A six-page suicide letter was found by Jiah's mother at their home a few days after the suicide and has been released to the police and the press. In the letter, Jiah blamed her boyfriend for ruining her life, cheating on her and forcing her to abort their child.
Jiah's ex-boyfriend, 21 year old Suraj Pancholi, the son of famous Bollywood actors Aditya Pancholi and Zarina Wahab, was arrested yesterday Monday June 10th, on suspicion of abetting her suicide.
Suraj, (pictured above leaving a court house after his arrest) had ended things with Jiah just weeks before she killed herself. Read Jiah's heartbreaking suicide note after the jump...
These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I've never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. You returned my love with cheating and lies.
It didn't matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely.
When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. I don't know why destiny brought us together.
After all the pain, the rape, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn't deserve this. I didn't see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically.
Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you.
So, I am kissing my 10-year career and dreams goodbye. I never went with anyone else. I am a loyal person. No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood...
You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents... You never appreciated my love, kicked me in the face... The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you.
I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply... I wish you had loved me like I loved you... I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again...'
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 362 of 362silly silly silly girl! Well now he'll hv time to cheat well WHEN they release him. Hw can a 25yr old woman try to settle a 21 yr old BOY?!
Obviously she ddnt love herself cos if she did she wont tk her own life.
LESSON- dnt ever let a man validate you. Love yourself
She should have seek help and advice before taking her life..maybe everytin would have been OK...bur it too late now
I feel for her but she shouldn't av allowed the devil played with her emotions.....committing sucked is not ordinary bt the devil is always around to tell you just do it....the only thn I blame the guy for and I won't mind him going to jail for is the torture and battering.....is she ur daughter that you have to beat her.? May her soul rest in peace n d fact she had no one to encourage her is somethn else.. So sad...I wonder ow many women around the world r going tru ds....pls lets make the world a better place
LO BA TAN O!!!
Na wa o! She should have found things that would keep her mind off him or relocated to a place she can start afresh but I guess she was too weak to do dat. I blame her family for not seein tru her pain and cheering her up. Women learn a lesson frm dis; stay away frm younger guys, they'll bring u nothin but pain and heartbreak.
Na wa o! She should have found things that will keep her mind off him or relocated to a place she can start afresh but I guess she was too weak to do dat. I blame her family for not seein tru her pain and cheering her up. Women learn a lesson frm dis; stay away frm younger guys, they'll bring u nothin but pain and heartbreak.
Nne u dull me, haba come nija now! where every gurl get a dose of heart breaks even in marriage and they still stand and become gr*, i look at what happens in nigeria and always lift african women high in esteem especially Nigeria women cos they are thick,even women do same to men no excuse nne. just go judge yah case for Baba God's hand. RIP
I wonder what sorta minds some people got!!!suicide loun loun!
I keep telling my friends walk away from any abusive relationship even if its verbal abuse don't make excuses for any body walk away! Most abusive marriage starts in relationship when u see the signs don't go into marriage with hope that the person will change pleaseee. Don't settle every human being deserve the best.
This should go down as the stupidest suicide of all time. I'm sorry, but she should go straight to hell. She had everything that other people would kill for; young, beautiful, rich, and she gave that all up because of a guy??? Insane.
***Twizzy****
It is a pity she has to go this way, but the guy in question is still a Boy. May her soul RIP.
I still don't get why a lady will want to kill herself over a man for crying out loud.even marriages don't come with any guarantees dat it won't fail so why kill urself? If d guy treated her badly she shuld ve just dealt with him big time nd moved on.am not saying heartbreaks don't hurt but they re not worth dying for too.am sad for her pain but angry at her foolishness.well I pray God forgives her nd give her d peace she seeks.
Shit happens, but why suicide. She would have killed him instead.
All these people calling her STUPID and all other things are very ignorant.
This woman has a history of being hurt and this was just too much for her to handle.
We aren't in her shoes so it isn't our place to judge her.
In depression it can be difficult to see reason, and life can lose its meaning.
People handle pain differently. Some people just can't manage it.
RIP Lady, I hope you find the rest and love you crave.
Wow, what can i say?
Killing yourself for a man?
We all have different sensitivities and like she said "She lost herself".
That's what usually happens when u lose yourself to something/someone. At the end of the day, u come out of it unfulfilled and those who do not have the emotional strength to move on usually end like this if they are not quickly helped.
You call that IDOLATRY.It means that thing has taken the place of God in your life and has become your god.
It confirms one thing: GOD IS THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DISSAPPOINT.
When you rely on God, no matter what happens, i repeat,NO MATTER what happens, what u go thru, God will always make a way for u and u will come out wiser, uplifted and stronger and ALIVE, not dead.
Do not let anything nor anyone take the place of God in your life because when it shall (and it shall)fail you, you will have no support system to hold you through and you will eventually end up like this poor gal. Was it worth it?
Hahahaha,its d hair dat hurts u most oo,I feel u jare,I nor mind too.....india people can love sha,so wot we see in film is real?
