I am 23 years old and I have vowed not to have sex until after marriage. I've been dating this guy for about a year and he's been begging me for intimacy. Because of my love for him, I allowed him to finger me but that was all. Am I still considered a virgin?
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U r a slut y would u allow a man 2 finger u is not difrent 4rm sexual intercourse u r not a virgin u chicken brain respect ur body & neva allow it anymore
Rubbish ask God #bright bravo#
Rubbish ask God #bright bravo#
If he broke your hymen in the process then you are no longer a virgin. Get over it and move on!
lolsss did I hear u say virgin? ur own is worst dan sex.. 4 me u ar defiled dier4 u are not a virgin "my opinion "
once u ddnt bleed, ur hymen is not brokn, u r a virgin. buh b careful, i lost my virginity thru fingerin... yuck! i ddnt kes comment dt!
Definately madam
As long as he ddnt penetrate u with his hands
Jst ensure u stop it
If nt u ll end up doing it
MissyO
No!!@
What sort of dumb question is this coming from a 23yr old???? Babe google is your friend.thank me later
hAHaaaahaaaa this is too funny.
LIB Readers please dont attack...lol
You re still a virgin ooo, in fact more virgin than sister Mary, ode osi, you better fuck if you want and stop thinking you're holy, finger and dick na same thing ooo.
btw, you wouldn't stay "virgined" for much longer, you have started enjoying things you shouldnt
Lol,nne I was once there, that was why I decied to disvirgin because. When you say you are a virgin, but you romance finger and suck penis, he sucks your breast na sex pls let's not stop deciving ourselves and not God, but dear why not we stirck to our decisions pls don't let devil to take contorl, men are just the devil we see in terms of sex, but my own different because I want to a free person for a personal reasons, God will help you ok
If your hymen is broken, then you're not.
Don't deceived yourself you are deflowered already because that layer or skin that covered your vagina had tore off which differantiate virgin and disvirgin. I m sorry my dear welcome to the world of escapedes
No u re not
one more thing, one day while u are enjoying the finger, something else will slip in ROTFL
Once d hymen is nt there u are no longer a virgin. Bt u can still go to hospital doctors will b in a better position to tell u if u re still one.
In d Sight of God, I ve my doubts. Buh for me, u r still a virgin. Buh stop d fingering if nt u won't feel like a virgin wen u eventually have Ur first sex.
You are not serious. Why go sweet sensation we you r not buying anything.
You are not serious. Why go sweet sensation we you r not buying anything.
My frnd go a get f**ckd.....yo ain't no virgin anymore......even if u did d fingering yoself owk?
Of course, you are. But be careful, one thing leads to another. Never trust guys of these days. He'll only use you and dump you
you are still a virgin...only when you 'know' a man do you become disflowered.
a broken hymen (if that happened) doesnt mean loss of virginity.
stay a vigin phew.
#inspired
if he used his finger to break ur hymen forget it...mind u nt all virgins produces blood wen d hymen breaks
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Mumu, ode, ask again. Ashamuge foool. Stupid liar. U re as rotten as a maggot. Pls Linda post sensible things. Haba. Story don finish. Kai
Question is'are you still considered stupid'?
No you are Not
Mtchewwwwwwwww!!!! Goan ask ur mother...Linda next gist abeg :|
No! Maybe you should be considered dumb
Stop fooling yourself ...
Stop fooling yourself...
Linda do u know what thing with you , when it comes in your own issue you go just find tone it so that you go sound like better person abi, No no even write your name for your, for your new line, na only God know your real kind of person, anyways congrats to you. Dera mi
Nah nah! Ure nt girlfrnd. Why wud u allow him finger u?
My Dear, Ask Google!
Doctors in Τ̣̣ђё house,pls answer her
OYO
yup, still very much a virgin..unless you bled from the fingering(very unlikely).
Check wiv yur doc
Mtchew qo n ask ur moda idiat
See question!! So wait ooh,do Ʊ thnk within ursef dat Ʊ r still a virgin??abegi,still fooln ur sef,so if Ʊ have oral sex nw,Ʊ will still thnk dat Ʊ r a virgin???
Amicable
as soo
Liar. At 23years. If sincere, you are a big fool. Olodo
If your hymen is broken, then probably not.
Infact na u b MARY (naija version)idiot
if no blood u are, but y will u even think of allowing him to finger u dat wrong and ow did he enjoy like dat rubbish.
if u ask me, na who I go ask???
