knw hw it works. U too shuld see a Dr. ASAP. Dnt cheat, I said, never u cheat bc of dis bc this is not a case. Be prayerful
He got it all wrong by coming wit deceit in de 1st place but right now de deed is done U gota look 4 a way 4ward cos it's 4 beta 4 worse 4 ur own gd it's gd as he stop using such cos health wise it wil cause more harm in de future He has confessed and u hv 2 4giv him If he is romantic it can help u 4get all his weaknesses Foreplay can help as well & wit his little performance u can get satisfaction Sex is not all dat matas in life& marriage I wil advice u 2 tell him u dnt nid de dildo rubbish Love him more and meet a doctor wit him It's part of ur own marriage challenges Thank ur God u aren't married 2 a sex freak Women dat re married 2 womanisers wil b praying 2 hv ur kinda hubby Blessing in disguise is what u hv got Very Important,avoid adultery if u believe in God Ekwukwanum ka oram na onu.. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#
As bad as it may seem, it may actually be a blessing if you decide to view it as such. If he is so small, he may not cheat on you to avoid embarrassing himself or having the news spread so you have him all to yourself ;) You probably would have still married him if he told you the truth before marriage, it's the deceit that hurts and you may be wondering what else he is hiding.
My dear, the best solution to this is to Go after a doctor or a danacologist who specialist in such issues, join it with prayers there shall be a way out because every thing on earth is possible. May GOD see you through as you embark on this life journey.
Sex na food?i will advice you to start geting pregnant every past 11months from now on, with that you will find a reason to close your leg, Nigeria woman go marry money and still dey call it love, real love cover every wronge..from swiss
Bia did you read and digest what the lady wrote b4 jumping into your conclusion. She said size wasn't of importance as the guy then stay longer during the act therefore covering up for the size. Please we ladies should learn to empathise with fellow women fa.
At teen age and in their 20s and early 30s, men sex drive is at the highest and wanes from there on. Women sex drive kicks into high gear in their 30s and overdrive in their 40s and beyond. Men over 40 don't hate sex, they are just not thinking about tearing that ass up. They are trying to make it financially before they hit 50 and not be a failure in life. So, you're on your own, grab the dildo.
enjoy your dildo. enjoy what your man can offer. make your marraige work. when you are 60 years old, having a good man Is what will matter not a penis. be wise
enjoy your dildo. enjoy what your man can offer. make your marraige work. when you are 60 years old, having a good man Is what will matter not a penis. be wise
Those of you telling her to throw away the dildo are wicked...his a very loving man that takes ur satisfaction into consideration..please bear with..dont use the dildo by urself except wen necesary..let him use it on you at least befr penetration..enjoy ur marriage..enjoy ur sex life na also see a doctor..may God help u
He deceived her in the first place. He was using supplements all of a sudden he has realized they are affecting him negatively. Men are wicked and selfish, my dear kick his sorry ass even the church will dissolve the union as it was founded on falsehood in the first place. If the reverse where to be the case the man would not think twice before doing away with the lady. Come to think of it,its for life oh, how long will u depend on sex toys?
Woman, if you would believe me i most say that you are not in anyway lost in ur marriage because u knew his short down there before you went there so you should learn to comply and think of a better solution to having his problem solved. Don't forget that you are just 6months into the game.
Pray to God and your husby eggplant will increase one day with good blowjob and hand work.
That's a really good advice you gave her. My advice; buy the 50 Shades trilogy (the books). You can learn about so many other toys and how to use them. Good luck!
MADAM DO NOT LISTEN TO ALL THESE ADVISES, THE SOLUTION IS JUST SIMPLE.
COME TO MY BED AND OPEN YOUR 'OYORIMA' FOR ME, I PROMISE YOU CONSTANT PUMPING FOR ONE HOUR NON-STOP TILL YOU CONFESS ALL YOUR SINS BEFORE I STOP. MY OSHIOMOLE IS BIG AND I AM AFRAID YOU MAY HAVE TO SQUIZE AND FORCE IT GENTLY INTO YOUR TIN FOR IT TO ENTER FULL.