What a painful way to go, I sympathised with her family, its very unfortunate she ended it this way, may her soul rest in peace. As for the guy, doubt if he will ever know any peace throughout his lifetime again. Heartbreakers! BEWARE
@Anon 11:18 May the soul of ur sis continue to rest in peace, i know a whole lot of peeps too who would give anytin to still be alive. the only tin dat is sad about her death is her hair abeg, she for cut d hair before she die na.
I won't start bashing this dead girl cos i don't know what was in her relationship nor what was in her mind. But the question i ask is this:
Was it worth it?
She should have come to Africa;
What have we not seen nor gone through in this continent,she should have seen how people in position of authority treat their fellow brothers here. I 'm not talking about the white colonialist, i'm talking about an African on how he is treating a fellow african. Even among family members.But we still live our lives fully and we manage to laugh and sing when there's nothing to be joyful about.
I would have requested that she reads and researches on the history of the Hebrews/Jews and how they suffered unbearable tortures for uncountable generations to be where they are today.
These two groups of remarkable people have a thing in common: RESILIENCE; The power to rise even in the midst of the most crushing hardships.
She should have come down here to take some classes.
And i would have repeated the same question :
DARLING, is it worth it?
But it's too late now...too bad.
all i can say is 'this pretty girl is dead?'
Her death is'nt written well. I pray to die well.
so sad, the guy is not worth it, infact no man is worth dying for. its a pity.
I thought indians don't commit fornication?!!!
i beg i no fit kill mysef o. nbanu! i av bn suffering since time immemorial. yet i like it here on diz planet. am alive, there is hope. i got married as a v,now wt 2 kids yet d only man i av ever known no dey appreciate me. i av learnt to luv mysef bcos dying wont solve it. my belief now is dat man will always be man(insatiable). shout out to all females, pls decide to be happy.
Anon 12.16, you are right.
Everybody is here judging her, nut they do not understand what it means to suffer depression. Everything becomes meaningless to you. You lose the essence of life and feel like you should just end all the misery.
It is even worse in countries like Nigeria, China, India where we have strong traditions and it is difficult for people to express their pains.
I pray none of you judges experience depression IJN.
When heartbreak overwhelms someone, this could be the result. Our lives would be better if we know what will fail at the end from the beginning, one just have guide his/her heart with all diligence for out of it is the wellbeing of life.
Pls I don't get to see any photos on dis blog since yesterday,jst blank photo spaces.pls help
extremely sad. what an un-reciprocated love can do!! Love is pain and its more painful when you love the wrong one right.
Suicide should never be a solution or the easy way out of a heartbreak. The silly boy will just regret for few weeks and move on. nonsense!!!
no excuse is good enough fr a suicide...
She killed herself over a man, sigh, some women are just born foolish. No man is worth you dying for, those who have ears let them hear oh! na your family go lose and the man go continue his life without you. Love no be by force,
Well this is really sad to hear.I don't think there is a man in this hole world to kill yourself for,at least she should have looked at what she has achieved and look back at who she used to be and try getting herself back we all no what God says about taking your own life so plz if not for any other reason we ladies should always try to make ourself happy i have had (8) and of them married me why didn't i kill myself
What do you get when you fall in love?
What do you get when you fall in love?
Sad, but it's not worth committing suicide over a guy that refuses to reciprocate love. Moreover the guy is too young, he doesn't really know what life entails. How I wish she confided in her family or friends before committing suicide am sure one or two persons would have talk sense into her. It's just unfortunate!
This love is dangerous o if handled by immature persons.Rip Pretty lady
What a painful way to go, I sympathised with her family, its very unfortunate she ended it this way, may her soul rest in peace. As for the guy, doubt if he will ever know any peace throughout his lifetime again. Heartbreakers! BEWARE
No matter,d situation,she shd not hv killed herself,afterall she has money and their r many fyn guys out there,she can fall in love with again and live her life 2 full.HELL FIRE!!!
Dough dose reasons were not enough 4 her 2 take her life. But we also need to realize dat every individual has got their dere limit. Some Persons are so soft & tender in dere & can hardly handle issues of d heart strongly.
REST IN PEACE BEAUTIFUL ONE.#ITS A PITY
JOY
So sad!I would never think of dying because of any guy in this world,NEVER!he should die instead.
RIP dear!!!!that was deep!!!
Hmmm.. R.I.P.. The guy is only 21 though! He is a child! Kill yourself because of a man?..
Linda late comer. Why posting this now. I've already seen it on one blog like that. In fact the blog is following her death issue as if she\he comes from India lol. I will search for it, and send you the link.
Its very obvious that that lady in question is a freak!
Its no doubt that she was hurt by the guy but in my opinion its no reason to commit suicide. People have gone through worse things and are still determined to live life to the fullest. Why would I want to end my life for a guy who does not care for me and who treated me wrong? I will rather pick myself up and be more determined in life to succeed and be happy and just let karma deal with him. It's so sad.
waisted her life and killed herself for nothing.scheeewww
So sad!Death is permanent darkness,she shouldn't have taken her life.Cheating is not a new thing,most men do it like its going out of fashion.She shld have ignored him and surrounded herself with pple that make her happy.May God have mercy on her!