What does virginity mean to you dear. The fact that you have a boyfriend who you have allowed to be intimate with you contradicts your virginity logic. You are not innocent, try and be true to yourself. Stop deceiving yourself.
Lol in chinese.... Dats 1 big question 4 d gods, or beta still, google am
U allowed ur guy finger fuck u#surprise#mtcheeeeeeEeeeeew .ibeere ofo.
Smh for u,ur case is a pity case.mtcheeeeeeeeew
Lips sealed
U just got busted
Err...finger u how? Did his finger really go in der? Ewww! Well I'm guessing ur hymen is still intact so technically, u're still a virgin
Linda dear pls post my coMment
Virgin ok , vagabond ni!!!
Which kin question b this,mshewwwww
Mtchewww...I beg comot for road make I see front!!! Wat nxt naaa
U allowed ur guy finger fuck u#surprise#mtcheeeeeeEeeeeew .ibeere ofo.
ur no mor a v**gin dear,,,ur a tyt pussy gal*wink*
How many fingers did he put? Lmao
Which kin question b this,mshewwwww
Not at all bitch...#CFC #firsttocomment
Haha haha hahaha Lmao......this is so funny. Go ask a doctor. Hope u dont meet a male doc that would want to test to know with his d**k coz u r not sure with finger. Loooooolllllllll
Nope
If he put all of 5 fingers in you then u are a virgin....if it was just one finger...your Congo is now open like 3rd mainland bridge on a low traffic day!!!
Sex Master!
Chances are that ur hymen may not be intact anymore!
Yes Ʊ re, cos its not as big as di*k. It just 4 pleasure.
Call ♏є gbemmiesola
Ashawo girl ur not a virgin!! Ur just a bitch like me#pretender#
Blood cum out? If yes, u don disvirgin be dat. U welcum
I swear to God u are a leaner.... *Rotfl*
U're a partial virgin
Ask your Father.....
Its possible u aren't anymore cos d hymen can't only b broken by real sex.if he did finger u deep its possible he broke d hymen n u aren't a virgin a anymore.bt u can stil b a secondary virgin cos u'l definitely stil b tight down dere!!!
Nope dear
Yes LIB reader you are, except he fingered you so hard that your hymen broke n u bled
See JAMB question o!
50 50 chances is wat yu ave
lolzooo nmtchew biko a fingers don't disvirgin people
U̶̲̥̅̊ are simply a primary virgin....
You still have a first grade fairly use
Lmao loll linda I no u were laffin at ursef while u were posting dis post. Jus too funny . U 4 reply d person personally 2 save her 4rm insults
Am sory girl,u r no more a virgin.as he as finger u d hymen dat cover some part of ur vagina av brake already.not every1 sees blood after dey av been disvirgin.so don't count yourself as a virgin again. No matter d level of lov u av 4 him u shouldn't av allow him to finger u.good lock
Hehehehe, som stories n questions sha. Erm, jst let him continue d fingering, then allow him graduate 2 d next level. Then com n ask us, we'll b able 2 answer better.
Yes u r...but wait babe u rude oh...
Yes you are
Hehhehehehhehehhe,let's hear frm d LIBers
Nah wah for dis girl..abi d guy finger nah penis..nah so e big..lol...or en finger dey pregnant girls...
No you are not....idiot
Breeee
Lmao ur really funny...disjust made my dAy
No b only finger u...ashewo
Breee
U r still a virgin......the hymen isn't ruptured
Whats d difference btw fingering and penitrating u with his nduka?.. Let ur no be no!! I believe ur still a virgin cus his finger won't do much harm!! Pls wait for the right time dear if u can!! Its worth it!! Onwegi uru di na isi azu!!
No ma, u are now a "Vargin" no more a Virgin! Ask anoda question!
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! WHAT A STUPID STORY???? JUST TO DRIVE TRAFFIC ABI? RUBBISH!
No,It is still penetration.
Of cause yes!
In scientific terms no your not. Your Hyman was ruptured by a finger. In societal terms your still a Virgin till actual penal penetration. So how ever you want to see it. Dump that dude and wait to find someone who actually wants to marry a Virgin.
Virginity is of the spirit......it means an abstinence from any for of sexual/intimate actvities.....if it was just ''finger'' according to you, then you are medically a virgin, but spiritually and psychologically, you've lost that dignity!!! Sorry! But you shouldn't have fallen for the pressure......in a relationship of love, contentment with being together is the foundation.........RELATIONSHIP is not EMPLOYMENT, so don't give or as for SEX as compensation/allowances......hmm..
