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Wednesday 29 October 2014

Dear LIB readers: My sister-in-law is a lesbian, Should I tell my brother?

From a female LIB reader
I found out this past weekend that my brother's wife and mother of his two children is a lesbian and I don't know what to do about this information. Does my brother need to know? She had sex with another lesbian at a friend's house in Parkview (she's a reader of this blog so I want her to know that I know) and I don't know what to do with this information. I've suspected for a long time but my suspicion was only confirmed on Saturday. I don't know what will happen if I tell my brother but she can't continue living a double life, going to church every Sunday and giving advice like Mother Teresa when she lives a dirty, disgusting life. Try it again and see!

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Yao ming said...

I tire o. Its like bisexuals don't exist in an average naija mentality.

Anonymous said...

I think u re d one.Better repent and change ur ways before its 2 late for u.Senseless woman. Hw do u even enjoy it? Don't initiate ur kids oooo especially d female(s) if any.

Unknown said...

The inlaws thing tire me sef.. they no go go marry na to siddon for house dey find ashiri...

Anonymous said...

My darling, please, hear from your sister-in-law first. Telling your brother won't be a better option. I pray she change bcos lesbianism is a dirty game. Dear wife, since u are an ardent reader of Linda's blog, please desist from idolatry...May God forgive and purify u in Jesus Name!

Anonymous said...

@ prince abi na king which ever one you be. I believe there's a spirit in you. A deliverance session is necessary in your life. Ode

Anonymous said...

How can anyone say it's none of her business. If it's not her business may such evil befall your brother. If you catch your sister's husband sleeping with another person, man or woman, it wont be your business she comes to tell you her husband has infected her with HIV or any such terrible STD, then you will fear for her life. How can people be so selfish. It is her business cause no one wants to watch their sibling live through a bad life, an ailment or a serious trauma that such an atrocity can cause except you are lesbian or gay yourself. Awon oni iranu

Anonymous said...

Abi oooh...How the thing take concern her

Anonymous said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

I am too, mother of 3, pls mother of 4, lets hook up, hope ur beaitiful*wink

Anonymous said...

U wonder, pls dont wonder dear, its very addictive

Anonymous said...

women n their dirty life

Anonymous said...

Hmmm poster Joy,i know you'll be surprised i replied through this medium.Your brother Ikenna is aware........you can go on and tell him,im sure you never know his Dikc is small and he desnt satisfy me.Go on and spill my cuddle fundle with Biola.Let one withou sin cast the first stone. Il eave you to God.

Anonymous said...

Hahaha, ur soo funny, u don talk ur own where e dey pinch u, my dear a lot of us are, including me

Anonymous said...

*does sign of the cross, walks away *
From the aforementioned though, it's safe to say catholics have really bad mouths.
*** picks race***

Aymii said...

@chessycar.....#Lesbo alert#.....By thier fruits you shall know them.....

Lawd help us men! ......imagine where me and another woman go dey drag my babe! ..

Dated one girl sometime back....before we went far she actually confessed to me she preferred women .she was the Butch (man) indi lesbo settings....sad thing was the gurl was bloodty Beauriful! ..Dat one pain me pass errtin sef!



On 2 the Next!

Lady G said...

Mind your business and leave your brother and his wife to their marriage. Thats what you should do.

Anonymous said...

It is better to go and sort out your own marriage and keep your Amebo in your own house, sigh. You be busybody! if her advice dey pain you make you go find your own house and live and get out of their lives naa. Your brother be God? when you tell am, then what next? nonsense and nosy sister-in-law like you idiot!

Anonymous said...

When you tell your brother finish make you follow them go their bedroom and help them discuss the matter o. Nonsense and nosy inlaws!

Angela said...

Let him who is without sin cast the first stone, and the correct term is bisexual. You are just a home wrecker. Keep your mouth shut and mind your own business. If you caught your brother cheating, would you tell her? Hypocrite!!!

Anonymous said...

Lesbianism is not the core of this issues sef as I see it.Its the cheating!!!!! She's a whore and if the anon that replied was her, she's a proud one and a cheater. I don't wish that your husband finds out, Godforbid! Your husband finding out will do you no good, I wish you continue the lifestyle and be so engrossed in it, you won't know when your children find out,then you will know that it's not worth it. Take it from somebody whose cousin caught her mother doing the same thing.The woman hates herself now.

Nne biko jesike ooo.ihe ọjọọ ga -enwe mgbe nile ọjọọ. If you like continue.Im sure if it was a man that was gay, all hell will break loose saying tell her, tell her, after they would say double standard only has adverse effect on women. If you're single and you love being with your sex, that one na for your pocket and it's still the same as fornication.