Like seriously, why would a person think of taking her own life cos of a man, She had her mother and sister to live for... Moreso she would have been much happier if she did not abort the baby...Seriously guys should stop being selfish and be reasonable with their decisions, so many ladies have ended in the psychiatric home all in d name of "LOVE" and so many women have given up on life because of men....This suffocating love na wa oooo, If a guy says he is no longer interested in the relationship let him GO!! He is just a Volkswagen in ur life, ur Limousine is coming..Abeg joor
Hehehe the hair was my first thought also. the letter is so full of insecurities .Why would you live your life for any one else but yourself?!! No now you don't sleep on cos suicide is a sin as it shows you don't love yourself enough...so then how can you love someone else..mere lust!! Committing suicide cos of a man that doesn't even love you and you forcing yourself on him is just totally stupid.This note isn't heartbreaking ...it only makes me so pissed that some women still feel they need to have a man no matter how irresponsible he is ,to be whole!!
RIP, its so sad. there was a reason man was created first before the woman. it is so he can get experience and lead the lady. the first mistake was loving someone your are older than. I mean he is just 21 years, still a baby, you can't expect that level of commitment and affection from a boy,I mean they probably started dating when he was a teenager(19years) and believe me all teenagers are just interested in women money and fast lifestyles
Gosh_ u need a pastor for prayers! Are u dat heartless too?
Mogbe!!!kill ur sef cos of a man!!ma bf of 4yrs woke up one morning nd told me over d phone dat he doesn't love me like I love him nd here I am today strong hapi nd alive!y would I kill maself over a man.oyibo pple sha.nne RIP oh.
It's not right to toy about with people's feeling. We may appear strong, stable and indifferent on the outside, but we all have different levels of sensitivity on the inside.
Love is like a fire, if u can't handle it, do not light up.
Hehehe the hair was my first thought also. the letter is so full of insecurities .Why would you live your life for any one else but yourself?!! No now you don't sleep on cos suicide is a sin as it shows you don't love yourself enough...so then how can you love someone else..mere lust!! Committing suicide cos of a man that doesn't even love you and you forcing yourself on him is just totally stupid.This note isn't heartbreaking ...it only makes me so pissed that some women still feel they need to have a man no matter how irresponsible he is ,to be whole!!
she's so stupid n dumb sniped d life off herself, he never gave a button hook abt u while u had air running through ur lungs, wht makes u think he will be touched by ur dumb letter.. hey! gurl, u thought you passed thru hell dating him..?? naa! ur wrong, wait until you get to d real HELL (HADES) tht awaits all wrong doers n suicide partakers like u.. (laffin in Mbaise).. dont know when ppl will start learning.. well, thank u for helping de-congest this already sick planet off one dumb lady.. bush meat like you, come Naija n meet d real super ladies.. strong as steel, and even in d face of strong winds, they still stand firm like Iroko trees.. Its such a pity this had to be my first ever comment on this Blog.. and hey! Linda, when a fan of urs writes 2 ur fb inbox, d least u can do is let him knw u got his msg.. ppl like me made u relevant.. PS Naija's thickest saddest
How she fell in love with such person is what baffles me, may God have mercy on your soul.And there are good men out there that deserves this angel.
Roflol. Ur not well ooo, so na only d hair pain u? Lol. Funi u. Its a pity, she didn't have to die.
That dude should rot in jail. If I can see a babe that can even do half of what the lady did I will so worship her like a small god. SMH
That dude should rot in jail. If I can see a babe that can even do half of what the lady did I will so worship her like a small god. SMH
Pls I don't get to see any photos on dis blog since yesterday,jst blank photo spaces.pls help
Sad much
Sad much
Sad much
indians are emotional just like there movies,the girl die for love other girls should follow in her step.
What do u expect from a 21 year old kid? He shld raise d kid? Haaaa na long tin o! 25 year old shld nt be datin a 21 year and expectn a future! Shoooo? He is a kid! So sad sha
Indians like suicide too much mhen !
And it looks like their religion doesn't forbid it . Am not surprised bcos in India a lady can commit suicide if She is mocked about no completely paying her bride price. Shame shame !
Can I get ur contact(mail) pls bro?? I'm so depressed.
Jiah I knw u are dead and like dey say respect d dead...but sorry to say you are a stupid soul. Committing suicide won't allow u av dat peace u r searching for. On dat note, r.i.p or R.I.P!