Yes dr. Ure still a virgina.
You are but don't let him do it again. You've come this far by giving honor to God and saving yourself to marriage. Don't let the devil win the battle you've been fighting for 23 years in just one minute of pleasure. And besides sex is not all what it's cracked up to be. Stay strong sister!
U are no more a virgin since he fingered u
Big no!! U are not a virgin....since he has started fingering u, just allow him to insert his rod because there is no different between fingering and dick penetration, jst as there is no different between small and big sin. so my dear, start having the real fun because u are into it already. This is my kindly advice is either u take it or leave it.
Nooo. Mumu
Honey don't fret. You're still a virgin until your hymen gets broken which would be as a result of penetration. In fact when u lose your virginity no one would tell u. We've all been there, done that (well except you). Enjoy yourself
she is no more a virgin,
I hate it when som girls try to pretend like he never digged farther nonsense# no man wants a virgin again allow him fuck u or better still u can bring ur stuffs so that I can do it with my toys#love bitches# team lesbo
U̶̲̥̅̊ Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ nt a virgin anymore
Français?
Sounds fictitious 2 me. Sortta like child's play. KMT
*drinks fura da nono*
Not at all
Lool ain't u just foolish. Wat a stupid question of course ur nt a virgin cos there is no way u can be fingered if ustill are. Well I advice u go see a doctor if ur skeptical about it. Good luck 2 u on dat!
Yes Dear, your still a virgin .. he didnt break your hymen yet, your hymen can only be broken through peneration of a penis. so you are good girl.
Next gist pls!!
Pls u re nt a virgin again, same thing happened 2 me,I was ashamed of mysef after my first incident
Yes u are.
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She Should go 2 Pastor Christ TB Joshua 4 More deliverance@iam_seniorboy
U re a clown
U must be a fool for asking dis kinda question... attention seeker oshii. .
Mtscheew. .#stirs akamu
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No, aw did d finger entered?
It depends on how deep his finger penetrated ur vir**na
U r nt a virgin,the guy don dey port u small small.......
Wtf!!! Wat was dat u did?? While he did dat, did u bleed? If yes, den ure not a virgin
Biologically, No! Technically, Yes!
Looooool..... orisirisi wey we dey hear for lib!
There is so much 2 sex not jux penetration of penis in2 d vagina.If u r a virgin dont do what u cannot do in an open place with ur partner.But with or without virginity u can still live ur dreams....PeAcE
No u are not! u are good as anybody who has had sex with a small penis(finger size)
My dear, if u experience slight blood out of ur private part during or after d fingering, i regret to tell u *in denrele's voice* dat u aren't a virgin anymore.
Questionnaire!
At 23 you still dey ask this kind question. Don't be dumb and stupid, you are no more a virgin *ThatFunctionGuy*
Funny you
After marriage abi after wedding? Thank me later #Bee#
How are we not sure u 've not had the real s*x??
This one ur asking wheather ur still a Virgin!! SMH.
~~Marilyn
If ur hymen isn't broken then technically u r... but in Gods eyes am not sure.... bcos r u keeping ur virginity 4 ur husband or bcos u love & obey God?
Also, if he loves u dat much y cant he marry u? If he's not ready, then maybe h
NO IDIOT..
Lack news?...or just for trafik sake?
Oh dear..no ure nt..virginity simply means anytin in its natural state..
irooooh
VIRGIN OF DESTINY. That's all
If there ıs sign of blood there iz d probability dat Ʊ are deflowered..ıt cud be faint blood though or if Ʊ felt a slight pain.
If there ıs sign of blood there iz d probability dat Ʊ are deflowered..ıt cud be faint blood though or if Ʊ felt a slight pain.
Which kin stupid question be this o jesus o Nazareth?
QUESTION #angrylook#
What a schmuck! As long as there has been penetration...it is immaterial if it is by finger, dildo, vibrator or penis. You ain't a virgin no more. Se fini?
You r a fucking sinner!
LMAO, this is some funny shiiiii....