All these lesbian mothers I'm seeing their comment, biko do us a favour, if your way of life is so cool and right and there's nothing wrong, raise your sons in such way and allow them to become wives or lovers of their fellow men, also allow your daughters to pay bride price for their fellow women, that's when it will now dawn on us that are not so into such lifestyle that it's not so bad after all and that way it will even foster legal marriage equality talks in this our lovely Nigeria.

I always say it, not everybody is supposed to marry and give birth. I don't pity you or your husband, I pity your children and trust me if you continue they will find out! ọ ga- now na-edo anya na a bie ndụ na-abịa bụ adịghị oké ọnụ ahịa adịkwa ịhụnanya nke gị na ụmụ gị. M n'aka na ị ga- eche na ha right chọpụta, obi m na ha ga- mgbe na ha tọrọ ha . ụmụ na- kensinammuo na -eleru anya!

ukbliss said...

Ur an idiot

Anonymous said...

Lmao!!! @anon 1:40 I never knew people could "gbagaun" in pidgin

Anonymous said...

The "she" brother's wife commented as anony 2:14pm...

ukbliss said...

It a big fool

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm!!! The wife commented as anony 2:14pm...

Anonymous said...

All You cursing the woman, and talking bullshit like You HUSH, you will be surprised the husband knows and is okay with it rather than cheat with a guy.
Infact most Husbands know their wives girlfriends for real and they don't mind considering the rate at which married women cheat with guyz.
So make una chill, the husband they die for her more.



This is not news. You guys sound like u r in the 18th century.

Anonymous said...

Idiot... Shut up already with ur useless blog

Anonymous said...

Lmao... Leave matter... Sis inlaw fool...don't go and marry...am sure ur sleeping with even married men.... My sis... No mind am...make him go tell her bro and face rejection...tell ur hubby that ur sis inlaw is threatening u...and wanna frame u up...set her up before she wrecks ur home...olofofo

Anonymous said...

Lmaooo dis life sef. Dis can't be d sis inlaw. U can't expose ur hubby like dis na! Shuuuu. Most women don't get satisfaction frm der husbands but lesbianism is very addictive. Dear sis in law. Mind ur biz n go get married pls.

Anonymous said...

e dey sweet die like sucar! Infact you get to climax and moan like you won't when with a dude.

Anonymous said...

The first point here is that she is cheating on him, which in my books is a no-no.

Anonymous said...

Remember to tell her that your brother is a lose canon and don't forget to let her know that he's also sleeping with your friend.
idiot!don't go and settle down.

Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

why is it convenient to mention bioLa's name since u have thrown all caution to the wind,expose urselF nd tell ur ur name. hmmmnn Nne

Anonymous said...

This is what you get when we live in a society where being gay is a crime. What this society doesn't know is that being gay comes naturally to some people. Am lesbo and believe me I didn't make that choice, I just found out that I was attracted to women. I appreciate a woman's beauty and feel tender towards her. Its just me. I have gay friends and I must say its not easy for most of us. You love someone and you can't even tell your family, you can't face the society, you can't express urself. And yes, some of us wants to get married to men because of the society we live in and am so sure that when most of us get married the feelings for women will still be there. If only the society will allow gay people be, issues like this will be avoided. Well, even though I type 1 million words my society will never understand me, they think am possessed my an evil spirit ..lolz..and one last thing- it is possible for members of the same gender to fall inlove, don't think this is some kind of misery.

Anonymous said...

She go arrange to assassinate you o.

Anonymous said...

Be careful b4 u spoil a home , it could kill ur broda cos u dont kno how much ur broda love her ,it is a dangerious acts , be careful lesbians are heartless more than armed robbers , numbers of murdered husbands was assasinated by their lesbians wife or gays ... close your mouth and talk to GOD in prayer concerning it ..... she can mess ur life up if u ar not strong ..give ur life to christ so that tru u she can be saved tooo ...the LORD bless u

Bunny said...

Exactly my thought. To you love your brother? Bcos all I see here is bitter judgment. Talk to your sister in law that's if you can't mind your biz but let your brother out of this or better still get your own home and conduct your all saintly activities there.

Anonymous said...

He already knows that is why he married her.

Anonymous said...

Both of u are in d same game, she doesn't wanna dance to ur tune anymore now u are tell??? U see!!!! Lesson to all gays. #saynotogayism

bladderwort said...

walai if I know I go buen her and scatter ha ashes to the four wind and dats before I don beat lesbian spirit out with kungfu and karate.

Anonymous said...

nw hw dis wan carri conc3rn us if yha wan t3ll am.......t3ll w3 ask yha to tell us n Richard George yha beta sharap u dy listen to yha self

Anonymous said...

say your brother was gay, would you tell your sister-in-law? if yes, then tell your brother.
It does seem that you don't like this your sister-in-law though
However, I don't think it's being an amebo to say some things. Tell your brother and rest your case.