RIP.... But i feel u killed yourself because u want to be pitied when u r gone ...a 21 yr old guy is too young for the type of comittment u had always wanted...So u gave up your life and your family all in the name of heartbreak...You had a dream but you betrayed that dream by taking your own life...Someone who dreams a lot have to be very strong and focus and sometimes less emotional....Now u lost in every aspect...I feel bad for you deep down but honestly u went too far!!! RIP once again
It's unfortunate but for us alive self value is very important hw do u give ur all to someone without having some value for who u r to ur self secondly never allow urself to b clouded with thinking someone else ll never love u ladies nutting is worth committing suicide for dia is so much to life if she hd jus look inside
linda pls find out what happens to a Nigerian oil tycoon Michael prest who lost all his property to his british ex wife and bring here..very sad
This thing we call "love" na serious affair o. And the level of maturity of every individual differs. This is why we should all grow up and learn from our mistakes. Yet we cannot all be perfect. It's only by God's grace. This is very pathetic! RIP.
She dey mad, guys wey love her she no love them in return, na to love this fool wey no love her. Now she come kill herself, she be idiot.
You took the words right out of my mouth. The guy is 21, at the peak of his life. Partying and women is all he wants to do not settle down. That's normal for every man his age. May her soul rest in peace.
Touhing story... but taking her own life is never the right decision. i understand the fact that people might be so engrossed in relationships but everything have a limit. its so sad.... Talking her own life was wrong. Thank you
Pardon me if i am harsh but abuse happens every day. What normal people do is to break up and find someone more worthy! By killing yourself because of a man you glaringly admit isn't worth it, have you not displayed that you have not gotten out of his clutches? Suicide is never excusable...especially when it involves a topic as frivolous as this!
So sad! Even with all her fame, she still believed in love and regarded his love(man) above all things. Revise is the case in Naija where our young ladies now believe in single parenting.
RIP Jiah! Heaven is sure for you. It is better to die than living deadly.
indian film story playing out in real life.all about love and cheating.sunita rest in peace
In my usual way I am tempted to say no man is worth the stress but then I am struggling to imagine what this girl was feeling. Her note is so deep and touching. I won't be a judge, I will just say Rip, NEither will I blame the guy cos she had the choice of leaving him. Hmm...deep stuff. I can only thank God fr this heart of mine he has given to me. I have always said girls should love with their head and brains, just to avoid this kind of hopeless situations. RIP Jiah
That hair gist totally tore me up. And while I feel sympathy for the girls family i should state that I feel nothing lyk that for her. The dude is 21, she was 25 so should be the one breaking his frigging heart.nyways... RIP
She Just Acted A movie.
She is not in her right frame of mind. A 21 years old boy controlling the life of a 25 years old lady......
the girl is an imbecile.
Well is not a new thing when it come to indian people to commit suicide on love matter...........
We have seen that on so many bollywood movie, but u really confuse me that all those films are for real........
Sharuh khan, hrithik roshan, akshay khumar, salman khan, amthab batcha, saheed kapoor, aiswar rya, kareena kapoor, kate, priyanka copra, pretty zinta and so on.........the girl practice what u are doing in the movie or what she did on her last movie
Gush..... such a beauty wasted •••••may she rest in peace....... ***sad***
Indians love suicide. Shame but true.
Sad, such a pretty girl and so full of life... Heart break could really make I do alot of harm to ur self .
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R I P pretty ..But she is not meant to sucidie her self coz she is not God .R I P once small
The lesson I have learnt about LOVE....Dont cast your pearl to the swine cause they will trample on it...Stop trying to change people when you know they are destroying you.....U cant make a silk purse out of a pig's ear.
na wa o, never knew love could be this blind, anyway i cannot say this is love but lost.
plssss post my comment linda i need help i cant function or do anything too this is my 3rd trial well this isnt a good time for me my girl just left me for an american army sgt when i asked her this was what she said what is between me and dave should not be in our discussion because that's my private life now. However you think about the both of us is allowed because that's your opinion and shouldn't be altered.I have a conscience and a heartWhen I mentioned Dave being private, I meant let's not have to include him. He is an old feeling of three years and a second chance for the both of us. I don't know how you see that and that's fine however way you view it. Its just not worth being enemies over something that's past.like I said earlier we are as good as the Friends we were. Don't be a stranger.....after 2 years thats what i got...Amazing right??
Despression is a very bad disease...RIP
it so pathetic,guys are not worth all this trouble,may God help us all.may her soul rest in peace.
OOH MY GOD I CRY AND CRY AND CRY
JESU YOU DID NO HAVE TOO GO THIS WAY BEAUTIFUL
ANYWAY I AM CHRISTIAN I DO KNOW WHAT TO SAY HER
RIP BEAUTIFUL
Ur not only stupid, d reason u took d life God gave u is dat u don't know God,no man is worth ur life is stupid. U turned a 21 year old boy to and idol and virtually worshipped him. Why won't he disappoint u? He will cos he is mere man. I wish u knew God, he makes all things beautiful. U tot u where acting bollywood. He is 21 for crying out loud, sowing his wild oath and tooo young for a commitment. So sorry dear! May d Lord have mercy on you. SMH
Na the hair matter pian me toon by now I go dey answerpeople where get india her stupid gal
na waaaa oooo may God punish satan
Fool, i can cry for you or pray for a useless gal like you, from your letter i can see that, the man don't love you, but you insisted(Buying things for his sister etc. and what you did shows the world you don't love your family, eg YourLOING and Caring Mum and Sister You mentioned in your Gridy Blood letter. You Deserved Mothen that my sister. Finally,i want the general populance to know, what Gals use to do for the Men is fer greater then what makes her to kill her self. If i have an opportunity i will do thasame. Your soul will never rest in peace since you don't consider your Mom before you Kill your Self.