TRY ME AND YOU WILL NOT COMPLAIN AGAIN. BUT LOVE YOUR HUSBAND MOST OF ALL, AND BE A GOOD WIFE.
honestly too many daft people on this blog.....some of you guys just read and don't even comprehend but come and vomit insults from your gutter mouths. you fool calling her ashawo its your mother who is an ashawo.....she said she had no problem with his size cos he use to last long but after the marriage she noticed he became 5 minutes man cos he stopped taking the medication.. he apparently deceived her by not telling her he had a problem and was on medication. so for you numbskulls saying she knew size and his performance are 2 totally different issues...i have been married for 10 years and I know that you cannot satisfy anyone with 5 minutes sex...
if he has shown remorse for his deceit and has come out to apologise and asked for your help then u have no choice but to support him. use the dildo, but you need to see a doctor together and find ways u can work on the issue....what is his underlying problem? is he hypertensive? does he drink? etc
for me personally if he is arrogant and refuses to acknowledge he deceived you then you can decide to leave him if u want.. men expect women to tolerate all their bullshit but they run out to have an affair at any slightest offence from their wives...sex is an important matter so don't let anyone deceive you. if u cant bear it walk away before its too late...
You all saying that she knew the size of his package before getting into the marriage are missing the point, she said she didnt mind the size cos he could last, but that was the case cos he was taking drugs, now he's gone off the drugs and cant last anymore, what does she do? Her husband failed to inform her about this shortcoming and that he was taking drugs which was very decietful on his part. She would have made an informed decision about marrying him if she was aware and now she's found herself in this mess.... girl, i second what Buksss advised, i pray for you for God's direction in this situation.
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In dis case I cnt advice u bc I hvnt used dildo b4. I dnt knw hw it works. U too shuld see a Dr. ASAP. Dnt cheat, I said, never u cheat bc of dis bc this is not a case. Be prayerful
Pls go for medical care, researh online on penis enlargement, pray to God, He will intervene, remember sex b4 marriage is no Gods way
Pls go for medical care, researh online on penis enlargement, pray to God, He will intervene, remember sex b4 marriage is no Gods way
My thoughts exactly. This is the most reasonable comment here.
How stupid can you be Pls? 5 mins is a very long time?? You need to follow her husband for check up Mr indomie.
He got it all wrong by coming wit deceit in de 1st place but right now de deed is done
U gota look 4 a way 4ward cos it's 4 beta 4 worse
4 ur own gd it's gd as he stop using such cos health wise it wil cause more harm in de future
He has confessed and u hv 2 4giv him
If he is romantic it can help u 4get all his weaknesses
Foreplay can help as well & wit his little performance u can get satisfaction
Sex is not all dat matas in life& marriage
I wil advice u 2 tell him u dnt nid de dildo rubbish
Love him more and meet a doctor wit him
It's part of ur own marriage challenges
Thank ur God u aren't married 2 a sex freak
Women dat re married 2 womanisers wil b praying 2 hv ur kinda hubby
Blessing in disguise is what u hv got
Very Important,avoid adultery if u believe in God
Ekwukwanum ka oram na onu..
#oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#
Both of u should visits doctor ,
As bad as it may seem, it may actually be a blessing if you decide to view it as such. If he is so small, he may not cheat on you to avoid embarrassing himself or having the news spread so you have him all to yourself ;) You probably would have still married him if he told you the truth before marriage, it's the deceit that hurts and you may be wondering what else he is hiding.
Thank dear. But that's the truth.
I concor
Lol men with small pen*** will be getting defensive
My dear, the best solution to this is to Go after a doctor or a danacologist who specialist in such issues, join it with prayers there shall be a way out because every thing on earth is possible. May GOD see you through as you embark on this life journey.
Nawa oooo
Sex na food?i will advice you to start geting pregnant every past 11months from now on,
with that you will find a reason to close your leg, Nigeria woman go marry money and still dey call it love,
real love cover every wronge..from swiss
Bia did you read and digest what the lady wrote b4 jumping into your conclusion. She said size wasn't of importance as the guy then stay longer during the act therefore covering up for the size. Please we ladies should learn to empathise with fellow women fa.
OREO GRANDE
See as one lady lie down on bed like a tree and still dey tell me say i am not a romantic guy,abeg wear ur cloth and go since u dey find who
to kill
At teen age and in their 20s and early 30s, men sex drive is at the highest and wanes from there on. Women sex drive kicks into high gear in their 30s and overdrive in their 40s and beyond.