Anonymous said...

A classic foolish igbo person. Very amusing.
All those calculators in the bookshops and markets, even second hand calculators yapa, yet your bull Shit doesn't add up!

Anonymous said...

It's all the same Ode. Man or woman, cheating is cheating. However, it will be foolish for her to ruin her brother's marriage cos of that. Aimoye cheating.

Anonymous said...

Confirm

Anonymous said...

Lool...anonymous 4.55 sounds like to wife..lool

ChincoBee said...

*let him find out himself...But bottom line remains that you should keep your mouth shut and stop being a nosy sister-in-law

Danny said...

@nkem what's d difference between you and the fool?always quick to judge and poke your nose everywhere.Do you also have to abuse?Get a life

Anonymous said...

nawa oo! Speechless.

Liddy said...

What you need to do is mind your fucking business! I believe your sister-in-law is grown and soo doesn't need any foolish advice from u "Miss holier than thou"! On some "Try it again!" Who the fuck are u to threaten her?? Is your brother God? You better fuck off already and let her be! Evil jealous hating bitch you are! Nonsense!

Ozed said...

Tell your brother because if the woman gets to know that you know about this she will kill.Killing you will a bid to quench the matter in her favour.Although,it will be difficult for your brother to believe you.

Unknown said...

What I will advise you to do is to call her and inform her of your discovery and give your brother a hint like there is something that you would love to tell him but the time is not right now.
Dont mind all these people saying stuffs like 'do you know if your own brother is gay or you should mind your business'..i am very sure no one here would take it lightly to discover his own sister kissing and licking the assh-ole of her female friend anywhere. there is so much hypocrisy going on so dont mind what people are saying...call your inlaw and let her know that you know some extra things and you seriously hope that would be the last time she would subject herself to such passions....Lesbianism is unlawful here in Nigeria so there is not one platform for justification for her.

My two cents

Unknown said...

its in your place to tell your everything and anything especially if you guys are close but then again if you guys are close you should know how he will reach to such info and you also have to be diplomatic bout it...we all have secret so no one is perfect,letting the rite knows that mattas and also how they handle it but for me i prefer you talk to her and den let her be the one to tell her husband(your brother)....

Anonymous said...

The advice seeker should tell her brother to clear her conscience. So be it if he already knows, but she will give him information to protect himself from STD's and make decisions about staying married. A woman who's sneaking off to a lover has already broken her home by her actions. This home y'all are talking about doesn't exist.

Unknown said...

dont tell your brother, but threaten her that you know what she is doing and that u will tell your brother if she doesn't stop. am sure she will stop

Anonymous said...

Am sure this is her brothers wife talking. ......cos this person is taking it so personal. Am out

Anonymous said...

First confront the woman head long. Let her know that you already know what she does in secret. Of Course she will not stop being a lesbian but you must tell your brother so that he can take her for deliverance. Lesbianism is a demonic spirit. That woman is possessed, she needs much prayers now.

Anonymous said...

Eww best comment a million likes

Anonymous said...

SILLY GIRL, MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!!!!
I CAN SEE THAT YOU ARE REALLY THE CLEAN FREAK.
NONSENSE GIRL. SEE YOUR MOUTH.
#HOMEWRECKER!

Anonymous said...

Olodo shhhh u knw nufin

Anonymous said...

"If your brother were to be gay, would you report him to his wife?" Good question.

Anonymous said...

Babe your blood too dey hot. Why?

Anonymous said...

it is not an issue. Lesbian sex is common in women these days. if your sister in-law is lesbian then don't react over that. you should rather have lesbian relations with her. you and your sister in-law make Lesbian sex daily. your brother will not object to it. Lesbian sex is not bad thing. Lesbian sex is the phenomena and most popular thing in the world. 75% Girls search for Lesbian sex in Google as surveyed by famous women magazine Cosmopolitan.

Anonymous said...

it is not an issue. Lesbian sex is common in women these days. if your sister in-law is lesbian then don't react over that. you should rather have lesbian relations with her. you and your sister in-law make Lesbian sex daily. your brother will not object to it. Lesbian sex is not bad thing. Lesbian sex is the phenomena and most popular thing in the world. 75% Girls search for Lesbian sex in Google as surveyed by famous women magazine Cosmopolitan. your brother may object is your sister makes sex with a boy but he will not ever object to, or get angry over her Lesbian relations.

Anonymous said...

I am also Lesbian. I make Lesbian sex with my sister in-law (wife of my brother) twice a week. Me and sister in-law enjoy lesbian sex. My brother knows that but he does not make any objection to the lesbian relations between me and his wife.

UNDERTAKER said...

Abeg shot your dirty mouth...amebo like u

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