Debola Tems, is dat you??? Cos dis story sounds too much like your story. Wanna kill ursef cos of a girl. Ode!!
HAVING THESE INTENSE LUSTFUL FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE ELSE IS NOT LOVE BUT FROM THE PITS OF HELL...HAVE WE LOVED OUR LORD JESUS THIS INTENSELY??...GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS THEN YOU CAN EXPERIENCE THE MOST UNCONDITIONAL ABSOLUTE LOVE THAT IS OVERFLOWING...HE IS THE RIVER OF LIFE......WITHOUT THE LORD LIFE IS MEANINGLESS..NO AMT OF BOYFRIENDS, MATERIAL THINGS PERUVIAN HAIR, LEKKI HOUSES, DOLLARS, YEN, EUROS WILL EVER FILL THE VOID.....YOU SHOULDNT FEEL SO STRONGLY FOR ANYTHING OR YOUR FELLOW HUMAN THAT WILL INSTIGATE U TO TAKE UR LIFE....
REPENT BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN THE SAME SITUATION AND GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE MESSIAH, THE PRINCE OF PEACE, THE ROSE OF SHARON, THE BRIGHT AND MORNING STAR..HE IS ALL U NEED!!!
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (First John chapter 1, verse 9)
The girl na fool...na only the boy dey this world abi she neva break person hrt before...she should rot in hell abeg.
Na the girl useless...killing urself over a man without considering ur folks...no be people hrt she break so. Mtcheeeww
So sad. This might as well be an open letter to Lagosian boys. What a permanent action for a temporary emotion! No matter how long it took she was have gotten over it. The heart is stronger than people give it credit.
@anon 11.44 Nawa for u oh...lolz...ooops..am nt supose to laff...somebody died.
Bt ds girl na yeye girl oh...y would u kill urseld ova ur younga broda...complete Mumu...mtchew...am sure u re regretting ur decision now...and y did dy arrest d guy? na hin kill am ni?? Mtchew
i hope this guy is ready for what is going to come at him
Pls y'all shud stop abusin d boy since u hav nt heard d guy's side f d story and 4 all u ladies lovin foolishly pls remember your worth if a guy does nt luv u doesnt mean anoda guy wnt luv u so stop forcin urself on sm1 who is nt worth u let alone committing suicide dats d most stupid tin 2 do. Sm f u ladies dnt bliv we all hav our match u just meet a guy ad inside u it's d guy or no1 else wen dere is anoda guy who is ready 2 treat u lyk a queen so pls wake up 4rm your slumber ad stop foolin urself wit a worthless guy*angryface* oje
it is a shame that he treated her sooo wrongly..but it was also selfish of her to have taken her life...not thinking of her sister,mother or loved ones.
Seriously, as in seriously !!!!! why the heck did she do this for? Such a pretty lovely girl, what a waste. Jeeez this is ridiculous abeg.
AWWCHHH....SO SADDENING...
1st may her soul rest in peace. I will not speak ill of the dead nor judge her actions. But y'all claiming she died for love are retarded. She killed herself because she was DEPRESSED. Love will never in a billion years cause you to kill yourself knowing how much pain it will be bring to those that love you. Depression caused her to kill herself and vengeance or something close to that made her leave a suicide note that will make sure the dude does not walk free (going from what i hear about the Indian legal system ).
Let's not forget dude was 21 years old!which translates to a17 year old girl from an EQ perspective. She on the other hand was 25 years old with an expected maturity beyond her years.
Hope he learns from this and his future is not destroyed by it.
K (female)
She is a Coward! Mtcheeeeew! People like her should never re incarnate! She lost in her 1st world! Big loser! U av no reason 2 take ur life! Fuck her!
If I hear say I pity her!
AWWCHHH....SO SADDENING...
Who said she will be cremated wit that hair? The hair will be removed from her head and sent straight to naija for sale. Trust me!
LIB reader EZE CHUKWUMEREZE is one fiiiiiiiine dude o!!!!!!
Chei!!!! Linda hook a sister up na. If you see this Eze , you have a soon to be revealed secret admirer.......lol
I understand what you are going through because I suffer the same. Outwardly, you will never guess. I got diagnosed and have been placed on medication. It works! There is no need to suffer needlessly my dear. Please get help and live life to the fullest.
Poor girl, she has really been through a lot. She said she suffered rape as well as other abuses. I do have tears in my eyes. Not everyone you see is as mentally strong as you. A WHOLE LOT OF PEOPLE INCLUDING NIGERIANS ARE GOING THROUGH DEPRESSION. RIP sweety
Crazy world crazy men rip lady
It's sad. If only she knew there's hope. She's just 25 when some 40yr olds have been broken so many times. I think the abortion part must have stressed her seriously. Na wa o. She wasn't born again anyway. There is hope.