Men over 40 don't hate sex, they are just not thinking about tearing that ass up. They are trying to make it financially before they hit 50 and not be a failure in life. So, you're on your own, grab the dildo.
enjoy your dildo. enjoy what your man can offer. make your marraige work. when you are 60 years old, having a good man Is what will matter not a penis. be wise
enjoy your dildo. enjoy what your man can offer. make your marraige work. when you are 60 years old, having a good man Is what will matter not a penis. be wise
Those of you telling her to throw away the dildo are wicked...his a very loving man that takes ur satisfaction into consideration..please bear with..dont use the dildo by urself except wen necesary..let him use it on you at least befr penetration..enjoy ur marriage..enjoy ur sex life na also see a doctor..may God help u
Correct bobo !!
See ashawo too the comment?
Abeg , remove the Vespa in your own Vagina first !!! Hefer ...
but just in case u need someone to holla at yo very wet pussy, holla at this email
autch4pay@gmail.com
i'm 100% positive he got u...
He deceived her in the first place. He was using supplements all of a sudden he has realized they are affecting him negatively. Men are wicked and selfish, my dear kick his sorry ass even the church will dissolve the union as it was founded on falsehood in the first place. If the reverse where to be the case the man would not think twice before doing away with the lady. Come to think of it,its for life oh, how long will u depend on sex toys?
Lol,you get bad mouth shall
Woman, if you would believe me i most say that you are not in anyway lost in ur marriage because u knew his short down there before you went there so you should learn to comply and think of a better solution to having his problem solved. Don't forget that you are just 6months into the game.
Pray to God and your husby eggplant will increase one day with good blowjob and hand work.
You are wonderful, true talk. U just said my mind. The man is indeed rare.
That's a really good advice you gave her.
My advice; buy the 50 Shades trilogy (the books). You can learn about so many other toys and how to use them. Good luck!
Pray 2 GOD, nothing is impossible!!!!
Smoke some weed mahn 🍀🔥👍🏽😍 *hits joint
Hahaha, you funny ooo
Correct!!!
NAH WETIN UNAH DEY TALK SELF?
MADAM DO NOT LISTEN TO ALL THESE ADVISES, THE SOLUTION IS JUST SIMPLE.
COME TO MY BED AND OPEN YOUR 'OYORIMA' FOR ME, I PROMISE YOU CONSTANT PUMPING FOR ONE HOUR NON-STOP TILL YOU CONFESS ALL YOUR SINS BEFORE I STOP. MY OSHIOMOLE IS BIG AND I AM AFRAID YOU MAY HAVE TO SQUIZE AND FORCE IT GENTLY INTO YOUR TIN FOR IT TO ENTER FULL.
TRY ME AND YOU WILL NOT COMPLAIN AGAIN. BUT LOVE YOUR HUSBAND MOST OF ALL, AND BE A GOOD WIFE.
- gbadeboaja@gmail.com
honestly too many daft people on this blog.....some of you guys just read and don't even comprehend but come and vomit insults from your gutter mouths. you fool calling her ashawo its your mother who is an ashawo.....she said she had no problem with his size cos he use to last long but after the marriage she noticed he became 5 minutes man cos he stopped taking the medication.. he apparently deceived her by not telling her he had a problem and was on medication. so for you numbskulls saying she knew size and his performance are 2 totally different issues...i have been married for 10 years and I know that you cannot satisfy anyone with 5 minutes sex...
if he has shown remorse for his deceit and has come out to apologise and asked for your help then u have no choice but to support him. use the dildo, but you need to see a doctor together and find ways u can work on the issue....what is his underlying problem? is he hypertensive? does he drink? etc
for me personally if he is arrogant and refuses to acknowledge he deceived you then you can decide to leave him if u want.. men expect women to tolerate all their bullshit but they run out to have an affair at any slightest offence from their wives...sex is an important matter so don't let anyone deceive you. if u cant bear it walk away before its too late...
Sweetie, be content with what you have! Appreciate it and it's value will appreciate!!
let her inbox me with her personal and private number. i will be glad to render my services for foc. dont bother to thank me. just thank God.
You all saying that she knew the size of his package before getting into the marriage are missing the point, she said she didnt mind the size cos he could last, but that was the case cos he was taking drugs, now he's gone off the drugs and cant last anymore, what does she do? Her husband failed to inform her about this shortcoming and that he was taking drugs which was very decietful on his part. She would have made an informed decision about marrying him if she was aware and now she's found herself in this mess.... girl, i second what Buksss advised, i pray for you for God's direction in this situation.
Hehehe.... Well said.
The two of you should go & see your doctor.
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