Madam,please go and have sex and leave this virginity thing, that's how you ll marry now, and won't be able to perform. Your husband ll come here and b disturbing our ears that u sleep off during sex....better do d mater and perfect it with a man u like/love whatever...not having sex doesn't make u a good person ,ur heart does! mbok ,use protection o....#okbye
U b big mumu,do u wan to tell us dat u ddnt do biology in ur ss or u are jst a big fool?
no
How can u say as old as u are u dnt knw if a gal is disvirgin or nt?ewww
Why did you allow him τ̅☺ finger you as Ƒσя me I dnt consider you as a virgin again I A̶̲̥̅♏ a married woman M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ hubby finger me from there show dnt start be that oooo as a man finger you he has also enter you be that. M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dear you shldnt hv allow him or wide your legs Ƒσя him τ̅☺ finger you when doing that did you hv a blood stain as a virgin U̶̲̥̅̊ r sorry dear U̶̲̥̅̊ r no longer a virgin. By name happiness
U still a virgin
Capital NO
Hmmm. Rubbish
Foolish vergins...Deceptions...Am I gona eat verginity.No big deal abot dis vergin tinzzzz.Vergin kor vagina ni
Google is ur frnd
$$k@y$$
Virgin Ofia AKA WILD VIRGIN! ANU!
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ODE..that's how it starts..be there vowing..very soon he will threaten to break up with u if u dont let him have sex with u and u will do it
Mr man....before insulting people check your spellings...at least poster can spell VIRGIN correctly.smh
Virgin It's a celibacy ring. It means she's gon'
abstain 4rm sex till marriage.
must see:-naked photos of female banker
who fucked customer to open bank
account exposed (18+ only) see photo here
I don't think so...kindly visit your doctor for medical check up...they a®Ü the one that can provide γ̥
☺u good answer to your question
Ok na.
If d hymen z broken, nt possible
Meet the 67 year old woman who rubs sperm on her face to prevent ageing
How many fingers did he use?
viegin or no virgin, you are OYO.
Linda, be like you still never hear say Bowen don dey on fire for almost 2 hours #riot #chaos
chil is posrible u re stil one. If dia is no blood shed nd u nid tn be kiaful
First class mumu, bcos of my love for him #inlilwinsvoice#,ladies n been stupid @ times annoys me, jst open it for him to enter, u allowd a guy to finger u, den wetin remain na, u ma want d tin bt u're pretendn, a guy dat will want to b intimate with u, is not a good material, love doesn't come with sex, b4 u make d mistake of ur life. Mtscheew n d mumu is askn us stupid Q?
Lol!!!
yes u are.. but what u really re is a 23 year old fool.. dont u have brothers????
No , but u're still stupid .... . Linda on to d next joh ! U don't knw kids visit diz blogs ba ?
@totallytatted
Oversabi teach us ooo, only u go school
Babe why did you choose to deceived people. You allowed him to finger you and you enjoys it,to sex with penis and to roll your clitoris and deep in his finger there is no different. In university days I had a friend who refused sex but happily enjoy fingering, I latter discovered that she was a lesbian so don't deceived us, you are into lesbianism.
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Really!linda?what kind of stupid question did you just post now,the fact people can be stupidly ignorant is appalling to me and i also d fact dat they are willing to share their stupidity on the internet is baffling.Listen to yourself,does fingering sound like copulation or sex to you,pls linda ignore dis type of stupid question.Abeg
LOL, abi o
You are really stupid sense when is sex a bad thing what are you a kid and am sure you are not a v so why insult someone else
dont mind all this mumu's jare your still a virgin
Fingering hahaha, ma first tym 2 but i use condom, still a virgin abi am i not?
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Lmao!!! Linda at times I think you make this things up to make us laugh cause this is so silly. She should have found out if she would still be a virgin if she allows the fingering not after.. This is ludicrous. BYE FOR NOW
It depends. Did he break your hymen in the process? Did you bleed a little? Disvirgining one often requires penile penetration. You could still be considered a "virgin" in your case.
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I swr this is the 'gbamest' comment here menh!!!!! Lwkmd, my dear,Obago oh!!!!
HIV infested being like u, lookin fo ways to spread d virus right? U av failed .. Ure a shame to womanhood
You're an idiot! I can't believe you'd rather ask Linda Ikeji and her secondary school readers and commenters about such a sensitive topic rather than going to see a gynaecologist or GP. Big Fool. Your story is now a means of entertainment and joke to the public.
This blog is bull crap, we gats beg for comments to be visible! Dropped up to 50 comments, ain't seen one....keep showing "comment will be visible after approval" nonsense
Five fingers..lol
What about tampons?! Fool.
ZZ
I don't see how letting him finger you becomes intimacy tho...
why
if u ask me na who i go ask?
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CAN'T BELIEVE THIS!
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i think in medical terms you are still a virgin because the hymen probably hasn't been broken but in my opinion, a virgin is someone who hasn't been touched down there by finger, penis or any form of penetration. soo to me, no you are not a virgin
Hahahaha
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