LOVE UR NEIGHBOUR AS U LOVE URSELF TH BIBLE SAYS NOT LOVE UR NEIGHBOUR MORE THAN URSELF , IF U TRULY LVE URSELF U WONT TAKE UR LIFE ONLY A MAN THAT IS IGNORANT OF GOD, OF HEAAVEN AND HELL WILL TAKE HIS SOUL, ..............
May she RIP o. But seriously she ws stupid.
Its not the guy's fault,from the beginning, you would notice that he was never really into her, she had been forcing herself on that relationship, which is a problem with many women nowadays, it has been a one sided relationship. what did she expect from a young 21years old boy? if a relationship ends, its not the end of someones life. why would someone take her own life because of a relationship gone sour
This has to be ...a fake story
Anon @ 8.29. You seem to understand what depression is. Here in the uk it is treated with medication or simple counselling . This poor gal did not committ suicide because of this boy. He was just the last straw in her desperately misrable existence. Depression effects people in different ways. One symptom is withdrawal from social life, a feeling of deep seated sadness, . I wonder how this poor gal could have suffered in silents for do long, without her family noticing anything. It's very sad.
i canmaybe relate to how she felt about the guy not loving her back but kill yourself? NOOOOOO! for what. No guy is worth it ohh, you will just bring more pain and anguish to yourself to your family. Lesson to lib readers - Do not give all your love to a guy - save something for youself, love smartly, i swear love can be a bastard. Dont give in too much in a relationship, DO NOT! if the amount of efforet is not balancing out, then you are doing too much. Its better the other person does too much than for you to be the one. ALSO, MY NAIJA GIRLS OUT THERE 0- DATE RICH IF YOU CAN SO WHEN THE BREAK UP EVENTUALLY HAPPENS - WHEN YOU LOOK AT ALL THA GIFTS AND NICE THINGS HE HAS HELPED PUT IN YOUR LIFE - TRUST ME THE BRAKUP WILL BE EASIER!. No guy is worth it ohh, do not suffer for any guy. if it is not your family, nobody in the whole wild world is worth it.
I know ryt so sad :'( fell in love wt her after watchn
no one of the male gender is worth dying for....not my husband , brothers of father...well maybe when i have my son......and for all those of you calling her a cougar you are all so stupid, what is the big deal about 5 year age difference? the only thing i see her is the guy at 20 might not be ready for such intense commitment....but if he was maybe 30 and she 35 then its not a big deal
I had same experience... After 7yrs and several abortions for a man, he messed me up and married another. I was depressed. I wanted to kill myself I was too scared to do so. U can't help who u love whether he is 21or 35....never hurt someone. It took me 4yrs to come out of it and am still recovering. Funny enough he calls me now to be my friend. The good part is I am more successful than he is. And in the midst of his callousness I still faced my job and studies. It wasn't easy and I was far frm my family. I just thank God that am still alive.
Suicide is free ticket to hell pls anyone thinking of it should have a rethink.
Wat a Beautiful Girl. So Did she Feel That people Like Us wouldnt ve Cherished a Moment With Her Just for Few Minutes.?
according to the saying when there is life there is hope. what this woman did is rubbish and simple stupidity. the hero of the day is the guy because the guy lives on.
she refused to see what was ahead of her, she simply didn't know she had a new life after the bastard guy had left her.
UMMMMM ARE THESE PEOPLE OK?! HE IS 21! HE WAS DEFINITELY ON A DIFFERENT WAVE LENGTH TO HER! I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW THEY CAN ACTUALLY LAY THE BLAME ON THIS DUDE. SHE WASNT THICK SKINNED...THATS ALL!
KMT COME AND SEE MY OWN LIFE SHE WUD HAVE COMMITTED SUICIDE ALOT EARLIER KMT!
Hmmm, what a waste?????????. Dats y i trust naija babes our lives tooooo precious.
Hmmmm wat a waste. D babe just carry everytin go sha. I rilly feel 4 d babe, cause true love is smtin dat kills faster dan AIDS, u can't control it bt rather it controls u. Above all she shud nt hv taken her life, its against God's law.
All this gurl needed was christ, how could she do this, now she's going straight to hell.
There is a illness called depression. It causes irrational behaviour. A behaviour dat is alien to the person u know so well. If u know anyone behaving irrationally or unusual, please don't dismiss their behaviour and judge them harshly, do not abandon them, because this is a period in their life that they most need the help of a friend.be patient with them and help get them out of their dark period. Most depressed people would not come out and say they are depressed, in our society it is seen as an ungodly Weakness. The truth is dat so many people suffer from bouts of depression. People deal with it in different ways, some become promiscuous , some start stealing , drinking , over eating etc. so if u notice these symtoms in a loved one or relation please do the Christian thing do not judge them harshly reach out to them and help. We should all be our brothers keepers. May this poor girls soul rest in peace.
Jst sad
love is no respecter of age,size,gendal status,anything.lv s really strong nd it hurts when it is nt mutual especially when u experience it wth sm1 dt doesnt share the same feeling with u.lv can beat any1 soft like a mud.
i feel so sad about what this pretty went through,i wish she was alive,nt many pple overcm heartbreaks.i have nothing to say about the guy,he never deserved her.many pray to be lvd bt u really dont kno wat u ve lost.i wish she was alive.
This is a foolish act from the promising actress, what a life cut short . I trust my naija ninja girls... no time
This is a foolish act from the promising actress, what a life cut short . I trust my naija ninja girls... no time
And suicide was the solution? She was such a pretty person.
RIP Jiah! However, it is unthinkable to me why anyone should take his/her own life, especially due to the actions or inactions of others! Still trying not to mock the dead, judgements are not pronounced from one point of view: the guy's story may be more shocking....SO, DO NOT JUDGE! God is the only all-knowing Being.
Loool. No disrespect to this poor gal and may her soul rest in peace. Nigerians can not suffer depression because in fact we are conditioned to live in a depressed situation. Ain't nobody got time for dat!!. We are to busy struggling to Stay alive !!. Jokes apart depression is a real illness. It doesn't have to be terminal once diagnosis end early it can be treated. If left untreated it has 1 of 2 outcomes. 1 it can be terminal - unnatural death like this poor gal. 2. It can make the person immured to hardship like my smiley Nigerians.
She's a beautiful woman. If she have moved on I'm sure she's able to find a new love. Honestly, she could have a lot of chances with other guys, maybe even those not from her country. If she had stayed strong she would probably find someone better. It's quite pitiful to see someone so young die in that way...
abeg abeg, the babe is just crazy simple... cant just imagine a jealous girlfriend tufiakwu... ama flirt flirt... hnmm she was raped b4 touching, i think 80% of girls in india has been raped
stupid gal
How pathetic... Babes u shouldn't have taken your own life na! So sad!
The fact remains that he did not take her life, she did it herself, she stands responsible not him. He played a part but is not responsible. Obviously she had very low self esteem and was a control freak. Even if he was a womanizer or a beater, if she could not change him she had an option to walk away and face any other consequence, but chose not to, becoz she wanted total control, it was all or nothing to her. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I feel sorry for the both of their parents. But obviously their parents did not teach them well enough to value themselves or others. Unless she had some mental disorder, this is not an acceptable way to the monotheistic Muslim, Christian or Jewish faith, suicide is a major unjustified sin. As for the young man I hope he learnt his lesson well, to respect women, as this will hang over him for the rest of his lifetime. May God Guide Us All.
VERY SAD CASE BUT SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE COMMITTED SUICIDE BECAUSE OF ONE USELESS MAN.
BEWARE ALL YOU WOMEN WHO LIVES WITH ABUSED MEN AND SAY THEY WILL CHANGE, IT'S BETTER YOU LEAVE THEM THAN FORCING YOURSELF.
SOME MEN ARE CRAZY ABUSERS AND IT'S ONLY GOD THAT CAN PUNISH THEM.
Ok wait, why was the guy arrested? He didn't do anything wrong to deserve an arrest. Don't get me wrong I feel bad for her, but its not worth committing suicide over. That's what men do, its in their DNA, that's who they are, and until they are really ready to grow up no one can change them. Oh! Did I mention the guy is just 21??? That's where everything starts, and it doesn't end till they are in their 30's or 40's. And of course there are exceptions.
Babes listen and listen well well: "Love him too much, he runs away". keep your love in check. It should be mutual. trust me, I have been there. he doesn't call unless he wants something. Call him he says you disturb him. He dosn't knw the name of your town and all your siblings. You can't breathe each time you see him and he knows this. he borrows from you all the time and never lends you when you need it. you are ready to do whatever he asks even if you hurt yourself in the process. he messes up all the time cos he knows you can't leave. i even went as far as having anal sex with him just to satisfy him for 2 good years. In the end, i woke one day and he was cruel to me after i caught him with another girl. i was suicidal at this point. He refused to discuss a future with me. he was shocked I walked out after two yrs of sacrificing everything for him. He thought I was gonna come running back as usual, but he was shocked when I ignored his calls and wouldnt see him anymore. He couldnt believe his puppet had come to life with a mind of her own. I met my husband 3 months later and we were married within 6 months. My husband loves me to pieces and i am his sun,moon and star. i am happy now. Mr. loser is out there somewhere and still calls to try and talk to me from time to time using different numbers. But I am so over him. Ladies, your true man is out there somewhere. Take care and hang in there. Don't take your own life over a lowlife who doesn't appreciate you. Be rest assured, he will never find another like you until the day he dies.Looking back, i wonder what i ever saw in him at all.
Karma Karma Karma.
The people who had wronged her will not live a good life.
She made the right choice rather than to live each day of trauma of missing him for rest of her life as he broke off from her...i know what she meant when she wrote that she do not want to wake up......as each morning when we open the eyes (after taking sleeping pill) it brings you fear and pain of missing that person.and to live yet another day without him....this only they know who are in love with a person who do not love you back......but it is totally a helpless situation, because still you can't stop loving, because that is what love is all about......but yes her love is in question because she has ruined the life of a person whom she loved.........I am still alive because i do not want to do the same to my love.
If every heartbroken person committed suicide,... I beg leave the man/ boy alone. Well, she just did not give herself time to heal. Too bad.
How dare you say hell awaits her!! Are you God?? Only God knows the names in the Book of Life, and I don't think He let you read it!!! You have to understand caste systems, virginity in that culture, things you obviously don't get. He raped her, he forced her into an abortion, and if the sins of the father are visited on the son, well, his father raped an underaged 15 yr old girl....so like father, like son. Also, he was torturing and abusing her. Damn, id be depressed too. There is no excuse for suicide, but as a person that tried it after my husband died and I was raped, I understand where your head gets and the depression is too bad to crawl out. Should he be punished, maybe. But only because he was so cruel about it.
Now that you are dead what will you let your creator, you killed yourself over a man.My God what is this world turning into,Rest in peace jiah
Wow I can't believe how judgment people are. I've been reading comments about how stupid she is an having an abortion is not a reason to kill oneself etc. Everybody has different ideals and standards they try and live their lives with. Everybody is different in handling problems in their lives. Depression is a serious issue and if not treated properly can lead to suicide. Stop judging whether she had reason to kill herself or not. The fact that that was the only way out for her can only say she had no positive feelings in her life. When someone has depression they could have 20 people who love them to death but they would still not recognise that. There is always someone who has gone through much worse in life but when depressed you can not see that. All positive feelings are GONE! There are people who have gone through not even half the things she did and in a depressed state have ended their lives. Educate yourselves before judging others. Maybe this will save someone oneday.
She has taken right decision...There is no life without love..love happens only one time and with only one person..so rest of life is jst like machine life..what matters when the machine stops working..it can be early or lately...i feel no need live like machine..
No HUMAN BEING is worth this... she should have sought help. Me i wish hair could be transferred she has the most beautiful hair. What beautiful waste.DAMN!!!
I always say this women/ladies/girls don't get too emotional in a relationship.use your head at times.
why do some people kill themselves in the name of love? If he didn't care when you were alive, your committing suicide won't make him love you any more less. Its selfish for anyone to take their own life regardless. Life is for the living o. Get real people!
sorry girl so sad, emotional pain is the worse on earth, ladies the secret of love is that you kill emotion with emotion.....
Nnna mehn, if woman do this for me, me i go follow am go ooooo! this love no get part 2!
A woman's self-esteem and shame can be frustrating and hopeless
Sad, but felt even more sad when i read the 11t of June 11:18Pm comment about the death of the sister due to lungs infection! God bless both..
Heres the thing folks, Suicide isn't a
random decision acted on impulse. Most
Suicidal people are usually that way for a
VERY long time. Something may trigger the
decision to finally do it...and get it the heck
over with, but all in all the generel feeling
that life is awful and you are simply sick
and tired of living can go on for a while. As
for the friends and family that everybody is
supposed to take into Consideration of
hurting, much of the time loved ones are
busy and wrapped up within they're own
lives and problems. And have no real
understanding, concern or patience for
you...or why you feel you're life is oh so
Terrible. Especially when you have all of
the things that Society insist and tells you
are supposed to make you happy. Friends
only like you the best when you're
smiling...and everything is sh*ts and giggles. Then when f*cking OFF yourself they
act surprised, shocked, heartbroken and
put upon. Saying how they didn't see it
coming or any of the warning signs, but
what an amazingly beautiful individual you
were who they had all loved all along and
Blah, Blah, Blah di da. Because when
you're Suicidal that's not the case. Most of
the red flags before a Suicide go
completely ignored. And if they cared so
much why didn't they notice or try to help?
BECAUSE ALL PEOPLE ARE SELFISH.
PERIOD! Not just the ones who take
matters into they're own hands. People
don't sually takeout the time for other people's
pain. Nope. They're too busy and caught
up in they're own. So all of us can feel
really alone at times. Add depression and
despair into the mix, and you might just
make yourself the perfect recipe for a
Suicide! If you don't understand....just shut
up, leave you're condolences and move on.
Otherwise don't judge another person for
something you haven't experienced or
been through.
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Anonymous
Lack of the knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ and the acceptance of His Person is the main reason youth induge in sexual immorality in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend, polluting their body which the temple of the Holy Spirit and what follows this, is heartbreak which results to death many atimes.This is satan's mission accomplished according to John 10:10.
How could she have taken the life she never created, she actually commited murder and no murderer can inherit the kindom of God which is in heaven. Pls all should run from the desire of the flesh and seek God through genuine repentance,accept Him as Lord and personal saviour and you will have peace in your life and avoid cries of regret in hell fire which for everlasting. JESUS LOVES YOU ALL AND DO NOT WISH ANY TO PERISH.
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